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If you've ever believed a breakup has to become a war, this conversation is your proof it doesn't — and a real-time map for love, and end, with consciousness. People told Celinne and Nathan their relationship was a bad idea. She wanted children; he already had two grown daughters and wasn't sure he wanted to start again. They chose each other anyway — and a year after intentionally ending it, they're still family. They met on the other side of Celinne's own rock bottom, and what they built together is what most people are never taught is possible: a relationship dated in radical transparency and loved without possession. When the season closed, they ended it on purpose instead of bracing for it to happen to them — a clean ending that left nothing unsaid. In this conversation, Celinne and Nathan walk through the three phases of a conscious relationship: courting, love, and uncoupling. You'll hear how they named a dealbreaker out loud in the first weeks, how they met each other's triggers with curiosity, and what it looked like to design an ending that left them both more whole. It's for anyone who's ever been stuck in a relationship they couldn't quite name or leave. ON THIS EPISODE: 00:00 Meet Nathan and the premise — three phases of one relationship, not a timeline 04:15 Hear Nathan's "three-month pattern" — and the moment Celinne named it 08:00 Learn the line that took the pressure off courting: "if I'm available, I'll pick up" 14:50 Discover the "define family" moment — naming a dealbreaker early without projection 23:30 Sit with the in-person visit that didn't spark — and why the truth saved it 48:30 Unpack the "crunch" code word for addressing friction before it hardens 56:45 Hear the real measure of a relationship: "I could be fully Nathan and I was loved" 1:00:45 Reframe the ending — not a terminal disease, but limited, precious time 1:11:00 Walk through the conscious uncoupling — the 28-day no-contact, nothing left unsaid KEY IDEAS: ✨ Name the dealbreaker out loud, early: On an early call, Celinne named wanting children; Nathan already had his. Instead of hiding the mismatch until they were attached, they put it on the table and stayed curious about it. The thing most couples avoid until it's too late became the foundation they built on. ✨ Meet a trigger with curiosity: When something felt off, they got curious instead of building a case. Celinne's move was to voice her intuition without projection — telling Nathan she'd felt his energy shift and asking whether he'd felt it too, opening the door rather than laying blame. That single reframe dropped the defenses instead of raising them. ✨ An ending can be designed, not survived: They stopped treating the finish line as a catastrophe happening to them and started authoring it. A 28-day no-contact window, scheduled check-ins, hard conversations until nothing was left unsaid. A clean heartbreak that took no hostages. ✨ The real measure is who you get to be inside it: Nathan's marker of a great relationship was simple — he liked the man he was in it. In his words: "I literally could be fully Nathan and I was loved." That's the standard worth holding your own relationships to. RESOURCES: Nathan Freitas is a creative director and marketer who brings brands to life through cinematic storytelling — turning brand vision into content people can feel and systems that actually deliver, from Fortune 100s to purpose-driven founders. He runs NF Studios out of Nashville. Website | Instagram | Linkedin | Facebook Celinne Da Costa is a podcast host, bestselling author, and executive coach for leaders navigating 'I've made it—now what?' She guides them to redesign their next act: more meaningful, more aligned, more fun... and led by their soul's truth. Website | LinkedIn | Substack | Instagram | Facebook
In this week's Q&A episode of The Worth Loving Podcast, Keana W. Mitchell answers your heartfelt, vulnerable questions about why we're drawn to toxic partners and how to break long‑standing relationship patterns. Building on the main episode from earlier this week, Keana offers trauma‑informed insight into attachment wounds, nervous system conditioning, emotional unavailability, and the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding.This episode is a compassionate, grounding space for anyone who has ever wondered why they repeat the same relationship cycles, why healthy partners sometimes feel “boring,” or how to rebuild trust with themselves after years of choosing people who weren't emotionally safe. Keana also explores questions about boundaries, red flags, self‑trust, and whether attachment styles can truly change.Every answer is rooted in emotional safety, clarity, and the belief that healing is possible no matter how long you've been stuck in unhealthy patterns.What You'll Hear in This EpisodeWhy emotional unavailability feels familiar and why we're drawn to itHow to distinguish real chemistry from trauma bondingSteps to stop repeating painful relationship patternsWhy healthy partners may feel “boring” when you're used to chaosHow to rebuild trust with yourself after toxic relationshipsHow to set boundaries without guiltWhat to do when you keep ignoring red flagsWhether attachment styles can truly changeHow healing shifts who you're attracted toKey TakeawaysAttraction is shaped by familiarity, not just preferenceIntensity is not intimacy and chaos is not connectionYour nervous system plays a major role in who you chooseHealing helps you recognize and desire emotionally safe partnersYou can absolutely break the cycle and move toward secure attachmentSelf‑trust grows through compassion, boundaries, and small consistent stepsSubmit Your Questions for Future Q&A EpisodesEvery Thursday, Keana answers listener questions in a dedicated Q&A episode. If you'd like your question featured anonymously or with your name send it to:
This week on the Worth Loving Podcast, we're revisiting an episode where I break down how to stop attracting toxic partners and begin choosing healthier relationships.If you've ever felt stuck in a loop of choosing partners who drain you, confuse you, or make you question your worth, this episode will help you understand the deeper emotional patterns at play and guide you toward healing, clarity, and healthier love.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy we're drawn to familiar emotional patterns even when they're unhealthyHow attachment styles influence partner selection (Ainsworth, 1978; Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007)The role of trauma, repetition compulsion, and nervous system conditioning (Freud, 1920; van der Kolk, 2014)Why intensity is often mistaken for love (Carnes, 1997)Signs you may be attracting toxic partnersHow to build emotional intimacy with yourselfHow to rewire your nervous system to recognize healthy love (Porges, 2011)Practical steps to break the cycle and move toward secure attachment (Siegel, 2012)Green flags to look for in emotionally safe partnersKey TakeawaysYou don't choose toxic partners because you're broken, you choose what feels familiar.Emotional intimacy not physical intensity is the foundation of secure connection.Healing your attachment wounds changes who you're attracted to and who you allow into your life.Healthy love feels steady, consistent, and safe not chaotic or confusing.You can absolutely break the cycle and move toward relationships that honor your worth.Referenced Psychologists & ResearchJohn Bowlby (Attachment Theory)Mary Ainsworth (Attachment Styles)Hazan & Shaver (Romantic Attachment)Dr. Sue Johnson (Emotional Bonding)Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (Trauma & the Body)Dr. Judith Herman (Trauma & Recovery)Dr. Patrick Carnes (Trauma Bonding)Dr. Kristin Neff (Self‑Compassion)Dr. Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory)Dr. Daniel Siegel (Attachment & Neurobiology)Dr. John Gottman (Relationship Stability)Listener Reflection QuestionsWhat relationship patterns have you noticed repeating in your life?How does your body respond to emotional safety vs. emotional intensity?Which green flags do you want to prioritize moving forward?What boundaries or self‑compassion practices can support your healing?
Part 5 of the Relationship Psychology Series: Emotionally Unavailable Men Aren't Your Type — They're Your Pattern What if emotionally unavailable men aren't actually your “type”…but a nervous system pattern your body learned to normalize?In this final episode of the Relationship Psychology Series, we're diving into one of the deepest relationship truths women can uncover:Sometimes the attraction to emotionally unavailable men isn't about love…It's about familiarity.The inconsistency.The emotional distance.The longing.The chasing.The intermittent validation.And for many women, those dynamics feel intoxicating not because they're healthy……but because they feel familiar to the nervous system.In this episode, we unpack:why emotionally unavailable men feel so magneticthe anxious/avoidant relationship dynamichow women unknowingly abandon themselves trying to earn loveand what actually changes when a woman heals her relationship patterns.Because emotionally unavailable men are not your destiny.They're a pattern.And patterns can change.Inside this episode, we explore:Why emotionally unavailable men often feel so attractiveHow childhood emotional patterns shape adult attractionThe connection between proving your worth and emotionally distant menWhy women over-empathize and wait for potential instead of realityThe difference between compassion vs self-abandonmentHow intermittent validation creates emotional attachmentWhy emotionally unavailable dynamics can feel addictiveThe hidden ways women can also be emotionally unavailableWhy some women feel safer chasing love than receiving itWhat shifts when a woman heals her nervous system and attachment patternsThis episode is for you if:You keep attracting emotionally unavailable menYou constantly over-explain low effort or inconsistencyYou feel addicted to “the chase” in loveYou struggle to trust healthy, emotionally available menYou mistake anxiety and emotional highs/lows for chemistryYou've stayed too long waiting for someone's potential to become realityYou fear being “too much” or hard to loveBecause being chosen by emotionally unavailable men…will never heal the abandonment wound.Because no amount of finally being “picked” by unavailable love…will create the emotional safety your nervous system is actually craving.We also talk about…Why women often unconsciously recreate familiar relationship dynamics.Not because they're broken.But because the nervous system naturally gravitates toward what feels familiar — even when it's painful.And for many women…love became associated with:provingwaitingchasingover-functioningearning connectionInside LOVER…This is exactly the deeper work we do.LOVER is for the woman who is done:chasing emotionally unavailable loveproving her worth in relationshipsromanticizing inconsistencyconfusing chaos for chemistryabandoning herself to preserve connectionInside this experience, we work with:feminine embodimentnervous system healingemotional safetyattachment patternsself-worthpolarity & relationship dynamicsSo you stop recreating painful relationship cycles……and finally become emotionally available for the kind of love you truly desire.>> CLICK HERE TO JOIN LOVER
In 2021, Celinne experienced a rock bottom — a breakup coupled by physical illness, suppressed anger, flesh-eating bacteria. It was the moment she realized she was the common denominator of her relationships issues, so she stopped dating for two years and started excavating. This episode is the full story: five relationship chapters, each a mirror for what still needed healing, told for the first time in this depth — with master tantra teacher and healer Dharmaraj interviewing her. In this conversation, you'll hear how the armor of independence quietly blocks love, what Celinne found when she traced her wounds back through her masculine and feminine lineage, and why becoming the right partner matters far more than finding one. ON THIS EPISODE: 00:00 Meet Dharmaraj — tantra teacher, holistic healer, and one of Celinne's closest witnesses to her journey 05:37 Discover why Celinne is sharing this story out loud — and who it's really for 10:16 Explore Chapter 1 — Mr. A: checking all the boxes, the seduction of being chosen, and the cost of loving someone for what they reflect back about you 14:17 Witness the rock bottom: physical illness, suppressed anger, and the moment she realized she was the common denominator 22:44 Learn what the two-year men's sabbatical actually involved — the tantra path, Alison Armstrong's work, and what really changed 37:51 Understand "laying down the sword" — why women's empowerment and men's disempowerment are not the same agenda 41:41 Hear the hypnosis session that changed everything: forgiving her male lineage and meeting Mr. J three days later 52:20 Explore Chapter 5 — Mr. N: ease, full love, a reset blueprint, and why they're consciously uncoupling 1:07:07 Discover what Celinne now tells clients: become the right woman — the list she gave to God, and the one she kept KEY IDEAS:
Welcome back to part 2 of this FIREEEEE conversation with the amazingggg psychotherapist and best selling author, Lori Gottlieb. And she's not holding back as we talk more about how to stop dating the wrong men and: Why you need to understand the difference between compatibility and having things in common How the misconstrued idea of feminism is setting women up for failed relationships How dating changes for women as we age What green flags and red flags to look for when learning about someone new And so much more!! Trust me, homie, you don't want to miss out on the final part of this convo with Lori!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome back to part 2 of this FIREEEEE conversation with the amazingggg psychotherapist and best selling author, Lori Gottlieb. And she's not holding back as we talk more about how to stop dating the wrong men and: Why you need to understand the difference between compatibility and having things in common How the misconstrued idea of feminism is setting women up for failed relationships How dating changes for women as we age What green flags and red flags to look for when learning about someone new And so much more!! Trust me, homie, you don't want to miss out on the final part of this convo with Lori!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is going to open your frikin' eyes to the dating and relationship mistakes that keep attracting the wrong type of men, and what you can do to fix your approach and find someone actually sincerely interested and good for you! Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Lori Gottlieb – she's a psychotherapist, NYT best selling author, and podcast host and she is SPILLING THE TEA on all things DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, including: - Why you can't find genuine men and what you need to do to find a real “love match” instead - How online dating & the paradox of choice is actually keeping you single - Why you SHOULD have high standards, but not about what you THINK - The differences in how men and women approach dating, relationships, and marriage & how that causes problems down the line - Why it's actually best that all sales at the “husband store” are FINAL - And sooooo much more relationship wisdom!! Seriously guys, this woman has sooooo much wisdom into life and relationships and what you need to do to avoid ingenuine a-holes and pivot your life and have an amazing, healthy relationship! Listen close cause there's SO much to learn, and this is one you're gonna want to gossip with your homies about! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is going to open your frikin' eyes to the dating and relationship mistakes that keep attracting the wrong type of men, and what you can do to fix your approach and find someone actually sincerely interested and good for you! Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Lori Gottlieb – she's a psychotherapist, NYT best selling author, and podcast host and she is SPILLING THE TEA on all things DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, including: - Why you can't find genuine men and what you need to do to find a real “love match” instead - How online dating & the paradox of choice is actually keeping you single - Why you SHOULD have high standards, but not about what you THINK - The differences in how men and women approach dating, relationships, and marriage & how that causes problems down the line - Why it's actually best that all sales at the “husband store” are FINAL - And sooooo much more relationship wisdom!! Seriously guys, this woman has sooooo much wisdom into life and relationships and what you need to do to avoid ingenuine a-holes and pivot your life and have an amazing, healthy relationship! Listen close cause there's SO much to learn, and this is one you're gonna want to gossip with your homies about! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this week's episode of The Worth Loving Podcast, Keana W. Mitchell dives deep into one of the most common and painful relationship patterns: repeatedly attracting toxic partners. Through a trauma‑informed lens, Keana explores why these patterns form, how attachment wounds shape our attraction, and what it truly takes to break the cycle. Drawing on leading psychological research, she offers compassionate insight and practical steps to help you move toward healthier, emotionally safe relationships.Before unpacking this week's topic, Keana recaps last week's episode on Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Intimacy, highlighting why emotional connection not physical intensity creates stronger, more secure bonds. This foundation sets the stage for understanding why so many people confuse intensity with love and how that confusion leads to unhealthy relationship choices.If you've ever felt stuck in a loop of choosing partners who drain you, confuse you, or make you question your worth, this episode will help you understand the deeper emotional patterns at play and guide you toward healing, clarity, and healthier love.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy we're drawn to familiar emotional patterns even when they're unhealthyHow attachment styles influence partner selection (Ainsworth, 1978; Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007)The role of trauma, repetition compulsion, and nervous system conditioning (Freud, 1920; van der Kolk, 2014)Why intensity is often mistaken for love (Carnes, 1997)Signs you may be attracting toxic partnersHow to build emotional intimacy with yourselfHow to rewire your nervous system to recognize healthy love (Porges, 2011)Practical steps to break the cycle and move toward secure attachment (Siegel, 2012)Green flags to look for in emotionally safe partnersKey TakeawaysYou don't choose toxic partners because you're broken, you choose what feels familiar.Emotional intimacy not physical intensity is the foundation of secure connection.Healing your attachment wounds changes who you're attracted to and who you allow into your life.Healthy love feels steady, consistent, and safe not chaotic or confusing.You can absolutely break the cycle and move toward relationships that honor your worth.Referenced Psychologists & ResearchJohn Bowlby (Attachment Theory)Mary Ainsworth (Attachment Styles)Hazan & Shaver (Romantic Attachment)Dr. Sue Johnson (Emotional Bonding)Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (Trauma & the Body)Dr. Judith Herman (Trauma & Recovery)Dr. Patrick Carnes (Trauma Bonding)Dr. Kristin Neff (Self‑Compassion)Dr. Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory)Dr. Daniel Siegel (Attachment & Neurobiology)Dr. John Gottman (Relationship Stability)Listener Reflection QuestionsWhat relationship patterns have you noticed repeating in your life?How does your body respond to emotional safety vs. emotional intensity?Which green flags do you want to prioritize moving forward?What boundaries or self‑compassion practices can support your healing?
In this week's episode of The Worth Loving Podcast, Keana W. Mitchell dives deep into one of the most common and painful relationship patterns: repeatedly attracting toxic partners. Through a trauma‑informed lens, Keana explores why these patterns form, how attachment wounds shape our attraction, and what it truly takes to break the cycle. Drawing on leading psychological research, she offers compassionate insight and practical steps to help you move toward healthier, emotionally safe relationships.Before unpacking this week's topic, Keana recaps last week's episode on Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Intimacy, highlighting why emotional connection not physical intensity creates stronger, more secure bonds. This foundation sets the stage for understanding why so many people confuse intensity with love and how that confusion leads to unhealthy relationship choices.If you've ever felt stuck in a loop of choosing partners who drain you, confuse you, or make you question your worth, this episode will help you understand the deeper emotional patterns at play and guide you toward healing, clarity, and healthier love.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy we're drawn to familiar emotional patterns even when they're unhealthyHow attachment styles influence partner selection (Ainsworth, 1978; Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007)The role of trauma, repetition compulsion, and nervous system conditioning (Freud, 1920; van der Kolk, 2014)Why intensity is often mistaken for love (Carnes, 1997)Signs you may be attracting toxic partnersHow to build emotional intimacy with yourselfHow to rewire your nervous system to recognize healthy love (Porges, 2011)Practical steps to break the cycle and move toward secure attachment (Siegel, 2012)Green flags to look for in emotionally safe partnersKey TakeawaysYou don't choose toxic partners because you're broken, you choose what feels familiar.Emotional intimacy not physical intensity is the foundation of secure connection.Healing your attachment wounds changes who you're attracted to and who you allow into your life.Healthy love feels steady, consistent, and safe not chaotic or confusing.You can absolutely break the cycle and move toward relationships that honor your worth.Referenced Psychologists & ResearchJohn Bowlby (Attachment Theory)Mary Ainsworth (Attachment Styles)Hazan & Shaver (Romantic Attachment)Dr. Sue Johnson (Emotional Bonding)Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (Trauma & the Body)Dr. Judith Herman (Trauma & Recovery)Dr. Patrick Carnes (Trauma Bonding)Dr. Kristin Neff (Self‑Compassion)Dr. Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory)Dr. Daniel Siegel (Attachment & Neurobiology)Dr. John Gottman (Relationship Stability)Listener Reflection QuestionsWhat relationship patterns have you noticed repeating in your life?How does your body respond to emotional safety vs. emotional intensity?Which green flags do you want to prioritize moving forward?What boundaries or self‑compassion practices can support your healing?
If you keep attracting the wrong people or sabotaging good relationships, this masterclass reveals why.Lewis brings together the most powerful insights from Esther Perel, Jillian Turecki, Matthew Hussey, Baya Voce, and Mel Robbins to show you how your unhealed wounds are running your love life.You'll learn why you chase what hurts you, how your nervous system sabotages connection, and what it actually takes to stop repeating the same painful cycles. The path to lasting love starts with understanding yourself first, learning to regulate your emotions, and choosing partners who can help you heal rather than partners who keep you broken.Make Money Easy: Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer LifeThe Greatness Mindset: Unlock the Power of Your Mind and Live Your Best Life TodayThe Mask of Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships, and Live Their Fullest LivesThe School of Greatness: A Real-World Guide to Living Bigger, Loving Deeper, and Leaving a LegacyIn this episode you will:Identify what role you played in past relationship failures instead of only blaming your exRecognize when your childhood wounds are triggering fights about cardboard boxes or daily frustrationsUnderstand why depending on your partner for happiness creates catastrophic disappointmentDiscover how play and humor keep relationships alive when everything else feels deadTransform conflict into healing by learning to tolerate uncomfortable emotions in your bodyFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1891For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Esther PerelMatthew HusseyMel Robbins Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
If you're a coach and your business is technically working, but still feels heavier than it should, you'll recognise this straight away. Bad clients. The ones who drain your energy, question everything, push back on the work, and somehow take up more space than the clients who actually pay well. We all get them… and yes, they'll probably always exist. But there are ways to get in front of your ideal clients, and stop the bad clients in their tracks. In this episode, we break down how to use your content to naturally repel the wrong people, pre-qualify leads before they ever get on a sales call, and confidently say no when someone isn't the right fit (and sometimes with a genuine thank you at the end). You'll hear: 0:00 - Our personal updates - Tim's new car and a poop robo vacuum emergency 7:12 - Creating content that repels bad clients and gets you in front of your ideal audience 10:40 - How to get in front of premium clients without sounding like someone you're not 13:15 - Are your ideal clients not on Instagram? Here's how to find them 14:50 - The questions you should include in your application form to filter out the wrong leads before they book a call 17:32 - The biggest red flags on a discovery call that could predict a problem client 20:23 - How to figure out if someone is ready to commit on a sales call or just wasting your time 22:32 - Tips on ending a sales call when you know they're not the right fit for your business 24:04 - The key behind getting quality clients that are committed to your course 25:44 - What's the difference between premium and just straight up overpricing your business? 27:47 - Knowing when to offer a payment plan or reject a potential client 30:27 - If you're not getting traction on your current platform, here's what you can do next Watch the YouTube version of the podcast here (https://youtu.be/m81iFi31rUM). Ready to build your 7 Figure+ Business? Apply to join Success School here (https://makemoreprofit.com/scale-session-2/). And if you don't want Tim to get fired make sure you hit follow wherever you're listening. Got questions or want more free content? Follow us over at @timfrey__ (https://www.instagram.com/timfrey__/) or @stephgorton__ (https://www.instagram.com/stephgorton__/)
She's won races most people can't finish. Built businesses. Commanded stages. But relationships? That's where the pattern kept breaking. Danica Patrick joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov for a raw conversation about why high-achieving women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men: and what actually has to change. In this video: → The "quiet disorganized" attachment pattern most successful women don't know they have → Why making life easy for men destroys the bond you're trying to build → The four levels of safety men must provide: and where most fail → Adam's three-date method for filtering out avoidant men fast → How to stop erasing yourself in relationships → The CEO/COO model that lets you stay in your feminine at home → Why male discomfort is actually a good sign
In this episode I help one of my podcast listeners with setting up a strategy so she can stop attracting freebie seekers with her content. If you have a goal of turning your CONTENT into CLIENTS then this is for you! Links mentioned in this episode: Explore my coaching options or sign up for a Discovery Call to discuss working together: https://www.podcastingbusiness.school/ Want more strategies for podcast launch, growth, and how to leverage your podcast to get more clients? Get my FREE weekly Podcasting Business School Newsletter every Thursday! https://www.podcastingbusiness.school/news *********************
Have you ever looked at your discovery calls and thought, “Why do the wrong people keep showing up?”Or maybe people book a call… and then disappear?In this episode, I'm breaking down how to know exactly who you're meant to coach—and why creating content for everyone is one of the biggest reasons coaches struggle to attract clients.I'm sharing real lessons from my own journey, including:Why my early content attracted all kinds of people—but not the right onesThe moment I realized I needed to be more intentional about who I wanted to work withHow your content should quietly pre‑sell the right clients before they ever book a callWhy niche clarity is allowed to evolve (and why that's actually normal)Three powerful questions to help you identify who you're truly meant to coach
In this episode, I break down how to recognize when an energy vampire is draining you and the physical and emotional signs that signal your power is being pulled away. I also share simple practices to call your energy back, release what isn't yours, and return to your natural state of balance.
Why do some websites attract premium clients while others seem to only draw in bargain hunters and price shoppers? After ten years of writing for brands and businesses, I've learned that client quality isn't about luck—it's about signals. Premium clients (people who value expertise, understand that quality costs money, and are serious about getting results) are scanning for very specific things when they evaluate your website. And if those signals aren't present, they simply move on.Instead of what pushes visitors away—like we discussed last week—I'm talking about what attracts the right people—specifically, premium clients who are ready to invest. I'll walk you through the three main signals they're looking for and cover the smaller details that premium clients pick up on, from how you talk about pricing to your overall confidence level. This isn't about making your brand look luxurious or expensive—it's about showing premium clients the specific things they need to see before they feel confident about reaching out.__________________________________________EPISODE 168.Read the show notes and view the full transcript here: ______________________________________________Here's the info on your host, Erin OllilaErin Ollila believes in the power of words and how a message can inform – and even transform – its intended audience. She graduated from Fairfield University with an M.F.A. in Creative Writing, and went on to co-found Spry, an award-winning online literary journal.When Erin's not helping her clients understand their website data or improve their website copy, you can catch her hosting the Talk Copy to Me podcast and guesting on shows such as Profit is a Choice, Mindful Marketing, The Power in Purpose, and Business-First Creatives.Stay in touch with Erin Ollila, SEO website copywriter:• Learn more about my VIP intensive options or just book a strategy session to get started right away• Visit Erin's website to learn more about her business, services, and productsWant to keep talking copy? Send me a text message!
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!What happens when two relationship experts almost break up—and instead create a breakthrough? Meet Guy Shahar, founder of Tantra Speed Date and mastermind behind the 90-Day Relationship Experiment, and Maya Kova, lead facilitator and conscious relating expert. Both certified through Source Tantra, these two don't just teach relationship skills—they live them. Guy has spent years perfecting conscious dating methods after recognizing the limitations of traditional dating. Maya brings deep expertise in Tantric practices and feminine embodiment. Together, they've helped hundreds break free from toxic dating cycles.Their secret? They practice what they preach, using every tool they teach on themselves first.The 90-Day Relationship Experiment isn't your typical dating program. Instead of trying to find "the one," you practice conscious dating skills through short experimental relationships with dedicated coaching support.HERE'S WHAT MAKES IT BRILLIANT:7-day practice relationships with random pairings (no matchmaking drama)Dedicated dating coach for personalized feedback"Breaking Upwards" process that turns endings into growth celebrationsReal relationship skills you can't learn from dating appsLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITEThe Power of Pleasure, A Free Summit July 23-24, 2025. This 2-day live event will feature trailblazers in the field of conscious sexuality. Join us for FREE! AWAKENING THE GODDESS IN CRETE! Leah & Willow want to take you on an all-woman's tantric pilgrimage to Greece Oct 5-12, 2025! Join us for a trip of lifetime. LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. Support the show SxR Website Dr. Willow's Website Leah's Website
What if your identity is the reason you keep attracting the wrong people? In this episode, Master NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner Damon Cart reveals how your unconscious self-concept shapes your relationships — and how to reprogram it for deeper connection, lasting transformation, and authentic self-belief.Trained and mentored by NLP pioneer Steve Andreas, Damon now teaches the powerful Self-Concept Model to clients and coaches around the world. He shares how he personally overcame depression — once in just one session using Neuro-Linguistic Programming — and why traditional therapy often struggles to reach the unconscious structures where real change happens.Listeners will also learn:Why the key to mastering Neuro-Linguistic Programming is applying it on yourself first — not just othersThe difference between self-worth and self-esteem from NLP perspectiveWhy self worth is considered a myth — and how letting go of it unlocks real confidenceHow to uncover and rewire limiting beliefs that shape your identity and relationshipsA live coaching demo exploring how your values reveal what's truly driving youWhether you're stuck in recurring relationship patterns or ready to transform how you see yourself, this episode offers a practical and deeply empowering path forward through Neuro-Linguistic Programming and identity work.Learn more about P.S. Younger Self here.And, you can connect with host Chris Oh on Instagram here.
Join George Haas as he explores the intersection of attachment theory and meditation, and the path to live a more meaningful life. If you're interested in meditation-based attachment repair for long-term healing, this is for you.Like this? Grab our free video resource called
Nothing's worse than accidentally filling your program with "crappy" clients.Clients who try to nickle and dime you, who require a ton of handholding, who are flakey...Thankfully, there's a solution, and I'm going to walk you through how to tweak a few things in your marketing today in order to attract high quality clients who pay and put their head down and do the work.In this episode:0:00 Intro1:35 #1: The Words That You Use4:19 High Quality vs Low Quality Messaging12:22 The Difference Between Beginners and Advanced Clients20:50 Disqualification Copy24:23 Why This Works24:51 3 Step Action Checklist---⏯️ Learn How to Achieve Freedom From Fitness on My YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/vincedelmonte
Helping people admit what they feel in order to heal from the effects of narcissism from a Biblical and Psychological perspective. Website: www.NarcAbuseNoMore.org Email: NarcAbuseNoMore@mail.com Donate via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=F37STVQCNJ9D8 CASH APP - $evangelistklrch1975 IT Iz FINISHED End Times' Ministries Website: www.ITIzFINISHED.com IT Iz FINISHED Email: ITIzFINISHED@mail.com Watch on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@NarcAbuseNoMore Watch on Rumble… https://rumble.com/c/c-1334751 Watch on Brighteon… www.brighteon.com/channels/narcissisticabusenomore Telegram: https://t.me/itizfinishedBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/narcissistic-abuse-no-more--2855898/support.
Now, if you've ever been in the frustrating position of recruiting someone you thought was perfect for the job, only to find out they're not the right fit at all, you're not alone. This happens more often than you might think, and in today's episode, we uncover exactly why MSPs keep attracting the wrong people—and more importantly, how to stop it from happening. Julie shares a story from a recent conversation with an MSP owner who was struggling to find the right person for their team. They needed someone dynamic, open to change, and capable of taking the business forward. But instead, they kept attracting technically competent people who lacked the energy, drive, or communication skills needed to move the business in the right direction. It turns out that the problem wasn't just about who was applying—it was about how they were advertising the role and conducting interviews. One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is that MSPs often think they have a solid recruitment process in place, but in reality, they're unknowingly setting themselves up for failure. The way you write your job ads, the questions you ask in interviews, and even your expectations of what the role should be can all contribute to hiring the wrong person. Julie stresses the importance of being brutally honest about what you actually need—not just listing out generic skills, but defining the key behavioural competencies that will make someone successful in that role. And this is where things often go wrong. Many MSP owners get caught up in salary bands and role levels—assuming that a certain salary should match a certain level of experience or leadership ability. But as Julie explains, an engineer who's great at solving tickets and supporting clients might actually be more valuable than someone who aspires to be a manager but lacks the skills to lead. Promoting someone just because they want to earn more can backfire massively if they're not suited for the responsibilities of the role. This ties into another crucial point: MSPs need to stop seeing roles as a one-size-fits-all career ladder. Not every engineer should have to move into management to get a pay rise. The real question is—what does that person bring to the business? If they're delivering value at their current level, they should be rewarded accordingly, rather than being forced into a leadership position they might not be suited for. Another huge mistake MSPs make is relying too much on gut instinct in interviews. Julie emphasises the importance of having a structured scoring system—something as simple as a rating scale from A to E, where A means someone has extensive experience in a competency and E means they have none at all. When hiring, it's not enough to simply like someone or feel they gave a “good answer.” You need to have clear, measurable criteria for what a good answer actually looks like. We also touched on the use of DISC profiling in recruitment. While it's tempting to say, “I need a D-profile leader” or “I need someone who's a high C for precision and process,” Julie warns against hiring purely based on personality profiles. The key is to understand what the role really needs. For example, if your team is full of steady, cautious people who don't challenge the status quo, then hiring someone with a bit more dynamism might be exactly what you need—even if it initially feels uncomfortable for the rest of the team. This is where self-awareness comes in. MSP owners need to be aware not just of the role they're hiring for, but also of their existing team dynamics. It's about finding the right blend of personalities and skills that will push the business forward, rather than simply hiring people who “fit in” and won't rock the boat. Ultimately, the takeaway from this episode is clear: recruitment is not just about filling a vacancy—it's about attracting the right people who will help grow your MSP. And that starts long before the interview. MSP owners need to spend time getting clear on what behaviours they need, write job descriptions that reflect this, and design interview processes that properly test for these competencies. If you take one thing away from this episode, let it be this: stop relying on luck in your hiring process. Be deliberate. Define what good looks like. Test for it. Score it. And most importantly, be honest about what you really need in your MSP. For further information on The MSP Growth Bootcamp starting on 1st April - Click HERE Connect on LinkedIn HERE with Ian and also with Stuart by clicking this LINK And when you're ready to take the next step in growing your MSP, come and take the Scale with Confidence MSP Mastery Quiz. In just three minutes, you'll get a 360-degree scan of your MSP and identify the one or two tactics that could help you find more time, engage & align your people and generate more leads. OR To join our amazing Facebook Group of over 400 MSPs where we are helping you Scale Up with Confidence, then click HERE Until next time, look after yourself and I'll catch up with you soon!
Forget about swiping left or settling for someone who just checks the boxes. This episode is about rewriting your entire reality when it comes to love. Today, we're diving into Coniunctio—Carl Jung's ultimate blueprint for breaking free from toxic dating patterns and attracting partners who actually align with your higher self.I'm unpacking how your ego keeps you stuck in cycles of pain, chasing people who aren't good for you, and why the real shift happens when you let go of those superficial desires. We're talking about stepping into your highest timeline, where only deep, authentic connections exist.If you're tired of dealing with narcissists, flaky partners, or just repeating the same old story, this is the wake-up call you need. I'll share my own vulnerable moments of being trapped in ego-driven chaos and how embracing Coniunctio has completely transformed my approach to love.———————00:00 - Intro02:10 - The Ego's role in toxic relationships06:45 - Breaking free from painful dating cycles11:30 - Coniunctio: Jung's blueprint for Love16:15 - The power of surrender in relationships21:40 - Ego vs. Higher Self: choosing the right path27:05 - Why you keep attracting the wrong partners32:30 - My personal journey of love & transformation38:20 How to align with your highest timeline44:10 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com
Would you rather have 1,000 bargain hunters who haggle over your prices, cancel last minute, and never pre-book… OR 100 high-ticket, loyal clients who pay your worth, refer their friends, and never question your prices? If you're stuck chasing low-ticket, discount-hunting clients, this episode is your game-changer!
Are you finding yourself attracting the wrong people into your life? Today I talk about this on The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast. Overwhelmed by routine whilst you're trying to grow and develop yourself mentally? Grab your mental and physical growth trainer for less than a cup of coffee for a month as a podcast listener here: http://getmental.com/confidencemindset You can connect with me on the following: Instagram: jonnycpardoe Facebook: jonnycpardoe TikTik: jonnycpardoe LinkedIn: Jonny Pardoe For me to speak or speaking enquiries: speaking@jonnypardoe.com
Send us a text with feedback, questions, or topics of interest!In this empowering video, Erin reveals why authenticity is the highest vibration for manifesting your dreams and creating a reality aligned with your true self. When you operate from a place of inauthenticity, you attract experiences and relationships that do not reflect your true essence, leaving you feeling unfulfilled and out of alignment.Erin explains how stepping into your authentic self creates a powerful ripple effect:Authenticity becomes a mirror of the deep love and acceptance you have for yourself.This self-love enhances your magnetism, attracting experiences, opportunities, and relationships that truly align with who you are.Living authentically clears energetic blocks and allows the Universe to support you in manifesting your desires effortlessly.In this video, you'll learn:- The connection between authenticity and the vibration of manifestation.- How inauthenticity can block abundance and fulfillment.- Practical ways to embrace and express your authentic self.- Why self-love is the foundation of authenticity and magnetism.Remember : If you're being inauthentic, how do you expect to attract what's truly in alignment with who you are?Connect with Erin:Take the Free Quiz ► Discover Your Quantum Leaping ArchetypeWebsite ► www.erinlyonsofficial.comCourses ► www.erinlyonsofficial.com/shopInstagram ► @erinlyonsofficialTiktok ► @erinlyonsofficialYoutube ► Erin Lyons TVEmail ► contact@erinlyonsofficial.comSubscribe to Newsletter ► The Minute Micro-Dose
#800: Join Lauryn Bosstick as she sits down to answer your most thought-provoking “Dear Lauryn” questions, offering raw & actionable advice to elevate your life! From breaking toxic relationship patterns to designing routines for success, Lauryn shares her strategies to help you upgrade your habits, relationships, & mindset. In this episode, Lauryn gets real about setting boundaries, identifying your priorities, & cultivating the habits that will propel you toward achieving your dream life! To Watch the Show click HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential Head to the HIM & HER Show ShopMy page HERE and LTK page HERE to find all of Michael and Lauryn's favorite products mentioned on their latest episodes. Visit istandwithmypack.org to support I Stand With My Pack's (ISWMP) mission by donating or adopting. Every contribution helps! This episode is sponsored by Just Thrive Visit JustThriveHealth.com and use code SKINNY90 for 20% off your first 90 day bottle. This episode is sponsored by Domain Money Get ahead with expert financial planning designed for you and the life you want to lead. Head to domainmoney.com/himandher to book a free strategy session now. This episode is sponsored by YNAB Claim an exclusive three-month free trial, with no credit card required at YNAB.com/skinny. This episode is sponsored by The Farmer's Dog Get 50% off your first box of fresh, healthy food at TheFarmersDog.com/skinny. Plus, you get FREE shipping! This episode is sponsored by LMNT Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/SKINNY. This episode is sponsored by Oura Visit ouraring.com. Produced by Dear Media
Today's episode is all about healing Anxious Attachment and breaking free from cycles of attracting emotionally unavailable partners. If you've ever felt consumed by obsessive thinking while dating, this episode is for you.We'll explore how to reclaim your power, stay centered in your worth and confidence, and stop settling for breadcrumbs in dating. These are the steps to attract the healthy, reciprocal love you deserve.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Ways that anxious attachment sabotages your chance at healthy loveWhy anxious attachment attracts unavailable/avoidant loveExperiments to determine if someone is right for you: Practical strategies to figure out if you're genuinely compatible or just caught up in their unavailability.Somatic tools to heal anxious attachment: Nervous system practices to disrupt anxiety loops and help you stay grounded.Mindset reframes to overcome patterns of attracting emotionally unavailable people: Shift from seeking approval to standing in your power and choosing love that aligns with your worth.Find me on Instagram @JenelleAnnette for updates, resources, and ways to work together.Email: hello@jenelleannette.com
Have you ever wondered, 'Why do I keep attracting narcissists?' The answer isn't what you think—it's all about your energy and hidden patterns. In this episode, I'll reveal the truth behind this dynamic and show you how to heal, step into your power, and start attracting the healthy, connected relationships you deserve. Join the High Vibe Tribe: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/about
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The Dream Client Code: How to Stop Attracting Clients Who Aren't Ready to Move Are you tired of attracting clients who need constant motivation or who only buy when there's a sale? Do you find yourself wondering why people engage with your content but many of them don't commit to your offers? In this episode, we're unlocking the secrets behind why your dream clients aren't signing up... and how you can shift your messaging, energy, and leadership to start calling in more high-level clients who are ready to invest NOW. These are the clients who don't need to be coddled, convinced, or hand-held. They know what they want, and they're ready for you to lead them. Inside This Episode, You'll Learn: Why it's hard to get behind high pricing and long-term commitments. The key to attracting clients who stay with you for years, not just for quick fixes. How to stop babying your audience and instead call in the ones who are ready to move, now. The common messaging mistakes and how to shift into content that hits their soul. Hit play now to learn how to unlock The Dream Client Code and finally start attracting clients who are as serious about their growth as you are. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow coach or entrepreneur who needs to hear this message! Connect: Insta: http://instagram.com/soulmeetsstrategy Website: http://www.soulmeetsstrategy.com Get my free advanced content masterclass, The Tipping Point - for free. https://www.soulmeetsstrategy.com/tipping-point This is for those ready to step up and create content that stops dream clients in their tracks, making them say, "YES, I need this!" To Work Together: The Bold Moves Club. The leading global community for awakened female entrepreneurs on the internet. Where BIG ambition meets real-world business growth. Featuring a Private Podcast with Jenna access to a treasure trove of exclusive business-building resources, and an instant global community of like-minded women right at your fingertips. $97/M (cancel anytime). https://www.soulmeetsstrategy.com/membership The Catalyst Mastermind. High-level, hands-on sacred space for the woman who is unreasonable and unwavering about your vision and desires the long-term support for sustainable + scalable growth to higher cash months your way. https://www.soulmeetsstrategy.com/catalyst About Your Host: Jenna Faye Madden is a multiple 7-figure conscious leadership coach and business strategist, dedicated to helping awakened female visionaries step into their bold moves era and scale 6 and 7-figure legacy-led businesses. As a best-selling author, international speaker, and CEO of Soul Meets Strategy®, Jenna bridges the gap between mastering how to scale a business and embodying who you are becoming in the process. She guides women to fully own the magnitude of their mission, enabling them to build sustainable businesses that align with their energetic frequency and generate higher cash flow, all while experiencing greater freedom. Living a location-independent lifestyle with her husband and two dogs, Jenna's mission is to empower women to reclaim their power, truth, and sovereignty as they create their legacy in the new earth era. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Thrive Global, Elephant Journal, and Disrupt Magazine.
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Discover how to stop attracting needy, demanding, and cheap clients that drain your energy and resources. Learn about the psychological underpinnings of these clients' scarcity mindsets and how your own internal stresses might be drawing them to you. Genea provides actionable strategies to shift your mindset towards prosperity, set healthy boundaries, and ultimately attract clients who align with your business values and enhance your success. Explore the transition from scarcity to abundance and unlock the true potential of your entrepreneurial journey. Visit BeTheWolfGift.com for a free guide filled with secrets to growing your business with joy and ease. Connect with Genea Free Guide - Grow Your Business and Love Doing it with the 3 secrets the business gurus NEVER talk about: http://bethewolfgift.com/ Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethewolfnow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@geneabarnes YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/geneabarnes. 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Client Psychology 01:37 Identifying Needy and Cheap Clients 03:42 The Scarcity Mindset Explained 06:26 The Impact of Client Insecurities 12:53 Recognizing Your Own Fears 19:43 Breaking the Cycle: Attracting Better Clients 23:29 Transitioning to Prosperity 29:23 Conclusion: Embracing Prosperity and Success
Hello Beauty Babes! The reason why you don't high paying brides flooding your inbox wanting to book, making consistent $10K and $20K months your new norm isn't because you aren't getting seen.Its, also, not because you don't do great work. ➡️ It's because you aren't doing the things in your business that attract a high paying dream brides, so you keep attracting budget brides who cant afford your rates and ghost you.In this weeks episode, we dive into 7 things you need to be doing in your business that will STOP attracting budget brides and START attracting high paying ones.Brave Money Moves: $10K in 10 Days for $55: https://www.briannamichellecoaching.com/sp-brave-money-moves7 Ways To Get Brides Obsessed With Booking Your Team Versus Booking You for $27:https://briannamichellecoaching.thrivecart.com/get-brides-obsessed/The Next Level Mastermind. Apply here: https://www.briannamichellecoaching.com/bridal-team-blueprint-mastermind
Are you tired of finding yourself in relationships with emotionally unavailable partners? This insightful video delves into how Childhood Emotional Neglect creates love addiction and the need to pursue people who are constantly walking away from you. Learn practical strategies to break the cycle and attract healthier, more fulfilling connections in 2024. Understand the underlying patterns in your dating life and discover valuable tips to enhance your emotional readiness for real love. Whether single or in a relationship, this guide will empower you to make conscious choices in your love life.
If you are so done with emotionally unavailable men and SO ready for real connection, support, and deep conversations in an emotionally mature relationship…This episode is for you! I provide the 5 key ways that you can end the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men for good.If you are coming to this episode, you most likely haven't only had ONE encounter with an emotionally unavailable man, it's been too many to count. Am I right? That's because it's a cycle. And that cycle STOPS with this episode.Support the Show.Let's connect on Instagram – send me a message @meleah_manning Get Meleah's Free Masterclass on How to STOP Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men So That You Can Finally Find a Compatible, Secure Partner Within 90 Days.Join the Waitlist for Radiant Relationship Academy — a mentorship to overcome your patterns in dating & relationships and experience a healthy, fulfilling love.Apply for private 1:1 coaching with Meleah.
Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn't feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we're doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today's new episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
I've seen this happen a lot throughout my years in business.People do something proactive; they pull in a lot of interest to their offer, they'll end up landing a bunch of clients and at that point, they get really busy and very productive, they have a lot of sales and income come in.But while they're focused on those current customers and serving people, they stop doing what they did to attract those people. Then what happens is they serve, and they close out, they finish those transactions and there's no one left to serve. They have to start all over again at the bottom.So how can you get rid of those peaks and valleys?Don't stop doing what you did to attract people in the first place, and you'll keep attracting new people in. Start every day at zero, as if you have zero clients. Put your best foot out there, put in the effort, stay consistent, keep attracting new people in, and then you'll never run out on the back end. Resources:Adaptive Inner Circle - The Adaptive Inner Circle with Paul & Melissa Pruitt is an epic 12-month experience for online business owners, coaches, course creators, and membership site owners who aspire to create financial freedom and a lifestyle they want for themselves and their family and also create a positive impact in their community and the world.Adaptive Marketing Program - Adaptive Marketing Program is an exclusive opportunity for online business owners, coaches, course creators, and membership site owners to play bigger and bolder in their business and explode their bank account with more clients!For a list of our resources & recommendations visit: https://onlinemarketingpodcast.com/learn-with-paul-melissa/Connect with us on social!Instagram: @realpaulpruitt & @realmelissapruittFacebook: @realpaulpruitt & @realmelissapruitt
Key Topics: Unhealthy Patterns, Nice Guy, Unavailable Partners, Anxious Attachment, People Pleasing, Low Self-Esteem Sven Loss is a relationship expert and helps people break free from their good guy & good girl conditioning. Having struggled immensely with relationships himself and coming from a background of unhealthy relationships he set out to understand himself and the dynamics he was caught in. Today he helps people to change their way of relating to themselves and others in order to create healthy and fulfilling relationships. He has grown a substantial following on tiktok and instagram through his educational yet informative content on relationship dynamics and has already been able to impact thousands of peoples' lives. Key topics include: ⭐️ The Cost Of Suppressing Anger And Why We Need To Express It In A Healthy Way ⭐️ How Our Upbringing Shapes The Patterns We Have In Our Relationships ⭐️ Getting The Love That We Want By Changing Our Unhealthy Patterns ⭐️ Why We Attract Unavailable Partners And How to Find Healthy Relationships ⭐️ Why Being The Nice Guy Makes You Dependent And Unfulfilled ⭐️ How We Unconsciously Lie And Manipulate Our Partners In Relationships ⭐️ Low Self-Esteem And How It Attracts Controlling And Abusive Partners ⭐️ The Stories We Tell Ourselves And How They Shape Our Reality ⭐️ The Importance Of Addressing And Healing Our Childhood Wounds ⭐️ How We Can Overcome Anxious Attachment In Relationships Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Sven: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sven_loss Website: svenloss.com
Welcome back to part 2 of this FIREEEEE conversation with the amazingggg psychotherapist and best selling author, Lori Gottlieb. And she's not holding back as we talk more about how to stop dating the wrong men and: Why you need to understand the difference between compatibility and having things in common How the misconstrued idea of feminism is setting women up for failed relationships How dating changes for women as we age What green flags and red flags to look for when learning about someone new And so much more!! Trust me, homie, you don't want to miss out on the final part of this convo with Lori!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa Go to https://lumen.me and use code NYBBS to get $50 off your Lumen. Head to https://www.beamminerals.com and enter code “NYBBS” at checkout for 20% off your first order Use the promo code WOMANOFIMPACT at checkout to save 20% on your annual license, Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is going to open your frikin' eyes to the dating and relationship mistakes that keep attracting the wrong type of men, and what you can do to fix your approach and find someone actually sincerely interested and good for you! Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Lori Gottlieb – she's a psychotherapist, NYT best selling author, and podcast host and she is SPILLING THE TEA on all things DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, including: - Why you can't find genuine men and what you need to do to find a real “love match” instead - How online dating & the paradox of choice is actually keeping you single - Why you SHOULD have high standards, but not about what you THINK - The differences in how men and women approach dating, relationships, and marriage & how that causes problems down the line - Why it's actually best that all sales at the “husband store” are FINAL - And sooooo much more relationship wisdom!! Seriously guys, this woman has sooooo much wisdom into life and relationships and what you need to do to avoid ingenuine a-holes and pivot your life and have an amazing, healthy relationship! Listen close cause there's SO much to learn, and this is one you're gonna want to gossip with your homies about! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa Go to https://lumen.me and use code NYBBS to get $50 off your Lumen. Head to https://www.beamminerals.com and enter code “NYBBS” at checkout for 20% off your first order Use the promo code WOMANOFIMPACT at checkout to save 20% on your annual license, Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Lisa Bilyeu is the co-founder of Impact Theory and host of Women of Impact. Today on the show we discuss: why Lisa thinks 90% of relationships fail, how to develop the confidence to walk away from a relationship that's not serving you, what types of people are magnets for toxic partners, how Lisa and Tom prioritize their relationship when busy, how to develop radical trust with your partner, hard relationship truths you need to hear and much more. Special thanks to this episodes sponsor: BiOptimizers/Magnesium Breakthrough: Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/doug and use the code DOUG10 to save 10 percent when you try Magnesium Breakthrough. ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you've consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When you're dating and putting yourself out there, you want to meet a normal guy, that will treat you well, does what he says he's going to do, and actually put in a decent level of effort to pursue you. You don't need him to do everything but you do need him to show up. And if you've been dating for a bit and aren't attracting quality men, I want to invite you to go inwards and see what's actually going on and why you're attracting deadbeats. (I promise you, it has nothing to do with the city you live in!) On this episode, you'll learn: How do you know you're attracting emotionally unavailable men Three reasons why you're attracting your emotionally available men Tangible tools and prompts to help you shift your mindset and energy to start attracting quality men, right now. Featured on the podcast: JOIN LET LOVE IN FREE CHALLENGE: https://www.sythelovecoach.com/let-love-in-challenge FREE 5 MIN DATING STYLE QUIZ: https://www.sythelovecoach.com WORK WITH ME: https://syeda-neary.mykajabi.com/work-with-me SY THE LOVE COACH ON TIK-TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoachhttps://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoach SY THE LOVE COACH ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sythelovecoach/
Are you tired of attracting the wrong people in your life, no matter how much you try to change your circumstances? You're not alone. In this episode, I help you dive deeper into the reasons behind this and offer insights on how to break the cycle. From recognizing awareness to knowing your own worth to setting healthy boundaries, I help you uncover the steps to stop attracting the wrong people and to start paving the path toward welcoming healthier connections. Join me, Certified Life Coach, Hannah Coles as I help you navigate this complex topic and empower you to create the fulfilling connections you deserve.
We got a new girl on our roster and she's feeding us pasta, lobster and TEA! This week we're joined by Grammy nominated recording artist Kaliii to talk what it's like to date in the industry, love languages, what women really want and how to set your standards! Stream Kaliii's new single, “BOZO” out everywhere NOW! https://open.spotify.com/track/1nQAabVphQawZXSNtaFKfK?si=5660001f45c04077 To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this week's podcast episode, I address the fear many of us hold about why we attract toxic people and the real (transformative) questions we need to be asking ourselves instead. ————— 1:1 Attachment Coaching - https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2 My Secure Self E-Course - https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
How to stop attracting narcissistic people into your life. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone. Website - www.mentalhealness.net 1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Weekly Newsletter - subscribepage.io/mentalhealness Cameo Motivation - https://www.cameo.com/mentalhealness Self Love Journal - https://a.co/d/70L3zKb Remember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Thank you so much and lets HEAL together --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mentalhealness/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mentalhealness/support
This coaching call is about being in a similar pattern when it comes to dating and relationships. Today's caller, Trish, longs for a committed relationship but doesn't understand why she has a pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable people. She asks for guidance on how to choose the right person. [For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode420]. So many of our relationship challenges come from our parental issues from our childhood. Not all of them, but a lot of them. As children, we want to be loved, feel safe, and validated by our parents. When we have a parent whom we don't get everything we want, or need from, we settle for the best they can do, even though it's not fully what we want. We often end up not being empowered in relationships. Because there's still that little inner child part of us who believes that we should just take what we can get. But, every soul seeks to evolve. Evolution is moving away from judgment, away from limiting beliefs, and into love. The only way we can move away from judgment and limiting beliefs is to have them right in our face so that they're painful enough for us to look at. Isn't life wonderful the way it works? So often the relationships we draw in are triggers and activators to look at the stuff from our childhood that we haven't fully healed. Consider/Ask Yourself: Are you someone who maybe has been married or has been in many relationships and you find yourself with the same outcome? Did you grow up feeling like you wanted more from both or one of your parents and you never really got everything you wanted? Are you grieving a recent breakup and blaming yourself or wondering what you did wrong? Are you constantly working on yourself to try to attract a better relationship? Trish's Question: Trish is frustrated that she chooses men who are emotionally unavailable or incapable of choosing or loving her. Trish's Key Insights and Ahas: She's done personal development work. Her parents divorced when she was one year old. She didn't feel her father's love. She didn't spend time with her father. She knows she has a lot to offer a partner. The men she chooses don't recognize her value. She can be guarded in relationships. She longs for a committed relationship. She doesn't date a lot. She doesn't want to be alone. She doesn't show up empowered in the early stages of intimate relationships. She doesn't want to get hurt. She ignores red or yellow flags early in relationships. In her last relationship, she believed their core values were aligned. She knows it is not her job to be a man's savior. How to Get Over It and On With It: Drop the belief that she has a bad picker. Have clear conversations about what she wants early in a relationship. Empower herself by not being a victim of her circumstances. Give herself the time and space to heal. Takeaway: What choices and what states of being can you embody to step into empowerment? Sponsor: Caraway Cookware — Caraway products are toxicity-free, beautiful, and easy to clean and use. The cookware and bakeware sets have a chemical-free slick coating. Go to CarawayHome.com/Overit to take advantage of the limited-time offer of 10% off on your next purchase or by using the promo code OVERIT at checkout. Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com Jill@ChristineHassler.com — For information on any of my services Get on the Waitlist to be coached on the show. Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.
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