Confessions of a Counsellor

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Here we will talk all things mental wellness and how to create it! I am Registered Professional Counsellor and Self Worth Activist. I am an introvert, lover of chocolate, a good book, and fluffy animals! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confessionsofacounsellor/support

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    • Nov 7, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Boundaries When You Cannot Change Others.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2025 6:58


    In today's episode, Janice talks about her foundational principle that you cannot change someone else's thoughts, feelings, are behaviours and how this influences the therapeutic process. --This content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Engaging with this content does not create a therapist-client relationship. Please consult a qualified professional for personal health concerns.If you are in crisis, call or text 9-8-8 or contact emergency services at 911.

    Happiness is a Journey NOT a Destination

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2025 6:47


    In today's episode, Janice talks about her foundational therapeutic principle of "Happiness is a journey, not a destination" and the impact that this mindset has on the therapeutic process. --This content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Engaging with this content does not create a therapist-client relationship. Please consult a qualified professional for personal health concerns.If you are in crisis, call or text 9-8-8 or contact emergency services at 911.

    People are Multifaceted. We are Not One Thought, Feeling, or Belief.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2025 6:41


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the foundational principle that people are multifaceted; we are not one thought, feeling, or belief. and the impact this has on the therapeutic process. -- This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Embracing Change Means Accepting Discomfort

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2025 7:52


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the foundational principle that I have to accept the discomfort of change and the impact this has on the therapeutic process. -- This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    All Feelings are Valid Not All Behaviours Are

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 6:35


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the foundational principle that all feelings are valid, but not all behaviours are, and the impact this has on the therapeutic process. -- This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Two Things Can be True

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 5:51


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the foundational principle that two things can be true at the same time and the impact this has on the therapeutic process. -- This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Lessons about Therapy and Neurodivergence

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2025 5:16


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the lessons she has learn about neuro-affirming therapy. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Monotropism and the Brain

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2025 10:32


    In today's episode, Janice talks about monotropism and the impact that differences in brain processing can have. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Strategies for Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Burnout

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2025 10:06


    In today's episode, Janice discusses strategies for coping with Neurodivergent Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Burnout. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Overwhelm and Neurodiversity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2025 7:48


    In this episode, Janice discusses the experience of overwhelm among people with neurodiversity.--This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Top Five Ways Therapy Can Help Neurodivergent Struggles

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2025 8:59


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the top five struggles and how therapy can help. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    What is Masking?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2025 10:10


    In today's episode, Janice discusses masking and how to recognize and understand our own masking, as well as why it serves as a coping mechanism. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Neuro-Affirming Coping Strategies I Wish I had Used Sooner.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 12:44


    In today's episode, Janice discusses how coping strategies can be managed in a more neuroaffirming manner.

    What is Neuro-Affirming Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 10:15


    In today's episode, Janice discusses what neuro-affirming therapy entails and its benefits. --This podcast is intended solely for educational and informational purposes and should not replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to it does not create a therapist-client relationship. Always seek guidance from your physician or a qualified mental health professional regarding any medical or mental health issues.

    Accepting Your Neurodivergence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2025 8:24


    In today's episode, Janice talks about accepting your neurodivergence and the impact this can have on therapy and life.

    What is Neurodiversity?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2025 9:14


    In today's episode, Janice discusses neurodiversity and how it manifests in the therapeutic process.

    Understanding Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 10:12


    In today's episode, Janice talks about grief and the ways that grief impacts us.

    How do I Know if it's Gaslighting?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2025 7:17


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the tactics used in gaslighting so that you can recognize them and ask for help if needed.

    What are boundaries?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2025 6:18


    In today's episode, Janice talks about boundaries. What are they, and how to set healthy ones.

    Change is Inevitable

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 7:38


    In today's episode, Janice discusses change and how therapy supports the change process.

    Relationships and the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (John Gottman)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 7:54


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and their antidotes and how these conversation styles can erode a relationship and how you can repair them.

    Making a Relationship work? Part Two (John Gottman)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 5:49


    Today's episode is split into two parts, discussing John Gottman's seven principles of making a relationship work. This is the second part.

    What makes a healthy relationship? Part One (John Gottman)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 8:27


    Today's episode is split into two parts, discussing John Gottman's seven principles of making a relationship work.

    Therapy and NVC

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 8:58


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the communication tool of Non-Violent Communication created by Marshall Rosenberg.

    Therapy and Stigma

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 8:59


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the stigma around therapy.

    It's Not About Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 6:38


    In today's episode, Janice discusses how creating change in your life is not solely about the therapeutic hour.

    Five Tips for Getting the Most Out of Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 8:27


    In today's episode, Janice discusses her top five tips for making the most of therapy.

    Does Mindfulness Actually Work?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 7:02


    In today's episode, Janice talks about mindfulness and whether it really works.

    Practical Self Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 5:43


    In today's episode, Janice talks about how to care for ourselves practically without all the fluff of self care.

    What is the function of feelings?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 7:35


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the function of our feelings and why we have them.

    Emotional Regulation: Your Nervous System

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 6:18


    In today's episode, Janice discusses how our nervous system impacts our emotional regulation skills.

    Window of Tolerance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2025 5:39


    In this week's episode, Janice talks about the window of tolerance and how we can recognize our capacity to handle overhwlem.

    No Fuss Guided Breathing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 5:31


    In today's episode, we breathe together, with no fluffy language, props, or extra fuss, just breathing.

    Feel Your Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 6:19


    In today's episode, Janice talks about the benefits of letting us feel our feelings and let them go.

    Emotional Regulation: The Pause Button

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2025 5:45


    In today's episode,, Janice discusses how slowing down to take a moment can support our ability to regulate emotionally.

    Joys and Drains

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 7:26


    In today's episode, Janice talks about Joys and Drains and how this skill is something she finds very effective in therapy.

    Does Therapy Really Work?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 7:06


    In today's episode, Janice talks about therapy and how to make it effective for you.

    Final Thoughts Emotional Regulation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 3:57


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the importance of the connection between therapy and emotional regulation. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Why is Emotional Regulation Important?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 3:35


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the connection between therapy and emotional regulation and how they work together. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Emotional Regulation with Freeze and Shut Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 6:05


    In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and the impact that freeze and shut down have on our nervous system. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Emotional Regulation with Fight and Flight

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2024 6:12


    In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and Fight and Flight's impact on our nervous system. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Emotional Regulation and Hypo-arousal

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 6:13


    In today's episode, Janice talks about regulating our emotions when we feel low and heavy emotions. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Emotional Regulation and Hyper-arousal

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 5:55


    In today's episode, Janice talks about regulating our emotions when we feel heightened (activating) emotions. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Skills for Emotional Regulation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 5:04


    In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and how we can use our skills to help us upregulate or downregulate. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Understand Emotional Regulation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 5:20


    In today's episode, Janice talks about regulation in terms of the window of tolerance and what we need to know so that we can regulate back to our baseline. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    When do we need Emotional Regulation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 5:05


    In today's episode, Janice discusses when emotional regulation is important and how to notice when we might feel overwhlmed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Therapy and Emotional Regulation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 4:54


    In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and the progression therapy has taken towards intergrating our bodies into therapy. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Why are my feelings so big?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 6:36


    In today's episode, Janice talks about why our feelings might be so strong and the function of these feelings. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Why do I feel so angry?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 4:31


    In today's episode, Janice discusses the function of anger—what is happening in our bodies, and why do I get angry? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Why do I feel grief?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 5:24


    In today's episode, Janice explores the topic of grief and what is the function of grief. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

    Why do I feel denial?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 6:25


    In today's episode, Janice explores the function of denial and why we experience denial. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/confessionsofacounsellor/support

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