Browngirl Experience

In this episode, I candidly discuss the reasons behind my long ass hiatus, sharing the personal experiences that led me to take a break. It's a raw and honest conversation about the ebbs and flows of life, and the importance of self-care authenticity and still being with the shits. So, grab your favorite beverage, settle into your comfiest spot, and join me for this special year-end recap. It's time to celebrate the journey, embrace the growth, and kick off a new chapter together. Welcome back to The Browngirl Experience — I missed you

*** Warning: This episode may be triggering for anyone who is experiencing grief ***The Browngirl takes transparency to a whole new level as she opens up about the passing of her twin sister, her sister circle that has held her down, and what it's like when grief starts showing her ass. she dedicates this episode to the black men and women who are trying to figure out how they will get out of bed.

As black women, we are taught how to please our partners - but who's teaching us about our own pleasure?The Browngirl and Lady K sat down to talk and answer that one question who taught you how to f@&k - transparency at it's best

Did I ever tell yall about that time my dude surprised me with some sexy lingerie???

#Storytime let me take you back to a time when I think a woman came to me woman to woman - Yall know I'm awkward AF it may have been in my head lol What are you doing if a woman came to you woman to woman ---

Just another day in these mean dating streets - Let me take you back to the time my date left his height in the car

Could you have sex with a friend and go back to being just friends???? #letstalkaboutit

Are the standards of women keeping men single?????The Browngirl invited the homies Biggz and King to the studio to talk about the data that says men are single AND lonely because of the standards women are setting #letstalkaboutit

The Browngirl is trying to figure out why people feel this f@#$%n comfortable disrespecting fat women – She swears on everything she loves the second we started wearing crop tops and two pieces without coverups folks started getting outta pocket and turned into instant experts on the psychology of fat black women, the type of men they get and of course how easy it is to bed them. In this episode of The Browngirl Experience, we invited two of the flyest big girls we know - (@thebooniebreakdown and @finally_free_2beme) into The Browngirl's virtual studio to break some shit down, we talked about big girl myths, our sexuality, and the men who love us.

The Browngirl invites the fellas to The Browngirl Experience Podcast to talk about the impact Kevin Samuels had on the culture.... and of course, we go where the conversation takes us

Storytime--- You ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? With our favorite Browngirl did and things got a lil tricky.

The Browngirl has entered a new level in her 40s that she was not prepared for, now she's beefin with her momma, her aunties, and all the other woman before her.

Saturday I came out of retirement and recited a poem at this dope ass event called Lyrics to Go on the Camden Water front... The wind did not come to play and tried to snatch my papers out my hand lol --- so I wanted to share a clean version with yall Enjoy

Fresh off of hiatus the Bowngirl decided to address the elephant in the room... Why are women such repeat offenders when it comes to running back to that good ol toxic lovin'? The topic was so big she had to call a professional to help unpack all that shit, who better to have this conversation with than Juanita Henry, a mental health clinician, and spiritual reader. This episode may trigger you so the browngirl is recommending a lil day drinking to get you through lol. Enjoy

Did I ever tell you about that time when I was bamboozled into thinking I was about to have the best sex of my LIFE.... no? well tune in cause this is a good one

Sometimes things are just none of your business, but sometimes someone else's business inspires a random episode of a podcast... Today's random episode was inspired by Derrick Jaxn -- I had too the universe dropped this gem in my lap (shrugs) --- enjoy the show

In this episode of Cocktails and Conversation, we talked about the importance of platonic friendships, being friends with former lovers and somehow we found ourselves talking about the complicated relationship we have with hip-hop -- enjoy

What better way to celebrate "Single Awareness Day" than with an erotic short story from The Browngirl?

It's not everyday a girls finds the meaning of love in the middle of a proposal.

Life is complicated at best, it requires you to make difficult decisions in order to move towards the direction of happiness... Especially if the only life you know is in the way of the life you desire. Enjoy Ravyn's journey.

If you want to piss the world off, be a black woman that openly says that she wants it all. No one asks you what having it all looks like or how you plan to find the balance that you will need in order to survive having it all. Instead, they run to their keyboards and type think pieces about why we don't deserve what we are asking for. We become jokes, our flaws are highlighted our looks, our weight, and our accomplishments are criticized. I'm not sure where the world's perception of black women got fucked up or when some black men decided to hop on that particular bandwagon began but I will say this...

What if the world never told us who we should be… Would you be brave enough to name yourself or would you continue to shrink yourself?The Browngirl invited Stephanie, The life Architect to the couch to talk about just that. This is the conversation you didn't know you needed.

I am excited to share something that I have been working on as I finally begin to embrace my storytelling roots with a new storytelling podcast series called Beautiful Disaster. This is the intro to my latest project.

Everyone has a beginning to their story and this is the Browngirl's... That moment she realized shit had to change

September 16, 2006, I got a call my dad was rushed to the hospital, so I did what I have always done I left work and met him there. This particular day I was working on a poem for an event I was hosting, my dad asked me what I was working on so I read him my unfinished poem. He looked at me asked where the rest of it was, I was nonchalant with my response with an "I'm gonna finish it later" My dad struggled to sit up before he told me these next words... "Air make sure you finish it." Me being me said "of course I'ma finish daddy" He got real serious then said, "Air, I have watched you half-ass shit for a long time now, you have to start finishing what you start". That was the most serious I had ever seen my dad, so I promised him that I would start finishing what I start. After that I worked on this poem all day, every time I tried to share with him he would ask if I was finished my answer was always no. He wouldn't let me read it to him until I was done. I kept working on it all day, as I went back to his room to tell him I finished it was too late he had just passed. This was the last poem I was ever inspired to write and it was for the best man that I ever knew, Douglas E. Butler my pop Enjoy

We are still celebrating black men and black fathers this week... This letter of love comes from one of my creative sisters @ktonicwrites. Enjoy

The story behind this one is EVERYTHING to me, When I said I wanted to do something special for the fellas on Father's day, I reached out to my sis Summer Willow of @ladiesluvhiphop podcast and said of course. Work got in the way, then she struggled to write the perfect words.... So she decided to not think but speak from her heart in a freestyle love letter to black men. Fellas, pour yourself a drink if you smoke it, light it... sit back in your favorite chair and close your eyes because this is gonna give you all the feels Thanks for sharing sis

If there was ever a moment as a black man that you weren't sure black women loved you... This sista Tamika made it abundantly clear on this father's day that our appreciation and love for you is unconditional

There is something perfect about the way a daughter loves her father, the words that Tanzania (@therealstormymonday) share showed just that.Thank you for sharing sis

On this episode of #shitthebrowngirlsays The Browngirl shares a story from her upcoming book "Don't Trust Her She's Single" --- This story was a prequel to that time she cheated on a good man

The Browngirl faces the dilemma of wanting to do her part in being part of the solution but not knowing where to start... In this episode, she shares her thoughts and ideas about what she would like to see in the world of activism, actionable items that she thinks would make a difference, and how she is going to decide what kind of activist she is going to be. Resources that she mentioned during her show Black-owned banks: https://shoppeblack.us/2019/06/black-banks-2019/ The Prestige Society: http://www.theprestigesociety.com/wecantbreathe.html Project Ready: http://projectreadynj.org/People Organization for Progress: http://njpop.org/wordpress/ Newark Anti Violence Coalition: https://www.navcoalition.org/ (I called them NAVC in error during the show) Don't Shoot PDX: https://www.dontshootpdx.org/Resources to help you vet the organization you chooseGuidestar: https://www.guidestar.org/Glassdoor: https://www.glassdoor.com/index.htmCharity Navigator: www.charitynavigator.org

The Browngirl relives the exact moment when she realized that she was terrible in bed and how that revelation led her to Goody Howard of Ask Goody. Who's Goody you ask, only one of the dopest intimacy consultants, sexuality educator and HIV activist around! She's been an adult industry insider for over 10 years and she informs, educates, and empowers her clients with the knowledge that sexual pleasure IS sexual health.This conversation had so many gems, giggles, and tips with a side of grown woman convo

Tune in as your favorite aunties chat about this season on Insecure, find out which one of them is #teammolly.

The Browngirl reminisces about that time being a jumpoff cost her everything...

Quarantine chronicles with the Browngirl -- She talks about celibacy while on lockdown to pandemic popups and a lil bit of everything in between

The lost files... Cleaning up my desktop I found the fuckin gem of an episode (recorded October/November 2019)The Browngirl and Big are at it again -- communicating all effectively and shit. The Browngirl lets Big decide where the conversation was gonna go and he jumped right in with triggering behaviors.You don't have shit else to do so you may as well pour yourself a Cocktail an enjoy the ride

The Browngirl is back with season 3 of Cocktails & Conversations This week's guest is one of the dopest to have ever done it, Summer Willow of the Ladies Luv Hip Hop Podcast, returning to the mic is the homie Big and rounding things out we introduced The Chef. Instead of the planned show, the Browngirl said eff this show prep and pulled out her game, Cocktails and Conversation a bottle of Crown and let the conversation take them all on a journey...

Hey hey hey yall.... As some of yall know I'm gonna be the guest speaker at Con*fab February 22nd in Burlington NJ.... I just found out my homegirl Gabe, creator of The Au Naturale Experience is gonna be one of the vendors... if you haven't gotten your tickets yet make sure you do so TODAY!!!!

What would a woman love more than diamonds... A brand new pussy!!!! The Browngirl took #shitthebrowngirlsays to the cookie steam room with her homegirl, Gabrielle Covington the owner of The Au Naturale Experience. They chat about all things pussy related from the cookie steam to how your body will tell you if ya man ain't the one... with a side of squirt action lol. Enjoy her Browngirl Experience

The Browngirl shares an excerpt from her upcoming book Don't Trust Her She's Single....

Being sexy doesn't come easy to everyone... it damn sure didn't come easy for The Browngirl. On this episode of #shitthebrowngirlsays she talks about being a living breathing hypocrite living her life as a stereotype and the first time she felt comfortable being desired....#browngirlexperience #cocktailsandconversations #shithappens #donttrusthershessingle #trustyourdopeness #shitthebrowngirlsays

Black women are being sold a lie EVERY damn day... That we gotta be ride or die or have that unconditional loyalty even if the man is s liability... Well The Browngirl ain't here for the struggle and let it be known when it was presented to her as an option.

The Browngirl shares how she found a unicorn (the perfect lover) just for the universe to snatch her out of her orgasmic utopia... Now she is searching for her missing orgasms and willing to do ANYTHING to get them back.

The Browngirl called herself getting out of these podcasting streets but the people pulled her back... What better way to come back than a collaboration with some dope women. She invited the women of Ladies Luv Hip Hop Podcast AND the creators of Glamcrafting in the studio for a lil chit chat from being censored in the workplace to polygamy... you will wanna turn into this episode.

The Browngirl talks about taking off all the layers and how she has no idea what to do now that she is no longer living in a hurt space....

Coming fresh off the most boring Superbowl game in history the Browngirl and friends ask the question, are we really standing for Kaep or are we just hopping on a trendy social wave??? Make sure you tune in to this episode of #shitthebrowngirlsays to hear her thoughts

The Browngirl and the homie Radee sat down and had their version of the historic Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin. The talked about the Superbowl, egos, boundaries, and effect of bringing the outside world into our relationships

Are you living the life that you imagined or the life you were trained to want? Is the question the ladies tackeled on this episode of the Browngirl experience. The ladies talk marriage, babies, gentleman callers, and orgasim after forty

Sooooo everyone is having babies except The Browngirl, instead she gets jokes about her treating her dog like a human. On this episode of Shit The Browngirl Says, she talks about her first pregnancy and miscarriage, does a review of the amazing web series "Black Girl's Guide to Fertility".

The Browngirl decided it was time to talk about her own difficut road to motherhood and invited Author J'Keera Stephens to the lady cave to chat about the untraditional ways to get there. PS... Chase made a guest appearance in the episode

Rumor has it that big girls aren't desirable sexual beings... So The Browngirl invited some of her gorgeous, sassy and very desirable friends in the studio for a lil sex talk... The conversation went from Jill Scott's "two-hand twist don't forget the balls" move to a lil light choking between friends.