Positive Living in America 充滿希望 活在美國

Introduction: The rising prices and empty shelves in stories are becoming more and more conspicuous. A series of past events have led to our current experiences. Can Biden Administration and we, voters, do anything? (Shared by a Guest Speaker, Col. Billy Bearden)

Introduction: There are less than two months for the Christmas. With the increasing inflation caused by earlier high tariffs of U.S-China trade war, and nearly two years of pandemic, the price of every consumer goods goes up. Yet, many of us feel that we have to observe the holiday season with gifts, decorations, food, travel and many so called necessities for the season. In today's episode, Dr. Esther Lee, a stock trader and investor, is offering some basic tips in four areas to control our Christmas budget and to avoid post holiday's blues.

Introduction: Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, like a pyramid shape reflects the levels of needs for human survival. It consists of five levels: physical, safety, love and belong, esteem and self-actualization. Ideally, we all hope to reach the top level of self-actualization. Possible? Let's explore the topic.

Introduction: As our nation is getting divided (less united) daily due to various issues, I wonder why we can't unite for common needs and interests. I surmise that FREEDOM is our most wanted and cherished trait of our nation. Let's explore how free we are as law binding citizens.

Introduction: In the U.S. A., there are many subgroups existing within all racial and ethnic groups. To make America truly a great/united nation under God, we need to be sensitive to individual differences and avoid over-generalization or stereotyping of any group. Not everyone is the same within one racial or ethnic group; everyone is different as an individual. Better not assume everyone in a racial group is the same.

Introduction: As of April 15, we have seen at least 147 mass shootings (involving 4 or more deaths) in 2021 according to data from the Gun Violence Archive (GVA), a non-profit based in Washington. Between March 16 and April 15, we had at least 45 mass shootings.  Five were in the western states; nine in the east; 12 in the Midwest and 19 in the South. Among all, Texas ranks top with five shootings within one month.

Introduction: Life is full of challenges but the process we manage is even more challenging and pivotal for our next steps. Many “lemons” in our life can be turned into delicious “lemonade” with positive thinking and actions. Need to stop the Murphy’s law as it is surfacing.  Here are two original personal text messages between a family member and me that prompted this unconventional sharing format. 

Introduction: Is “Buying America-Made Only” a good policy or trend for all Americans? As a democratic nation, we need to have the freedom for meeting our basic needs regardless of our income, and social status. Everyone can test the efficacy of this policy through a personal first-hand experience. Here is mine.

Introduction: After more than one year of lockdown due to COVID-19, many things have changed in our lives.  Positive attitude is the key for maintaining our mental and emotional health. Yet, we also need self-control to maintain our physical health as our lifestyles are changing. Let’s focus on the challenge of our growing body size here.

Differences among nations at times are similar to the differences experienced among people. Everyone is different and so is every nation! Like in a family, peaceful relationships around the world can only be achieved through mutual acceptance and respect. Let's start at the personal level and then expand to bigger areas.

Introduction: Being a retired professor of developmental psychology and multicultural studies, Dr. Lee shares the analogy of raising children and interacting with foreign nations. Many parents don’t want to be told about how to raise their children. Similarly, foreign nations around of the world feel the same. They don’t want other countries to interfere with their domestic affairs. Is recently announced Biden foreign policy reflecting that?

Introduction: God has really blessed me with diverse and exciting careers in my adopted homeland of America. I am proud of my records of contributions to this wonderful nation. Here, I would like to wear my professor hat of multicultural studies to share the following historical facts with you.

Introduction: Senator Ted Cruz of Texas told the press on Feb. 18, 2021 that his daughters wanted to go to Cancun with their friends during the snow and cold stricken home in Houston. As a good/spoiling dad, he decided to take the girls to Cancun. Sounds like it was truly a teachable moment for many parents, good and bad.  Let’s think about the important trait of EMPATHY for human survival while we are still struggling with COVID-19.

This presentation was prepared by the River of Life Christian Church (www.rolcc.net) in Santa Clara, CA for a conference in 2013. Esther was one of their speakers.

Due to COVID-19, we know that exercise is important to our physical and mental health, but many people still think they don't have time to exercise. In today's episode, Dr. Esther S. Lee is here to discuss the tips and ways to fit Your workout in your busy days.This episode is available on YouTube, please click the link and subscribe our channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYtH5U5pTpc  

Introduction: Our lives slowly get back to so called “normal” but not really. In fact, our lives are no long the same, whether we like or not. Changes have taken place in our lives with or without our awareness. We need to have a positive attitude to welcome a new beginning. (2 Corinthians 12:9 ". . . My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. . . ")The YouTube is available at: https://youtu.be/QZgeoDn-_cY

Introduction: Our lives slowly get back to so called “normal” but not really. In fact, our lives are no longer the same, whether we like or not. Changes have taken place in our lives with or without our awareness. We need to have a positive attitude to welcome a new beginning. (2 Corinthians 12:9 ". . . My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. . . ")The YouTube is available at:https://youtu.be/b_rKDYSZuEU

Introduction: Our lives slowly get back to so called “normal” but not really. In fact, our lives are no long the same, whether we like or not. Changes have taken place in our lives with or without our awareness. We need to have a positive attitude to welcome a new beginning. (2 Corinthians 12:9 ". . . My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. . . ")The YouTube is available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/b-TVOrXrseE

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The following true story about marital relationship prompted me to think about our international relations with other nations. The New York Times reported on Feb. 18 that  “European officials are fearful that if President Donald Trump wins a second term, the hostility he has shown to European allies will continue — and result in a ‘permanent shift’ that creates distance between the U.S. and Europe.”

"Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him" Psalm 127:3 .Today Dr. Lee, a former university professor of Developmental Psychology, is here discussing parenting skills in child rearing.

以下一个關於婚姻關係的真實故事,使我思考我們與其他國家的關係。《紐約時報》2月18日報導,"歐洲官員們擔心,如果特朗普總統贏得連任,他對歐洲盟國所表現出的敵意將繼續下去,並導致美歐之間的『永久轉變』。

李恕信博士曾擔任發展心理學教授，今天她要來和我們聊聊童年教育和撫養孩子的原則！

Note: This is a rerun for us to re-think current global COVID-19. Will we play alone without the status of global leadership in the future? President’s micro view of the international affairs has blindsided him at the expenses of average Americans. The UK published magazine with worldwide subscription, The Economist, in June, 2019 had an article with a headline; America is aggressively deploying a new economic arsenal to assert its power.

Note: This is a rerun for our Global COVID-19 crisis. Since we are a world super power, our media tends to focus on our domestic events much more than on foreign events. Yet, whether we like or not, as a world leader, we cannot ignore the news in other nations especially those affect our national security and future interests.

Amid COVID-19 fallout, on 3/3 Federate Reserve Board had an emergency rate cut of 0.5% but only spooked the Wall Street ending with Dow’s drop of 786 points. On 3/12, the Stock Market dropped to the lowest since 1987. It's expected that FED will drop more the following week due to the economic impact caused by COVID-19 worldwide. Let’s examine what normally causes the interest rates up or down, except in global crisis or emergency.  

Chinese hospitals overflowing with COVID-19 patients weeks ago now, as of March 2, have empty beds. The World Health Organization’s Bruce Aylward told reporters in Beijing,  “Other countries can take lessons from China’s handling of the COVID-19 epidemic.”  Let’s briefly summarize what the government did and interviews I conducted over the phone with people in China in two episodes.

I was overwhelmingly touched by the short Chinese video entitled “wordless.” It depicted the mobilization of medical personnel from all parts of China to WuHan, like going to a war zone to combat the COVID-19. Among them were volunteer experts of respiration, influenza, epidemiology.  Streaming of trucks transported thousands of brave medical professionals to the gravely silent city, WuHan. A mother tucked packages of snack into her son’s backpack and hug him with tears for goodbye. Without doubt, her only prayer was for his safe return.

Based on a recent survey from Charles Schwab, which looked at 1000 410(k) plan participants nationwide, on average, Americans believe they need $1.7 million to retire. Wow, sounds like a big figure! Here Dr. Lee is suggesting three basic steps to enhance the growth and performance of your accounts.

Communication for interpersonal relationships is always a challenge including mostly used verbal communication. Face to face verbal interaction is even more challenging than other forms. Frequently, somehow, there is a gap between a speaker and listener if they don’t know each other well. This challenge persists everywhere, at home, at work, in public places and even instantaneous online. Let’s just start with the basis of 3 Gs and 2 Es.

根據最近投資公司的調查，一般美國人認為需要有一百七十萬元的退休金才能退休，這是個相當驚人的數字！今天李恕信博士將提供三個步驟，討論如何注意個人退休帳戶的成長，以及如何採取行動。

人際關係的溝通始終是一個挑戰，包括最常用的口頭交流。面對面的言語交流比其他形式更具挑戰性。通常，如果說話人和聽者彼此不太瞭解，他們之間會产生差距。這種挑戰無處不在，在家裡，在工作，在公共場所，甚至即网线上。讓我們從3G和2Es的方面来探讨。

Today, we are delighted to have retired USAF colonel, Billy C. Bearden, share his trust in God during his crossing of Sinai Peninsula with his grandchildren while touring Israel, Jordan and Egypt.  

We are happy to have four-year old Carrington today to share some Bible verses with us. Welcome to send your video to fnplweb@gmail.com and join the Bible Adventures

President Trump’s direct quote in Bob Woodward’s book “Fear” based on the interview on March 31, 2016 at the Trump International Hotel, Washington, DC is “Real power is – I don’t even want to use the word – FEAR”

Today, Dr. Esther Lee is sharing her observation of the birds' behavior around her house and reflecting on our life. Please leave a comment and let us know of your thoughts! 

"Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near." Philippians 4:5. Let’s all try to use gentle touching with people around us especially during the upcoming political campaign season. Let’s pray for this great nation and all involved people.    

李恕信博士過去曾在大學教授發展心理學課程。今天他要在此簡單討論由恐懼引起的負面情緒，特朗普總統公開宣稱，真正的權力就是恐懼。2016年3月31日，鮑勃·伍德沃德（Bob Woodward）在《恐懼》一書中直接引用了特朗普國際酒店的採訪。是"真正的力量是 - 我甚至不想使用這個詞 - 恐懼"。

今天李恕信博士透過鳥兒築巢，來帶我們反思人生！歡迎下載Podbean應用程式，並在下方留言，告訴我們你的想法！

耶穌曾對他的門徒說：「只是我告訴你們：不要與惡人作對有人打你的右臉，連左臉也轉過來由他打」 您是否曾想過耶穌想透過這段話告訴我們什麼？ 在今天的節目中，李恕信博士要和我們討論與他人互動的智慧。

今天我們很高興邀請到Esther Sheng姐妹，來和我們分享 神醫治大能的見證。

We are happy to have Andrew today to share some Bible verses with us. Welcome to send your video to fnplweb@gmail.com and join the Bible Adventures!The episode is available on our YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/ip6ybN89G3U. For more videos you could search "Positive Living in American" or "Esther's Chat" on YouTube.

As of 2/22/ 2020 the death toll from the covid-19 (coronavirus) outbreak rose up to 76936 infected and 2442 (0.032) died in China with some cases in 25 countries.Yet, World Health Organization officials said the mortality rate was relatively low and less deadly than SARS (0.10%). Last June 5, 2019, CDC reported that Swine Flu (H1N1) in 2009 infected 61 million Americans and killed 12K during the pandemic.  Let’s briefly run through the most deadly epidemics in the US.

Birth and death are two inevitable events for everyone. One comes with joy while the other comes with pain. Dr. Lee, a former professor of Developmental Psychology is sharing some personal and professional suggestions for those who are grieving for their losses.

No two people are the same, even identical twins. Interpersonal conflicts are often caused by personal differences. Reducing major differences that induces conflict could be achieved via a changing process of both or multiple parties. (Roman 12:2 - ". . . Be transformed by the renewing of your mind . . .") 

根据2月20日的消息,科維德-19（冠狀病毒）在中國疫情感染人數增至74,576人，死亡人數上升至 2118人（0.028%），在25個國家有一些病例。然而，世界衛生組織官員表示，比SARS（0.10%）死亡率相對較低。2019, 6月5日，美國疾病控制和預防中心報告說，2009年H1N1感染6100萬美國人，並在大流行期間死亡12000人。讓我們簡要地回顧一下美國最致命的流行病。

出生和死亡是每個人兩個必然经过的人生事件。一個是帶著快樂而來，另一個是帶著来痛苦。李博士，前任發展心理學的教授，在这里給那些因失去所爱的人而受到痛苦的人分享一些个人和专业的建議。

沒有兩個人是相同的，甚至是同卵雙胞胎。人際衝突通常是由個人差異引起的。減少導致衝突的重大分歧,可以通過雙方或多方不斷變化的過程來實現。

Today, we are delighted to have Mrs. Sylvia Lovell share how wonderful is God's mercy and grace.