Podcasts about emotional regulation

Send us a textWhat if the key to healthier relationships, deeper intimacy, and aligned manifestation begins with understanding your nervous system?In this powerful episode of Spiritual Spotlight, relationship coach and psychotherapist Tannaz shares how nervous system regulation shapes everything—from how we connect with others to how we experience conflict, growth, and self-worth.Drawing from her background in psychotherapy, conflict resolution, and law, Tannaz introduces the concept of “lifequakes”—those disruptive moments that shake our world and ultimately become portals for healing and transformation. As she explains, “the wound is where the light enters you.”You'll learn:How nervous system regulation impacts relationships and manifestationThe six types of intimacy most people overlook—and why one person can't meet them allSimple 60-second nervous system regulation techniques for daily lifeWhy reclaiming your authentic self requires releasing others' projectionsHow to build communities and relationships where you feel safe, seen, and understoodThis conversation bridges science and spirituality, offering practical tools and soulful insight for anyone seeking deeper alignment, emotional regulation, and meaningful connection in a fast-paced, hyper-connected world.✨ Learn more and access Tannaz's free nervous system tools at minutesongrowth.com Support the show

Yale psychologist Marc Brackett, bestselling author of Permission to Feel, joins Mosh to break down his new book ⁠Dealing With Feeling⁠ — a practical guide to emotional regulation at a moment when society seems more reactive, overwhelmed, and dis-regulated than ever. Brackett, who founded the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, explains what emotional regulation really is (and isn't). It's not suppressing emotions or “checking them at the door,” he says — it's learning to use your feelings wisely to achieve your goals. The episode dives into: Why most adults were never taught emotional regulation and how beliefs from childhood still shape our reactions. The crucial difference between emotions — anger vs. disappointment, anxiety vs. stress — and why naming them accurately changes everything. Co-regulation: how to support your partner, friend, colleague, or child through difficult feelings without fixing or lecturing. Why venting often backfires, and how to help someone break the cycle of rumination. The role of sleep, exercise, food, and technology in stabilizing your emotional life — and why doom-scrolling is one of the worst “strategies.” Setting boundaries, managing family conflict, and navigating political tension without losing yourself. Why savoring positive emotions is as important as managing the negative ones — and how kids learn this faster than adults. Brackett also shares how his own childhood — bullying, loss, trauma — shaped his work, and how one emotionally intelligent uncle changed the trajectory of his life. He also discusses his work with kids, including ⁠RULER, the emotional intelligence curriculum now used in thousands of schools⁠, and why he believes emotional skills should be taught from birth through adulthood.

Ask Rachel anythingNone of us likes blowing a fuse when our teen does something that triggers us, but we all do it at some point. Nicky asked us to discuss this topic after she felt she'd overreacted to bad feedback from her son's teachers. We know it fixes nothing and leaves us feeling worse than before, but can we keep smoothing it over with an apology?  It was such a great topic to suggest, and when it was first aired I had some amazing feedback from listeners who'd suddenly realised that they were reacting in the way they had been programmed to by their own family.My daughter also told me that the main reason her friends don't tell her parents anything is that they think the parents either don't care or that they'll overract.That's why this podcast is so valuable. It gives us as space to stop and think about the things that come to us unbidden, so that we can upack them and make changes that help us with our own relationships.Long term, if we don't manage to adapt, we run the risk of ruining our connection with our teens because they learn that the best way to manage us parents is to keep quiet, hide, or lie to prevent a repeat.  So how can we stop ourselves from overreacting? We talk through some mindfulness techniques that could make all the difference. This is also a VITAL skill to teach our own teens. BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS:When You Lose It by Roxy and Gay LongworthThe Chimp Paradox by Prof Steve PetersRESOURCES:How to Stop Overreacting to Everything by Patrick Allanhttps://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-stop-overreacting#recaphttps://theparentingreframe.com/the-4-steps-you-need-to-stopoverreacting-and-yelling-at-your-kids-for-good/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/surviving-your-childs-adolescence/201007/overreactions-in-adolescenceteenagersuntangled.substack.comSupport the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.com Find me on Substack https://Teenagersuntangled.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Amy Fiedler explore the complexities of triggers, emotional regulation, and trauma. They discuss the differences between emotional and trauma triggers, how to identify signs of being triggered, and effective strategies for managing triggers in the moment. Amy shares practical tools for long-term healing and emphasizes the importance of boundaries in relationships. The discussion highlights the significance of understanding one's triggers and finding agency in responses to them, ultimately aiming for a healthier relationship with oneself and others. Amy Fiedler is a certified trauma support specialist and holistic life coach who helps trauma survivors navigate relationships without being overtaken by past triggers. With over a decade of experience and more than 2,000 clients worldwide, she specializes in giving survivors the everyday tools and strategies needed to move from awareness into real change - so they can rebuild self-trust, set boundaries with confidence, and create emotionally safe connections. Amy has also built a community of nearly 200,000 people online by sharing her expertise and personal experiences, offering the guidance she once needed herself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Celebrate our 250th episode with expert strategies that make tough conversations easier — and more meaningful.Some of the most meaningful shifts in how we communicate come from the moments that challenge us the most. In this special 250th episode of Think Fast Talk Smart, Matt Abrahams reflects on the insights that have shown him how conflict can become a catalyst for clarity, connection, and even compassion. From Amy Gallo's reminder that the “right kind of conflict” leads to better outcomes to Jenn Wynn's framework for calming our nervous system before stepping into a hard conversation and Julia Minson's HEAR method for signaling genuine curiosity, each tool helps turn tension into understanding for every stage of conflict. And with Joseph Grenny's guidance on noticing when our motives shift from problem-solving to winning, this episode highlights how self-awareness can reset even the toughest moments. Whether you're navigating workplace disagreements or everyday friction at home, this milestone episode offers practical ways to make difficult dialogue feel less daunting — and a real opportunity to communicate better.Episode Reference Links:Amy GalloAmy's Book: Getting Along: How to Work With AnyoneEp.144 Communicating Through Conflict: How to Get Along with AnyoneJenn Wynn  Jenn's Podcast: The H.I. Note: Healing Inspirations from LifeEp.222 Discussing Through Discomfort: Why the Conversations You Avoid Cost You the MostJulia MinsonEp.136 The Art of Disagreeing Without Conflict: Navigating the NuanceJoseph GrennyJoseph's Book: Crucial ConversationsEp.207 From Conflict to Connection: Having Crucial Conversations that CountMusic from Blue Dot Sessions:Etude 3 Chessanta Etude 1 CherubEtude 12 TaminyOjufemiCloud CannonThe Caspian Sea DoghouseAn Opus in AbFirst Results Cach PKLTenawayConnect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInTimed Links:(1:45) Getting Along: How to Work With Anyone (18:31) Crucial ConversationsChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (03:36) - Why Conflict Is Necessary (04:35) - Transforming Unproductive Conflict (05:23) - Inner Experience of Difficult Conversations (06:19) - Self-Awareness, Pause, Reframe (08:26) - Four Questions For Understanding (11:45) - Acting Curious vs. Feeling Curious (14:01) - The HEAR Framework (18:22) - Humility & Willingness To Be Wrong (19:53) - Practice & Repetition (21:20) - Acknowledging Motives (22:34) - Two Questions to Reset Motives (24:28) - Bringing the Frameworks Together (25:54) - What Really Matters (27:26) - Conclusion  ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost. Go to Quince.com/ThinkFast for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

There's a particular moment many of us know well — when everything feels like too much. Not dramatically, but quietly, heavily, relentlessly. You're still functioning, still showing up, but inside, something is fraying. And the most painful part? The story you tell yourself about it: I should be able to handle this.In this episode, we explore why overwhelm isn't a personal failure — it's a predictable outcome when multiple vulnerabilities align. Using insights from the Swiss Cheese Model and Paul Gilbert's three emotional systems, we unpack why your nervous system can't "just cope" when recovery is structurally unavailable.This isn't about becoming stronger. It's about understanding why one small change can still matter — even when everything feels impossible.We'll explore:Why overwhelm is rarely about one thing — it's an accumulation of pressures that alignHow the Swiss Cheese Model explains why burnout happens when recovery becomes impossibleThe three emotional systems (Threat, Drive, and Soothing) and why modern life keeps two constantly activatedWhy your nervous system needs recovery cycles, not just more willpowerHow one small change can close one vulnerability — and why that mattersWhy resistance to small changes is often a sign of how depleted you areSend me a DM_____________________________________________________________________ Visit jenniferwalter.me – your cosy tree house where tired perfectionists and those done pretending to be fine find space to breathe, dream, and create real change.

In Fishing Without Bait Episode 496 – *Clearing the Etch-A-Sketch: Letting Go of What Isn't Ours, we continue Part 3 of our conversation with returning guest and Clairvoyant *Santina Grace. This episode focuses on healing trauma without rewriting or reliving the past. Through grounding visualizations, breathwork, and recovery-based insights, Santina and the Fishing Without Bait team discuss how emotional experiences can be deconstructed so they no longer control our present moment. Using metaphors like clearing an Etch-A-Sketch or rooting into the earth through mindful breathing, the conversation highlights how releasing emotional energy that doesn't belong to us creates space for clarity, neutrality, and joy. We also explore recovery as a universal human process — because everyone is in recovery from something — and how honoring yourself begins with learning to listen.

Emotional intelligence can take you far—but insight alone doesn't always create change. In this episode, I explore the missing skill that determines whether emotional intelligence stays intellectual or becomes embodied. I break down why self-awareness and regulation eventually hit a ceiling without the ability to lead yourself through discomfort, decisions, and follow-through—and where this shows up in real life, from boundaries to consistency.If you've ever thought “I know better, so why am I still stuck?” this episode will help you understand why.Support the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

In this deeply insightful episode of A Mental Health Break, host Vincent A. Lanci welcomes Dr. Anthony Mazzella, a psychodynamic therapist with over 20 years of experience specializing in narcissism and personality dynamics.Dr. Mazzella breaks down one of the most misunderstood topics in mental health—narcissism—and helps listeners move beyond labels and blame into clarity, awareness, and emotional protection. Together, they explore how narcissistic traits show up in relationships, why the holidays can intensify conflict, and how to stay grounded when you feel erased, devalued, or emotionally hijacked.This conversation is especially powerful for anyone navigating difficult family dynamics, romantic relationships, or workplace stress—offering both clinical insight and practical guidance you can use immediately.TakeawaysNarcissism involves a fragile sense of self-esteem.Individuals with narcissistic traits often seek validation from others.Recognizing old roles in family interactions is crucial.Professional help is important for addressing personality disorders.Healing from narcissistic traits is possible with effort.Self-awareness can help in managing reactions to narcissistic behavior."It's easier said than done." -Dr. AnthonyInteresting topics:00:00 Understanding Narcissism: An Introduction02:15 The Journey into Mental Health and Narcissism04:34 Defining Narcissism: Characteristics and Behaviors07:04 Navigating Family Dynamics During the Holidays10:27 Coping Strategies for Dealing with Narcissistic TraitsListen now to gain clarity, compassion, and practical tools for navigating complex relationships—without losing yourself in the process.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out Dr. Anthony Mazzella's podcast, The Narcissism Decoder, and learn more about his work at DrMazella.com Send us a text Support the showBe sure to subscribe to stay current. Have a question for the host or guest? Want their freebee? Are you looking to become a guest or show partner? Email Danica at PodcastsByLanci@gmail.com.This show is brought to you by Coming Alive Podcast Production.CRISIS LINE: DIAL 988

After an extended break, Kris and Melon reunite behind the microphones for a powerful and deeply honest conversation. Life hasn't exactly taken it easy on either of them during the time away, and this episode dives straight into the real-world challenges that have tested their leadership, their resilience, their emotional regulation, and ultimately—their commitment to keep pushing back chaos. • Leadership Under Fire Kris and Melon open up about situations that forced them to lead under pressure, make hard calls, and stay grounded while others leaned on them for stability. • Family Hardship & Unexpected Tests Both share personal updates about family struggles and the emotional weight that comes with wanting to protect, guide, and serve the people you love most. • Emotional Regulation & Dysregulation They unpack moments where they rose to the occasion… and moments where they didn't. This is a raw and relatable look at how even seasoned leaders have to continually train the emotional muscles. • Coaching, Mentorship & Being the Student Again The guys reflect on recent coaching conversations—both the ones they've given and the ones they've needed. They explore how mentorship shapes their pathways forward and why humility remains non-negotiable in personal growth. • Building Healthy Pathways Forward From habits and mindset to faith and support systems, Kris and Mellon detail the intentional choices they are making to move forward with strength, clarity, and purpose—not just for themselves, but for the people they lead. A Special Update: Australia Awaits The episode closes with something long overdue—Kris's upcoming trip to Melbourne to ring in the New Year with the McFadden clan. The two share their excitement, some friendly banter, and what they hope this long-awaited rendezvous will mean for their friendship, their families, and the future of Pushing Back Chaos. Why This Episode Matters Episode 98 is not a highlight reel. It's a reminder that chaos never truly disappears—but with honesty, accountability, brotherhood, and faith, we can always push back. This conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own leadership, their own struggles, and the intentional choices they can make to step into healthier, stronger versions of themselves. Join the Conversation: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook or message us directly — we read every one. If this episode made a difference, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you haven't yet, drop us a review — it helps more people find this space. #PushingBackChaos #PBC  #Leadership #EmotionalResilience #ConsciousLiving #HealingJourney #HMG #HeroesMediaGrp  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Work–life balance isn't a destination — it's a feeling.And according to executive life coach Rebecca Olson, that feeling is available to you even in the chaos of practicing medicine and parenting young kids. In this powerful, paradigm-shifting conversation, we unpack why so many clinicians feel overwhelmed, what's actually happening inside your nervous system, and how to reclaim presence in the moments that matter most.Rebecca works with ambitious working parents — especially women — who want to go all in on their careers without sacrificing the relationships and values that matter most. Her approach blends mindset, emotional regulation, intentional decision-making, and practical tools you can implement immediately.Inside this episode, we dig into:✨ What “balance” really is (and why it's not a time-management problem)✨ Why your nervous system is running the show (and how to calm it in 30–120 seconds)✨ The transition that makes or breaks your evenings as a working parent✨ How to build boundaries that actually hold (even when it feels uncomfortable)✨ Redefining success after becoming a parentREBECCA OLSON COACHING https://www.rebeccaolsoncoaching.com/ DAILY KICKSTART RESOURCE https://www.ambitiousandbalanced.com/daily-kickstart SPONSORS: CM&F INSURANCE www.cmfgroup.com/ThePAIsIn Keywords: work-life balance, clinician burnout, nervous system regulation, emotional regulation tools, boundaries for clinicians, working parent mindset, Rebecca Olson coaching, PA wellness, presence practices, redefining success

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea speaks with Ashley Mowrey, a mindset coach, former dance teacher, and part of the Embody Dance Conference team. They discuss the mental and emotional challenges dancers face, such as perfectionism, body image issues, and performance anxiety. Ashley shares her journey from being a competitive dancer to becoming a mindset coach, and how her experiences fuel her passion for helping dancers thrive. She explains the unique approaches of the Embody Dance Conference, emphasizing mental health and whole-person training. Listeners will learn about practical strategies to improve self-awareness, emotional regulation, and self-compassion in dance.   Embody Dance Conference: https://www.embodydanceconference.com/   Connect with Ashley Mowrey:  https://www.ashleymowrey.com/   Other Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/232   Episode Breakdown: 00:22 Meet Ashley Mowrey: Mindset Coach and Dance Advocate 00:56 Diving into Perfectionism and Mental Health in Dance 02:20 Ashley Mowrey's Dance Journey and Mental Health Struggles 06:07 Addressing Perfectionism and Negative Self-Talk 12:06 Building Self-Awareness and Emotional Regulation 18:57 Supporting Younger Dancers and Body Image Issues 21:38 Embody Dance Conference: A New Approach to Conventions 36:16 Final Thoughts and Life Lessons from Dance 37:22 Conclusion and Contact Information  

Send us a textIf you're ready to go deeper and make 2026 the year you return fully to yourself, my masterclass is now open.  Join hereIf you've been struggling… overthinking… working harder than ever… or feeling undervalued, unseen, or “not enough,” there is something important you need to hear:You are not suffering because you're failing. You're suffering because your nervous system has been trying to protect you.In this episode, I'm breaking down why you get stuck in painful patterns - at work, in relationships, in your identity - even when you know you deserve better.You'll learn:✨ Why your worth gets triggered ✨ Why you start proving, pleasing, or shrinking without meaning to ✨ The real reason certain people feel unsafe to your body ✨ Why you stay in situations you've outgrown ✨ How your nervous system overrides your logic ✨ Why suffering is often a redirect, not a punishment ✨ The question that dissolves triggers and brings you back into yourselfBy the end of this episode, you'll understand yourself in a way you never have before… and you'll feel relief simply from recognising that nothing about the way you react is a flaw.It's your system asking for what it needs.If you're ready to stop abandoning yourself - and start returning to who you were always meant to be - this is the episode to begin with.You are not broken. You are becoming.

Gen Z Leadership and Community with Christy Pretzinger In this episode, Michael sits down with Christy Pretzinger, a 20-year business owner and content strategy expert for healthcare organizations, to explore her latest venture, the Better Leader Project. This initiative is designed to create intimate communities where Gen Z leaders can practice essential leadership skills. Christy emphasizes the value of authenticity, connection, and community in the workplace, noting that younger generations want to bring their whole selves to work. Michael echoes these insights by sharing how one of his most connected and collaborative teams thrived, even when they were one of the lowest-paid departments. Together, they discuss how organizations can prioritize meaningful communities that keep employees engaged and valued. Enhancing Team Well-being Through Check-ins Michael reflects on reshaping team meetings to prioritize well-being and resource sharing. Christy explains her organization's use of one-word check-ins and guided meditation to foster presence and connection. Both highlight how intentional check-ins can uncover challenges, support team members, and build stronger trust within the workplace. Workplace Connection and Leadership Challenges The conversation explores how community and connection influence belonging and well-being at work. Michael and Christy examine how remote work has shifted dynamics since COVID-19, pointing out the need for leaders to be deliberate in fostering positive relationships. Michael discusses the balancing act of leading with both efficiency and kindness, while Christy highlights the importance of vulnerability and open dialogue to bridge misunderstandings. They acknowledge that leadership is complex, requiring constant feedback and learning. Emotional Regulation in Professional Settings Michael and Christy dive into the critical skill of emotional regulation. Michael stresses the difference between reacting and responding, while Christy highlights the power of pausing before speaking. They connect these practices to emotional intelligence and intentional decision-making, showing how leaders can better navigate workplace challenges. Building Emotional and Integrity Skills The discussion shifts to building emotional quotient (EQ) and beyond EQ (BQ) skills. Christy explains that BQ involves conscious integrity—making choices aligned with values and avoiding impulsive reactions that could cause regret. Michael and Christy agree that these skills are universal and essential for personal and professional growth, with Michael reflecting on his own commitment to continuous learning. Emotional Management in Professional Communications To close, Michael and Christy share strategies for handling emotions in professional communications, from pausing before responding to leveraging AI tools to streamline decision-making. Christy shares her ongoing work in conflict resolution and leadership development through her website and LinkedIn, while Michael expresses gratitude for her contributions to creating healthier workplace cultures. BIO Christy Pretzinger transformed the landscape of healthcare content creation and, along the way, transformed what it's like to work at a growing agency. As the owner and CEO of WG Content, Christy has established an industry-leading company that delivers superior content and strategy to healthcare brands nationwide. How did she do it? She intentionally focused on building the business based on kindness. And that approach has proven to be good for people and the bottom line. Over time, Christy discovered her true calling: to create a workplace that nurtures personal and professional growth — and help other leaders do the same. She's a popular guest speaker for events and podcasts, always ready to guide audiences on how to grow leaders and build inclusive workplaces. She's been featured on numerous podcasts, including From Founder to CEO, Her Million Dollar My$tery, Lead Like a Woman and Smart Business Revolution. See for yourself how Christy is reinventing how businesses evaluate effective leadership, how employees can contribute to success and how everyone can win — if you start with kindness. Website: https://wgcontent.com/  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/christypretzinger

If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma QuizThe holidays can feel like a beautiful mess of magic and misery.Why does this season brings up so many big feelings, from excitement to dread? I've lived on both ends of that spectrum. I've been the person who hated Christmas for years and the mom who soaks up the magic with her kids, and both of those versions of me are sitting at this table in this episode. We're going to strip things back to what actually matters so this time of year doesn't steamroll you.Holiday burnout shows up fast when you overbook yourself, overcomplicate everything, and forget that you're allowed to say no. Simple, deliberate choices around your time, your energy, and your expectations can turn this from a season of dread into something softer and more grounded.You'll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[02:41] Why holiday emotions feel so intense when excitement and dread collide[06:58] How past experiences shape the way you move through this season now[11:36] What happens when simplicity becomes your strongest antidote to burnout[15:22] The reason saying no creates more peace than overfilling your calendar[18:47] How tiny moments of stillness can reset your nervous system fast[21:33] Why gratitude shifts your biochemistry and softens the emotional load[24:59] What changes when random acts of kindness anchor you back into connection[28:14] How choosing presence over perfection transforms the entire holiday experienceFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:20 min Free Call | BookDr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

In this episode, we're talking about the two lessons hidden inside every moment of vulnerability — what it teaches you about yourself and what it reveals about other people when they witness you in a real way.If this work speaks to you, start with the two prerequisite mini-programs that prepare you for what's coming next:Elevated EQ and The Threshold — available here: https://www.macierenae.com/mini-coaching-programs.htmlSupport the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

When life hits hard, whether it's a relationship shift, grief, stress, or uncertainty, your nervous system reacts before your mind can catch up. In this episode, you'll learn the two emotional skills that steady you no matter what you're facing. Discover how to pause, ground, interrupt old patterns, and rise with clarity instead of panic. These tools change how you respond, recover, and move forward.

We're diving into the art of not completely losing it after a breakup. Emotional regulation isn't always glamorous, but it is the difference between healing with dignity… and sending your ex a novel at 2 a.m.Breakups bring big feelings, and without some structure, those feelings can spiral into shame and more overwhelm. It becomes a loop that's hard to climb out of. So lets avoid that shall we?Today, we're breaking down the four key principles of emotional regulation. Let's unlearn.Socials, Programs & More from Unlearn with Louisa⁠https://linktr.ee/unlearnwithlouisa⁠Coaching Questions & Enquiriescoaching@unlearnwithlouisa.comPodcast Questions & Enquiriespodcast@unlearnwithlouisa.com

Send us a textHave you ever walked into a holiday gathering with a smile on your face and a knot in your stomach? You're passing the potatoes, making small talk, and meanwhile you're sitting on years of unspoken hurt, unresolved conversations, and roles you never quite chose but still end up playing.In this episode of Love Shack Live, we're talking directly to you if your relationship (or family dynamics) already feel shaky and the holidays crank everything up to a ten. We'll unpack why this season doesn't create conflict, it magnifies what's been left unresolved... old wounds, family roles, people pleasing, anxious attachment, and the “keep the peace at all costs” habits that quietly erode connection.Inside, we explore:What conflict actually is: the collision between our expectations and realityHow people pleasing and staying “nice” often keeps you stuck in illusion instead of realityWhy unresolved tension turns tiny comments into huge reactions around the tableWhat it really means to emotionally regulate (and why it's more like holding a plank than being perfectly calm)How to see conflict as information, not danger, so you can respond instead of explode or shut downOur “holiday decoder” for common one-liners (“Let's just keep it simple this year,” “Let's not talk about politics,” etc.) and what's really being said underneathIf you're tired of dreading gatherings, biting your tongue, or blowing up and then regretting it, this conversation will help you start seeing conflict differently – as a doorway to clarity instead of a sign that everything's falling apart.Want extra support this holiday season?If things already feel tense or overwhelming, the Holiday Survival Bundle gives you the tools to steady yourself fast.For $97 or 2 payments of $55, you'll get:The Holiday Stress Test to pinpoint your exact pressure pointsThree core relationship skill programs to help you:regulate your emotionscommunicate without blowupsstay connected during the hardest weeks of the yearThese tools are simple, fast to use, and made for real-life holiday chaos.Get the bundle here: https://stacibartley.com/holiday-bundle-ncTimestamps: 02:09 Unresolved History and Family Roles06:18 Understanding Conflict: Expectations vs. Reality10:08 The Illusion of People Pleasing12:36 Emotional Regulation and Communication14:54 Practical Examples and Skills for Conflict Resolution21:08 The Importance of Emotional Tension25:33 Recognizing the Precipice: Taking a Pause25:52 The Power of Movement: Shake a Bush26:11 Emotional Regulation in Relationships28:49 Understanding Conflict and Chaos33:25 Navigating Holiday Stress35:37 Introducing the Holiday Survival Bundle38:20 Fan Mail and Listener Questions41:20 Holiday Conversation Decoder Challenge45:13 Final Thoughts and Resources

What if the way your needs were met in infancy still shapes your ability to feel safe, seen, and supported today?Welcome to the end-of-year challenge: The Return to Magic. Today, Lacy, Jessica, and EMDR-certified LMFT Janelle dive deep into the foundation of all manifestation work: your earliest subconscious blueprint set in childhood. This episode explores the powerful programming from ages zero to 18 months. It's a period most people don't remember, but it's when your soul touched down into your human body—and profoundly shapes who you are today. This early stage is where safety, secure relationships, and boundaries are formed, and Janelle helps us understand how the presence (or absence) of these things can leave us feeling out of balance.This conversation is a reminder that our TBM practice is here to bring us back to our most whole selves. We are not destined to stay stuck in old patterns or loops that don't serve us. We can start from the very beginning and manifest the lives we're meant to embody. This is the work that changes everything. It's time to return to your magic.Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Big End of Year SALE - 30% off Annual and Monthly Subscriptions Return to Magic - 15 Day Manifestation ChallengeA 15-day guided journey to reparent your inner child, reconnect with your magic, and step into this new year as your most confident, regulated, and magnetic self yet. Join our membership to access! (pre-week Dec 1st, kickoff Dec 8th!) The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin us at the How To Manifest Speaking Tour - LA 12/6 (Early Bird Discount available) Join our HTM Book Club! Walk step by step through the TBM Manifestation Process with Lacy and Jessica as we read HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips Join the Pathway now - NEW End of Year Challenge launching Dec 1st! Big End of Year SALE - 30% off New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what's holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Money Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: ARMRA - Use code TBM for 15% off Colostrum: Immune Revival - Immune barrier superfood  Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit In this episode we talk about:The real reason your manifestations feel stuck — and how early unmet needs are the causeWhy the most formative manifestation blueprint is set between 0–18 monthsThe power of skin-to-skin contact and early co-regulation with caregiversHealing the nervous system through somatic reparenting and new DI'sHow trauma from inconsistency or neglect creates current-day self-worth blocksCreating secure attachment with the universe — the TBM method's deeper layerReclaiming trust, touch, routine, and reliability through new subconscious experiencesOverwriting your origin story through the reparenting processWhy boundaries, autonomy, and safe exploration matter so deeplyReleasing perfectionism, people-pleasing, and rebellion patterns from toddler yearsRediscovering intuition, creativity, and authenticity buried beneath early shameHow to self-soothe as an adult by attuning to your inner child's unmet needsRecognizing that your inner child is your spiritual guide back to wholenessMentioned In the Episode: Expanded x Ep. 383 - The Return to Magic: How to Cut Through the Noise and Get Your Spark BackExpanded x Ep. 186 - The Difference Between Fear & Intuition with Taylor Paige - Angel Reader & Intuitive242 Manifestation Blocks, Navigating The Unknown, And Creating Our Most Magical Lives with Jessica Gill of TBMJoin our HTM Book Club! Walk step by step through the TBM Manifestation Process with Lacy and Jessica as we read HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips Find our Money Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Shadow DI, Safe DI, and Purpose & Soul's Essence DI) Join us at the How To Manifest Book Tour!LA 12/6Limited VIP & Early Bird Discount available HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Pre-Order NOW The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM's Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we've redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you'll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you're meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast

If you lean anxious in relationships, this one's for you.I see it all the time—guys who crave closeness so much that they choke the relationship. You text too much, talk too much, try too hard to keep things “good.” But that desperate energy ends up pushing her away.I'll show you what's really happening under the surface—why your attachment system freaks out when she pulls away, and how to stop feeding that panic. You'll learn how to regulate yourself, stop chasing reassurance, and build the kind of calm confidence that actually creates attraction.If you want more depth, grab my book The Dead Bedroom Fix or check out The Brotherhood, our private men's community with live meetings, courses, and 1,000+ hours of member-only content:

Send us a textWelcome to The Zeepy Sleep Podcast: Calming Bedtime Stories for Kids, a gentle preschool bedtime podcast designed to make evenings feel softer for tired families.  In The Branch That Learned to Let Go, Slumber the Sloth discovers a golden leaf still clinging to its branch as autumn ends. Through patient conversation and heartfelt wisdom, Slumber helps both branch and leaf understand that letting go isn't about loss — it's about making space for rest, dreams, and new beginnings. This tender sleep story for kids teaches that change is safe, natural, and part of something beautiful.

Growing up with divorced parents or a dysfunctional family does not just shape your childhood. It shapes your nervous system. Many young people from broken homes live with chronic anxiety, shutdown, emotional overwhelm, or conflict avoidance without ever knowing why.In this episode, Sr. Mary Stephen explains how childhood chaos trains your brain and body to stay on high alert and how to finally regulate your emotions instead of feeling controlled by them. You will learn simple, practical tools to calm your nervous system, process stored trauma, build internal safety, and integrate all of this with your spiritual life.In this episode:Why your body still reacts like your parents are fightingHow trauma gets stored in the nervous systemFight, flight, freeze, and shutdown explainedWhy talk therapy is not enough for many children of divorceSomatic exercises you can start using todayHow to feel safe, grounded, and present againIf you're tired of feeling anxious, reactive, or stuck because of your family's dysfunction, this episode is for you.Visit RestorativeCatholic.comGet the Guide: 5 Tips to Navigate the Holidays in a Broken FamilyWatch the Documentary: KennyWatch the Trailer: Kenny (3:31 min)Get Dakota's FREE Guide, The Biggest Fitness Mistakes to AvoidShownotesQuestion for Joey or our guests? Text us. We'll answer on the show as soon as we're able. You can be anonymous if you'd like!

Does parenting sometimes feel overwhelming or chaotic? In this episode, Dr Chris Willard shares how mindfulness, humor, and small daily practices can shift the tone of your home and build resilience for kids. He explains why calm begins with you and how presence matters more than perfection. Listen now to discover one simple shift that can bring more peace and connection into your family life.What to expect in this episode:Dr Chris Willard's journey with ADHD, sobriety, and mindfulnessMindfulness as play, humor, movement, and creativityHow a few breaths can calm the body and sharpen focusWhy parent regulation shapes child regulationSimple daily tools to reset stress and restore connectionAbout Christopher Willard, PsyDDr. Christopher is a clinical psychologist, author, and consultant based in Massachusetts. He teaches at Harvard Medical School and has shared his expertise on mindfulness and mental health in over forty countries, including two TEDx events. Dr. Willard is the author of twenty books, such as Alphabreaths (2019), Growing Up Mindful (2016), Feelings Are Like Farts (2023), and College Mental Health 101 (2025). His work has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, mindful.org, CNN.com, and many other outlets.  Connect with Dr. ChristopherWebsite: Dr. Christopher Willard Instagram: @drchriswillardRelated Links: Helping Young Adults Get Back On Track https://impactparents.com/helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track The Power of Good Enough: Progress Over Perfection https://impactparents.com/the-power-of-good-enough-progress-over-perfectionSimplifying Mindfulness (and How to Start Small) https://impactparents.com/simplifying-mindfulness-and-how-to-start-small Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/fun-simple-mindfulness-for-adhd-families-with-dr.-chris-willard Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

In part three, Professor Marc Brackett and Dr Alex George discuss how to manage emotions in your relationships and why it's never too late to cultivate your emotional intelligence skills…Plus, Marc explains why emotional regulation is more than meditation and breathwork and shares some helpful advice for not getting lost in your feelings.Follow @marc.brackett and check out his latest book Dealing with Feeling: Harness Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want. By using our affiliate bookshop you'll help fund Stompcast by earning a small commission for every sale. Bookshop.org's fees help support independent bookshops too!Order Alex's latest book Happy Habits - out now! Follow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastGet the new, pocket guide version of The Mind Manual nowDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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In this episode, I sit down with David—a long-time FOCUSED member turned coach—to talk about what it really looks like to work in tech with an ADHD brain. David shares how he found his way into the tech world, the challenges he faced behind the scenes, and the systems he built to survive (and eventually thrive).We explore:The hardest parts of tech culture for an ADHDerThe moments where David's brain said, “Nope,” and how he recoveredThe tools, structures, and hacks that actually work for himWhy traditional productivity advice falls flat for ADHDers in high-pressure tech rolesHow he transformed the way he works, thinks, and leads—through coaching and communityYou'll also hear a bit about his move from England to the U.S., how cultural differences shaped his ADHD experience, and how stepping into a coaching role helped him grow in unexpected ways.Watch this episode on YouTubeWant help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED!Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTokSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma QuizWhat is the thing that broke you down, is actually the process of building you up?This episode dives into the wild arc of a CFB season that went from devastating loss to an unstoppable surge. I walk through the emotional undercurrent of that turning point and the raw, uncomfortable honesty that cracked something open. No guests here, just a story pulled straight from lived experience and what unfolded inside a team I've followed for years.A strong foundation becomes the reason you don't collapse when everything hits at once. Responsibility forces a reckoning when pretending no longer works. Accountability turns into self-leadership the moment you're willing to say this isn't working and it's on me. Belief becomes non-negotiable when the ground moves and you need something bigger than your own effort to keep going.Press play and feel what shifts when resilience stops being theory and starts being lived.You'll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[03:14] Why one painful loss can expose the exact moment you've drifted from your core identity[05:47] How emotional awareness turns frustration into a deeper understanding of what's actually driving your reactions[07:32] The surprising shift that happens when belief and spirituality start strengthening the emotional fabric of a group[09:18] What erupts when honesty finally outweighs ego in a room full of people who can't afford to pretend anymore[10:41] The reason surrender becomes more powerful than strategy when control keeps collapsing on itself[12:26] How accountability reignites momentum after a setback that could've fractured everything[15:03] Why a brick-by-brick foundation becomes the thing that holds you steady when plans fall apart and pressure spikes[22:14] What happens inside your nervous system when resilience finally shows up the way it did for Christie[26:52] The reason self-leadership begins the moment you can say this isn't working and my part in it matters[28:47] How belief in yourself and a higher power becomes the anchor when life pushes you past your limitsFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:20 min Free Call | BookDr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

Dr. Laura welcomes Dr. Shahana Alibhai, a TEDx speaker, bestselling author, family physician, and medical director of The Foundry Abbotsford, to the show to talk about her book, Feel Better, and the need for more focus on mental health, especially for youth. Dr. Shahana points out that medicine is very focused on illness, on diagnosing disease and offering treatment, whereas mental health requires holding space for belonging, acceptance, and mattering. She and Dr. Laura explore what it takes to navigate emotions and thrive in life.The proceeds from Dr. Shahana's book sales go to support youth mental health agencies, and she drew on her own experiences with postpartum OCD and the reluctance she felt, as a physician, to seek professional help. Dr. Shahana and Dr. Laura explore the coping mechanisms we turn to and whether they're useful long-term, the benefits of being open about our emotional states, and the lessons in Feel Better. Dr. Shahana likens understanding others to envisioning an invisible chalkboard above them listing what's really going on in their lives, the parts we don't automatically see. This is a beautifully authentic conversation that sheds light on the reality of what emotional struggle is, how to cope with stress and anxiety, and how to prolong the joy we seek.“Does it come as a friend and leave as a friend, or does it come as a friend and leave as an enemy? … Vaping, substances, alcohol, the list goes on and on. Comes as a friend. Of course it works. It works oftentimes. Leaves as an enemy. It takes more from you than you want.” - Dr. Shahana AlibhaiAbout Dr. Shanana Alibhai:TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and powerhouse in the field of emotional health. As a dedicated family physician and Medical Director at Foundry Abbotsford—British Columbia's largest youth health centre—Dr. Shahana has made it her mission to empower others with the tools to navigate their emotional well-being.Her debut book, Feel Better, endorsed by the legendary Mel Robbins, soared to #1 in and Parenting on Amazon. A sought-after speaker, she has worked with top organizations like Yale University, UBC, Scotiabank, and Remax, bringing clarity to the crucial connection between emotional and mental health.Dr. Shahana's insights have captivated audiences on major media platforms, including CTV and Global, and her wisdom has even made it to Hollywood—the quote, “We do not suffer from a lack of joy, simply a lack of recognizing it”, was handpicked for an award-winning planner gifted to celebrities at the Oscars. She has also been featured in Medium - Authority Magazine, where she shared her expertise on emotional resilience and well-being. In recognition of her impact, she has been nominated for the prestigious 2025 YWCA Women of Distinction Award.Passionate about education and outreach, she created the groundbreaking "Think Like a Doc" program, where students step into the shoes of a physician, learning about both their physical and mental health. She has also contributed to global mental health initiatives, volunteering her time to support communities in developing nations like Nepal.Beyond her work in medicine and advocacy, Dr. Shahana is a proud mom to three energetic young boys who keep her on her toes and continuously teach her the true meaning of patience, resilience, and joy. Balancing a thriving career with the beautiful chaos of motherhood, she brings a refreshingly real and relatable perspective to her audiences.When she's not on stage, in the clinic, or chasing after her little ones, Dr. Shahana serves as a National Accreditor for the College of Canadian Family Physicians and has been a mentor in the UBC Faculty of Medicine Residency Training Program. Her TEDx talk, "Emotional Literacy for Better Mental Health", has resonated with thousands, cementing her as a leading voice in the space of well-being and resilience.With a unique ability to blend science, storytelling, and real-world strategies, Dr. Shahana leaves every audience inspired, informed, and ready to feel better. Resources:Website: DrShahana.comLinkedInYouTubeInstagramBook: “Feel Better” by Dr. Shahana Alibhai, MD Learn more about Dr. Laura on her website: https://drlaura.live“I Wish I'd Quit Sooner:  Pre-orders: Practical Strategies for Navigating and Escaping a Toxic Boss” by Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett - Pre-orders and AmazonFor more resources, look into Dr. Laura's organizations: Canada Career CounsellingSynthesis Psychology Pre-order Dr. Laura's new book today: I Wish I'd Quit Sooner: Practical Strategies for Navigating a Toxic Boss Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In today's episode I am teaching you a short snippet of content I share in one of my mini-programs, Elevated EQ: Your Self Concept Blueprint. We talk about a visual I give my clients when it comes to nailing down their self-concept, how to think about the process, and why it matters long term!If you have missed Elevated EQ: Your Self Concept Blueprint or The Threshold, you can sign up here by DECEMBER 12th, 2025. Can't wait to help you!Support the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

This hour, Marc Brackett, founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, talks about why managing our emotions might be the most important skill we ever learn.Support the show: http://wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Andrew Poles is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and ultra-endurance athlete dedicated to helping visionary founders scale their businesses without burning out.With 20+ years of experience, Andrew has coached over 10,000 leaders from companies like NASA, Dell, Schwab, Epic Games, and Netflix. After leading and turning around multi-million-dollar businesses, he left the corporate world to launch his coaching practice—hitting six figures in six weeks and doubling year over year since.Andrew's approach blends neuroscience, leadership psychology, and storytelling, helping first-time founders navigate the leap from individual contributor to visionary CEO.As an ultra-endurance athlete, Andrew also understands high performance on a whole different level—training for and completing the grueling Telluride 100 Mountain Bike Race at 10,000 feet elevation. His upcoming book explores what endurance sports teach about leadership, mindset, and breaking past self-imposed limits.SHOWNOTES:

Send us a textIn this deeply moving episode, Joey Pinz sits down with Erica Bonham, a trauma recovery therapist, EMDR clinician, and author of Always Enough, Never Done. Together, they explore how healing doesn't happen through willpower or “positive thinking”—it begins in the body.Erica reveals the difference between “big T” and “little t” trauma, how experiences get stored in the nervous system, and why self-compassion is a biological necessity, not a luxury. She opens up about her own story of adoption, identity, and transformation—showing that what breaks us can also become the soil for growth.You'll learn how to calm your body's alarm system, regulate your vagus nerve, and approach personal change with both structure and softness. Erica and Joey discuss how modern society confuses discipline with punishment, and how true strength comes from balance, not burnout.

Today we're talking about romanticizing your life in a way that actually shifts how you feel—without forcing it, faking it, or making life look perfect. Think: more presence, more softness, more intention, and more self-connection in the moments you'd normally overlook.Have a question or need one of the Black Friday codes? Email me at coaching@macierenae.comBlack Friday Codes:BF25 for 25% off the Miami Retreat (Pay-in-Full)BF500 for $500 off private coaching (Pay-in-Full) Email me if you need the payment-plan codes for either offer.Grab the mini programs here: https://www.macierenae.com/mini-coaching-programs.htmlSupport the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

In this episode, I'm sharing the ONE question I use every time I feel myself getting spun up, defensive, or swept away by a story my mind is creating: “What else could be true here?” It's a simple question, but it pulls you out of ego, helps you regulate your nervous system, and brings you back into compassion, clarity, and grounded self-leadership. If you've ever had a moment ruin your whole day—or your relationships—this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air.If you have questions, want support, or are interested in my Black Friday offers, you can always reach me directly at coaching@macierenae.comSupport the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

Discover how to keep your peace when people push your buttons. This episode explores why certain personalities trigger you and how to regulate your nervous system, set healthy boundaries and stay grounded with family, at work and during the holidays. Listen to an insightful, relatable and empowering go-to guide and reclaim your clarity, calm and emotional freedom.

We discuss three phases of emotional regulation learned through how we deodorize our car! If you want to reduce your psychological pain, regain your purpose and forge your own path, go to www.thrivewithleo.com to begin your journey.If you or anyone you know is considering suicide or self-harm, or is anxious, depressed, upset, or needs to talk, there are people who want to help:In the US: Crisis Text Line: Text CRISIS to 741741 for free, confidential crisis counseling. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 or 988The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386Outside the US:International Association for Suicide Prevention lists a number of suicide hotlines by country. Click here to find them.

In this episode, we talk about the real difference between support and emotional labor—and why so many women slip into carrying more than they were ever meant to hold. If you've ever felt drained by a one-sided friendship or found yourself being the “strong one” for everyone else, this will give you clarity, language, and a way forward. Have a Black Friday Discount question or need the discount code? You can reach me anytime at coaching@macierenae.comBlack Friday Specials END NOV 29th, 2025.Support the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching

Holiday gatherings can be joyful, but they can also stir up anxiety, conflict, or emotional pain—especially with complicated relationships or unresolved family history. In this episode, learn how to prepare your heart and mind before stepping into challenging holiday situations so you can show up with peace, strength, and wisdom. Discover three biblical and practical tools that protect your emotional wellbeing during the holidays: healthy boundaries, emotional fitness, and the A.D.D. method for processing emotions with God. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [01:00] Why Your Responsibility Isn't to Fix People—But to Show Up Healthy [04:00] Tool #1: Healthy Boundaries — Your First Line of Emotional Protection [14:00] Tool #2: Emotional Fitness — Taking Responsibility for Your Thoughts [17:00] What Does It Mean to “Get Off the Mat” and Take Action? [19:00] How to Decide What Thoughts You Will Let “Land” [21:00] When Are We Creating Our Own Drama or Overreacting? [23:30] When Victim Thinking Keeps Us Stuck [28:00] Tool #3: The A.D.D. Method — Acknowledge, Discern, Decide [33:00] Using A.D.D. Proactively or After an Emotional Trigger  2026 SAN DIEGO BEACH RETREAT: Join Alicia in Feb 2026 in San Diego for this all-inclusive, 5-day experience for Christian women seeking deep soul rest at the beach (virtual options available).  RELATED EPISODES: Boundary + Responsibility Episodes Ep. 327 — Is It Time to Set a Boundary? My Favorite Tool to Set Boundaries in a Loving Way Ep. 326 — A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Ep. 282 — Emotional Responsibility: How to Stop Owning Other People's Feelings Emotional Fitness Episodes Ep. 304 — Get Off the Mat + What Thoughts Will You Let Land? Ep. 305 — Procrastination, Complaining, Victim Thinking A.D.D. Emotional Processing Episodes Ep. 286 — Emotional Confidence Through Holiday Stress Ep. 277–279 — A.D.D. Breakdown Series Ep. 204 — 6 Questions to Ask When Emotions Feel Overwhelming Send us a text

In this episode I share how I finally overcame decades of chronic stress. You will learn what stress really is on both a biological and psychological level, how your mindset shapes your stress response, and how simple tools can shift you out of fight or flight and into clarity. I also break down the neuroscience of stress, the power of stress mindset theory, and why belief in your capacity to cope matters more than you think. This episode will teach you how to create space between stimulus and response, regulate your nervous system in the moment, and rewire your identity as someone who can handle stress.What You Will LearnHow the brain and body respond to stressWhy mindset affects your biologyThe difference between stress as danger and stress as activationHow to regulate your nervous system quicklyA simple three step framework to interrupt chronic stressHow to build belief in your ability to handle challengesHow to lower your overall stress waterline and expand your capacity

Ever feel like life is just one long loop of chores, errands, work, dinner, repeat?

Let's talk about neediness — what it really is, where it comes from, and how to stop letting it ruin your relationships.Neediness isn't about “having needs.” It's about trying to make one specific person fix your emotional state on demand. That's not love — that's panic.I'll walk you through what's actually happening inside your nervous system when you feel desperate for someone's attention or affection… and how to train yourself to stay calm, confident, and grounded instead.We'll cover:The difference between connection and controlHow “emotional hunger” tricks you into chasing validationThe 90-second anti-neediness drill you can do anytimeWhy secure men build multiple emotional pillarsHow to stop confusing gratitude with entitlementAnd why self-respect kills desperationIf this one hits home, grab a copy of my book REBUILD – The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man at https://readrebuild.com, and join our Brotherhood of men doing this work together at https://helpformen.com/join.

Send us a textIn this episode, I sit down with Jim Marshall, a polymath, Human Development Engineer, and the creator of Septemics: Hierarchies of Human Phenomena. Jim has devoted over 50,000 hours to studying human potential, consciousness, and the patterns that shape how we think, respond, and navigate our lives.We got into the origin of Septemics, how Jim discovered 35 natural scales of human behavior, and why most of our challenges come from misunderstanding people which is including ourselves.This conversation is basically a masterclass in self-awareness, perception, emotional regulation, and the power of understanding human behavior through a structured lens.We also talk about meditation, childhood experiences, reactions vs. responses, and what it means to rise through awareness instead of habit.If you've ever wondered why you react the way you do… or why people around you seem to live by patterns you can't explain… this episode is going to open your mind in the best way.What You'll Learn:How Jim discovered Septemics after decades of studying human behaviorWhy awareness always comes before reactionHow meditation deepens emotional regulationWhat it means to “engineer” human developmentThe 35 scales and how they help you understand yourself and othersHow patterns show up in communication, relationships, leadership, and conflictWhy growth is not about being better — but being more awareHow to stop reacting from old programmingHow to begin choosing from consciousness instead of impulseConnect with Jim Marshall:Website: https://septemics.com LinkedIn: Jim Marshall X/Twitter: @Jim__MarshallJoin the Conversation ⬇️If you want to go deeper into awareness, communication, mindset, and subconscious change, join the Voice & Vision Collective on Skool.We're building powerful conversations and connections there.Support the showRegister for the next cohort of NLP Certification Training with Metafit Metamind Academy! https://metafitmetamind.com/certified/ Check out our YouTube Channel!Metafit Metamind con KarlaGive us 5⭐ & Review! Follow @metafitmetamindpodcast @coachkarlita @HERanimeuniverse CONNECT with Me!

Over the past decade, families have been feeling the pressure more than ever. From social media and constant screen time to the shared stress of the global pandemic and rising expectations for both parents and kids — it's easy to feel disconnected and overwhelmed. In this episode, we explore how families can navigate these challenges, reduce stress, and build stronger, more connected relationships at home.In this episode Ronnie and Janine discuss:The shifts which family have faced causing stress and anxiety in familyWhat connectivity can look like in your familyEffective coping strategies for teenagersThe power of naming feelingsHow to be a thermostat and not a thermometer in your homeMaking time to do the things that you love for your own self-careThe Mood Tools and the work Ronnie doesCoping strategies that Ronnie usesAnd remember, do not forget about yourself, take a few minutes for you and have a little fun!About The Guest - Veronica “Ronnie” VehementeVeronica “Ronnie" Vehemente, LCSW, is a Psychotherapist, founder of The Family Room, a unique psychotherapy practice, focused on the challenges of parenting, marriage & family life, and social worker for Mood, a non-profit that aims to empower tweens and teens to manage their intense and confusing feelings, with effective, simple tools to build long-term emotional resilience. Ronnie brings to Mood her deep understanding of teen psychology to help boost Mood content and outreach.Website - www.mood.orgInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/themoodtools/Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themoodtoolsLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/themoodtoolsFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/themoodtools/About The Host - Janine HalloranJanine Halloran is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, an author, a speaker, an entrepreneur and a mom. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Janine has been working primarily with children, adolescents, and their families for over 20 years. She is the Founder of 'Coping Skills for Kids', where she creates products and resources to help kids learn to cope with their feelings in safe and healthy ways. Janine also founded 'Encourage Play' which dedicated to helping kids learn and practice social skills in the most natural way - through play!If you're interested in learning more about how to teach kids coping skills, download your free Coping Skills Toolkit:https://copingskillsforkids.com/newsletterThe Coping Skills Hub has everything you need to teach kids coping skills, learn more at https://copingskillsforkids.com/hubIf you'd like to purchase Janine's products, including the Coping Skills for Kids Workbook, Coping Skills for Teens Workbook, Social Skills for Kids Workbook, Coping Cue Cards, and more, visit https://store.copingskillsforkids.com or https://amazon.com/copingskillsforkidsConnect with Janine on Social MediaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/janinehalloranlmhcInstagram @janine_halloran and @copingskillsforkidsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JanineHalloranLMHCPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/encourageplay/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janine-halloran-43787b7b/

Ever tried to think your way out of a feeling?You read the books, have the talks, highlight every chapter on jealousy and self-regulation… and your nervous system just shrugs and says, “That's cute, I'm still panicking.”This week on Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm getting real about the hilarious (and exhausting) ways we try to outsmart our emotions, and why logic doesn't work when your body doesn't feel safe.In this solo episode, I share my own “self-help fails,” the moment I realized you can't out-think a trauma response, and what actually does help when jealousy, anxiety, or insecurity hit hard in non-monogamous relationships.We'll talk about what it means to stop fixing and start feeling, to breathe, laugh, and build emotional safety in real time, one micro-moment at a time.What You'll LearnWhy jealousy in polyamory is a nervous system response, not a logic problem.How overthinking and self-help spirals fuel relationship anxiety in non-monogamy.The mind-body disconnect that happens during triggers in open relationships.Simple nervous system regulation tools that actually help with jealousy and insecurity.How laughter and self-compassion reduce emotional overwhelm in polyamorous dynamics.How to use body-based honesty to communicate needs and build trust with partners.Send us a textSupport the show

Reduce speaking anxiety and achieve your communication goals.“There's no difference between the physiological response to something that you're excited about and something that you're nervous about or dreading,” says Andrew Huberman, associate professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford University.In this Think Fast Talk Smart Rethinks episode, we revisit one of our most popular interviews. In it, Huberman, from the wildly popular Huberman Lab Podcast, shares his research on the autonomic continuum, a spectrum between states of high alertness or fear all the way down to deep sleep, and shares how to use the system to your advantage. “If people can conceptualize that the anxiety or stress response is the same as the excitement response, they feel different,” Huberman says.Episode Reference Links:Andrew HubermanEp.33 Hacking your Speaking Anxiety: How Lessons from Neuroscience Can Help You Communicate Confidently Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:50) - Stress & the Autonomic Continuum (04:58) - Controlling Alertness & Calmness (08:47) - Movement & Audience Perception (11:12) - Eye Movements for Anxiety Reduction (13:32) - Two Approaches to Managing Stress (18:16) - Preparing for Stress in Advance (20:18) - Effective Virtual Communication (22:20) - The Final Three Questions (27:28) - Conclusion   ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smart

In Episode 329 You Will Discover: Core reasons why ADHD brains are more prone to people-pleasing How to start a People-Pleasing Inventory to notice your patterns without judgment Simple reflection questions to help you recognize who, when, and why you overcommit Work With Me:

Educator and author Erin Waters joins Shannon and Mary to discuss supporting the whole child through Social-Emotional Learning (SEL). Erin shares her teaching journey and highlights the crucial connection between SEL & literacy development—because our students aren't just learning to read; they're learning who they are. They explore what SEL looks like in real classrooms: morning meetings that build community, read-alouds that spark emotional awareness, and simple coping strategies that help students manage anxiety and stress. The discussion also acknowledges the lasting impact of the digital age and the COVID-19 pandemic on students' social-emotional well-being, as more children than ever are navigating big feelings.Erin introduces her book Wally Is Worried as a relatable resource for helping children understand and express their emotions. Listeners will walk away with practical tools, recommended texts, and encouragement to make SEL an intentional part of everyday literacy instruction.01:40 Special Guest: Erin Waters on SEL03:06 Defining SEL and Its Importance06:03 Real-World SEL Classroom Experiences11:41 Impact of Digital Age on SEL16:18 Post-COVID SEL Challenges21:43 Coping Mechanisms and Solutions39:16 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRECOMMENDED RESOURCES RELEVANT TO THE EPISODE:Wally is Worried by Erin Waters  *Amazon affiliate linkOur engagement episodeOur technology episodeBook list with SEL topics, curated by Love Grows LearningBig Little Feelings blogNEA (National Education Association):  SEL ResourcesReading Rockets:  Classroom Strategies that Support SELReading with Relevance:   a CASEL-certified SEL supplemental programCASEL.orgCentervention:   95 Social Emotional Learning ActivitiesIntegrating SEL Into Your Reading Block Children's Institute:   SEL Resources and ToolsErin Waters' websiteConnect with Erin via IGSupport the show Get Literacy Support through our Patreon Bonus Episodes access through your podcast app Bonus episodes access through Patreon Buy us a coffee Get a FREE Green Chef box using our link

You can be successful, confident, and unstoppable in business: and still lose your edge when it comes to love. In this episode of Habits & Hustle, I sit down with Alejandra Maria, a dating strategist and viral creator who helps ambitious women stop chasing and start leading with self-respect. We talk about what it really means to have emotional discipline, the ability to pause before reacting, to stay calm instead of proving your worth, and to walk away instead of negotiating for respect. Alejandra breaks down how “no contact” can be a power move, not a game, and why emotional diversification is the secret to staying grounded when everything feels personal. If you're the kind of woman who thrives under pressure but keeps losing your balance in relationships, this one's for you. We unpack how to bring the same clarity and control you have in business into your emotional life, without losing your softness or your power. Alejandra Maria has built a global audience of nearly a million women with her unapologetic, emotionally intelligent take on modern dating. Her insights have been featured in Newsweek, Girlboss, and more. And she's redefining what it means to be “high value” in love and life. What We Discuss: (04:10) Why high-achieving women often lose power in love (06:05) The difference between emotional discipline and emotional suppression (08:42) “You can't outwork emotional chaos”: bringing business mindset into dating (12:30) How “no contact” became the most powerful boundary you can set (18:20) Emotional diversification: spreading your energy beyond one relationship (25:14) Why confidence isn't control, it's composure (33:47) The signs you're over-functioning in relationships (42:30) How to stop chasing and start being chosen (51:12) The mindset shift from proving your worth to holding your power (58:40) How to regulate emotions like you train your body: consistency over chaos       …and more! Thank you to our sponsors: Therasage: Head over to therasage.com and use code Be Bold for 15% off  Air Doctor: Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code HUSTLE for up to $300 off and a 3-year warranty on air purifiers. Magic Mind: Head over to www.magicmind.com/jen and use code Jen at checkout. Momentous: Shop this link and use code Jen for 20% off  Manna Vitality: Visit mannavitality.com and use code JENNIFER20 for 20% off your order  Prolon: Get 30% off sitewide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program! Just visit https://prolonlife.com/JENNIFERCOHEN and use code JENNIFERCOHEN to claim your discount and your bonus gift. Amp fits is the perfect balance of tech and training, designed for people who do it all and still want to feel strong doing it. Check it out at joinamp.com/jen  Find more from Jen:  Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen   Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Find more from Alejandra Maria: Instagram: @anxiouslyalej TikTok: @anxiouslyalej Youtube: @anxiouslyalej