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Join Lisa Foster as she sits down with certified hypnotherapist and mental fitness coach Pennie Wilson for an insightful episode on emotional regulation. Together, they unpack the true essence of emotional regulation and how to remain calm enough to tap into our inner wisdom. Discover the transformative Five Pillars of Calm and gain practical, actionable strategies for navigating life's challenges with grace. Through engaging conversation and relatable examples, Lisa and Pennie dive into the complexities of motherhood and offer guidance on retraining your brain and body to respond with calm, confidence, and compassion. If you're seeking a more peaceful and balanced everyday life, this episode is a must-listen!About Pennie Wilson:Website: https://kokorocreators.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kokoro.creators/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kokorocreatorsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pennie-wilson-mental-fitness-coach/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kokorocreatorsAbout the Host:Real Life Momz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reallifemomzReal Life Momz on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reallifemomzpodcastFollow on Youtube: https://youtube.com/@reallifemomzpodcast4048?si=jj5bQ_Afhyl0ZNi7
In this deep-dive conversation, a group of experts and practitioners explore the profound messages our bodies send us and how the power of the mind can redefine physical limits. From surviving double knee replacements to the neuroscience of "mystical experiences," this episode uncovers the techniques—like breathwork, tapping, and alter egos used by elite athletes and high-level executives to achieve peak performance and healing. Key Topics Covered: · The Body's Hidden Messages: Understanding the physical sensations (like tingles or tension) that provide intuitive guidance before events happen. · Alternative Healing vs. Traditional Medicine: Why some men find more success with Chinese medicine, energy work, and meditation than standard medical interventions. · The Neuroscience of Joe Dispenza: A look into the research on brain waves (gamma), pineal gland meditation, and how people are healing "incurable" conditions. · Mastering the Vagus Nerve: Using nasal breathing and cortisol regulation to stay "cool, calm, and collected" in high-stress environments like the boxing ring or the boardroom. · The Alter Ego Effect: How adopting a "persona" (like the "Assassin") can help you transcend pain and anxiety to perform at your best. · Breathwork as a Subconscious Tool: Learning to breathe "into" tension rather than holding your breath, which can shut down higher-level thinking. Memorable Quotes: · "Our bodies have a lot of knowledge and messages, but we don't pay attention because we're men." — Speaker 3 · "I believe in defying things through the power of my will and perseverance." — Philip · "If you're getting information on that level [the body], then you get to take care of yourself because it's easy at that level. If you don't, it gets more complicated." — Ron Social links of the Guests Dr. Larry Burk - https://www.facebook.com/DrLarryBurk/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/larry-burk-62b73b23 Phil McDonald - https://www.facebook.com/phillip.j.mcdonald Alvin Law - https://alvinlaw.com/ https://www.facebook.com/alvintoeslaw/ Stephon Brown - https://www.linkedin.com/in/seth-brown-74703340/ - https://thebarstooltheories.com Dr. Ron Stotts - https://ronstotts.com/ - https://www.facebook.com/DrRonStotts/ - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNV6D59C3InwlZmpAOVls_g Social links of Doug Beitz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dougbeitz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dougbeitz/ Website: https://buymeacoffee.com/dougbeitz Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6mQ258nugC3lyw3SpvYuoK?si=7cec409527d34438 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/intuitive-conversations-with-doug/id1593172364 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/doug-beitz-472a4b338/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dougbeitz178
What if the emotions you try hardest to avoid are actually the clearest signals guiding your next best decision?If you've ever felt hijacked by anger, fear, or sadness, and then regretted what you said, did, or chose afterward, this episode shows you a different path: treating emotions as information rather than obstacles. You'll learn how to slow down the “react” impulse, understand what your body is telling you in real time, and make choices from clarity instead of old, unprocessed emotional patterns.Learn how to recognise and name what you're feeling so emotions stop staying vague, overwhelming, and controlling.Discover how breath and body awareness help you respond instead of react, especially in moments where you normally get carried away.Understand how unprocessed emotions shape your choices (often through fear and avoidance) and how to start clearing what's been stored so your decisions become freer and more aligned.Press play to learn a simple, practical way to work with emotions so you can make calmer, clearer decisions - even when life hits hard˚KEY POINTS AND TIMESTAMPS:00:02 - Introduction to Emotions as Messages01:32 - Understanding the Purpose and Nature of Emotions05:13 - Reacting vs Responding: Using Breath and Awareness12:13 - Personal Story of Anger and Conscious Emotional Response18:53 - Exploring Emotional Stories and Self-Inquiry21:51 - How Unprocessed Emotions Affect Decisions25:10 - Processing Fear Through Personal Reflection29:32 - Practical Daily Techniques: Mindfulness and Journaling33:21 - Where to Find Sophie's Work and Final Reflections˚MEMORABLE QUOTE:"Every time we react, we can choose to respond instead."˚VALUABLE RESOURCES:Sophie's website: https://www.ayuryogawithsophie.com/˚Coaching with Agi: https://personaldevelopmentmasterypodcast.com/mentor˚
Either we guide our emotions or our emotions guide us.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2936: Erica Layne shares a powerful reminder that when life feels out of control, our thoughts, not the circumstances, are what shape our emotional experience. Through a personal story about her son, she illustrates how reclaiming ownership of our thinking can transform anger into trust, compassion, and peace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ericalayne.co/feel-better-when-you-have-no-control/ Quotes to ponder: "When something happens that's out of our control, it's so easy to feel like the victim of it." "When we remember that our thoughts about the situation are entirely our own, we put power back in our hands. We have something we can influence." "There are two ways to feel better in your life: #1 is to change your circumstances, and #2 is to change how you're thinking about those circumstances."
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How do you stay calm when life gets loud and chaotic? In this mindset and personal growth episode, Jay Chase shares practical tools for emotional regulation, leadership under pressure, and protecting your peace in stressful situations.Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, or pursuing big goals, chaos is unavoidable. But peace isn't the absence of chaos — it's the ability to remain calm within it.In this episode, Jay introduces the 60-Second Reset, a simple practice designed to help you pause, breathe, and choose how you show up when stress, conflict, or pressure hits. You'll learn how to shift from chaos-driven reactions to purpose-driven leadership in everyday moments.This conversation is about strengthening your mindset discipline, protecting your emotional energy, and learning how to stay centered when life tests you.⏱ Episode Timestamps00:00 — 90-Day Personal Growth Challenge Enrollment00:34 — Staying Centered When Life Gets Loud01:35 — How to Stay Calm When Everything Feels Chaotic02:34 — Expanding Your Growth Through the 90-Day Challenge03:14 — Peace Isn't the Absence of Chaos04:47 — Why We Sometimes Choose Chaos Over Peace07:16 — Why Mindset Only Matters When You Apply It09:43 — The 60-Second Reset Framework10:26 — How to Use the Reset to Stay Calm Under Pressure10:44 — Applying the Reset in Work, Relationships & Conflict11:52 — Choosing Peace Instead of Chaos12:34 — Tracking Emotional Growth & Mindset Discipline13:38 — Jay's Personal Journey & Leadership Lessons
Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones shares thoughtful encouragement for parents who find themselves navigating big emotional moments with their daughters.When emotions run high, it's easy to feel pressure to respond perfectly—but Melissa reminds parents that perfection isn't the goal. What matters most is showing up with steadiness and allowing space for feelings to be expressed. By staying calm and present, parents help create an environment where daughters feel seen, supported, and safe to process their emotions.Tune in to discover:Why steadiness matters more than getting every response “right”How giving daughters space to feel their emotions strengthens trustThe powerful role parents play in modeling calm during emotional momentsHow emotional presence helps build resilient, lasting connectionThis episode is a gentle reminder that strong relationships are built not through perfect parenting, but through consistent compassion, patience, and the willingness to hold space for the full range of emotions.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn
Are you struggling with a panic hangover? If you've survived a sympathetic nervous system surge, you are likely experiencing an adrenaline crash that leaves you feeling "weird," exhausted, and emotionally drained. This is post-panic recovery, and today we clear the brain fog to get your day back on track.In this episode of Calming Anxiety, we use the science-backed 5-4-3-2-1 sensory grounding technique to stop dissociation and anchor you in the present. We also address the physical symptoms of air hunger by balancing your carbon dioxide levels through mindful respiration.Inside this session:The 5-4-3-2-1 Reset: A sensory guide to stop the "weird" feeling and return to the room.Affirmations for Adrenal Health: Rewire your neuro-pathways to move from 'fight or flight' toward peace.The Hormonal Link: Why women aged 20–50 should track PMS and ovulation as triggers for anxiety spikes.Recovery Tips: Why electrolytes and a 20-minute grace period are essential for your prefrontal cortex after a surge.Lower your anxiety threshold today.RESOURCES:Master your panic recovery. Join the Anxiety Circuit Breaker course at:
Manifesting, co-creating, and expanding your experience of life happens through the nervous system. Regulation is part 1, but part 2 is often missed because the teacher lacks nuance and experience. After 14 years of guiding people's bodies into safety, expansion, and peace..here's how to change, if you want to use the wisdom and guidance available in your nervous system. There is no one size fits all. Love the podcast? Leave a review, email us your thoughts, and share with your friends who are also in to dreaming big! hello@theembodiedmg.com And check out the new website...I'm obsessed. https://theembodiedmg.com Gahhhhh how was that for you?! Make sure you subscribe, follow, come say hiii on IG, and do all the things. It's an abundant and overflowing world over here so make sure you're an active part in the giving / receiving.If you love the show, if my work is of value to you please help me spread the word and leave us a 5-star review, tag me on IG when you listen, and share your fav episodes with your favorite friends. Follow on InstagramWebsiteThe Embodied MG on YouTube DISCLAIMER: all information and advice shared on UNBOUND with Caroline Herring is for entertainment purposes only.
Waiting until the last-minute panic hits to finally get things done? In this episode, Dr. Kourosh Dini explores why urgency isn't the only way to activate focus with ADHD. Learn how using pause, play, interest, and agency can replace force-based productivity with something more sustainable and self-trusting. Press play to discover a calmer, connected, and more intuitive way to engage with your work and your life. What to expect in this episode:● Why the pause helps emotions crystallize into clearer thinking and better decisions● How a one-breath “visit” can reduce avoidance and rebuild self-trust ● What PINCH motivators (play, interest, novelty, and connection) do for ADHD brains that urgency cannot● How supporting autonomy strengthens agency and authentic engagement that lasts , especially for teens and young adults About Kourosh Dini, MDDr. Kourosh helps “wandering minds” such as creatives, the anxious, and those with ADHD move from feeling like they have to force themselves to work toward engaging at their own pace while still meeting deadlines. Having navigated his own challenges with focus and productivity, he developed an approach that allows work to feel genuine, meaningful, and even playful. As a psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, musician, father, and husband, he now teaches his students and clients how to build sustainable focus rooted in agency rather than urgency. Connect with Kourosh● Website: Waves of Focus ● Instagram: @kouroshdinimd ● Podcast: Rhythms of Focus Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParents● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents Sponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods. Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
Marriage Coaching or Counseling? Alone or Together?When a marriage is in trouble, it is easy to assume that any help is better than no help or that what worked for someone else should work for you. That can lead to more frustration, more delay, and more time spent in the wrong kind of support. In this episode, Coach Jack helps you sort through whether counseling or coaching fits your situation better, and whether it makes sense to work alone or involve your spouse.What You'll Learn:How to tell whether counseling or coaching is the better fit for your current situationHow to decide if working alone or together is more likely to help your marriage move forwardHow emotional control, motivation, and learning style affect the kind of support that works bestHow to recognize when a support approach is creating progress versus keeping you stuckWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you are looking for coaching, Coach Jack has 5 custom-designed Coaching Packages from which to choose. If you are not sure where to start, consultations are also available.Key Takeaways:There is no one-size-fits-all answer for marriage help.Counseling is often the better choice when emotions make daily functioning difficult.Coaching is often the better choice when emotional control is present but clear relationship skills are missing.A spouse's motivation matters when deciding whether to work together.Session progress matters more than simply staying in the same format.Additional Resources:Therapy Beyond All Expectations, by Jack Ito PhDCoaching ServicesContact PageWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones explores why seemingly small moments can trigger big emotional reactions in girls—and how parents can respond in ways that build resilience rather than escalate the situation.Melissa explains how girls often experience emotions with great intensity, especially when they feel misunderstood, overwhelmed, or invalidated. What may appear minor to adults can feel deeply significant to a girl who is still learning how to process and regulate her emotions.Through this lens, Melissa shares how parents can shift their response from correcting the reaction to supporting the emotional experience behind it. By learning to validate feelings, offer perspective, and model calm regulation, parents can help their daughters develop the tools they need to navigate big emotions with confidence.In this episode, we discuss:Why small moments can lead to big emotional reactions in girlsHow parents can help regulate their child's emotions effectivelyThe role of validation and perspective in emotional developmentWays to support emotional resilience through everyday interactionsJoin Melissa for this insightful conversation on understanding girls' emotional worlds and helping them build the skills they need to handle life's ups and downs with strength and confidence.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn
Overpowering Emotions Podcast: Helping Children and Teens Manage Big Feels
What do you do when a child's anger shows up fast—and keeps showing up? In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline sits down with Luminara (Esther Clyne), an intuitive energy healer with 20+ years of experience supporting kids, teens, and adults through overwhelm, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation.Luminara shares why teens who struggled early often hit a wall later, and how “secure support” changes everything. You'll hear practical, school-friendly tools she teaches students (and encourages them to teach their parents), including HeartMath-inspired heart-focused attention, guided imagery for anger that builds self-compassion, and a simple grounding practice she calls “look, listen, feel” to bring attention back into the body.Educators, parents, and mental health professionals will walk away with language you can use in the classroom, at home, or in session—especially when breathing exercises don't land well for a child. This conversation is warm, real, and full of techniques you can try today.About Luminara (Esther Clyne) Luminara, also known as Esther Clyne, is an intuitive energy healer, author, and musician with over 20 years of experience supporting children, teens, and adults through trauma, overwhelm, and nervous system dysregulation. Her work blends energy awareness, body-based practices, guided visualization, and heart-focused regulation, with a strong emphasis on compassion, safety, and emotional presence.Luminara works closely with teenagers in school settings and one-on-one, drawing from both lived experience and decades of practice. She is known for translating complex emotional and nervous system concepts into language kids understand, and for teaching tools that empower young people to regulate themselves—and confidently share those tools with the adults in their lives.Homework activities for adults A) The “hand on heart” reset (60–90 seconds)Put a hand on your chest.Focus on the sensation of heart/chest warmth on the hand… then hand warmth on the chest.If you have space, slow breathing slightly and imagine breath moving through the chest. Resource: none. Best use: when your child escalates; do it before you talk.B) Anger-as-a-puppy visualization (3–5 minutes)Picture sitting in a rocking chair outdoors.Imagine holding a puppy/kitten/baby that represents anger.Offer the same soothing you'd give that creature.When it calms, bring it “back into the heart centre.” Resource: quiet corner + 3 minutes. Best use: bedtime, after school, before tough transitions.C) “Look, listen, feel” for presence (2 minutes)Look slightly up (about 20%) and fix eyes gently on one spot.Listen to sounds around you.Feel one body sensation (heart, hands, feet). Try to hold all three. When thoughts rush in, restart. Resource: none. Best use: sleep support, anxiety spirals, classroom reset.D) Proactive practice schedule (simple)Heart-focused attention: morning + night (as suggested in the episode). “Look, listen, feel”: once midday (lunch break, prep period, school pick-up). Resource: phone reminder (optional).Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/Website: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/resources/articles-child-resilience-well-being-psychology/ Business inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/
Emotional Regulation with Razia Mahomed by Radio Islam
Why beliefs can either cap our potential or push us toward possibility.What you believe about yourself could be holding you back. Fortunately, Nir Eyal says beliefs aren't truths — and you can choose new ones.Eyal is a former lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and the Stanford d.school, a celebrated author, and a renowned expert on human behavior and potential. His latest book, Beyond Belief, reveals how limiting beliefs — like “I'm a bad communicator” — quietly shape what we see, feel, and do. “A belief doesn't have to be true” to limit our potential, he says. But the same holds in reverse: a belief doesn't have to be true to expand who and what we can become. “Beliefs are tools, not truths. It just has to be useful.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Eyal and host Matt Abrahams explore how to identify the beliefs that hold us back — and how to replace them with ones that propel us forward. From keeping a belief journal to practicing perspective-shifting “turnarounds,” Eyal offers practical tips for rewriting the stories we tell ourselves and becoming the people we want to be.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Nir EyalNir's Book: Beyond Belief104. How to Change: Building Better Habits and Behaviors (And Getting Out of Your Own Way)115. Rethinks: How We Set and Achieve Goals Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:45) - The Power of Attention (04:30) - The Hook Model & Surprise (06:55) - Structure vs. Novelty (08:50) - Identity & Limiting Beliefs (11:52) - Beliefs Vs. Facts (15:17) - The Four-Question Test (21:20) - The Final Three Questions (24:31) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smartJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Some migraines don't start with food, screens, or hormones. They start with people.In this episode of Migraine Heroes Podcast, host Diane Ducarme explores a trigger that's rarely named but deeply felt: repeated boundary violations. The subtle stress of being interrupted, dismissed, pressured, or emotionally overstepped can quietly keep your nervous system on high alert… until your head pays the price.This episode unpacks why “it's not that bad” interactions can still be biologically loud for a migraine brain and what you can do to protect yourself without guilt or confrontation.In this episode, you'll learn:
Are you exhausted by your child's public meltdowns, your teenager's attitude, or your partner's sudden bad moods? What if I told you that their behavior has absolutely nothing to do with you?In this episode of the PAWsitive Choices Podcast, we're exploring the brain science and psychology behind why we get so triggered by other people's overflow. We are learning how to Q-TIP (Quit Taking It Personally) so we can stop reacting to the person and start responding to the underlying need.
In this solo episode of Shots of Serenity, we explore the quiet but powerful influence our thoughts have on the way we experience life. What happens when we become overly attached to the thoughts that pass through our minds? And how can that attachment shape our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being?In this conversation, I revisit the important relationship between thoughts, feelings, emotions, and behaviors, breaking down how these internal processes interact and influence one another. Many of us assume our thoughts are facts, but learning to observe them rather than fuse with them can transform the way we move through the world.This episode highlights the lifelong practice of catching our thoughts, responding to them with curiosity rather than judgment, and strengthening our ability to return to emotional balance more quickly when we're thrown off center.If you've ever felt stuck in a loop of overthinking, self-criticism, or intrusive thoughts, this episode offers grounding insights and compassionate reminders that your thoughts are not your identity, and that change is always possible.This is an invitation to slow down, observe your mind, and practice thinking in ways that support your healing, growth, and peace.✨ Stay Connected with Shots of Serenity ✨Thank you so much for tuning in! If today's episode resonated, please share it with someone you love and subscribe on your favorite platform — iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, or Google Play.
穩定,不是慢下來,而是內在雜訊終於停止干擾Subconscious Alignment for High-Pressure Women 潛意識表現力▷ 本集引導在開始之前,先跟著我,吐一口氣。不是為了放鬆,而是為了——讓你不用在同一秒裡,同時處理那麼多層自己。你不需要撐著聽。這一集,不是要你更努力。它只是想讓你 —— 先回到你自己。▷ 本集寫給誰如果你是一個 —— 很會想、很會分析、很會評估風險,習慣「先想清楚再行動」的人,那你最近可能會發現一件事:你不是想不清楚,你是 —— 越想,越累。你可能開始懷疑自己:是不是壓力太大?是不是需要休息?是不是哪裡又不夠好?但這一集,想帶你看一個完全不同的角度。▷ 本集核心對高表現者來說,內耗很少是性格問題。它更像是一種狀態:你的內在系統,正在同時跑著太多不相容的指令。你一邊想前進,一邊在預演風險。你一邊想停下來,一邊又在計算後果。這不是不成熟,而是你的潛意識系統,正在全速運轉。這種狀態,我們稱之為 —— 內在雜訊。▷ Season 2 的推進在 S2E03,我們談的是:情緒沒有被完成,身體就會卡住。在 S2E04,我們要再往前一步:為什麼在事情還沒發生之前,你的身體就已經開始反應?你還沒進會議,身體就緊了。你還沒做決定,腦袋就已經跑最壞情境。那不是情緒,那是潛意識在跑舊指令。這一集,不是要你停下來,而是讓你的系統 —— 先回到同一個頻率上。▷ 情緒 vs 潛意識情緒,是即時反應。潛意識,是反應背後的自動化程式。你現在不是在「處理情緒」,而是在辨識一套已經自動啟動很多年的系統。這也是為什麼,你懂很多、做過很多練習,內耗卻還是會回來。不是你沒學會,而是你已經走到下一層了。▷ Somatic Practice|潛意識降噪這不是療癒,也不是回憶。只是,讓雜訊小一點。當雜訊下降,你會發現 —— 清楚,反而自然出現。▷ 本集不是要你「立刻變安靜」如果你聽完有一點點鬆,很好。但你也可能發現,回到生活後,那些聲音還是會回來。這不是失敗,而是因為 —— 內耗不是靠意志力停止的。▷ 為什麼「降噪」不是一個人完成的潛意識的指令,是在關係與環境中形成的,也很難在完全孤立的狀態下被更新。你不是需要更多方法,而是需要一個不再觸發舊指令的場域。▷ Work with LolaApply for The Lola System™ 90https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口,為「準備好真正改變,但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite|https://lolalinocean.comInstagram|https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalinLinkedIn|https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin
Practical insights to help you communicate with more intention in everyday moments.What's the difference between reacting and responding? How do you move from memorizing your words to truly conversing in the moment? And how do you keep growing as a communicator in everyday moments?Communication isn't about having the perfect script. It's about staying present enough to respond with intention. In fast-moving conversations, emotions rise, thoughts race, and structure can disappear. Yet it's in the pause — the breath before we speak — that clarity begins.In this Ask Matt Anything episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Matt Abrahams shares highlights from a recent live AMA inside the Think Fast, Talk Smart Learning Community. Listener questions open the door to practical strategies for navigating emotional conversations, relying on structure rather than memorization, and building communication habits that actually stick. Because becoming a better communicator isn't about getting it perfect — it's about making small, intentional choices every day.Episode Reference Links:Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:31) - From Reacting to Responding (04:25) - Memorization vs. Spontaneous Speaking (09:35) - Growing Vocabulary (13:34) - Asking for Better Feedback (17:28) - Value of the Learning Community (21:51) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smartJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Free Speech, Cancel Culture, and the Mental Health Benefits of Speaking Up: Clinical psychologist Dr. Chloe Carmichael, author of “Can I Say That? Why Free Speech Matters and How to Use It Fearlessly,” frames free expression as a mental health and problem-solving issue amid rising polarization, self-censorship, and cancel culture. Carmichael says authentic speech deepens cognition, aids emotional regulation, and strengthens social support, while chronic suppression can lead to repression, denial, anxiety, depression, and resentment. She describes fear and professional risk after publicly opposing child masking during COVID and argues that labeling speech as “violence” distorts reality, though true threats and incitement differ from words. She distinguishes self-censorship from healthy restraint, offers the WAIT test (Want, Appropriate, Inoculate, Trust), and discusses groupthink, innovation, misinformation debates, time-place-manner limits, and examples from corporate and university settings.
Dr. Hoffman continues his conversation with clinical psychologist Dr. Chloe Carmichael, author of “Can I Say That? Why Free Speech Matters and How to Use It Fearlessly.”
What if school refusal is not defiance, but a signal? In this episode, we look beneath the surface at the real reasons kids resist school—from executive function challenges and shame, to sensory overload and fear. Learn how to respond with curiosity instead of control, and how to work with your child to build solutions together. Tune in to solve school battles and restore your kid's confidence for learning.What to expect in this episode:Why school refusal is often about overwhelm, not lazinessThe emotional layers of shame, anxiety, and perfectionismSocial stress, bullying, and peer rejection as hidden driversWhy safety and nervous system regulation matter for learningHow to use the ACE tool to open productive conversationsRelated Links: 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teenshttps://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/EP114: Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Homehttps://impactparents.com/the-coach-approach-to-parenting/ EP138: How Do I Get My Kids to Talk To Me? 4 Communication Toolshttps://impactparents.com/child-communication-tools/ EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversationshttps://impactparents.com/rebuilding-trust-with-teens-cleaning-the-slate-conversations/EP253: Get Curious, Not Furious: A Better Way to Parent Complex Kidshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep253-get-curious-not-furious-a-better-way-to/id1565976964?i=1000749220683Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
Did you know that happy people are less judgmental? Nobody likes being judged… and for the judgmental ones, it doesn't feel good either. We've all been judgy, and the truth is, being overly critical of others is often linked to insecurity, anxiety, perfectionism, and unhappiness. Subscribe to my new Substack! In this week's quickie, we're unpacking the psychology of judgment: where it comes from, why we do it, and how to become less judgmental in a world that fuels comparison and criticism about everything from how we parent, to how we look, to how we earn and spend our money. Judgment usually says more about our own wounds than someone else's behaviour. So we're exploring the psychological drivers behind judging, and psychology-backed tools to shift into a more curious, understanding, and compassionate mindset. Tune in to hear: Why the ego needs to feel “right” The link between perfectionism and criticism How insecurity and comparison fuels judgment The connection between self-judgment and judging others Understanding the Fundamental Attribution Error The blind spots I've had to confront in my own judgments Using curiosity as the antidote to judgment Challenging your assumptions and biases Practicing self-compassion to reduce projection For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube
In this episode, Barb is joined by Lisa Danahy, founder of Create Calm, owner of Radiant Child Yoga, and author of Creating Calm in Your Classroom. Lisa brings over 30 years of experience as a yoga therapist and educator, blending mindfulness, neuroscience, and real-world school practices. Together, they explore how viewing behavior through a nervous system lens can transform the way principals support students, staff, and parents. You'll learn why self-regulation is the foundation of effective leadership, how co-regulation reduces reactivity in schools, and simple, practical strategies—like breath and movement—that can be embedded into the school day without sacrificing expectations or accountability.Connect with Lisa at Create Calm. Learn more about today's sponsors, Playworks and IXL:We're proud to be sponsored by Playworks, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization with evidence-based practices that help schools improve the health and well-being of children by increasing opportunities for physical activity and safe, meaningful play.If you're a school or district leader struggling with the challenge of chronic absenteeism, as so many are across the U.S., you may not realize that structured recess is a research-backed approach to keep kids in school. In fact, a UC Berkeley study of Title I schools found that those partnering with Playworks had significantly lower chronic absenteeism rates. Further, Mathematica research demonstrated that Playworks schools spent 27% less time transitioning from recess back to learning, saving teachers valuable instructional time. These results are possible for your students, too. Learn how Playworks can help you improve student-educator relationships, belonging, and attendance by signing up for a quick no-obligation conversation. We're also thrilled to be sponsored by IXL. IXL's comprehensive teaching and learning platform for math, language arts, science, and social studies is accelerating achievement in 95 of the top 100 U.S. school districts. Loved by teachers and backed by independent research from Johns Hopkins University, IXL can help you do the following and more:Simplify and streamline technologySave teachers' timeReliably meet Tier 1 standardsImprove student performance on state assessments
4 Steps to Make Up After a Fight With Your Spouse Avoiding, fighting, distancing can become a cycle that slowly erodes the loving part of a marriage. After a fight, common reactions like pushing for resolution too soon, withdrawing, or trying to “win” usually make both partners feel less safe and more disconnected. In this episode, Coach Jack walks through a simple process for repairing quickly, restoring connection, and addressing the real issue without restarting the fight.What You'll LearnHow to stay steady when a spouse is upset, without escalating or chasing reassuranceHow to validate what is true in what a spouse said, without apologizing, explaining, or reopening the argumentHow to restart positive connection through low-pressure activities a spouse actually enjoysHow to shift from fighting to a better method of solving the underlying problemWant to Work With Coach Jack? If the fight cycle keeps repeating and it's hard to get back to warmth, the Difficult Partner Coaching Package will help you to rebuild connection, reduce conflict damage, and develop repair skills that hold up under stress. Coach Jack works with clients to create practical routines for calming down, reconnecting, and dealing with problems without getting pulled back into the same patterns.Key TakeawaysExpect a spouse to be upset and allow non-harmful coping behaviors.Differences in who calms down first are normal, and someone has to go first.Validation is agreement with the truth, not giving in, apologizing, or restarting the discussion.A shared positive activity often repairs faster than more talking.Preventing repeat fights requires solving the original issue with a better method than discussion during conflict.Additional ResourcesConnecting Through "Yes!" by Jack Ito PhDSelf-help QuizzesWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
FREE RESOURCE: Try our Burnout Archetype Quiz: https://twc-jqgxs.involve.me/archetype-quiz In this episode of the Wild Medicine Podcast, Dr. Michelle and Dr. Tara explore the transformative power of breath work. They discuss how breath work can create emotional safety, facilitate healing, and help individuals process their emotions. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding breath, the impact of modern stressors, and the necessity of creating safe spaces for healing. They emphasize the significance of self-trust and the ability to choose how to respond to life's challenges, ultimately highlighting breath work as a powerful tool for personal growth and emotional alchemy. Takeaways Breath work can create a sense of safety and emotional regulation. The journey into breath work is deeply personal and transformative. Emotional safety is crucial for personal growth and healing. Breath work helps in processing difficult emotions and experiences. Understanding breath is essential for managing stress and anxiety. Modern stressors contribute to shallow breathing and emotional dysregulation. Self-trust is vital for making empowered choices in life. Breath work can facilitate emotional alchemy and healing. Creating safe spaces is essential for effective breath work. The tools for healing and growth are often already within us. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement 02:49 Journey into Breath Work 07:52 The Need for Somatic Practices 12:32 Transformative Power of Breath Work 19:24 Breath Work as a Tool for Healing 26:00 Understanding Modern Breathing Patterns 32:32 Empowerment Through Breath Work 34:37 Navigating Emotional Disconnects 37:07 The Power of Breathwork 40:36 Emotional Alchemy and Self-Discovery 47:15 Creating Safety and Regulation 53:17 Processing Emotions vs. Numbing 57:19 The Art of Breathwork Facilitation Stay Wild. Connect with Dr. Tara on INSTAGRAM Connect with Dr. Michelle on INSTAGRAM FREE RESOURCE: Click the link and see if the SHED METABOLIC RESET PROGRAM is a good fit for you! This episode is brought to you by: www.MichellePeris.com Ready to reclaim your Wild? JOIN THE WAITLIST Learn more about The Poppy Clinic: www.poppyclinic.com Is Naturopathic Medicine for you: LEARN MORE HERE Take our HORMONE QUIZ Are you a clinician looking for more impact? START HERE
In this final episode of the Leading Under Pressure series, Lauren reframes authority as nervous system stability rather than intensity or control. She explains how regulated leaders build trust through emotional predictability, consistency, and co-regulation instead of urgency and reactivity.Sustainable authority, she argues, is not about being the strongest personality in the room, but the most steady, creating resilient teams where people can perform, speak honestly, and thrive long term.Sign up for the University of Pennsylvania Behavior Breakthrough Accredited CourseLearn about the Staff Sustainability System a proven system to reduce burnout at the rootOther related resources from Five Ives: Blog Post: Why Traditional Employee Wellness Programs Fail (And What Works Instead)Survive Mode: Recognizing When Your Organization is in CrisisWhat are the Five Ives?Podcast:Leading Through Conflict Without EscalationA Fresh Look at the Five Ives Framework in the WorkplaceBoundaries as Leadership InfrastructureClarity as a Safety CueWhen Leaders Become the StressorEpisode 2: Authority Without FearEpisode 1: What Stress Does to Decision MakingThe Pause Between Now and NextLeading From a Regulated CoreWhen Culture DysregulatesGrowth & Feedback Without FearOnboarding as Co-RegulationPolicy as a Nervous SystemThe Regulated Organization: What it Means to be a Regulated OrganizationOur Online Programs: Behavior BreakthroughPolicing Under PressureBoard Governance TrainingUniversity of Pennsylvania Behavior Breakthrough Accredited CourseSubscribe to our mailing list and find out more about Stress, Trauma, Behavior and the Brain!Check out our Facebook Group – Five Ives!Five Ives WebsiteThe Behavior Hub blogIf you're looking for support as you grow your organization's capacity for caring for staff and the community, we would love to be part of that journey. Schedule a free discovery call and let us be your guideAs an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.
Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones tackles one of the most draining parts of parenting teens—power struggles.Instead of seeing conflict as simple defiance, Melissa unpacks what's really driving it: a teen's need for control, growing competence, and intense emotions they're still learning to manage. When parents understand these deeper needs, they can respond with calm confidence rather than frustration.Melissa shares practical strategies to help you stay steady, set clear boundaries, and foster healthy autonomy—without escalating tension. You'll learn how to shift from “winning” the argument to guiding growth and strengthening connection.In this episode, we discuss:The real reasons behind teenage power strugglesHow to stay grounded during conflictEncouraging independence while maintaining authorityTurning challenges into opportunities for growthJoin Melissa for this practical and encouraging conversation that will help you navigate conflict with clarity, confidence, and connection.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn
Answering our kids' questions can be challenging right now, especially when we don't have all the answers ourselves. Coach Maysaa joins Helen to boost our parenting approach, while psychologist Tanya Dharamshi talks us through the differing reactions of adults in our lives. Plus, if you're concerned about your savings, financial security or investments, Steve Cronin is on hand to help.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD, MPH ("Dr. K"), is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and expert in both Eastern and Western medicine to improve mental health. He explains tools for unlearning maladaptive thoughts and behavior patterns and for making behaviors that better mental and physical well-being more reflexive in work, relationships and daily life. We also discuss ways to resolve trauma, build stress tolerance, increase intrinsic motivation and even change temperament. We also discuss how social media, gaming and online dating shape our identity and perceptions and how to navigate them healthily. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Lingo: https://hellolingo.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Alok Kanojia (Dr. K) (00:03:09) Internet, Computer Games; Academic Pressure (00:07:11) Millennials & Self-Awareness, Hijacking Mental Health Language (00:13:24) Sponsors: Lingo & Joovv (00:16:06) Personality & Individual Road Maps, Misdiagnosis (00:22:02) Ambiguity, Flirting, Social Skills Decline, Uncertainty Tolerance (00:26:06) Dating in the Internet Age, Cognitive Bias (00:30:39) Healthy Distress Tolerance, Tool: How to Feel Your Feelings (00:39:58) Sponsor: AG1 (00:40:49) Expectations vs Internal Desire Roadmap, Western vs Eastern Theory of Mind, Ego (00:50:35) Sense Organs, Comparison & Proving Oneself, Internal Drive (00:59:22) Internet, Ego, "Teflon Buddha", Tool: Dealing with Criticism (01:10:36) Observing One's Mind, Meditation, Psychedelics (01:11:59) Sponsor: Function (01:13:46) Tool: Shunya "Void" Meditation & Resilience (01:24:02) External Reminders, Environment; Men & Emotional Regulation (01:30:04) Samskara, Yoga Nidra, Trauma & Learning, Shunya & Personal Compass (01:39:15) Yoga Nidra, Channeling Divinity, Genius (01:42:30) Sponsor: Eight Sleep (01:43:48) Breathwork Practices; Meditation Science, Self-Esteem & Belief Change (01:53:40) Liminal States, Meditation Types & Benefits; Western & Eastern Balance (02:01:50) Understanding Ego & Perception; AI & Narcissism, Psychosis (02:14:07) Tool: Healthy Social Media Use, When To Not Use, Normal Standards (02:18:38) Social Media & Looks Obsession, Purpose, Charisma (02:24:18) Young Men Falling Behind?, Male Support, Suicide; Men in Relationships (02:30:36) "Stuck" Young Men, Failure to Launch, Tool: Motivation & Understanding Oneself (02:39:03) Pornography, Erectile Dysfunction, Emotions, Addiction; Relationships (02:44:21) Men & Love, Looksmaxxing, Rejection, Partner Characteristics, Tool: Walk Before Dates (02:55:12) Exploring Practices, Meditation, Breathwork (03:01:39) Spirituality, Personal Exploration; Acknowledgements (03:06:12) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
How do you improve emotional intelligence when you were never really taught what to do with your feelings in the first place? Emotional intelligence shapes your happiness, your relationships, your leadership, and your ability to manage stress — yet most people were never shown how to build emotional intelligence skills in a practical way. In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, we're talking about exactly how to improve emotional intelligence step by step, and how to develop emotional intelligence skills that create real change. Not as a personality trait you either have or don't, but as a set of learnable skills that directly impact emotional regulation, self-awareness, career success, and the quality of your relationships. You'll learn why emotional intelligence often matters more than technical expertise at work. In fact, emotional intelligence at work is one of the strongest predictors of long-term career success and leadership effectiveness. We'll explore how strengthening emotional vocabulary changes the way you think and feel, why managing your internal reactions is the foundation for stronger communication, and how emotional intelligence supports resilience under stress. Together, we'll walk through the four core components of emotional intelligence — self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management — and what it actually looks like to strengthen each one in real life. If you've ever felt reactive, shut down, emotionally overwhelmed, or unsure how to handle difficult conversations, this episode will help you slow down, get clearer, and show up differently. Emotional intelligence isn't about being more emotional. It's about understanding your emotions, regulating them wisely, and creating emotional safety in the relationships that matter most. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Emotional Intelligence Matters 06:58 Emotional Intelligence and Career Success 11:34 The Four Components of Emotional Intelligence 13:43 Self-Awareness: Naming Emotions and Understanding Triggers 27:38 Tools to Improve Emotional Intelligence (Mindfulness, CBT, Feeling Wheel) 32:15 Emotional Regulation and Self-Management 38:53 Social Awareness and Relationship Management 46:07 Relationship Management: Emotional Safety, Trust, and Communication That Works 50:42 How Emotional Intelligence Builds Long-Term Success If you're listening and thinking, “I want these emotional intelligence skills, but I'd love support while I practice them,” I have something for you. Our Clarity & Confidence Coaching Program is a low-cost coaching service designed to help you build self-awareness, strengthen emotional regulation, and show up with more clarity and confidence in your relationships and career. Thousands of people have transformed themselves, their relationships, or their careers through Growing Self. You can too. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.Working Genius founder Patrick Lencioni is on a mission to create self understanding and connection by helping people understand their genius and that of others. Listen to our conversation, then discover your strengths and get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com
What if everything you need to know about leadership, emotional regulation, and living authentically could be learned from dogs? In this profound and unexpected episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, we sit down with Sam Homi Amalsadvala—who has devoted 15 years to understanding dogs through real-life experience managing packs of up to 35 off-leash dogs in natural environments—to explore the powerful lessons canine behavior teaches us about confidence, communication, and human connection.Sam shares insights from thousands of hours observing how dogs, wildlife, and animals naturally lead, follow, teach, correct, regulate themselves, and live together in harmony. His deep understanding of group dynamics, instinct, and authentic communication reveals timeless wisdom about emotional intelligence, self-regulation, and what it truly means to be confident—lessons that apply directly to human relationships, leadership, and personal growth.To find more from Sam you can find him here:https://samaysam.com
School Behaviour Secrets with Simon Currigan and Emma Shackleton
Emotional regulation is not a curriculum - and treating it like one backfires.Many pupils can explain their emotions, name calming strategies, and talk confidently about what they “should” do… yet still struggle to cope when things get hard in the classroom.In this episode of School Behaviour Secrets, you'll learn why teaching emotional regulation as a set of lessons often doesn't work, and how schools can accidentally make things worse by confusing facts about regulation with emotional regulation skills.Using a real-world pupil story, we break down:Why recalling strategies often fails when children are dysregulatedHow automatic behaviours always win under stressWhy motivation doesn't come first – and what should replace itAnd how regulation is built through repeated, practical, supported experiences, not curriculum contentYou'll also hear a simple, classroom-friendly model – Co-regulation, Practise, Fade - to help pupils develop regulation through co-regulation, without adding more programmes or workload.If you're supporting pupils who “know the strategies” but still struggle in the moment, this episode will help you reframe what's really going on - and what actually helps.Important links:Get your FREE Beacon School Support guide to helping children manage their strong emotionsGet our FREE SEND Behaviour Handbook: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/send-handbookDownload other FREE behaviour resources for use in school: https://beaconschoolsupport.co.uk/resources.php
Can you learn how to be less reactive? Yes! And this episode of the Let's Talk About Mental Health podcast will teach you how, with a strong focus on emotional regulation techniques that work. If you find yourself on-edge and snapping at things that wouldn't normally bother you, you'll know that living with constant stress and anxiety is exhausting. Simple nervous system regulation tools will help you be less reactive and learn how to stop reacting emotionally without pretending life is calm, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed. I'll share practical advice on how to be less reactive so you can stop reacting and deal with your emotions effectively, and I'll explain how to control your emotions with self respect and self-kindness… because you can't stop being reactive by being cruel to yourself. I'll explain why your brain struggles to stay calm under pressure, and why the power of not reacting and learning to think first plays such a big role in better mental health. You'll discover emotional regulation tools you can use at any time, including small-but-powerful changes that help you respond instead of react, reduce stress at work, and break the stress cycle so you're not just running on emotional fumes. By the end of the episode, you'll know how to be less reactive in everyday chaos, how to stop overreacting when you're overloaded, and what to do next to keep building steadier nervous system regulation.
▷ 本集引導在開始之前,先跟著我,吐一口氣。不是為了冷靜,而是為了——讓你的身體,先卸下它正在「撐住」的狀態。你不需要撐著聽。這一集,不是要你更理性。▷ 本集寫給誰如果你是在高壓、快節奏、長期需要做決策的環境裡工作的人—— 你可能會在這一集裡,被說中。你可能在金融、科技、創業、投資或管理層。你習慣分析、判斷、評估風險。你很清楚:情緒不能亂來。但你也可能最近開始發現一件事——你不是不理性,可是你的人生,開始走不太動。決策變慢了。能量變低了。不是焦慮,而是一種說不上來的卡住。▷ 本集核心我們常常被教導,要「處理情緒」。冷靜一點。理性一點。不要被影響。但從神經系統與身體的角度來看,這裡有一個關鍵誤解:情緒不是事件,而是一個需要被完成的生理反應循環。當反應被啟動,卻沒有走完,它不會消失。它會留在身體裡,佔用你的 nervous system capacity。這就是為什麼你明明沒有情緒化,卻開始出現——決策疲勞、反應過大、關鍵時刻卡住,或是什麼都不想決定。不是你不夠理性,而是你的系統,已經被太多「未完成的反應」佔滿了。▷ Burnout 的真相Burnout 很少只是累。從 somatic 的角度來看,它更像是一個訊號:你的情緒循環,已經沒有空間被完成了。你沒有時間失望,於是失望變成冷漠。你沒有時間憤怒,於是憤怒變成疲憊。你沒有時間害怕,於是害怕變成拖延。最後你會進入一個狀態:「我沒有什麼情緒,但我什麼都不想動。」那不是你不想要人生,而是你的身體在說:我不能再承受任何新的東西了。▷ Season 2 的關鍵推進Season 1,我們說的是:情緒是資訊,是理解,是 Reset。Season 2,我們要往前一步問:如果你已經懂了情緒,為什麼人生還是卡住?答案常常不是因為你沒聽懂,而是因為——情緒從來沒有被身體完成。這一集,是把情緒,從「我懂了」,帶到「我為什麼走不動」。▷ Somatic Practice|完成,而不是處理這不是宣洩,也不是分析。而是一個 very subtle、但關鍵的 somatic completion 練習。當你想到一件最近讓你有壓力、卻「沒有時間處理」的事,覺察身體第一個反應。不是去改變它,而是讓它多存在幾秒。然後問身體一句話:「如果你可以完成這個反應,你會想做什麼?」可能只是呼吸、伸展、後退半步、鬆一鬆肩膀。讓身體完成它原本就想完成的動作。這,就是完成。▷ 本集不是要你「立刻前進」如果你聽完有一點點鬆,很好。但你也可能發現,回到生活後,那些反應還是會回來。這不是你沒學會,而是因為——高壓環境,從來沒有為完成預留空間。而一個人,很難在高壓結構裡,為自己 hold space。▷ 為什麼「完成」不是一個人能做的事我們被教導要成熟、要自己處理情緒。但這其實違反了人類神經系統的設計。因為情緒反應,本來就是在「被接住」的情境裡完成的。你之所以卡住,不是因為你做錯了什麼,而是因為你一直試圖—— 一個人走完一個需要容器的過程。▷ Work with LolaThe Lola System™ 90 不是讓你更會處理情緒,而是讓你在一個不需要再撐、不需要再切斷身體反應的場域裡, 完成那些你一個人走不完的循環。如果你在聽這一集時,心裡很清楚地浮現一句話:「這不是我一個人可以完成的。」Apply for The Lola System™ 90 https://lolalinocean.com/apply這是一個邀請制的入口,為「準備好真正改變,但不想再撐」的女性而設。▷ Connect with LolaWebsite|https://lolalinocean.com Instagram|https://www.instagram.com/lolalolalin LinkedIn|https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolalin
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Explore the nine pillars of connection—including sleep, food, purpose, relationships, and play—and how each pillar helps restore physical and emotional health. #WholePersonHealing #NinePillars #MindBody
Arthur Brooks spent decades studying the science of happiness, yet at the peak of his career, he felt anxious and unfulfilled. From the outside, he seemed to have everything, but success was not delivering the joy, meaning, or mental wellness he expected. That disconnect pushed him to step away from his role as CEO and finally start living by the principles he had spent years researching. When he did, he became 60 percent happier. In this episode, Arthur breaks down the science-backed habits and mindset shifts that build real, lasting happiness and fulfillment in your daily life. In this episode, Hala and Arthur will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (02:27) The Science of Building Happiness (09:06) How Build the Life You Want Came Together (12:29) America's Growing Happiness Crisis (15:55) The Three Macronutrients of Happiness (31:18) Is Happiness a Choice? (35:35) Emotional Regulation and Mental Health (42:12) Escaping the Trap of Social Comparison (49:37) The Four Pillars of a Fulfilling Life (53:45) Building Positivity Through Gratitude (58:31) Why Unhappiness Can Lead to True Happiness Arthur Brooks is a Harvard professor, PhD social scientist, and New York Times bestselling author who has dedicated his career to helping people live happier, more meaningful lives. He writes a widely read weekly column on happiness for The Atlantic and teaches a course on well-being at Harvard Business School. He has authored multiple bestselling books, including Build the Life You Want, co-written with Oprah Winfrey. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/profiting Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting. Spectrum Business - Visit Spectrum.com/FreeForLife to learn how you can get Business Internet Free Forever. Northwest Registered Agent - Build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes at northwestregisteredagent.com/paidyap Framer - Publish beautiful and production-ready websites. Go to Framer.com/profiting and get 30% off their Framer Pro annual plan. Quo - Run your business communications the smart way. Try Quo for free, plus get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to quo.com/profiting Working Genius - Take the Working Genius assessment and discover your natural gifts and thrive at work. Go to workinggenius.com and get 20% off with code PROFITING Experian - Manage and cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reduce your bills. Get started now with the Experian App and let your Big Financial Friend do the work for you. See experian.com for details. Huel - Get all the daily nutrients you need with Huel. Grab Huel today and get 15% OFF with my code PROFITING at huel.com/PROFITING. Resources Mentioned: Arthur's Book, Build the Life You Want: bit.ly/BTLYW Arthur's Book, From Strength to Strength: bit.ly/FS2S Brooks' Website: arthurbrooks.com YAP E192 with Arthur Brooks: youngandprofiting.co/E192-apple Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Biohacking, Motivation, Manifestation, Brain Health, Life Balance, Self-Healing, Sleep, Diet
In tonight's sleep hypnosis with Jessica, we gently explore nervous system “dysregulation” - or as she puts it, feeling freaked out. In a world of constant stimulation, this calming session offers co-regulation, steady reflection, and simple tools to help your system settle. As you listen, your body begins to find its balance again, guiding you naturally toward rest. As always, tonight's episode will start with a relaxing introduction from Jessica, before we sink into tonight's Sleep Hypnosis. If you'd like an extra immersive experience, you can also watch this episode on Spotify, complete with soothing visuals
Mikaela Kate Schaefer is a Leadership Trainer, Speaker, and Coach. She has over 15 years of experience in developing men and women leaders from college-age and beyond, and trains teams from 5 to 200, as well as countless one on one coaching experiences. She is the CEO of her open personal and professional coaching and training business, where she works with the manufacturing and retail industry, the financial and legal secotor, start-up businesses, and with various independent sales teams. Learn more about Mikaela at mikaelakate.com Contact Julie at theveterinarylifecoach.com
When follow-through keeps breaking down, the answer isn't planning harder. In this episode with ADHD coach Jeff Copper, we unpack why executive function struggles come from ambiguity, not lack of effort, and why direct conversation is a powerful accommodation. Press play to learn what actually helps kids and adults with ADHD move from planning to action.What to expect in this episode:Why people with ADHD struggle to execute plans even when the goal is clearHow ambiguity, not laziness, disrupts follow-through and problem-solvingWhat executive functions really are and how they operate as cognitive toolsThe power of direct conversation for improving clarity, focus, and emotional regulationADHD accommodations that are practical and often hide in plain sightAbout Jeff CopperJeff Copper, cognitive engineer and ADHD coach, is founder of DIG Coaching Practice and host of Attention Talk Radio and Video. He developed Cognitive Ergonomics From the Inside Out™, a new ADHD intervention using an engineering approach to address executive function challenges. Jeff holds an MBA from the University of Tampa and credentials from ICF, PAAC, ADDCA, and CTI. A member of ADDA, ACO, CHADD, PAAC, and ICF, he received ACO's 2022 Professional Excellence Award. His work continues to innovate and redefine ADHD coaching through practical insights and a focus on how minds truly work. Connect with JeffWebsite: DIG Coaching PracticeInstagram: @dig.coachingFacebook: DIG Coaching PracticeX: @digcoaching Related Links: EP92: Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively https://impactparents.com/solve-problems-collaboratively/ EP138: How Do I Get My Kids to Talk To Me? 4 Communication Tools https://impactparents.com/child-communication-tools/ EP172: Parenting Paradox: Avoid ‘Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving https://impactparents.com/avoid-fix-it-mode-parenting/ EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversations https://impactparents.com/rebuilding-trust-with-teens-cleaning-the-slate-conversations/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3924: Karl Staib shares seven practical strategies to help you recognize, manage, and release stress more efficiently, so it doesn't derail your productivity or well-being. Learn how small shifts like reframing your thoughts, taking micro-breaks, and recognizing personal stress patterns can add up to big improvements in how you handle pressure throughout your day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://digtofly.com/7-tips-to-process-your-stress-faster/ Quotes to ponder: "You process stress differently than anyone else, so try a few of these techniques to help you reach past your current level of stress relief." "Getting upset because someone doesn't drive fast enough is a waste of energy." "We all know that we work better and feel less stressed if we take regular breaks during the working day." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What do you do when someone crosses a line—especially when tolerating it could pay off financially? In this episode, Joe Rockey brings a fresh, real-world story: after years of work building a client's business toward a major breakthrough, a volatile outburst (in front of Joe's wife and kids) triggers a hard decision—ending the relationship right as the payoff is finally in reach.Joe and Father Boniface Hicks walk through the difference between reacting in anger versus setting a boundary with prudence. They explore why some “wins” can feel morally and emotionally “dirty,” how a parent's choices shape a family's peace, and how God can give clarity through interior calm (the “snow globe” settling). The conversation stays grounded in the three-relationship lens: integrity within self, charity and boundaries with others, and discernment under God.Key IdeasNot every hard decision is a moral absolute; many are prudential judgments about what you will (and won't) tolerate.Boundaries protect your family culture as much as they protect your business.Sometimes the “cost” isn't money—it's the sense that accepting certain behavior taints the relationship and the fruit of the work.Discernment can show up as interior peace and clarity after a difficult decision (“snow globe” settling).Growth is real when old triggers don't produce the old reactions—faith can re-train anger into measured action.Links & References (official/source only)Dr. Jordan B. Peterson (official site):https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/CTA: If this helped, please leave a review or share this episode with a friend.Questions or thoughts? Email FatherAndJoe@gmail.com .Tags (comma-separated)Father and Joe, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, anger, boundaries, prudence, discernment, interior peace, spiritual consolation, St Ignatius, snow globe analogy, integrity, family leadership, fatherhood, marriage, self-control, emotional regulation, respect, conflict, workplace behavior, client management, business ethics, professionalism, verbal outbursts, tolerance limits, long-term payoff, sacrifice, protecting children, trust, relationships, communion, God's guidance, decision-making, consequences, freedom, courage, peace
Some comments linger longer than they should. A tone, a look, an offhand remark from your partner, your child, or a friend can spiral into a story in your head before you even realize it. This conversation unpacks what it really takes to not take things personally, especially in the relationships that matter most. From defensiveness and truth triggers to slowing down your reactions and separating someone else's mood from your responsibility, we share practical mindset shifts that create more peace at home and in your friendships.Key Topics Covered:• The connection between defensiveness and hidden truths.• Why pausing before reacting changes everything.• Separating your partner's emotions from your own sense of worth.• The role tone plays when giving and receiving feedback.• Helping kids regulate before expecting repair or apology.• Teaching children awareness of how their words impact others.• Navigating the sting of feeling like a means to an end as a parent.• Modeling reciprocal conversations and emotional awareness at home.• How past friendship wounds shape present reactions.• Real life examples of working through friendship conflict without escalation.LINKS AND RESOURCES:HERSELF AMAZON STOREFRONT: https://amzlink.to/az0BrkLl5pX9u HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastLet's connect!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.
How to turn down the chatter of negative self-talk.If you want to have better conversations with others, Ethan Kross says you first have to quiet down the chatter in your own head.A professor, researcher, and author, Kross defines chatter as a “negative thought loop” that hijacks our attention and undermines our ability to perform. “We have a limited capacity to focus our attention,” he says. “Attentional resources are a limited commodity, and chatter acts like a sponge that consumes that capacity. It leaves very little leftover that allows us to do the things that we want or need to do.” In his work researching, teaching, and writing about emotional regulation and the conscious mind, Kross has explored how to manage the negative self-talk that sabotages our concentration. “Here's the good news,” he says. “You can get out of it. Managing your chatter [is] a lot like becoming physically fit” — and he's developed tools and frameworks for building the muscles to turn down the noise.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Kross joins host Matt Abrahams to share methods for quieting chatter and reclaiming precious mental resources. From distanced self-talk to mental time travel, his tools offer a way to tune out the static and tune into clarity and connection.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Ethan KrossEthan's Books: Chatter / ShiftEp.179 Finding Positive in Negative Emotions: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:27) - Defining Chatter (04:57) - Breaking the Loop (09:54) - Technology & Emotional Sharing (13:20) - Why “Get Over It” Fails (18:40) - Emotions as Data (21:11) - The Final Three Questions (25:01) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Anna Runkle is a trauma-survivor turned coach and educator, best known under the moniker The Crappy Childhood Fairy. Her work focuses on helping adults who grew up with childhood trauma — particularly what she calls Childhood PTSD (or complex PTSD stemming from early life stress) — to understand their symptoms, regulate their nervous systems, and build more fulfilling lives. Anna's work has attracted a large following, her great YouTube channel in particular has just under 1 million followers. She hosts a podcast, The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle, available on Spotify and other platforms. She has authored books such as Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviours That Keep You Stuck. Her new book CONNECTABILITY: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, And Feel (At Last) Like You Below from Hay House is available now. Timestamps (may vary by 2-4 minutes based on your podcast platform) 03:11 Introduction to Trauma and Healing 06:00 Understanding Complex PTSD 09:11 The Role of Positive Action in Healing 12:19 Differentiating Between Abuse and Neglect 15:05 The Impact of Early Trauma on Adult Relationships 18:20 Emotional Flashbacks and Their Effects 21:08 Techniques for Managing Dysregulation 23:56 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Healing 33:04 The Therapeutic Power of Writing 35:25 Transformative Techniques for Healing 38:44 Navigating Emotional Dysregulation 42:20 The Process of Letting Go 49:19 Overcoming the Fear of Judgment (Website) https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/ (Facebook) www.facebook.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy/ (Youtube) www.youtube.com/@crappychildhoodfairy (Instagram) www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/ (twitter) CrappyChildhoodFairy (@CChildhoodFairy) / X
On this episode, Jared starts a new series - Mighty Minerals! He kicks the series off by exploring lithium from a completely different perspective—not just as a psychiatric medication, but as a naturally occurring trace mineral that may play a role in mood balance, stress resilience, sleep rhythm, and cognitive support. You'll learn the difference between high-dose pharmaceutical lithium and low-dose nutritional lithium, why dosage and intent matter, and how integrative practitioners are using micro-doses as part of a broader wellness strategy. Jared also breaks down how lithium interacts with circadian rhythm, neurotransmitter signaling, and brain stability, plus how nutrients like magnesium, omega-3s, B vitamins, inositol, and adaptogenic herbs may complement it. This episode is educational and empowering, designed to help you think critically about mental wellness, trace minerals, and personal responsibility for your health.Products:KAL Lithium OrotateSolaray Lithium AspartateVisit the podcast website here: VitalityRadio.comYou can follow @vitalitynutritionbountiful and @vitalityradio on Instagram, or Vitality Radio and Vitality Nutrition on Facebook. Join us also in the Vitality Radio Podcast Listener Community on Facebook. Shop the products that Jared mentions at vitalitynutrition.com. Let us know your thoughts about this episode using the hashtag #vitalityradio and please rate and review us on Apple Podcasts. Thank you!Just a reminder that this podcast is for educational purposes only. The FDA has not evaluated the podcast. The information is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. The advice given is not intended to replace the advice of your medical professional.
In this episode, Ian sits down with John Assaraf, entrepreneur, behavioral neuroscience educator, and founder of NeuroGym, for a conversation about the invisible forces that shape performance — long after planning, analysis, and good intentions are in place. John shares his personal journey from a turbulent upbringing to building multiple multimillion-dollar businesses, and the pivotal moment at age 19 that reframed how he thought about success, identity, and commitment. From there, the discussion moves into the neuroscience behind habits, automatic behavior, fear, and why people often snap back to familiar results — even when they know what to do. This is not a trading tactics episode. It's a conversation about execution, follow-through, and the human side of performance — in trading, business, health, and life. About the guest: John Assaraf is a serial entrepreneur who has built multiple multimillion-dollar companies, including helping scale a real estate organization to over $4 billion in annual sales and co-founding a technology company that later went public on the NASDAQ. He is the founder and CEO of NeuroGym, where he focuses on applying neuroscience to performance, habits, and behavior change. John is also the author of several New York Times bestselling books, translated into dozens of languages, and has been featured in films such as The Secret, where many people were first introduced to his work. Links + Resources: Free eBook: The Power of Visualization Sponsor of Chat With Traders Podcast: Trade The Pool: http://www.tradethepool.com Time Stamps: Please note: Exact times will vary depending on current ads. 00:00 Intro and Background 11:16 Mindset Shift: Interested vs. Committed 11:46 Behavioral Neuroscience and Goal Achievement 16:17 Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind 17:12 Creating Permanent Behavioral Changes 21:22 Emotional Regulation and Decision Making 25:30 Overcoming Self-Sabotage 35:20 AddressingFear in Decision Making 42:37 Inner Size: Exercising the Mind 44:27 Self-Sabotage and Financial Set Points 48:21 The Science of Goal Setting 50:17 Visualizing and Embodying Goals 54:40 How to reach John Trading Disclaimer: Trading in the financial markets involves a risk of loss. Podcast episodes and other content produced by Chat With Traders are for informational or educational purposes only and do not constitute trading or investment recommendations or advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices