We can only heal by arriving. Come home to your Father, come home, no one is mad at you, no one hates you, there is only love for you. Come home to unconditional love. God bless you!
A borderline experiences of love is very different to what love is. This occurs due to a number of reasons, including their chronically practiced emotions and feelings, their expression of wanting to feel loved e.g. tantrums, abandonment fear, and loneliness. In this episode, I am talking about the above and elaborate on them. Hopefully, this episode can help you on your journey of healing with God and in Christ. May you be blessed. God bless you
Narcissism is all about the spirit of self importance and not feeling less than anyone else or having been compared with others. In this episode, I am outlining the four critical points that can provoke narcissistic rage. Hopefully this episode will help you with your situation. May you be blessed, God bless you
Can a narcissist love you? In this episode, I am talking about a narcissist's emotional state, their feelings, and what love is to them and whether they can love you. Narcissistic personality disorder has a great impact on individual's capacity to love. Hopefully you'll find this episode helpful. Look after yourself and allow yourself to receive the love you deserve. God bless you
Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Are you feeling lost in life? Are you trying to find yourself again? In this episode I am talking about how the grieving process can be difficult but how it can lead to finding our purpose and the meaning of life. Not only that, in grief, we learn to arrive at hope. The beginning of our journey with God's consciousness is to rest in hope. In hope we are no longer identified with loss. That in this situation I am realising who I am in Christ, that yes I am hurting but I can reach acceptance as I focus on the cross and Jesus's love. By focusing on the cross, I realise deep water, my calling, my purpose, and I can move towards it. Transform loss into meaning. God's plan for us can be realised by us as we go within to explore deep water. “Knowing what is right is like deep water in the heart; a wise person draws from the well within.” (Proverbs 20:5; MSG) God bless you
Going no contact with a parent or a caregiver is a very difficult decision to make, especially when they have got a mental health problem. A narcissistic mother or a narcissistic dad, maybe a borderline mother, I had to go no contact with my mother to set boundaries. My mother is now saying goodbye, her final days, and I am sharing how it feels when you decided to go no contact before their departure. The grief and loss process, how ego interferes, and what to expect. Hopefully you'll find this video helpful. Matthew 8:22 MSG “Another of the disciples said to Him, 'Lord, permit me first to go and bury my father. ' But Jesus said to him, 'Follow Me, and allow the dead to bury their own dead. '" Luke 9:60 MSG Jesus refused. “First things first. Your business is life, not death. And life is urgent: Announce God's kingdom!” God bless you
A narcissist abuses in many different ways which may include infidelity and cheating. In this video I am talking about what forgiveness is, and why we would attract a narcissistic relationship, a toxic relationship which may also result in being cheated on. When we understand the subconscious mind program we can create positive changes about our meanings. Including how to love yourself and how to experience healthy relationships. May you be blessed God bless you
A narcissistic partner doesn't go away because they don't understand boundaries and closures. Let her go or let him go, if a narcissist, so you can begin healing traumas and moving on with your life. In this video, I am talking about how to let go of a narcissistic partner or an ex, to do that, we need to understand our perceptions of love. Maybe you had a narcissistic mother or your childhood reality was the observation of narcissism, adding to that can be other meanings of love if you grew up with other caregivers at the same time, e.g. grandma, auntie, uncle along with the narcissistic mother. To re-programme the subconscious mind, we need to understand the script that entails our observations and meanings so we can end the experience of narcissistic abuse and rage. Please share your thoughts and experiences about narcissism in the comment section. God bless you
Free Will is not determined by our ego, it's about us as a consciousness who is in alignment with God's consciousness and Christ consciousness. In this video, I am sharing how Jesus answered my question about free will. As an evangelist being led by God from one town to the next, I couldn't understand how would my free will come to play but that was my ego in the state of separation. Free will is about my conscience journeying with God's consciousness. God bless you.
Domestic violence, abuse, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, manipulation and many more… Did you have toxic parents? A toxic family is not a healthy one to be with. We need to learn to let go of wanting to stay connected with them. Toxic mother or a toxic dad? We don't have to have a relationship with them as adults. In this episode I am talking about the benefits of letting go of abusive parents. Once we let go then we can creat our boundaries with the world around us. May you be blessed God bless you
Self-hatred is ego's statement and we can only heal it by looking at its root in our childhood. Rejection is the root of self-hatred and in this episode I explain how it happens. Hopefully you'll find this episode helpful. God bless you
Do I have to forgive my parents? In this video I am talking about whether we need to forgive our parents. Maybe they were narcissistic, abusive, or they distorted your reality. Our ego wants to convince us that we need to forgive others. Otherwise we are not good human beings. Is that true? Hopefully you will find this episode helpful. God bless you.
How to stop overthinking? Overthinking things in our minds is a coping mechanism for an earlier trauma that we haven't healed, ego projects those traumas onto our current reality. An over-thinker is constantly battling with childhood traumas, without having the awareness of how to break free from them. As a consciousness we want to understand the root of ego's projection. In today video I am talking about how ego projects abandonment as worrisome thoughts about the future. And how not to overthink the future events. Hopefully you will find this helpful. God bless you.
As a consciousness we need to create self-awareness which ego does like. In this video I am talking about creating awareness quoting the Gospel of Matthew and what Jesus says about planting a seed. Awareness is a seed that a farmer sows, we need to choose a good quality soil so that our awareness will lead us to kingdom consciousness. God is within, God is present with us, God is love, and we are in him. “Now listen to the explanation of the parable about the farmer planting seeds: The seed that fell on the footpath represents those who hear the message about the Kingdom and don't understand it. Then the evil one comes and snatches away the seed that was planted in their hearts. The seed on the rocky soil represents those who hear the message and immediately receive it with joy. But since they don't have deep roots, they don't last long. They fall away as soon as they have problems or are persecuted for believing God's word. The seed that fell among the thorns represents those who hear God's word, but all too quickly the message is crowded out by the worries of this life and the lure of wealth, so no fruit is produced. The seed that fell on good soil represents those who truly hear and understand God's word and produce a harvest of thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times as much as had been planted!” (Matthew 13: 18-23; NLT) May you be blessed. God bless you
Self awareness or awareness can be disguised by our egos. Awareness leads to healing traumas. In this episode, I am talking about how ego can influence our awareness and also what type of self-awareness can lead to healing. As a consciousness we are meant to journey with the consciousness of God. May you be blessed. God bless you
Ego identifies us with traumas, ego avoids healing traumas. Whether healing childhood traumas, losses, or attachment trauma; we need to access the script in the unconscious mind to heal ourselves. In this episode, I am talking about reversing ego's program. May you be blessed. God bless you
Let it go is not an easy act when it comes to ego and guilt. Today, I am talking about why do we find it difficult to let go. I am sharing the Word with you explaining the role of ego and guilt. Ego is dead so it holds on to anything dead, we need to allow the ego to bury its own dead which is not letting go. Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the kingdom of God.” (Luke 9:60; NIV) Please share your thoughts on this topic. May you be blessed. God bless you
Ego communicates our parents' traumas with us. Healing traumas to our ego is to internalise fear, the fear we experienced when they were anxious or disgusted. In this episode I am talking about anxiety and shame that your parents may have had and the impact on you. May you be blessed. God bless you.
Ego accesses the unconscious to read the childhood script. Ego's approach to healing is done in 3 steps. To look after our mental health and general well-being we must understand our ego. Of course, some of us are only interested in psychology but we must embrace our spiritual aspect so we can heal our childhood traumas and attachment style. May you be blessed God bless you
Feeling anxious? It's good to understand anxiety from ego's perspective. Managing our anxiety is much easier when we understand ego's role. In this video I am talking about ego and how it plays a role in feeling anxious. Remember that God is Within us and he is present with us. May you be blessed God bless you
Ego loves people pleasing. People pleasing is not to have grieved our childhood losses. Love and search for it is the reason why we tend to people please. In this video I am talking about healing people pleasing by understanding the unconscious and the script that is being read. Hopefully you find this video helpful. If you l have liked this video put a like on it and share it with someone who would also benefit from it. God bless you.
Love is what we all want to experience. Loving yourself, feeling loved, falling in love. Ego keeps reminding us that we are not loved, but truly that's ego's projection of not allowing us to communicate love to ourselves and with ourselves. In this episode I am talking about how not feeling loved is due to not communicating love to ourselves. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this. God bless you
How to stop being jealous? Are you jealous or is your partner insecure and jealous? Surely the ego won't allow us to heal jealousy. In this episode I am talking about the emotions and feelings that are the root of jealousy and why the ego doesn't allow us to let go of jealousy. Also, how the absence of love in our childhood would lead to feeling jealous. We need to grieve our childhood loss when it comes to understanding and healing jealousy. Feel free to share your insight on this topic. May you be blessed God bless you
Self love and how to love yourself can be quite challenging from ego's perspective. In this episode I am explaining how ego does it's best to make us feel loved through the negative emotions. Feelings and emotions are very powerful, when negative, ego dwells on them and tells us that negative emotions define who we are. And that is the trap we don't want to fall into; instead we want to come out of it. Healing is the way. Please share your thoughts on this topic. God bless you
What is life and what is the meaning of life? Ego has its own perceptions but life is the consciousness who is on journey with God to realise the mind of Christ. We need to heal our traumas so we can understand the meaning of life, instead of perceiving the reality only. May you find this video helpful. Make sure to check out my YouTube channel I have got great content. Please share your thoughts on this topic. God bless you.
Self control is an important part of healing childhood traumas especially when dealing with attachment styles. By having a discipline we may not be able to control our emotions but healing works every single time. Emotions and feelings are powerful, especially negative emotions. The ego uses them to survive. Today I am talking about why we may find it difficult to control our emotions and how we can heal ourselves. God bless you
Are you a codependent? Are you struggling with creating boundaries? In this episode I am talking about how to stop being codependent, the root of codependency, and how you can heal yourself. A codependent enters partnerships that are toxic or the other partner is struggling with a form of addiction such as drug abuse, alcoholism or porn addiction. Please share your thoughts about this topic. May you be blessed. God bless you.
Hi everyone, I hope you are enjoying this year and looking forward to the journey of healing within. This year, I will be posting my content in alignment with my YouTube channel on a daily basis. So stay tuned as the first episode of this year is about to be released.
To heal shame, we must look for the emotion of anger. Maybe you have been trying to manage your anger, to control your anger. In this episode, the final episode of 2022, I am talking about identifying shame and healing it through anger, frustration and rage. Share your insight on this topic, you can do this via Spotify App. Thank you for journeying with Cross Transformation. May you be blessed, have a Merry Christmas and I'll talk to you in 2023. God bless you everyone
Are you feeling depressed? Are you trying to find out how to deal and cope with depression? Are you trying to come out of anxiety and depression? In this video I am talking about how to overcome depression and heal depression by realising who we are. “No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known.” (John 1:18; NIV) Http://www.crosstransformation.com.au God bless you
Are you feeling hurt by someone or a situation? Feeling hurt is a symptom of an unhealed trauma in us. How to heal myself when feeling hurt? By realising the trauma and how you are wired up with other people. Maybe your ex hurt you, you see you can always blame, but that ex partner or spouse was trying to help you heal something deeper. Allow your soul to heal because you are worthy of receiving healing. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30) If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link: Http://www.crosstransformation.com.au God bless you
Are you trying to come out of a crisis? Maybe your are going through tough times, or experiencing crisis, searching for God and trying to find him. In this video, I am talking about how to find God? Do we really need to find him? be blessed. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link: Http://www.crosstransformation.com.au God bless you
How do I discover myself in life? How do I find myself again? We do ask the above questions hoping to find an answer to them. May be you are feeling depressed or anxious. Have you believed that your feelings define who you are? Are you struggling with your identity? Are you searching for who you are? In this video I am sharing how our feelings and emotions can lead us to the realisation of who we are. Use your emotions as a guide to find out who you are. “Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” (John 4:7-8, New International Version) I hope that you enjoy this video. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link: Http://www.crosstransformation.com.au God bless you
Are you feeling guilty about your mistakes? Do you find it hard to forgive yourself? In this video, I am explaining how to forgive yourself and to move out of guilt. I hope that you enjoy this video. Feel free to share your journey of healing, how did you come out of guilt? I now have a new website make sure to check it out. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link: Http://www.crosstransformation.com.au God bless you
In this week's episode, I am talking about how the need to be safe can result in not being ourselves. When we look for the desire to be safe outside of us, we will end up attracting difficult people, insecure people. In our dealings with them, we become what they want so we can be safe, so we lose our authentic self. I hope that you enjoy this week's episode. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link below: Http://www.drmaryamsaligheh.com God bless you
Have you heard of this? “it's God's fault.” How often do we blame God for our situation? It's God's fault that I was sexually abused, it's God's fault that I lost my loved ones in a car accident. I do understand we grieve when we experience a loss. But, pain and grief must not become our suffering, our story, who we are, and who God is. I hope that you enjoy this video. “If you don't know what you're doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help” (James 1:1; MSG) “God is in charge of deciding human destiny. Who do you think you are to meddle in the destiny of others? (James 4:12; MSG) Jesus refused. “First things first. Your business is life, not death. And life is urgent: Announce God's kingdom!” (Luke 9:60; MSG) If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link below: Http://www.drmaryamsaligheh.com God bless you
Are you searching for your purpose in life? Are you wondering how to find your purpose in life? In this week's podcast I am sharing why our purpose is Within not Without. I hope that you enjoy this podcast. If you would like to book a healing session with me please click on the link below: Http://www.drmaryamsaligheh.com
Do you find it difficult to trust God with what you want? Are you disappointed or discouraged? Maybe you don't know how to trust God with your situation. In this week's podcast I am sharing my experience on how to trust God with your heart's desires. Thank you for listening to Cross Transformation. Make sure to check my YouTube channel I have got great content there, link below: https://youtube.com/channel/UCx5GR7Pb1y1Kug7a0uqAk9w
Do you find it difficult to be generous? Do you find it hard to tithe and to trust that God will provide? In this week's podcast I am talking about healing resentment so we can give and receive money, but more importantly realising God's grace and abundance in our life. Please rate Cross Transformation on Spotify and make sure to check my YouTube channel for great contents. https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCx5GR7Pb1y1Kug7a0uqAk9w
Are you challenged by anxiety? Are you coping with a mental health condition? In this week's podcast I am sharing the Word of God on how to heal our anxiety. I hope that you enjoy this episode. If you like this channel, please rate Cross Transformation on Spotify. God bless you
Do you find it difficult to hear from God? Do you feel your prayers have not been answered? In this week's episode I am sharing my thoughts and experience on how to hear God's voice. How to realise that your prayers have been answered. Make sure to check my YouTube channel, I have got create content and I post daily. Thank you for following this channel. Please rate us on Spotify. Http://www.drmaryamsaligheh.com
Are you searching for your purpose in life? In this episode I am sharing my experience on what can block our awareness of realising what our purpose is. You are born to live a life of purpose, grant yourself what you deserve. Please share the episode if you've found it helpful. God bless you.
Are you a co-dependent, do you find yourself walking into toxic relationships? Are you suffering from love addiction and dependency on abusive relationships? Do you date narcissist individual, people with addiction or those with avoidant attachment trauma? In this episode, I share my own journey of rescuing others. The pattern that caused me walk into unhealthy relationships. By sharing my story, I am hoping that you can find a breakthrough and identify your pattern so you can begin attracting a healthy partner & relationship.
In this episode we talk about the different stages of a crisis, the emotions, feelings, and perceptions that we may experience. We also, talk about pain and how it relate to a crisis. If you are going through a crisis, this podcast may help you to identify the stage you are in to understand your emotions and feelings. More importantly, to know that you are not alone but God is with you.
Understanding a crisis is significant and it comes down to who we have believed we are and how we have identified ourselves. Having a breakthrough is to have communicated with ourselves who we are and not how much pain we have experienced in life.
Have you ever been in a relationship with Borderline's? In this episode I am sharing characteristics of borderline's and how to implement strategies that can help you transform the traumas of such a relationship. I will be sharing my experience of having lived with borderline personality since my upbringing was with a borderline mother.
Our emotional DNA determines our choices in life, it also gives meaning to our observations. Is your blue print made of fear and the need to survive? Do you find yourself making decisions out of fear or the need to survive? God tells us “Don't fear”…. Let's heal our emotional DNA and make choices based on our Christ Identity.
Understanding our attachment style will help us with our interpersonal relationships. Also, by healing our attachment trauma we can improve the quality of our life because we learn to regulate our emotions and to trust the process of life. Find out how you can heal the anxious attachment trauma from the place of love.
Are you experiencing chronic anxiety and depression? Are you stuck in guilt or shame? Are you wondering how to change your thoughts and emotions towards someone or an event in your life? Or are you doubting your abilities in life? In this podcast we talk about the steps that we can take to depart from negative emotions and arrive at the emotion of love. Our purpose in life is to see everything and everyone through the lenses of unconditional love. God bless you.
What is your internal state? Is it one of empowerment or victimhood? Is it one of abandonment or knowing that you are a child of God? Ever wondered how to shift your emotional state? Have you considered where you have invested your love? In this episode we are introducing a biblical technique that helps you identify where you have invested your love! And whether that investment is giving you the return you deserve to receive! Tune in now. God bless you!
The self that we hate, is the self that we perceive as to have been abandoned and has not been worthy of love. What's worthy of love? Whose love are we craving? Are we following the self or transforming the self?
How do you measure feeling worthy or good enough? We have believed that the past is the determiner of our worthiness. Feeling worthy is believed to be in alignment with other people's expectations of us- that is a form of separation. We are born to be in one agreement, and that's to be in alignment with God. The God of unconditional love knows who you are. Unconditional love is to turn the other cheek and observe every condition, including having subjected self-love, in the mirror of God who knows who you are. You are love! God bless you.
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