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After a long wait, we're finally back with another Fear & There and Friends edition, covering one of our favorite horror-comedies. Tune in if you're into all that macho stuff—what are you, a sociology major?

Bible Studies for Life Week of December 18 2022. Love in Place of Fear: There is no room for fear when God's love is in us. Passage is 1 John 3:13-18; 4:14-18.

Zach is back! Join us for a very special episode of Fear & There, where we discuss the 2021 legacy sequel Candyman.

Fear is a natural and biological response to stressful events. Contrary to popular notion, feeling afraid can be very helpful. It can protect us from danger and ensure our survival. However, we sometimes fall into the rabbit hole of fixating on our unhealthy fears. It reels us into a dark space and hinders us from seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. In this episode, Katie Silcox talks about the relevance of fear in our lives and its potential to help us with our growth. She also discusses our obsession with the trauma vortex and how it hinders us from moving into the healing vortex, where safety and security are present. Finally, she shares her thoughts about toxic positivity and how it differs from authentic love and light. If you are on a spiritual journey to eliminate fear and trauma in your life, this episode is for you!This episode is brought to you by: www.biomebreakthrough.com/radicallyloved Use promo code: radicallyloved10 to get 10% off! Auratewww.AurateNewYork.com/lovedFor 20% off your first Aurate purchase! Use promo code: lovedJoin Katie's Shakti School Here: https://programs.theshaktischool.com/courses/2022-ayurvedic-wellness-coach-training?ref=6be480Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:1.Understand the importance of fear,2.Discover why irresponsible consumption of mass media promotes fear.3.Learn how you can enter the vortex of healing.Resources●Shakti School●Connect with Katie: Facebook | Instagram | Pinterest●Grab a copy of You Are Radically Loved●Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies on the Radically Loved website!●FREE workbook! Apply the lessons you learn from this episode as you listen! Sign up at RadicallyLoved.com, and I'll send it right away!Episode HighlightsThe Importance of Fear●There is no concept of good or bad in the tantric cosmology of reality. There are only useful and unuseful ways toward our goals.●We define our goals in life.●Not all fears are unhealthy. Fear is a part of our physiology and has a purpose. ●Since yoga and meditation did not get to the roots of her fears, Katie spent five years understanding how the nervous system functions and unraveling trauma from it. The Trauma and Healing Vortex●The trauma vortex reels you into a dark space when you are about to see the light.●The healing vortex allows us to feel safe and at ease. It happens when the body receives information through the 16 proprioceptive senses. ●Mass media keeps us in the trauma vortex. It shuts down our prefrontal cortex, preventing us from taking in new information. ●Feed yourself information that conveys truth. Fear Porn●Having an unhealthy relationship with our phones leads us to live in a state of fear. ●We sometimes try to outdo the tragic situation of another person. Rosie calls this “tragedy porn.” ●Mass media made us desensitized and overstimulated in all facets of our lives. Satiate Your Ancestors ●Satiate yourself by satiating your ancestors. ●Our circumstances are not unique to us. It's a seven-generation experience that wasn't realized. Listen to the full episode to hear how this was confirmed by a mice experiment! ●We live in a time of abundance, yet we still carry the original trauma of our ancestors. ●Focusing on what's wrong around us is embedded deeper into our neurophysiology, and it rewires our ancient trauma.●We are hyper-aware of society's problems because of mass media. But it has also hyperpolarized us to the point where we're afraid of speaking. Othering●Othering is the first sign that you entered the trauma vortex. It refers to separating yourself from others. ●Listen and sit down with people to end this destructive practice. ●The moment we commit othering, we start to build walls between ourselves and others. Toxic Positivity ●We focus on trauma rather than healing. This frame of mind was helpful to our ancestors in the wild, but it doesn't help us now.●Real love and light can hold an infinite amount of trauma. They will not repress negative emotions, but they will not linger long enough into them.●Some lash out at others or deny feeling the pain during adversities. Listen to the episode to hear how Katie compares these feelings to the eastern and western dragon!●Feel your emotions, and if it gets scary, look for a medium.●Many are not suffering from toxic positivity, but are going through an unhealthy recapitalization of an old, limited version of themselves. Digesting Your Emotional Experience ●Denying ourselves of fragility and emotions can cause disease and sickness. ●Digesting your emotions also involves its elimination. ●Avoiding information and people that disturb your mind helps prevent disease. ●People are meant to be together, not in isolation. Creating Boundaries on Mass Media●We easily get scared of things that disturb our minds. ●Decide what you want your life to be. ●If you're a lightworker, take care of what you put into your body. Look after your physical, mental, and emotional being. ●Protect the light you've been cultivating. Katie Feeling Radically Loved ●Katie feels radically loved when she feels at ease and when she could surrender to not figuring it all out. ●When you let go of your egoic willpower and let the higher matrix of support come in, you will feel loved. ●Religious people think about hell, but spiritual people have been through it. ●Love is present when you let go of your ego and step closer to God. 5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode[04:06] “There's no good or bad in the tantric cosmology of reality. There's just what's useful and what's not useful to get you towards your goal.”[13:17] “[Y]ou begin to realize that we think that we are living these individual egoic experiences, especially in the Western psychology. But what we're actually experiencing is seven generations of experience that hasn't been able to digest itself.”[22:16] “Real love and light can hold infinite amounts of trauma.”[23:02] “What we're being invited to do is hold this loving presence around whatever is arising within the chaotic wild feminine of the experience.”[37:56] “Religious people think about hell, spiritual people have been through it. When you've been through it and come out the other side and felt that love because of maybe how low you went. To be back in that state requires one thing and that is: I'm going to take one step to God.”About KatieKatie Silcox is a renowned author, teacher, and mentor to women. She wrote the New York Times bestseller, Healthy, Happy, Sexy - Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women, that teaches spiritual and practical approaches to physical, mental, and spiritual health.She is also the founder of The Shakti School. It is an online platform for women to explore their spirituality and holistic health.Apart from being a spirituality advocate, Katie is also a popular figure in the yoga community. Common Ground magazine named her one of San Francisco's Best Yoga Teachers in 2009. Origin magazine wrote in 2014 that she is one of 70 Yogis Changing the World. By 2015, Spirituality and Health magazine mentioned Katie as part of the 100 Trailblazers in Yoga and Ayurveda.You can connect with Katie through her social media channels: Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest.

Fear is a natural and biological response to stressful events. Contrary to popular notion, feeling afraid can be very helpful. It can protect us from danger and ensure our survival. However, we sometimes fall into the rabbit hole of fixating on our unhealthy fears. It reels us into a dark space and hinders us from seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. In this episode, Katie Silcox talks about the relevance of fear in our lives and its potential to help us with our growth. She also discusses our obsession with the trauma vortex and how it hinders us from moving into the healing vortex, where safety and security are present. Finally, she shares her thoughts about toxic positivity and how it differs from authentic love and light. If you are on a spiritual journey to eliminate fear and trauma in your life, this episode is for you!This episode is brought to you by: www.biomebreakthrough.com/radicallyloved Use promo code: radicallyloved10 to get 10% off! Auratewww.AurateNewYork.com/lovedFor 20% off your first Aurate purchase! Use promo code: lovedJoin Katie's Shakti School Here: https://programs.theshaktischool.com/courses/2022-ayurvedic-wellness-coach-training?ref=6be480Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:1.Understand the importance of fear,2.Discover why irresponsible consumption of mass media promotes fear.3.Learn how you can enter the vortex of healing.Resources●Shakti School●Connect with Katie: Facebook | Instagram | Pinterest●Grab a copy of You Are Radically Loved●Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies on the Radically Loved website!●FREE workbook! Apply the lessons you learn from this episode as you listen! Sign up at RadicallyLoved.com, and I'll send it right away!Episode HighlightsThe Importance of Fear●There is no concept of good or bad in the tantric cosmology of reality. There are only useful and unuseful ways toward our goals.●We define our goals in life.●Not all fears are unhealthy. Fear is a part of our physiology and has a purpose. ●Since yoga and meditation did not get to the roots of her fears, Katie spent five years understanding how the nervous system functions and unraveling trauma from it. The Trauma and Healing Vortex●The trauma vortex reels you into a dark space when you are about to see the light.●The healing vortex allows us to feel safe and at ease. It happens when the body receives information through the 16 proprioceptive senses. ●Mass media keeps us in the trauma vortex. It shuts down our prefrontal cortex, preventing us from taking in new information. ●Feed yourself information that conveys truth. Fear Porn●Having an unhealthy relationship with our phones leads us to live in a state of fear. ●We sometimes try to outdo the tragic situation of another person. Rosie calls this “tragedy porn.” ●Mass media made us desensitized and overstimulated in all facets of our lives. Satiate Your Ancestors ●Satiate yourself by satiating your ancestors. ●Our circumstances are not unique to us. It's a seven-generation experience that wasn't realized. Listen to the full episode to hear how this was confirmed by a mice experiment! ●We live in a time of abundance, yet we still carry the original trauma of our ancestors. ●Focusing on what's wrong around us is embedded deeper into our neurophysiology, and it rewires our ancient trauma.●We are hyper-aware of society's problems because of mass media. But it has also hyperpolarized us to the point where we're afraid of speaking. Othering●Othering is the first sign that you entered the trauma vortex. It refers to separating yourself from others. ●Listen and sit down with people to end this destructive practice. ●The moment we commit othering, we start to build walls between ourselves and others. Toxic Positivity ●We focus on trauma rather than healing. This frame of mind was helpful to our ancestors in the wild, but it doesn't help us now.●Real love and light can hold an infinite amount of trauma. They will not repress negative emotions, but they will not linger long enough into them.●Some lash out at others or deny feeling the pain during adversities. Listen to the episode to hear how Katie compares these feelings to the eastern and western dragon!●Feel your emotions, and if it gets scary, look for a medium.●Many are not suffering from toxic positivity, but are going through an unhealthy recapitalization of an old, limited version of themselves. Digesting Your Emotional Experience ●Denying ourselves of fragility and emotions can cause disease and sickness. ●Digesting your emotions also involves its elimination. ●Avoiding information and people that disturb your mind helps prevent disease. ●People are meant to be together, not in isolation. Creating Boundaries on Mass Media●We easily get scared of things that disturb our minds. ●Decide what you want your life to be. ●If you're a lightworker, take care of what you put into your body. Look after your physical, mental, and emotional being. ●Protect the light you've been cultivating. Katie Feeling Radically Loved ●Katie feels radically loved when she feels at ease and when she could surrender to not figuring it all out. ●When you let go of your egoic willpower and let the higher matrix of support come in, you will feel loved. ●Religious people think about hell, but spiritual people have been through it. ●Love is present when you let go of your ego and step closer to God. 5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode[04:06] “There's no good or bad in the tantric cosmology of reality. There's just what's useful and what's not useful to get you towards your goal.”[13:17] “[Y]ou begin to realize that we think that we are living these individual egoic experiences, especially in the Western psychology. But what we're actually experiencing is seven generations of experience that hasn't been able to digest itself.”[22:16] “Real love and light can hold infinite amounts of trauma.”[23:02] “What we're being invited to do is hold this loving presence around whatever is arising within the chaotic wild feminine of the experience.”[37:56] “Religious people think about hell, spiritual people have been through it. When you've been through it and come out the other side and felt that love because of maybe how low you went. To be back in that state requires one thing and that is: I'm going to take one step to God.”About KatieKatie Silcox is a renowned author, teacher, and mentor to women. She wrote the New York Times bestseller, Healthy, Happy, Sexy - Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women, that teaches spiritual and practical approaches to physical, mental, and spiritual health.She is also the founder of The Shakti School. It is an online platform for women to explore their spirituality and holistic health.Apart from being a spirituality advocate, Katie is also a popular figure in the yoga community. Common Ground magazine named her one of San Francisco's Best Yoga Teachers in 2009. Origin magazine wrote in 2014 that she is one of 70 Yogis Changing the World. By 2015, Spirituality and Health magazine mentioned Katie as part of the 100 Trailblazers in Yoga and Ayurveda.You can connect with Katie through her social media channels: Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest.

This week I shared my thoughts on niching beyond private practice and at the end I gave you a small list of niches I think we need more of you to create programs and services around. Keep reading for a summary of what I talked about. Niching beyond private practice is SO different from niching to fill a practice. You CAN fill your traditional private practice without a narrow niche. Once you move into the global online space, you are likely to need a narrow niche. What's a niche? A niche is a problem your person is trying to solve. An identity or community is not a niche, but an identity or community can be a huge ingredient of a niche. Here's why: Even if you came up with a group for 49 year old white cis queer women who are parents by both adoption and birth, live upstairs from their sisters, and are Elton John fans, I would not join until you told me what problem you're helping us solve. (That describes me, if you didn't guess.) That said, identity can be a HUGE part of what goes into your niche. Just look at the amazing work of Dr. JaNae Taylor, who helps Black entrepreneurs create wellness in community in her company: Minding My Black Business. Here are a small number of real niche examples from folks who have been through Rebel Therapist programs: Tia Hackett has a couples workshops for people who need help with communication and may not have access to or time for couples therapy. Monica McClain-Reese helps couples learn to manage their money together. Maureen Cotton helps couples plan unique and powerful ceremonies without succumbing to the Wedding Industrial Complex. Liz Adams helps women with ADHD who have dreams they're not living yet. Kelsi McMartin helps parents of kiddos who have recently come out as nonbinary or trans. Caitlin Olsen helps progressive mormon women figure out their path. Staci Boden has a group coaching program to help recovering type-A change makers and leaders to follow energy instead of pushing and controlling. Valerie DiLuggo has a program helping straight single women create joyful whole lives as they take a break from dating for a reset. Samantha fox has a program helping women who are coming out as lesbian or queer later in life. Katie Nasherson runs a program helping people rebuild their lives after a tragedy or devastating event. Jesse Kaufman helps private practice therapists overcome visibility barriers to authentically market their work with video. I'll be sharing more examples soon. Here's why you should have a narrow enough niche: So you stand out and come to mind in a global online space when that niche is talked about, even if your audience is not huge yet. If you've got a huge audience already, you don't need this advice. Hey Oprah, Brene, and Glennon. What's up?! Some fears may come up for you around niching, and what I want to tell you about each one. Fear: I'll choose the wrong niche. Tell that fear: You are not making a permanent decision. Fear: I'll be bored. Tell that fear: When you go narrow, you get to do some deep work. You'll still be doing a lot of different things with your participants. Fear: There's too much competition. Tell that fear: You can't actually take that niche on all by yourself. Also, some folks would prefer to work with YOU. Fear: Niching doesn't feel like freedom to me. Tell that fear: Try using a vague niche and see how it goes! Choose a narrower niche when you're ready. One possibility for people who hate niching: Start with a broad niche and sell your program based on your reputation with your network. Then narrow your niche so that you can sustain your business over time. Here are some filters to run a niche through to see if it might work: The people with this problem know they have this problem. You're not trying to convince them that this issue is a problem. They have already tried things to solve this problem. Perhaps they've done other programs already, read books, or paid money in some way to solve it. You have talked to actual people who have this problem. It's not based on a made-up avatar. You can easily describe this niche in one sentence. If you need to go on for several paragraphs, you're not there yet! This niche passes the "cousin test." When you tell someone about your niche, a particular person comes to mind, perhaps their cousin or neighbor or friend. You hear "I know who will hire you" rather than "Oh that sounds really cool. I bet everyone needs that." This niche brings you joy, at least some of the time. If working on or talking about this problem causes you pain or harm, move on. You have a LOT to say about this niche. You could sit down and think of 50 topics, tips or ideas to share with the people who deal with this problem. Bonus: If solving this problem is on your person's to-do list, that's even better. Let's look at some fictional Niche Makeovers as examples: vague: I help women through transitions more viable: I help women through breakups vague: I help people who are dealing with difficult problems at home or at work. more viable: I help parents who are struggling with their 5 to 10 year old kid's behavior. vague: I help people use intuition to make better choices. more viable: I help people use intuition to manage their feelings and choices around money. vague: I help women be their best selves. more viable: I help white women stop behaving in racist ways. Your first step in figuring out your niche and turning it into a business: Listen to real people within this niche. You can talk in real time or through surveys, email or by mining your memory bank. If you're thinking about past therapy clients who are within this niche, mine your memory bank instead of directly asking them. That would be unethical. Some of the questions to ask: How would you describe the problem? What do you think the solution looks like? What have you already tried to solve this problem? What happened with those attempts? What (besides price) would make a program a no brainer for you? Listen. All of this listening will help you create your pilot offer and your marketing. Don't half-ass this niche research. It is the most important foundational work for creating a great offer. HOWEVER, don't fall into procrastination or perfectionism. This world needs your ethical micro business. Just a few niches I'm not seeing enough (not even nearly exhaustive): Please create a program around one of these topics! I'm only naming big rough niches here, so there are many specific niches possible within each one. Sex Parents with kids who have specific issues Managers and bosses Blended families Friendship Housemates Business partners Show notes at: http://rebeltherapist.me/podcast/164

On this special holiday episode of Fear & There, we tackle Black Christmas, one of the few holiday horror movies that's worth digging into.

This episode explains the Finite Volume Principle and the importance of defining the beginning and end of any project. ----- Key Links Sign-up for your FREE COPY of Exit Mindset (Releasing early 2021!) http://exitmindset.com/ ----- The Finite Volume Principle The Finite Volume Principle is the idea that in any physical room there is a finite amount of space. Once you have exhausted that space, there is no more room to grow and therefore no more opportunity. Every business owner at one time or another finds themselves overwhelmed with tasks and work with approaching deadlines. One way to limit this feeling of overwhelming exhaustion is to set clear objectives and milestones that keep the business and your positive outlook moving forward. Breaking it Down Break down your business into 3-5 elements that can all be worked on and improved upon separately. Defining a beginning, an end and then filling in the middle will leave you at a place where you can cross objectives off of your to-do list instead of being stuck on a revolving wheel. Overcoming the Fear There are countless businesses who fail to break down their objectives and timelines into a format that is easy to comprehend. Fear can come in a lot of forms, like an overwhelming feeling and fear of failure are just a few.   Move the Big Rocks First! The demonstration of rocks, stones, sand and water in a glass container truly expresses how it can be difficult for employees or business owners to understand their true finite volume. Your primary focus should be the rocks, the rocks represent the larger objectives or defined ends that result in a project's completion. If you are able to evaluate your processes every few weeks, you'll be shocked at just how much you and your team can accomplish. ----- The Exit Mindset is brought to you by Rem Oculee, founder of Confidence Wealth. All rights reserved. For more information, please visit ExitMindset.com. Follow Exit Mindset for more ways to “Think Like a Buyer” on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and Instagram.   We want to help as many business owners as possible. If you know anyone who could benefit from the information in this podcast, please feel free to share it with them.

Ari Aster's second film, MIDSOMMAR, is lurid. A midnight sun shines over a remote Swedish village -- a village of visceral iconography and high body counts, of ritualistic suicide and traditional hallucinogenic drink, of faith and of sacrifice. In other words, a perfect spot to vacation for a group of graduate anthropology students and one grieving protagonist. Aster's sophomore film doesn't so much depart from HEREDITARY's brutal and tragic leitmotifs as it does double-down on them and shift them into an alien world of violent, high-contrast coloring. Dani (Florence Pugh) delivers a bravura performance as the grief-stricken survivor of a homicide-suicide that left her sister and parents dead. Join us for a special guest episode of Fear & There as we discuss whether she should have just stayed at home.

In some ways, the horror golden age would inevitably lead to a film like Ari Aster's  2018 debut Hereditary, a deeply disturbing dive into a family's ravaged psyche following the death of a family member. Rarely do we see such assured filmmaking right out of the gate — and Aster's 2019 followup Midsommar quickly dispelled the notion that he was a one-trick pony. Hereditary has all of the marks of a master: thoughtful pacing, deliriously sharp photography, and a career-topping performance from Toni Collette (don't leave home without one). It is an awful, awful ride.For this episode of Fear & There, Zachary and Jay sit down with Jay's older and cooler brother Eric to talk Hereditary — and even get to gauge his fears in real time. Poor guy.

Summary: This show is for anybody who has a Romanian background or is interested in learning more about the different Pagan covens in Romania. There are three groups that I will be talking about Zalmoxian, Dacian, and Thracian. The Spirit Guide of the Week is Bendis and Dream Symbols are Knives and Blades. Songs Featured: 1, Heart of Lilith by Inkubus Sukkubus 2. Wythes’ Brew by OMNIA 3. To the Other Side by Love is Colder Than Death 4. Goddess Moon by Crow Women 5. Alva by Hagalaz' Runedance 6. Chalice to Blade by Crow Women 7. Exercise 3 - Sitting in the Power by Vince Price 8. Where There’s Fear There’s Power by Reclaiming 9. Holdtanc by Moon and the Nightspirit Links: Events: - Panfest 2019 - panfest.ca/?fbclid=IwAR3cgjceW…fK__Cj1BvoPwEWvEbXw - WitchsFest USA: A Pagan Street Faire - www.witchsfestusa.org/ - Green Man Walk 2019 - www.facebook.com/GreenmanwalkArundel/ Other: - Zalmoxianism - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zalmoxianism - Zalmoxianism - ro.paganfederation.org/zalmoxianism/ - Zalmoxianism (Romanian Paganism) - paganmeltingpot.wordpress.com/2014/06/20…-paganism/ - Dacians - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dacians - Thracians - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thracians - Romania Dacia - romaniadacia.wordpress.com/ - Pagan Customs During Winter Holidays - rolandia.eu/en/blog/romanian-cu…ing-winter-holidays - Dacian Celtic Religion? - atlanticreligion.com/2014/05/31/thr…ltic-religion/ - Thracian Religion - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thracian_religion

Summary: This show is for anybody who has a Romanian background or is interested in learning more about the different Pagan covens in Romania. There are three groups that I will be talking about Zalmoxian, Dacian, and Thracian. The Spirit Guide of the Week is Bendis and Dream Symbols are Knives and Blades. Songs Featured: Heart of Lilith by Inkubus Sukkubus Wythes’ Brew by OMNIA To the Other Side by Love is Colder Than Death Goddess Moon by Crow Women Alva by Hagalaz' Runedance Chalice to Blade by Crow Women Exercise 3 - Sitting in the Power by Vince Price Where There’s Fear There’s Power by Reclaiming Holdtanc by Moon and the Nightspirit Links: Events Panfest 2019 WitchsFest USA: A Pagan Street Faire Green Man Walk 2019 Other: Zalmoxianism Zalmoxianism Zalmoxianism (Romanian Paganism) Dacians Thracians Romania Dacia Pagan Customs During Winter Holidays Dacian Celtic Religion? Thracian Religion