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Jen, Meghan and Elle  talk sex education, sex work, hustling your femininity, purity balls, slut walk, FOSTA-SESTA and so much more... Queer, parent, sex worker, writer, podcast host, lobbyist for sex worker's rights in Oregon, and certified sex educator Elle Stanger has  worked in adult entertainment and touch-work since 2009. She's been featured in Inked Magazine, Playboy, Hustler, Rolling Stone and have written for Men's Health, Romper, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and more, and has been interviewed by Dan Savage, Guys We F*cked Podcast, and Alan Colmes - among others. Her podcast, Strange Bedfellows, was named “the best sex and politics podcast you've never heard of” by Portland Mercury and earned 100,000 subscribers in two years.   Website - www.stripperwriter.com. INSTAGRAM @STRIPPERWRITER TWITTER @ElleStanger Elle's writing at confluencedaily.com  & romper.com Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry -  Lola Davina Ro Khanna on twitter 

Sex workers! Did Terah just say sex workers? Oh dear!....what in the world is she up to in this podcast? Is Terah going to make us all join the sex industry by becoming a stripper, dominatrix, porn star or escort? NO, of course not…..but I bet you would love to hear from someone that has done all of this underworld shenanigans for over two decades. Don’t act like you are not curious to hear firsthand what it is like to be a prostitute and experience this lifestyle. If you are the type of person that will be offended hearing about porn stars, strippers and escorts, please turn this podcast off right now. I’ll even give you a few seconds of silence for you to find the off button. Ok….we cleared out the boring people from the room and it’s only us ne'er-do-wells left to enjoy hearing all about the real life experiences of a woman that spent 25 years in and around the sex industry.Our guest today, Lola Davina will change your mind on what a sex worker is and can successfully contribute to the world. She did spend 25 years in the sex industry working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn star, and escort. Along this challenging road she earned two Masters Degrees and left the sex industry with six figures in her retirement. She has a passion to share her ups and downs with other sex workers so they don’t waste the high price of selling their sexuality in her amazing book, “Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry”. Lola is the change she wanted to see in the world and I know you will love getting to know her as much as I did.www.loladavina.com

Sex workers! Did Terah just say sex workers? Oh dear!....what in the world is she up to in this podcast? Is Terah going to make us all join the sex industry by becoming a stripper, dominatrix, porn star or escort? NO, of course not…..but I bet you would love to hear from someone that has done all of this underworld shenanigans for over two decades. Don’t act like you are not curious to hear firsthand what it is like to be a prostitute and experience this lifestyle. If you are the type of person that will be offended hearing about porn stars, strippers and escorts, please turn this podcast off right now. I’ll even give you a few seconds of silence for you to find the off button. Ok….we cleared out the boring people from the room and it’s only us ne'er-do-wells left to enjoy hearing all about the real life experiences of a woman that spent 25 years in and around the sex industry.Our guest today, Lola Davina will change your mind on what a sex worker is and can successfully contribute to the world. She did spend 25 years in the sex industry working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn star, and escort. Along this challenging road she earned two Masters Degrees and left the sex industry with six figures in her retirement. She has a passion to share her ups and downs with other sex workers so they don’t waste the high price of selling their sexuality in her amazing book, “Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry”. Lola is the change she wanted to see in the world and I know you will love getting to know her as much as I did.www.loladavina.com

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Exercise: Your Ideal Client" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Dissociation" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Exercise: Spending Time With Shame" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Heartfelt Advice: How To Work With A Broken Heart" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Shame, Low Self-Esteem, and Stigma" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Money Exercises" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Sex Work and Self-Care: An Introduction" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "The Biz: An Introduction" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Anger" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Don't Fear The Future" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Sadness, Depression, and Suicidal Thoughts" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the chapter "Pleasure" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers. Available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Feeling Ugly and Unworthy" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Shame: An Introduction" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Fear: An Introduction" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Heartfelt Advice: When A Client Makes You Feel Like Crap" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Clients: An Introduction" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads the preface from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads her biography from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

Lola Davina reads "Practical Advice: Managing Acute Anxiety" from the audiobook "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers, available at Audible, Amazon, iTunes, and directly from her website, LolaDavina.com through Awesound.

I'm in China on vacation, so this week we are replaying a popular episode from the past. This one is Lola Davina on thriving in sex work since it was International Whores' Day on June 2nd. How can you thrive as a sex worker, navigating the fact that you have no real safety while also performing erotic fantasies and sex at the same time? How can you care for yourself as clients bring in their pain, shame, and fear and expect you to heal them?  Lola Davina is here to help us answer those questions and more. Her new book, “Thriving in Sex Work,” is like a big sister’s guide to caring for yourself as a sex worker.  We talk about the unrealistic expectations clients often come in with, being financially responsible, setting boundaries and trusting your gut, creating rituals to celebrate small and big wins, and a whole lot more.  It’s fascinating and practical. It’s one of my favorite chats, and I think you’ll hear why.   Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It’s true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram.   Resources from this episode Grab Lola Davina’s book, “Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry: A Self-Help Book for Sex Workers”  About Lola Davina Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com.  You can stay in touch with Lola at loladavina.com, on Facebook, and on Twitter @Lola_Davina

Vanessa catches up with Lola Davina (www.loladavina.com), author of Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry. Learn about methods for self care under FOSTA-SESTA, the power of sex worker communities, and the difference between shame and stigma. Lauren Kiley tells us about a new congressional bill called End Banking for Human Traffickers Act. She and Vanessa discuss what it might mean for people who take payments for sexy work online. Want to get in touch with the On The Dresser team? Send us your questions, comments, suggestions or signal boosts to onthedresser@gmail.com or find us on Facebook/Twitter @Onthedresser! Co-Ho(st)s/Production team: Dr. Vanessa Carlisle (twitter.com/vcarlisle) Lauren Kiley (twitter.com/xoxolaurenkiley) Danny Cruz (twitter.com/adannyboy) Sex. Queers. Politics. You'll find all of it On the Dresser!

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," a companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

Author Lola Davina reads selected chapters from the "Thriving in Sex Work Workbook," companion exercise book to "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry," a self-help book for sex workers.

How can you thrive as a sex worker, navigating the fact that you have no real safety while also performing erotic fantasies and sex at the same time? How can you care for yourself as clients bring in their pain, shame, and fear and expect you to heal them? Lola Davina is here to help us answer those questions and more. Her new book, "Thriving in Sex Work," is like a big sister's guide to caring for yourself as a sex worker. We talk about the unrealistic expectations clients often come in with, being financially responsible, setting boundaries and trusting your gut, creating rituals to celebrate small and big wins, and a whole lot more. It's fascinating and practical. It's one of my favorite chats, and I think you'll hear why. Oh! Don't forget: Patreons who support with just $3 per month and above get exclusive weekly bonus content, too. Literally, every pledge sends me into an excited squeal of delight. patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Resources from this episode Grab Lola Davina's book, "Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry: A Self-Help Book for Sex Workers" About Lola Davina Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com. You can stay in touch with Lola at loladavina.com, on Facebook, and on Twitter @Lola_Davina. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Aired Thursday, 22 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET Thriving in Sex Work with Author Lola Davina Martha welcomes longtime veteran of the sex industry, Lola Davina, to discuss Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry, her new self-help book for sex workers. Sex work is difficult emotional labor. Her new book offers support and self-care advice on managing the inevitable conflicting emotions that arise in this challenging work. About the Guest: Lola Davina Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com, a support website for cam models. Website: LolaDavina.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/Lola_Davina Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010208507672