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When relationships don't work, there is often a sense of loss and heartache. Being single and longing for connection may mean you're willing to compromise your standards in order to deal with loneliness or fulfill your need for intimacy. Our hookup culture promotes a consumer mindset, detached from emotion, that encourages you to get your needs met without considering spiritual, intellectual or emotional compatibility. But that can lead to unwise dating decisions and further pain. Shay and John share their own personal stories of painful breakups and the time it takes to heal when relationships don't work out. They offer wisdom and guidance when it comes to healing from divorce, how to know when you're ready to date again, choosing wisely when it comes to finding a spouse and readiness for marriage. If you are single and seeking companionship, or mending a broken heart after a breakup or divorce, this episode will challenge you to consider the importance of not jumping too quickly into a relationship. Singleness is a good thing; a time for personal growth and reflection, and an opportunity to prepare your heart for whatever the future holds. American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus by Lisa Wade If you liked this episode, text it to a friend! And please consider rating WYITW on your podcast player and leave the team a review. You can subscribe to our newsletter at withyouintheweeds.com and follow us on Instagram @withyouintheweeds!
在 YouTube 上看這一集:https://youtu.be/h3p0tObkn98 約炮暈船很遜?女生「天生」就比較難高潮?「性愛分離」是男性的獨有特質?通往女人心的是陰道?(順便幫張愛玲洗白一下,他真的沒有贊同這句話啦⋯⋯) 這一集,我想跟大家介紹一些非常有趣的研究,這些研究圍繞著人類的性行為,這個看起來最趨近原始慾望和生物本能、但其實超級「社會建構」的活動。 這些研究都在研究一種看起來很新、但其實也沒那麼新的性活動:#約炮。跟陌生人發生關係這件事情,其實不是什麼新聞,美國 1960 年代之後就開始吹起 casual sex 的風潮,台灣網路和家用電腦普及之後,2000 年代初期的 #尋夢園聊天室,也比 tinder 世代早了十幾年。 但這些研究覺得有些新的東西正在發生,因為打炮這件事情,本來就牽涉一大堆精細複雜的文化規範。是的,學者們發現的,是約炮這個活動的文化,出現了一些新的發展方向,而這個發展方向,讓不少美國大學生在其中受到傷害。 而且,這些研究也發現,約炮好像未必像它在各種文化渠道中展現的那樣解放,因為很多在 #異性戀 關係中存在的 #性取悅 的分工不平等,在約炮中並沒啥兩樣,有時甚至還更惡化。 一起來聽聽這些研究在說些什麼吧! 以下是這集提到的一些研究: 1. Wade, Lisa. 2017. American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. 2. Bogle, Kathleen. 2008. Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus. 3. Paula England 主持的 Online College Social Life Survey: https://pages.nyu.edu/ocsls/2010/ 4. England 等人用上述資料發在 ASR 的論文:Armstrong et al. 2012. Accounting for Women's Orgasm and Sexual Enjoyment in College Hookups and Relationships. American Sociological Review 77(3): 435-462. 5. Frederick et al. 2018. Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a U.S. National Sample. Arch Sex Behav 47(1):273-288. 6. Lin, Ken-Hou, and Jennifer Lundquist. “Mate Selection in Cyberspace: The Intersection of Race, Gender, and Education.” American Journal of Sociology 119(1): 183-215.
Hookup culture og os derhjemmeHvorfor er det åbenbart en objektiv sandhed blandt mænd, at de har større lyst til sex end kvinder? Det spørgsmål bad to lyttere om at få taget op ved at skrive til livstykker@gmail.com. Det blev startskuddet til en samtale der bevæger sig rundt i kulturhistorien, at kvinder tænder på flere formerfor seksuel stimuli end mænd og den nye hook-up culture, som florerer blandt især amerikanske collegestuderende, og som beskrives i den amerikanske sociolog Lisa Wades https://liberalarts.tulane.edu/departments/sociology/people/lisa-wade bog "American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus" https://www.saxo.com/dk/american-hookup_lisa-wade_paperback_9780393355536Kirsten henviser til en artikel i Information "Kvinder tænder på mere, end de tror" https://www.information.dk/moti/2009/05/kvinder-taender-paa-mere-tror og Liselotte til den jødiske filosof Martin Bubers bog "Jeg og du" https://www.saxo.com/dk/jeg-og-du_martin-buber_haeftet_9788741228198Find os også på www.livstykker.dk
When did college “hookup culture” actually begin? Who is it helping, and who is it hurting? And what can people today do to navigate hookup culture and casual sex in healthy ways? For the answers to these questions, I spoke with Dr. Lisa Wade, an associate professor of sociology and gender and sexuality studies at Tulane University. She is also the author of the book, American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: What does the term “hookup culture” actually mean? When did college hookup culture first begin? Who is hookup culture helping? Who is it hurting? What does hookup culture look like for the LGBTQ+ community? How can young adults more successfully navigate hookup culture? How do you have good and healthy casual sex? How has the COVID-19 pandemic changed hookup culture? To learn more about Lisa and her work, visit her website at lisa-wade.com and check out her book, American Hookup. This podcast was made on Zencastr. Join Zencastr today and receive 40% off of their professional plan for 3 months with my exclusive discount code: sexandpsych *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
When did college “hookup culture” actually begin? Who is it helping, and who is it hurting? And what can people today do to navigate hookup culture and casual sex in healthy ways? For the answers to these questions, I spoke with Dr. Lisa Wade, an associate professor of sociology and gender and sexuality studies at Tulane University. She is also author of the book, American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: -What does the term “hookup culture” actually mean? -When did college hookup culture first begin? -Who is hookup culture helping? Who is it hurting? -What does hookup culture look like for the LGBTQ+ community? -How can young adults more successfully navigate hookup culture? -How do you have good and healthy casual sex? -How has the COVID-19 pandemic changed hookup culture? To learn more about Lisa and her work, visit her website at lisa-wade.com and check out her book, American Hookup. Follow Dr. Lehmiller on Twitter @JustinLehmiller or Instagram @JustinJLehmiller. To stay up-to-date on the latest sex research and tips, check out https://sexandpsychology.com This podcast was made on Zencastr. Join Zencastr today and receive 40% off of their professional plan for 3 months with my exclusive discount code: sexandpsych
Grandma Gail and Kim (@kimmurstein) talk about their viral TikTok video, the “type” of guys and girls you might find yourself always dating from the jock to the hipster to the one who’s “too nice”. They also discuss the toxicity of hookup culture as described in sociologist Lisa Wade’s book “American Hookup: The New Culture … Excuse My Grandma as we Analyze Your Dating ‘Type' & Hookup Culture Read More »
Grandma Gail and Kim (@kimmurstein) talk about their viral TikTok video, the “type” of guys and girls you might find yourself always dating from the jock to the hipster to the one who’s “too nice”. They also discuss the toxicity of hookup culture as described in sociologist Lisa Wade’s book “American Hookup: The New Culture … Excuse My Grandma as we Analyze Your Dating ‘Type' & Hookup Culture Read More »
Dr. Lisa Wade is the leading researcher on college hookup culture and the author of American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. In this episode, Wade shares her latest research on how the pandemic has affected hooking up. Other topics discussed include the history of casual sex in the United States, Greek life and structures of power on campus, how the gender binary manifests within hookup culture, the differences between white heterosexual and queer and BIPOC hookup cultures, and suggestions on how to have more respectful and pleasurable hookups.
The scene is so common it’s almost cliche: two beautiful young people meet at a rowdy college party and drunkenly fall into bed together. American pop culture is fascinated by college hookups, but is casual sex really as widespread as it seems? Professor Lisa Wade breaks down who participates in hookup culture, what they get out of it, and as more students speak up about the problem of on-campus sexual assault, what role universities have to play in shaping their sexual cultures. For more on this topic Check out her book, American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus Read her opinion pieces in The Guardian, Time, and The Conversation
This is the first short podblast episode in a special new Postmodern Realities Podcast 2020 COVID-19 quarantine series. On this episode, JOURNAL Author Ellen Mary Dykas talks about biblically faithful sexuality during the pandemic.We'd also like to invite you to subscribe to the Journal. To subscribe to the Journal, please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/crj-subscription/When you to subscribe to the Journal, you join the team of print subscribers whose paid subscriptions help provide the resources at equip.org that minister to people worldwide. These resources include our free online-exclusive articles, such as this review, as well as our free Postmodern Realities podcast.Another way you can support keeping our resources free is by leaving us a tip. A tip is just a small amount, like $3 or $5, which is the cost for some of a latte, lunch out, or coffee drink. To leave a tip, click here. https://www.equip.org/product/pmr-jnl-tip/Other articles and Postmodern Realities podcasts featuring this author:Episode 072: Sexual Sanity for Women with Ellen DykasSexual Sanity for Women in a World Gone MadEpisode 084: Sexuality & Singles Single in Christ and a Sexual BeingEpisode 091: Masturbation and the Christian “Solo Sex and the Christian”Episode 047: Book Review of American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on CampusThe (Casual) Sexual RevolutionEpisode 020: Should We Continue to Use the Term Sexual Purity?Should We Continue to Use the Term Sexual Purity?Episode 007: Rape and Sexual Violence on the College Campus Rape and Sexual Violence on CampusDefending the Biblical View of SexualityA Reconsideration of Romantic Love BFFs (Best Friends First): Honoring God in Dating and RomanceSex, Lies, and Christianity: Reclaiming Biblical Sexuality The Normalization of Premarital Sex: Satan's Master Stroke?Don't miss an episode; please subscribe to the Postmodern Realities podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please help spread the word about Postmodern Realities by giving us a rating and review when you subscribe to the podcast. The more ratings and reviews we have, the more new listeners can discover our content.
#019 Heather and Robyn sit down with a first year college guy to talk about hook up culture in real time. Then, after the segment, they break down hook up culture. This is the third part of the interview where they discuss the LGBTQ+ community and hookup culture.Visit our Website!American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus by Lisa WadeIt Gets Better
So Bloomberg is doing his first Democratic Debate tomorrow, will he succeed? Dave Weigel who is in Nevada and covers politics for The Washington Post gives us his take! Also, you’ve seen him on Wendy Williams and he will be on RuPaul's Dragcon in LA this May; comedian Nicky Paris joins us! As a new generation enters congress are we ready to shift our views on how we look at our politicians and their sex lives or do we have the right to expect more? Professor of Sociology and author of American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus, Lisa Wade joins for the conversation. Plus, would it bother you if you like your partner's ex? I say yes! Let's go there! FOLLOW US ON: Twitter: @Lgtshow Instagram: @lgtshow Follow Shira Lazar: Instagram: @ShiraLazar Twitter: @ShiraLazar Follow Ryan Mitchell: Instagram: @TheSlayGawd Twitter: @TheSlayGawd
Ban Conversion Therapy is the current rallying cry of the gay rights movement. Across the United States, LGBTQ activists and their allies call for the criminalization of counseling geared to helping people turn from homosexual behavior a form of counsel often labeled Conversion Therapy, and most of that counseling is provided by Christian counselors, pastors, or ministry leaders. Conversion Therapy remains poorly defined, subject to reinterpretations according to the whims of whoever criticizes it. The actual work done by counselors in this field hardly matches the definition of Conversion Therapy, yet the term, ominous and loaded with emotional baggage, helps disparage the persons to whom it is attached. The problem with Conversion Therapy, then, is the way it is presented sometimes inaccurately sometimes dishonestly and the way it is practiced. Like other forms of counseling, some of its practitioners have errored seriously, but that hardly calls for an end to the practice itself. Ultimately, the outcome of efforts to ban Conversion Therapy will have enormous ramifications for freedom of religion and the churchs ability to continue preaching and teaching the full counsel of God in Scripture. For this reason, believers should closely watch, and act on, efforts to criminalize Conversion Therapy. This Postmodern Realities episode is a conversation with JOURNAL author Joe Dallas about Volume 42, Number 2 issue article Whats is the Problem with Conversion Therapy? We would also like to invite you to subscribe to the JOURNAL . To subscribe to the JOURNAL, please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/crj-subscription/ When you to subscribe to the JOURNAL ,you join the team of print subscribers whose paid subscriptions help provide the resources at equip.org that minister to people worldwide. These resources include our free online exclusive articles, such as this review, as well as our free Postmodern Realities podcast. To partner with us and help us to continue to create free online exclusive content, we are offering a special promotion for two books by Joe Dallas. For your gift of any amount, you can receive either Speaking of Homosexuality or When Homosexuality Hits Home. To partner with us, click here. https://www.equip.org/product/premium-joe-dallas-books/ Other articles and Postmodern Realities podcasts featuring this author: at equip.org Episode 103 Homosexuality and Modern Ministry: Part Two Part Two: Identity, Terminology, and the Revoice Conference Part one of this two part series: Homosexuality and Modern Ministry: Examining Old Approaches and Assessing New Ones Part One: A History of Missions and Missteps Episode 101 Homosexuality and Modern Ministry: Part One Wrestling With The Gay Christian Label The Casual Sexual Revolution Book Review of: American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus Boy Erased Movie Review When Vague Is in Vogue: A New but Not Improved Approach to Homosexuality Is Growing among Evangelicals Episode 065: Love, Simon Film Review When Hearts Are Young and Gay with Joe Dallas The Bully Pulpit: When Gay Teens Commit Suicide, Are Preachers to Blame? Is Gay Christian an Acceptable Identity? Of Bathroom Bills and Basic Beliefs The Transsexual Dilemma Hath God Said? Assessing the Churchs Change of Heart about Homosexuality When Someone You Love Says, I am Gay
In this episode, guest hosts Amber Powell and Allison Nobles talk to Associate Professor of Sociology at Occidental College Lisa Wade about her book American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. The conversation focuses on interrogating what ‘hookup culture’ really is— and how college students make sense of themselves and their positions within […]
Thanks to everything from pop culture to college propaganda when students arrive on campuses today they expect with varying levels of inclination and trepidation to have a really good time. Many assume theyll encounter, as one student featured in The American Hookup put it apprehensively, a big four year orgy. Like most people I knew, she wrote, I believed that college was a wild, sexual party scene, and that to fit in, you had to be into alcohol, weed, and sex. Its taken for granted today that college is supposed to be fun and that sex is part of why. The best years of your life, is how another student put it. Fun takes priority over sleep and rest, she insisted, forgetting to mention studying altogether. Its an odd way to think about an institution dedicated to occupational training, if you think about. How did college become fun? And how did casual sex, of all things, become synonymous with enjoying ones higher education? American Hookup The New Culture of Sex on Campus by Lisa Wade This JOURNAL author conversation is a discussion of the book review Joe Dallas wrote about American Hookup The New Culture of Sex on Campus by Lisa Wade. Joe answers questions including What is the goal of the hook up culture specifically on the college campus? What does the author say about the hook up culture promoting rape culture on campus and a loss of intimacy? How is the hook up culture is institutionalized on the college campus according to the author? Secularists say that the Christian sexual ethic is narrow, limiting, and stifles freedom of sexual expression. How does a Christian sexual ethic differ from the hook up culture? Many Christian parents are about to send a child to college for the first time, what word of encouragement can you give them to prepare their kids to not succumb to the on campus hookup culture?
Book Review of "American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus" (Volume 40 #3, 2017) with Joe Dallas