The Self-Love Addict

Welcome back to The Life Unveiled Podcast! In this episode, J. White leans into the idea of building faith that doesn't flinch—faith that stays rooted when things feel slow, uncertain, or completely unclear.We often hear about “walking by faith,” but what happens when the walk feels like a standstill? When doors don't open, answers don't come, and momentum slows, it's easy to let fear or frustration shake what you believe. But unshakeable faith isn't built in comfort—it's built in the waiting, the tension, the moments when God is quiet but still present.In this powerful and honest conversation, we'll explore: • What it really means to have unshakeable faith—not just in words, but in practice • Why we confuse inactivity with trust and how to tell the difference • How to keep building when you can't see the full vision • The tension between surrender and bold action • How perfectionism and fear often hide under the mask of “waiting on God” • Spiritual maturity in silent or slow seasonsThis episode is for anyone who feels like they're doing everything “right” but not seeing movement. It's for the one who's afraid to admit they're discouraged. It's for the believer who wants to trust deeper but struggles when timelines don't match expectations.J. White shares encouragement, real-life reflections, and practical takeaways to help you reframe what it means to have faith that holds firm. This isn't surface-level inspiration—it's truth for your soul.Key Scripture:Hebrews 12:28 (NLT) – “Since we are receiving a Kingdom that is unshakable, let us be thankful and please God by worshiping him with holy fear and awe.”Listener Challenge:What area of your life feels unsteady right now? Identify it. Then ask God to reveal where He's calling you to trust, move, or release control. Reflect on how you're responding to delays—are you still building, still praying, still believing?Want more?

Not all fire is meant to destroy — some fire is meant to refine.

Lukewarm faith might feel comfortable—but it comes at a cost. In this episode, J. White keeps it real about what it means to live boldly for God versus settling into spiritual complacency. We're talking conviction, purpose, and the kind of faith that actually transforms your life. If you've been feeling stuck, distant, or just going through the motions, this is your wake-up call.

Waiting is never easy—especially when you're ready for the promise but God says, “Not yet.” In this episode, J. White unpacks the beauty and challenge of trusting God's perfect timing. Through personal reflection and biblical wisdom, we explore how delays aren't denials and how divine timing often brings growth we didn't know we needed. If you're in a season of waiting, this one will encourage your soul.

In the middle of life's noise, how do you hear God clearly? In this heartfelt conversation, J. White sits down with Harold to talk about what it means to seek clarity when everything around you feels uncertain. From practical tips to spiritual truths, this episode is all about trusting God's voice, finding peace in the storm, and learning how chaos can actually bring you closer to purpose.

Letting go isn't always easy, but sometimes it's exactly what faith requires. In this episode, we talk about how to discern when God is leading you to walk away from places, people, or seasons that no longer align with His purpose for your life. If it's no longer growing you, stretching you, or glorifying Him — it may be time to move forward. Trust that when God calls you out, He's already prepared the next step.

In this kickoff episode of The Life Unveiled, we dive into the emotional battles that come with walking by faith. From frustration and doubt to sadness and overwhelm, our feelings can be powerful—but they don't have to control us. J. White unpacks how to fight through “the feels” with honesty, prayer, Scripture, and the power of God's presence. If you've ever felt like your emotions were winning the fight, this one's for you.

Join me in Episode 3, "Godly Community," where we explore the transformative power of supportive connections in alleviating stress and fostering spiritual growth. Opening with a reflection on the prevalent stress in today's world, we delve into the quest for genuine connections as a remedy. Discover why I've sought Godly community as a solution to personal stress and how supportive connections, like those with high school friends, have positively influenced my life. In this special episode, I introduce Zeke, an accountability partner, Owner/CEO of BAYG LLC, and Marketing Manager for MOBOOMBOX. Together, we discuss the role of Godly community in providing collective strength during common stressors. Through insightful interview questions, Zeke shares examples of challenges successfully tackled by supportive communities and offers advice on actively contributing to stress-free environments. Unveiled Conversations features audience questions on the unique aspects of Godly community in stress management and practical tips for individuals seeking supportive connections. Follow me for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Remember, two heads are better than one. Join us next week as we explore suffering in silence, and don't hesitate to slide into my DMs with your thoughts and questions. Embark on this journey of spiritual growth and community support, as we navigate the path to a stress-free life in Godly fellowship. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

Join me in Episode 2, "Who Do You Love?" where we unpack the lessons from the Parable of the 10 Virgins. Explore the impact of desires on our choices and the transformative journey of aligning our hearts with God. Discover the power of daily habits like prayer and Bible study in maintaining focus on God's vision. In Unveiled Conversations, I answer audience questions on prayer, overcoming anger towards God, and finding solace in scriptures during challenging times. Follow me for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Remember, obedience may be challenging, but God will carry you through. Join me next week as we explore the importance of Godly Community. Slide into my DMs with your thoughts and questions. Embark on this transformative episode as we delve into reshaping desires and seeking God's purpose together. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

In this episode, explore the reasons behind my recent name change, shedding Lukewarm Christianhood for a passionate devotion to Jesus. Discover the impact of sobriety on my spiritual journey and the concept of intentional drinking. Join Unveiled Conversations for answers to audience questions on sobriety, personal growth, biblical perspectives on alcohol, and letting go. Follow me on Instagram for more on self-love, branding, and Jesus. Stay tuned for next week's episode on desires in this transformative journey. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thelifeunveiledpodcast/message

This week we get into the most boring but paranoid part of stepping into your power: When Ish Gets Real Pt. 1, The Calm. I give y'all the 411 on what happens during the calm before the storm. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

This week we get into my favorite topic in part one of this season: F.U.N. (to be defined in the episode). We get deep on what having fun looks and feels like when you are living in stagnancy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

The episode title says it ALL! This week is all about stage 2 of stagnancy: COMFORT! Get into this drug talk and I will see you in a couple months when we interview my LS Kan! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

Time to give this season another shot! This time I'm gonna do things a little different and this episode gives you some insight on what that is. Enjoy! And tune in every Saturday at 11:30a for a new episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsla-podcast/message

This episode explores the first stage of stagnancy: ignorance. Join me and Aziza as we tackles the different types of ignorance and the possible dangers of it as a whole. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

These season is all about stepping into your power. In this Intro episode I give you the inside scoop on the season and even reveal some of the guests we plan to bring on. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

I'm just checking in

In this episode I talk about the new theme for the month. I also announce a few upcoming surprises and changes for the podcast and brand. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This episode I go over my challenges and successes of February. I also talk about what I'm looking forward to in March. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week we talk about learning to sit tf down. We all get lost and think we can do it all, but this episode goes over the dangers associated with that and the benefits of sitting down. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week we dive into the trap of overextending yourself and things I've learned from my own experiences with this. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

Welcome back to your favorite podcast! It's been a while but I'm finally back with a fourth season! This episode is a quick welcome back with a little tea on the side. Share, Like, Subscribe --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

The tea on season 3 & 4 ❤️ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

We took a deep dive into our HJIC's vision board for the year and checked off what has already come to pass.⁠ ⁠ We also give the inside scoop on our goal setting proccess for Quarter Three.⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

When I named these Pajamas I had no idea that God was gonna make me take my very own sabbatical aways from this season of the podcast. ⁠ ⁠ Purpose works in mysterious ways.⁠ ⁠ "The Sabbatical" Episode of the podcast HERE! We will be discussing the following:⁠ - My time away from the podcast⁠ - My first quarter of the year⁠ - My first year of podcasting⁠ ⁠ Can't wait to chat with you!⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

In this episode our HJIC takes us through the steps of how to renew our intentions for 2021. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

What is good company? Find out as our HJIC dives into this topic. Keep listening for a special surprise this week too

This week our HJIC talks about some of the downfalls of being “up & stuck.” Inspired by Cardi B, our creator dives into what this phrase means and how it can do more harm than good on your self-love journey. TUNE IN TO HER IG LIVE ON THURSDAY AT 7PM FOR TRAPHOUSE TEA. Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

What is C.E.T.???? This week our HJIC describes how she will be implementing each letter into her personal 2021 strategy. She also drops a few gems on how it relates to personal and professional endeavors. It wouldn't be the HJIC if she didn't bring God in some way or how do expect a few quick testimonials as well. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

How often do we associate the word NO with negativity? Why do we do that? Are we so selfish that we think we need/deserve every single thing. ⁠ ⁠ NO is not negative. It's balance. NO keeps you in check. NO keeps you from making HUGE mistakes. Most importantly, NO helps others learn how to love and is a direct reflection of how you love yourself. ⁠ ⁠ Tomorrow the HJIC dives deeper into NO and her experiences with this word. ⁠ ⁠ We are starting Season 3 off with a BANG! You don't want to miss this.⁠ Grab your ADDICTED Tee at thelifeofjwhite.com/shop & Follow us on IG: Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

We are grown now so learning about stocks and investments is a MUST. Join the HJIC for a chat with Save & Sip's own Trevor Alexander. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

You should feel good in your own skin. Join the HJIC and Cassandra for a chat on body positivity and self-love! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

Going vegan is a journey! Join the HJIC and her sis Lydia for a chat about going vegan. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This is the special birthday episode I promised y'all. I finally delivered lol. These are the 13 things 25 taught me! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

Catch Up Mustard! I'm back and on this episode I talk about what has kept me away as well as what 2020 taught me and what I'm looking forward to in 2021! Follow me: Instagram.com/theselfloveaddict Facebook.com/selfloveaddict7 thelifeofjwhite.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week is all about choosing peace. We can't wait for you to hear our chat with @aziizais on this topic. We got deep and even dropped a few gems on how you can choose peace on a daily basis. ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week our HJIC chats with @journeywithjaz about Maintaining Momentum in your faith journey. We get into the nitty gritty of the faith journey and what to do when you lose your starting energy.⁠ ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

On this episode, I talk to you about what it means to learn the motions when you are walking in purpose. It's a short message but it carries weight! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week's plug is @jawni_tsunami He is a good friend of the HJIC and a NOVA native. Between being an accountant and investor, Jon has been spending time as a Black Financial Growth Activist. ⁠In this episode we chat with him about the importance of financial security and give you a few tips on how to start your journey. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

It's that time of the week again! This week's plug is Malique Johnson He is a personal trainer and we are so excited to be chatting it up with him this week. We talk about it all from running a business, to incorporating wellness into your everyday lifestyle. ⁠ ⁠ If you have been hesitating with starting your fitness journey, this episode is for you!⁠ ⁠ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This week I have a chat with Tyra Preston on healing and how that journey starts. Be sure to subscribe and comment

This week we interview the one and only Christian Bae on her spiritual journey with purpose. We are so excited to share the first plug interview of the season with you!

We are super excited to be back for Season 2!!! This week we give you the inside scoop on the season and what we will be discussing. We have leveled up a bit by adding a theme for the season and we are anxious to see how everything turns out. Thanks for tuning in and as alway be sure to follow us on Instagram @theselfloveaddict --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This episode recaps everything from season 1. We talk about the takeaways from each episode and give you insight the official launch of season 2. Thank you for supporting me thus far and I can't wait to start back up again, bigger and better! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

Today we dive into what confidence means and a few traps that come with it. We then get into where confidence comes from and the key to keeping it throughout your life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

In this episode I talk about my battles with shot shooting. After that quick chat I interview a successful DM slide couple as well as very close friends of mine to get the inside scoop on shooting your shot. It's lit! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

If you didn't get the Spongebob reference, we can't be friends. Anyways, I cut my leg up something fierce but the experience gave my four lessons to share with you so tune in and save yourself some trouble. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

Today there is no episode. I encourage you all to reflect and educate yourselves on why Black Lives Matter. Register to vote if you haven't and look into the policies that need changing in your community. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

In this episode we dive into what it means to be an entrepreneur and how to balance you life with it. Running a business is hard work but if you take the right steps forward you can master it a little more everyday. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

This episode we dive into what life is like after graduation. We gloss over our personal struggles as well as how our experiences led us to entrepreneurship. It's gonna be one for the books! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support

During this episode I talk to my good friend Kie Noel about our experiences with Depression and Anxiety. We get deep covering topics that range from generational curses to how mental health takes a tole on our relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tsla-podcast/support