Married to India

To our beloved Married to India community: After much thought and reflection, we've decided to temporarily pause the podcast to focus on our family's well-being. This is not goodbye, but a pause for healing, strength, and perspective.

In this heartfelt episode of "Married to India," your host, Amy, takes you on a personal journey of rediscovery and reconnection.

In this thought-provoking episode of ‘Married to India,' we look into the seismic shift in the mindset of our youth influenced heavily by social media. As parents of five, we see this significantly in our two daughters, especially aged 27 and 19; we've observed firsthand how digital platforms are molding their perceptions, values, and beliefs, all of which were instilled from a very young age only to warp their sense of truth and well being often clashing with the family ethos we've nurtured. We will discuss the importance of loss and disconnection many parents feel, the rising trend of estrangement in family relationships, and ponder over the critical question: Can we, as a society, salvage the sanctity of the parent-child bond amidst this digital wave? Join me as we explore solutions, share insights, and seek a path to understanding and connecting with our children in the social media age.

Get ready to chuckle and nod along with 'Married to India,' as we dive into the often amusing world of manners and etiquette across Indian and American cultures. With the holidays just around the corner, join us in a light-hearted exploration of cultural quirks – from the surprising to the outright hilarious. We're talking slurping, belching, and everything in between. Whether navigating a multicultural family gathering or just curious about cultural norms, this episode will offer insights, anecdotes, and friendly tips to embrace, adapt, or laugh off these fascinating differences. Tune in for a fun take on manners that might save you from an awkward holiday moment!

Join us on "Married to India," where this episode unfurls the vibrant tapestry of gift-giving traditions across continents. From India's rich, color-soaked festivals to the celebration-centric United States, we explore the nuanced differences and surprising similarities in how these two cultures express gratitude, honor, and affection through their presents. We delve into the intricacies of cultural significance, the types of gifts exchanged, the rituals wrapped around them, and how globalization is blending these traditions. Whether it's the auspicious rupee notes in India or the personalized wish lists in the US, we unwrap the layers of meaning behind every ribbon and every bow. Tune in to discover the ethos of gifting – where every gesture tells a story and every tale bridges hearts.

Join us as we explore the joys, challenges, and unexpected plot twists of raising children in a cross-cultural marriage. From navigating festivals and traditions to juggling different approaches to discipline, we share our heartfelt experiences and practical insights. Whether you're blending two cultures in your own family or being fascinated by the complexities of modern parenting, this podcast offers rich stories woven together, advice, and many relatable moments. Subscribe now and become part of our global family!

Today's episode jumps into the often-awkward dance of merging two families from different cultural backgrounds. Through personal stories, examples, and practical advice, we explore how to combine these other worlds to create more harmony within your families.

Join us in this illuminating episode as we guide you through your first Diwali celebration! Explore the festival's rich history, discover its significance in Hinduism, and pick creative ideas to spark your festivities. Perfect for those new to Diwali or anyone looking to deepen their understanding of this radiant occasion!

Today, we explore the heartwarming and often transformative role of chai in Indian society and families. From roadside tea stalls to family gatherings, let's steep ourselves in the cultural importance of this humble beverage, all while sharing personal family rituals involving chai.

Today's episode delves into the fine line between community support and racial or ethnic exclusivity, focusing on examples within the Indian diaspora. Join us as we navigate the complexities of this contentious issue and examine whether community support can become a form of inadvertent racism.

Love knows no boundaries, but what happens when cultures collide in a relationship? In today's episode, we dive deep into the world of culture shock within cross-cultural partnerships. We'll offer insights, share personal experiences, and provide strategies to build bridges instead of walls. Tune in for an enlightening discussion!

Let's unravel the mystique and grandeur of Ganesh Chaturthi! From the cosmic tale of Lord Ganesha's birth to our modern, cross-cultural spin on the celebrations, this episode is your gateway to one of Hinduism's celebrated festivals.

Join us in this exhilarating episode where we unbox the timeless bling of Indian weddings—Mangalsutra and Toe Rings! From their age-old symbolism to their modern makeovers, we cover it all. Ideal listening for anyone ranging from a soon-to-be Indian bride to an international jewelry thief looking for cultural context. Don't miss it!

This episode of 'Married to India' dives deep into the vibrant and perplexing world of Indian superstitions, where faith meets tradition, as well, as a bit of mysticism. Host Amy Regeti explores how these beliefs intersect with religion and culture, often creating intriguing yet confusing dynamics in a cross-cultural relationship. Whether navigating the 'Evil Eye' or curious about why you shouldn't sweep the house after sunset, this episode is your guide to understanding the roles these superstitions play in Indian families and how they can affect your relationship. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion, real-life anecdotes, and practical advice on how to tread these culturally rich yet challenging waters.

In this deeply personal episode, host Amy Regeti tackles a difficult chapter of their family's life: the sudden decision to walk away under the cover of darkness by their 19-year-old daughter. In a twist that left them devastated, she left with a 53-year-old married man, an unexpected turn stemming from a fateful graduation party. Listen as she heartbreakingly delves into the painful reality of grooming, the anguish it has brought into their lives, and the complexities of navigating such a sensitive issue in a multicultural setting. This episode offers a raw, emotional, yet insightful look into a topic that's often left unspoken.

25 years after moving to the United States my brother-in-law (BIL), sister-in-law (SIL) and the kids have finally moved to the Virginia, just 4 miles away from us. It's a dream come true, the Regeti's are finally all together.

No loss is ever easy, and anyone who ever claims that time heals all wounds is not as wise as they think they may be. Losing my father-in-law (FIL) has been one of the most heartbreaking moments of my life personally. We learn with time that processing and dealing with a loss becomes more bearable daily but never easier.

The effects of COVID will continue to haunt us throughout our lives, as its effect on our world and how we've done and now do things will be forever permanent.

Finally, we got out of the rental and into our new build, a home to call our own.

Our house is now our home.

Out with the old, in with the new. We never knew we'd spend the next 16 years in a house that never truly felt like home. 

The sale of 242

A venture into the unknown, Amy and Srinu found a niche within the South Asian community. 

Definitely not the vacation I was thinking it was.

Why I wrote a book and what I had learned up until this point about my new life and my unique marriage.

Bradley's first haircut and understanding (odd year).

Just two years younger, Amy experienced her brother-in-law's (BIL) arranged marriage first hand. What changed?

The pressure is real when it comes to the age-appropriate time for an Indian boy to start considering his marriage. BIO data photos are a serious business and there's a reason why.

6 months out of the year, it's a fact she will be staying here. Who?

Our very first home, and Amy's first time experiencing a house puja.

What is it about being the first born boy in the family? Deny it all you want, it's a thing.

Just over 8 months pregnant, Amy and Srinu received news that Srinu's parents would be joining them for the birth of their first born grandchild.

Marriage license on Thursday, married by Sunday.

10K miles isn't far enough when you are an Indian.

Move-in together? Before we are married?

How did Amy and Srinu meet? In this episode, Amy shares how the two met.