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Wow, such an engaging interview w/Jeff! Can't wait for you all to hear his skinny! Here are some of the questions we discuss: How did your childhood contribute to where you're at today? What issues do you feel your parents had that affected / impacted you? How did you become emotionally intelligent? How can 1 develop that ability to begin questioning ourselves & challenging ourselves? How did you take ownership of your emotional health? How can one get better at learning how to learn from our life experiences? What am I actually doing to make the world a better place? Who have I harmed recently? How could I have been a better person recently? Who did I not validate recently? Who did I not appreciate recently? What does your emotional fitness program look like? Who do I have to be to allow my wife & daughter to be fully themselves? Who do I have to be to create the right environment & culture to bring the best out of my family? Jeff Gibbard Contact: https://jgibbard.com/ The Lovable Leader by Jeff Gibbard https://www.amazon.com/Lovable-Leader-Build-Respect-Kindness/dp/1774581760/ The Code of Trust, by Robin Dreeke https://www.amazon.com/Code-Trust-American-Counterintelligence-Experts/dp/1250093465 The Will to Change by Bell Hooks https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084/ The Shareable Podcast with Jeff Gibbard https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shareable/id1208198334 If you're ready to take your emotional growth to the next level, join the EQ Mafia at https://www.eqgangster.com/.
One of the things I learned studying masculinity in America is that there are moments when the question, what does it mean to be a man, rises. It usually coincides with seismic shifts like the Industrial Revolution.Our discussion with Nate Pyles about his Book Man Enough and knew we needed to hear his thinking on manhood right away. Enjoy!Buy Nate's book, Man Enough: How Jesus Redefines Manhood https://www.amazon.com/Man-Enough-Jesus-Redefines-Manhood/dp/0310343372Here's the book I mentioned by Bell Hook. https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084Kristin Du Mez's book Jesus and John Wayne is a must read if you want to understand how muscular Christianity ties itself to specific political parties. https://www.amazon.com/Jesus-John-Wayne-Evangelicals-Corrupted/dp/1631495739You can also listen to my interview with her on this episode of the Jackie Always Unplugged podcast. https://www.themarcellaproject.com/jackie-always-unplugged/2020/9/15/oh-i-get-it-with-kristin-dumez
Figures like Candace Owens Ben Shapiro are routinely discussed in the news. We can talk about them and the anger they hope to evoke, but I feel there are more fruitful conversations to be had. As a Jewish female scholar who has interviewed Proud Boys of color, I got to have a different conversation with Dr. Robert L. Reece. In this first episode of the Glitterpill podcast, we talk about what Proud Boys of Color identify with when they identify with "The West" and the long term harms of this identification. Proud Boys Research: https://gjia.georgetown.edu/2020/09/07/take-the-redpill-understanding-the-allure-of-conspiratorial- thinking-among-proud-boys/ https://icct.nl/publication/swiping-right-the-allure-of-hyper-masculinity-and-cryptofascism-for-men-who- join-the-proud-boys/ Fighting Fat Stigma With Science: https://www.tolerance.org/magazine/fall-2017/fighting-fat-stigma-with-science How Social Justice Failed My Family: https://publicseminar.org/2014/07/how-my-social-justice-failed-my-family/ Belle Knox: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/duke-porn-star_n_4898544 The Plight of the black Belle Knox: race and webcam modeling Belle hooks the will to change: https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity- Love/dp/0743456084 Debunking the mobility myth: https://www.tolerance.org/magazine/spring-2018/debunking-the-mobility-myth Michigan Indictments: https://apnews.com/article/gretchen-whitmer-michigan-indictments-coronavirus- pandemic-traverse-city-10f7e02c57004da9843f89650edd4510 belle hooks: https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 Resources For Men: https://mantherapy.org/ Glitterpill Theme Song Credits “Concentric Lines” by The Android Trio Written by Andy Niven Performed by Andy Niven, Max Kutner, Eric Klerks BUY THE TRACK https://androidtrio.bandcamp.com/track/concentric-lines TAKE THE GLITTERPILL www.patreon.com/taketheglitterpill OFFICE HOURS INFO: DM @taketheglitterpill on IG Community: www.proudboyswhisperer.com/glitterpill Share your “Hometown Gaslighting” Story For Our MINISODE Here! https://proudboyswhisperer.com/contact/ 2021 In the News: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/christopherm51/extremists-cheer-trump- insurrection
The third episode of the S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Podcast that explores 1 of the 8 Pillars of Happiness - Togetherness & Belonging, as it pertains to young people, black boys and the society as a whole. In this episode, the theme of boys and men hugging is explored as it pertains to self expression - licence and freedom to show emotions, displays of affection being policed in boys through a myriad of agents such as patriarchy & limited views of masculinityThe host, Kay Rufai ( https://www.instagram.com/universoulartist/ ) explores using his happiness research from the top 5 happiest countries ( You can download the report here; https://mailchi.mp/faddab9bb9a1/pdf-delivery ), how the parameters of togetherness & belonging for boys are ring-fenced by patriarchal structures that prescribe restricted forms of expression, physical touch and exuberance.The episode features audio clips from young boys that participated in the S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys classroom workshops with Kay Rufai exploring their thoughts on showing affection to other boys and the negative stigmas attached to it by thier peers and the society as a whole. These form the anchor for the episode. Read the Guardian opinion piece about Kay Rufai and his work on challenging stereotypes of Black boys in the society (https://www.theguardian.com/global/2020/mar/18/photographs-black-teenage-boys-prejudice-stereotypes )Check out the Guardian Photo Gallery of the S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project ( https://www.theguardian.com/world/gallery/2020/mar/18/portraits-black-teenagers-south-london-mental-health )Checkout the Artist - Kay Rufai's website - www.universoulartist.comHere's some further research around happiness for your perusal'Be Worried About Boys' research piece ( https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/moral-landscapes/201701/be-worried-about-boys-especially-baby-boys )Books Referenced - Bell Hooks - The Will To Change ( https://www.amazon.co.uk/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 )JJ Bola - Mask Off ( https://amzn.to/2WowmaL )Terrence Real - I Don't Want To Talk About It ( https://amzn.to/2WpPYve )(https://www.happinessresearchinstitute.com/publications)Watch & Subscribe on Youtube and share the S.M.I.L.Es
It isn't a war between the genders, it's a war between those interested in freedom of individual expression and equality, and those wedded to and defending the patriarchal script.“I measure activism based on impact... .” - Liz PlankIn this episode, co-host Sue Marriott speaks with Liz Plank, one of the worlds most powerful and influential voices for gender and policy. Who is Liz Plank?Liz Plank is an award-winning journalist and senior producer at Vox Media. Her TedxTalk, How to Be a Man: A Woman's Guide inspired her first book, (https://amzn.to/3acOB8l) where she “offers a smart, insightful, and deeply-researched guide for what we're all going to do about toxic masculinity. For both women looking to guide the men in their lives and men who want to do better and just don’t know how.” Mediaite's Most Influential in New Media 50 Most Influential Women by Marie Claire Forbes' 30 Under 30 in Media Episode 119 Show Notes:Why do we need more storytelling around men?More progress regarding issues around domestic & sexual violence if men were more involved in the conversation. Human rights are not a finite resource and when there is more equality, the better it is for everyone. Open the conversation for men to talk about masculinity and what it means to be a man because they do not feel safe doing so. Having an empathic conversation about feminism that includes all genders, a movement that benefits the whole society. Rewriting Gender RolesThe lack of conversations regarding masculinity between men. Following gender roles based on societal pressures and family development. Exploring historical and cultural examples of how gender roles change and vary to give men permission to explore their identity. A shift in the younger generation being accepting of gender fluidity. What It Means To Be A ManIdentifying as a provider when many jobs traditionally done by men are disappearing or moving overseas. Starting to have the opportunity to have an identity outside of their career. Have both genders shoulder the emotional burden and do the work to heal. Narcissism & Toxic MasculinityThere is a higher percentage of narcissism in men. Have more female leadership represented in entertainment & media to provide an understanding of female complexity. EducationEncouraging curriculum that teaches anti-violence, anti-sexual assault, verbal consent, emotional intelligence, and interpersonal relationships. A universal understanding that we all experience similar emotions and social anxiety so we can all advocate for each other. Liz's Influence:Wanting to measure her activism based on impact. Wanting everyone to feel welcome to this conversation on masculinity and help men go through their emotional labor. Continue to open the conversation for men of influence to discuss masculinity openly. Masculinity Influence:Brad Pitt speaking openly about masculinity to give others permission to do the same. Tim Ferriss expressing that external performance is not where "success" is and inner work is the harder challenge but more important. Liz’s Recommendations: The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by Bell Hooks (https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084) Thomas Page McBee (https://www.amazon.com/Thomas-Page-McBee/e/B00NDEXD5Y%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share) Wade Davis (https://wadeadavis.com/) Learn about and connect with Liz: (https://amzn.to/3acOB8l) TED Talk How to Be a Man, A Woman's Guide (https://youtu.be/9tNsNkzEzbw) Twitter (https://twitter.com/feministabulous) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lizplankofficial/) Web Series (http://www.elizabethplank.com/flipthescript) _____ Our course on Attachment and Neuroscience (https://courses.therapistuncensored.com/p/attachmentexplained) - It's Not Me It's My Amygdala, is now available to... Support this podcast
Mathew Mitchell joined us for an open conversation on the difficult issues of race, diversity, inclusion and equity. Mathew brings a unique perspective having grown up in the conservative community of Lompoc CA. His father is a black man from Memphis TN, his mother an Irish immigrant to America, his sister is married to a woman and Mathew is a happy husband and father in a mixed-race family. Mathew Mitchell was born to be a culture and engagement champion. Mathew and I discussed many issues about the Poway community including diversity (or lack thereof), the healing process after the Poway Chabad shooting, Poway schools, Poway High Football, the hate crime in December 2018 when a swastika was painted on a Jewish family’s home and the special opportunity to create an environment of consciousness and inclusion in our city. (I am hopeful that my podcast can become a community forum where we can discuss these difficult conversations in a civil, respectful manner and learn from one another.) Mathew B. Mitchell and I spent time discussing Bryan Stevenson and the Lynching Memorial in Georgia. We explored the issue of mixed race in the media and in Mathew’s own life. We discuss what white really is and was in terms of WASP vs Irish, Italian, Catholics, etc. We touch on a range of other topics including white fragility, white privilege, Al Campanis, Jackie Robinson, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Christianity, access to quality education, criminal injustice, Fortune 500 leadership, Captain James T. Kirk, Star Trek, Dr. Marian Kim-Phelps, Blackish, Cosby Show, Jack and Jill, Aryan Brotherhood, Kanye West, Black Irish, Carlos Murphy’s, #MeToo, Gillette and self- segregation. JRP0053 Mathew B. Mitchell Reading List: 4 Days to Change, Michael Welp PhD, https://www.amazon.com/Four-Days-Change-Radical-Overcome/dp/099734220XWhite Fragility, Robin DiAngelo, https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414/ref=sr_1_1The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity and Love, Bell Hooks, https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love-ebook/dp/B000FC0Y6S/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1 To Be a Man, A Guide to True Masculine Power, Robert Augustus Masters PhD, https://www.amazon.com/Be-Man-Guide-Masculine-Power-ebook/dp/B00R54N966/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1The Christian Imagination, Theology and the Origins of Race, Willie James Jennings, https://www.amazon.com/Christian-Imagination-Theology-Origins-Race/dp/0300171366/ref=sr_1_1Connected, The Emergency of Global Consciousness, Roger D. Nelson, https://www.amazon.com/Connected-Emergence-Consciousness-Roger-Nelson-ebook/dp/B07Q5Y5F5D/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1The WMFDP Way: A Pathway to Full Inclusion, https://wmfdp.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/WMFDP-White-Paper2018.pdf John Riley Project Info: Bookings? Inquiries? Contact me at https://johnrileyproject.com/Donations: https://www.patreon.com/johnrileyprojectSponsorship Inquiries: https://johnrileyproject.com/sponsorship/YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJJSzeIW2A-AeT7gwonglMAFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/johnrileyproject/Twitter: https://twitter.com/JohnRileyPowayInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnrileypoway/iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/john-riley-project-podcast/id1435944995?mt=2Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3llrMItpbx9JRa08UTrswAStitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/john-riley-projectGoogle Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9qb2hucmlsZXlwcm9qZWN0LmNvbS9mZWVkLwTune In: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Arts--Culture-Podcasts/John-Riley-Project-Podcast-p1154415/Listen Notes: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/john-riley-project-john-riley-2l4rEIo1RJM/Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Audio/Visual Support: Visuals by Ezekiel: https://www.visualsbyzekekitchen.com/
O episódio de hoje é dedicado à Joana de Lima Couto Carvalho. Joana nasceu em 27 de dezembro de 2017 e mudou as pessoas em volta de si. Uma destas é seu pai, Daniel Carvalho. Daniel, pai de Joana, esposo da Noemi, hoje coordena o grupo Luto do homem e tem atuado publicamente no incentivo a que homens falem e ouçam: a si mesmos e uns aos outros. Conversamos com ele sobre vida, existência, luto e afeto. Participantes: Renata Aquino Fernanda Moura Daniel Carvalho (Luto do Homem) Música de abertura e encerramento: “Tank!”, composição de Yoko Kano, performance de The Seatbelts, direitos reservados a Victor Entertainment. Outras músicas: Big Blues/Audionatrix, Love Struck/E’s Jammy Jam, George Street Shuffle/Kevin MacLeod, Aces High – Funkorama/Kevin MacLeod: Youtube Audio Library, licenças Creative Commons. O PCESP Podcast é um programa mensal sobre política, educação e história, e tudo o mais que eventualmente couber dentro disso. O Professores Contra o Escola Sem Partido é um grupo de estudos e um coletivo de militância por uma educação democrática radical e plural, donde o Movimento Educação Democrática, nosso filho mais novo. Os episódios saem mensalmente, toda segunda semana do mês. E eventualmente saem episódios extra. Elogios, críticas, dúvidas, sugestões? Fale com a gente! professorescontraoesp@gmail.com Você também pode encontrar a gente em: – Professores contra o Escola Sem Partido Twitter e Instagram: @profscontraoesp https://www.facebook.com/contraoescolasempartido/ https://professorescontraoescolasempartido.wordpress.com https://www.youtube.com/c/ProfessorescontraoEscolaSemPartido – Movimento Educação Democrática https://www.facebook.com/moveducacaodemocratica/ Instagram: @moveducacaodemocratica FONTES E REFERÊNCIAS Luto do Homem https://www.somosapoioaoluto.com.br/luto-do-homem Parte 1 do nosso podcast sobre Masculinidades https://profscontraoesp.org/2019/04/11/pcesp-podcast-16-masculinidades-hegemonicas-e-contra-hegemonicas/ MEMOH #003 | Ausência Paterna https://podtail.com/da/podcast/memoh/-003-ausencia-paterna/ Francisco, pai de Marielle, escreve carta no marco dos 13 meses do assassinato da filha https://www.almapreta.com/editorias/realidade/francisco-pai-de-marielle-escreve-carta-no-marco-dos-13-meses-do-assassinato-da-filha Luto do homem: como podemos entender a dor pelo relato de um pai que perdeu sua filha https://papodehomem.com.br/luto-do-homem-como-podemos-entender-a-dor-pelo-relato-de-um-pai-que-perdeu-sua-filha/ O Homem que Amava Caixas https://www.brinquebook.com.br/brinque-book/livro-o-homem-que-amava-caixas Magnólia http://www.adorocinema.com/filmes/filme-22858/ This is Us http://www.adorocinema.com/series/serie-19992/ The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 Fargo (série) http://www.adorocinema.com/series/serie-11042/
In GBA 347 we get better acquainted with Tanaka. We talk about making theatre that engages with and challenges harmful versions of masculinity, making work about experiences of rape and sexual assault, engaging with young people about how masculinity is created and framed by culture, the intersection of caring and gender, navigating and expressing emotions and so much more. The topics might make this sound like a heavy conversation but it's actually a fun, thoughtful and positive. Although there is a content note for sexual assult and trauma the conversation doesn't contain any descriptions of being assaulted. Tanaka plugs: Universities and companies booking the Consent Collective: https://www.consentcollective.com/ People who hear disclosures of sexual violence regularly in their daily lives getting in touch for some research he is working on. You can find his work and contact him through his website: https://tanakamhishi.co.uk/ I plug: My recent writing about consent and gender: https://medium.com/@goosefat101/what-about-the-women-3237e4155f2c Mansplaining Masculinity: The Book https://unbound.com/books/mansplaining-masculinity/ What About the Men? Mansplaining Masculinity: https://soundcloud.com/standuptragedy/sut-presents-what-about-the-men-mansplaining-maculinity http://mansplainingmasculinity.co.uk/ Down to a sunless sea: memories of my dad: https://medium.com/@goosefat101/down-to-a-sunless-sea-memories-of-my-dad-d1d2d3a61360 New piece: https://medium.com/@goosefat101/down-to-a-sunless-sea-memories-of-my-dad-604a239b7501 The Family Tree: http://thefamilytreepodcast.co.uk/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thefamilytreepodcast We mention: Rita: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-rita-episodes The Cuttings: http://thefamilytreepodcast.co.uk/cuttings/ Selected Shorts: https://www.symphonyspace.org/selected-shorts AV Club review of The Family Tree: https://aux.avclub.com/colbert-fey-adsit-louis-ck-and-more-perform-their-f-1798287901 Podcast Playlist: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastplaylist Boys Don't: https://www.stagesofhalfmoon.org.uk/productions/boys-dont-2017-2018/ This is how it happens: https://tanakamhishi.co.uk/thisishowithappens/ How to be good in bed: https://www.consentcollective.com/events-1/how-to-be-good-in-bed-4th-oct bell hooks: http://www.bellhooksinstitute.com/ The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity and Love: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 Boy accused in America: https://hellobeautiful.com/3015537/jeremiah-henry-doesnt-forgive-cornerstore-caroline-falsely-accused-groping/ Intent isn't magic: http://www.shakesville.com/2011/12/harmful-communication-part-one-intent.html Bruce Willis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bruce_Willis Ann Shulgin: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ann_Shulgin Trauma Black Hole: https://www.biologicalpsychiatryjournal.com/article/0006-3223(90)90437-7/pdf Meg John and Justin: https://megjohnandjustin.com Phillip Pullman: http://www.philip-pullman.com/ La Belle Savage: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Belle_Sauvage Charmed OG: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charmed Help more people get better acquainted. If you like what you hear why not write an iTunes review? Follow @GBApodcast on Twitter. Like Getting Better Acquainted on facebook. Tell your friends. Spread the word!
On this episode of Stuff I Don't Like, I'm joined by my friend Blanca to discuss how men are negatively affected by the patriarchy...ya heard right, I said men! Not only do we review the fabulous bell hooks book, "The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love," we also talk about dating, self-improvement and what we all can do to help the men in our lives be open to love. To read the books we reference in this episode, please check out these links: https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319
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