Splintered Grace

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Bonnie Violet discusses with Tina Frank on what Allyship is and how one could be an ally.Referenced in video10 Things Allies Can Do http://www.ywcahbg.org/sites/default/files/manager/10%20Things%20Allies%20Can%20Do.pdf5 Tips to Be An Ally - Chescaleigh - https://youtu.be/_dg86g-QlM0How to be a better Ally - LifeHacker - https://youtu.be/T3Nh55sSgewow How to be an Ally - Buzzfeed - https://youtu.be/u5MOJBflMgwJoin the conversation.This season we continue to push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more or to connect with us go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spri...Support by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Bonnie Violet takes some time to share with Tina what the letters of the LGBTQ2IA+ community mean. #googleisfreeThis season we continue to push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman who follow the teachings of Jesus Christ and Bonnie Violet, a trans femme gender queer spiritual drag artist, Identity doula and chaplain have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more or to connect with us go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spri...Support by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletI'm going live using StreamYard! Before leaving a comment, please grant StreamYard permission to see your name at streamyard.com/facebook#lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #2spirit #intersex #asexual a queer chaplain Helping to lace one's narrative with a spiritual thread.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

It's been a minute … Hello 2022Thats a wrap, Bonnie Violet goes live n downtown Boise on the 1st Day of January 2020. Share a bit about being home for the holidays, "accepting love in all it's forms in 2021 and focusing on herself by expressing what and who she needs in order to live her best life. xoxo#trans #walkandtalk #chaplainSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Join us on our FINAL EPISODE of the Season as we discuss how to forgive those who cause harm and more. This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spring.comSupport by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

The Golden Rule, is it enough? "Do unto others as you would have done unto you."      or "Do unto others as they would have done unto them." Are they one in  the same? Join the conversation live or share your thoughts in the comments. This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spring.comSupport by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

We will have a vibrant conversation about brokenness and being separate from, is that even a thing? We had 2 very different opinions when we initially prepped for this episode. Would love to hear your experience and or thoughts with brokenness and or being separate from.This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spri...Support by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Join us as we discuss finding "Hope in a Hopeless Time" as requested by our regular listener, Aaron. This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spring.comSupport by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Join us as we discuss thoughts & prayers. Many people use this statement to encourage others that are going through something hard.  We talk about the heart behind the statement and how it can be received by the recipient. Comment here or join us LIVE and let us know your thoughts IRL, well kind of.This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative Christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainGet your Splintered Grace Merch!!! https://a-queer-chaplain.creator-spring.comSupport by joining Patreon! Thank you! https://www.patreon.com/bonnievioletSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Join us as we discuss death & dying. Death is something we will all experience. It is important to prepare for how we want to leave this earth so those around us can heal.  Comment here or join us LIVE and let us know your thoughts IRL, well kind of."I am really excited for this conversation, in a lot of ways I am still grapling with, what is my understanding through my experience and how to speak of it, how does it differ from my understanding as a child?" - Bonnie VioletThis season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative Christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

We could do it all in one swoop, just us as we continue our conversation from last week.Join us as we discuss the spirit realm, our experience and understanding. What's your experience and understanding? Comment here or join us LIVE and let us know your thoughts IRL, well kind of."I am really excited for this conversation, in a lot of ways I am still grapling with, what is my understanding through my experience and how to speak of it, how does it differ from my understanding as a child?" - Bonnie VioletThis season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Join us as we discuss the spirit realm, our experience and understanding. What's your experience and understanding? Comment here or join us LIVE and let us know your thoughts IRL, well kind of. "I am really excited for this conversation, in a lot of ways I am still grapling with, what is my understanding through my experience and how to speak of it, how does it differ from my understanding as a child?" - Bonnie VioletThis season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainSHOW LESSSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Just Us Squirrels, what are these two gonna bring to the table today. Who really knows, I am not sure. Join us! Bring your questions, topics and the like, be a part of this conversation. Do you have a relationship you are challenged to keep? This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainSHOW LESSSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.To learn more about Splintered Grace go to https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplainSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

In this episode Bonnie Violet has a confession. ... Bonnie and Tina talk about overcoming offense by taking responsibility for their own emotions.  They find that the emotions that carried their offense is a cycle and needed to be broken. This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us.Tina, a conservative Christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.#christianpodcast #transpodcast #lgbtq #trans #genderqueer #thankgodimqueer #splinteredgrace #heaven #family #conservativechristian #drag #spiritualawakening #queerspiritualitySupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

This season we push the depths of our relationship even further. Tackling the difficult conversations that we fear may separate us. This weeks conversation touched on our personal beliefs of Christianity.  We asked some of the questions that we hesitate to ask one another and listen with open hearts.  These conversations aren't for the purpose of changing our minds but learning how to love and support one another with a new level of intimacy.Tina, a conservative Christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Perfect Detours: The Forgiveness Series with host Bob KiserThis weeks guests are Tina Frank and Bonnie Violet from Splintered Grace podcast. Tina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.Ways to listen:1. If on the Northside of Chicago, on the radio at 98.3 FM2. At www.wghcradio.org and click the listen live tab3. Facebook live on the WGHC Radio Fan Page!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!

This is our FINAL EPISODE for SEASON 2Here was an interesting discussion.  We discussed how being told that God Hates and how it effected us.  We also shared what the bible says, about He hates.  Feel free to be a part of our continued conversation.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

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Whew, we hit a lot today! Todays show was a great opportunity to get to know us better personally.  Bonnie and Tina talk candidly about some hot topics and don't completely agree with one another.   Join the conversation.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

This started out weird!! :)  Come join the conversation of how passion and purpose continually change in our lives.  Understand how Passion is mostly about us and Purpose is about those around you. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

We thought we would have a little fun and talk about a few buzz wordzzz from the last few years.  This conversation turned a little more serious as we shared more of our thoughts and opinions about the events surrounding these words.  Join us and feel free to add to the conversation.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!

*my apologies for some sound challenges, my internet was messing with me a bit. *Do these two topics go together?  Join the conversation as Bonnie Violet and Tina talk about how their Sexuality and Spirituality impact their individual lives and their relationship to one another. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Integrity is such a large word.  In this show we talk about the depths of what integrity means and how we grow into it.  We share personal events and encourage one another to push through tough challenges. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

We speak on happiness and joy. Understanding the difference can change the way we view and experience the world around us. Come and join our conversation.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

This episode tackles some of the fears we all face. We spoke about the types of fears that we struggle with through different seasons of our life. Bonnie Violet shares her testimony of getting her HIV diagnosis. This episode will leave you asking: Do I manage my fears or do my fears manage me?Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Love. This is a topic that has meaning for us all. Love can be a warm fuzzy, but it can also be something that is hurtful. This episode we talk about what love is and isn't. We discuss how love has changed us personally and how differently we define it today. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

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We are back at it. Bonnie Violet and Tina Frank share how they work through dealing with the cultural issues with their many different ideas and beliefs. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

It's All about the Questions - Wisdom Learned from the TrenchesHost - Laura StewardMy Christmas week show is, at the end of the day, about love. I was honored to have Bonnie Violet and Tina Frank say yes when I asked them to be on my show. Their story is a powerful one about how love is more powerful than any barrier if you choose to allow it into your heart first. Take a listen as Bonnie Violet and her aunt share how they came back together after almost 20 years apart because of labels and how they had defined each other based on outside factors. This is a heartfelt and, for me, eye opening conversation about labels, faith, love. perception and perspectives. Tina Frank, a conservative Christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a transgender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation on their podcast, Splintered Grace. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak after a revelation like Bonnie Violet shared, they have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.It's All about the Questions Podcast Living an amazing life is not about finding the right answer… a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

This is the final episode for Season 1. We will be asking each other questions about each others experience, beliefs, and whatever else we decide. We will also share what it was like for us to share our conversations on this podcast. Please join us and add your questions and share your experience with us.Splintered GraceTina, a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen have an anti-cancel culture conversation. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

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This is a fun episode with some great shared memories. Focusing on the the fun moments we have shared together can pave a way for growth and understanding. Listen as we talk about some of the fun experiences we have shared.a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

What is your favorite dish to bring to the shared table? This is a challenge I think we all face. How do we present ourselves, especially to those we care about, in a way that is honoring to everyone at the table? Bonnie Violet and Tina Frank talk about how to set up and present your dish in way that is loving and kind. They also address how we should be prepared to respond to those who may not have taken the time to bring their openness to the table and share. a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Today we talk about how important it is to be ready to send, or receive an invitation to restoration. Restoration is the hardest thing I know to accomplish within ourselves and in our family. Join us as we talk candidly about how we have worked hard to be ready.a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Tina and Bonnie talk candidly about the power that comes as we exercise our ability to choose in every situation. We also speak openly about the powerful emotions attached to those choices. We are grateful that we have ultimately found joy and we hope that as we share you will also find a place of joy. a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

We discuss how the church can hurt, how we have been hurt, how have we healed, and how do we navigate being in "church" as we are. How can church and other spiritual community create space less harmful and more inviting to new people in community? How can we discern how to stay, when to go, and where to be a part of the change? Do unto people as you would have done unto you versus do unto people as you would have done unto you. Watch podcast LIVE at 1030 AM PST on social media links belowhttps://facebook.com/splinteredgracehttps://facebook.com/ChaplainDuaneWatch this episode and Subscribe to a queer chaplain YouTube channel to see future and past episode along with other a queer chaplain series.https://youtu.be/-E-BqHdMSw4a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

Listen to the moments and hear the actions that took place to bring peace and restoration to their relationship. The two also answer questions from a listener about how to support a younger sister whose son is gay and is concerned how others in family will respond.a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

At the beginning of this podcast we reacted to the video, Holy by Justin Bieber ft Chance the Rapper. Due to copyright it is not in this podcast but you can see our reaction on a queer chaplain YouTube Channel. Poverty Thinking. Listen to hear how the power of our thoughts can physically move us into a new direction.a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)

What happened in the 20 years we were not close. We asked our listeners. What do you assume about christians, drag queens and others not like yourself. Ask us, about us and we will share as a christian or a drag queen among other things...Listeners ask Tina to share what changed her perspective about the LGBTQIA community while Bonnie shares about her experience with drag, being transgender, and her relationship with her father. a queer chaplain podcast Click to listen to interviews with queer, trans, drag and other folk about spirituality!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet)