Dirty Panties Podcast

"There's nothing wrong with fucking to Dolly Parton." -Madeira Darling This episode is part two of a two part interview with Satanic Faith Community Leaders Damian Rath and Madeira Darling.  Damian Rath is a professional Master and phone sex operator. He specializes in Satanic domination, hypnosis, humiliation, heavy sadism, feminization, and bisexual encouragement. He draws on more than a decade of kink scene experience, as well as training in creative writing, theater, and theology. When he isn't busy tormenting submissives, he enjoys horror films, live music, and the study and practice of occultism. Madeira Darling is a professional dominatrix, stand up comic, erotic author and Satanic Priestess residing with her husband, a black cat, a massive pitbull and an antique china hutch in a giallo cinema inspired apartment in Providence Rhode Island.   In this episode we discuss: The perils of San Francisco's most notorious lesbian bar Why are so many vegan restaurants operated by cults? The best goth and industrial music for working out "Jolene" as cuckquean fetish anthem Catacombs and hedge maze fantasies Relevant links: Damian's Niteflirt Madeira's Niteflirt SoMa novel Nitzer Ebb's "Join in the Chant" Ballad of Ho Chi Minh Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com

"When it comes to incubi and succubi, I tell them that those demons are going to show up if they want to. They will show up if they fucking feel like it, and not otherwise." -Damian Rath This episode is part one of a two part interview with Satanic Faith Community Leaders and Sex Worker Power Couple Damian Rath and Madeira Darling.  Damian Rath is a professional Master and phone sex operator. He specializes in Satanic domination, hypnosis, humiliation, heavy sadism, feminization, and bisexual encouragement. He draws on more than a decade of kink scene experience, as well as training in creative writing, theater, and theology. When he isn't busy tormenting submissives, he enjoys horror films, live music, and the study and practice of occultism. Madeira Darling is a professional dominatrix, stand up comic, erotic author and Satanic Priestess residing with her husband, a black cat, a massive pitbull and an antique china hutch in a giallo cinema inspired apartment in Providence Rhode Island.   In this episode we discuss: Historical descriptions of the Devil's penis The "Chronic Masturgator" 365 Days Movie and the dangers of "dickmosis" "The boy with the polished golden asshole"  Bimbo Jesus Stay tuned for Part Two, in two weeks! Relevant links: Damian's Niteflirt Madeira's Niteflirt Sommore's "Dickmotized" bit The Motley Crue Burrito story 365 Days movie Stigmata movie Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com

"People are lied to out of politeness. Am I blunt, or are you so lied to on a consistent basis that what I say sounds harsher?" -Elyse Elaine This week I am interviewing Burlesque Goddess Elyse Elaine! Hailing from the bay area, Elyse Elaine came onto the scene in Oct. 2011 as a burlesque performer and Co-producer of Womanopoly SF. 9 years later she resides in Las Vegas as a radio host at Hot 702.5FM, a core member of burlesque troupe HAUS OF GLAMOUR, and a model/muse for local artists and photographers. Known for bringing raw sex appeal and GLAMOUR, Elyse is RAUNCH IN ITS FINEST FORM.    Episode highlights include: -Burlesque as sex magick  -The problem with uneven accountability for sexual predators across racial lines  -Elyse's recipe for an E-40 Slurricane cocktail -A dreamy bookstore date  -How 2 Chainz got the nickname "Tity Boi" -What does it really mean when someone offers to buy you a drink?   Relevant links: Elyse's Instagram 2 of a Kind Radio Instagram The Haunting on Hill House book  Out novel   Show email: Venusstarfruit@gmail.com   

"This is what love looks like for a wheelchair user, to travel across the world to climb some stairs for someone."  This time, we dive deep with Bethany Stevens, MA, JD. Bethany is a wheelchair using white cis (AFAB), pronouns (she/her), queer sexologist and sociology doctoral student in Sociology at Georgia State University. She's writing her dissertation about the politics of pleasure within the history of the disability rights movement in the United States, particularly focusing on discourses of disability resistance and pleasure politics presented in the Netflix and Obama production teamed documentary Crip Camp (2020). Her other research and activism has centered on ableism impacting sexual and reproductive health of disabled people, prevention of sexual violence, transability, and the radical possibilities of sexual communication.  Episode highlights include: Getting one's dicks in a row  Libra Bethany was (unsuccessfully) engineered to be a Scorpio by her Pisces parents (!?) The importance of extending eroticism beyond the genital zone (for EVERYONE!) A regrettable threesome with a law school ambassador  Reenacting the Odessa Steps scene from Battleship Potemkin as an act of love Using bungee cords to make sex toys accessible Relevant links:  Bethany's instagram, where you can view the Corona Look of the Day Project Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com  Our theme music is "Euphoria" by Decek.  

Friend of the pod and previous guest author Lisa Carver returns for a bonus episode, where she talks about her time spent on Meetic, the French version of Match.com, where she is being wooed by numerous suitors in preparation for her upcoming romantic 3 month trip to Paris!  Episode Highlights Include: -Lisa is accused of being a "Tourist of Love" by French men, who find her "thrilling"  -The time that Venus manifested a date with a sexy Osama Bin Laden lookalike in Iceland -Lisa was catfished by a British man pretending to be French!  -The appeal of a man in a jaunty scarf  -A discussion of "Paris Syndrome," an psychosomatic condition in which visceral disillusionment with Paris may lead to paranoia, vomiting, and hallucination Support Lisa on Patreon to follow her adventures in France! 

"What happens on the way to Vegas stays in Vegas!"   I am excited to welcome beautiful and charming BBW adult film star Alexxxis Allure back to Dirty Panties podcast! Last fall we did a mini episode where we talked about Alexxxis' cameo in the Pauly Shore film Guest House, this time Alexxxis gets in the hot seat for the ten questions!    Episode Highlights Include: -The trials and tribulations of using Tinder while fat  -Embracing homewrecking as sexual fetish  -What it's like to date as a porn star  -Is Peter Steele actually Tommy Wiseau?  Follow Alexxxis on Twitter: https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllure Subscribe to Alexxxis's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallure Alexxxis's clips store: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/461560/Alexxxis-Allure/Store/Videos/ Want a free Dirty Panties Podcast sticker? Rate up 5 stars and leave a review for the show on Apple Podcast, and send a screencap of the review venusstarfruit@gmail.com. I will send you one of these awesome limited edition stickers as thanks, and may even read your review on the show! (Offer limited to USA addresses only, sorry!)

"When it's the mid nineties and you've just gone through a breakup, don't listen to your friends who watch Sex and The City!"   Sunny Megatron is a sexuality educator and media personality. She co-hosts and produces American Sex Podcast and also is also the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron. Her work has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Jezebel, Buzzfeed, CNN, Refinery29, Playgirl Magazine, and more. A three-time nominee for XBIZ Sexpert of the Year, she was also voted Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma.   I met Sunny in the Chicago BDSM scene in the early aughts, after we both dated the same guy, who we'll call "Bob,"  and bonded at a "strap on testing" party. (Actually I'm pretty sure ALL of my friends were involved with Bob at one time or another...)Some highlights from this episode include: -Escaping the "Gen X Toxic Monogamy Hellhole" -That time Venus got "sister-zoned" after a threesome  -Oral sex as a narcissistic manipulation tactic -How puppetry of the penis on a first date went terribly wrong  ...and much more Relevant links: Sunny's Website American Sex Podcast Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com  Big thanks to Sunny for being our guest, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".              

So, let’s just address the elephant in the room when it comes to Jamie Dewolf: It’s an open secret that while he is a vocal opponent of Scientology, he is indeed the great grandson of the notorious L. Ron Hubbard. And much like his forebear, he’s a dangerously charismatic redhead who has amassed a cult of devoted followers. However, Jamie has used his powers for good not ill, building a successful career as a writer, performer, and filmmaker. He’s written and performed with inmates at San Quentin Penitentiary, won “Performance of the Year” by NPR’s Snap Judgment, was voted “Best Poet” and “Best Filmmaker” from the East Bay Express, and has lead writing workshops at over 90 universities, high schools and juvenile detention facilities nation-wide. As one of the most in demand hosts in the Bay Area and beyond, he’s a regular ringmaster and curator for circus troupes, vaudeville showcases and music festivals across the U.S., and has produced and hosted the variety show Tourettes Without Regrets, now known as The Rumpus and Ruckus Revival, for over twenty years.  We've been friends since we used to smoke cigarettes in cemeteries as teenagers, and Jamie allowed me to do a deep dive into his sordid romantic past. Some highlights include: -How Jamie's worst date ever almost ended in death and dismemberment -Why every Scorpio has a scorpion tattoo -Being haunted by "ghost groupies"  -Jamie's problematic crush on Ivanka Trump ...and much more Relevant links: Battery's industrial cover of Gangsta's Paradise: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBr2Wm7yPlw Veronica Compton: https://criminalminds.fandom.com/wiki/Veronica_Compton Jamie's Website: https://www.jamiedewolf.com/ Jamie's Instagram: @jamiedewolf Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com  Big thanks to Jamie for being our guest, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".

Alexxxis Allure is a stunning Vegas-based BBW adult performer, known for her bubbly personality, alternative style, and sexy curves! She makes a cameo appearance in Pauly Shore's new comedy film Guest House, which was released on streaming platforms on 9/4. Pauly Shore frequently mentions his love for BBWs in this film, which is made extra apparent during the scene in which Alexxxis and Pauly get it on in a sex swing in his red-lit stoner den! We talk about how we met ("you were the girl with blue hair and glitter on her titties!"), the difference between working on porn sets vs. Hollywood film sets, and what it's like to have simulated sex with Pauly Shore.Relevant links:Guest House Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoXFhob6AmIFollow Alexxxis on Twitter: https://twitter.com/AlexxxisAllureSubscribe to Alexxxis's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/alexxxisallureSupport Dirty Panties on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.comVenus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentineVenus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentineEmail: venusstarfruit@gmail.com 

Lisa Carver began her career in the 1980s as a founding member of the touring performance troupe Suckdog, notorious for their noise music operas that involved aggressive audience participation. In the 1990s she published the seminal zine Rollerderby, which highlighted the works of many prominent underground artists and musicians, myself included. In the 21st century she has written 15 books, including Dancing Queen: A lusty look at the American Dream, her autobiography Drugs Are Nice, and most recently I Love Art, which contains 105 reflections on phenomena ranging from Shia Leboeuf to Legos to the Bible. Lisa Carver is a living legend and was a personal inspiration to me as a young writer in the 1990s. We met via a fateful phone call in 1994, and reconnected in Las Vegas in 2019, where we conducted this in-person a year later.While Lisa has always been extremely public about her private life, we dive even deeper, and discuss: -How we met (Lisa asked Venus for a drawing of her genitalia)-The erotic appeal of Willem Dafoe's wizened chest -Is it better to not be friends with the people you fuck? -Lisa's complicated relationship with guided meditations...and much moreRelevant links:The Lighthouse (Movie): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7984734/I Love Art, Lisa's newest book: https://www.tigerbeepress.com/store/p20/I_Love_Art.htmlLisa's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/LisaCarverVenus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentineVenus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentineDownload free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.comEmail: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".

This is part two of my interview with sex advice columnist Bonita Applebum. Please go back and listen to part one if you have not yet! This time we discuss: -The truth about HPV: real talk from a sex educator, and why “Girls” actually kinda got it right-Elizabeth Holmes' titties-That time that watching Star Trek: First Contact was better than sex-Monastics: do we want to fuck them, or be them?-Why sugar Daddies are overrated-The best drone metal music for getting it on-“Voting with your pussy”Relevant links:Om “Conference of the Birds”: https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/9095-conference-of-the-birds/Bernini’s Ecstasy of Saint Theresa: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ecstasy_of_Saint_TeresaMore about Bonita: Bonita Applebum is an advice columnist in Athens, GA.  She writes for Flagpole Magazine, where she answers questions and shares her thoughts on sex, love, dating, and relationships.  Bonita is a pseudonym, but she is less of a character and more of a way to allow for honesty and transparency when talking about things so intimate and personal.  She is in her late thirties and is a Black woman of color originally born in the deep south.  She enjoys playing the clarinet, watching gameplay videos on Youtube even though she is not a gamer, and casually studying the history of Britain and its monarchy - but not in a good way.  Her favorite monarchs are the ones who get executed.  If you’d like to send Bonita a question or comment or anything, really, you can do so anonymously at http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice , or you can email her directly at advice@flagpole.com. Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentineVenus’s other projects: https://linktr.ee/VenusValentineDownload free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.comEmail: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".

“What I'm trying to work towards now is really understanding that there's nothing wrong with me. I do deserve love, I do deserve happiness. And if someone doesn't want to experience those things with me, that is not a judgment on me.” -Bonita Applebum I met Bonita Applebum on Livejournal in 2003. We bonded over our love of queer culture, switchblade knives, and the Bobby Caldwell song “What You Won’t Do for Love.” We ended up having such an amazing conversation that I decided to make her interview a two part episode!  In part one of my interview with Bonita, we discuss an amazing array of topics, including: -Learning self love and sexual empowerment after growing up in the bible belt-That time that Venus’s ex-boyfriend gave her a piece of evidence from an eco-terrorist crime as a romantic “gift” -The magic of being a Gemini who is also an identical twin-The ex who made Bonita hate “Burt Reynolds mustaches”-Colorism, Internalized racism, and the re-emergence of Bonita’s “designated hater” Relevant links:Bonita's advice column: https://flagpole.com/advice/hey-bonita/The Cannibal Warlords of Liberia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRuSS0iiFyo&vl=enJessie Ware’s cover of “What You Won’t Do for Love:” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-ltza7hYls Part two will drop in 2 weeks and you’ll get to hear about Bonita’s best and worst dates, her favorite sludge metal to get it on to, and her forbidden crush on a former Attorney General of the United States! More about Bonita:  Bonita Applebum is an advice columnist in Athens, GA.  She writes for Flagpole Magazine, where she answers questions and shares her thoughts on sex, love, dating, and relationships.  Bonita is a pseudonym, but she is less of a character and more of a way to allow for honesty and transparency when talking about things so intimate and personal.  She is in her late thirties and is a Black woman of color originally born in the deep south.  She enjoys playing the clarinet, watching gameplay videos on Youtube even though she is not a gamer, and casually studying the history of Britain and it’s monarchy - but not in a good way.  Her favorite monarchs are the ones who get executed.   If you’d like to send Bonita a question or comment or anything, really, you can do so anonymously at http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice , or you can email her directly at advice@flagpole.com. Venus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentineVenus’s other social media and projects: http://www.bbwvenusvalentine.comDownload free show transcripts and support us on Patreon: http://www.dirtypantiespodcast.comEmail: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".

Welcome to Dirty Panties Podcast, hosted by Venus Valentine. Every episode we ask a different guest the same ten deeply intimate questions about their love and sex lives. Our inaugural guest is Argenta Peron, a queer Latinx sexual and reproductive health specialist by day, and drag queen by night. Argenta refers to herself as "The People’s Diva; offering her advice to anyone who will listen, often unsolicited.” We met pursuing Masters in Public Health degrees in the pastoral college town of Bloomington, Indiana, and have become each other’s family of choice.In the course of asking Argenta ten very personal questions, we discuss a wide array of topics, including:Parallels between dating during the HIV epidemic and the COVID-19 pandemicThe best way to kill the mood while getting a lapdanceWhich Harry Potter character we both secretly want to fuckHow an electrifying kinky toy got its start as an MLM scamWhy we won't be having sex to Argentinean folk musicAnd much more...Listen to find out! Drake's "HYFR" videoArgenta’s Instagram: @argentaperonVenus’s Instagram: @bbwvenusvalentineVenus Valentine's Linktr.ee Support us on Patreon! You can also download show transcripts there, free of charge.Email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to our Sound Engineer Kirstin Johnson, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".

One guest. Ten deeply personal questions. Sexpert Venus Valentine digs deep into the dirty laundry of drag queens, queer luminaries, authors, artists, religious leaders, activists, performers, sex workers, and many more for hilarious, horrifying and touching uncensored stories about their love and sex lives. This podcast is recommended for listeners 18 years or older.