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In our marriage and parenting, we're often too hard or too soft.When we're too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do.This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently.And, it leads to people distancing from us.When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak.And, our wives and kids kind of like that…But they don't respect us or feel safe with us.And we don't feel safe or respect ourselves.Thankfully, there is a “just right” place to be a parent and a husband.One where we have the love AND respect of others…And we love and respect ourselves.Learn about this in today's episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmxd3VzEvgoAnd to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage BoundariesMany husbands misuse boundaries—or avoid them entirely—and damage their marriage in the process. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to use boundaries the right way to build respect, prevent resentment, and strengthen your connection. If you've been frustrated with your wife's behavior and don't know how to respond without being controlling or weak, this guide is for you.What You'll LearnWhy boundaries fail when used too early—or without loveHow to create boundaries that build respect, not conflictThe right sequence: love → requests → boundariesWhy individual coaching works better than couple's counseling when boundaries are neededWant to Work With Coach Jack? If your wife is doing relationship-damaging things and you want to respond in a way that actually helps, the Difficult Partner Coaching Package will show you the exact steps to love well and use boundaries wisely—without becoming a doormat or a tyrant.Key TakeawaysBoundaries must follow love and positive requests to be effectiveYou can't prevent bad behavior—you can only control your responseRequests should always be sincere, not sarcastic or criticalBoundaries are personal actions, not punishmentsDeal breakers require calm, consistent follow-throughAdditional ResourcesConnecting Through "Yes!" (Book) – Learn how to create connection with sincere agreement, even with difficult topicsPositive Requests: A Secure Way to Get What You Want (Blog Post) – Practical guide for making effective, loving requestsDifficult Partner Coaching Package - There are better options than divorce or living with a difficult wife.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Have you ever wondered if it's ok to have boundaries in marriage? Today, Laura will be talking about how it's not only ok but it's actually good for your marriage. She will talk about what boundaries in marriage are, how to establish them, what to do if there are obstacles, and how it will actually benefit you and your marriage. You can subscribe today on AccessMore or wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.
Are you struggling to establish healthy boundaries in your marriage? In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant explore the crucial role of boundaries in building a stronger, more trusting, and fulfilling marriage. Learn practical tips for setting and maintaining boundaries to protect your relationship and prevent future hurts. Through insights from their own journey, you'll discover that boundaries are about protection and trust, not control, and how that foundation builds a safe emotional space for both spouses. Uncover practical strategies for boundary setting with the opposite sex in work and social settings. Discover how to protect your marriage through digital and entertainment boundaries and learn how to navigate conversations about boundaries with your spouse. Whether you're looking to rebuild trust or want to prevent future harm to your marriage, this episode on boundaries is for every couple. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel Get our FREE Resource Menu
In this episode, we invite back our friends and counselors, Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to talk about the crucial role of boundaries in restoring marriages after betrayal, particularly sexual infidelity. Matthew shares insights from the perspective of the betraying spouse, emphasizing self-reflection and accountability, while Joanna offers guidance for the betrayed spouse on navigating emotions and setting personal boundaries. We delve into defining boundaries as supportive frameworks rather than punishing limitations, avoiding misuse of boundaries for control, and harmonizing them to foster safety and mutual respect. The Raabsmiths highlight the importance of individual responsibility and how boundaries can create a safe space for healing and rebuilding trust.To download the Raabsmith's free Honest Connection Guide, visit RenewingUs.com/puresexradio. Click here for the Raabsmith's full biosTopics Covered in this Episode:Importance of boundaries in marriage restoration after betrayalDefinition and positive framing of boundaries in relationshipsDistinction between healthy boundaries and manipulative or controlling behaviorsRole of individual responsibility in setting and maintaining boundariesChallenges faced by the betrayed spouse in establishing boundariesThe necessity for the betraying spouse to take accountability and establish their own boundariesNavigating fear and emotional responses related to boundary settingStrategies for harmonizing boundaries to support both partners and the relationshipAddressing boundary violations and the importance of introspectionEstablishing new habits and structures to support healthy boundaries in the relationshipMore Resources:Building True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithRenewing Us RecoveryRenewing Us Couples RetreatRelated Podcasts:Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After BetrayalThe Need for Boundaries After BetrayalHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Betrayal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
Everybody knows you have to set boundaries with your husband so he won't walk all over you. But what if boundaries aren't actually working? What if they're making things worse? That's what happened at my house. I laid down the law, demanded change, and made my expectations clear. And you know what happened? Distance. Defensiveness. Zero improvement. Then I discovered three cheat phrases that work way better than boundaries ever did to get the kind of response I really wanted, more connection, tenderness, and more help around the house. Now, I don't even think about setting boundaries—because I don't need to! In this episode, I'll share:
In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, host Maurice Harker delves into the complex dynamics of marriages where one partner faces challenges in financial contribution. We explore the emotional attachments that persist despite financial strains and discuss strategies for setting effective boundaries to foster growth and mutual support within the relationship. Maurice offers insights into creating a nurturing environment, understanding individual roles, and the importance of adaptive processes to maintain marital quality and stability.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/building-emotional-intelligence-3/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShfHPYetpz0&t=10sCheck out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
In this episode, we delve further into the topic of boundaries, exploring the complex challenges of setting and maintaining boundaries within marriage. We explore how these boundaries can help nurture and protect the marital relationship, allowing both partners to thrive as individuals and as a couple. Join us as we unpack practical tools and biblical insights to help you cultivate a strong, healthy, and fulfilling marriage. Whether you're navigating new challenges or looking to deepen your connection, this episode offers valuable guidance for every couple. For more information about Rebecca, this podcast, and her upcoming book, go to jesusandyourmentalhealth.com
In this episode of Stronger Marriage Connection, Dr. Dave Schramm and Dr. Liz Hale sit down with marriage therapists Boone Christensen and Kaprena Moore to discuss how couples can establish and maintain healthy boundaries in their relationships. They explain what boundaries look like in marriage, why they’re important, and how to effectively communicate them. Boone and Kaprena share real-life examples and provide tips on dealing with common boundary issues, including emotional safety, parenting, and handling conflicts. The episode highlights how boundaries can foster love, respect, and protection, rather than control. About Boone & Kaprena: Boone and Kaprena own Steps Family Therapy in Spanish Fork, where they conduct individual, couple, and family therapy. They both performed qualitative research in graduate school on the role of clergy in mental health and relational issues. When not doing therapy or spending time with their two kids, Boone loves camping, fishing, and reading research on therapist development. Kaprena loves planning events, writing music, and yoga. They are both consultants for the mental health company, Mindless. Insights: Boone: "I'd say boundaries are the things you do to protect yourself and keep yourself healthy. They are nothing that you expect anybody else to do anything about." Kaprena: "When boundaries are about changing and manipulating your partner, they are poisonous. When they are about protecting yourself, they can convey love." Liz: "I think boundaries really are about safety. It's not just my feelings, but my partner's feelings. I just I do think of a cocoon a little bit when I think of a boundary or fenced in area where we're both inside, and it's not about the rupture, it's about making room for both of us." Dave: "I think that the boundaries perhaps can change. Is that possible over time? Is more understanding and his development and his relationship changes, still to have protection, but there may not be boundaries now we're okay. We need to adjust this. If I have a child that's living at home, or if there's a an accident or mental health or struggles or things okay, we need to adjust the boundaries here of what's happening to keep that protection in place." Links: https://stepsfamilytherapy.blogspot.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boonechristianson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapy_with_boone_lmft/?hl=en Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org Podcast.stongermarriage.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/ Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/ Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.com http://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com
Establishing boundaries with extended families and friends is vital to a happy marriage. Most couples state that extended family and friends cause issues in their marriage. In this episode, we'll dive into practical strategies for setting boundaries that honor your relationship while still nurturing connections with extended family and friends. Whether you're dealing with overbearing in-laws or navigating friendships that blur the lines, or even toxic business relationships, this discussion will equip you with the tools to protect your marriage while fostering healthy, respectful relationships outside of it. We also discuss why it is so vital to have boundaries with the toxic people in your life, or even why you might just need to push them out of your life. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.
In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice Harker offers deep insights into one of the most challenging aspects of marriage repair: navigating boundaries after trust has been broken. Addressing concerns about recovery, accountability, and creating a healthy dynamic without falling into a "parent-child" relationship, Maurice provides practical advice and spiritual principles to help guide you through the process. Through a workshop-style discussion, learn how to approach your marriage with a clear vision, establish boundaries that honor your self-worth, and break unhealthy cycles while building individual strength. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/product/moving-beyond-betrayal-the-5-step-boundary-solution-for-partners-of-sex-addicts/ Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRjoz7dsFh4&t=1s Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hr-oaLKnm5I&t=1s
In marriage, two are supposed to become one, right? How then do you have healthy boundaries in marriage? Join us as Greg & Erin sit down with world renowned boundaries expert Dr. John Townsend to discuss how creating boundaries in marriage can actually bring you closer together. Later, we hear the beautiful marriage story of newlyweds, Emerson and Ruth. Then, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know how he can encourage his spouse to pray with him. The Secret Language of Successful Couples .Donate Now! We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advice on how to implement them. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #communicationinmarriage #passiveaggressive --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/neededconversations/message
In today's episode we are answering a listeners question! This discussion dives deep into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries and purity within a marriage. We learn that introducing external sexual influences, whether pornography, strip clubs, or other deviant behaviors, can slowly erode the intimacy and oneness God intended for the marital relationship. Just as detoxing from an addiction is a difficult process, removing these negative elements from a marriage is challenging but essential for the couple's spiritual wellbeing. We emphasize the need for open communication, counseling, accountability, and most importantly, anchoring one's identity firmly in Christ. Ultimately, we are reminded that God's design for marriage mirrors Christ's sacrificial love for the church - a love that finds its fullness in mutual respect, forgiveness and genuine intimacy. As always, leave a comment! What are your thoughts about today's episode? -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido -- Dave Ramsey Course https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/hosts/alfcranchoca?pc=78239020 -- We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com
Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: The Women My Husband is Following On Social Media Makes Me Uncomfortable -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to Foothill Christian American Canyon's online podcast. Here you can find new sermons uploaded every week! To watch previous messages go to our Youtube page at Foothill Christian American Canyon. February 18, 2024 Sermon
Join us for a deeper dive into the crucial topic of boundaries in marriage. After a brief hiatus, we back with a fresh perspective and valuable insights to help you strengthen your relationship.This episode explores the physical, emotional, social, and financial boundaries and why they're essential for a healthy marriage.We share some personal stories and practical tips on how to set and maintain boundaries, emphasizing the importance of open communication, respect, and compromise.Whether you are newlyweds or have been married for years, this episode will equip you with the tools you need to create a safe and fulfilling relationship with your spouse.Key Takeaways:The importance of boundaries in protecting your marriage and fostering trust, love, and securityDifferent types of boundaries and how they apply to your relationshipPractical tips on setting and maintaining boundaries through open communication and compromiseThe consequences of not respecting boundaries and how to avoid themSend us a Text Message.Support the Show.SUBSCRIBELIKE & SHAREWe want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified MarriageWebsiteInstagramFacebook
*This episode discusses mature content, not recommended for young children.*This weeks episode we have special guests Brad & Tami Miller from Tandem Marriage coaching joining us to answer all your marriage related questions! We discuss: love, divorce, intimacy, betrayal, boundaries, grace & moving on. This is Part Two of two episodes filmed back to back. Please let us know what you thought of the episode and if there were any answers you have follow up questions to :)Interested in marriage coaching?
Embark on a journey into the sacred realm of marriage with Episode 6 of the 'From 'I' to 'Us' Podcast.' We unravel the bedrock principles of Holy Boundaries that create a thriving foundation for lasting love. Join us as we explore the transformative power of honoring each other and making pre-choice choices in marriage. Subscribe now to discover the essence of Holy Promises and how they shape the fabric of a successful and fulfilling partnership. Key Takeaways: - The significance of Holy Boundaries in marriage - Bedrock principles that anchor lasting love - Honoring each other as a foundational principle - Pre-choice choices and the power of Holy Promises - Examples of successful promises and their impact Why You Should Tune In: Explore the depth of bedrock principles and Holy Promises that contribute to a successful marriage. Gain insights into setting boundaries, making pre-choice choices, and honoring your partner in a way that fosters mutual respect and enduring love. This episode provides practical wisdom for creating a harmonious and thriving partnership. #FromIToUsPodcast #HolyBoundaries #PodcastEpisode6 #MarriageSuccess Subscribe and Stay Connected: Hit that subscribe button and be part of our community! Receive weekly episodes that unravel the mysteries of love and connection. Don't miss out on the journey from 'I' to 'Us!' Engage With Us: Share your thoughts, experiences, or questions in the comments. Let's build a community that celebrates the sacredness of marriage and the power of Holy Boundaries. Connect on Social Media: Follow us on Instagram for exclusive behind-the-scenes content and updates. Use #FromIToUsPodcast to share your own experiences with Holy Boundaries and connect with others in the community. Release Schedule: New episodes every Monday! Subscribe to receive a weekly dose of inspiration and practical wisdom for your journey From 'I' to 'Us.' Join our Marriage Workshop! Stay tuned for details on our upcoming marriage workshop, where we'll delve deeper into bedrock principles and creating Holy Boundaries. Enhance your connection and build a love that lasts. #MarriageWorkshop #HolyPromises #FromIToUsPodcast Subscribe and Hit the Bell: Ready for a weekly dose of wisdom on love and partnership? Subscribe now and ring the notification bell to be the first to experience each new episode. Join us on the path to lasting love! Spread the Knowledge: Loved this episode? Share it with friends, family, and anyone seeking to strengthen their relationship. Let's spread the knowledge and build a world filled with marriages grounded in bedrock principles and Holy Boundaries! #LoveAndBoundaries #RelationshipWisdom #FromIToUsPodcast #PodcastEpisode6
Are you getting frustrated in your relationships? Boundaries might be the problem. We all hear the term boundaries and maybe even use it, but do you really know what a healthy boundary looks like? Today we dive into the 3 different types of boundaries to help you assess where you are in your relationships. Get ready to set some boundaries! Love, Brittany **NEW YEARS SALE** Come check out the sale through January 12th for the Healed Mama Academy! Join HERE. Also, come say hi and share in our Facebook group! I would love to hear your story and know your name! https://bit.ly/MorningMamaFacebookGroup I am not here to be your therapist, so here is a great place to find one if you realize it's time! https://www.restorationtherapytraining.com/find-a-therapist/ COMMUNITY--> https://bit.ly/morningmamafacebookgroup ACADEMY--> morningmama.co CONNECT--> support@morningmama.co INSTAGRAM--> http://www.instagram.com/morningmamapodcast
BEYOND I DO, EPISODE THREE!If you're new here: Welcome to BEYOND I DO podcast!We're happy you're here! We are a branch of BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST. Our heart on Beyond I Do is to provide tools and resources to help you thrive in your marriage and relationships. Throughout these bite size episodes we'll answer Q&A's, have guests, and you'll hear Adam and Ashlee share their experience and expertise on what it takes to have Godly, healthy, and thriving connections. Thank you for joining us on this journey and we look forward to the growth that's to come in your relationships!--EPISODE 3:How do you choose your battles in marriage? What kind of boundaries do you set in marriage? When should you go to counseling as a married couple? You'll hear Adam and Ashlee share their own experience with these topics.Grab your notebook, coffee and get ready to be filled with loads of wisdom!!If you've applied anything that has been talked about, we'd love to know! Don't forget to leave a comment! We appreciate reading your own experience and thoughts.--Have a question? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo--Connect with Adam Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Connect with Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido
Today, Cheri bravely shares her story of betrayal, rejection, and learning to boldly speak the truth. Though a wife may often feel it, she is not responsible for her husband's happiness and should not take on the burden of his behavior. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation as we chat about the complexities of marriage, sexual addiction, faith, and personal growth. A few resources mentioned today are: Boundaries In Marriage , His Needs, Her Needs (affiliate links) Pure Life Alliance Advocating For Your Child (Episode #57) with Emma Ford Facebook Tending Fields Mom's Group If you want to reach Cheri, connect on the mom's group or her Facebook profile, Cheri McKeag #Christianhome #christianparenting #sexualaddiction #nolongersilent #Truthandlies #betrayal #enablingsin #cycleofshame #sexualaddictioninthechurch #divorceinthechurch #christianmom #hoperenewed #fullyloved
Join us for a conversation about the first boundary with our married children and how respect plays a huge role in honoring boundaries. HELPFUL LINKS: Free Guide: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What? Learn more about coaching and schedule your free Discovery Session with Certified Life Coach, Pamela, here. Rate + review the podcast here.
There are several types of boundaries that you need to have within your marriage. Chances are you already have some. But there may be pain points in your marriage that healthy boundaries can help. Today we cover a lot of ground as we get into the details of some boundaries that may be needed within your marriage to help you, your spouse and your marriage be your healthiest. Episode highlights include: Ways to approach a conversation about free time and hobbies without a fight The most common areas where most couples might need boundaries Signs that you need a boundary in a given area How NOT to do your budget together Plus - Do you have a hobby to answer my question at the end of the episode? I'm so curious - there's bound to be one! We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! RESOURCES Get 25 of Dr Kim's best conflict resolution tips in our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet! Our new Boundaries Guide helps you decide where and how to start applying this content to your marriage. Our friends Dan & Kay at Centsei can help you set a budget and stick with good financial boundaries. We talk to a lot of couples who don't know what makes them a great team, so we created Team You & Me: A Guide to Approaching Your Marriage as a Team, to help you be more intentional to tap into all God has for you in the gift of your marriage.
There are several types of boundaries that you need to have within your marriage. Chances are you already have some. But there may be pain points in your marriage that healthy boundaries can help. Today we cover a lot of ground as we get into the details of some boundaries that may be needed within your marriage to help you, your spouse and your marriage be your healthiest. Episode highlights include: Ways to approach a conversation about free time and hobbies without a fight The most common areas where most couples might need boundaries Signs that you need a boundary in a given area How NOT to do your budget together Plus - Do you have a hobby to answer my question at the end of the episode? I'm so curious - there's bound to be one! We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! RESOURCES Get 25 of Dr Kim's best conflict resolution tips in our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet! Our new Boundaries Guide helps you decide where and how to start applying this content to your marriage. Our friends Dan & Kay at Centsei can help you set a budget and stick with good financial boundaries. We talk to a lot of couples who don't know what makes them a great team, so we created Team You & Me: A Guide to Approaching Your Marriage as a Team, to help you be more intentional to tap into all God has for you in the gift of your marriage.
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What are you responsible for in your marriage, and how do boundaries impact your relationship with your spouse? It can be confusing to understand what is our responsibility and what isn't. During this episode, one of our therapists shares about the importance of knowing our worth, and what is ours to control in our relationships. Join Director of Care to Change, April Bordeau, and therapist , Ifen Donovan, as they continue our discussion on boundaries with the topic of boundaries in marriage. Resources: Boundaries5 Love Languages Atlas of the HeartOther Helpful Podcasts: Love Yourself Enough to Set BoundariesBreaking Free of the Tyranny of The UrgentBecoming a Better SpouseIs my Relationship Toxic?What to Do When Your Partner Has Betrayed YouText us your thoughts or questions at our Care Line: 317-979-7133 For more information about Care to Change visit www.caretochange.org Follow Care to Change on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/CaretoChange.org/ Follow Care to Change on Instagram or Twitter @care_to_change
What's the proper protocol for spouses when it comes to helping other people of the opposite sex with problems – especially problems of the marital variety? Sadly, my brother and his wife are in the process of divorcing. My sister-in-law called my husband the other night to see if he would meet with her to provide counseling and advice. I think this crosses a line – she should be discussing her problems with another woman, not my husband! He, on the other hand, feels that he might be able to help in some way. What do you think?
One of the best ways to strengthen or resurrect a marriage is to establish healthy internal and external boundaries. Join Chuck and Julie for this significant conversation that can help every marriage and every relationship on this week's Positive Talk Podcast.
Psychologist Dr. Mike explains the dangers of co-dependency in marriage and the freedom that comes when we establish and hold healthy boundaries. As always, the teaching is followed by the A Better Us “kitchen couples” who bring their own perspectives on the topic.
This week Pastors Nate & Michelle Gagne sit down with Pastors Jeremy & Haley Arsenault to talk through part two of our marriage talks. Come and listen to them talk through testimonies from this message, Stories of couples who struggle, and how to overcome the tension that sex can bring into your marriage. Book Recommendations:https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827 (The Great Sex Rescue) https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Marriage-Henry-Cloud/dp/0310243149/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= (Boundaries In Marriage) https://youtu.be/bfDD5GlDJm8?t=2770 (If you missed this week sermon you can find it here!)
Welcome back to Holy Ship we are so glad you're here! To continue in our boundaries season, we have Kate Bareman on to talk about boundaries in marriage! So often the conversations about boundaries start and stop with dating-- we were curious about what boundaries look like once you're in a marriage so here we are! We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did.Kate Bareman is the Pastor of Mobilization and Families at the BLVD church in Holland, MI. She has been married to Scott for 23 years and they have 5 adult children(including their spouses). She has 18 years of varied ministry experience that has gifted her to lead as a shepherd and a teacher. As a bi-racial woman who has poured into children, students, parents, singles and those journeying through recovery, she knows how to understand and relate to a multitude of people. Most of all, she loves Jesus and helping people discover their best selves in His purpose is her sweet spot. So often the conversations about boundaries start and stop with dating-- we were curious about what boundaries look like once you're in a marriage so here we are! We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did.Contact Kate:Email: Kate.bareman@gmail.comFb: https://www.facebook.com/kate.baremanInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebaremanContact us:IG: @theholyship.podcastEmail: theholyship.podcast@gmail.com
The high divorce rate and unhappiness in marriage is not God's design, so where have we gone wrong? This podcast focuses on men/women relationships and how God teaches us to have healthy, happy relationships free of manipulation and power struggles. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/spiritarising/message
This episode provides an overview on how to develop healthier relationship bonds in marriage through boundaries. Enjoy personal insights and laugh with us as we share some of our own reflections. There is no one way to dance in the unique harmony of a marriage. Mostly because every person has a unique personality, life experience, set of desires, love languages and more. Join us for a conversation about practicing respect, learning more about yourself and your partner, and broadening the potential for enjoying marriage to the fullest!Domestic Violence ResourcesDomestic Violence National Hotline: 800.799.SAFEwww.thehotline.orgBook ResourcesSacred Marriage by Gary Thomas Life Long Love by Gary Thomas
In this episode, Chantal talks about her transformative journey from being in an abusive marriage to creating a life she loves. Chantal shares that two of her non-negotiables before entering into marriage were that she wanted kids and that she didn't believe in divorce. When her husband dropped the bomb that he didn't want any more kids as his son from a previous relationship was going off to kindergarten soon and he didn't want to go back to diapers, she was devastated. She figured she would have to go to therapy and cope with this news, because she was not getting divorced. Being raised with a strong Christian background, Chantal did not ever consider divorce as an option, even through all of the physical abuse she endured. On her 30th birthday, she made the decision to leave. It was after she had a conversation with her father that she realized that ending her marriage was the only option. After about 6 months of messiness, Chantal made the decision to create a new vision of what her life could look like and set out on a journey of transformation. Chantal shares how a few years into her journey friends and family took notice of her change and started asking questions. They wanted to know how she had become so much happier, healthier, and confident and wanted her to help themselves do the same. Chantal Cox is a special educator, author, speaker and Transformation NeuroCoach™ who helps women experiencing life transitions to create a new vision for themselves, reconnect with their passion and purpose, and turn their transition into their triumphant transformation. Her book, Create a Life You Love: 10 Healthy Habits to Transform Your Life Now, shares her personal transformation story in an easy to read format that feels like you are having a cup of coffee with a long lost friend. Each chapter ends with practical steps that anyone can implement to kick off their own journey and experience a transformation of their own. She then went on to found Create a Life You Love Coaching and start The Create a Life You Love Podcast where she connects with people from around the world to share tips and strategies to help others on their journeys.Chantal's WebsiteGet a copy of Chantal's book hereListen to Chantal's Podcast hereJoin the Create A Life You Love Facebook GroupFollow Chantal on InstagramFollow Candace on Instagram
No is a full sentence you don't have to add no because, no and, no but, if you want to add anything after no then you can add ‘no I can't'. If you are anything like me, you have trouble saying no to people, and somehow they have control over your schedule, stress level and happiness.Not only to bad things, many times you will have to say no to the good things as well. It's actually easy to say no to bad things, for example ‘say no to drugs', sure! ‘Say no to drink and drive', absolutely, coz I don't drive. However it's hard to say no to good, but saying yes to good might be preventing you from doing great. If you have a problem saying no and have some boundary issues then today's episode is for you. Please don't say no.https://www.drcloud.com/books/boundariesBoundaries are a guard against your heart, coz when you don't set boundaries not only will you get hurt, you will feel resentful, Grudgy, guilty, which is against your heart's will. You wanna feel cheerful, free, joyful and grateful. That's why you gotta guard your heart and set some boundaries. One shortcut to find out if you are setting proper boundaries or not, would be to check if you feel resentful or cheerful after doing something or saying no.Boundaries, When to say yes, how to say no, to take control of your life by Dr. Henry Cloud. I have been listening to this audiobook for quite a while, and meaning to create an episode on it. As I have noticed, ever since we starting this podcast, a little over a year ago, the deeper and personal the topic is, I have a hard time completing it. You know the dark closet of your psyche where there are many traumas and emotions buried and you don't wanna open it, for it may all fall over you and they will bury you. If not buried then you will have to deal with them. One by One. And you know it IS gonna be a mess. An emotional and psychological mess. As you go deeper, you realize there's more mess, the only thing you wanna do is run away and/or good old procrastinate. There you go, right out of bait that's one reason why you procrastinate, coz it's too personal.
Boundaries in marriage might sound like it's a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one' with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I'm in unity and still say no when it's healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and yet they are wholly and fully God as one. Living powerfully means you don't need to wait for anyone else to participate. You living the abundant life only requires one participant: YOU. He knows how to make 2 one - but He also doesn't require us to lose ourselves for the sake of our spouse. Are you showing up wholeheartedly in taking ownership of your attitudes, choices and feelings and stewarding them in a way that doesn't require your spouse's participation? Listen in as Havilah shares a real, personal story that illustrates how Boundaries in marriage work and unpacks how it plays out in real life when you partner with the Holy Spirit.
Boundaries in Marriage by Dr.Henry Cloud and Dr.Jhon Townsend is highly recommended to read.
Summary:On this installment of The Tragedy Academy, Jay is joined by two good friends, Andre and his makeup artist wife, Niki. Together, they break down the barrier of race, stereotypes, and social conditioning and bring about a fresh, realistic perspective.Key Points:
Hey there ! Join the conversation we’re diving deep into marriage , Communication, boundaries, influence and more in marriage and how our expectations in marriage affect our actions. Take a seat good things happen when we gather
Ryan Walter played in the NHL for 15 seasons and had to learn with his wife Jenn, how to have healthy boundaries in marriage. Hear their story about how they built strong boundaries in their marriage while navigating life as a high profile couple.
Harmonize Your Life: Conversation on Self-Care for Women of Color
Married for 27 years, Al and Mona Roberts enjoy coaching, mentoring and teaching married couples. Listen as they share the importance of each spouse practicing self-care, enjoying a hobby, growing as an individual, growing together and setting healthy boundaries in marriage.
Have you ever been so comfortable with someone that you don't mind burping and farting around them with absolutely no shame? Yep, you must either be married or in a long term relationship! What about using the bathroom with the door open, eating your partner's leftovers without their permission or snooping through their smart phones and devices? Yea, we've definitely been there too, but we also recognized that even though we know each other so well and are comfortable being ourselves, we still have our own needs and space as individuals.Join us for a fun episode where we talk about the importance of respecting each other's privacy and setting boundaries in marriage and relationships.
Marriage is the union between two people under GOD coming together as one. The concept of "What's yours is mines and Mines is Yours" should be a major part of continuing a healthy working marriage. But, are there any boundaries in a marriage between the husband and wife? With dealing with marital issues, is it ok to release this information with your family members, friends, or co-workers? Should men and women who have friends of the opposite sex continue their relationship as is when they become married? What are the boundaries within that? How often do males discuss relationship issues with the opposite sex? Can husbands and wives continue having their Facebook accounts separately? Should you share login and password information as well? With dealing with finances, should a husband and wives have separate bank accounts or have one single account? With dealing with disciplinarian styles, how should a husband and wife coming from two different styles raise their children? Join Us every Sunday @ 6pm eastern / 5pm central
We do a deep dive into the seasons of our marriage where we had no boundaries for other people and how that hurt us. We also discuss learning how to have boundaries with the opposite sex and what is appropriate. It is a great conversation on healthy boundaries that will help couples maybe see the importance of having boundaries in marriage. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/brandon-harrison7/support
You're married, yes! But you don't have to be in emotional bondage. Brace up and set healthy boundaries now! Find out how.
This episode is a particularly special one focused on healthy relationships through setting boundaries. I believe the bane of any relationship is the absence of boundaries with the blurring of lines and responsibilities of spouses.Why marriage? Because it is one of the most important relationships with direct implications on your personal freedom and peace, if love is devoid of boundaries. In addition, my tenth wedding anniversary is in November 2020 and healthy boundaries are the life blood of my marriage. My first collection of short stories on boundaries in marriage also comes out next month. Be on the lookout to pre-order. You do not want to miss it.This episode is based on an ebook you can download on my website, "How to Set Boundaries in Marriage". It outlines ten steps and action plans for you to stay true to your values and enjoy a happier marriage.Let’s continue the conversation on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn @TheStellifyPodcast. Use the hashtag #stellified. Thank you for subscribing, listening, reviewing and rating this podcast on Apple and other apps.
This week's episode features my fellow New Yorker Imani Aieshah. Imani is a Certified Life and Couples Coach.We're talking about being intentional about setting boundaries in our marriages.A lot of us think that after we say I do, everything else comes naturally. Well, that's the furthest from the truth. We'll be uncovering unique tools used to set boundaries in our marriages and everything else in between.Enjoy.Imani AieshahInstagram: @imaniaieshahMatters of the Heart PodcastEmail: heart@meticulouslymelissa.com Instagram: @mattersoftheheartpodcast Facebook: Matters of the Heart PodcastWant to have your Heart to Heart letter featured on the podcast, click here. Want to be a guest on the podcast, click here.
How To Set Boundaries and Why They Are Important. Learn to set and keep good boundaries in your relationships. As Dr. Skinner will share, "Without boundaries then we only have chaos." Hosts Dr. Kevin Skinner, LMFT & Brett R. Williams, LMFT
Have you ever said yes to a commitment and everything in you was screaming, “No!” Well, what you experienced was a first hand experience of crossing boundaries. On this week’s episode on Wholistic Hearts Podcast, Joshua and Kristin talk about the very important healthy aspect of boundaries within marriage, parenting, work, faith....and much more. Key Topics: 1. Boundaries are a good thing! 2. When we say yes to something, we are also saying no to something else. 3. Boundaries aren’t selfish. (I.e. Don’t ask a young overwhelmed mother to come volunteer in the nursery) 3. Setting boundaries is about speaking up for yourself. Books mentioned in the show: Go Suck a Lemon by Michael Cornwall Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. Townsend To hear more about Boundaries Groups, contact us. Follow Kristin on IG or FB @kristinfieldschadwick.
In this episode Danielle and Sheilah are discussing boundaries and the place it must have in marriage. The questions asked/discussed include... * What’s the purpose of boundaries in marriage? * What are examples of personal boundaries in marriage? * Why are boundaries important in marriage? References mentioned: * April 23, 2020 IG post from @Nedratawwab - “Normalize Saying This” * March 24,2020 IG post from @Nedratawwab “Boundaries With Your Partner Sound Like” Have any questions regarding motherhood & parenthood? Have any topic ideas you’d love to hear discussed on the podcast? We’d love to hear from you! Please Email Danielle & Sheilah at mwccpodcast@gmail.com
Protect the investment of your marriage by creating boundaries. It's not about control, it's about staying connected to your spouse at all cost. Let's talk! Come on in! #Married4Real --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app · Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew: Former Olympic Gymnast Shawn Johnson and NFL player Andrew East sit down to share their most vulnerable sides and open up like they never have before. https://open.spotify.com/show/7aGLm9HYn9mEyVr1FDzrpa?si=bgb4jh_nTyGiIabdk8BD8g Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/married4real/support
In this episode, join Alexis and her husband Matthew in an honest conversation about the importance of boundaries in marriage and how to recognize when your partner needs space.
Play the Newlywed Game along with us (or Not-So-Newlywed like we are) then join us for a discussion about the beauty of boundaries in your marriage. Boundaries are a gateway to healthy living in things like respect, healthy communication, and protection of the marriage bond. Your marriage is valuable and worth protecting. Main encouragement starts around minute 25:02 Get your FREE Family Peace Journal here: https://shapeyourfamily.ck.page/ (https://shapeyourfamily.ck.page/)
If a relationship doesn’t have healthy boundaries the only way to survive it is to build big, tall emotional walls in an effort to keep yourself emotionally safe. The point of boundaries in a marriage is to tear down the walls and create a healthy, respectful dynamic, so both people feel safe and happy. But how do you maintain boundaries between two people who are one? Listen in as Stephanie Martin explains. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/spiritarising/message
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Boundaries in Marriage - Consider taking a boundaries course
Boundaries in Marriage - Part One. Good boundaries are essential to good relationships. Looking at boundaries from a theoretical and personal perspective.
Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they continue their series on parenting. Today they will discuss the importance of boundaries in marriage and family as a whole. They will also discuss: What boundaries are and how to set them within our marriage and family Different ways to set boundaries in marriage and family Practical [...] The post Boundaries in Marriage and Family appeared first on Mercy Multiplied.
TIL 115 : Sexual Boundaries In Marriage by Association of Certified Biblical Counselors
TIL 115 : Sexual Boundaries In Marriage by Association of Certified Biblical Counselors
Shan Moyers, Lead Pastor | Matthew 19:3-9, Proverbs 5 &6
Shan Moyers, Lead Pastor | Matthew 19:3-9, Proverbs 5 &6
Shan Moyers, Lead Pastor | Matthew 19:3-9, Proverbs 5 & 6
Shan Moyers, Lead Pastor | Matthew 19:3-9, Proverbs 5 &6
Boundaries in Marriage and Family In their final Boundaries Series segment, join Melanie and Jen, our MercyTalk hosts, as they discuss boundaries in marriage and family. Have a comment or question? Email MercyTalk. The post Boundaries in Marriage and Family appeared first on Mercy Multiplied.
It has been said we are what we attract. Everything and one that comes into our lives is a reflection of what we deeply believe about ourselves. When we believe we are worthy of respect we will only respond and acknowledge those who show us that respect. We will only give energy to that which we wish to attract. With that said, there is no need to defend ourselves against disrespect in the manner of acting in kind. We only need to stand firm and reiterate what we desire. If someone disrespects us simply let them know in the moment you will show me respect. If the person or entity is unwilling and you are confident in your position the universe will ensure your paths will not cross again. It's the universal law of attraction. If they are willing and desire to give you what you want they will rise to the level of respect you require in order to remain in your presence. The process is that simple. When we learn teach just by standing in our truth this generates the energy we desire to attract. We learn how to teach people how to treat us by how we treat ourselves. Join our discussion Sunday October 16th as we dig deep into this priceless practice of setting boundaries and standards for our well being.
On this podcast I talk about how to set boundaries.
How can you stop your spouse from behaviors destructive to him- herself, to you, to your family, or to your relationship?You set boundaries. How do you get your spouse to do the things necessary to keep your relationship alive when it seems it may not last?You set criteria.Boundaries and criteria are different. They have similarities, but the difference between them is crucial to understand. Even if a person sets and enforces solid boundaries, s/he may well be missing the effective restoration to a good relationship that can come with solid criteria.Our experience is that most people either don't set boundaries, set boundaries that are too broad, or any number of other things that make the boundaries either impossible to keep, or that are ignored by their spouses.We also witness people setting no criteria, poor criteria, and other mistakes that don't motivate their spouses to meet the criteria at all.How do you set boundaries? In this program Joe Beam discusses that in detail. How to make them, what to avoid, when to enforce them, and why they work.What about criteria? In this program, Joe explains the difference between boundaries and criteria, when to establish criteria, how to make ones that help, and how to use them to make your relationship better.Criteria and boundaries are not wishes and wants: They establish absolute do's and absolute don't's.
How can you stop your spouse from behaviors destructive to him- herself, to you, to your family, or to your relationship?You set boundaries. How do you get your spouse to do the things necessary to keep your relationship alive when it seems it may not last?You set criteria.Boundaries and criteria are different. They have similarities, but the difference between them is crucial to understand. Even if a person sets and enforces solid boundaries, s/he may well be missing the effective restoration to a good relationship that can come with solid criteria.Our experience is that most people either don't set boundaries, set boundaries that are too broad, or any number of other things that make the boundaries either impossible to keep, or that are ignored by their spouses.We also witness people setting no criteria, poor criteria, and other mistakes that don't motivate their spouses to meet the criteria at all.How do you set boundaries? In this program Joe Beam discusses that in detail. How to make them, what to avoid, when to enforce them, and why they work.What about criteria? In this program, Joe explains the difference between boundaries and criteria, when to establish criteria, how to make ones that help, and how to use them to make your relationship better.Criteria and boundaries are not wishes and wants: They establish absolute do's and absolute don't's.
When it comes to boundaries, even boundaries in marriage, it's important to consider several factors. Privacy and time are among the top of these factors. The post #33 Why Have Boundaries in... The Courageous Self-Confidence podcast features mindset and self-esteem topics with guest experts to help you boost courage to face fears, build confidence, and live a vibrant life.
In this episode, we will explore setting boundaries on your marriage and in the use of smartphones, snooping in marriage, how to keep your marriage strong. There is a BONUS near the end on how we get to keep the sizzle in our marriage. Keep in contact @PesaShayo and @WhitneyShayo
Marriage is the union between two people under GOD coming together as one. The concept of "What's yours is mines and Mines is Yours" should be a major part in continuing a healthy working marriage. But, are there any boundaries in a marriage between the husband and wife? With dealing with marital issue, is it ok to release this information with your family members, friends, or co-workers? Should men and women who have friends of the opposite sex continue their relationship as is when they become married? What are the boundaries within that? How often do males discuss relationship issues with the opposite sex? Can husbands and wives continue having their facebook accounts separately? Should you share login and password information as well? With dealing with finances, should husband and wives have separate bank accounts or have one single account? With dealing with disciplinarian styles, how should a husband and wife coming from two different styles raise their children?
Marriage is the union between two people under GOD coming together as one. The concept of "What's yours is mines and Mines is Yours" should be a major part in continuing a healthy working marriage. But, are there any boundaries in a marriage between the husband and wife? With dealing with marital issue, is it ok to release this information with your family members, friends, or co-workers? Should men and women who have friends of the opposite sex continue their relationship as is when they become married? What are the boundaries within that? How often do males discuss relationship issues with the opposite sex? Can husbands and wives continue having their facebook accounts separately? Should you share login and password information as well? With dealing with finances, should husband and wives have separate bank accounts or have one single account? With dealing with disciplinarian styles, how should a husband and wife coming from two different styles raise their children? Join Us every Sunday @6pm eastern / 5pm central 1-718-508-9972
Marriage is the union between two people under GOD coming together as one. The concept of "What's yours is mines and Mines is Yours" should be a major part in continuing a healthy working marriage. But, are there any boundaries in a marriage between the husband and wife? With dealing with marital issue, is it ok to release this information with your family members, friends, or co-workers? Should men and women who have friends of the opposite sex continue their relationship as is when they become married? What are the boundaries within that? How often do males discuss relationship issues with the oppositie sex? Can husbands and wives continue having their facebook accounts seperately? Should you share login and password information as well? With dealing with finances, should husband and wives have seperate bank accounts or have one single account? With dealing with disciplianarian styles, how should a husband and wife coming from two different styles raise their children?
Marriage is the union between two people under GOD coming together as one. The concept of "What's yours is mines and Mines is Yours" should be a major part in continuing a healthy working marriage. But, are there any boundaries in a marriage between the husband and wife? With dealing with marital issue, is it ok to release this information with your family members, friends, or co-workers? Should men and women who have friends of the opposite sex continue their relationship as is when they become married? What are the boundaries within that? How often do males discuss relationship issues with the oppositie sex? Can husbands and wives continue having their facebook accounts seperately? Should you share login and password information as well? With dealing with finances, should husband and wives have seperate bank accounts or have one single account? With dealing with disciplianarian styles, how should a husband and wife coming from two different styles raise their children?