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Please join us as Sunny describes what her new life is like an expat in Portugal. In 2023, her family got rid of most of their belongings from a lifetime in the U.S. and moved to the Azores, an archipelago in the mid-Atlantic that is part of Portugal. The islands are characterized by gorgeous, dramatic landscapes, fishing villages, green pastures, and hedgerows of blue hydrangeas. It's even more breathtaking than it sounds. The islands can be found right between New York and Portugal, about three hours either way. So, in this episode, Sunny tells us about her journey and what it's like being an ex-pat on a beautiful little island. Is it the little slice of heaven that it seems? And what is it like being far away, as we, here in the U.S., cascade towards our election day with the hopes of maintaining our democracy. We will find out all this and more in this episode. Sunny's bio related to kink: Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ sexpert of the year in 2021, and Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Tiktok http://tiktok.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as 988.
“Why an Ambiamorous Person Might Choose Polyamory An ambiamorous person may choose polyamory because: They want to be with a person that has polyamorous relationships. Again, this is a very common reason and very straightforward. While someone who is strictly monogamous might consider it a large sacrifice to adapt to dating a polyamorous person, for an ambiamorous person this is typically not that big of a deal at all, especially if they, too, are able to pursue relationships with other people if they want. They hit the love jackpot and found multiple people that they love and connect with on a deep level and who fit into their life beautifully and harmoniously. They enjoy the close network of support and friendship that can form between metamours. Their relationship system often functions as a chosen family. They place a high value upon allowing their partners to have the freedom to see other people, even in situations where they themselves may date less frequently than their partners (or even be functionally monogamous themselves, from time to time. -Kinkly.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
In this episode our guest is A'magine. A'magine is an author, educator, speaker and filmmaker. She came to the cafe to discuss her documentary called At Your Cervix. A new film exposing the little-known unethical practice of conducting non-consensual pelvic exams on unconscious patients. Grab your warm drink and tune in for a great conversation!Some key takeaways:Consent is non-negotiable: Patients have the right to set clear boundaries and be fully informed about all medical procedures involving their bodies.Advocacy matters: Being proactive, asking questions, and educating oneself before medical appointments can help protect against unethical practices. Support is crucial: We must work together to enact legislation, address systemic issues, and provide resources to empower patients and hold institutions accountable.The lack of consent is a critical issue that affects patients and medical students alike. Gynecological teaching associates (GTAs) are an excellent way for medical students to learn how to do pelvic exams with feedback.Watch the film, At Your Cervix!About A'magineA'magine earned her Master's degree in Human Sexuality Education at New York University and has been teaching and speaking about feminism and sexuality for over two decades. Formerly known as Amy Jo Goddard, she is author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and co-author of the best-selling classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men, both published by Penguin Random House. A coastal transplant to New Mexico, she currently thrives in the desert of the southwest, residing with her wild feline friends, who, she claims are evolved teachers about empowered sexuality and healthy boundaries.A'magine was named one of Go Magazine's “100 Women We Love” and Kinkly's “100 Sex Blogging Superheroes.” She works with women and couples on their sexual and relationship lives and she is a corporate and media consultant. She helps companies, media outlets, health care institutions and universities improve workplaces and the lives of women and elevate media representations of women and LGBTQ people. A'magine's award winning documentary film, At Your Cervix, aims to improve pelvic exams for all patients and to end unethical medical practices that harm women and transgender people. A'magine has begun to advocate for state laws banning the use of anesthetized patients without consent. Check out her popular TEDx talk, presented in Napa, California, “Owning Your Sexual Power”.https://amaginenation.com/https://www.atyourcervixmovie.com/The Good Health Cafewww.thegoodhealthcafe.comFacebook and Instagram: @thegoodhealthcafeSign up for our mailing list: https://www.thegoodhealthcafe.com/The Good Health Cafe Feedback Formhttps://www.thegoodhealthcafe.com/submit-your-question@thegoodhealthcafe on Instagram and Facebook
Elon Musk trying to control your brain?! A.I. telling you that it hates you?! Carl Weathers dead?! YOU SON OF A BITCH! All this and so much more on the newest episode of the Gotham Press Podcast! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Patreon/FetLife/Discord/Facebook/Twitter/YouTube/Spotify -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- In Association with JW Paddles Carmilla The First Steel Brat Pacis Thief's Touch
“Sex-positive feminism is the idea that women's sexual freedom is an important component of their freedom in general. Academics in this subject cover many elements of female sexuality, including teen sex, prostitution, transgender issues, and the female role in BSDM. In general, sex-positive feminists are against laws and other barriers that aim to control consensual sexual activity. Sex-positive feminism is connected to the sex-positive movement and shares many of its values of sex as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable. Sex-positive feminism may also be called pro-sex feminism, sex-radical feminism, and sexually liberal feminism. Sex positive is a term used to describe the idea that individuals should openly embrace their own sexuality rather than suppress it. Individuals who agree with the sex positive movement are open about their sexual orientations and sexual identities, and are comfortable with wearing sexually revealing clothing or otherwise expressing their sexuality as they see fit. They are comfortable exploring their bodies as well as exploring different sexual practices that intrigue and arouse them. They are also much more tolerant of other people's sexual interests and activities, and do not criticize anyone for their sexual decisions as long as they are safe. Being sex positive does not equate to being careless or putting yourself at risk sexually. While the sex positive movement does encourage sexual freedom, it also centers around being safe while doing so. This means protecting yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections by using condoms and practicing safe sex. Overall, the sex postive movement views sexuality - in all its many facets - as a positive part of being human, rather than something to be ashamed of.” -Kinkly.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
Sometimes this podcast is about what BLOCKS us from opening deeply. When I heard Sunny's episode on American Sex about grooming within the kink scene, I knew that I wanted to be sure that Open Deeply listeners heard it as well. So we are reposting it here!. Adult grooming is often misunderstood — from what it looks like, to who is most vulnerable, what types of people groom, and why — most assume it can't happen to them. The fact is, grooming comes in many forms and can happen in any type of relationship – including BDSM dynamics. And because kink often involves power imbalances, it can be especially difficult to recognize in this context. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned veteran, this episode will give you the tools to spot unhealthy power dynamics in BDSM and deconstruct preconceived notions of what manipulative abuse looks like, who can do it, and why. You'll also learn: - The six stages of grooming as they apply to D/s dynamics - How to recognize coercive abuse in BDSM relationships - How pop culture kink stereotypes fuel grooming within BDSM - The end goal of the groomer's behavior - How my breakable rules analysis can help you spot unhealthy kink & more Sunny's bio related to kink: Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ sexpert of the year in 2021, and Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Tiktok http://tiktok.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as 988.
Robin (they/them) is a writer and body-liberation activist. They write about their experiences with eating disorder recovery, challenging anti-fatness, body liberation, health, and wellness. Robin is currently a Health and Wellness Feature Writer for Health Digest. Their work has been published in The Tempest, The Establishment, Bedsider, Scary Mommy, and Kinkly. The questions I asked Robin Can you share your story and how you ended up in the professional anti-diet space? Why do you call yourself fat? What was it like to recover into a fat body? What barriers do fat people face? How can people confront their own anti-fatness in recovery? Connect with Robin Instagram: @body.lib.robinhood Patreon: www.patreon.com/robinzabiegalski Connect with me: Get FREE access to the first few modules of my paid Body Love Binge Programme: https://victoriakleinsman.com/free-access-to-first-few-modules/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriakleinsmanofficial/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/victoriakleinsman Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4iNYvEWvgW9a0wNaj4m9hf?si=caq_P-V2TLSAmx1Swuh3yQ Podcast Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-binge-eating-with-victoria-kleinsman/id1464324636?uo=4 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victoria-kleinsman/message
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS. Lucy is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for womxn to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again. She is a resident on UK contraception platform, The Lowdown, and she is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including Men's Health, GQ, Kinkly, The O Diaries, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour. The two of us take a critical look at the sacred sexuality and Neo-Tantra community, addressing some of the things we've noticed, and sharing some practical ways for listeners to explore and embody their sexuality. Key Points: Lucy introduces herself Conservatism and religion Casual sex vs hookup culture Polarity coaches New-Age to Alt-Right pipeline Heteronormativity Embodiment practices Relationship with pleasure Relevant Links: Lucy's Website: https://lucyrowett.com/ Lucy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett Lucy's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucyrowett Lucy's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lucyrowettcsc Cam's Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser
I'm celebrating the second anniversary of this podcast with a two-part episode on one of my favorite romantic tropes, second-chance romance. In this case, it's finding love, sex and connection at a later age or after romantic or sexual disappointment. Older and wiser has never felt more hopeful as I'm talking with retired sex therapist and erotic romance writer Dr. Donna Jennings a.k.a. Dr. J, getting her tips for navigating healthy sexuality at any age. CW: this is a spicy, explicit episode, full of NSFW sensual sex talk.https://www.confessionsofaclosetromantic.comDr. J creates "sex-positive content to empower the sexually curious." Find links to her writing and newsletter here. And listen to replays of her Twitter Sexuality Space recordings, including the one about Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room featuring ReSpark Pleasure Rooms.ICYMI, check out my episodes on Good Luck to You, Leo Grande, How to Build a Sex Room and kinky romance.Dr. J talks about the power of erotica for igniting fantasies and desires —or exploring new ones. Try some of her stories or check out this fantastic round-up of online erotica by Bustle.Dr. J mentioned the sex positive community The Mon app, and the women's sexual wellness platform Rosy.Bellesa is an amazing sex-positive one stop shop for sex toys, sex education, female-centric porn and erotica.Kinkly is another fabulous sex-positive and kink-positive online sexual health resource with lots of information for kink and sex/orgasm beginners.Kinky sex can be done solo. Who knew?! Support the show
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Being a part of community isn't required to practice BDSM, although it may seem like it due to visibility. What is important is knowing the positive and negative ways community influences the kink subculture. Yes, mainstream myths and stereotypes contribute to BDSM stigma, however, misleading info from the community causes harm too. On ep 188 of American Sex, Sunny Megatron & Kate Loree discuss this plus give advice on verifying the validity of educational info, sniffing out gatekeeping and “one twue wayisms,” doing effective gut checks in consent situations, and more. Sunny also discusses the far-reaching implications of overturning Roe vs. Wade & how the Earn It Act ties in. Guest Bio – Sunny Megatron (Kink-Specific Bio) Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ Sexpert of the year in 2021, Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017, plus her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex won the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum & teaches about BDSM for sexuality educators, therapists, and care professionals including professional certification courses like the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. Episode 188 Links State of Kink Survey https://surveymonkey.com/r/socialkink Sunny Megatron website https://sunnymegatron.com/ Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron? Sunny Megatron Twitter https://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ Resistbot: Send an email to your legislators asking them to vote NO on the Earn It Act https://resist.bot/petitions/PVLKLV or OR TEXT SIGN PVLKLV TO 50409 Roe Vs Wade implications beyond abortion https://www.npr.org/2022/05/05/1096732347/roe-v-wade-implications-beyond-abortion Ep 184 Pt. 1 Rethinking Kink https://sunnymegatron.com/rethink-kink-podcast/ Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships https://www.amazon.com/dp/164742335X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_CBCD2NJQ93Q58Q0C46XZ Kate Loree Website: http://kateloree.com Kate Loree TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree Kate Loree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron Ken's charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Episode 188 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 10% off your first month with BetterHelp http://betterhelp.com/asp 15% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunny OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link https://signup.libsyn.com/?promo_code=SUNNY or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ --Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) --Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com --Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter Sunny & Ken, xo!
Azaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy is a successful Sex and Relationship coach that works with women, moms, and couples to bust through sexual or emotional blocks, so that they can feel turned on, ecstatic, and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria is fueled by a passion for supporting women and couples to be their authentic selves during intimacy and in their relationships so that there is way more room for pleasure, connection, and desire. She loves supporting her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they have the capacity to fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. Azaria has been featured in Cosmopolitan multiple times both online and print, Mindbodygreen, Thrive Global, Kinkly, Giddy, Yahoo, Jack and Gill adult, multiple podcasts, and has hosted workshops at various Universities. She also hosts the podcast: "Getting Intimate" where she brings practical ways to invite more pleasure into your body relationships and sex life. You can find Azaria on Instagram @azaria.menezes If you're enjoying Dear Midlife, please subscribe and leave a review!
Azaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy is a successful Sex and Relationship coach that works with women, moms, and couples to bust through sexual or emotional blocks, so that they can feel turned on, ecstatic, and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria is fueled by a passion for supporting women and couples to be their authentic selves during intimacy and in their relationships so that there is way more room for pleasure, connection, and desire. She loves supporting her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they have the capacity to fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. Azaria has been featured in Cosmopolitan multiple times both online and print, Mindbodygreen, Thrive Global, Kinkly, Giddy, Yahoo, Jack and Gill adult, multiple podcasts, and has hosted workshops at various Universities. She also hosts the podcast: "Getting Intimate" where she brings practical ways to invite more pleasure into your body relationships and sex life. You can find Azaria on Instagram @azaria.menezes If you're enjoying Dear Midlife, please subscribe and leave a review!
On episode 184 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron & sex-positive therapist, Kate Loree, look at BDSM through an atypical lens. We chat about the misconceptions we worked through as people who stumbled upon kink later in life and how that perspective is helpful now in our careers. We discuss the headspace & strategy needed to tap into the customizable nature of BDSM, plus dive into the science & psychology behind kinky play--why do masochists like suffering? What happens to the body & mind during the altered states of consciousness subspace & topspace? How do people use kink to be more grounded, regulate the nervous system, explore intense emotional states with minimal risk, and more? There's a lot more to BDSM than ropes, paddles, and floggers! Guest Bio – Kate Loree, LMFT Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. Kate is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships (release date 4/19/22) and cohosts the sex-positive podcast of the same name, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. She's been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has guested on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Nerd Sandra. She's written for Good Vibrations, Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Guest Bio – Sunny Megatron, CSE Host of the Showtime Original Series, Sex with Sunny Megatron, began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ Sexpert of the Year in 2021, and Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality-focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT Podcast Award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent kink-related projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. Episode 184 Links Kate Loree Website: http://kateloree.com Kate Loree Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft Kate Loree Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Kate Loree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Kate Loree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships (release date 4/19/22) https://www.amazon.com/dp/164742335X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_ZHACQ8RJHMR2R9HGHBMY Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com No Bullsh*t Intro to Kink workshop, Sunny Megatron/Sex Positive World 3/19/22 https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/event-details/a-no-bulls-it-intro-to-kink Resistbot: Send an email to your legislators in 2 minutes via text with https://resist.bot/ @TransTexas/TENT resources for Texas families with transgender kids https://linktr.ee/Transtexas Info from @EqualityTexas “What to do if CPS shows up at your door in regards to your trans child?” https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdUchp2B/?k=1 Equality Texas Twitter https://twitter.com/EqualityTexas Info about the passing of Milo Winslow, trans rights advocate in Lincoln, Nebraska https://www.upworthy.com/world-has-lost-hero-lgbtq-activist-milo-winslow?rebelltitem=1#rebelltitem1 Video by Jazari Kual with information on how to reach out to the Lincoln City Council requesting they rescind the revisions to title xi--one of Milo's final wishes https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=656262748790839 “Don't Say Gay” passes in Florida https://www.hrc.org/news/florida-senate-passes-dont-say-gay-or-trans-bill-legislation-heads-to-desantis-desk-for-signature-or-veto Texas court blocks investigation of families with transgender youth https://www.aclutx.org/en/press-releases/texas-court-blocks-state-investigating-families-transgender-youth Idaho House passes HB675 calling for providing or allowing trans-affirming care for minors punishable by life in prison https://www.newsweek.com/idaho-house-passes-anti-trans-youth-treatment-bill-hb675-1686298 Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron Ken's charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Episode 184 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 65% off Beducated's yearly pass (discount locked in for LIFE!) http://beducate.me/sunny and use code SUNNY. 15% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunny OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link https://signup.libsyn.com/?promo_code=SUNNY or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ --Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) --Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com --Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter Sunny & Ken, xo!
Domina Doll is a Passion, Pleasure, and Empowerment Expert, a Sex Witch, Magic Manifesting Alchemist & Metaphysical Muse. Domina has dabbled as a fetish photographer, filmmaker, creative make-up artist, sex toy peddler, palm, tarot & tea leaf reader, exotic dancer, erotic writer, sensual lifestyle Dominatrix, and a Jill of many trades. Her passion is teaching women how to harness their sexual superpowers so they can manifest their desires using sexual energy and sex magic. As a writer, her work has been published both online and in print including Sexpert.com, Bustle, Kinkly, YourTango, SheKnows, Slutty Girl Problems, Thought Catalog, and Women's Health. She is also the author of: "Jillin' Off: A Girl's Guide to Solo Sex". Domina is also the Managing Editor of Sexpert.com, as well as a kick ass designer, SEO and Marketing Superstar. Domina has a BFA in film, photography, and feminist film studies, and her photography, film and installation work has been featured in Broken Pencil, Venus Envy, UNB Art Center, NetPorn Amsterdam Expo, Moncton Art Gallery, Tidal Wave Film Festival, Center for Art Tapes, Anna Leonownes Gallery, Park Lane Theaters, A-Space Gallery, & Gallery Connexion. She is owner of Sexperteaze.com, a full-service adult marketing and design company, who helps adult businesses promote their biz with creative, out of the box solutions to help them overcome the challenges of marketing adult sites in the world of censorship that exists about sexuality products and services today. Domina has trained in several holistic modalities including Sacred Tantra Sexuality, Ancient Taoist Sexual Empowerment, Metaphysics, Magic, Kundalini, as well as Sex Magic and Manifesting. She lives in Port Saxon, Nova Scotia by the ocean and hails from a long line of witches, druids, Native American Indian Chiefs and Necromantic nymphomaniacs. Follow Domina: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dominadoll/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dominadoll PleazeMe: https://pleazeme.com/channel/dominadoll/ Website: https://www.sexpert.com/ XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Have you checked out https://pleazeme.com? It is a social media platform where adults can be adults. We created the 7 Worlds of PleazeMe so that every person would have a place to privately explore their sexuality with like-minded people. We believe in love, sexuality, and the power of inclusion. People of all shapes and sizes, colors and ethnicities, genders and sexualities are valuable and deserve to feel included. Everyone should have a safe place they can go to connect, discover and express themselves without fear of being judged, censored or discriminated against.
2021's XBIZ Sexpert of the year and kink superhero, Sunny Megatron, is on a mission to disrupt the BDSM world. It's high time to shake up norms and bring the kink community next level with up-to-date standards around consent, ethics, and self-awareness while considering how inclusivity, misogyny, education, attitudes, racism and all the isms impact the whole kit and kaboodle. In this episode, we continue our kinky discussion from episode twenty-two as Sunny tells us more about why her book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play” is so necessary. She explains how the patriarchal feedback loop has impacted both the kink community and the media's portrayal of kink to the masses. All the while, she stresses that she is not dissing traditionalists, but simply stating, “Don't force it on others.” When Sunny coined the key concept “kink is customizable”, she shed a light on just how much creativity and flexibility is possible with kink. The possibilities are limitless as long as you remember consent. And on that note, Sunny goes on to tell us about her educational acronym, the consent PASSM which undoubtably will make an amazing t-shirt. So, I hope you join us for this important and fascinating episode of Open Deeply. Side note: If you would like to vote for Sunny as XBIZ's sexpert for 2022, the link is below. Your support matters and helps sex educators, such as Sunny, who are so often suppressed by social media, make a living. So, thank you for your support! To vote for Sunny for XBIZ's sexpert of the year simply click this link, choose Sunny, and submit! https://xbizawards.xbiz.com/voting/XB Sunny's bio related to kink: Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ sexpert of the year in 2021, and Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Tiktok http://tiktok.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).
If there is anyone who embodies a plethora of kinktastic knowledge, it's my co-host, Sunny Megatron. She's a fountain of knowledge on everything from clown kink to humiliation play and has shaped many a psychotherapist into being kink-aware through her classes. In this episode, we chat about how Sunny originally got into kink, how she customizes her kink for her own needs, and how she has taught others how to shape their kink into their own tailor-made version of perverted fun. Sunny explains how she negotiates, takes her sub on a kinky roller coaster ride followed by rolling back into the station with after care specifically designed for them. Furthermore, Sunny describes both the potential emotional and somatic benefits of kink along with how it may impact us neurologically while always stressing that although kink can be therapeutic, it is not therapy. Please join us for this amazing episode of Open Deeply in which we all learn that BDSM is way more delightful fun than just ropes, paddles and floggers. Sunny's bio related to kink: Sunny began teaching about BDSM in 2010. Her area of expertise is the soft skills--which center around things like ethics, cultivating self-awareness, and strategies for effective communication. She received a FROST Certificate of Gratitude in 2020 honoring her service to the kink community, was voted XBIZ sexpert of the year in 2021, and Kinkly's sex blogging superhero in 2017. Her alternative sexuality focused podcast American Sex was awarded the AASECT podcast award in 2020. Sunny also creates curriculum about BDSM for sexuality professionals. Some of her most recent projects include designing & teaching the BDSM unit for a well-known sex educator certification program plus a lesson for the Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program for therapists and other care professionals. Sunny's first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play is scheduled to be released in 2022. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).
My current fantasy bedroom is full of steam & kink. I'm in the mood, people, so let's read-aloud from some of the hottest, kinkiest romances I've ever read! It's hard to find this level of heat, consent, care AND happy-ever-after on screen, but romance writers have got you covered.https://www.confessionsofaclosetromantic.comThe Psychology of Sexual Kink at The Swaddle is a must read.The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a nonprofit membership organization that advocates for consenting adults in the kink and non-monogamy lifestyles by fighting discrimination and persecution.In case you were curious: Vice lists the top five kinks in the US. And here are the results of a 2015 survey of sexual diversity in the US.ClipsI love the Netflix show Easy for so many reasons, but mostly because it's chock full of humor, relatable relationship issues and sex positivity. The writing is smart, and the ensemble cast is fantastic, too.Calling all musical theater geeks: Schmigadoon! will be catnip for your soul.Fifty Shades of Grey is the kink granddaddy of them all. This movie is a comfort re-watch for me.Hot StuffThe gorgeously smutty Serve series, set in an exclusive NYC BDSM club, was my introduction to kink in romance and it's a doozy.Melt Into You is the scorching-hot Book 2 in the Loving on the Edge series, set at a private, exclusive BDSM ranch in Texas.Sugar Daddies. Daddy Crush. Y'all. Y'ALL. Neon Gods is Book 1 in the steamy, sexy Dark Olympus series. The erotic short stories by women & erotic podcasts round-ups from Oprah Daily are chock full of kinky, sexy, hot AF goodness.Erotica flash fiction writer JM Seaborn writes dirty, smut-hot stories featuring daddy kink and dominant/submissive scenes.The evolution of a kink is a fascinating read, full of compassion, sex positivity and acceptance.The explicit female-gaze audio porn from Girl on the Net is super well-done and classy, and it probably doesn't hurt that she narrates with a British accent. Love Bytes Originals offers high-quality short form audio romance and erotica. Their stories bring "heart, heat and humor" and their professional team of narrators are fantastic. It includes one of my favorite romance audiobook narrators, Emily Woo Zeller.I haven't signed up for Audio Desires yet -- "erotic audio stories for women and couples" -- but oh, I want to.Cosmo magazine was writing about girl power and sex positivity way before it was cool. So leave it to them to develop the Complete Beginner's Guide to Fisting.Kinkly is a one-stop kink info shop.
In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life. We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She's been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny's unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying non-normative sexual practices, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma. LINKS sunnymegatron.com twitter.com/sunnymegatron tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron instagram.com/sunnymegatron facebook.com/sunnymegatron Americansexpodcast.com opendeeplypodcast.com patreon.com/americansexpodcast Other links: Get your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com
EPISODE #189-- Tired of being harangued by Japanese ghosts? Well, here at World's a Mess, so are we! Today we talk about the horrors of chemical play, the state of toilets in the South China Sea, a Florida man V. gator, and further fall-out in Fukushima. All this and some talk about cajuns, DUNE, and our favorite 1990's romantic comedy. Support our show at Patreon.com/quality! Follow James on twitter @kislingtwits and Alex @giraffetermath. Follow us on tumblr at https://worldsamess.tumblr.com/. Donate directly to James at Ko-fi.com/T6T16E5D. Thanks to Sef Joosten for our show art (http://spexdoodles.tumblr.com). Our theme music is "The World's a Mess" by X. Outro is "Peaches" by The Strangers. Our sources are Mel Magazine, BBC, AP, The Hill, Vice, Yahoo Answers, Reddit, Kinkly, and Proceedings B. #Florida #FloridaMan #Japan #Pigs #Boars #NuclearApocalypse #FukushimaDistaster #SelfLove #ChemicalPlay #FireSeason #IcyHotSeason #China #Nature #Dookie
The founders of Kinkly.com, Tara Struyk and Nicole Janssen join Jon aka @hitherecatsuit to look at the world of sex education as the creators of the largest Sex Dictionary, Blogger Directory and resource on line for those in the know and those who are curious.
In this episode I speak with Lucy Rowett about how to flirt for both solo and partnered people, why flirting is so important and how to embrace mistakes. About Lucy: Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS is a sexologist and intimacy coach who is passionate about helping overthinking women let go of sexual shame, embrace pleasure, and claim the joy of their sexuality. She uses a fusion of “neck up” and “neck down” approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment. As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men's Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame She lives in Brighton with her partner, and is a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats. Where to find Lucy: Instagram: @juiceandjasmine Facebook group for women: facebook.com/groups/IntimatelyEmpoweredWoman Free audio training for better sexual communication: bit.ly/MoreofWhatYouWant Re-Kindle The Sexy Spark in Your Relationship: bit.ly/ReKindleTheSparkBook Where to find me: beckycrepsleyfox.com Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox
"When it's the mid nineties and you've just gone through a breakup, don't listen to your friends who watch Sex and The City!" Sunny Megatron is a sexuality educator and media personality. She co-hosts and produces American Sex Podcast and also is also the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron. Her work has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Jezebel, Buzzfeed, CNN, Refinery29, Playgirl Magazine, and more. A three-time nominee for XBIZ Sexpert of the Year, she was also voted Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma. I met Sunny in the Chicago BDSM scene in the early aughts, after we both dated the same guy, who we'll call "Bob," and bonded at a "strap on testing" party. (Actually I'm pretty sure ALL of my friends were involved with Bob at one time or another...)Some highlights from this episode include: -Escaping the "Gen X Toxic Monogamy Hellhole" -That time Venus got "sister-zoned" after a threesome -Oral sex as a narcissistic manipulation tactic -How puppetry of the penis on a first date went terribly wrong ...and much more Relevant links: Sunny's Website American Sex Podcast Show email: venusstarfruit@gmail.com Big thanks to Sunny for being our guest, our graphic designer Pedro Recio, and Decek, who composed our sexy theme song "Euphoria".
Internationally known, sex educator, Sunny Megatron's life story is simply jaw-dropping. Even before her birth, an intergenerational, rapid-fire chain of traumas had already unfolded starting with a cross burning in her grandfather's lawn. Born into chaos and with few anchors, Sunny made her way despite it all. Her biracial identity was hidden from her. Her neurological disability was undiagnosed and protection from her abuser came way overdue, but regardless, Sunny's resilience won out. She found her purpose and became the bright shining light of sexual authenticity and knowledge that she is today. Don't miss this epic story. About the Hosts: Sunny Megatron is an award-winning sexuality educator and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, CNN, and more. She is also a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny's unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma. Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in kink, sex worker, LGBTQ and non-monogamous communities. In addition to her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, she is also an art therapist, and has a second Masters in Business Administration (MBA). She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003 and has additional training in EMDR and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma, such as sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. Her first book on compassionate, conscious non-monogamy will be published in April of 2022. She has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, has been a guest on Playboy Radio, and many podcasts such as American Sex, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sluts and Scholars. She has spoken at universities, such as UCLA, and written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine. Privately, she has been connected to poly, swing and kink communities since 2003 and understands the hurdles, massive emotional growth, and amazing joy these worlds can provide. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree Open Deeply podcast is not a replacement for therapy or therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).
We believe that before we ask our guest to self-analyze their own stories, we feel it's only fair that we do the same. Despite coming from wildly different backgrounds, we were surprised to find so many common themes. Join us as we discuss the trial and tribulations of two recovering over givers. Strangely, both of our grandfathers on the mother's side got their higher education in Chicago. Both became professor's in Tuscaloosa, Alabama, and both had wives that got scarlet fever! WTF? Both of us hit our stride in our career in 2011. And between it all we both have had quite the kinky, non-monogamous journey. So different. So similar. Please join us as we gleefully head shrink each other. About the Hosts: Sunny Megatron is an award-winning sexuality educator and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, CNN, and more. She is also a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny's unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma. Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in kink, sex worker, LGBTQ and non-monogamous communities. In addition to her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, she is also an art therapist, and has a second Masters in Business Administration (MBA). She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003 and has additional training in EMDR and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma, such as sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. Her first book on compassionate, conscious non-monogamy will be published in April of 2022. She has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, has been a guest on Playboy Radio, and many podcasts such as American Sex, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sluts and Scholars. She has spoken at universities, such as UCLA, and written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine. Privately, she has been connected to poly, swing and kink communities since 2003 and understands the hurdles, massive emotional growth, and amazing joy these worlds can provide. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree Open Deeply podcast is not a replacement for therapy or therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).
Sex positive psychotherapist, Kate Loree's childhood journey led from Oregon bliss to Deep South discordance exposing her to sexual shame, sexual abuse, and racism. But life struggles are often the ingredients that define purpose and passion. Once unencumbered from bible belt restriction due to a llama money inheritance, life got better and shifted into hyperdrive. Arriving bright-eyed to the big city, the city of angels, she started art therapy grad school. Little did she know the wild non-monogamous, kinky ride that lay ahead. Spiritual journeys would shift her further. Together, these experiences shaped her into artsy, trauma-informed, social justice-focused sex-positive therapist she is today. Don't miss this story that proves that wild sexuality and spirituality can co-exist. About the Hosts: Sunny Megatron is an award-winning sexuality educator and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, CNN, and more. She is also a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny's unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma. Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in kink, sex worker, LGBTQ and non-monogamous communities. In addition to her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, she is also an art therapist, and has a second Masters in Business Administration (MBA). She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003 and has additional training in EMDR and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma, such as sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. Her first book on compassionate, conscious non-monogamy will be published in April of 2022. She has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, has been a guest on Playboy Radio, and many podcasts such as American Sex, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sluts and Scholars. She has spoken at universities, such as UCLA, and written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine. Privately, she has been connected to poly, swing and kink communities since 2003 and understands the hurdles, massive emotional growth, and amazing joy these worlds can provide. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree Open Deeply podcast is not a replacement for therapy or therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).
Can telling vulnerable life stories help create a shame-free world? While unabashedly sporting rose-colored glasses, we say, “Yes!” In this first episode, hosts Kate Loree and Sunny Megatron reveal their intention and method behind Open Deeply Podcast. You'll also learn about organizations that have a counter agenda in mind and what you can do to help take truth off the extinction list. This episode serves as a primer for what's to come: personal stories exploring emotional vulnerability, pattern breaking, and triumph. Before bringing on guests, we feel it's only fair that we reveal our underbellies first--which leads us to the next two episodes. About the Hosts: Sunny Megatron is an award-winning sexuality educator and media personality. She's the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Kinkly's Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017, and named one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny has been featured in Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, CNN, and more. She is also a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny's unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny's passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, much of her work centers around normalizing alternative sexual practices and ending sexual stigma. Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in kink, sex worker, LGBTQ and non-monogamous communities. In addition to her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, she is also an art therapist, and has a second Masters in Business Administration (MBA). She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003 and has additional training in EMDR and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma, such as sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. Her first book on compassionate, conscious non-monogamy will be published in April of 2022. She has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, has been a guest on Playboy Radio, and many podcasts such as American Sex, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sluts and Scholars. She has spoken at universities, such as UCLA, and written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine. Privately, she has been connected to poly, swing and kink communities since 2003 and understands the hurdles, massive emotional growth, and amazing joy these worlds can provide. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree
In this episode Jenelle and I talk about the culture barriers and stigmas associated with STI (sexually transmitted infections) and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). We want to normalize these needed conversations and eradicate some of the fear and ignorance around these topics. We also touch on the bypassing or holier-than-thou-I-am-too-spiritual-to-get-an-std way of thinking that can ignorantly infiltrate the soiritual community. How often do you get tested? When was the last time you git tested? What are your safe sex practices? You'll want to stick around to the end as we celebrate some of the great accomplishments of this BA human! About Jenelle: Jenelle Marie Pierce is the Executive Director of The STI Project: Breaking the Stigma®, an Adjunct Professor, and a Spokesperson for PositiveSingles.com. As an STI+ Sexual Health Educator and content creator, Jenelle has been dismantling stigma by reclaiming STI narratives® through awareness, education, and acceptance since 2012. Jenelle also tri-chairs the Communications Action Group for the National Coalition for Sexual Health (NCSH), and she is a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), the International Union Against Sexually Transmitted Diseases (IUASTD), the American Sexually Transmitted Diseases Association (ASTDA), the National Viral Hepatitis Roundtable (NVHR), the National Coalition of STD Directors (NCSD), and The Intermountain West HPV Vaccination Coalition. Jenelle's work has been featured in popular TV, radio, and print outlets such as: The Washington Post, CNN, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Jezebel, Forbes, HuffPost Live, NPR, Rolling Stone, Mother Jones, Refinery 29, The Daily Mail, Bustle, and many more. Current bylines can be found in Ovee, SELF, HepatitisC.net, Kinkly, PornHub’s Sexual Wellness Center, and Allure. In her spare time, she teaches group fitness classes and spends time outdoors camping, snow shoeing, hiking, skiing, kayaking, growing things, running through sprinklers, and building sand castles. You can also find Jenelle on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, Pinterest, Tumblr, and TikTok.
Recorded: 6/21/2020 / Published: 9/29/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play. - Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Primal Play Defined- http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Primal- Primal play in the kink context is getting to a place where the masks of civilization can fall away and allow for acting on urges and impulses more directly.These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.The term Primal may refer to a type of play, an identity, or a style of relationships and further primal play is often synonymous with pet play.Primal tendencies often do not often conform to rigorous structures involved with protocol but often do have a d/s element which is often established through some for of dominance display.Primal play is sometimes subdivided into preferred roles:Primal Predator: A primal who seeks to hunt and attempt to capture prey.Primal Prey: A primal who seeks to be hunted by a predator.RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)Primal play frequently contains elements of rough body play and fear play.It is important to note that intentionally evoking raw and unfiltered emotions and reactions can sometimes lead to increased safety risks (emotionally and physically) due to loss of self control. Because of this potential, some may consider primal play to be a form of edge play.- https://www.kinkly.com/definition/12231/primal - A primal is someone who enjoys primal play. Primal play is a style of BDSM that focuses on raw feelings and actions that are evoked by natural impulses and urges. Social norms and niceties are discarded for a very unfiltered self. The civilized shell gives way to emotions and sexual desire that ranges from happiness, joy, playfulness, silliness, sadness, and grief. It is arguable that one cannot be fully primal out of prioritizing safety and comfort. However, primal play allows the submissive who loves to be fully dominated to experience their fantasy. This practice involves using the kink tools we were born with: nails, hair, teeth, and skin. Primal play is based around the concept of retreating back to the primitive animal persona, where labels and protocols don't apply. Wrestling, pulling hair back, biting, and growling are some of the many things that fit into this style of BDSM.- Kinkly explains Primal- Primal play is a form of BDSM practice that displays raw, emotional, sexual feelings. Being primal includes fighting and animalistic tendencies. Subsequently, it is important that the dominant and submissive are communicative with one another to ensure comfort with the situation. The primal state is purely instinctual. Reason and learned behavior are tossed out when practicing primal play with a partner. As long as there is a high level of trust between the two partners, primal play can be a very intimate and explosive BDSM and sex practice.- From “The Submissive Guide” by slavekathy- https://www.submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-is-primal-play - Mr. Samsonite. Every group has one; you know, the guy who can't show up to the play party without enough luggage to go on a two-week European tour? He puts on his little kid gloves and unpacks his embarrassment of kinky riches, and by the time he gets them all out, the party is halfway over. We all know this dominant, and his precise, measured method of play. It's fine if it works for him. However, what if Mr. Mechanical isn't what gets your juices flowing? Many slaves and submissives enjoy a more hands-on approach to play, and no expensive tools or toys are required.You were born with all the kink toys you need for playing primal: teeth, nails, hair, and skin.Pure and abject submission isn't what's called for here; the dominant who prefers primal play wants to fight. Primal play may be your perfect fit if you're the bratty sub who yearns to be overwhelmed, conquered and forced to submit to a stronger, more powerful dominant.A primal play scene may look like wrestling or even martial arts. There may be pressure points involved and even rope bondage, but the thing that sets primal play apart from other types is raw, emotional, sexual feelings displayed. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window during primal play, and the bottom can become a snarling, growling, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away. More sensual types of primal play can look like two animals greeting each other. The top can sniff the submissive, growl in her ear, pull her hair back and bite her neck while holding her immobile.One caveat: if you're going to do some of the more edgy types of primal play in a public play space, be sure to let the DM's know what it is you are doing. Primal play is just that...primal, and it can be disturbing to observers who may not be familiar with the concept of an s-type actually fighting back in earnest.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/251Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny FerrellSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy HoovesJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosBe a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
Recorded: 6/21/2020 / Published: 9/29/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play. - Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Primal Play Defined- http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Primal- Primal play in the kink context is getting to a place where the masks of civilization can fall away and allow for acting on urges and impulses more directly.These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.The term Primal may refer to a type of play, an identity, or a style of relationships and further primal play is often synonymous with pet play.Primal tendencies often do not often conform to rigorous structures involved with protocol but often do have a d/s element which is often established through some for of dominance display.Primal play is sometimes subdivided into preferred roles:Primal Predator: A primal who seeks to hunt and attempt to capture prey.Primal Prey: A primal who seeks to be hunted by a predator.RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)Primal play frequently contains elements of rough body play and fear play.It is important to note that intentionally evoking raw and unfiltered emotions and reactions can sometimes lead to increased safety risks (emotionally and physically) due to loss of self control. Because of this potential, some may consider primal play to be a form of edge play.- https://www.kinkly.com/definition/12231/primal - A primal is someone who enjoys primal play. Primal play is a style of BDSM that focuses on raw feelings and actions that are evoked by natural impulses and urges. Social norms and niceties are discarded for a very unfiltered self. The civilized shell gives way to emotions and sexual desire that ranges from happiness, joy, playfulness, silliness, sadness, and grief. It is arguable that one cannot be fully primal out of prioritizing safety and comfort. However, primal play allows the submissive who loves to be fully dominated to experience their fantasy. This practice involves using the kink tools we were born with: nails, hair, teeth, and skin. Primal play is based around the concept of retreating back to the primitive animal persona, where labels and protocols don't apply. Wrestling, pulling hair back, biting, and growling are some of the many things that fit into this style of BDSM.- Kinkly explains Primal- Primal play is a form of BDSM practice that displays raw, emotional, sexual feelings. Being primal includes fighting and animalistic tendencies. Subsequently, it is important that the dominant and submissive are communicative with one another to ensure comfort with the situation. The primal state is purely instinctual. Reason and learned behavior are tossed out when practicing primal play with a partner. As long as there is a high level of trust between the two partners, primal play can be a very intimate and explosive BDSM and sex practice.- From “The Submissive Guide” by slavekathy- https://www.submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-is-primal-play - Mr. Samsonite. Every group has one; you know, the guy who can't show up to the play party without enough luggage to go on a two-week European tour? He puts on his little kid gloves and unpacks his embarrassment of kinky riches, and by the time he gets them all out, the party is halfway over. We all know this dominant, and his precise, measured method of play. It's fine if it works for him. However, what if Mr. Mechanical isn't what gets your juices flowing? Many slaves and submissives enjoy a more hands-on approach to play, and no expensive tools or toys are required.You were born with all the kink toys you need for playing primal: teeth, nails, hair, and skin.Pure and abject submission isn't what's called for here; the dominant who prefers primal play wants to fight. Primal play may be your perfect fit if you're the bratty sub who yearns to be overwhelmed, conquered and forced to submit to a stronger, more powerful dominant.A primal play scene may look like wrestling or even martial arts. There may be pressure points involved and even rope bondage, but the thing that sets primal play apart from other types is raw, emotional, sexual feelings displayed. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window during primal play, and the bottom can become a snarling, growling, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away. More sensual types of primal play can look like two animals greeting each other. The top can sniff the submissive, growl in her ear, pull her hair back and bite her neck while holding her immobile.One caveat: if you're going to do some of the more edgy types of primal play in a public play space, be sure to let the DM's know what it is you are doing. Primal play is just that...primal, and it can be disturbing to observers who may not be familiar with the concept of an s-type actually fighting back in earnest.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/251Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny FerrellSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy HoovesJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosBe a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
Sex educator and coach Kai Werder joins Tristan to talk about one of the crucial issues facing lots of people during COVID-19: skin hunger. We discuss how a lack of sexual and non-sexual touch on top of a pandemic affects our physical and mental health. Kai offers a thoughtful, nuanced perspective on dealing with touch deprivation and practical communication tools in the digital age. Then they talk about their theories of mismatched libidos and the Desire Discrepancy workbook they created to help folks struggling with one of the most common issues in relationships. Kai is a certified sex educator, coach, writer, and healing practitioner living on the occupied Chitimacha Tribal territory of New Orleans, LA. They believe in moving alongside clients and students as a guide towards healing through pleasure. Their work centers consent-based education that is shame-free, LGBTQ prioritized, and trauma-informed. You can find her published writing on sites like Allure, Teen Vogue, MTV, Kinkly, and GO Magazine. They are currently a candidate for Masters in Social Work at Tulane University and hope to use their degree to break down barriers of mental health services for queer and trans survivors.
In this episode, the amazing M Christian reads Prêt à Porter. Calling M.Christian versatile is a tremendous understatement. Extensively published in science fiction, fantasy, horror, thrillers, and even nonfiction, it is in erotica that M.Christian has become an acknowledged master, with stories in such anthologies as Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, Best Bisexual Erotica, Best Fetish Erotica, and in fact too many anthologies, magazines, and sites to name. M.Christian's short fiction has been collected in many bestselling books in a wide variety of genres, including the Lambda Award finalist Dirty Words and other queer collections like Filthy Boys and BodyWork. He also has published collections of erotic science fiction including Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than the Real Thing, Bachelor Machine, Skin Effect, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica Of M.Christian. As a novelist, M.Christian has shown his monumental versatility with books such as the queer vamp novels Running Dry and The Very Bloody Marys; the erotic romance Brushes; the science fiction erotic novel Painted Doll; and the rather controversial gay horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth and Me2. But M.Christian has other tricks up his literary sleeve: in addition to writing, he is a prolific and respected anthologist, having edited 25 anthologies to date including the Best S/M Erotica series; Pirate Booty; My Love For All That Is Bizarre: Sherlock Holmes Erotica; The Burning Pen; The Mammoth Book of Future Cops, and The Mammoth Book of Tales of the Road (with Maxim Jakubowksi); Confessions, Garden of Perverse, and Amazons (with Sage Vivant), and many more. M.Christian is also a celebrated sexual futurist, both through his novels and short stories as well as being a Senior Columnist for Future Of Sex, which provides "insights into the fascinating topic of the future of human sex and sexuality." Finally, M.Christian is a sought-after columnist for kink and sex education sites like Kinkly, Hot Movies, http://fetish.com/ (Fetish.com), and many others--as well as lecturing at BDSM events all over the country. He also can be heard on the regular podcasts he does with Dr.Amy Marsh, "Love's Outer Limits," and Ralph Greco Jr, "Licking Non-Vanilla," info about which can be found at http://mchristian.com/podcasts.html (http://mchristian.com/podcasts.html). Support this podcast
We were happy to have Dr. Lanae St. John back on the podcast again after 3 years. She recently released her book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for THE TALK and we're so excited to see this book come alive. The information is applicable to adults, parents, and children. She also revealed her five building blocks to a healthy sexuality. These blocks can help anyone build trust in themselves and their partner(s) in creating healthy relationships. We had a great conversation reminiscing over how this book evolved and took form.About Dr. Lanae St.JohnDr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a former professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She’s been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women’s Health Magazine and she’s been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is the author of Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk." Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.Follow her at https://www.themamasutra.net at @themamasutra on social media.
We were happy to have Dr. Lanae St. John back on the podcast again after 3 years. She recently released her book, READ ME: A Parental Primer for THE TALK and we're so excited to see this book come alive. The information is applicable to adults, parents, and children. She also revealed her five building blocks to a healthy sexuality. These blocks can help anyone build trust in themselves and their partner(s) in creating healthy relationships. We had a great conversation reminiscing over how this book evolved and took form.About Dr. Lanae St.JohnDr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a former professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She’s been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women’s Health Magazine and she’s been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is the author of Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk." Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.Follow her at https://www.themamasutra.net at @themamasutra on social media.
This week we sat down with the guys and discussed LOVE IN DIFFERENT CULTURES. Dating different ethnicities, religions, cultural backgrounds and overcoming any challenges. We also had a special 1 on 1 guest appearance with @billehblessings to discuss spirituality and love spells. This week in the ToyBox we have a Rabbit Vibratort. Don't be shy! Get involved in the discussion, drop down to the comments or follow us at: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mavrotalks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mavrotalks Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mavrotalks/ Website: https://www.mavroworldwide.com/mavrotalks Also, watch the show on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ong0ms0CeBc&feature=youtu.be Helpful Links: - Relate (Relationship advice for everyone) - https://www.relate.org.uk - Bondara - https://www.bondara.co.uk - Love Honey - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk - Ann Summer - https://www.annsummers.com - Kinkly - https://www.kinkly.com
My amazing guest Jon Pressick, gadabout of sexual culture in and around Toronto, Canada shared his passion about Sex in Words. He conveyed that sex needs a voice. A harmonious, diverse voice that speaks to the masses that SEX needs to be released into the Universe for us ALL to enjoy freely without any negative connotations attached to it. Jon primarily is a sex writer, who provides a weekly sex news round-up on Kinkly.com called Sex Stories We Love. He also contributes frequent articles to Kinkly, Cherry Banana and others. His work has appeared in the books Best Sex Writing 2013, Secrets of the Sex Masters and Met Another Frog, and on the sites New York Magazine, Cara Sutra, Future of Sex, Bisexual.com and more. In 2015, Jon edited Best Sex Writing of the Year, V1 for Cleis Press. Beyond sex writing, Jon is a former host of the sex talk radio show Sex City, a publishing producer of books for sex community writers, zine creator, event producer and he even dabbled a bit in burlesque. Check him out at www.sexinwords.caSupport the show (https://oralicious.com/podcast/)
This week we sat down with the guys and discussed FETISHES. Foot fetishes, water sports and the BDSM/Kink community. Don't be shy! Get involved in the discussion, drop down to the comments or follow us at: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mavrotalks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mavrotalks Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mavrotalks/ Website: https://www.mavroworldwide.com/mavrotalks Also, watch the show on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhK9mNcMs0Y Helpful Links: - Klub Verboten - https://klubverboten.com - Torture Garden - https://www.torturegarden.com - Cross Breed - https://crossbreedworld.com - Grindr - https://www.grindr.com - Boy Ahoy - http://boyahoy.com - Scruff - https://www.scruff.com - Fetlife - https://fetlife.com - Bondara - https://www.bondara.co.uk - Love Honey - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk - Ann Summer - https://www.annsummers.com - Kinkly - https://www.kinkly.com
tl;dr JoEllen Notte is here to help us explore depression, relationships, and how depression and mental health can impact sex and desire, plus connecting during a pandemic. Explore More Summit is happening NOW! Grab your free ticket by registering today for this free, entirely online conference that happens April 20-29th featuring 28 delicious, timely, intimate talks. Head to exploremoresummit.com and register. We've got Pleasure Mechanics, Rachel Cole, Prentis Hemphill, Andrea Glik, Jennifer Mullan, Kai Cheng Thom, and so many others. Don't miss it! Patrons who support at $3 and above, this week you get to hear a bonus chat between JoEllen and I on this cultural idea that people with depression are essentially asexual, desexualized humans and what JoEllen actually found in all of her research plus looking at sex as an a la carte menu versus a buffet. (And Eeyore masturbating totally gets talked about.) Hear it at patreon.com/sgrpodcast. In this episode, JoEllen and I talk about her new book, "The Monster Under the Bed" which is all about sex, depression, and relationships. We talk about how the entire world is coping and struggling with depression, anxiety, panic, and trying to survive the unknown. How normal it is to be feeling numb and disconnected while also feeling more emotional and tender. We explore how being in close quarters with a partner can lead to a reckoning with our relationships, important questions to ask ourselves during these times when we're wondering if our relationship is the problem or just how terrible things are in general and how to tease out whether it's the person or the relationship. JoEllen and I share some of the catastrophizing stories our brains like to tell us and ways we cope, plus communicating our mental health needs with a partner and why context matters SO much when it comes to our libido and pleasure. JoEllen also cannot stress enough how important it is to read Emily Nagoski's "Come As You Are" if you haven't already. Be sure to send in your questions! I would love to hear from you. Use the contact form at dawnserra.com. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About JoEllen Notte: JoEllen Notte is a certified sex educator, writer, speaker, sexuality researcher, and mental health advocate. She blogs at The Redhead Bedhead and has been published by the BBC, Glamour, Bitch Media, xoJane, and Kinkly. JoEllen's book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren't Having will be released on March 27, 2020. Stay in touch with JoEllen at redheadbedhead.com and get a copy of The Monster Under the Bed at your favorite local bookstore. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Stream it on Spotify Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous) Episode Transcript Visit dawnserra.com/ep301
Health departments are now recommending we stop seeing partners that live outside of our own homes. So many of us miss dating, our polyamorous partners, sex parties, tinder hookups, dungeon playtime, and more. Many are even starting to “quarantine-dial” exes (stop that)! We’re craving intimate companionship right now more than ever. In this episode, we give you safe alternatives for getting it on long-distance style. You have a lot more options than just talking dirty on FaceTime. Discover dozens of adult games, apps, programs, techniques, and creative ideas for connecting intimately with others while you’re sheltering in place. This info can be used for ongoing relationships, BDSM scenes, cam performers & online pro-doms, cybersex with strangers online, or getting it on by yourself. Although much will be related to kink, these resources aren’t only for BDSM. Many of these tools/techniques can be used by folks that are on the vanilla end of the spectrum too. 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I'm super excited for today's episode with our guest Dr. Lanae St. John, because we're going to talking about what now? That's right, we're talking about sex and how we can become more comfortable and open talking about it. Dr. Lanae is a sexologist and author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk.” Since Zachary, my son on the autism spectrum, is 13 now I've been like hmmm maybe it's time to have this conversation, but HOW?? I'm sure many of you are in that same boat. Dr. Lanae has the tools and strategies you need to help you become comfortable with sex yourself, being comfortable discussing it with your partner, and also how to talk to your children about it when the time comes. Tune in now to find out what those strategies are! More about Dr. Lanae: Dr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a former professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She's been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013. Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Oprah Magazine, CNN, Popsugar, and Women's Health Magazine and she's been a guest on multiple podcasts. In addition, she is author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her significant other and two daughters. As promised here is access to her free gift for you. http://bit.ly/TMS4GSE Follow her on social media at @themamasutra Make sure to comment, leave your reviews, rate this episode, and subscribe to The Dr. Ali Griffith Show. For more episodes of The Dr. Ali Griffith Show, autism parenting resources, business tools and coaching, free gifts, or an individual consult with Dr. Ali visit www.draligriffith.com
In this bonus episode, we are joined by special guest co-host Jenelle Marie Pierce of The STI Project: Breaking the Stigma®, to discuss whether non-monogamy agreements can improve ones perceived sense of sexual self-control, and therefore make us more likely to engage in condom negotiation and use. And boy, do we get in it! Reading a fantastic article by David L Rodrigues, Diniz Lopes and Terri D. Conley, first published February 13, 2019. This can be found on Taylor & Francis Online here. You can find more about Jenelle on here instagram @thestiproject, at the Herpes Activist Network (HANDS) and at her current bylines on O.School, SELF, HepatitisC.net, Kinkly, PornHub’s Sexual Wellness Center, and Allure. We also encourage you to check out PositiveSingles.com. You can support Poly Pages on Instagram @polypages. You can find your co-hosts on Instagram @claireltravers and @sebastiandaou. Our wonderful music is lovingly provided by the amazing Mint Green who can be found on bandcamp, facebook and Instagram: @mintgreenmusic. The track we use is Curtains from their EP Growth. Feel free to contact our email - polypages@gmail.com - for any questions or comments. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/polypages/support
In Pursuit Of Truth with Aideen T. Finnola Radio Show Conflicting and confusing information about sexuality? In our culture? Nooooo, really?!? Unfortunately, yes! You've heard about guy boners, but did you know that girl boners exist too? Yep, they're a thing . . . a real thing . . . Truth! If you grew up in North American culture (or just about any other culture across the globe), you probably didn't get the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth about sexuality! That was certainly the experience of August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio and author of Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment. After having spent a lifetime in pursuit of sexual truth, August is an expert on all things sexual, especially Girl Boners! Join Aideen for a fun, probably racy, certainly insightful, and undoubtedly enlightening conversation with August McLaughlin about the truth of sexuality, sexual expression, and Girl Boners! August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and creator of the female sexual empowerment brand Girl Boner. Her feature articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan.com, DAME magazine, the Huffington Post, Sexual Wellness News, LIVESTRONG.com, The Good Men Project and more. On her weekly web radio show and podcast, Girl Boner Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebrity entertainers, “everyday” women and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” For the past several years, she’s been listed as one of Kinkly‘s 100 Sex Blog Superheros. In 2016, she was chosen to attend the United State of Women summit, convened by the White House, in Washington DC, as a nominated change maker, for her work in gender equality and women’s sexuality. As a speaker at Beverly Hill’s first TEDx Women event, in October 2016, she shared her story of surviving an eating disorder. (See her talk on the importance of self-embracement here.) Since recovering from anorexia and years of body dysmorphia, August has taught and mentored individuals with eating disorders and other psychological disorders on wellness and body image on an individual and group basis. She is the executive producer of Weight Limit—a body image-related PSA, and speaks professionally for a variety of audiences on body image, eating disorders and women’s sexuality. Known for melding personal passion with activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to encourage women and people in the LGBTQIA+ community to embrace their bodies and sexuality, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The companion book, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment, is now available. https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/ https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Boner-Girls-Sexual-Empowerment/dp/1944995714/ https://augustmclaughlin.com/book/girl-boner-journal/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-boner-radio/id814715884 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7po4cUMXpg&feature=youtu.be https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjoiqcart1An7I8yZPvECYg august@augustmclaughlin.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/ Author of My Exquisite Purple Life Purchase Book Here or Audio Here https://www.balboapress.com/BookStore/BookDetails/752312-My-Exquisite-Purple-Life ~ More About In Pursuit Of Truth with Aideen T. Finnola ~ Aideen T. Finnola is an empowerment coach, author, speaker, and radio show host. She is an unapologetic and empowered survivor of and thriver after physical, emotional, psychological, and religious abuse. As she was raised in a religious cult for the first two decades of her life and was then unsuspectingly married to a closeted gay man for her life’s next two decades, she has a lot of experience with varying degrees and expressions of untruth. These experiences have fueled her pursuit of truth to the point of a full-on passion (some might say obsession). Aideen has learned that above all, untruth is both unworkable and painful. Coming from the perspective that life, time and space, and the human experience are all perfect and good, she knows that truth can only exist within ideas and experiences that are both workable and enjoyable. Aideen coaches her clients to find their own truth by investigating outside the conventional parameters of “should and shouldn’t,” “good and bad,” and “right and wrong.” She guides them instead to evaluate their experiences by questioning “Is this working for me?” and “Am I enjoying this?” Aideen empowers people all over the world through her coaching, her memoir, My Exquisite Purple Life, her speaking, and her radio show. Her unwavering message is to look for truth, guidance, and answers within, because it’s all there inside! https://www.aideentfinnola.com/ ~ https://www.facebook.com/aideentfinnola To get more of In Pursuit Of Truth ~ Aideen T. Finnola, be sure to visit the archives page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/in-pursuit-of-truth-with-aideen-t-finnola/
Dr. Iris Kerin Orbuch is the Director of the Advanced Gynecologic Laparoscopy Center in Los Angeles and New York City and co-author “Beating Endo: How to Reclaim Your Life From Endometriosis”. Dr. Orbuch is regarded as one of only a handful of Endometriosis Excision Specialists across the country. Dr. Orbuch is an M.D. who heals each patient from an east meets west, mind-body, head-to-toe approach. Dr. Orbuch is the President of the Endometriosis Special Interest Group of AAGL; the largest international minimally invasive organization worldwide. Dr. Orbuch has published numerous medical journal publications, textbook chapters, and had a running column, ‘Ask Dr. Iris’ on Cosmopolitan.com, as well as being quoted in Cosmopolitan, Medical economics, U.S. World and News Report, Kinkly, CNN.com, Well + Good, Insider, Stylecaster, Bustle, Madison Magazine and more. .fusion-image-frame-bottomshadow.image-frame-shadow-244{display:inline-block}.element-bottomshadow.imageframe-244:before, .element-bottomshadow.imageframe-244:after{-webkit-box-shadow: 0 17px 10px rgba(0,0,0,0.4);box-shadow: 0 17px 10px rgba(0,0,0,0.4);}Supplement of the month is Turmeric Boost July supplement of the month is BYWGs Turmeric Boost. Turmeric has been in the news for its surprising effectiveness to manage inflammatory issues and arthritis pain. However, not all turmeric supplementation is the same! Turmeric Boost contains BCM-95 which is a patented form of whole turmeric that helps to address the absorption issue by providing a trademarked formula with 700-900% better absorption in human clinical trials. In addition, it doesn’t require black pepper to be absorbed which can be a sensitivity for some patients. We added medium chain triglycerides (MCT) to BYWG Nutrition’s Turmeric Boost, which is a fat that encourages even better absorption as well. Once again, no fillers, no wheat, no gluten, no diary – just value, quality and effectiveness. For the entire month of July if you use this code JulyTurmeric (case sensitive) you will receive 10% off this incredible anti-inflammatory aid. .fusion-button.button-133 {border-radius:25px;}Order Turmeric Boost.fusion-image-frame-bottomshadow.image-frame-shadow-245{display:inline-block}.element-bottomshadow.imageframe-245:before, .element-bottomshadow.imageframe-245:after{-webkit-box-shadow: 0 17px 10px rgba(0,0,0,0.4);box-shadow: 0 17px 10px rgba(0,0,0,0.4);}BYWG's Product of the Month We’ve been a huge fan of Butcher Box for years. In fact you can listen to me interview the CEO Mike Salguero in the podcast archives. Personally I look forward to my ‘”box” of grass fed meats every month. I get the beef – pork – chicken combo box and regularly take advantage of their specials. Till the end of July visit https://www.butcherbox.com/beyondyourwildestgenes/ and new customers you are eligible for FREE Shipping, FREE Bacon, and $20 off your first box. I love grass fed beef, organic chicken, wild caught fish, and heritage pork – especially in the form of BACON! BYWG's Book of the Month: Girl Stop Apologizing – A Shame Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals by Rachel Hollis.
Grab a pen because this episode is jam-packed with valuable info! For the first time, Sunny Megatron publicly divulges all of her long-distance sexytime tools. We’ve never seen such a comprehensive list of apps, programs, techniques, and creative ideas for keeping your LDR hot and fresh. This information can be used for ongoing dom/sub relationships, one-off BDSM scenes, cam performers and online pro-doms, cybersex with strangers online, or getting it on with yourself online. Although quite a bit of it is related to kink-- these resources aren’t only for people into BDSM. Many of these tools and techniques can be used by folks that fall more on the vanilla end of the spectrum too. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 89 Links Reddit thread for sharing more tools and suggestions: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast/comments/bo427m/long_distance_bdsm_cyber_sex_websites_apps_tools/ Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Kink Academy podcast on long distance kink https://erotication.libsyn.com/long-distance-kink Exploring BDSM Episode 80 American Sex http://sunnymegatron.com/exploring-bdsm-podcast/ SESTA/FOSTA Episode 36 ASP http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Teamviewer https://www.teamviewer.com/ Rabb.it https://www.rabb.it/ The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/ Orgasm Control guide written by Sunny Megatron for Kinkly (includes orgasm games) https://www.kinkly.com/14/16957/sex-tips/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm-denial Emlalock https://emlalock.com/#/ ChastiKey app https://www.chastikey.com/ Real Estate Lock Box https://www.amazon.com/Master-Lock-5400D-Combination-Portable/dp/B0002YP1VC/ Kitchen Timer Box https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-Safe-Mini-Locking-Container/dp/B00JGFQRN4/ Writeforme.org https://writeforme.org/ Self-Bondage Safety https://www.selfbound.net/tech/safety.html Literotica http://literotica.com/ Onesubmissiveact.com https://onesubmissiveact.com/ Faproulette.com https://www.faproulette.co/8903/risky-door-fap/ Fapinstructor.com https://fapinstructor.com Milovana https://milovana.com Sex Scripts https://ss.deviatenow.com/scripts.php Signal https://signal.org/ MarcoPolo https://www.marcopolo.me/ Violet Blue https://www.tinynibbles.com/ Lovense toys https://store.castlemegastore.com/departments/lovense-sex-toys-226.html We-Vibe toys http://shrsl.com/1lngm We-Vibe Moxie remote panty vibe http://shrsl.com/1lngn Why you should never buy sex toys on Amazon http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ O.School https://www.o.school/ Fetlife http://fetlife.com/ Online orgy resource http://sunnymegatron.com/find-online-orgy-websites-seen-sex-sunny-megatron/ Sex with Sunny Megatron Episode 5 “The More The Merrier” https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Kasidie http://www.kasidie.com/ SLS http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=AFF977100913 SwingerZoneCentral http://swingerzonecentral.com/affiliates/aw.aspx?A=1313&Task=Click *some of the above links may be affiliate links Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 89 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01
Tori speaks with Jenelle Marie Pierce of the The STD Project about the stigma around people with STIs and STDs. If you are struggling with a similar experience, be sure to check out the episode and find out how other people are working to break the stigma. Jenelle is the Executive Director of The STD Project; the Founder of the herpes activists network, HANDS; the Spokesperson for PositiveSingles.com; and a Tri-Chair of the Communications Action Group at the National Coalition for Sexual Health (NCSH). Her work has been featured in popular TV, radio, and print outlets such as: Cosmopolitan Magazine, Jezebel, Forbes, HuffPost Live, NPR, Refinery 29, CNN, and many more. Current bylines can be found in SELF, HepatitisC.net, Kinkly, PornHub's Sexual Wellness Center, xoJane, and Allure. For fun, Jenelle stays active as a group fitness instructor and also spends time camping, snow shoeing, hiking, skiing, kayaking, growing things, running through sprinklers, and building sand castles.
Tori speaks with Jenelle Marie Pierce of the The STD Project about the stigma around people with STIs and STDs. If you are struggling with a similar experience, be sure to check out the episode and find out how other people are working to break the stigma. Jenelle is the Executive Director of The STD Project; the Founder of the herpes activists network, HANDS; the Spokesperson for PositiveSingles.com; and a Tri-Chair of the Communications Action Group at the National Coalition for Sexual Health (NCSH). Her work has been featured in popular TV, radio, and print outlets such as: Cosmopolitan Magazine, Jezebel, Forbes, HuffPost Live, NPR, Refinery 29, CNN, and many more. Current bylines can be found in SELF, HepatitisC.net, Kinkly, PornHub's Sexual Wellness Center, xoJane, and Allure. For fun, Jenelle stays active as a group fitness instructor and also spends time camping, snow shoeing, hiking, skiing, kayaking, growing things, running through sprinklers, and building sand castles.
Guest: Jenelle Marie Pierce Jenelle Marie Pierce is the Executive Director of TheSTIProject.com, the Founder of the herpes activists network: HANDS, the Spokesperson for PositiveSingles.com, and a Tri-Chair of the Communications Action Group at the National Coalition for Sexual Health (NCSH). Current bylines can be found in SELF, HepatitisC.net, Kinkly, PornHub’s Sexual Wellness Center, xoJane, and Allure. For […]
Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: BDSM and Power Exchange Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange. This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community. If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and Power Exchange Series, I suggest you download them. The first two include interviews with Dr Kevin Boileau and cover some of the theory and emotional issues, the third in the series includes an interview with Pharoah Khaf Ra and Empress Nahara who are a lifestyle dominant couple and last week I started with practicalities like figuring out if you are dominant or submissive. I have talked about getting ready to step out and explore BDSM and power exchange whether you are doing it in private or in public. But many people have no idea where to begin to look to meet people, for events or for clothing and accessories. First I want to highlight that you don’t need to spend lots of money on special clothing and toys. Most events have a dress code but most of them also will accept scant clothing (as close to nakedness as is legal in that jurisdiction) or being dressed all in black. The dress code is supposed to encourage people to make an effort to get involved, look and feel sexy and to discourage those people who come along to gawk. Gawking is different from watching when you are a proper voyeur. Gawking is when someone comes to watch all the strange people and has no intention of getting involved in any way and when someone doesn’t observe basic courtesy either. Basic courtesy includes: Don’t interfere in someone else’s scene. If they are doing something you find interesting, watch from an appropriate distance. That means don’t watch from 2 inches away. I was once involved in a scene with a woman where I was performing oral sex on her and a man came and sat so close too watch that his face was almost between my mouth and her pussy. He was told very firmly to move away. When people are using floggers, whips and canes if you get within the circle of the stroke you will get injured and really annoy the person who is doing the beating. Also, when people are in a scene, it creates a bubble and they are likely to be unaware of the outside world. When someone blunders in, they break the bubble and the distraction can ruin the entire scene because it interrupts the energy flow. Energy builds in a scene to a peak just like it does in sex when it builds to orgasm. No means no. Just because someone is at a public event does not mean they are there to play with everyone. If someone says no, please respect it. Observe protocols. Even if you find it strange to have to ask someone’s Master or Mistress to talk with them, please follow their protocols. It is a means of demonstrating respect. You can ask about reasons or the origins of the protocol but ultimately following it is the best way to show respect. Don’t spend time talking or asking questions in active areas of play. This disrupts the energy and disrupts the scene. There are usually conversation areas and people are usually happy to answer questions after the scene. Remember that after care is part of the scene. Don’t make assumptions about role, gender, sexuality, sexual orientation. Ask instead of assuming. Where to meet people online: There are lots of resources to meet people online. Fetlife.com is a social media site for people who like fetishes including BDSM and power exchange. There are lots of different groups once you have joined. You can join a group for events near your location to find out who might be close by. You make a profile and people can search profiles in a number of ways, send emails and reach out to you via the groups you join. OK Cupid! has a large number of people who enjoy kink and BDSM. You make a profile there in the same way you would on any other dating site. Facebook: There are lots of BDSM and power exchange related Facebook groups. Some are secret. Others are just private. Check group rules to see if looking to meet people is OK. Fester.com is relatively new and apparently most folk are 30 or under. Collarspace.com is mostly for hook ups. Reviews are very mixed. BDSM.com is a space for talking about things as well as hooking up. Chained.org is site for meeting folks. Where to meet people offline besides events and parties: Going to a local munch is a great way to meet people in your area. Munches are usually held monthly in a restaurant or pub. People come dressed in normal clothing and are usually welcoming to newcomers. You can find munches listed on places like FetLife.com. There are fetish markets in many cities. London, UK has one every month. There are lots of items for sale, usually short presentations and stage shows and lots of space to mingle and meet folk. There is also usually a play party afterwards and the ticket prices are reasonable. Finding toys and supplies: For bondage using rope: There are lots of online sites. I recommend checking out https://www.twistedmonk.com This is the best site for different types of rope, rope care, how to videos etc. http://www.esinem-rope.com Excellent UK site for rope, tutorial DVDs. If you want to learn to make your own tools and toys: Check out the blogs on Kinkly.com For floggers, whips, restraints: http://www.detailstoys.com http://www.whipsbywolf.com/handmade-leather-floggers/ For gay men – hard core toys https://www.regulation-london.com Get recommendations from people you meet at events. Of course you need not spend much money at all. There are many ‘pervertables’ in most homes. A pervertable is something that is ordinary that you can turn to a kinky purpose. For example: Belts are extremely pervertable to use for a beating. You can use wooden spoons (ouch!), spatulas. Lots of things in the kitchen are pervertable. For restraints you can use ties, belts, scarves. For blindfolds – ties, scarves. It’s easy to go wild and spend a fortune on beautiful toys and restraints and then rarely use them. I recommend starting with pervertables and then making the purchase of any tools or toys something that you do with lots of thought. Pick out one or two special pieces. Clothing Fetish clothing varies depending upon your interests and roles. Leather can be used for a variety of things. Some people love the feel, touch and smell of leather. There is also the leather lifestyle. People who identify as part of the leather lifestyle are engaged in power exchange relationships (often Master/slave or Mistress/slave) and follow certain codes. Most codes include honor, honesty, respect) and most observe a variety of rituals. Leather for these people is not only sexy and hot but is earned and a means of recognising service. Some people like the feel of rubber or latex. For latex clothing: http://www.houseofharlot.com https://www.pandoradeluxe.com https://www.atsukokudo.com/Home/ For leather: http://www.fetishwear.com/Welcome.htm http://www.leatheraddicts.com https://www.mr-s-leather.com Good informational sites Jack Rinella’s Leather Views – leatherviews.com Jack Rinella is a free lance author and leather man. He has written a number of well respected books on various aspects of leather and BDSM. Race Bannon’s site : bannon.com Race Bannon along with Guy Baldwin, MS co-founded Kink Aware Professionals which is a list of helping professionals and legal professionals who are kink aware. He has spoken at over 400 events, is a founder and board member of a number of leather associations. National Coalition for Sexual Freedom http://ncsfreedom.org Planet Midori http://www.planetmidori.com She is a most amazing person and author who has expertise in bondage and power exchange. Society of Janus is San Francisco based and is an organisation that offers BDSM education and support. https://soj.org Carter Johnson Leather Library http://leatherlibrary.org An amazing collection of leather history, reading materials covering kink, BDSM, LGBTQ. Leather Archives and Museum Incredible collection also ‘dedicated to compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather, kink and fetish lifestyles.’ http://www.leatherarchives.org http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html They keep listings for BDSM and power exchange groups Exploration is designed to be fun. It is more likely to be so if you remember some basic rules. Keep yourself safe New things are really exciting and this stuff can be even more exciting than most new things. Don’t let the excitement make you forget our basic safety rules. If you have just met someone online, don’t give them too much personal information. If you are arranging to meet for the first time, do it in a public place and let people know where you are going. If you feel something is off, trust your gut and leave. Don’t talk yourself out of trusting your gut because you think you need to give people second chances. Don’t meet people at your home and don’t go to their home alone until you are sure that they are safe. Avoid taking recreational drugs. Making clear choices is important when you are playing in areas that are risky. Keep your head clear so you will make good choices. Limit your alcohol consumption for the same reason. I choose not to drink and play and I prefer to play with people who are sober. Pace yourself. Don’t try to do everything at once. Take your time and savour the experience. Give yourself the space to process your experience afterwards and make sure you have support for when you need it. Remember your social skills. Use your best social skills – be polite, friendly, listen lots. Sometimes people get so excited they forget! Understand consent and apply it properly. Don’t touch anyone without getting consent first. This includes spontaneous hugs, putting your hand on someone’s shoulder. Understand that people in this world can have different protocols. Some are very strict. Don’t assume that everyone will engage with you. Some people may not be free to do so. Don’t speak to someone else’s partner without checking first. If you can’t check and you don’t get a response, don’t assume the person is being rude. They may not be allowed to talk with anyone. Think of it like meeting a monk or nun who is under a vow of silence. Take the time to learn how to do things properly. Many activities that you will engage in if you are exploring BDSM and power exchange will involve an increased level of risk. If you don’t learn how to do things properly, you have a high risk of injuring yourself or someone else. There are two acronyms regularly used by people who engage in BDSM to describe risk. The first is Safe, Sane and Consensual. People who work to this protocol do things in the safest way possible, they don’t take short-cuts and highlight consent. The second is Risk Aware Consensual Kink. These folks highlight the fact that all activities have risk and that you must be aware of the risk level of things you are choosing to engage in. They also highlight consent. Finally, maximise enjoyment. Do everything you can to raise the probability that you will have a brilliant time. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey. For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, head over to https://the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now! If you have enjoyed the show, please leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher and subscribe! The top three reviews will receive a copy of my eBook A Consumer’s Guide to Online BDSM Resources. Join me next week when I will be starting a series on sex toys.
Amy Jo Goddard is the coauthor of the classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and author of the new book Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. She teaches sexual empowerment programs, and delivered her popular TEDx talk Owning Your Sexual Power in Napa Valley. Amy Jo is a proud UC Santa Barbara alumna and earned her Master's degree in Human Sexuality Education at New York University. A California-New York hybrid, she has been named one of Go Magazine’s “100 Women We Love” and Kinkly’s “100 Sex Blogging Superheroes”. She has been featured on Fox News, The Maury Povich Show, Playboy’s Morning Show, The Learning Channel, Sirius XM, and has made countless radio and podcast appearances. She is a fierce lover of felines, who she says can teach us a lot about empowered sexuality. Amy Jo is host her annual Fire Woman Retreat coming up Oct 12-14. You can find more information on her website: https://amyjogoddard.com/ And follow her on social media: Twitter: @AmyJoGoddard Instagram: @sexualempowerment Facebook: @AmyJoGoddard
Special guest Dr. Lanae St.John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a professor of human sexuality at City College of San Francisco. She's been named one of the top 100 sex blogging superheroes by Kinkly.com every year since 2013.Dr. Lanae has been quoted in Forbes.com, Huffington Post, livestrong.com, Popsugar, and Women's Health Magazine and she's been a guest on multiple podcasts including Sex Out Loud, Sex Nerd Sandra, and Sexology. In addition, she is a writer and blogger with an upcoming parenting book that has a human sexuality focus. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her partner and two daughters.http://www.themamasutra.net/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Super short epi this week, complete with my sister calling me at the end and my midi My Little Pony ringtone :D Are you in Toronto? Come hang out with me this Wednesday, March 7th, 2018, at Good For Her! Make sure to check out https://www.facebook.com/pg/ChronicallySexy/events/ for updated events - and visit Kinkly's page to hear my answers to the Sex Blogger of the Month questions: https://www.kinkly.com/sex-blogger-of-the-month-kirsten-of-chronic-sex/2/17103.
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange. This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community. If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and Power Exchange Series, I suggest you download them. The first two include interviews with Dr Kevin Boileau and cover some of the theory and emotional issues, the third in the series includes an interview with Pharoah Khaf Ra and Empress Nahara who are a lifestyle dominant couple and last week I started with practicalities like figuring out if you are dominant or submissive. I have talked about getting ready to step out and explore BDSM and power exchange whether you are doing it in private or in public. But many people have no idea where to begin to look to meet people, for events or for clothing and accessories. First I want to highlight that you don’t need to spend lots of money on special clothing and toys. Most events have a dress code but most of them also will accept scant clothing (as close to nakedness as is legal in that jurisdiction) or being dressed all in black. The dress code is supposed to encourage people to make an effort to get involved, look and feel sexy and to discourage those people who come along to gawk. Gawking is different from watching when you are a proper voyeur. Gawking is when someone comes to watch all the strange people and has no intention of getting involved in any way and when someone doesn’t observe basic courtesy either. Basic courtesy includes: Don’t interfere in someone else’s scene. If they are doing something you find interesting, watch from an appropriate distance. That means don’t watch from 2 inches away. I was once involved in a scene with a woman where I was performing oral sex on her and a man came and sat so close too watch that his face was almost between my mouth and her pussy. He was told very firmly to move away. When people are using floggers, whips and canes if you get within the circle of the stroke you will get injured and really annoy the person who is doing the beating. Also, when people are in a scene, it creates a bubble and they are likely to be unaware of the outside world. When someone blunders in, they break the bubble and the distraction can ruin the entire scene because it interrupts the energy flow. Energy builds in a scene to a peak just like it does in sex when it builds to orgasm. No means no. Just because someone is at a public event does not mean they are there to play with everyone. If someone says no, please respect it. Observe protocols. Even if you find it strange to have to ask someone’s Master or Mistress to talk with them, please follow their protocols. It is a means of demonstrating respect. You can ask about reasons or the origins of the protocol but ultimately following it is the best way to show respect. Don’t spend time talking or asking questions in active areas of play. This disrupts the energy and disrupts the scene. There are usually conversation areas and people are usually happy to answer questions after the scene. Remember that after care is part of the scene. Don’t make assumptions about role, gender, sexuality, sexual orientation. Ask instead of assuming. Where to meet people online: There are lots of resources to meet people online. Fetlife.com is a social media site for people who like fetishes including BDSM and power exchange. There are lots of different groups once you have joined. You can join a group for events near your location to find out who might be close by. You make a profile and people can search profiles in a number of ways, send emails and reach out to you via the groups you join. OK Cupid! has a large number of people who enjoy kink and BDSM. You make a profile there in the same way you would on any other dating site. Facebook: There are lots of BDSM and power exchange related Facebook groups. Some are secret. Others are just private. Check group rules to see if looking to meet people is OK. Fester.com is relatively new and apparently most folk are 30 or under. Collarspace.com is mostly for hook ups. Reviews are very mixed. BDSM.com is a space for talking about things as well as hooking up. Chained.org is site for meeting folks. Where to meet people offline besides events and parties: Going to a local munch is a great way to meet people in your area. Munches are usually held monthly in a restaurant or pub. People come dressed in normal clothing and are usually welcoming to newcomers. You can find munches listed on places like FetLife.com. There are fetish markets in many cities. London, UK has one every month. There are lots of items for sale, usually short presentations and stage shows and lots of space to mingle and meet folk. There is also usually a play party afterwards and the ticket prices are reasonable. Finding toys and supplies: For bondage using rope: There are lots of online sites. I recommend checking out https://www.twistedmonk.com This is the best site for different types of rope, rope care, how to videos etc. http://www.esinem-rope.com Excellent UK site for rope, tutorial DVDs. If you want to learn to make your own tools and toys: Check out the blogs on Kinkly.com For floggers, whips, restraints: http://www.detailstoys.com http://www.whipsbywolf.com/handmade-leather-floggers/ For gay men – hard core toys https://www.regulation-london.com Get recommendations from people you meet at events. Of course you need not spend much money at all. There are many ‘pervertables’ in most homes. A pervertable is something that is ordinary that you can turn to a kinky purpose. For example: Belts are extremely pervertable to use for a beating. You can use wooden spoons (ouch!), spatulas. Lots of things in the kitchen are pervertable. For restraints you can use ties, belts, scarves. For blindfolds – ties, scarves. It’s easy to go wild and spend a fortune on beautiful toys and restraints and then rarely use them. I recommend starting with pervertables and then making the purchase of any tools or toys something that you do with lots of thought. Pick out one or two special pieces. Clothing Fetish clothing varies depending upon your interests and roles. Leather can be used for a variety of things. Some people love the feel, touch and smell of leather. There is also the leather lifestyle. People who identify as part of the leather lifestyle are engaged in power exchange relationships (often Master/slave or Mistress/slave) and follow certain codes. Most codes include honor, honesty, respect) and most observe a variety of rituals. Leather for these people is not only sexy and hot but is earned and a means of recognising service. Some people like the feel of rubber or latex. For latex clothing: http://www.houseofharlot.com https://www.pandoradeluxe.com https://www.atsukokudo.com/Home/ For leather: http://www.fetishwear.com/Welcome.htm http://www.leatheraddicts.com https://www.mr-s-leather.com Good informational sites Jack Rinella’s Leather Views – leatherviews.com Jack Rinella is a free lance author and leather man. He has written a number of well respected books on various aspects of leather and BDSM. Race Bannon’s site : bannon.com Race Bannon along with Guy Baldwin, MS co-founded Kink Aware Professionals which is a list of helping professionals and legal professionals who are kink aware. He has spoken at over 400 events, is a founder and board member of a number of leather associations. National Coalition for Sexual Freedom http://ncsfreedom.org Planet Midori http://www.planetmidori.com She is a most amazing person and author who has expertise in bondage and power exchange. Society of Janus is San Francisco based and is an organisation that offers BDSM education and support. https://soj.org Carter Johnson Leather Library http://leatherlibrary.org An amazing collection of leather history, reading materials covering kink, BDSM, LGBTQ. Leather Archives and Museum Incredible collection also ‘dedicated to compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather, kink and fetish lifestyles.’ http://www.leatherarchives.org http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html They keep listings for BDSM and power exchange groups Exploration is designed to be fun. It is more likely to be so if you remember some basic rules. Keep yourself safe New things are really exciting and this stuff can be even more exciting than most new things. Don’t let the excitement make you forget our basic safety rules. If you have just met someone online, don’t give them too much personal information. If you are arranging to meet for the first time, do it in a public place and let people know where you are going. If you feel something is off, trust your gut and leave. Don’t talk yourself out of trusting your gut because you think you need to give people second chances. Don’t meet people at your home and don’t go to their home alone until you are sure that they are safe. Avoid taking recreational drugs. Making clear choices is important when you are playing in areas that are risky. Keep your head clear so you will make good choices. Limit your alcohol consumption for the same reason. I choose not to drink and play and I prefer to play with people who are sober. Pace yourself. Don’t try to do everything at once. Take your time and savour the experience. Give yourself the space to process your experience afterwards and make sure you have support for when you need it. Remember your social skills. Use your best social skills – be polite, friendly, listen lots. Sometimes people get so excited they forget! Understand consent and apply it properly. Don’t touch anyone without getting consent first. This includes spontaneous hugs, putting your hand on someone’s shoulder. Understand that people in this world can have different protocols. Some are very strict. Don’t assume that everyone will engage with you. Some people may not be free to do so. Don’t speak to someone else’s partner without checking first. If you can’t check and you don’t get a response, don’t assume the person is being rude. They may not be allowed to talk with anyone. Think of it like meeting a monk or nun who is under a vow of silence. Take the time to learn how to do things properly. Many activities that you will engage in if you are exploring BDSM and power exchange will involve an increased level of risk. If you don’t learn how to do things properly, you have a high risk of injuring yourself or someone else. There are two acronyms regularly used by people who engage in BDSM to describe risk. The first is Safe, Sane and Consensual. People who work to this protocol do things in the safest way possible, they don’t take short-cuts and highlight consent. The second is Risk Aware Consensual Kink. These folks highlight the fact that all activities have risk and that you must be aware of the risk level of things you are choosing to engage in. They also highlight consent. Finally, maximise enjoyment. Do everything you can to raise the probability that you will have a brilliant time. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey. For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, head over to https://the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now! If you have enjoyed the show, please leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher and subscribe! The top three reviews will receive a copy of my eBook A Consumer’s Guide to Online BDSM Resources. Join me next week when I will be starting a series on sex toys.
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Find out more about us Check out the website http://kinkcraft.co Follow us on Twitter @kinkcraft Find us on on Pinterest @KinkCraft Talk to us on Facebook http://facebook.com/MyKinkCraft Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/kink_craft/ Send us an email podcast at kinkcraft.co Rant of the week: The Kinkly Top 100 List This last week the Kinkly top 100 list has come out and it has prompted something of a discussion on the value of a list like that. Most notibly from the blogger in the number one spot Dangerious Lilly. From that she wrote a really interesting article on the value of ranking lists and are they something she wants to support. From there a number of other bloggers have also written their thoughts including Girl on the Net and Emmeline Peaches. The most amazing part of the discussion is Dangerious Lilly has given her prize money to the Woodhull Conference to enable a couple of bloggers who can't afford to go to make it too the next one. But on top of that she raises a number of valid points about this sort of competition and does it hurt of hinder the community at large. It is a tough question with points on both sides. This was especially interesting to us because we are proud to sponsor the Top 100 Sex bloggers list being compiled by Molly from Molly's Daily Kiss. We love her approach because it isn't a popularity contest, it is only judged on the quality of the content. Is it about ranking the community. No it is about recognising who is working hard and who to pay attention too. To see someone who really only cared about her craft and the people around her checkout Katherine Hepburn's ONLY Academy Awards appearance (she was nominated 11 times, and won 4 times). She wasn't even there to accept an award for herself but to honor her friend. Then see her beat Anne Bancroft, Faye Dunnaway, and Audrey Hepburn all in one go and not even turn up to collect it. Awesome. Dating apps Futurama Reference: Don't date robots This week we are talking about Jilly Boyd's post on Are dating apps the only way?Do dating apps take away the romance of actually meeting someone? What is the perception of the dating apps, is it to find true love or is it to find someone to shag? Is it really so different from going to a night club to meet someone? Easy to weed out the idiots The idiots are out there, the men and women who don't want to know you they just want sex and nothing else. They are out there in real life so it is no wonder they are on the dating apps as well. The beauty is where in real life they can be hard to spot on apps they usually announce what they want pretty early and you have no worry about just saying no. Catfishing One of the problems with a dating app (or any online dating) is you open yourself up to being tricked by the person you are talking too. That is much harder to do when you meet someone face to face. The anonymity of online interactions makes it much easier to conceal you true identity if you wanted to. It is something to be aware of. The problem of choice One of the problems online dating and dating apps has introduced is the problem of choice. Where previously you only had a limited pool of people you could meet now there is an endless stream of potential partners. So where previously you might have put up with small flaws in someone now you can ditch them because the next person will be perfect. What do you think? Do you use dating apps? Do they work for you? What do you like about them? We would love to know.
I first discovered Justin when his blog was showcased as the sex blogger of the month for June 2016 by Kinkly.com (they have also showcased The People of Kink as a top sex podcast). The first post that caught my eye was the video log shown below. If you watch it, you will immediately understand why I wanted to get to know him … and why I think you should get to know him as well.Justin is a blogger/vlogger (from the UK) on all things related to sex. He is also a writer of smut (something I know a thing or two about). We will be talking about how to do "real BDSM", how he got into blogging/vlogging, and that dirty job that someone has to do … sex toy reviews. We will also talk about why he started recording what he knows about sex.You can find his posts, videos and reviews on his website: http://www.justindecerous.com/
JoEllen Notte is a sex educator powerhouse - she is revolutionizing the discussion about sex and depression, and also has a beautiful blog all about sex positivity, sex toys, and introversion. She recently reached out to me and asked if she could come on the show to talk about sex positivity versus sex performativity. Or, as we discuss in this episode, the way sex positive folks often exclude people by their actions and behaviors in a way that makes spaces feel unsafe. Sex positivity has been an incredible response to our sex negative culture, but it's also just that - a response to the existing paradigm. Not everyone wants to have all the orgies or flirt all of the time, and that gets overlooked a lot. So in this episode, JoEllen and I have a really frank discussion about some of the ways sex positive communities are failing us, and then we field two listener questions about using inclusive language and not being a creep at sex toy stores when you have questions about sex. Don't forget: I just revamped my one-on-one coaching packages and spots are filling up. If you need some help around sex, your relationship, and connecting with a loved one, you can check out the new options over on DawnSerra.com. About JoEllen Notte JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate who has spent the last 2 years exploring the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, vibrators, mental health, and how none of us are broken on the award-winning RedheadBedhead.com as well as for xoJane, Bitch Media, Daily Dot, AlterNet and Kinkly. She has travelled North America touring the best sex shops in the US and Canada, led workshops on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and online dating, and has spoken at length on sex toys but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex– check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and extensive work on sex and depression. JoEllen is certified as a sex educator through Planned Parenthood of Massachusetts Sexuality Education Certification Series and has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit and the Playground Conference. You can stay in touch with JoEllen over on Facebook and on Twitter @JoEllenNotte. Hearing from you is the best, so here's how to contact the show: Contact form: Click here
Devi speaks with returning guest Jon Pressick about the best sex writing of 2014. Find out: What is sex writing?Is this erotica (no!)What is the state of sex in current media?What could be better done with sex in media?What are the most pressing sex-related topics we should be having?Listen live and call in with questions!About Jon Pressick ~Jon is the editor of Best Sex Writing of the Year, volume 1, co-host and producer of the weekly sex radio show Sex City and all-around sex blogger at SexInWords.ca. He is also a freelance sex writer and frequent contributor to Kinkly.comConnect with Jon at:Name Jon PressickEmail Address: jon@sexinwords.caWebsite Address: www.bestsexwritingoftheyear.com & www.sexinwords.caTwitter: @sexinwords & @bestsexwritersFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexinwordsblog?fref=ts and https://www.facebook.com/bestsexwritingoftheyear?fref=tsWhere people can purchase your product: Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Best-Sex-Writing-Year-Challenging/dp/1627780866Barnes and Noble: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/best-sex-writing-of-the-year-jon-pressick/1121018793?ean=9781627780865iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/best-sex-writing-of-the-year/id924230187?mt=11Indigo: http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/en-ca/books/best-sex-writing-of-the/9781627780865-item.html?ikwid=best+sex+writing+of+the+year&ikwsec=Home&ikwidx=0
Devi talks with Sex Educator and Sexual Assault Survivior, Ashley Manta about how women can heal from sexual assault, and how both men and women can act to change a culture that condones sexual violence towards women. Ashley discusses the strengths she developed and challenges she has experienced as a result of surviving rape. She will share the story of her multiple rapes and then discuss the ways that she has used this trauma to move forward with her life, empowering others to speak out and tell their stories. She will share how her history of trauma has affected her sex life, both positively and negatively. She will discuss how to support survivors as well as strategies to help prevent sexual violence in the future. Ashley Manta is a sex positive feminist sexuality educator. She works as a staff writer on topics of sexuality, relationships, and empowerment for the online magazines Evolved World and Kinkly. She is a regular contributor for the Herpes Opportunity, a website and forum that provides support for people living with herpes. She currently sits on the Board of Directors for Voices, Incorporated, a non-profit designed to support survivors of sexual violence. She is also on the Board of Directors for the Women’s Circle Project, a non-profit geared toward empowering women to become tomorrow’s leaders. Her mission is to empower, honor, and educate the minds, bodies, and spirits of all people, regardless of the incidentals and essentials of our existence in order to foster relationship growth, personal transformation, and dialectic communication.Find out more about Ashley at:http://www.ashleymanta.comTwitter: http://www.twitter.com/ashleymanta or @ashleymantaLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/ashley-manta/24/881/305Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/sexandsweetthingsYou can contact Ashley to book her for speaking engagements via phone, email, or through her website, www.ashleymanta.com Ashley also offers sexual empowerment coaching via phone or Skype. Contact her for details and pricing.
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