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Hosts Grace and Lizzie invite you into the conversations they're having at home, whether about queer newlywed life, that true crime case they can't stop thinking about, or what's for dinner this week. New episodes every Monday.

Grace & Elizabeth Baldridge


    • Jan 13, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 38m AVG DURATION
    • 188 EPISODES

    5 from 331 ratings Listeners of Under Our Roof that love the show mention: lizzie, queer person, queer woman, transphobia, wedding video, queer content, roof, lizzy, queer people, queerness, give me hope, lesbian, much hope, grace, cozy, podcast feels, role models, wholesome, tiktok, representation.


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    The Under Our Roof podcast is an absolute gem that I stumbled upon and quickly fell in love with. It offers a genuine peek into the lives of the hosts, Grace and Lizzie, and their adorable pets Bean and Bunny. Listening to this podcast feels like you're sitting down with close friends, having a heartfelt conversation or simply hanging out. The space they create is special and comforting, making you feel like you're part of their lives in a meaningful way.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the feeling of community it fosters. Many listeners describe it as being part of a secret club or having a cozy visit with dear friends. The hosts cover a range of topics, from music to recipes to navigating life as queer individuals. They offer advice, share personal experiences, and create a warm atmosphere that makes you feel seen, heard, and understood. The humor and banter between Grace and Lizzie is delightful, often causing laughter throughout the episodes.

    Another notable aspect is the queer affirming content that this podcast provides. It is not only a source of comfort for LGBTQ+ individuals but also educates those who may not be familiar with queer experiences. Grace and Lizzie's willingness to share their journey as queer women living in LA allows listeners to connect on a deeper level and find hope for their own queer futures.

    While it's challenging to find any negatives about this podcast, one minor drawback may be its occasional lack of structure. Some episodes flow more freely without distinct segments or clear direction. However, this can also add to the overall charm and authenticity of the conversations.

    In conclusion, The Under Our Roof podcast is an absolute delight to listen to. It offers warmth, comfort, laughter, and valuable insights into the lives of two incredible individuals. Whether you're looking for entertainment or seeking connection as an LGBTQ+ person or ally, this podcast delivers on all fronts. Listening to Grace and Lizzie feels like finding a treasured secret and being part of a loving community.



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    Latest episodes from Under Our Roof

    We Evacuated Our Roof

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 21:43


    We are safe but devastated at the destruction from the LA Wildfires. In this episode, we share a family update and some resources to help the community. Stay safe everyone. We love you. Resources: Help Black families displaced by the Eaton fireLA mutual aidLA Fire Department FundWorld Central Kitchen (providing meals)

    #186: Tales from the Trenches

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 26:31


    We miss the houseguests so much. We never meant to take weeks off, and we appreciate your patience and support. Here's a little bit about how we've been. 

    #184: Needlepoint Brat Summer

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 30:29


    After missing a couple of weeks, Grace and Lizzie get a chance to update the houseguests on their latest parenting milestones, hobbies, and what kind of brat summer they are having.

    #184: House Updates, Realistic Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 39:40


    It's been almost a year since we switched roofs! To reflect on one year in the new house, Grace and Lizzie talk about the updates they've made and the projects they are looking forward to next. Here's Grace's code for mouth tape: https://www.dryftsleep.com/NIGHTACHES

    #183: Pride Month Guilty Pleasures

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 35:59


    We can all recognize the issues with pandering to the gay community, but for a bit of fun, Grace and Lizzie share their guilty pleasures of pride month. From gay whales to corporate logos, the hosts discuss their musings.

    #182: End of Maternity Leave Blues

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 49:32


    Lizzie is going back to work! The hosts catch up on that looming fact and their latest life updates, and Lizzie shares a list of things she didn't expect about becoming a mom. 

    #181 Everybody Loves Hodi

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 34:18


    This week, Grace and Lizzie are joined by Grace's Mom (Hodi) as a special guest! The three talk about the circumstances that lead to Hodi moving across the country--and across the street from The Roof. Grace's Mom shares some inspiring words about making big, spontaneous changes in life. 

    #180: We Are So (Sort of) Back

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 18:31


    After an unexpected hiatus, Grace and Lizzie share some updates on life with a 5 month old, baby sleep woes, and their recent adventures furnishing a house on a budget for Grace's mom to live in and be Frances's nanny. 

    #179: Song Lyrics Reading Comprehension

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 33:24


    This chatty episode goes deep on what Grace and Lizzie think about interpreting song lyrics differently from the way they were intended. Tune in for their spicy and sassy takes.As Grace insisted, here is a link to Chappell Roan's new single, Good Luck, Babe.Here is a link to Operation Olive Branch, a grassroots movement to support and amplify aid requests to Palestinian families. 

    #178: A Little Life Update (Clickbait but also we really do have an update)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024 10:58


    Recorded after a long day of travel, Grace and Lizzie give a quick update of an exciting development in their lives! UOR will be back next week with a full episode. 

    #177: A Loopy Book Report

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 39:32


    In the midst of a sleep regression, Grace interviews Lizzie about her reading journey while nursing Frances so far.

    #176: Yapping About Online Displays of Affection

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 39:44


    In this first “real” episode back in a few weeks, Grace and Lizzie yap about their thoughts on public gushing on the internet—and maybe change their opinions partway through.

    #175: Lizzie's Declassified Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 37:25


    By listener request, this is a solo episode of Lizzie's “declassified guide” to law school and beyond. 

    #174: Will We Be Strict Parents?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 47:57


    Two months into parenthood, Grace and Lizzie are asking the question: will they be strict with Frances? Listen in for their thoughts on tattoos, the drinking age, curfews, and more. 

    #173: What Do I Do All Day With A Baby?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 52:27


    In this solo audio message from Lizzie, she shares what it's actually like hanging with a baby all day and what you *need* and don't need in terms of baby products. 

    #172: Who Is God's Best? (Hint: Not Us)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 57:04


    Inspired by a recent online debate, Grace and Lizzie give their (sometimes heated) take on "Side A" and "Side B" Christians. If you don't know what that means, listen in for an explanation and some updated thoughts from the hosts on queerness and religion. 

    #171: Where Were You When...?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 61:16


    Where were you when the world stopped turning? Grace and Lizzie share their memories of pivotal moments throughout their lives, on both a personal level and in global news. 

    #170: A Postpartum Fireside Chat

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 37:35


    In this solo episode, Lizzie shares more about her postpartum experience, healing, favorite products and foods, and some tips on supporting families in your life with new baby. 

    #169: Maternity Leave Content for Your Consideration

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 21:46


    This episode is all about what we've been watching, reading, and playing under our roof while on maternity leave. We'll be back next week with a longer episode! 

    #168 AMA: Will Our Child Know Veggie Tales?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 44:12


    Ask Us Anything! Grace and Lizzie answer listener questions, ranging from favorite meals lately to recent novels read to more thoughts on parenthood. Thanks to all who submitted questions! 

    #167: Sleepy Thoughts on Parenthood So Far

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 45:56


    In the last of this three-part series relating to Frances's birth, Grace and Lizzie share some sleepy ramblings on what parenthood and the newborn stage has been like for them so far.

    #166: Franny Ganache Eats Jaundice for Lunch

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2024 30:06


    This week, Grace and Lizzie are back with part two of the story of the first week of Frances's life. They share the saga of her NICU stay and some new nicknames they are calling her. 

    #165: HAPPY BIRTHDAY FRANCES!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 56:44


    Under Our Roof's permanent houseguest is here! Grace and Lizzie share a big life update with the birth of their daughter, including the labor and delivery story.

    #164: Grace Needs to Talk to You About Chyna

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2023 54:20


    Welcome to the Under Our Roof hyperfixation episode! Grace and Lizzie chat about recent documentaries they've watched, their interests in remote islands, and most importantly, the Ninth Wonder of the World, Chyna. Enjoy (and Merry Christmas!)

    #163: Is Reading Gay?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 29:08


    In this quick & cozy episode, the hosts talk about their experiences with queer spaces and read listeners' submissions about their favorite queer community events and places (whether real or dreamed-of).Link to Lizzie's InstagramLink to the Semler Discord

    #162: Babyless Bucket List

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 40:00


    We are officially on baby watch!! Grace and Lizzie talk about the things they're excited to do in the days they have left as a family of 4 (counting Bean and Bunny of course).

    #161: An Unexpected 1-Week Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 1:00


    Hi houseguests! All is well. We have had an unexpected (non-baby-related) emergency come up and will be back next week. Be well!

    #160: Why Did You Have a Crush on Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 43:06


    The hosts are feeling nostalgic this week, only a few weeks (or less) away from welcoming Baby Baldridge. They talk about what initially drew them to the other, the early crush days, and some fun UOR lore. 

    #159: Your Side of the Internet or Mine?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 44:05


    Grace and Lizzie are very different people and have different sides of the internet. In today's episode, they talk about what they see online and their varied internet "special interests."A few links to things discussed:Wishbone KitchenSpiderman Turn Off the Dark VideoArticle About the Liver King

    #158: There's No Crying At A Baby Shower

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 36:32


    Grace and Lizzie are in full baby mode! On this week's episode, they talk about planning a baby shower and their best party tips in general. 

    #157: What If Jesus Was Criss Angel?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 33:25


    Lizzie and Grace are only a few weeks out from parenthood! In this first episode back after Grace's tour, they talk about all the preparations they are doing, plus some more thoughts about raising kids with or without religion. 

    #156: Lizzie's Pregnancy Ramblings

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 44:02


    In this solo episode, join Lizzie on a journey through her notes app list on random observations about pregnancy. Both physically and mentally, pregnancy has been a wild ride. 

    #155: Fourth Annual Scare-A-Thon

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 38:50


    What scared you as a kid? That's the question Grace and Lizzie asked listeners for this year's scare-a-thon. The hosts deliver one of their favorite episodes of the year with a bit of a twist.

    #154 What's In A Name?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 44:11


    Lately the conversation under our roof has been a lot about NAMES! Grace and Lizzie are deciding on a baby name, and that has also invited a lot of discussions about the meaning and significance of names more broadly. Listeners wrote in to share whether they identify with the name their parents gave them, and made guesses about what the permanent houseguest will be called.

    #153: Night Aches Listening Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 32:29


    This episode gives a deep dive on the making of Semler's latest musical project, NIGHT ACHES. Lizzie interviews Grace on the stories behind the songs, inspiration for the project, and insomnia. The hosts also talk about Grace's upcoming tour (tickets linked here!) and a new song releasing on October 11.

    #152: The Fertility Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 33:46


    Come along as Lizzie takes you through her fertility journey and gives the ins and outs of the fertility process. She covers all the ABCs and basics, like IUI, IVF, using donor genetic material, and the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments. 

    #151: A Preview of Coming Attractions

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 11:38


    Grace and Lizzie say hi for a quick catch up and a preview of what houseguests can expect in the week to come. 

    #150: The House Episode!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2023 43:24


    After several episodes talking about house hunting, and one or two referencing "switching roofs," Grace and Lizzie are finally sharing all the details of their house hunt and purchase this summer. Here's to an exciting new chapter of cozy queer chaos.

    #149: Sarah Waterbottle: A Queer Conspiracy Theory

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 36:24


    Hello from Mexico! Grace and Lizzie are recording live from their babymoon, and as a treat, they share a bit about a pattern they noticed that somewhat inspired the creation of the Under Our Roof. 

    #148: Grace is Going Solo

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 22:40


    This week it's Grace's turn on the mic! Lizzie is at a bachelorette party and Grace gives listeners a special treat of a surprise solo episode. Buy tickets to Grace's October shows here!

    #147: We Changed Roofs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 17:16


    Guess what! Under Our Roof is now coming to you from under a brand new roof. Well, new to us. This is just a short catch up episode from Lizzie in the midst of the current chaos. More soon! Thanks for your patience!

    #146: Tips from Your Travel Weary Hosts

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 21:41


    Fresh off their two week vacation, Grace and Lizzie share their best tips for traveling smoothly and enjoying the ride.

    #145 The Finland Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 21:29


    Greetings from beautiful Finland! Grace and Lizzie are here for the wedding of their friends Miki and Hope. They share a travel update and answer some more listener-submitted baby questions. 

    #144: Tales from Grace's Tattoo Artist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2023 34:27


    Please welcome a guest to the podcast this week, Jersh Tattoos! Grace's tattoo artist Jersh (Josh) shares his wisdom on tattoo designs, placement, and decisions, and Grace and Josh talk about Grace's tattoo journey over the years. 

    #143: Pregnancy and Fertility Solo Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2023 36:46


    Thank you for all the kind words and support on our announcement last week! In this episode, Lizzie answers listener questions about pregnancy so far and the fertility journey. 

    #142: We're Getting A Permanent Houseguest

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2023 39:48


    Surprise! Grace and Lizzie have been keeping a tiny secret for the last few months—they will be adding a new member to their family later this year! In this episode, the hosts share their thoughts on the parenthood journey so far and their trepidations about opening up their news to a wider audience.Thank you everyone for all the kind words and support so far!

    #141 Our Deep Dive Into the Titanic Submersible Disaster

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 54:00


    In all honesty, the biggest conversation happening Under Our Roof in the past week has been the missing (and then discovered) Titan submersible and Titanic tourism more broadly. In this episode, Grace interviews Lizzie about this special interest, and Lizzie shares her thoughts on why it's natural that humans want to see the Titanic.Here is a link to the James Cameron video we shared.Here is a link to the billionaire math breakdown. 

    #140 Lizzie's Gay Birthday

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023 5:30


    Hello Houseguests! No full episode this week, but we'll be back next week. Happy Juneteenth. 

    #139: Dissecting The Ultimatum - Queer Season

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 48:13


    If you're like Grace and Lizzie and what feels like every queer person they know, you've recently watched the queer season of Netflix's Ultimatum. The hosts break down the season, their thoughts, and what they would change about the host and format of the show.

    #138: A (Mini) State of the Pride Union

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023 13:58


    It's Pride weekend in West Hollywood! Grace and Lizzie give a mini update on their Pride preparations and share some abridged thoughts on the queer season of Ultimatum (more to come soon). 

    #137: Queer-Coded Childhood Faves

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 43:01


    Take a trip down memory lane with UOR. In honor of the Little Mermaid remake coming out, Grace and Lizzie go through the Disney movies from their childhood and discuss how queer-coded (or not) they are.  Let us know your thoughts!

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