J and S Talks:

Hello World! Yes, we are FINALLY back! In this episode, we jump right back into it and discuss about when is it time to stop putting forth effort and energy into the relationships that have become stagnant. Joe gets personal with his experience by talking about an incident that has been plaguing him for a while and sends out a message to those responsible and who are no longer active in his life due to their toxicity... Watch and listen in, Tell us what you think, your experience, and share with someone who can relate to these types of situations. Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/c2ppBsl70As

What is the importance of money in a relationship, in attraction and etc.? Show and Joe get to talking about the different points of view between men and women when it comes to money. Also discussed is the all-around opinions and decision-making that money has on people and the decisions in their love life... Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/uk03Y4zYISw  Chapters/Topics 0:00 Intro, Memorial Day! 1:45 Topic/ How important is money? 2:30 Joe's opinion on money and women 5:55 Chemistry in a relationship 13:25 Show's opinion, a woman's point of view 13:50 A man's provider role... 17:05 But money doesn't buy love... 19:45 Ambition, is it a factor? 22:45 When money just isn't enough 25:00 Why Millennials fixate on Money 28:00 We are tired of being broke! 29:05 Why a lot of men are skeptical with women and money 31:35 Yours or my money? 36:05 Take steps before getting with someone 39:45 Make your relationship Clear 40:45 Cheap people / Being thoughtful 42:00 What women appreciate 49:45 The right way for women to treat a man 51:20 Take-Aways... 56:00 Does money buy happiness? 56:50 Wrapping it up, Thanks!

Joe and Show make a comeback right as NYC is "opening back up" and people start going about their lives. We discuss "the new normal" and how to integrate into this new way of society with caution... Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/LM896lvlito Chapters/Topic Markers: 0:00​ Intro, Back in Town! 1:00​ "Opening" Back up... 1:15​ "The new normal" 2:00​ The Mask Wearing 2:50​ Vaccine Passports? 3:40​ How far the govt can go? 5:27​ Everyone is a know it all. 6:49​ Relying on Government and Jobs 8:20​ Job Downsizing, Remote Transition 9:35​ The Shutdowns... 11:00​ Coming out of "Lockdown" 12:00​ Effect of the Lockdown 12:33​ And the Dog Shortage... 14:23​ Going back to Society, Tips 15:00​ Show gets an Alcoholic Drink Shower... 16:45​ Prepandemic vs. Post Nightlife 20:55​ Side Effects of Staying Home 24:30​ We forgot how to Talk... 31:00​ A Lesson of the Pandemic 35:38​ People will take more Risks, Thrills 36:30​ Weed Legal in NY! 38:30​ Opinions on Drug Use 40:00​ A hott Summer! 42:42​ Cops don't Care! Defunded? 48:20​ Lots of unexpected changes 49:00​ Take it slow 52:00​ More Lessons from the Pandemic 53:00​ Happy to be back!

Episode 37 of J and S Talks:Being in a relationship comes with so many trials and tribulations. Throw family and in-laws into the mix and it becomes that much more complicated (we would know). Becoming parents at 18/19 opened our eyes to more than just adulthood. In this discussion, we delve deeper into our experience with the pregnancy and birth of our firstborn, explaining what boundaries should be clear when it comes to family. We advise our listeners on multiple ways to deal with unwanted advice, visitors, and potential drama. Tune in to get the tea and more importantly life lessons that you or someone you know can benefit from.YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/OaaR5oOGxwo 

Episode 36 of J and S Talks:Given the fact that for the last 6 months all we’ve been hearing and talking about is Covid-19, Joe & Show decide to have a discussion about something different. Light-hearted, funny, kinda serious but can definitely be helpful - which is the ultimate goal here. Many times in relationships, people tend to blow things out of proportion or can't accept the fact that their partner has a past. One of those things being “body count” AKA how many people a person has “slept with”; tune in to find out Joe & Shows thoughts on this topic, as well as their opinion on how you should handle the situation when this question comes up between you and your S/O.YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/BQp1EjKbSrI

Episode 35 of J and S Talks:The difficulties that come with a pandemic are tough to endure but add police brutality, racism, inequality, and social injustice into the mix, life becomes overwhelming AF! Especially if you're part of the groups who are facing those extra hurdles. In such a short time span, we've seen way too many situations of people facing all those injustices and it isn't fair. During this pandemic, it seems like a no brainer that we should all be unified, right? Unfortunately, that is not the case. Listen in on this discussion where we discuss the recent horrifying murders of George Floyd, Ahumaud Arbery along with other examples of racism and police brutality, which ultimately led up to the group of protesters and looting that's occurring nationwide.Youtube Video - https://youtu.be/gW2WmLPFIh0

Episode 34 of J and S Talks:Personal Protection Equipment is EXTREMELY important for various reasons. It always has been a crucial part of the health system but as we all know during this pandemic, everyone must have PPE when entering establishments to minimize the spread. In this episode, Joe and Sho discuss their pet peeves and all the ridiculousness they've observed people do directly because of the pandemic, especially when wearing their PPE. Points and advice are given in a humorous manner but at the same time should not be taken lightly. Listen in to see if you're one of those people who commit these mistakes and if you are, hopefully you become aware of them and fix the habits you have with our suggestions. On the other hand, if you know anyone like this, send them over here.Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/nfVDrn4VHrY

Episode 33 of J and S Talks:With everything that's been going on these past two months, a lot of people's minds have been racing about a million and one things - finances, job security, family concerns, and of course, relationship issues. When life was "normal" it was easy for people to believe they were in a stable, healthy relationship. BUT being stuck in the house for this long with their S/O, revelations are being revealed, that what they thought they knew and loved couldn't be further from the truth. So many couples are faced with their reality during this quarantine such as the pushed aside, ignored problems that they've been dreading to speak on, in fear of igniting an argument. Listen in as Sho and Joe discuss ways couples can fix their problems despite the pandemic and the stress that surrounds us all. Hopefully, you or someone you know can apply these pointers in their relationship or maybe gather up the courage to drop whatever/whoever is causing you unhappiness. Always remember, your own happiness is the ultimate goal, so don't ever stop pushing and being positive.As promised in the discussion, we have linked below resources for those who need help. Of course, if you or someone you know are in danger please call 911.https://www.thehotline.org/  - National Domestic Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 NYS Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-942-6906

Episode 32 of J and S Talks:Parenting is hard as is, but throw quarantine life into the mix, and shit gets 10x more difficult. Having to stay home with your family and carry out the role of at least 5 people can get pretty damn frustrating. But it's not just us adults going through it. Ever stop to think about the little ones and how they’re feeling? Most people haven’t because they assume children “have it easy”. Well, that isn’t always true. Listen in on our discussion as we delve deeper into this aspect of quarantine life and give tips on how we can make parenting a bit easier during this tough time in our lives.YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/Drz_OghTwz8

Episode 31 of J and S Talks:                                                  In this one we discuss the latest scam roaming Instagram especially in the NYC area as of late, the Cash App Loom Scam...Other variations are the "Blessing Loom" or The Loom and so on. This scam is not new. It popped up in Alabama in late 2016, Utah in 2018. It has even gone worldwide to the UK and Australia. But now Amid the Coronavirus it has been resurfacing and storming Instagram.  Joe and Show explain how this is a clear Ponzi scheme aka a Pyramid scheme.  Scammers and Victims alike want to compare it to legitimate money pools which is not the case as we explain in this Episode.  Tune in as we go in depth on "The Loom" and it's pitfalls...YouTube Video:https://youtu.be/o4VwZh8f7WU

Episode 30 of J and S Talks:As Sho and Joe make their comeback after a two-month hiatus, they discuss the devastating new virus that's destroying the world - Covid19 AKA the Coronavirus. We talk about how society has been responding to all the bad news and how we as a community can maintain positivity, in hopes of saving lives and getting rid of coronavirus. We discuss how all these changes are affecting everyone, as well as what it means for our future.YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/onw6cd7ekec

After a 3 month hiatus, the Duo is back at it again. Here, we provide you all with a short discussion about what slowed us down, and even though we are going through these hard times, and as always we are staying up!YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/_tMBjfxdAdc

Happy New Year Everyone! Many people look forward to the New Year so they can wipe their "slate" clean. Even though we can choose any day for a fresh start. It must be because of the magical holiday feeling that leads people to believe all their problems will go away starting Jan 1st. But once the festivities come to an end, reality sets in and we're left with the fact that we have to deal with our problems. In this discussion, we speak about accountability and how you can use the "clean slate" of the New Year to your advantage, no matter how big or small that goal or problem is... YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/2S2bqQQZ8EU                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

Episode 28 of J and S Talks:About everyone we know spends their Friday and Saturday nights out partying, whether it's with one or two friends or a large group. Either way, this discussion is about the standard, common sense things that too many people fail to adhere to when they are in party mode. While we have this discussion in a comical manner, we are very much serious in the points that we make, based on real-life events from working in the night scene. Tune into this episode of J and S Talks so you won't be "one of those" or so you can spread the word to individuals who you know need to hear this bit of advice. By now, our audience should know, we keep it real and this episode was created in hopes of making weekends better for every person involved in those late nights hangouts! Youtube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mboM8J3ETw8

Episode 27 of J and S Talks:"Standing by your partner" is the main topic of tonight's discussion although we went down some rabbit holes (per usual) LOL. Many people invest in these "on-again, off-again" relationships, especially during this time of year because they don't want to spend the holiday season alone or should I say single. It's very unfortunate when people bind themselves to this mindset because they endure various stressors which eventually lead to heartache. So we speak on what it means to truly stand by your partner in a relationship and separate all the bullshit excuses that people come up with to cover for their sorry excuse of a bf/gf. Grab a big cup of hot chocolate (with extra marshmallows), get cozy and listen to this discussion so you can identify some of the things that may be harmful to yourself/relationship and chime in, by commenting your thoughts and feelings on this topic. THE TALK IS ON! As always, this podcast is brought to you by Show and Joe. Youtube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgH9jV1Yn8

Episode 26 of J and S Talks:As we indulge in all the pleasures of the holiday season, it is crucial to remember the importance of what this season is all about. For some, its solely a religious meaning; for most, its about spending time and coming together with friends and family. Over these past 5 years, it seems as if social media has taken over and brainwashed 90% of society, even when it comes to this time of the year, which is extremely unfortunate. J and S touch upon various aspects of how we should keep our sanity intact and ways to keep our focus on the important things that relate to the holiday season. Join in and listen to our discussion, and then pass the message along by sharing our podcast! THE TALK IS ON!Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/dlUvCjQMeeo

Episode 25 of J and S Talks:YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/pLuIHVtBVnYWe discuss the annoyances that creep up on us when dealing with family members and some close friends who go MIA lots of times and how it affects children. As parents, we have to protect our kids, even from those who can potentially cause them emotional distress. Tune into our discussion to hear some of our experiences and how we've dealt with certain situations. If you are struggling with similar individuals, our hopes are that we can provide solid advice and guidance. 

Episode 24 of J & S Talks:Youtube Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iztTmM-6p8c&feature=youtu.beIn this discussion, we talk about how toxicity messes with our lives in ALL aspects. Whether it be toxic things, habits and/or people, we need to identify them and cut them out of our lives. So many people don't get to achieve their goals, unaware of the toxic traits and/or people that are holding them back. Tune in to our talk to hear if one or more of our points are applicable to your life. You're gonna want to hear this! THE TALK IS ON!!As always, like, subscribe, comment and share our videos/ channel; as well as follow us on all social media platforms (JandSTalks)! To those of you who do, thank you so much! Your unwavering support is very much appreciated and we love that you're always joining our discussions.  

Episode 23 of J and S Talks:Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/JCMDNBXd08UHappiness. We all think we know what it means. We've all felt it at some point in our lives, whether it be in our childhood or because of specific occasions. But how many of us are happy on a constant basis? Join us in this discussion as we delve deeper into the meaning of happiness and what it is to be truly happy.

Episode 22 of J and S Talks:YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/CHJdFqkinQ0Want to get married? Engaged? Or newlyweds? Getting married is such a big step to take and many people believe they are SO ready for it, they blindly leap to the altar and say vows, without thoroughly thinking it through. In this discussion, we point out some things that people think aren't important to speak about but can potentially cause a rift between couples. Find out what they are and how you can avoid future problems so your marital bliss will never have to end!

Episode 21 of J and S Talks:Show's Pet Peeve. Tune in to our discussion to find out what it is and how it can affect the process of "bagging a potential lover". We're sure MANY women experienced the same and will get a kick out of how funny guys can be when it comes to this annoying behavior.Video: https://youtu.be/8ECyZbQiLkcDon't forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel, as well as follow us on all social media @JandSTalks. If you find yourself in a place where you cant watch our video, but want to tune in to our talk, remember - our podcast episodes are on all major platforms such as Spotify, Google Play, Apple, etc. 

Episode 20 of J and S Talks:An Anonymous Man is asking if he should leave his wife based on a few iffy problems that can be interpreted in different ways.  Watch and listen in to his story followed by our advice to him and to other people in similar situations. This discussion can also be helpful to other couples/parents who find themselves in the same predicament.Should he leave? Should he stay? Should he man up? Or should he attempt to fix his marriage? Comment on what you think this guy should do?Follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram= @JandSTalks

Episode 19 of J and S Talks:An Anonymous Fan of J and S Talks: asks for help in what seems to be an Irrepairable marriage. Join us as we have this discussion, advising her what she should do. If you or someone you know, is going through a similar situation, you can also benefit from our advice.In the comment section, tell us do you agree with us or do you have other suggestions for this anon? Also don't forget to subscribe, share, and like! As well as follow us on ALL social media platforms @JandSTalks

Episode 18 on J and S Talks:Happy Birthday to Show!!!Talking about Birthdays, we all know someone or have even said "ehh another birthday" but is this that attitude that we should take on Birthdays? Or should we take the grateful approach every year when we get older? So many of us don't realize how blessed we are and on this talk, we touch on the ways we can change that thought process.Happy Birthday to all my September babies out there! & big ups to my Virgo gang!Don't forget to subscribe, share, like and comment! As well as follow us on ALL social media platforms @JandSTalks

Episode 17 of J and S Talks:We talk about if it's possible to maintain a genuine friendship with someone of the opposite sex. If so, what are some of the complications that arise with these types of friendships and how do they affect your romantic relationship/marriage?Comment down below your opinions and let us know if you have friendships with the opposite sex! Also, don't forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel (if you haven't already)! Don't forget to follow us on all social media platforms @JandSTalks to keep up with updates and to interact with Sho & Joe! 

Episode 16 of J and S Talks:Discussion on What Really Goes Down in the DM, and how most men make a fool out of themselves via social media and other electronic forms of contact like texting, etc. We educate men on proper etiquette when interacting with women and how to avoid coming off as a creep. We concentrate on the female's point of view to better understand why certain things should not be said, but at the same time look out for the good guys out there. 

Episode 15 of J and S Talks:This one is for the pregnant women, the soon to be Moms, the brand new Moms, and all Mothers out there. Here we talk about accepting the body and mental changes that come with the territory of becoming a mom. We speak on confidence, self-love, and ways fathers/partners should be supporting their woman.

Episode 14 on J and S Talks:Why you should never get into a habit of talking bad about your partner and revealing your relationship problems. Whether it be friends or family, it is never a wise decision to dish out details about the rough patches you both are going through. Nowadays, people do not think before they talk (or post), not comprehending how detrimental it can be to their lives. So get comfortable, grab a snack and heed our advice so yall can spread the word! & THE TALK IS ON !!!

Episode 13 on J and S Talks:The everyday person has an everyday struggle, and most of us can agree to that. But in the midst of life, most of us forget that Life is What you Make it. Right? Or is that just BS motivational talk? Especially when a good portion of life is out of our control. In this discussion, we go back and forth as to what that quote means to us, stay tuned to see if we are on the same page...

Episode 12 on J and S Talks:We openly talk about how not giving each other space is detrimental to our relationship and can potentially crumble everything we've built between each other. By exploring ways to apply the concept of space, we wish to help others save their relationships. It is a basic understanding that everyone should respect others' boundaries, in order for all parties to flourish in life. On this episode, find out how you can improve and discover a deeper understanding of what your partner may need from you!

Episode 11 on J and S Talks:We discuss how to remain positive and open-minded when our life does not go according to our plans. It is easy, especially nowadays, to get caught in a downward spiral and be discouraged when we find ourselves in an unexpected situation. We have to remain strong and learn how to keep our options open, while simultaneously dealing with an array of emotions.

Episode 10 of J and S Talks:This is all about people comparing themselves to other's false representations. This leads to low self-esteem. We talk about how you should not compare yourself to others because most people represent a false narrative via social media.  Most people on social media are portraying a high, easy-going life and exaggerate what they have.  Comparing yourself to these types will lead to you feeling inferior and most likely copy these bad habits. Don't do it, stay in your lane and listen up!

Episode 9 on J and S Talks:Discussing how we evolved from teenage parents to adult parents. We also speak of the struggles we endured and the lessons we learned along the way.

Episode 8 of J and S Talks:How to be Real and True to yourself and the world. We discuss how a lot of people tend to adapt to other's expectations, which leads them to pretend to be someone they are not. Basically, it's about how to avoid being FAKE.

Episode 7 on J and S Talks:We discuss how our actions and behaviors transfer on to our kids. We touch base on things they should and shouldn't see or listen to.

How to and why you should apologize to your significant other. We discuss how thru experience we learned to put aside our ego, which has been key to our successful relationship. 

Episode 5 of J and S Talks: This one we talk on how to discipline children and be effective at it. We talk about how we personally discipline our kids and reap the benefits of positive reinforcement. And all while being awesome parents!

Episode 4 on J and S Talks. Here we talk about how to properly host a BBQ, Summer Gathering, Cookout and not be a fraud. Stay tuned and learn the right way to host these types of events...

Discussing other people's negative opinions and how to not let it affect you and your life.

Episode 2 on J and S Talks: Raising Biracial Kids.First long-form discussion, topic picked randomly out of a bowl. Here we go in-depth on what it is to be in a biracial relationship while raising 3 biracial boys. 

A short introduction to J and S Talks:Describing the content that will be discussed on the Podcast.