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TSLA Podcast is a place where we provide Tips & Interviews on topics surrounding self-love and triggers for self-love withdrawal. This podcast is THE place for weirdos and creatives alike to banish the box they’ve been forced into and to overdose on self-

J. White


    • May 28, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 37m AVG DURATION
    • 53 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Self-Love Addict

    Embracing the Fire of Spiritual Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 32:17


    Not all fire is meant to destroy — some fire is meant to refine.

    The Cost of Lukewarm Living

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 35:51


    Lukewarm faith might feel comfortable—but it comes at a cost. In this episode, J. White keeps it real about what it means to live boldly for God versus settling into spiritual complacency. We're talking conviction, purpose, and the kind of faith that actually transforms your life. If you've been feeling stuck, distant, or just going through the motions, this is your wake-up call.

    Trusting God's Timing

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 29:14


    Waiting is never easy—especially when you're ready for the promise but God says, “Not yet.” In this episode, J. White unpacks the beauty and challenge of trusting God's perfect timing. Through personal reflection and biblical wisdom, we explore how delays aren't denials and how divine timing often brings growth we didn't know we needed. If you're in a season of waiting, this one will encourage your soul.

    Finding Clarity in Chaos with Harold Hodge

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2025 96:29


    In the middle of life's noise, how do you hear God clearly? In this heartfelt conversation, J. White sits down with Harold to talk about what it means to seek clarity when everything around you feels uncertain. From practical tips to spiritual truths, this episode is all about trusting God's voice, finding peace in the storm, and learning how chaos can actually bring you closer to purpose.

    Knowing When to Walk Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2025 22:48


    Letting go isn't always easy, but sometimes it's exactly what faith requires. In this episode, we talk about how to discern when God is leading you to walk away from places, people, or seasons that no longer align with His purpose for your life. If it's no longer growing you, stretching you, or glorifying Him — it may be time to move forward. Trust that when God calls you out, He's already prepared the next step.

    The Fight Through the Feels

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2025 50:09


    In this kickoff episode of The Life Unveiled, we dive into the emotional battles that come with walking by faith. From frustration and doubt to sadness and overwhelm, our feelings can be powerful—but they don't have to control us. J. White unpacks how to fight through “the feels” with honesty, prayer, Scripture, and the power of God's presence. If you've ever felt like your emotions were winning the fight, this one's for you.

    Godly Community with Zeke

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 55:07


    Join me in Episode 3, "Godly Community," where we explore the transformative power of supportive connections in alleviating stress and fostering spiritual growth. Opening with a reflection on the prevalent stress in today's world, we delve into the quest for genuine connections as a remedy. Discover why I've sought Godly community as a solution to personal stress and how supportive connections, like those with high school friends, have positively influenced my life. In this special episode, I introduce Zeke, an accountability partner, Owner/CEO of BAYG LLC, and Marketing Manager for MOBOOMBOX. Together, we discuss the role of Godly community in providing collective strength during common stressors. Through insightful interview questions, Zeke shares examples of challenges successfully tackled by supportive communities and offers advice on actively contributing to stress-free environments. Unveiled Conversations features audience questions on the unique aspects of Godly community in stress management and practical tips for individuals seeking supportive connections. Follow me for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Remember, two heads are better than one. Join us next week as we explore suffering in silence, and don't hesitate to slide into my DMs with your thoughts and questions. Embark on this journey of spiritual growth and community support, as we navigate the path to a stress-free life in Godly fellowship. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

    Who Do You Love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 48:37


    Join me in Episode 2, "Who Do You Love?" where we unpack the lessons from the Parable of the 10 Virgins. Explore the impact of desires on our choices and the transformative journey of aligning our hearts with God. Discover the power of daily habits like prayer and Bible study in maintaining focus on God's vision. In Unveiled Conversations, I answer audience questions on prayer, overcoming anger towards God, and finding solace in scriptures during challenging times. Follow me for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Remember, obedience may be challenging, but God will carry you through. Join me next week as we explore the importance of Godly Community. Slide into my DMs with your thoughts and questions. Embark on this transformative episode as we delve into reshaping desires and seeking God's purpose together. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

    New Name, Who Dis

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 41:53


    In this episode, explore the reasons behind my recent name change, shedding Lukewarm Christianhood for a passionate devotion to Jesus. Discover the impact of sobriety on my spiritual journey and the concept of intentional drinking. Join Unveiled Conversations for answers to audience questions on sobriety, personal growth, biblical perspectives on alcohol, and letting go. Follow me on Instagram for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Stay tuned for next week's episode on desires in this transformative journey. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

    When Ish Gets Real Pt 1: The Calm

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2023 17:37


    This week we get into the most boring but paranoid part of stepping into your power: When Ish Gets Real Pt. 1, The Calm. I give y'all the 411 on what happens during the calm before the storm. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

    The Dangers of F.U.N.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2023 15:13


    This week we get into my favorite topic in part one of this season: F.U.N. (to be defined in the episode). We get deep on what having fun looks and feels like when you are living in stagnancy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

    You Gonna Love It Here

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2023 21:13


    The episode title says it ALL! This week is all about stage 2 of stagnancy: COMFORT! Get into this drug talk and I will see you in a couple months when we interview my LS Kan! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

    Season 5 Intro… Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 8:06


    Time to give this season another shot! This time I'm gonna do things a little different and this episode gives you some insight on what that is. Enjoy! And tune in every Saturday at 11:30a for a new episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

    Are You Dumb or Stupid?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2022 51:20


    This episode explores the first stage of stagnancy: ignorance. Join me and Aziza as we tackles the different types of ignorance and the possible dangers of it as a whole. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Season 5 Intro

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2022 9:09


    These season is all about stepping into your power. In this Intro episode I give you the inside scoop on the season and even reveal some of the guests we plan to bring on. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Checking In

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 14:03


    I'm just checking in

    Hello March

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2022 18:24


    In this episode I talk about the new theme for the month. I also announce a few upcoming surprises and changes for the podcast and brand. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Rose, Bud, Thorn: Love Month in Review

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 22:04


    This episode I go over my challenges and successes of February. I also talk about what I'm looking forward to in March. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Learning To Sit TF Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 21:25


    This week we talk about learning to sit tf down. We all get lost and think we can do it all, but this episode goes over the dangers associated with that and the benefits of sitting down. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Stop Overextending Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 29:19


    This week we dive into the trap of overextending yourself and things I've learned from my own experiences with this. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Communicating Your Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2022 16:33


    Welcome back to your favorite podcast! It's been a while but I'm finally back with a fourth season! This episode is a quick welcome back with a little tea on the side. Share, Like, Subscribe --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Season Four is Coming Soon!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 2:36


    The tea on season 3 & 4 ❤️ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Growth Check

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 21:27


    We took a deep dive into our HJIC's vision board for the year and checked off what has already come to pass.⁠ ⁠ We also give the inside scoop on our goal setting proccess for Quarter Three.⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    The Sabbatical

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2021 22:32


    When I named these Pajamas I had no idea that God was gonna make me take my very own sabbatical aways from this season of the podcast. ⁠ ⁠ Purpose works in mysterious ways.⁠ ⁠ "The Sabbatical" Episode of the podcast HERE! We will be discussing the following:⁠ - My time away from the podcast⁠ - My first quarter of the year⁠ - My first year of podcasting⁠ ⁠ Can't wait to chat with you!⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Renewing Intentions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 8:54


    In this episode our HJIC takes us through the steps of how to renew our intentions for 2021. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Good Company

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2021 23:55


    What is good company? Find out as our HJIC dives into this topic. Keep listening for a special surprise this week too

    Up & Stuck

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 20:23


    This week our HJIC talks about some of the downfalls of being “up & stuck.” Inspired by Cardi B, our creator dives into what this phrase means and how it can do more harm than good on your self-love journey. TUNE IN TO HER IG LIVE ON THURSDAY AT 7PM FOR TRAPHOUSE TEA. Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    C.E.T. - Consistency, Efficiency, Transparency

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2021 39:36


    What is C.E.T.???? This week our HJIC describes how she will be implementing each letter into her personal 2021 strategy. She also drops a few gems on how it relates to personal and professional endeavors. It wouldn't be the HJIC if she didn't bring God in some way or how do expect a few quick testimonials as well. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    “NO” is Balance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2021 33:42


    How often do we associate the word NO with negativity? Why do we do that? Are we so selfish that we think we need/deserve every single thing. ⁠ ⁠ NO is not negative. It's balance. NO keeps you in check. NO keeps you from making HUGE mistakes. Most importantly, NO helps others learn how to love and is a direct reflection of how you love yourself. ⁠ ⁠ Tomorrow the HJIC dives deeper into NO and her experiences with this word. ⁠ ⁠ We are starting Season 3 off with a BANG! You don't want to miss this.⁠ Grab your ADDICTED Tee at thelifeofjwhite.com/shop & Follow us on IG: Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    TSLA meets Save & Sip

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 58:18


    We are grown now so learning about stocks and investments is a MUST. Join the HJIC for a chat with Save & Sip's own Trevor Alexander. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Body Positivity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 56:13


    You should feel good in your own skin. Join the HJIC and Cassandra for a chat on body positivity and self-love! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Going Vegan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 57:26


    Going vegan is a journey! Join the HJIC and her sis Lydia for a chat about going vegan. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    13 Things 25 Taught Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2020 67:20


    This is the special birthday episode I promised y'all. I finally delivered lol. These are the 13 things 25 taught me! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Special Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 12:51


    Catch Up Mustard! I'm back and on this episode I talk about what has kept me away as well as what 2020 taught me and what I'm looking forward to in 2021! Follow me: Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict Facebook.com/selfloveaddict7 thelifeofjwhite.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Choosing Peace

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2020 49:05


    This week is all about choosing peace. We can't wait for you to hear our chat with @aziizais on this topic. We got deep and even dropped a few gems on how you can choose peace on a daily basis. ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Maintaining Momentum

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2020 45:15


    This week our HJIC chats with @journeywithjaz about Maintaining Momentum in your faith journey. We get into the nitty gritty of the faith journey and what to do when you lose your starting energy.⁠ ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Learning the Motions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2020 6:41


    On this episode, I talk to you about what it means to learn the motions when you are walking in purpose. It's a short message but it carries weight! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Importance of Financial Security

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 74:17


    This week's plug is @jawni_tsunami He is a good friend of the HJIC and a NOVA native. Between being an accountant and investor, Jon has been spending time as a Black Financial Growth Activist. ⁠In this episode we chat with him about the importance of financial security and give you a few tips on how to start your journey. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Starting Your Fitness Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 48:33


    It's that time of the week again! This week's plug is Malique Johnson He is a personal trainer and we are so excited to be chatting it up with him this week. We talk about it all from running a business, to incorporating wellness into your everyday lifestyle. ⁠ ⁠ If you have been hesitating with starting your fitness journey, this episode is for you!⁠ ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Starting Your Healing Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2020 66:02


    This week I have a chat with Tyra Preston on healing and how that journey starts. Be sure to subscribe and comment

    Spiritual Foundations of Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2020 65:23


    This week we interview the one and only Christian Bae on her spiritual journey with purpose. We are so excited to share the first plug interview of the season with you!

    Welcome Back Junkies!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2020 33:59


    We are super excited to be back for Season 2!!! This week we give you the inside scoop on the season and what we will be discussing. We have leveled up a bit by adding a theme for the season and we are anxious to see how everything turns out. Thanks for tuning in and as alway be sure to follow us on Instagram @theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Season 1 Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2020 23:20


    This episode recaps everything from season 1. We talk about the takeaways from each episode and give you insight the official launch of season 2. Thank you for supporting me thus far and I can't wait to start back up again, bigger and better! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2020 26:47


    Today we dive into what confidence means and a few traps that come with it. We then get into where confidence comes from and the key to keeping it throughout your life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Shooting Your Shot

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2020 48:25


    In this episode I talk about my battles with shot shooting. After that quick chat I interview a successful DM slide couple as well as very close friends of mine to get the inside scoop on shooting your shot. It's lit! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    MY LEG!!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2020 45:41


    If you didn't get the Spongebob reference, we can't be friends. Anyways, I cut my leg up something fierce but the experience gave my four lessons to share with you so tune in and save yourself some trouble. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    A Moment Of Silence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2020 3:10


    Today there is no episode. I encourage you all to reflect and educate yourselves on why Black Lives Matter. Register to vote if you haven't and look into the policies that need changing in your community. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Balancing Business

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2020 70:33


    In this episode we dive into what it means to be an entrepreneur and how to balance you life with it. Running a business is hard work but if you take the right steps forward you can master it a little more everyday. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    Post Grad Life with TSLA

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2020 62:53


    This episode we dive into what life is like after graduation. We gloss over our personal struggles as well as how our experiences led us to entrepreneurship. It's gonna be one for the books! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    TSLA Talks Depression & Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2020 71:33


    During this episode I talk to my good friend Kie Noel about our experiences with Depression and Anxiety. We get deep covering topics that range from generational curses to how mental health takes a tole on our relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

    TSLA Tackles Motherhood & Mental Health

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2020 35:11


    In this episode we discuss the ups and downs that come with being a mom. We talk about self-love and mental health alongside our Plug of the Week, Dominique Pompey. Get ready y'all. It's going down! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

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