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The idea of “consent” can be difficult to teach to children, but in this episode our guest has been able to effectively describe body autonomy and help parents and children recognize the importance of personal agency and consent even at a very young age. We welcome Rachel Brian, author and animator, to discuss her children's book on consent, which teaches kids how to set boundaries and be helpful bystanders. Rachel shares the personal inspiration behind creating the book and explains the importance of teaching consent to children at a young age. Join us as we also dive further into the impact of cultural norms on consent and how consent contributes to healthy relationships. Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” Join my 12-week program, The Trust Building Bootcamp, to heal your broken relationship. Sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements! Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse: Connect with me on social media: INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online courses and other supportive resources. About Geoff Steurer: I am a licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship educator, and coach with over 20 years of experience. I am the co-author of, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity", the host of the weekly podcast, "From Crisis to Connection", and have produced workbooks, audio programs, and online courses helping couples and individuals heal from the impact of sexual betrayal, unwanted pornography use, partner betrayal trauma, and rebuilding broken trust. As a leader in the field, I am a frequent contributor on these subjects at national conferences, documentaries, blogs, magazines, and podcasts. I also write a weekly relationship advice column available on my blog. I founded and ran an outpatient sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery group program for over 14 years, co-founded and chaired a local conference to educate community members about harmful media, and founded and administered a specialized group therapy practice for over 10 years. I currently maintain a private counseling and coaching practice in beautiful Southern Utah where I live with my wife and children. About Jody Steurer: Jody has been a strong voice supporting women as co-host of the podcast “Speak Up Sister”. She completed a bachelor's degree in psychology from Brigham Young University and is an ACA certified coach. She runs a small business and has years of experience in corporate training and organization. Jody's most challenging work has been raising her four children (two of which are on the autism spectrum). She loves to do landscape design, paint in watercolor, spend time outdoors, and snow ski. About Rachel Brian: Rachel is a writer, illustrator and animator who likes to think about ways to make art that connect with people. Rachel is the founder and CEO of Blue Seat Studios, an award-winning company that specializes in using humor to teach big ideas using humor and compassion. Schools and organizations nationwide depend on Blue Seat Studios animated content to teach about Consent, Title IX, Anti-Bullying, Online Safety, Mental Health Support, and more. An entrepreneur and a former researcher, consultant, and teacher, she's known for her work on Tea Consent and the book Consent (For Kids!) which has been translated and published worldwide. She is also the author of The Worry (Less) Book and the soon-to-be-released (Be Smart About) Screen Time book. She is a graduate of Brown University and lives in Rhode Island. https://youtu.be/fGoWLWS4-kU?si=_EmKvXqZUkUZAx8n www.blueseatstudios.com https://www.youtube.com/@blueseatstudios6366 https://www.blueseatstudios.com/ https://amzn.to/4eSjznU (Link for Consent for Kids book) https://amzn.to/4ePJE6X (link for the Worry Less book) https://amzn.to/3XXfQyh (link for Be Smart About Screen Time book)
I det här avsnittet berättar Maria Dufva om begreppet samtycke och om hur man talar med sina barn om det redan från tidig ålder. Maria ger i avsnittet en mängd boktips, några av dem finns här: Tea Consent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8 Stopp min kropp: https://www.raddabarnen.se/rad-och-kunskap/foralder/stopp-min-kropp/ Marias material i samarbete med Liber: https://www.mariadufva.se/material Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Let's spill the tea on a hot topic- consent! On today's episode of Table Talks, we will discuss all things consent. Why is consent important? How do you know if someone is giving or NOT giving consent? And last, why is consent such an uncomfortable topic for so many to discuss? All these questions and more will be answered!
In our final episode of the season, we're talking consent. It's necessary (and not just because we say so) but can be misunderstood. We've got the details on the basics of consent and how you're probably already great at it and just didn't know. For videos explaining consent, check out Tea Consent and Cycling Through Consent. Blythe's Recommendation: Our Company of Fools by Madelynn Orion. Advocacy Center Crisis Hotline (254) 752-7233 or (888) 867-7233. Follow us on Instagram at @ACCVC_Prevention to connect with us and for more great content! You can access the episode transcript here.
Small town girl, Alex Hope, age 22 joins us today. This is her story upon being a rape & assault survivor, and how she now has the courage to speak out about it. She speaks on what consent means, and the misconception behind it. She goes into why she was so fearful to come forward and how she processed everything. She is a kind, beautiful soul and plans to be an advocate, a voice and a safe space for victims.Reach out to Alex on Instagram @alexhope_1 Watch the Cup of Tea Consent video Content warning: Sexual violence (rape), Assault.
Today with Epiphany Jordan, author of the book: Somebody Hold Me, we talk about platonic touch. We cover: • What got her into the world of platonic touch. • How come we miss out on tender touch, when not in a sexual relationship. • The role of touch on our health, in particular our immune & nervous systems. • Differences in how touch is perceived in different cultures and across times. • The hypocritical standpoints on nudity and touch in certain western cultures. • Why platonic touch is so misunderstood and so taboo. • The concept of ‘excarnation' by Irish Philosopher Richard Kearney. • Cultural myths that discourage nurturing human touch. • Touch hunger: Are we, as women, more afraid of platonic touch? • Sometimes we just don't want certain people to touch us and how to handle it, especially in the yoga and spiritual industries; where it can be considered ‘closed hearted' if we don't want to hug everybody. • Boundaries. • Permission vs consent. • Alternative solutions for single people to replace a hug with. References mentioned in this episode: Richard Kearney & Tea Consent & Betty Martin Find Epiphany: nurturinghumantouch.com/ & Her book: Somebody Hold Me: The Single Person's Guide to Nurturing Human Touch Find me: https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit or www.angie-s.com
Today with Epiphany Jordan, author of the book: Somebody Hold Me, we talk about platonic touch.We cover:What got her into the world of platonic touch. How come we miss out on tender touch, when not in a sexual relationship.The role of touch on our health, in particular our immune & nervous systems. Differences in how touch is perceived in different cultures and across times.The hypocritical standpoints on nudity and touch in certain western cultures. Why platonic touch is so misunderstood and so taboo.The concept of ‘excarnation' by Irish Philosopher Richard Kearney.Cultural myths that discourage nurturing human touch.Touch hunger: Are we, as women, more afraid of platonic touch? Sometimes we just don't want certain people to touch us and how to handle it, especially in the yoga and spiritual industries; where it can be considered ‘closed hearted' if we don't want to hug everybody. Boundaries.Permission vs consent.Alternative solutions for single people to replace a hug with.References mentioned in this episode: Richard Kearney & Tea Consent & Betty MartinCome find Epiphany: https://www.nurturinghumantouch.com/ IG: @somebody_hold_me/Her book: Somebody Hold Me: The Single Person's Guide to Nurturing Human Touch Find me at https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit and follow @toooldforthisshitpodcast
Consent is important, yet there are folx out there who still don't know the basics. This episode goes over four points of consent to increase communication during a sexual experience and make it more fun and safe for everyone. Conscious Content Consumption in this episode is Untamed by Glennon Doyle, a novel, and Tea Consent - a YouTube video that uses tea as metaphor for consent.Follow on Instagram @longhairdocarepodcast.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/longhairdocare) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episode 63: Consent is Sexy As a man, how do you join the consent conversation in a healthy way? It demands your full self and lots of practice, but it is necessary for allowing your inner warrior to show himself. In this new episode, Sarrah and Erin decode any confusion around consent and make it approachable to men and women! They tackle how the media almost always portrays consent, why this 2017 study is crucial for making consent less scary, and the tips and tricks for creating a wonderful space for amazing sex! “I love the distinction between sexual interest and sexual intent. Being in a sexual relationship, I need to feel safe and feel comfortable to talk about these feelings. Just because I'm turned on doesn't mean I want to have sex!” - Erin Hickok In This Episode: Why you need to look honestly at how the media portrays consent to avoid the biggest mistakes. What this 2017 study reveals about how often these two very different things are confused with each other. How you can approach a new sexual interaction in a healthy way, even from a place of severe lack. Why having amazing sex demands combining every bit of yourself, not just the physical. And, so much more! Watch the “Tea Consent” cartoon here! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8) Connect with Sarrah Rose: Website:https://tantricactivation.com/ ( https://tantricactivation.com/) Instagram:https://instagram.com/tantricactivation/ ( https://instagram.com/tantricactivation)https://instgram.com/tantricactivation/ (/) Facebook:https://facebook.com/TantricActivation/ ( https://facebook.com/TantricActivation/) Twitter:https://twitter.com/IAmSarrahRose ( https://twitter.com/IAmSarrahRose) Connect with Erin Hickok: Website:https://www.gamesforhumanity.com/ ( https://www.gamesforhumanity.com/) Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/the_connectress/ ( https://www.instagram.com/the_connectress/) Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/groups/coreconnectors ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/coreconnectors) Download the card deck here! https://www.gamesforhumanity.com/collections/games (https://www.gamesforhumanity.com/collections/games) This podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not, nor is it intended to be, a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment and should never be relied upon for specific medical advice. To the extent that this podcast features the advice of physicians or medical practitioners, the views expressed are the views of the cited expert and do not necessarily represent the views of Sarrah Rose Coaching LLC.
How do you build positive cultures within a working group? We talk a bit about how Three Cranes Grove, ADF, builds consent culture. We also talk a bit about our local culture of trust, and how we apply these things to initiations and other religious events. Rev. Avende and Rev. Dangler both took a consent culture course through Cherry Hill Seminary (which all of ADF's clergy have now taken as well), and the discussion moves a bit through how we took the class and applied it to our work within the Grove. For the Tea Consent video mentioned, you can find those here: Safe For Work Version Not Safe For Work Version Find us on Facebook, and learn more about Druidry at adf.org.
In this super honest and vulnerable episode, Stella & Emma open up the conversation about consent and sexual harassment. Stella openly shares a past experience that led them to re-evaluate this issue, especially in the wake of the recent "me too" movement. Key Takeaways: Our experience with "me too" moments The importance of communication and consent in sexual encounters Your body, your choice Why unwanted sexual attention is NEVER your fault The importance of safety during sexual encounters Trusting your intuition when something doesn't feel right Tea & Consent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ "The Power" by Naomi Alderman
Diving back into the thorny issue of consent, Benjamin and Simon turn this time to the concept of ‘enthusiastic consent’, and wonder whether it really is an effective framework for addressing a problem as widespread—and as complex—as sexual assault.‘Tea Consent’, by Blue Seat StudiosInterview with Tanya Serisier, by Living the Dream Podcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Welcome! Today's episode features TWO guests, Amy Lang and Dr. Jen O'Ryan. Amy is a sexuality educator who helps parents have conversations with kids about healthy sexuality; she previously joined us for Episodes 8 and 33. Jen holds a PhD in human behavior and specifically works with children and adolescents in gender minorities, especially LGBTQ kids. She joined us for Episode 35. These conversations were prompted by the important talking points which emerged from two recent news stories: the Stanford rape case and the Orlando nightclub shooting. Join us for these important conversations! What you'll hear in this episode: From Amy: The Stanford case boils down to consent: How do we help our kids be smarter than that? Bad decisions and entitlement: a dangerous mix Teach kids about consent: Use the words permission, asking and giving, and agreement. When everyone is “out of their heads,” there is NO CONSENT! Yes means YES. No means NO. Stop means STOP! With young kids, respect their right to say no to unwanted hugs/kisses; as adults, ASK for a hug/kiss. How to use transition phrases to awkward moments “Tricky people” Be explicit with kids about family rules. Plant seeds about sexuality conversations. Teach them NOT to expect entitlement. Amy's book about dating, to help kids figure out their dating values (See Resources below) Why we need to model conflict resolution for our kids “Yes” girls and red flags in dating—Are you ready for sex? Be open, available, and neutral for your kids. From Jen: With news of any tragedy, it's better to give kids small pieces of information that they can process rather than overwhelm them with ALL the details. How to “check in” with your LGBTQ kids Jen's experience in London this week with a drag queen show paying tribute to the Orlando victims Adults have communities and support systems in place, but most kids don't. The human element of these victims: brother, sisters, sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, etc. Social change is a product of humanization. The verbage to use? LGBTQ, queer, etc. Remember that kids process information at different speeds than adults. Have conversations with kids about safety, dangers, reassurance, and empowerment. The best response is always unity and solidarity. With 5-7 year olds: listen and watch how they play, and make space for them to express feelings. With older kids: create safe spaces for them to talk, and check for signs of depression or social withdrawal. It's OK to talk about it! Resources: Dating Smarts: What Every Teen Needs to Know to Date, Relate, or Wait by Amy Lang www.birdsandbeesandkids.com www.birdsandbeescourse.com (Amy's new online course for parents!) www.savvyparentssafekids.com Tea Consent video (on youtube!) www.mykidcameout.com (Jen's website with resources, blog, and email info. Find her on Facebook, too!) Healthy Sex Talk: Teaching Kids Consent, ages 1-21 :::::::::: Want MORE?? Join the Joyful CourageTribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage. Raising our children while growing ourselves... :::::::::: Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on iTunes to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!! AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast on iTunes to help me spread the show to an ever larger audience!! ::::::::::: Click here for more information about PARENT COACHING with Casey and to book your exploratory call!
By Rebekah Freedom. Visit RebekahFreedom.com to contact Rebekah. Explicit Mentions Ojai (CA) means “the nest.” Tea Consent on YouTube The Drama Triangle Sex Trafficking Stats - and how you can help (beware) David Deida David Deida - The Way Of The Superior Man David Deida - Dear Lover Polyamory - is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships involving more than two people, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Compersion - a feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship. John Gottman - Sliding Door Moments
Rae and Maria welcome Brooklyn's own, beloved and hilarious comic, Lawrence DeLoach (@lzd325), to discuss Raven Symoné, black on black crime, socially conscious rappers, Kanye West, Dan Le Batard, athlete sexual assaults, Kevin Johnson, body image and their emotional high and lows. With Rae Sanni (@raesanni), Maria Heinegg (@mariaheinegg), and Jim Search (@jimsearch).
Rae and Maria welcome Brooklyn's own, beloved and hilarious comic, Lawrence DeLoach (@lzd325), to discuss Raven Symoné, black on black crime, socially conscious rappers, Kanye West, Dan Le Batard, athlete sexual assaults, Kevin Johnson, body image and their emotional high and lows. With Rae Sanni (@raesanni), Maria Heinegg (@mariaheinegg), and Jim Search (@jimsearch).