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The Attractive Man Podcast features the world's best dating coaches and lifestyle influencers to help you live your most confident life.

Matt Artisan


    • Mar 10, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 14m AVG DURATION
    • 105 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Attractive Man Podcast

    We can have sex on the first date

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 18:58


    Matt Artisan speaking with Helena , who works at a sex resort in Cancun, Mexico, about her preferences in men, dating, and relationships. She discusses qualities she finds attractive, such as confidence, humor, and protectiveness, while emphasizing respect and emotional connection. Helena shares her insights on first-date behavior, boundaries, and turn-ons in both dating and intimacy. The conversation also touches on social dynamics, attraction psychology, and how men should approach women with confidence and authenticity.

    7 Girls react to Being Approached by a Stranger

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 6:55


    Matt Artisan approaches 7 girls while streaming live on FaceBook and breaks it down for you.

    Hot Girls Giving their Best Dating Advice for Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 51:54


    Attractive women share their top dating tips for men, offering insights on confidence, approach, and building genuine connections.

    53 year old says "I got an as many dates as I want to..."

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 31:01


    Grant, a 53-year-old from Sydney Australia, shares his experience on how he transformed his dating life. He reveals the key changes he made in his mindset, appearance, and approach to dating that led to his success.

    How to Approach a Girl when She's Exercising

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 10:20


    Our top coach Lynn Matalon talks about how to approach a girl exercising or at the gym working out.

    Do This When She Ignores You After A Date | Post Date Rejection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 8:57


    If you feel a woman is ignoring you, you have 2 choices… You either need to pull back or push forward. And knowing what to do and when to do it will either make her massively attracted to you or completely repelled to never talk to you again.

    How I Went From Crippling Approach Anxiety To Fearless With Beautiful Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 18:30


    Today I'll reveal 5 steps I used to rewire my brain and completely conquer the fear of approaching women. I had crippling approach anxiety, so bad that I remember running the other way when a cute girl started walking towards me. In college, I only approached one girl, yep just one girl in 5 years and it's only because she gave me the “i want you now” look.  And now… have approached over 5000 women around the world, dated countless of them, and now am married to an amazing woman. Plus I've helped 1000's of clients.

    The OnlyFans Epidemic (Men are Paying to Be Lonely)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 11:38


    What is the effect of OnlyFans on dating? How is porn hurting this generation of men? What can be done?

    5 Phrases that Turn Women On and

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2024 7:19


    Matt Artisan tells you 5 phrases that will turn a woman on and make her want you.

    The Secret To Make Her Desperately Want You

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 10:17


    I bet this has happened to you — you text her, and suddenly you're glued to your phone, waiting for her to reply. The longer she doesn't, the more anxious you get. There's a way to flip the script and make her be the one checking her phone and waiting for your reply... And no, it's not just about ignoring her. That's what everyone one else says to do but they forget that high-value women have options and they'll just move on to someone else who doesn't ignore them because that's only a part of the bigger picture. Watch until the end to find out my 3-step system to get her to be the one chasing you. and go over exactly what goes through in her mind when she senses this change and how you can leverage this to your advantage.

    He tried to cold approach 100 girls | Dating Coaches React

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 36:09


    join our expert dating coaches, Men and Lynn, as they react to the viral YouTube video where a guy attempts to cold approach 100 girls in one day!

    Why Women WANT Older Men (The TRUTH)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 12:32


    why many women are drawn to older men. From emotional maturity and stability to life experience and confidence, we unpack the reasons that make age gaps in relationships not just common, but often preferred. Join us as we talk with relationship experts, share real-life stories, and explore the science, psychology, and cultural factors that shape these preferences. Whether you're in an age-gap relationship or just curious about the allure, this podcast offers a fresh perspective on the evolving landscape of modern love and attraction.

    A Date with a Playboy Model Almost Killed Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 4:48


    Matt Artisan here. You won't believe the wild story I have for you today—it's about a date with a Playboy model that nearly ended in disaster.

    Nice Guys or Bad Boys: What Do Girls Prefer?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 9:52


    Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial topic that can make or break your dating game

    Text This If She's Not Responding

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 12:28


    Hey guys, Matt Artisan here – your go-to dating coach! In today's video, I'm diving deep into one of the most frustrating situations in dating: when she's just not responding to your texts.

    Simple MINDSET will END Your Approach Anxiety Forever

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2024 8:36


    Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial topic that can make or break your dating game

    The Truth about HOT Women What All Men Must Know

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 21:30


    The Truth about HOT Women: What All Men Must Know," we're breaking down the myths and misconceptions surrounding beautiful women that are holding you back from attracting the high-quality relationships you deserve. Ever wonder why it seems like gorgeous women are so elusive or hard to connect with?

    Stop Attracting Women That Will Use You

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2024 4:59


    Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial topic that can make or break your dating game

    Girls Reveal: Bad Boys or Nice Guys?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 9:52


    Matt Artisan, your go-to men's dating coach, and today we're diving deep into one of the most talked-about topics in the dating world: Bad Boys vs. Nice Guys.

    From One Date a Year To Seven Dates In a Week

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 12:10


    Matt Artisan, your trusted dating coach, as I sit down with one of my incredible students who went from one date a year to an astonishing seven dates in a week!  In this exclusive interview, we'll uncover the transformative journey, discuss the hurdles overcome, and dissect the strategies that led to this remarkable turnaround.

    Sex Therapist Explains How to Overcome Approach Anxiety in just 2 minutes!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 3:05


    In this quick 2-minute clip, sex therapist Nora and top dating coach Lynn share their expert insights on overcoming approach anxiety. With practical techniques and mindset shifts to confidently navigate social interactions. Listen to these helpful tips on overcoming approach anxiety or see our other videos/podcast on the channel for more honest and practical dating advice from expert coaches.

    How Often Do Men Approach You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 7:26


    Matt Artisan, founder of The Attractive Man, hits the streets to uncover the truth about how often men approach women. In this eye-opening interview series. Whether you're looking to boost your confidence, refine your approach, or simply understand women better.

    How I Rewired my Brain to Overcome APPROACH ANXIETY

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 18:30


    Matt Artisan, renowned men's dating coach and founder of The Attractive Man, shares his personal journey and proven strategies to conquer approach anxiety once and for all. Approach anxiety, the fear of rejection when approaching someone you're attracted to, is a common challenge faced by many men in dating and social interactions. Don't let fear hold you back from the relationships and connections you desire.

    Do Women Really Want To Be Approached?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2024 8:35


    Do women really want to be approached? In this engaging video, Matt conducts candid interviews with women from diverse backgrounds to uncover their honest opinions and insights on this timeless question. Through these real-life conversations, you'll gain valuable perspectives straight from women themselves, shedding light on their preferences, boundaries, and the nuances of social interaction. Matt's expert guidance and the women's genuine responses provide invaluable wisdom for men looking to navigate the complexities of approaching women with confidence and respect.

    Women REVEAL the BIGGEST Dating Turn Offs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 10:17


    Women reveal the biggest dating turn-offs! Matt interviews women in the street, in the mall, and models, asking them about the biggest dating turn-offs and red flags they see when dating men. Gentlemen, in case you are seeking to date beautiful and high-value women, these are the dating turn-offs and red flags you need to avoid.

    Using Andrew Tate's Pickup Lines | Dating Coaches React

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 11:09


    Dating Coaches Matt and Lynn, from The Attractive Man, share their expert insights and reactions to Mr. Beast's recent video on approaching girls. As two leading authorities in the realm of men's dating advice, Matt and Lynn break down the approaches called " Using Andrew Tate's Pickup Lines"

    Andrew Tate | How to Be a Top G

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 9:26


    In this podcast, renowned men's dating coach Matt Artisan delves into the controversial world of dating advice as he reacts to Andrew Tate's "How to Be a Top G" video. With years of experience helping men improve their dating lives, Matt brings a unique perspective to the table. Drawing from his extensive background in psychology and social dynamics, Matt offers practical advice on how men can improve their confidence, communication skills, and overall attractiveness to women.

    How to Approach Girls (works EVERY time) | Dating Coaches React

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 8:10


    In this enlightening audio podcast, renowned dating coaches Matt and Lynn, from The Attractive Man, share their expert insights and reactions to Mr. Beast's recent YouTube video on approaching girls. As two leading authorities in the realm of men's dating advice, Matt and Lynn break down the strategies proposed by Mr. Beast and provide their own unique perspectives on what works and what might need tweaking.

    Chris Williams on Should you approach women in 2024?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 8:11


    In the ever-evolving landscape of dating and relationships, the question of whether to approach women remains a topic of debate. Join us for an enlightening discussion on Chris Williams as we explore the nuances of approaching women in 2024 and beyond. From the impact of social media and online dating platforms to shifting societal norms and cultural attitudes, Matt and Lynn delve into the complexities of approaching women in the current era. We address common challenges and misconceptions, offering practical advice for navigating the dating landscape with confidence and authenticity.

    4 Masculine Ways to STOP Being Needy Around Gorgeous Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 15:34


    Join us as we explore the mindset shifts and behavioral changes that can transform your interactions with beautiful women. From cultivating self-assurance to embracing vulnerability, we offer actionable tips to help you exude masculine energy and magnetic charisma. Through insightful analysis and real-life examples, we delve into the root causes of neediness and provide effective techniques for overcoming it

    Zero dates in 3 years to 25 dates in one month

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 22:39


    Eric Mattson's experience with TAM

    $100k+ in the Bank, But Still Single? What You're Doing Wrong!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 20:29


    Matt Artisan here, your go-to dating coach! If you've got a solid six-figure bank balance but still find yourself flying solo in the dating game, you're not alone. In this audio clip, we're diving deep into why having a fat wallet doesn't translate into relationship success.

    7 Secrets To Sparking Instant Chemistry

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 34:17


    I'm unveiling the strategies and techniques to create that irresistible connection from the get-go. Whether you're in a social setting or approaching a high-value woman, these secrets will give you the upper hand. Get ready for some mind-blowing insights, actionable tips, and a dash of that Artisan charisma to spice things up. From body language cues to the power of genuine compliments, we're covering the full spectrum of sparking instant chemistry.

    3 Steps to Land a High-Value Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 14:13


    I'm laying out the roadmap to attracting and connecting with those incredible, high-caliber women you've always dreamed of. From mastering the initial approach to building a genuine connection that goes beyond surface level, I've got you covered. Get ready for practical advice, real-world examples, and the kind of insights that will set you apart from the crowd. We'll explore the mindset shifts, communication strategies, and the undeniable charisma that will make you irresistible to high-value women.

    Three Steps To Approaching Girls Anywhere

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 13:40


    I'm breaking down the secrets to overcoming approach anxiety and making those initial interactions smooth as silk. From the mindset shift you need to the tactical strategies that work in any setting, I've got the keys to unlock your full potential. Get ready for real-world examples, practical advice, and a sprinkle of that signature Artisan charisma to fuel your journey. Whether you're in a bustling city, a quiet bookstore, or anywhere in between, these three steps will have you approaching girls with confidence and leaving a lasting impression.

    Signs She Wants You to Kiss Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 10:34


    Today, we'll be dissecting the body language, verbal cues, and those electrifying moments of tension that reveal she's ready for that magical connection. From the lingering eye contact to the playful touches, I've got you covered with the ultimate guide on how to spot these signals and take the leap confidently.

    Avoid Small Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 11:01


    Say goodbye to mundane chit-chat and hello to engaging, meaningful conversations that leave a lasting impression. From powerful openers to steering clear of the conversational dead ends, I've got the playbook to turn you into a magnetic conversational maestro. Join me as we dissect the art of connecting on a deeper level, ensuring that every interaction becomes an opportunity for genuine connection. I'll be sharing real-world examples, actionable strategies

    Can I Flirt Around In The Workplace

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 3:43


    I'm breaking down the do's and don'ts of workplace flirting, providing you with the ultimate guide on navigating those tricky waters. We'll explore the fine line between adding a dash of charisma to your professional interactions and crossing into no-go territory. I'll be dishing out practical tips, sharing real-life scenarios, and offering insights that'll keep you sharp, professional, and socially savvy in the workplace. It's all about striking that perfect balance between friendly banter and maintaining a respectful, professional demeanor.

    How To Get Over A Heart Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 8:51


    I'm sharing practical, actionable steps on how to get over a heartbreak and reclaim your happiness. From understanding the emotional rollercoaster to building a solid foundation for self-love, we're covering it all. Get ready for genuine advice, personal anecdotes, and the kind of insights that will guide you through the toughest times. Breakups are tough, but this video is your roadmap to not just surviving but thriving after heartbreak

    How To Immediately Connect with Anyone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 8:47


    I'm laying out the roadmap to attracting and connecting with those incredible, high-caliber women you've always dreamed of. From mastering the initial approach to building a genuine connection that goes beyond surface level, I've got you covered. Get ready for practical advice, real-world examples, and the kind of insights that will set you apart from the crowd. We'll explore the mindset shifts, communication strategies, and the undeniable charisma that will make you irresistible to high-value women.

    How to Create a Deep Connection With Anyone You Meet

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 8:47


    Say goodbye to shallow conversations and approaches that don't go anywhere. Even when you get her number, she won't reply back if you never made a deep connection. Is creating a deep connection with anyone you meet for the first time even possible? Well, Matt shows you simple steps to follow to establish a connection with almost anyone you'll meet. These are all based on psychology and behavioral studies. Adopt these and you'll definitely improve your social skills while taking the necessary steps to become the best, most attractive version of yourself.

    How to be a High-Value Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2022 10:34


    Being High-Value DOES NOT mean having looks, money, or fame. Nowadays, it takes a man that is far from average to find success in life and in dating. Do you feel like you're stuck in a rut and don't know what to do to become a high-value man? In this episode, I'm going to teach you how to become a high-value! I'll share with you the secret to being a high-value man that is attractive to both women and men. Exponentially increasing your success rate and chances to get opportunities. By the end of this video, you'll know everything you need to become a high-value man now and in the coming new year!

    Signs You're a Nice Guy That Women Don't Respect

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2022 8:55


    Women don't respect "nice guys" so you should stop doing THESE common nice guy mistakes! Matt explains why showing and doing these nice guy mistakes tend to repel women away from you rather than attract them. One of the biggest problems with "nice guys" is that they think they are doing the right thing. And sometimes, even grow resentful of women for not acknowledging their effort... News flash - the saying that nice guys always finish last is true. And Matt will show you why.

    Signs a Girl Wants YOU to KISS HER

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2022 10:34


    In today's episode, we'll give you the best advice on how to know when it's time to kiss her. The sings that a girl WANTS you to KISS HER! We'll discuss the subtle and obvious signs that she wants to kiss you, as well as dating advice on when and how to make the jump and seal the deal. If you're having trouble determining when it's the right time to kiss her, we'll give you some solid tips on how to identify the signs and how to make the advance so you won't creep her out or get slapped with a lawsuit! We go from teaching you the best ways of developing a strong connection, making sure your timing is perfect, and even what to do if you mess it up!

    10 Things Men Should Always Do Before a Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2022 12:28


    In today's episode, we're going to give you some advice on how to prepare for the date so that it's a success from start to finish! Whether you're a guy looking for ideas for a first date, or you're someone who's been on a lot of dates, this video is for you. We'll cover topics like what to wear, how to prepare for the date, and more. After watching this video, you'll be ready to go on your next date with confidence and poise! ..we're going to discuss some important things you should always do before a date. From prepping your wardrobe to making sure you're on your best behavior, these tips will help you have a successful date! Dating can be a fun and exciting process, but it can also be a nerve-wracking one. In this video, we're going to discuss some tips for making sure your date goes smoothly. From making sure you're on your best behavior to preparing for the date, these tips will help you have a fantastic time (Something men forget about when going on the date!)

    The Best First Text You'll Send

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2022 10:00


    Matt shows you his best techniques and examples of how to text a girl you like.. ..A lot of guys don't really know even the basics of how to text a girl, let alone texting girls to get them to like you. Students are always asking "How to text a girl you just met?" after getting their number or social media. The Inception Text works so well when you're texting a girl you like, unlike some cheesy or copied text messages to make her want you, this (along with all the other texting advice for men in this video) is one of the best means to master how to get a girl to text you back, with interest! Watch more on the YouTube channel of The Attractive Man team, with our head coach Matt Artisan, where he'll cover more topics like the best first texts to send a girl, what to send on the first text, texts to make her chase you, what first text to send, as well as advice on approaching women and how to talk to girls.

    Signs She Wants YOU to Approach Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 13:40


    Matt shows the best signs she wants you to approach her and exactly how to approach a girl to make her like you. Follow more of these dating advice for men; it will make your dating life a whole lot easier. We'll share some tips on when and how to start a conversation with a girl and how to know when it's the right time to approach her. Strtinng with the best signs she likes you (so you haave to approach her!) There's no need to struggle with approaching a girl. We're going to show you the simplest, most effective way to start a conversation with a girl and build a relationship with her. Make sure to follow our tips regularly and you'll be on your way to an amazing and successful dating life!

    Get a Girl to Like you in 24 Hours (Or Less!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 9:32


    Don't wait days, weeks even months – this is the best way to get a girl to like you in 24 Hours (or less!) This is what you do..

    3 Worst Dating Mistakes Guys Make

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 4:39


    Whether you're a single man looking for the right woman, or just need some general guidance, listen to these tips to jumpstart your love life today.. Now are you struggling to find success with women? Do you feel like you don't know where to start? In this video, I'm going to share the three most important dating tips for single men. These tips will help you attract more women and get more dates. So if you're ready to start getting better results with women, we've got you covered. In today's episode, you'll find: - the Best dating advice and dating mindsets for single men - 3 mindsets that will end your dry spell with women - how to attract girls and attract women, the kind most compatible with you - honest dating advice for men who want authentic relationships - a dating coach perspective on his best dating tips for men - how to date women you think are out of your league - how to get a girlfriend if you're shy and introverted - love advice and coaching from an international dating expert - how to approach women using mindsets and motivation - many more!

    How to Approach & Attract the Hottest Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2022 19:55


    What do you say to women and how do you say it? Approaching Women is not rocket science! But it isn't a walk in the park either - at least for guys who haven't been on the dating scene for a while or guys who haven't really put much thought and effort into approaching girls.. Now, this isn't one of those "get rich fast" advice or "say this and you'll get the girl" tips related to how to approach women. Modern Dating is about experience and application. Knowing the things a girl wants but wont ask for. This is how real, authentic, and honest men approach, meet, and talk to women to get that instant connection. Where true and honest relationships are created. If you want to know how to attract the hottest girl, its all about how you carry yourself and how you'd see yourself as someone who actually deserves to be surrounded by great like-minded people - especially high quality and good looking women. Moreover, having the confidence and honesty it takes to be a direct person when it comes to approaching and interacting with women, is what our dating advice for men is all about. Matt shows you the best way to master and understand how to approach and attract the Hottest Girl!

    5 BEST Playful Flirting Techniques Women Can't Resist

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2022 10:04


    Learn how to flirt with women the RIGHT WAY. Matt shows his 5 playful flirting techniques women can't resist. Getting a girl to know that you're interested in her and get her attracted to you as well is not always easy. But it shouldn't be. If mastered correctly, flirting can be one of the most natural things to do in the world, it's even more effective when it comes naturally. But most of the time, a lot of times a lot of guys get overwhelmed with the thought of having to flirt with a girl that they find attractive and end up making the whole interaction stiff and awkward, which is probably the most debilitating thing to get as a response to your flirting efforts. Well, not any more gentlemen. In today's video, I'm going to be sharing with you some playful and effective flirting tips that will get you that “Yes” when you ask her out, or her number, nine times out of ten. So if this is something that you're interested in finding out – let's face it that's why you clicked on this video anyway – then let's jump right into it. I'll also be sharing with you some signs to look out for if you want to find out if she's enjoying the interaction and probably into you, so you don't want to miss any part of this.

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