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Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and T

Jason Benham, Tori Benham


    • May 23, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 155 EPISODES

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    The Beauty in Battle Podcast is truly a gem among podcasts. This incredible show has had such a positive impact on my marriage and has provided practical solutions to common relationship struggles. Hosted by Jason and Tori, this podcast offers wisdom and guidance that comes directly from their own experiences, making it relatable and authentic. They bring a refreshing and fun energy to each episode, making it enjoyable to tune in.

    One of the best aspects of The Beauty in Battle Podcast is how practical the advice and guidance given are. Unlike other shows that focus solely on theoretical concepts, Jason and Tori provide real-life examples of how they have applied these lessons in their own marriage. Their willingness to be vulnerable and share their own challenges makes it easier for listeners to connect with them. Each episode leaves you with actionable steps that can be implemented immediately, which is incredibly valuable.

    Another impressive aspect of this podcast is the efficient communication between Jason and Tori. They have a unique ability to get straight to the point without wasting any time, which keeps each episode engaging from start to finish. Their chemistry as hosts shines through, creating an enjoyable listening experience.

    While it's challenging to find any negative aspects of The Beauty in Battle Podcast, one potential downside is that some topics may not resonate with every listener. Since the show focuses specifically on marriage and relationships from a Christian perspective, those who aren't married or don't align with Christian beliefs may not find all episodes applicable or relevant.

    In conclusion, The Beauty in Battle Podcast is an absolute must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their marriage or relationship. With its practical advice, relatability, and entertaining hosts, it stands out amongst similar podcasts in its genre. Jason and Tori's genuine desire to help couples create godly marriages shines through in every episode. I highly recommend this podcast to anyone seeking guidance and inspiration for their own relationship journey.



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    Latest episodes from Beauty in Battle Podcast

    Raising Godly Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 34:31


    Send us a textRaising godly kids doesn't happen by accident—it takes prayer and example. In this episode, we share three powerful things to pray for and three key things to model. Tune in for practical ways to lead your children with both intention and joy.

    Three Ways To Listen

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 17:24


    Send us a textIn this episode, we unpack the three types of listening that show up in marriage—and why only one of them leads to real connection. It's not about winning the conversation—it's about winning your spouse's heart. Tune in to discover how shifting your listening style can transform the way you love.

    Three Keys To Social Awareness

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 30:23


    Send us a textIn marriage, social awareness is a game-changer. In this episode, we explore three simple keys to help you grow: paying attention to cues, bids, and triggers. When you learn to spot these little things, you'll connect deeper, fight less, and love smarter. Enjoy

    Paying The Debt Of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 35:06


    Send us a textLove isn't just a feeling—it's a debt we owe, especially in marriage. In this episode, we dive into Romans 13:8 and explore what it means to carry the "continuing debt to love one another" and unpack how recognizing that debt can radically transform your marriage. Enjoy. Come hang with us at our upcoming marriage retreat in Cancun!  Click HERE. 

    Drawing Close In Your Free Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 31:32


    Send us a textIn today's fast-paced world, free time with your spouse can feel like a luxury—but it's essential if you want to stay close and connected. In this episode, we explore four keys to be intentional with your downtime so it draws you closer. Enjoy.Oh, and if you haven't signed up for our marriage retreat on July 14-18, 2025, check it out HERE. 

    How To Deal With A Difficult Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 20:27


    Send us a textDealing with a difficult spouse can be one of the biggest challenges in a relationship, especially when tensions run high. In this episode, we explore practical strategies to navigate conflict with wisdom and composure. Enjoy! 

    Three Keys To A Difficult Conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 22:52


    Send us a textDifficult conversations are inevitable in any relationship, but how you approach them makes all the difference. In this episode, we break down three keys to handling tough discussions with your spouse without damaging your connection. Enjoy! 

    Three Traits Of A Good Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 20:59


    Send us a textWhat does love look like in practical terms? In this episode, we dive into three essential qualities every spouse needs to cultivate for a thriving marriage. Whether you're newly engaged or married for years, these principles will help you strengthen your relationship and grow closer than ever.And come join us in July for a marriage retreat like none other! Click HERE for details. 

    Two Primal Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 24:49


    Send us a textBy the age of four, our souls begin asking two fundamental questions. This episode explores how these deep-rooted needs shape our relationships and how God speaks directly to them in Scripture. Understanding these core questions can transform your marriage and deepen your connection. Enjoy!

    The Essential Element Of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 29:29


    Send us a textWant your spouse to feel truly loved and deeply connected to you? There's a simple yet powerful way to make it happen. In today's episode, we're uncovering the key to unlocking the most essential element of love and how you can use it to strengthen your bond and bring you closer than ever.Come hang with us in Cancun - click HERE for more details. 

    Three Types Of Conversations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 30:01


    Send us a textConversations can go off track when people operate in different modes. In this episode, we unpack how to recognize and respond to three types of conversations to better connect with your spouse (or anyone!). Enjoy. Join us at your Beauty In Battle Marriage Retreat in sunny Cancun July 14-18, 2025. Click HERE for details. 

    Your University Of Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 26:50


    Send us a textHave you ever thought about how the family you grew up in shaped your approach to relationships? The way your mom, dad, siblings, or others in your family treated one another often sets the tone for how you interact with your spouse or loved ones. Today, we'll dive into how to embrace the good lessons and let go of the unhealthy patterns. Enjoy!

    Five Keys To Break The Defensive Cycle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 39:30


    Send us a textWhile it might seem like just an occasional bad habit, unchecked defensiveness can erode trust, prevent healthy conflict resolution, and keep you from having the deep, vulnerable conversations your relationship needs. In this episode, we'll walk through five keys to help you break it. EnjoyIf you haven't signed up for our exclusive "off-the-charts-amazing" marriage retreat in Cancun, check it out HERE! 

    The Power Of One Word

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 34:49


    Send us a textEach year, we ask God to give us a word that serves as a theme for the following year. It's been a powerful tool that's strengthened us individually and drawn us together as a couple. Today, we'll show you how to come up with your own! Plus, come join us in Cancun to strengthen your marriage like none other!  Click HERE for more details. 

    The Value Of Making Things Special

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 29:57


    Send us a textJoin us as we explore the power of intentionality and the art of making moments truly meaningful. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this podcast reminds you that every day can be extraordinary when you choose to make it special.Join us in sunny Cancun for a marriage retreat like none other!  Click HERE for more details. 

    Three Pillars of Relational Awareness

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 25:13


    Send us a textThe strongest couples are those who stay fully present and attentive to each other. Today, we'll dive into what science reveals about cultivating mindfulness in your marriage to build a deeper, more meaningful connection. Let's do this!

    Three Keys To A Secure Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 31:12


    Send us a textWe're diving into neuroscience again, exploring three research-backed keys to building a secure attachment with your spouse (and kids). Join us as we unpack the science of relationships and discover the transformative power of living deeply connected to your spouse.Also, join us for our Beauty In Battle Marriage retreat at the luxurious Excellence Coral Playa Mujeres all-inclusive resort in Mexico. Click HERE for more details. 

    The Brain Switch

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 41:51


    Send us a textWe have more brain science coming your way! Join us as we dive into the power of right-brain thinking and three keys to shift from left to right for deeper connection. Also, tune in for our announcement for the Beauty In Battle Marriage Retreat!! For more information, click HERE. 

    The Power of Flexibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 33:34


    Send us a textResearch shows the healthiest people and the healthiest relationships are characterized by flexibility - the capacity to bend without breaking. Join us as we share our discoveries on the power of flexibility in marriage. Enjoy. 

    Four Types of Destructive Spouses

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 36:08


    Send us a textToday is part 2 of our deep dive into the bestselling marriage book Marriage On The Rock by Jimmy Evans. Today, we're talking about the four core needs of a wife and a husband and the four types of destructive spouses. Enjoy. 

    Marriage On The Rock

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 28:18


    Send us a textJoin us as we dive into the four pillars of a strong marriage taken from the best-selling book "Marriage On The Rock" by Jimmy Evans. These keys are taken directly from Scripture and are pivotal if you want a thriving relationship. Enjoy. 

    Five Keys to a Good Apology

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 23:38


    Send us a textJoin us for a discussion on Dr. Gary Chapman's latest book, *The Five Apology Languages*. We'll explore each of the apology languages and how they can help us navigate failures in our marriages. We'll also touch on the topic of forgiveness. Enjoy!

    His Needs Her Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 31:12


    Join us as we dive into Willard Harley's best-selling marriage book, His Needs Her Needs. We'll cover the five core needs of each spouse and how his findings relate to our own marriages. Enjoy!

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    The SAFE Way To Manage Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 37:07


    Conflict is meant for connection. It's the opportunity to turn "me" into "we." But the key is in how we handle it. Join us as we talk about a research-backed four-part process on how to manage conflict in a way that joins us together rather than tears us apart.  Enjoy. 

    Cultivating Healthy Fear In Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 39:05


    Did you know the best marriages have a certain level of fear in the relationship? In today's episode, we dive into two types of fear and four practical ways to cultivate healthy fear so your marriage will thrive. Enjoy!

    Five Ways To Find More Time To Spend With Your Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 34:47


    In today's busy world, we must be proactive about spending time with each other. Time is our greatest treasure, and "where your treasure is, your heart will be also." Join us as we discuss five places to find more time! Enjoy

    Five Approaches To Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 27:27


    Every couple experiences conflict, and how you handle it can make or break your relationship. In today's episode, we dive into the five approaches to conflict and how to choose the right one at the right time. Enjoy!

    Three Laws For Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 30:37


    Join us as we dive into a familiar story in the Bible to discover three powerful keys to a deeper connection with your spouse. Taken from Matthew 3, we're going to look at three things God did to draw His Son close to Him and how it relates to marriage. Enjoy!

    Keys To Biblical Relationship Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 29:56


    Join us as we share five keys from the story of Mary and Joseph to help us build strong marriages. We know them as the earthly parents of Jesus, but their lives show us powerful secrets to success in relationships. Enjoy!

    Three Powerful Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 22:56


    What do you want to accomplish in your marriage? In today's episode, we'll dive into three powerful questions that will help you achieve that goal. At the end we'll throw in a fun exercise to help lock it in. Enjoy. 

    Playing Games In Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 22:58


    In life, games are about winners and losers. The problem is, when it comes to relationships, if you choose to play games both people lose. Why? Because in marriage the win is the relationship!  Join us as we dive into nine games we can play in our relationships and how to stay out of those silly little games!Enjoy. 

    Becoming a Better Listener

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 31:34


    Better communication leads to a better marriage. And becoming a better listener is the key to being a good communicator. In today's episode, we dive into four key questions to create an environment of emotional safety so you can become a better listener. Enjoy!

    How the TERA Quotient Helps Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 26:30


    The TERA quotient is a concept used to gauge and improve the quality of relationships, particularly in professional settings, but it can be applied to personal relationships as well. Backed by neuroscience, the TERA quotient can improve the dynamics of marriage, leading to more effective communication, stronger connections, and greater mutual respect.Enjoy!

    Communication Mistakes During Times of Stress

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 27:24


    Join us as we explore four common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate under stress. We'll dive into each one, backed by research, and then share practical strategies on what to do instead. Enjoy!

    Stay Needy Live Healthy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 34:30


    Did you know that God is not all that you need? He didn't design you that way. He created you to need others. In this episode we'll tackle two core needs we all have and how our spouse is the primary one who God uses to meet those needs. God made you for relationship.  As such, you have inborn needs to draw you close to your spouse. Join us as we tackle two core relational needs that draw you to each other. Enjoy. P.S. If you haven't taken our free 5-Day Marriage Challenge, you can join the fun HERE. 

    Love's Two Essential Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 28:38


    Did you know your brain subconsciously asks two questions each time you interact with another person? In today's episode, we're going to dive into these two questions and how they can positively impact your marriage. Thanks to the research of Dr. Chip Dodd, we have plenty to talk about in this episode!  Enjoy. 

    Five Keys to a Happy Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 34:16


    Over 40 years of research by the good folks at Prepare Enrich have revealed five keys that make the happiest marriages. Tune in as we dive into each of them. Enjoy. 

    Questions For Deeper Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 39:23


    Ever felt a stalemate when it came to thinking of stuff to talk about with your spouse? Today's episode will cure you of that! Join us as we dive into specific questions you can ask your spouse that will help you connect on a deep level. And, as promised on the pod, here are a list of the questions: Before you talk, here are some questions to ask yourself about your spouse:  What is going on?What are they feeling? What are they thinking? Five Questions to ask one time: What things do I do (or can I do) to make you feel most loved? What activity do we do that you cherish the most and why? What is something romantic I've done for you that you liked? What three things have we done in our marriage that you're most proud of? What do I do that's the biggest turn-on to you?Five Questions to ask every week: On a scale of 1-10, how connected do you feel to me and why?  How are things going between you and the kids? How are things going between you and your friends? How are you feeling overall? (“what” are you feeing?) What has the Lord been speaking to you? 

    Marriage On Mission - An Interview With our Missionary Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 36:37


    Join us and our close friends, Trent and Amy Pruett, missionaries in the Philippines, as we discuss how they manage to run a growing ministry and full-time business while thriving in their relationship. You'll enjoy this podcast as it gives practical takeaways you can apply in your marriage today. 

    Rekindling Romance

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 22:42


    Did you know the fire you once felt in your marriage doesn't have to die down or even simmer? You can and should keep it burning hot! This episode will dive into the building blocks of romance and the three keys to ignite the flame once again. Enjoy! 

    The Myth of the 50/50 Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 33:35


    To thrive in your marriage, shift your focus from tallying points in your relationship to building a winning connection with your spouse. In this episode, we'll share three essential strategies to help you make this shift. Enjoy!

    The HERO Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 30:33


    Do you want to know your spouse better? How about deepening your understanding of yourself? Today's episode will help you do just that. We're going to ask you one powerful question that will draw you close to your spouse and open your eyes to who you were made to be!We call this "The HERO Journey." It's going to bless your life and marriage in a big way.  Enjoy. 

    Connecting Through Conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 35:02


    Have you ever been lost in a conversation with someone and totally lost track of time? You enjoy it so much. Why? Subconsciously, you are connecting with them, and God made us for connection. In this episode we dive into the research behind what makes "super communicators" and how we can emulate their practices in marriage. Enjoy. 

    Three Keys to Intimacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 31:32


    We were created for oneness with our spouse. The question is, how do we practically do it? Today's episode will give you three keys to drawing close and staying close to your spouse so you can experience a marriage that will last. Enjoy.

    Self Awareness in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 35:44


    The healthiest marriages are emotionally intelligent marriages. And the key to emotional intelligence is self-awareness. Join us as we discuss the three levels of self-awareness and how you can walk through each level to strengthen your marriage. Enjoy! 

    Harnessing Emotions to Strengthen Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 38:44


    One of our greatest needs is emotional connection. Harnessed properly, emotions can draw you together in a deep and powerful way. Today's episode is all about helping you do just that. Join us as we share three keys to emotional connection built upon a Biblical and scientific framework. Enjoy!

    Two Powerful Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 24:50


    If you want to magnetize your spouse to you, this episode is a "must-listen." We're going to share two powerful questions that will put you in a frame of mind to draw your spouse close and connect you emotionally. Enjoy!

    Six Healthy Marriage Habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 37:23


    Join us as we discuss six key marriage habits we've discovered that have drawn us closer and helped us turn conflict into connection. Based on proven research, these six keys can revolutionize your marriage!

    Four Pillars of a Strong Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 27:00


    Join us as we dive into a little brain science that shows the power of our right-brain and how it is wired to run on four key things. These four keys are pillars that will support and strengthen your marriage when you apply them to your relationship.  Enjoy!

    Dealing With Insecurity In Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 33:45


    Intimacy is to be fully known and fully accepted. God made us for intimacy - both with Himself and with others. In marriage, intimacy is the lifeblood of your relationship. But it's hard. Why? Because intimacy reveals insecurity. In today's episode, we dive into the topic of insecurity and give three keys on how to overcome it. You'll enjoy this Valentine's Day edition as we tackle a difficult issue that we all face. Enjoy.  And ...HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

    A 3-Part Grid For Conflict Resolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 29:20


    Today's episode is all about how to properly manage conflict and a 3-part grid we've learned that has helped us overcome conflict in our own marriage. It's built upon the foundation that conflict is meant for connection - it's God's way of turning you from “me” into “we.” This mindset will help you w/any conflict. Join us as we share this unique grid that can help you work through any conflict!

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