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Free Speech, Cancel Culture, and the Mental Health Benefits of Speaking Up: Clinical psychologist Dr. Chloe Carmichael, author of “Can I Say That? Why Free Speech Matters and How to Use It Fearlessly,” frames free expression as a mental health and problem-solving issue amid rising polarization, self-censorship, and cancel culture. Carmichael says authentic speech deepens cognition, aids emotional regulation, and strengthens social support, while chronic suppression can lead to repression, denial, anxiety, depression, and resentment. She describes fear and professional risk after publicly opposing child masking during COVID and argues that labeling speech as “violence” distorts reality, though true threats and incitement differ from words. She distinguishes self-censorship from healthy restraint, offers the WAIT test (Want, Appropriate, Inoculate, Trust), and discusses groupthink, innovation, misinformation debates, time-place-manner limits, and examples from corporate and university settings.
Dr. Hoffman continues his conversation with clinical psychologist Dr. Chloe Carmichael, author of “Can I Say That? Why Free Speech Matters and How to Use It Fearlessly.”
What if school refusal is not defiance, but a signal? In this episode, we look beneath the surface at the real reasons kids resist school—from executive function challenges and shame, to sensory overload and fear. Learn how to respond with curiosity instead of control, and how to work with your child to build solutions together. Tune in to solve school battles and restore your kid's confidence for learning.What to expect in this episode:Why school refusal is often about overwhelm, not lazinessThe emotional layers of shame, anxiety, and perfectionismSocial stress, bullying, and peer rejection as hidden driversWhy safety and nervous system regulation matter for learningHow to use the ACE tool to open productive conversationsRelated Links: 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teenshttps://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/EP114: Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Homehttps://impactparents.com/the-coach-approach-to-parenting/ EP138: How Do I Get My Kids to Talk To Me? 4 Communication Toolshttps://impactparents.com/child-communication-tools/ EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversationshttps://impactparents.com/rebuilding-trust-with-teens-cleaning-the-slate-conversations/EP253: Get Curious, Not Furious: A Better Way to Parent Complex Kidshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep253-get-curious-not-furious-a-better-way-to/id1565976964?i=1000749220683Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
Did you know that happy people are less judgmental? Nobody likes being judged… and for the judgmental ones, it doesn't feel good either. We've all been judgy, and the truth is, being overly critical of others is often linked to insecurity, anxiety, perfectionism, and unhappiness. Subscribe to my new Substack! In this week's quickie, we're unpacking the psychology of judgment: where it comes from, why we do it, and how to become less judgmental in a world that fuels comparison and criticism about everything from how we parent, to how we look, to how we earn and spend our money. Judgment usually says more about our own wounds than someone else's behaviour. So we're exploring the psychological drivers behind judging, and psychology-backed tools to shift into a more curious, understanding, and compassionate mindset. Tune in to hear: Why the ego needs to feel “right” The link between perfectionism and criticism How insecurity and comparison fuels judgment The connection between self-judgment and judging others Understanding the Fundamental Attribution Error The blind spots I've had to confront in my own judgments Using curiosity as the antidote to judgment Challenging your assumptions and biases Practicing self-compassion to reduce projection For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube
In this episode, Barb is joined by Lisa Danahy, founder of Create Calm, owner of Radiant Child Yoga, and author of Creating Calm in Your Classroom. Lisa brings over 30 years of experience as a yoga therapist and educator, blending mindfulness, neuroscience, and real-world school practices. Together, they explore how viewing behavior through a nervous system lens can transform the way principals support students, staff, and parents. You'll learn why self-regulation is the foundation of effective leadership, how co-regulation reduces reactivity in schools, and simple, practical strategies—like breath and movement—that can be embedded into the school day without sacrificing expectations or accountability.Connect with Lisa at Create Calm. Learn more about today's sponsors, Playworks and IXL:We're proud to be sponsored by Playworks, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization with evidence-based practices that help schools improve the health and well-being of children by increasing opportunities for physical activity and safe, meaningful play.If you're a school or district leader struggling with the challenge of chronic absenteeism, as so many are across the U.S., you may not realize that structured recess is a research-backed approach to keep kids in school. In fact, a UC Berkeley study of Title I schools found that those partnering with Playworks had significantly lower chronic absenteeism rates. Further, Mathematica research demonstrated that Playworks schools spent 27% less time transitioning from recess back to learning, saving teachers valuable instructional time. These results are possible for your students, too. Learn how Playworks can help you improve student-educator relationships, belonging, and attendance by signing up for a quick no-obligation conversation. We're also thrilled to be sponsored by IXL. IXL's comprehensive teaching and learning platform for math, language arts, science, and social studies is accelerating achievement in 95 of the top 100 U.S. school districts. Loved by teachers and backed by independent research from Johns Hopkins University, IXL can help you do the following and more:Simplify and streamline technologySave teachers' timeReliably meet Tier 1 standardsImprove student performance on state assessments
Answering our kids' questions can be challenging right now, especially when we don't have all the answers ourselves. Coach Maysaa joins Helen to boost our parenting approach, while psychologist Tanya Dharamshi talks us through the differing reactions of adults in our lives. Plus, if you're concerned about your savings, financial security or investments, Steve Cronin is on hand to help.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD, MPH ("Dr. K"), is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and expert in both Eastern and Western medicine to improve mental health. He explains tools for unlearning maladaptive thoughts and behavior patterns and for making behaviors that better mental and physical well-being more reflexive in work, relationships and daily life. We also discuss ways to resolve trauma, build stress tolerance, increase intrinsic motivation and even change temperament. We also discuss how social media, gaming and online dating shape our identity and perceptions and how to navigate them healthily. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Lingo: https://hellolingo.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Alok Kanojia (Dr. K) (00:03:09) Internet, Computer Games; Academic Pressure (00:07:11) Millennials & Self-Awareness, Hijacking Mental Health Language (00:13:24) Sponsors: Lingo & Joovv (00:16:06) Personality & Individual Road Maps, Misdiagnosis (00:22:02) Ambiguity, Flirting, Social Skills Decline, Uncertainty Tolerance (00:26:06) Dating in the Internet Age, Cognitive Bias (00:30:39) Healthy Distress Tolerance, Tool: How to Feel Your Feelings (00:39:58) Sponsor: AG1 (00:40:49) Expectations vs Internal Desire Roadmap, Western vs Eastern Theory of Mind, Ego (00:50:35) Sense Organs, Comparison & Proving Oneself, Internal Drive (00:59:22) Internet, Ego, "Teflon Buddha", Tool: Dealing with Criticism (01:10:36) Observing One's Mind, Meditation, Psychedelics (01:11:59) Sponsor: Function (01:13:46) Tool: Shunya "Void" Meditation & Resilience (01:24:02) External Reminders, Environment; Men & Emotional Regulation (01:30:04) Samskara, Yoga Nidra, Trauma & Learning, Shunya & Personal Compass (01:39:15) Yoga Nidra, Channeling Divinity, Genius (01:42:30) Sponsor: Eight Sleep (01:43:48) Breathwork Practices; Meditation Science, Self-Esteem & Belief Change (01:53:40) Liminal States, Meditation Types & Benefits; Western & Eastern Balance (02:01:50) Understanding Ego & Perception; AI & Narcissism, Psychosis (02:14:07) Tool: Healthy Social Media Use, When To Not Use, Normal Standards (02:18:38) Social Media & Looks Obsession, Purpose, Charisma (02:24:18) Young Men Falling Behind?, Male Support, Suicide; Men in Relationships (02:30:36) "Stuck" Young Men, Failure to Launch, Tool: Motivation & Understanding Oneself (02:39:03) Pornography, Erectile Dysfunction, Emotions, Addiction; Relationships (02:44:21) Men & Love, Looksmaxxing, Rejection, Partner Characteristics, Tool: Walk Before Dates (02:55:12) Exploring Practices, Meditation, Breathwork (03:01:39) Spirituality, Personal Exploration; Acknowledgements (03:06:12) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
How do you improve emotional intelligence when you were never really taught what to do with your feelings in the first place? Emotional intelligence shapes your happiness, your relationships, your leadership, and your ability to manage stress — yet most people were never shown how to build emotional intelligence skills in a practical way. In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, we're talking about exactly how to improve emotional intelligence step by step, and how to develop emotional intelligence skills that create real change. Not as a personality trait you either have or don't, but as a set of learnable skills that directly impact emotional regulation, self-awareness, career success, and the quality of your relationships. You'll learn why emotional intelligence often matters more than technical expertise at work. In fact, emotional intelligence at work is one of the strongest predictors of long-term career success and leadership effectiveness. We'll explore how strengthening emotional vocabulary changes the way you think and feel, why managing your internal reactions is the foundation for stronger communication, and how emotional intelligence supports resilience under stress. Together, we'll walk through the four core components of emotional intelligence — self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management — and what it actually looks like to strengthen each one in real life. If you've ever felt reactive, shut down, emotionally overwhelmed, or unsure how to handle difficult conversations, this episode will help you slow down, get clearer, and show up differently. Emotional intelligence isn't about being more emotional. It's about understanding your emotions, regulating them wisely, and creating emotional safety in the relationships that matter most. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Emotional Intelligence Matters 06:58 Emotional Intelligence and Career Success 11:34 The Four Components of Emotional Intelligence 13:43 Self-Awareness: Naming Emotions and Understanding Triggers 27:38 Tools to Improve Emotional Intelligence (Mindfulness, CBT, Feeling Wheel) 32:15 Emotional Regulation and Self-Management 38:53 Social Awareness and Relationship Management 46:07 Relationship Management: Emotional Safety, Trust, and Communication That Works 50:42 How Emotional Intelligence Builds Long-Term Success If you're listening and thinking, “I want these emotional intelligence skills, but I'd love support while I practice them,” I have something for you. Our Clarity & Confidence Coaching Program is a low-cost coaching service designed to help you build self-awareness, strengthen emotional regulation, and show up with more clarity and confidence in your relationships and career. Thousands of people have transformed themselves, their relationships, or their careers through Growing Self. You can too. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.Working Genius founder Patrick Lencioni is on a mission to create self understanding and connection by helping people understand their genius and that of others. Listen to our conversation, then discover your strengths and get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com
What if everything you need to know about leadership, emotional regulation, and living authentically could be learned from dogs? In this profound and unexpected episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, we sit down with Sam Homi Amalsadvala—who has devoted 15 years to understanding dogs through real-life experience managing packs of up to 35 off-leash dogs in natural environments—to explore the powerful lessons canine behavior teaches us about confidence, communication, and human connection.Sam shares insights from thousands of hours observing how dogs, wildlife, and animals naturally lead, follow, teach, correct, regulate themselves, and live together in harmony. His deep understanding of group dynamics, instinct, and authentic communication reveals timeless wisdom about emotional intelligence, self-regulation, and what it truly means to be confident—lessons that apply directly to human relationships, leadership, and personal growth.To find more from Sam you can find him here:https://samaysam.com
Can you learn how to be less reactive? Yes! And this episode of the Let's Talk About Mental Health podcast will teach you how, with a strong focus on emotional regulation techniques that work. If you find yourself on-edge and snapping at things that wouldn't normally bother you, you'll know that living with constant stress and anxiety is exhausting. Simple nervous system regulation tools will help you be less reactive and learn how to stop reacting emotionally without pretending life is calm, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed. I'll share practical advice on how to be less reactive so you can stop reacting and deal with your emotions effectively, and I'll explain how to control your emotions with self respect and self-kindness… because you can't stop being reactive by being cruel to yourself. I'll explain why your brain struggles to stay calm under pressure, and why the power of not reacting and learning to think first plays such a big role in better mental health. You'll discover emotional regulation tools you can use at any time, including small-but-powerful changes that help you respond instead of react, reduce stress at work, and break the stress cycle so you're not just running on emotional fumes. By the end of the episode, you'll know how to be less reactive in everyday chaos, how to stop overreacting when you're overloaded, and what to do next to keep building steadier nervous system regulation.
▷ 本集引導在開始之前,先跟著我,吐一口氣。不是為了冷靜,而是為了——讓你的身體,先卸下它正在「撐住」的狀態。你不需要撐著聽。這一集,不是要你更理性。▷ 本集寫給誰如果你是在高壓、快節奏、長期需要做決策的環境裡工作的人—— 你可能會在這一集裡,被說中。你可能在金融、科技、創業、投資或管理層。你習慣分析、判斷、評估風險。你很清楚:情緒不能亂來。但你也可能最近開始發現一件事——你不是不理性,可是你的人生,開始走不太動。決策變慢了。能量變低了。不是焦慮,而是一種說不上來的卡住。▷ 本集核心我們常常被教導,要「處理情緒」。冷靜一點。理性一點。不要被影響。但從神經系統與身體的角度來看,這裡有一個關鍵誤解:情緒不是事件,而是一個需要被完成的生理反應循環。當反應被啟動,卻沒有走完,它不會消失。它會留在身體裡,佔用你的 nervous system capacity。這就是為什麼你明明沒有情緒化,卻開始出現——決策疲勞、反應過大、關鍵時刻卡住,或是什麼都不想決定。不是你不夠理性,而是你的系統,已經被太多「未完成的反應」佔滿了。▷ Burnout 的真相Burnout 很少只是累。從 somatic 的角度來看,它更像是一個訊號:你的情緒循環,已經沒有空間被完成了。你沒有時間失望,於是失望變成冷漠。你沒有時間憤怒,於是憤怒變成疲憊。你沒有時間害怕,於是害怕變成拖延。最後你會進入一個狀態:「我沒有什麼情緒,但我什麼都不想動。」那不是你不想要人生,而是你的身體在說:我不能再承受任何新的東西了。▷ Season 2 的關鍵推進Season 1,我們說的是:情緒是資訊,是理解,是 Reset。Season 2,我們要往前一步問:如果你已經懂了情緒,為什麼人生還是卡住?答案常常不是因為你沒聽懂,而是因為——情緒從來沒有被身體完成。這一集,是把情緒,從「我懂了」,帶到「我為什麼走不動」。▷ Somatic Practice|完成,而不是處理這不是宣洩,也不是分析。而是一個 very subtle、但關鍵的 somatic completion 練習。當你想到一件最近讓你有壓力、卻「沒有時間處理」的事,覺察身體第一個反應。不是去改變它,而是讓它多存在幾秒。然後問身體一句話:「如果你可以完成這個反應,你會想做什麼?」可能只是呼吸、伸展、後退半步、鬆一鬆肩膀。讓身體完成它原本就想完成的動作。這,就是完成。▷ 本集不是要你「立刻前進」如果你聽完有一點點鬆,很好。但你也可能發現,回到生活後,那些反應還是會回來。這不是你沒學會,而是因為——高壓環境,從來沒有為完成預留空間。而一個人,很難在高壓結構裡,為自己 hold space。▷ 為什麼「完成」不是一個人能做的事我們被教導要成熟、要自己處理情緒。但這其實違反了人類神經系統的設計。因為情緒反應,本來就是在「被接住」的情境裡完成的。你之所以卡住,不是因為你做錯了什麼,而是因為你一直試圖—— 一個人走完一個需要容器的過程。▷ Work with LolaThe Lola System™ 90 不是讓你更會處理情緒,而是讓你在一個不需要再撐、不需要再切斷身體反應的場域裡, 完成那些你一個人走不完的循環。如果你在聽這一集時,心裡很清楚地浮現一句話:「這不是我一個人可以完成的。」Apply for The Lola System™ 90 https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口,為「準備好真正改變,但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite|https://lolalinocean.com Instagram|https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalin LinkedIn|https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin
The Real Truth About Health Free 17 Day Live Online Conference Podcast
Explore the nine pillars of connection—including sleep, food, purpose, relationships, and play—and how each pillar helps restore physical and emotional health. #WholePersonHealing #NinePillars #MindBody
Arthur Brooks spent decades studying the science of happiness, yet at the peak of his career, he felt anxious and unfulfilled. From the outside, he seemed to have everything, but success was not delivering the joy, meaning, or mental wellness he expected. That disconnect pushed him to step away from his role as CEO and finally start living by the principles he had spent years researching. When he did, he became 60 percent happier. In this episode, Arthur breaks down the science-backed habits and mindset shifts that build real, lasting happiness and fulfillment in your daily life. In this episode, Hala and Arthur will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (02:27) The Science of Building Happiness (09:06) How Build the Life You Want Came Together (12:29) America's Growing Happiness Crisis (15:55) The Three Macronutrients of Happiness (31:18) Is Happiness a Choice? (35:35) Emotional Regulation and Mental Health (42:12) Escaping the Trap of Social Comparison (49:37) The Four Pillars of a Fulfilling Life (53:45) Building Positivity Through Gratitude (58:31) Why Unhappiness Can Lead to True Happiness Arthur Brooks is a Harvard professor, PhD social scientist, and New York Times bestselling author who has dedicated his career to helping people live happier, more meaningful lives. He writes a widely read weekly column on happiness for The Atlantic and teaches a course on well-being at Harvard Business School. He has authored multiple bestselling books, including Build the Life You Want, co-written with Oprah Winfrey. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/profiting Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting. Spectrum Business - Visit Spectrum.com/FreeForLife to learn how you can get Business Internet Free Forever. Northwest Registered Agent - Build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes at northwestregisteredagent.com/paidyap Framer - Publish beautiful and production-ready websites. Go to Framer.com/profiting and get 30% off their Framer Pro annual plan. Quo - Run your business communications the smart way. Try Quo for free, plus get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to quo.com/profiting Working Genius - Take the Working Genius assessment and discover your natural gifts and thrive at work. Go to workinggenius.com and get 20% off with code PROFITING Experian - Manage and cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reduce your bills. Get started now with the Experian App and let your Big Financial Friend do the work for you. See experian.com for details. Huel - Get all the daily nutrients you need with Huel. Grab Huel today and get 15% OFF with my code PROFITING at huel.com/PROFITING. Resources Mentioned: Arthur's Book, Build the Life You Want: bit.ly/BTLYW Arthur's Book, From Strength to Strength: bit.ly/FS2S Brooks' Website: arthurbrooks.com YAP E192 with Arthur Brooks: youngandprofiting.co/E192-apple Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Biohacking, Motivation, Manifestation, Brain Health, Life Balance, Self-Healing, Sleep, Diet
In this video, I share my journey of cutting free from generational shame, and teach you practical ways to: Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: End Cycle of Shame 04:39 – Internal shame cycle 10:19 – Externalized shame in family and relationships 16:25 - Societal Shame 20:04 – Soothing shame: boundaries, self-compassion, nervous system healing 24:16 – From Drama to Empowerment Recognize shame in your thoughts, behaviors, and nervous system Spot how external systems and relationships keep shame alive Soften and dissolve shame through boundaries, self-compassion, and nervous system healing This work isn't about being “broken.” It's about loving too deeply to let shame control your life or pass on to future generations.
In tonight's sleep hypnosis with Jessica, we gently explore nervous system “dysregulation” - or as she puts it, feeling freaked out. In a world of constant stimulation, this calming session offers co-regulation, steady reflection, and simple tools to help your system settle. As you listen, your body begins to find its balance again, guiding you naturally toward rest. As always, tonight's episode will start with a relaxing introduction from Jessica, before we sink into tonight's Sleep Hypnosis. If you'd like an extra immersive experience, you can also watch this episode on Spotify, complete with soothing visuals
Mikaela Kate Schaefer is a Leadership Trainer, Speaker, and Coach. She has over 15 years of experience in developing men and women leaders from college-age and beyond, and trains teams from 5 to 200, as well as countless one on one coaching experiences. She is the CEO of her open personal and professional coaching and training business, where she works with the manufacturing and retail industry, the financial and legal secotor, start-up businesses, and with various independent sales teams. Learn more about Mikaela at mikaelakate.com Contact Julie at theveterinarylifecoach.com
When follow-through keeps breaking down, the answer isn't planning harder. In this episode with ADHD coach Jeff Copper, we unpack why executive function struggles come from ambiguity, not lack of effort, and why direct conversation is a powerful accommodation. Press play to learn what actually helps kids and adults with ADHD move from planning to action.What to expect in this episode:Why people with ADHD struggle to execute plans even when the goal is clearHow ambiguity, not laziness, disrupts follow-through and problem-solvingWhat executive functions really are and how they operate as cognitive toolsThe power of direct conversation for improving clarity, focus, and emotional regulationADHD accommodations that are practical and often hide in plain sightAbout Jeff CopperJeff Copper, cognitive engineer and ADHD coach, is founder of DIG Coaching Practice and host of Attention Talk Radio and Video. He developed Cognitive Ergonomics From the Inside Out™, a new ADHD intervention using an engineering approach to address executive function challenges. Jeff holds an MBA from the University of Tampa and credentials from ICF, PAAC, ADDCA, and CTI. A member of ADDA, ACO, CHADD, PAAC, and ICF, he received ACO's 2022 Professional Excellence Award. His work continues to innovate and redefine ADHD coaching through practical insights and a focus on how minds truly work. Connect with JeffWebsite: DIG Coaching PracticeInstagram: @dig.coachingFacebook: DIG Coaching PracticeX: @digcoaching Related Links: EP92: Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively https://impactparents.com/solve-problems-collaboratively/ EP138: How Do I Get My Kids to Talk To Me? 4 Communication Tools https://impactparents.com/child-communication-tools/ EP172: Parenting Paradox: Avoid ‘Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving https://impactparents.com/avoid-fix-it-mode-parenting/ EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversations https://impactparents.com/rebuilding-trust-with-teens-cleaning-the-slate-conversations/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
Anxiety is not a flaw — it's a future-focused alarm system that can become a learned habit in the brain and body. In this fast, practical episode, Dex breaks down what anxiety really is, why it becomes chronic, and the hidden loops that keep it alive. You'll learn why logic alone can't switch it off, what makes it addictive, and how early environments shape your threat response. Most importantly, discover simple, real-time ways to calm your nervous system, regain sovereignty, and retrain your brain for safety, connection, and grounded leadership — at work and at home. Ask Dex AI Coach for tips on your specific anxiety issue, e.g. "How can I reduce anxiety about getting a task done by the deadline?" https://app.coachvox.ai/share/DexRandallSubscribe for more leadership and burnout recovery insights → https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7393784577229709312Send a text----------------------------------- Resources:Leadership without Burnout https://go.dexrandall.com/leadershipDex AI Coach https://app.coachvox.ai/share/dexrandallConfidential. Expert. Free. Solve problems fast.For even more TIPS see FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandallINSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandallLINKEDIN: @coachdexrandallYOUTUBE: @dexburnoutcoachSee https://linktr.ee/coachdexrandall for all links
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3924: Karl Staib shares seven practical strategies to help you recognize, manage, and release stress more efficiently, so it doesn't derail your productivity or well-being. Learn how small shifts like reframing your thoughts, taking micro-breaks, and recognizing personal stress patterns can add up to big improvements in how you handle pressure throughout your day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://digtofly.com/7-tips-to-process-your-stress-faster/ Quotes to ponder: "You process stress differently than anyone else, so try a few of these techniques to help you reach past your current level of stress relief." "Getting upset because someone doesn't drive fast enough is a waste of energy." "We all know that we work better and feel less stressed if we take regular breaks during the working day." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What do you do when someone crosses a line—especially when tolerating it could pay off financially? In this episode, Joe Rockey brings a fresh, real-world story: after years of work building a client's business toward a major breakthrough, a volatile outburst (in front of Joe's wife and kids) triggers a hard decision—ending the relationship right as the payoff is finally in reach.Joe and Father Boniface Hicks walk through the difference between reacting in anger versus setting a boundary with prudence. They explore why some “wins” can feel morally and emotionally “dirty,” how a parent's choices shape a family's peace, and how God can give clarity through interior calm (the “snow globe” settling). The conversation stays grounded in the three-relationship lens: integrity within self, charity and boundaries with others, and discernment under God.Key IdeasNot every hard decision is a moral absolute; many are prudential judgments about what you will (and won't) tolerate.Boundaries protect your family culture as much as they protect your business.Sometimes the “cost” isn't money—it's the sense that accepting certain behavior taints the relationship and the fruit of the work.Discernment can show up as interior peace and clarity after a difficult decision (“snow globe” settling).Growth is real when old triggers don't produce the old reactions—faith can re-train anger into measured action.Links & References (official/source only)Dr. Jordan B. Peterson (official site):https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/CTA: If this helped, please leave a review or share this episode with a friend.Questions or thoughts? Email FatherAndJoe@gmail.com .Tags (comma-separated)Father and Joe, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, anger, boundaries, prudence, discernment, interior peace, spiritual consolation, St Ignatius, snow globe analogy, integrity, family leadership, fatherhood, marriage, self-control, emotional regulation, respect, conflict, workplace behavior, client management, business ethics, professionalism, verbal outbursts, tolerance limits, long-term payoff, sacrifice, protecting children, trust, relationships, communion, God's guidance, decision-making, consequences, freedom, courage, peace
After taking a week off to tend to personal matters, Lauren returns to the series on leading under pressure with a focus on navigating conflict without escalation. She reframes conflict as a nervous system event rather than simply a communication issue, explaining how stress activates threat responses around control, safety, and belonging. When leaders become dysregulated, they lose access to clarity and often default to avoidance, control, or appeasement.She also explores what it looks like to stay grounded in tense moments through steady tone, clear boundaries, defined next steps, and meaningful repair when needed. Conflict is inevitable, but escalation is not when leaders choose regulation over urgency.Sign up for the University of Pennsylvania Behavior Breakthrough Accredited CourseLearn about the Staff Sustainability System a proven system to reduce burnout at the rootResources: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel A. van der Kolk, M.D.Other related resources from Five Ives: Blog Post: Why Traditional Employee Wellness Programs Fail (And What Works Instead)Survive Mode: Recognizing When Your Organization is in CrisisWhat are the Five Ives?Podcast:A Fresh Look at the Five Ives Framework in the WorkplaceClarity as a Safety CueWhen Leaders Become the StressorEpisode 2: Authority Without FearEpisode 1: What Stress Does to Decision MakingThe Pause Between Now and NextLeading From a Regulated CoreWhen Culture DysregulatesGrowth & Feedback Without FearOnboarding as Co-RegulationPolicy as a Nervous SystemThe Regulated Organization: What it Means to be a Regulated OrganizationOur Online Programs: Behavior BreakthroughPolicing Under PressureBoard Governance TrainingUniversity of Pennsylvania Behavior Breakthrough Accredited CourseSubscribe to our mailing list and find out more about Stress, Trauma, Behavior and the Brain!Check out our Facebook Group – Five Ives!Five Ives WebsiteThe Behavior Hub blogIf you're looking for support as you grow your organization's capacity for caring for staff and the community, we would love to be part of that journey. Schedule a free discovery call and let us be your guideAs an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3924: Karl Staib shares seven practical strategies to help you recognize, manage, and release stress more efficiently, so it doesn't derail your productivity or well-being. Learn how small shifts like reframing your thoughts, taking micro-breaks, and recognizing personal stress patterns can add up to big improvements in how you handle pressure throughout your day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://digtofly.com/7-tips-to-process-your-stress-faster/ Quotes to ponder: "You process stress differently than anyone else, so try a few of these techniques to help you reach past your current level of stress relief." "Getting upset because someone doesn't drive fast enough is a waste of energy." "We all know that we work better and feel less stressed if we take regular breaks during the working day." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send a textFree Gift : Click here for masterclassWhy do you feel stuck right when you're ready for more?Self-sabotage isn't what you think. If you keep holding yourself back at the edge of growth, expansion, visibility, or success, it's not laziness, lack of confidence, or lack of discipline. It's your nervous system responding to uncertainty.In this episode with Dr Amen Kaur we break down the neuroscience and psychology of self-sabotage, fear of success, and subconscious blocks. You'll learn why growth triggers internal resistance, how uncertainty activates protective patterns in the brain, and why feeling stuck is often a sign you're about to expand.We explore:The neuroscience behind self-sabotage and self-doubtWhy high-achieving women hit identity ceilingsHow uncertainty creates subconscious resistanceThe link between emotional regulation and successWhy discipline alone won't break growth blocksHow to rewire your nervous system for expansionIf you're navigating an identity shift, craving more visibility, wealth, leadership, or impact - but keep feeling stuck - this episode will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface.You don't need more willpower. You need nervous system safety.If this resonates, download the free masterclass below. And if it aligns, book a 1:1 discovery call to explore the 16-week private immersion for high-achieving women ready to expand their capacity for success, wealth, visibility, and self-led leadership - without burnout.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3924: Karl Staib shares seven practical strategies to help you recognize, manage, and release stress more efficiently, so it doesn't derail your productivity or well-being. Learn how small shifts like reframing your thoughts, taking micro-breaks, and recognizing personal stress patterns can add up to big improvements in how you handle pressure throughout your day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://digtofly.com/7-tips-to-process-your-stress-faster/ Quotes to ponder: "You process stress differently than anyone else, so try a few of these techniques to help you reach past your current level of stress relief." "Getting upset because someone doesn't drive fast enough is a waste of energy." "We all know that we work better and feel less stressed if we take regular breaks during the working day." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Text us, We would love to her from YOU!If you're the kind of woman who can “handle everything” the fixer, the achiever, the one who keeps it together, this episode is for you.In this conversation, Tracy Doyle (author, resilience expert, and creator of the Aurora Method) shares what burnout really looks like beneath the surface: not just exhaustion, but disconnection from self, emotional implosion/explosion, and the quiet belief that you must earn belonging through over-giving.We talk about the patterns that keep high-functioning women stuck, why awareness isn't enough, and what actually creates change: daily practice, nervous system regulation in real life, and learning to shift the beliefs that drive the “always responsible” identity.In This Episode, You'll LearnWhy success doesn't always equal fulfillment (and what that disconnect is signaling)How emotionally over-responsible women drift into self-abandonmentThe real burnout progression: stress → overwhelm → conflict → implosion/explosionWhy insight alone doesn't change behavior (and what does)Tracy's “reaction cascade” + how beliefs trigger emotional patternsHow daily practices create nervous system regulation and relational repairWhat it means to reclaim internal authority emotionally, not just intellectuallyThe difference between breakthrough moments and sustainable changePractical ways to stop over-functioning and rebuild connection to your voiceLinks: Tracy Doyle Support the showPlease subscribe and follow the show to get updates on new releases.Kindly asking to share with friends who may enjoy or benefit.Support Happy Hour for the Spiritually Curious WildSoulsGathering.comEmbrace YOUR Wild Soul!https://www.youtube.com/@wildsoulgatheringhttps://www.tiktok.com/@spirituallycurioushttps://www.twitter.com/@soul_gatheringshttps://www.instagram.com/wildsoulgatheringshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/669456900799583
Some comments linger longer than they should. A tone, a look, an offhand remark from your partner, your child, or a friend can spiral into a story in your head before you even realize it. This conversation unpacks what it really takes to not take things personally, especially in the relationships that matter most. From defensiveness and truth triggers to slowing down your reactions and separating someone else's mood from your responsibility, we share practical mindset shifts that create more peace at home and in your friendships.Key Topics Covered:• The connection between defensiveness and hidden truths.• Why pausing before reacting changes everything.• Separating your partner's emotions from your own sense of worth.• The role tone plays when giving and receiving feedback.• Helping kids regulate before expecting repair or apology.• Teaching children awareness of how their words impact others.• Navigating the sting of feeling like a means to an end as a parent.• Modeling reciprocal conversations and emotional awareness at home.• How past friendship wounds shape present reactions.• Real life examples of working through friendship conflict without escalation.LINKS AND RESOURCES:HERSELF AMAZON STOREFRONT: https://amzlink.to/az0BrkLl5pX9u HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastLet's connect!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.
How to turn down the chatter of negative self-talk.If you want to have better conversations with others, Ethan Kross says you first have to quiet down the chatter in your own head.A professor, researcher, and author, Kross defines chatter as a “negative thought loop” that hijacks our attention and undermines our ability to perform. “We have a limited capacity to focus our attention,” he says. “Attentional resources are a limited commodity, and chatter acts like a sponge that consumes that capacity. It leaves very little leftover that allows us to do the things that we want or need to do.” In his work researching, teaching, and writing about emotional regulation and the conscious mind, Kross has explored how to manage the negative self-talk that sabotages our concentration. “Here's the good news,” he says. “You can get out of it. Managing your chatter [is] a lot like becoming physically fit” — and he's developed tools and frameworks for building the muscles to turn down the noise.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Kross joins host Matt Abrahams to share methods for quieting chatter and reclaiming precious mental resources. From distanced self-talk to mental time travel, his tools offer a way to tune out the static and tune into clarity and connection.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Ethan KrossEthan's Books: Chatter / ShiftEp.179 Finding Positive in Negative Emotions: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:27) - Defining Chatter (04:57) - Breaking the Loop (09:54) - Technology & Emotional Sharing (13:20) - Why “Get Over It” Fails (18:40) - Emotions as Data (21:11) - The Final Three Questions (25:01) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Anna Runkle is a trauma-survivor turned coach and educator, best known under the moniker The Crappy Childhood Fairy. Her work focuses on helping adults who grew up with childhood trauma — particularly what she calls Childhood PTSD (or complex PTSD stemming from early life stress) — to understand their symptoms, regulate their nervous systems, and build more fulfilling lives. Anna's work has attracted a large following, her great YouTube channel in particular has just under 1 million followers. She hosts a podcast, The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle, available on Spotify and other platforms. She has authored books such as Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviours That Keep You Stuck. Her new book CONNECTABILITY: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, And Feel (At Last) Like You Below from Hay House is available now. Timestamps (may vary by 2-4 minutes based on your podcast platform) 03:11 Introduction to Trauma and Healing 06:00 Understanding Complex PTSD 09:11 The Role of Positive Action in Healing 12:19 Differentiating Between Abuse and Neglect 15:05 The Impact of Early Trauma on Adult Relationships 18:20 Emotional Flashbacks and Their Effects 21:08 Techniques for Managing Dysregulation 23:56 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Healing 33:04 The Therapeutic Power of Writing 35:25 Transformative Techniques for Healing 38:44 Navigating Emotional Dysregulation 42:20 The Process of Letting Go 49:19 Overcoming the Fear of Judgment (Website) https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/ (Facebook) www.facebook.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy/ (Youtube) www.youtube.com/@crappychildhoodfairy (Instagram) www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/ (twitter) CrappyChildhoodFairy (@CChildhoodFairy) / X
I would love to hear how this episode impacted you.hat voice in your head—the one that hesitates, questions, and pulls you back—isn't trying to sabotage you.It's trying to protect you.In this episode, we reframe self-talk through a nervous-system and identity-based lens, explaining why fighting your thoughts actually makes them louder—and why forcing positivity rarely works.You'll learn:Why your inner voice forms through stress and emotional memoryThe real fear behind self-doubt (hint: it's not failure)Why arguing with your thoughts escalates resistanceHow pausing—not fighting—creates clarity and alignmentWhy identity anchors are more powerful than self-criticismIf you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you keep pulling back just as you're about to step forward, this episode will help you understand why—and show you a calmer, more effective way to lead yourself.You don't need to silence your inner voice. You need to stop fighting it.That's how you stop talking yourself out of your potential.Support the showNew to Adam Henson Coaching? Start Here → https://youtu.be/HHLdVPMha10
▷ 本集引導在開始之前,先吐一口氣。不是為了放鬆,而是為了讓你的身體,先卸下它不需要再扛的東西。你不需要撐著聽。這一集,不是來要求你的。▷ 本集寫給誰如果你是一個高效率、高表現、在團隊裡常常被依賴、被指派、被期待的人 ——你很可能會在這一集裡,聽到一些你從來沒有被允許說出口的感覺。這一集不是給「不努力的人」。這一集是給 —— 越有能力,越難停下來的人。給那些:明明做得很好,卻越來越累;明明沒有出錯,卻總覺得哪裡不對的人。▷ 本集核心高表現者的「卡住」,幾乎從來不是因為能力不足。很多時候,是因為——你的 nervous system capacity 已經被用完了。你以為你是在把事情做好,但你其實常常在替整個系統「補漏洞」:團隊沒接住的,你接老闆沒處理的,你扛家庭情緒沒消化的,你吞氣氛尷尬的,你緩和你的高效率,慢慢變成一種「過度承擔」。你用你的神經系統在 hold space,但系統並沒有為你 hold space。▷ 在本集你會經驗到為什麼「卡住」不是自律下降,而是承載力用完台灣文化裡,「責任內化」如何被獎勵、被內建成習慣為什麼你停不下來不是不會休息,而是「不敢停」你真正需要的不是更好的時間管理,而是重新定義:這是不是我的角色Reset(被理解)到 Reclaim(主權回收)的轉向:「這件事,真的還需要由我來撐嗎?」▷ Season 2 的轉向Season 1 的 Reset,是讓你被理解:你不是壞掉、不是太敏感、不是不夠堅強。Season 2 的 Reclaim,是更成熟的選擇:在你知道自己被理解之後,你還要不要繼續過度承擔?這就是第二季的主軸 —— Leadership Begins in the Body.▷ Somatic Practice這不是放鬆練習,是一個「角色辨識」與「責任回收」的練習。當你想起一個最近讓你很累的情境,問身體:「我是在做我該做的事,還是在補別人的位?」「我是在履行我的主權 authority,還是在過度承擔?」找到身體最緊的地方,對它說: 「謝謝你撐了這麼久。」 「你不需要一個人完成所有事。」 「我願意練習,不再自動補位。」▷ Integration如果你聽完有一點點鬆、也有一點點不安——很正常。因為對高表現者來說,停下來不是技術問題,而是身份問題:如果我不再補位,那我是誰?有些轉化,不是靠理解完成的, 而是靠一次一次「被承接」完成的。▷ Work with LolaApply for The Lola System™ 90 https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口,為「準備好真正改變,但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite|https://lolalinocean.com Instagram|https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalin LinkedIn|https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin
On this episode, Jared starts a new series - Mighty Minerals! He kicks the series off by exploring lithium from a completely different perspective—not just as a psychiatric medication, but as a naturally occurring trace mineral that may play a role in mood balance, stress resilience, sleep rhythm, and cognitive support. You'll learn the difference between high-dose pharmaceutical lithium and low-dose nutritional lithium, why dosage and intent matter, and how integrative practitioners are using micro-doses as part of a broader wellness strategy. Jared also breaks down how lithium interacts with circadian rhythm, neurotransmitter signaling, and brain stability, plus how nutrients like magnesium, omega-3s, B vitamins, inositol, and adaptogenic herbs may complement it. This episode is educational and empowering, designed to help you think critically about mental wellness, trace minerals, and personal responsibility for your health.Products:KAL Lithium OrotateSolaray Lithium AspartateVisit the podcast website here: VitalityRadio.comYou can follow @vitalitynutritionbountiful and @vitalityradio on Instagram, or Vitality Radio and Vitality Nutrition on Facebook. Join us also in the Vitality Radio Podcast Listener Community on Facebook. Shop the products that Jared mentions at vitalitynutrition.com. Let us know your thoughts about this episode using the hashtag #vitalityradio and please rate and review us on Apple Podcasts. Thank you!Just a reminder that this podcast is for educational purposes only. The FDA has not evaluated the podcast. The information is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. The advice given is not intended to replace the advice of your medical professional.
Any takeaways from this episode?Dearest, gentle listeners… our Bridgerton series is back, and today we are talking Bridgerton Couples. We're starting with Chaotic Edition (Healthy Edition drops next week).Today we're breaking down the couples who brought:
Temika Hill returns to Breaking Free for another deep, wide-ranging conversation that taps straight into the current collective energy.Temika and Idive into synchronicities, personal experiences, and the rising wave of anger and transformation many people are feeling right now. Together, they unpack why this intensity isn't something to fear but something to understand and channel consciously.Temika opens up about her journey as a medium and what it really took to build unshakeable trust in her intuitive gifts. The conversation explores the power of self-trust, acting on inner guidance, and the courage required to follow what you know deep down is true.We also confront the trap of people-pleasing, the necessity of firm boundaries, and why real growth often demands letting go of outdated patterns and identities.This episode is a grounded but expansive look at what it means to evolve during times of collective shift and how to stay centred while everything around you is changing.Raw, honest, and deeply relevant to the times we're living in.Part One Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-aOyguqfFQPart One Audio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VWhZIO76XOBekHKZagUcg?si=b7b4e630e2e547f4Part Two Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Va13DzlM4g8Part Two Audio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1fyOx4E98ubhE3xlhOqgvS?si=0d88a12f86a84642Jump on BonCharge and grab yourself some protection from wifi, 5G, blue/red light and so much more…At the Checkout Use Code “Nath22” to receive 15% offRight here: https://www.boncharge.com/?rfsn=7434501.689abcConnect With Temika Hill: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/temika.hilll/Linktree: https://linktr.ee/temika.hill?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaaobwzsj0smqluupF2QomJ14QkzcZjNNV_3Ff5MA2dWQmTA8XnTZhkFPIY_aem_y-uJyVHKZp4k6-mGxqDiNwConnect With Me (Nathan Francis Coach/Mentor) Substack: https://substack.com/@nathanfrancisFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.MindPersonal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/Email me anytime: nathanselfsabotage@gmail.comThe Breaking Free Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpwApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8-
Emotional regulation is one of the most important relationship skills we were never taught. In this episode of the Love Your Life Show, Susie Pettit explains why emotional regulation is the skill that makes parenting and marriage easier and why learning to stay calm when the people you love are not can change every relationship in your life. If you tend to take responsibility for other people's emotions, rush to fix feelings, or feel unsettled when your kids, partner, or loved ones are upset, this episode is for you. Susie shares how emotional regulation builds emotional safety, why fixing feelings often backfires, and how developing emotional resiliency helps you show up as a calmer parent, partner, and human. You'll learn: ⭐️ What emotional regulation actually is and why it matters in parenting, marriage, and relationships with our empty nest young adults ⭐️ How to stop outsourcing your calm to the people around you ⭐️ Why feelings need support, not solutions ⭐️ A simple framework to respond to big emotions without fixing or shutting them down ⭐️ How emotional regulation supports emotional intelligence in kids, teens, and even our underfunctioning partners or young adults Whether you're parenting young children, teenagers, adult kids, or navigating a long-term relationship, this episode will help you understand why your internal calm is the foundation for healthier, more connected relationships. If you want parenting and marriage to feel less heavy and more grounded, emotional regulation is where it starts. Thanks for listening! If you liked this show, you'll like this one: Loving Detachment on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/286-loving-detachment/id1434429161?i=1000642743348 Loving Detachment on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/6bL2I9rFFHSf18buCOEZMi?si=iyNfeWilT3eAkVYHgcwZkQ Want even more? Get the most popular parenting episodes here: https://SMBwell.com/mom Get the weekly wellness newsletter for warriors here:
402-521-3080In this engaging conversation, Stephanie Olson, Dr. Jen Fry, and Rebecca Saunders explore the critical themes of resilience and relationships, focusing on the importance of conflict, healthy communication, and setting boundaries. They discuss how to navigate difficult conversations, the role of apologies, and the necessity of teaching children about consent and self-advocacy. The discussion emphasizes that healthy conflict is essential for strong relationships and that individuals must be willing to engage in hard conversations to foster growth and understanding.TakeawaysConflict is not inherently negative; it's how we handle it that matters.Healthy conflict can strengthen relationships and build trust.Setting boundaries is crucial for personal well-being and healthy interactions.Teaching kids about consent and self-advocacy is essential.Apologizing can be a powerful tool for healing relationships.There is no time limit on a genuine apology.Navigating conflict requires emotional regulation and understanding.People often avoid conflict due to fear of negative outcomes.The absence of conflict does not equate to harmony in relationships.Relationships are worth the effort of engaging in difficult conversations.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Relationships00:54 The Journey of Dr. Jen Fry02:25 Understanding Conflict as a Tool for Growth04:59 Navigating Difficult Conversations08:46 Setting Boundaries in Relationships11:57 Healthy Conflict: A Path to Better Communication15:15 The Power of Apology in Parenting16:47 Teaching Consent and Healthy Conflict17:40 Navigating Online Conflict and Apologies20:13 Self-Advocacy and Emotional Regulation in Kids23:48 The Timelessness of Apologies26:05 The Importance of Healthy Conflict in Relationships29:43 R&R Outro.mp4Dr. Jen Fry is a Sports Geographer, speaker, and founder of JenFryTalks, where she helps teams navigate conflict and culture. A former collegiate volleyball coach, Jen brings lived experience into leadership and communication work. She holds a PhD from Michigan State University and is the founder of Coordle, a tech platform simplifying youth sports travel.https://jenfrytalks.com/https://www.facebook.com/jenfrytalkshttps://x.com/jenfrytalkshttps://www.instagram.com/jenfrytalkshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/jenfry13/Support the showEveryone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!https://setmefreeproject.net https://www.stephanieolson.com/
Are you addicted to certainty? In this episode of Cacao Conversations, Julietta Wenzel and Dorice explore why we cling to being right — and what that attachment is doing to our nervous system, our relationships, and our growth. We say we want truth. But what we often want is certainty. And certainty feels safe. But here's the deeper question: Is certainty even real? In this conversation, we unpack: • Why humans are wired to seek certainty • How identity gets fused with beliefs • What happens in the body when our opinions are challenged • The nervous system's role in defending “being right” • Why curiosity creates expansion, flexibility, and connection In a world obsessed with being right, choosing curiosity is powerful. When we loosen our grip on certainty, we create space for growth, emotional regulation, and deeper connection. If you've ever felt defensive, triggered, or unsettled when someone disagrees with you — this episode is for you. Sip. Connect. Awaken. Hey! Thanks for listening! If you liked this episode, please send us a message. We'd love to hear from you!Your cup is full, your journey awaits. Let's sip, chat, and transform together. Find out more at https://www.bodyandsoulevents.love/ Julietta Wenzel Founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Julietta is a healer, guide, and visionary dedicated to helping others remember their true selves and step into their authentic power. With a background as a physical therapist turned spiritual practitioner, she combines individual healing sessions, sacred ceremonies, and transformative retreats to guide her community toward joy, fulfillment, and alignment. https://bodyandsoulministries.love/ Instagram: @bodyandsoulministries Dorice Ross Elder of Body & Soul Ministries, Dorice is a healer, educator, and guide devoted to supporting others in remembering their divinity and lived experience of Oneness. With a background in physical therapy and university-level teaching, her path has always bridged the body, mind, and spirit. Rooted in both psychology and energy healing, and inspired by diverse spiritual traditions, Dorice creates safe, compassionate spaces where healing unfolds naturally. Her work is guided by love, deep listening, and trust in the wisdom of Source. Instagram: @rossdoriceShine bright and have a magical day!Julietta & Dorice
ADHD doesn't look the same for every kid—especially as children grow into teens and young adults. In this episode, Dr. Janina Maschke explains how gender, stigma, and internalized behaviors can shape diagnosis, coping mechanisms, and self-esteem. Press play to understand what's happening beneath the surface and how parents can offer the support their kid really needs.What to expect in this episode:Why is ADHD often missed or diagnosed late in girls and womenHow internalized behaviors mask hyperactivity and executive function strugglesThe connection between undiagnosed ADHD, anxiety, and low self-esteemWhy unhealthy coping mechanisms often emerge without proper supportWhat parents can do to support teens and young adults without pushing them awayAbout Dr. Janina MaschkeDr. Janina is a cognitive psychologist, ADHD and executive functioning coach, and subject matter expert focused on ADHD across the lifespan. She holds a Ph.D. in Psychology, conducts research on ADHD and women with George Washington University, and is the author of A Feminist's Guide to ADHD. Drawing from both professional expertise and lived experience, she helps neurodivergent individuals understand their brains, build confidence, and thrive.Connect with Dr. JaninaWebsite: ADHD Empowerment Coaching Instagram: @adhd_empowerment_coachingRelated Links:EP28: Gender & Queer Kids with Neurodiversityhttps://impactparents.com/queer-kids-with-neurodiversity/ EP43: Autism & Anxiety In Girlshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-043-autism-anxiety-in-girls/EP56: Missed Diagnosis: Autism In Girlshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-056-missed-diagnosis-autism-in-girlsEP82: Gender Confusion: A Primer for Parentshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-082-gender-confusion-a-primer-for-parents/EP225: The Connection Between Complex Kids, Gender & Sensory Issueshttps://impactparents.com/the-connection-between-complex-kids-gender-sensory-issues/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
We've reached the part of the year where January motivation fades. Luckily, we get another reset! In this episode, I'm breaking down the Lunar New Year, the symbolism of the Fire Horse, and what this year represents energetically. We talk about movement versus direction, independence versus emotional avoidance, and how to build disciplined momentum instead of chaotic hustle. If last year was about shedding (Year of the Snake), this year is about strength. I'm sharing how I'm personally approaching it - physically, emotionally, and creatively - along with a mini “Horse Year Audit” you can use to recalibrate your own lifeSubscribe to Beyond Your Budget:https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kitBREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:
In senior roles, pressure is constant. Decisions are visible. Stakeholders bring urgency, frustration, and competing priorities into the room. You cannot control those inputs but you can control your response. In this episode of Grounded and Aligned™, Karen Gombault examines emotional regulation as a core leadership skill. Emotional regulation is the ability to notice your reaction, pause, and choose how to respond rather than act on impulse. It is not suppression of emotion, but disciplined composure. When leaders react in the moment — through sharp emails, raised tone, or visible frustration — judgment and discernment are difficult and conversations tend to escalate. When emotions remain steady, discussions stay productive. Karen looks at: How emotional reactivity reduces decision quality Why visible composure increases trust and authority The link between a leader's emotional state and team stabilityThe role of regulation in high-stakes discussions and negotiations A practical method to reset your nervous system in real time As responsibility increases, emotional regulation becomes part of the role. Your tone influences the room and your reaction sets the standard. Next steps Schedule a free Focus 15 session where she walks you through a practical exercise to regulate your nervous system in real time. If you want to experience the method directly, you can sign up below.
You finally get everyone to bed. The house is quiet. No one is asking you for anything. And instead of going to sleep… you stay up. Maybe you scroll. Maybe you watch a show. Maybe you tackle that project that's been swirling in your head all day. It feels like the only time that's actually yours. But the next morning? You're exhausted. Snappier. Less patient. And wondering why everything feels so much harder. In this episode, we're talking about why you stay up too late — and what that lack of sleep is really doing to your emotional regulation, productivity, and mental health. Because this isn't about being “bad at time management.” It's about the very real tug-of-war happening inside you between rest and freedom. And when you understand that conflict, you can finally stop sacrificing sleep just to feel like a person again. In This Episode, We Cover: Why staying up late feels like the only time that belongs to you The connection between sleep and emotional regulation (and why you're more triggered when you're tired) How sleep impacts stress, patience, productivity, and long-term wellness The hidden “two parts” conflict between rest and personal freedom A simple negotiation exercise to help you stop fighting yourself at night Why treating rest as preventative care changes everything How your sleep environment can make or break your wind-down routine Why This Matters When you're tired, everything hits harder. Small frustrations feel enormous. You react faster. You recover slower. That's not a character flaw — that's biology. Sleep affects your mental health, your parenting, your relationships, your stress levels, and even your long-term brain health. And yet, so many moms sacrifice it because it feels like the only way to reclaim time for themselves. You don't have to choose between rest and freedom. With the right structure and awareness, you can have both. Resources Mentioned: ADHD Love on Instagram: Get Your free ticket to the Happy Mom Summit Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker PhD No Guilt Mom Inner Circle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Ryan Greigg and Jacqueline Smith delve into emotional intelligence (EQ) and its impact on success in life and business. They explore the five core components of EQ—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and discuss how activities like journaling, meditation, and staying hydrated enhance EQ. Ryan shares insights from his juice cleanse experience, while Jacqueline highlights the importance of modeling these habits for children. Tune in to learn how understanding and managing your emotions can improve both personal and professional relationships. ---------- Connect with the 15 Point Plan: 15 Point Plan: https://WinMakeGive.com/15-point-plan/ Win Make Give Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/WinMakeGive Learn more about the co-hosts: Jacqueline Smith: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinerae_smith/ Ryan Greigg: https://www.instagram.com/ryanparkgreigg/ Book one of our co-hosts for your next event: https://WinMakeGive.com/speakers/ Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network
Disconnection doesn't usually explode—it leaks in through a thousand tiny moments until voices go quiet and energy fades. We sat down with leadership futurist and change strategist Melinda McCormack to chart a path back: a practical, human way to lead with empathy that drives performance without sacrificing people.Melinda shares her personal journey through loss alongside high-stakes corporate change, revealing how trauma and bias can make even the strongest leaders feel small and unseen. From those lived lessons comes PULSE, a five-step framework that turns empathy into action: clarify Purpose aligned to values, Unlock your emotional code to shift from reaction to response, Learn tools like vulnerability and humility, Shift with daily habits that stick, and Embrace change by balancing the heart that feels with the mind that leads. We dive into why emotional fitness is a trainable skill, how mirror neurons make culture contagious, and what leaders can do to create psychological safety so teams feel seen, heard, and valued.Expect clear, usable tactics you can try today. You'll hear how a single ten-second pause can flip a heated exchange, how to spot slow-burn disengagement before it becomes quiet quitting, and why “listening is the quiet art of influence.” We unpack triggers, cognitive biases, and the subtle ways meetings spiral into aggression and defensiveness—and we show how to bring them back to focus, trust, and useful outcomes. If you've ever wondered how to make empathy a competitive edge, this conversation gives you the map and the mindset to start.
Send a textClick Here for Free MasterclassWhy do high-performers spiral after one visible mistake?If you're competent, capable, and usually the one others rely on… a single mistake can feel disproportionate. Not because you're fragile - but because your nervous system interprets social evaluation as threat.In this episode, with Dr Amen Kaur we unpack:Why one public mistake can trigger shame, overthinking, and loss of confidenceThe neuroscience of social-evaluative threat (prefrontal cortex, amygdala, and status perception)Why high-achievers are more vulnerable to spiraling after mistakesThe hidden link between competence, identity, and fear of judgmentWhy trying to “think your way out” often makes it worseHow regulation - not self-criticism - restores clarity and decisive actionYou'll learn why your brain reacts so strongly to perceived status loss, why reassurance rarely fixes it, and how internal regulation is the foundation for confident leadership.This episode is for high-performers, founders, leaders, and capable women who are tired of losing momentum after one mistake and are ready to move forward without outsourcing their confidence.If this resonates, and you're looking for a space to stabilise this process long-term, there are deeper ways to work together.
Ever felt stuck in ongoing situations that never seem to change and leave you feeling exhausted, frustrated or hopeless? In this episode, we talk about the unique stress that comes from chronic, unresolved circumstances and why these stress loops are so hard to escape. Learn why your nervous system stays activated in repetitive stress, how bitterness and emotional hardening quietly form, and what it looks like to begin finding peace even when nothing around you changes. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] Why Ongoing Stress Feels Different Than Everyday Stress [02:00] Why Can't I Feel Peace When Nothing Is Changing? [05:00] How Repetitive Stress Activates the Nervous System and Shapes Reactions [08:00] When Unresolved Situations Create Emotional Baggage and Resentment [11:00] Does Letting Go Mean We're Giving Up? [14:00] How Chronic Stress Affects Emotional and Physical Health [17:00] Awareness Is the First Step Out of Stress Loops [20:00] How to Begin Noticing and Naming Stress Without Judgment Join me for the Virtual Rest Retreat in Feb 2026! Are you exhausted and in need of deep rest (but can't get away)? Find rest with God that fits your budget, your schedule and your season of life at my Bible-based virtual retreat for Christian women seeking deep replenishment of mind, body and spirit! Register for the virtual rest retreat: AliciaMichelle.com/virtual-rest-retreat RELATED EPISODES: Ep 348: How Can We Find Rest That Actually Restores Body, Mind and Soul? Ep 344: How to DIY Your Own Rest Retreat (When Getting Away Feels Impossible) Ep 347: When What You're Doing to Rest Isn't Working — Living with Hidden Burnout + Exhaustion Send a text
The GoGaddis Real Estate Radio Show with Cleveland (Cleve) Gaddis, Presented by Modern Traditions Realty Group www.moderntraditionsrealty.com In this emotional final segment of The Go Gaddis Real Estate Radio Show, Cleve Gaddis says goodbye to the airwaves after 13 years of serving the Metro Atlanta community. But this isn't just an ending, it's a transformation. Cleve takes a deep, honest inventory of the assumptions he made throughout his career and shares the hard-won truths that are now guiding his next chapter in leadership coaching. From the importance of emotional regulation to the power of the "Man in the Mirror," this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to bridge the gap between who they are and who they want to be. Key Takeaways from This Farewell Episode: -Debunking Business Myths: Cleve reflects on the false beliefs that "working harder solves everything" and that leadership means having all the answers. -The Art of Listening: Discover why Cleve believes listening beats talking every time, a skill he credits his fiancé, Tammie, and his four daughters for helping him master. -Emotional Regulation as a Skill: Cleve shares why a leader's ability to control their emotions is the most critical skill for success in both business and family life. -Accepting Responsibility: A powerful reflection on Michael Jackson's "Man in the Mirror" and why true change only happens when we look at ourselves objectively. -A New Life in Dallas: Cleve discusses his move to Texas and the launch of his new leadership podcast, which will focus on the "Leadership of Self." This episode serves as a powerful reminder that while markets change and careers evolve, the most important work we ever do is on ourselves. Cleve offers a heartfelt "thank you" to his Atlanta listeners and provides a roadmap for how to stay connected as he transitions from real estate tactics to deeper conversations about truth and alignment. Stay Connected with Cleve's New Journey The radio show may be over, but the mission to help leaders grow continues. Don't lose touch with the insights that have helped shape Atlanta's real estate landscape for over a decade. Visit ClevelandGaddis.com today to sign up for updates on Cleve's new leadership podcast, follow him on social media, and join the next chapter of the story! Want more local real estate insights? Visit our website to see more market updates or call us at 770-497-0000 to discuss your specific home value. The insights shared on the show reflect the same guidance provided daily by Modern Traditions Realty Group. If you'd like a no-pressure conversation about your home's value, equity position, or the right timing for your next move, visit ModernTraditionsRealty.com or to connect with Cleve and submit questions for future segments, visit GoGaddisRadio.com.
Jason Seeman, founder of Raising Fathers, joins Steve Hodgson on The Noise of Life Podcast to explore modern fatherhood, conscious parenting and what it truly means to become a father in today's world. Not just biologically, but emotionally. Not just as a financial provider, but as a regulated, self-aware, emotionally intelligent man.In this powerful conversation on fatherhood and masculinity, we unpack the transition from boy to man and from man to father - two rites of passage many men were never guided through. Jason reflects on the generational models of masculinity many of us inherited: fathers who were loving yet emotionally guarded, men shaped by war, survival, responsibility and silence. We explore how unresolved childhood experiences, generational trauma and emotional suppression quietly echo through families unless consciously interrupted.This episode dives deep into emotional intelligence in parenting as a daily practice - not theory. We discuss emotional regulation, anger management, repair after conflict and how a father's tone, presence and reactions shape a child's nervous system and sense of safety. Jason shares a powerful reframe around discipline and parenting styles, explaining why fear-based compliance may change behaviour short-term but can impact confidence and emotional security long-term.We also explore modern relationships and marriage dynamics - including cognitive load imbalance, communication breakdown, partnership conflict and rebuilding intimacy with intention. Practical tools such as structured relationship check-ins, emotional awareness practices, and conscious communication strategies are shared to help fathers strengthen connection at home.At its core, this episode is about self-awareness, compassion and breaking generational cycles. It's about recognising inherited patterns, regulating ourselves before regulating our children and understanding that children model the behaviour they observe.If you are a father, an expecting dad, navigating co-parenting, healing your relationship with your own father or exploring men's mental health and emotional wellbeing, this episode will resonate deeply.Inside this podcast:- Why modern fatherhood is a missed rite of passage- How intergenerational trauma shapes parenting styles- Why fear based discipline creates long term insecurity- The role of emotional regulation in raising resilient children- How couples can reconnect through awareness and intentional communicationConnect with Jason:Linktree → https://bio.site/raisingfathers Website → https://www.raising-fathers.com/Connect with Steve:Instagram → https://bit.ly/3KARQhR LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/48sw8Vj Episode Highlights00:00:00 - The difference between sound and noise in life00:05:00 - Wanting to be a father from childhood00:07:00 - The rite of passage from man to father00:09:00 - Media stereotypes of modern fathers00:11:00 - Emotional openness and inherited silence00:12:00 - “Make sure you don't yell at your wife”00:14:00 - Intergenerational trauma and Holocaust survival imprint00:24:00 - Breaking unconscious parenting patterns00:28:00 - Modeling apology and repair for children00:31:00 - Aggression, tone, and fear based compliance00:45:00 - Relationship strain after children00:54:00 - The power of structured check ins00:58:00 - Intimacy and connection as relational glue01:03:00 - Conflict as a feature, not a flaw01:07:00 - Self compassion before behavior change01:10:00 - The belief that “I must be perfect to be good enough”01:11:00 - Doing the real work behind closed doorsABOUT THE PODCAST SHOWThe Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.
Text me a question I might answer through the showThis episode was simultaneously recorded by video which can be found on LinkedIn or YouTube (Alexandra Miller Clark). In this episode, we explore themes of compassion, the importance of self-management in parenting and nervous system regulation. Dr. Nicole Dolan also discusses her forthcoming memoir, "The Art of Chaos," which reflects on her experiences as a mother and therapist. Dr. Nicole Dolan is a licensed psychotherapist and the Founder of Sacred Paths non-profit group in California. At the start of the show, I share about a Japanese hero, Sempo Sugihara, and dedicate the show to the National Liberty Museum in Philadelphia.Conscious Parenting and Self-Management 05:39Nervous System Regulation and Breathwork 09:02Exploring Triggers and Emotional Responses 11:36The Role of the Body in Therapy 15:46Understanding Split Off Parts of Self 20:18Reintegration of Trauma and Healing 26:08The Art of Chaos: A Memoir 35:29Surviving vs. Thriving in Parenting - lastSupport the showThis show was created with love on my volunteer time. One small gift you can give me back is to take the time to leave the show a comment and rating on iTunes. You can also support the production costs of the show by buying me a $3 coffee at buymeacoffee.com/dralexandra. I will be encouraged by your support, and thank you!
Pastor Chrissy Cole continues the Through the Fire series with “Fighting Fire With Fire,” a message on handling conflict with humility and Spirit-led self-control. Teaching from James 1 and Ephesians 4, she explains how unmanaged anger damages connection and how choosing kindness, listening, and unity leads to healthier relationships.Click here to view the episode transcript. (00:00) - Through the Fire series recap (02:30) - Fighting Fire With Fire introduction (05:00) - Conflict is the price of intimacy (07:10) - Flesh fire vs Spirit fire (11:00) - Conflict is inevitable, combustion is optional (14:45) - What anger exposes in the heart (18:30) - Identifying unhealthy communication styles (21:00) - Be quick to listen, slow to speak (James 1:19) (24:30) - Managing anger before it manages you (29:00) - Practical tools for emotional regulation (34:30) - Humility protects unity (39:00) - Choosing connection over being right (42:30) - Invitation, prayer & response
This week, I'm joined again by emotional eating expert Tricia Nelson. This time, we explore the intricate connection between emotional eating and romantic relationships. We talk about how emotional responsibility includes becoming aware of the ways food struggles can impact intimacy and communication in relationships.We also discuss how isolation can intensify emotional eating, why connection and honesty are essential to healing, and the underlying reasons food becomes a coping mechanism. Tricia shares practical ways she has helped people shift these deep-rooted patterns, including how processing, expressing, and communicating how we're feeling is essential to changing compulsive eating behaviors. It's an honest conversation about how long-term struggles with food can affect the people in our lives, with practical advice for how to feel and connect with others instead of numb and avoid with food. Show Notes | Resources | Mentions:Emotional Eating Free QuizBook: Heal Your Hunger: 7 Simple Steps to End Emotional Eating NowInstagram: @tricianelson_Website: healyourhunger.comTricia's Book: Heal Your Hunger: 7 Simple Steps to End Emotional Eating NowPodcast: Heal Your Hunger Show on Apple Podcasts If you liked this episode, try this one from the archive: Why We Eat Our Feelings (and What to Do Instead)—Tricia Nelson Explains
In this episode, Ian sits down with John Assaraf, entrepreneur, behavioral neuroscience educator, and founder of NeuroGym, for a conversation about the invisible forces that shape performance — long after planning, analysis, and good intentions are in place. John shares his personal journey from a turbulent upbringing to building multiple multimillion-dollar businesses, and the pivotal moment at age 19 that reframed how he thought about success, identity, and commitment. From there, the discussion moves into the neuroscience behind habits, automatic behavior, fear, and why people often snap back to familiar results — even when they know what to do. This is not a trading tactics episode. It's a conversation about execution, follow-through, and the human side of performance — in trading, business, health, and life. About the guest: John Assaraf is a serial entrepreneur who has built multiple multimillion-dollar companies, including helping scale a real estate organization to over $4 billion in annual sales and co-founding a technology company that later went public on the NASDAQ. He is the founder and CEO of NeuroGym, where he focuses on applying neuroscience to performance, habits, and behavior change. John is also the author of several New York Times bestselling books, translated into dozens of languages, and has been featured in films such as The Secret, where many people were first introduced to his work. Links + Resources: Free eBook: The Power of Visualization Sponsor of Chat With Traders Podcast: Trade The Pool: http://www.tradethepool.com Time Stamps: Please note: Exact times will vary depending on current ads. 00:00 Intro and Background 11:16 Mindset Shift: Interested vs. Committed 11:46 Behavioral Neuroscience and Goal Achievement 16:17 Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind 17:12 Creating Permanent Behavioral Changes 21:22 Emotional Regulation and Decision Making 25:30 Overcoming Self-Sabotage 35:20 AddressingFear in Decision Making 42:37 Inner Size: Exercising the Mind 44:27 Self-Sabotage and Financial Set Points 48:21 The Science of Goal Setting 50:17 Visualizing and Embodying Goals 54:40 How to reach John Trading Disclaimer: Trading in the financial markets involves a risk of loss. Podcast episodes and other content produced by Chat With Traders are for informational or educational purposes only and do not constitute trading or investment recommendations or advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices