Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast

Why does marriage matter? And how can you make your marriage a great one? Today Dr. Kim and Colby give some foundations for what makes marriage great, why marriage is beneficial for us, and discuss whether it's ever okay to leave your marriage.   Tune in today to learn more!    Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES To reach Dr. Kim or Colby about anything you heard today, don't hesitate to reach out at drkim@awesomemarriage.com and colby@theengagedlife.co  Awesome Marriage has dozens of marriage resources to help your marriage, whether you're in a good marriage, a hurting marriage, and even if you're not married yet! If you're interested in growing as a Spiritual Leader, make sure you're subscribed to the podcast because when you do, we'll give you our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” free! 

Are you where God has called you to be right now? How can you discern God's calling for you? Today Dr. Kim shares the story of how he responded to God's calling in his life - the good, the bad … and the rest. Tune in to learn more!    Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!  *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES To reach Dr. Kim or Colby about anything you heard today, don't hesitate to reach out at drkim@awesomemarriage.com and colby@theengagedlife.co  Awesome Marriage has dozens of Bible reading plans on YouVersion to help you get into the Word. Find those here. 

Do you have a personal prayer life? How strong is your prayer habit? In today's episode Dr. Kim and Colby share what each of their personal prayer lives look like; how and when they pray, what they pray for. If you have wondered whether prayer is worth it, or how to start praying more regularly, listen to learn more today!   Tune in to learn more!  Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES  If you'd need prayer, email info@awesomemarriage.com with the subject line “DKCLP Prayer” and we will pray for you. 

Do you apologize well? Do you say “sorry,” or even go a step further to ask forgiveness? Today Dr. Kim and Colby dig into what Scripture has to say about apologies and forgiveness; when to maybe not apologize and ways to know when it's time to say sorry – and to truly be sorry. It's all part of being the leader God created you to be.    Tune in to learn more!    Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Awesome Marriage has dozens of Bible reading plans on YouVersion to help you get into the Word. Find those here.  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram Each Thursday, Dr. Kim shares insights, observations and more in his weekly Dispatch. Learn more here!

In an age that tends toward chaos and confusion, how can we be leaders who life in truth? Disagreement over what exactly is true is leading to relational breakdowns and all kinds of damage. But we know that Jesus says He is the way, the truth and the life. We know God is not a god of chaos or confusion. And today on the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast, we're talking about how to pursue truth.     Tune in to learn more!  Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Awesome Marriage has dozens of Bible reading plans on YouVersion to help you get into the Word. Find those here.  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram Each Thursday, Dr. Kim shares insights, observations and more in his weekly Dispatch. Learn more here! 

Do you take ownership or do you pass the buck? This month, Dr. Kim and Colby get real about why men make excuses or blame others rather than owning their stuff, sharing some of the real ways they have come face to face with this temptation and how they handled it. Tune in to learn more!    Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Awesome Marriage has dozens of Bible reading plans on YouVersion to help you get into the Word. Find those here.  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram Dr. Kim's Dispatch is where he shares insights, observations and more each Thursday. Learn more here! 

Are you a “Paul” or a “Timothy?” We are made to live in community, and following Jesus is better when we have others walking alongside us. Do you have someone walking with you as you seek to follow God through life?   Today Dr. Kim and Colby address reasons for discipleship and practical ways to put it in action. Tune in to learn more!    Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free! Plus you'll get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox for each episode!   *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Awesome Marriage has dozens of Bible reading plans on YouVersion to help you get into the Word. Find those here.  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram Dr. Kim's Dispatch is where he shares insights, observations and more each Thursday. Learn more here! 

What makes it hard for men to date well - or date at all? Why are so many of us lonely and alone? Today Dr. Kim and Colby give you practical ways to help you find someone you want to go on more than one date with, grow an existing relationship, or figure out what you're doing that's keeping you from a successful dating relationship.   Some of it might be hard to hear, but these steps can help you move forward both in dating and in being the leader God created you to be. Subscribe to  Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email so you never miss an episode. Plus get noteworthy quotes, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox! When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free!    *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Dr. Kim mentions his ebook, “Dating God for … 21 ish Days” – this book is available on the Awesome Marriage site (it's officially titled “The 30 Day Experiment for Singles”!) You can always reach out to Dr. Kim and Colby via info@awesomemarriage.com or find them at @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram If you're married or dating and want great date ideas and ways to keep growing, we have lots of resources to help you out at AwesomeMarriage.com   

As men we can be pretty good at avoiding our problems at times, but what happens when we don't address what's causing our depression, anxiety or other mental health issues?   Today Colby gets a chance to hear Dr. Kim's perspective on this as a counselor, as the guys discuss men's mental health. Being at your healthiest in all aspects is an important part of becoming the leader God made you to be. Tune in today to learn more!     Subscribe to the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox! When you subscribe, you will receive our “Simple Guide to Spiritual Leadership” resource for free!    *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    RESOURCES Someone is always available to help at the Suicide Hotline 800-273-8255 You can also reach out to Dr. Kim and Colby via info@awesomemarriage.com  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram  

How can men lead and love well in marriage? On the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast, we want to help you lead like Jesus, the best leader ever. This has a lot of applications in marriage, and today we're unpacking them to give you powerful and practical ways to love your wife well, and to follow Jesus' example of servant leadership.  RESOURCES Sacred Sex by Tim Gardner For a simple at-home date night, try the Awesome Marriage Date Designs. Date designs do all the planning for you, including activities and conversation starters so you can easily enjoy some meaningful quality time together.  Color Me Wild  Falling For You

Is chivalry dead? Does it have a place in today's culture? In this episode, Dr. Kim and Colby talk about chivalry and respect. Where do these concepts fit into our lives today, and what does this have to do with learning to lead like the best leader ever? Tune in today to find out more on the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast.     Subscribe to the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.    

At some point, we've all wondered what we're really here for. Are you living with a deep sense of purpose each day? Do you feel a sense of calling, like God is guiding your life? Or are you still looking for more? In this month's episode, Dr. Kim and Colby talk about looking for purpose, responding to God's leading, times they have gone for it, and times they have blown it. Tune in!  Subscribe to the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Jeff Scott Wood.   RESOURCES Dr. Kim referenced the book Chazown by Craig Groeschel, which helped him hone in on purpose.  Read the story of Esther that Dr. Kim and Colby mention in the episode 

The Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast is focused on relational leadership, leading yourself well, and growing into the man God made you to be. This month, Dr. Kim and Colby talk about what it means to be a spiritual leader. This is a topic that can feel elusive, but it's not out of reach. Listen in for practical ways to become a better spiritual leader and more of who you were made to be.    Subscribe to the Dr. Kim and Colby Leadership Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Download the YouVersion app for tons of Bible reading plans and resources 

At some point we've all heard the voices of guilt and condemnation in our mind. But both sin patterns and wallowing in condemnation keep us from living out the purpose God has for us. So how can we move forward and live in the purpose God has for us? Listen today as Dr. Kim and Colby dive into the difference between conviction and condemnation.     Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Have a question, a podcast idea ... or the name of Travolta's character in Welcome Back Kotter? Let us know at info@awesomemarriage.com! Do you need help dealing with infidelity in your marriage? Our Online Affair Recovery Course gives you help on the road to redemption. Check out the 4-day A Better Man YouVersion plan! Download the free Bible app if you don't already have it, and get into Scripture on a regular basis.

Is it just us, or does it seem like offensiveness is everywhere right now? How do we know if we are being offensive? Are there ever good reasons to offend? Today, Dr. Kim and Colby tackle these questions and more as they continue the conversation about what it means to be a better man.    Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES In order to speak things that are in line with God's Word, we need to be well grounded in it. If you aren't in the Word, start a YouVersion plan today.  Have a question, podcast idea, or some insight into the whole “swallowed by a whale” thing? You can reach Colby and Dr. Kim by email at info@awesomemarriage.com! Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram.

What does it mean to “bless” someone? How does blessing others impact us? This month Dr. Kim and Colby dig into the idea of blessing. Is it only something that we can do if we have tons of extra time and money? What would it look like to give and receive blessings graciously? And what does this have to do with being a better man? Tune in this month to find out more about what blessing has to do with being not just an okay man, but a better man.     Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Have a question, a blessing story to share, or topic ideas for the podcast? Have an update for that “Lone Ranger” fact checking request!? Get a hold of Colby and Dr. Kim by emailing info@awesomemarriage.com! Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram. Make sure you're Subscribed to A Better Man Podcast Email so you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!   

Do you live for the weekend? Or for a paycheck? Our actions don't always line up with our intentions, but there are ways to make our focus more of what we say it is. Today Dr. Kim Kimberling and Colby Taylor talk about how we can stay more focused on living for God, not just for ourselves. Tune in for some good perspective and practical ways to be not an ok man, but a better man.    RESOURCES Dr. Kim also co-hosts the Awesome Marriage Podcast, along with Christina Dodson. Tune in for advice and practical help to grow a godly marriage.  Check out the Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast for some powerful wisdom on leading well.  Paul's words in Acts 20:24 help shape a godly perspective on our life's purpose.  Make sure to have the YouVersion Bible App, then you have Scripture with you everywhere you take your phone. (Which I'm guessing is probably everywhere.)

In today's episode Colby says, “When you're starving you'll eat anything.” A lot of us are starving for truth today. So how can we know what's true? Where do we begin? Join Dr. Kim and Colby Taylor today as they talk about where to find truth, why we need to be looking, and what that has to do with not being just an okay man, but a better man.    Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES   A Bible reading plan is a great way to get into the truth of scripture. Find plans on the YouVersion Bible app.   Are you subscribed to A Better Man Podcast Email? Sign up and get each episode plus noteworthy quotes, resources & discussion questions in your inbox each month.  Have a question for Colby or Dr. Kim? Ask them anything by emailing info@awesomemarriage.com.  Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram.

Are we more distracted now than ever? A study suggested we're distracted 7-8 times an hour in the workplace - and does that even include distractions on our phones? This month on the podcast, Dr. Kim and Colby talk about how to deal with those distractions and learn to focus on what really matters most as you are on the road to becoming a better man. 

  This month on the podcast, Dr. Kim and Colby talk about growth. What does spiritual growth mean for us as men? The stress of life and the craziness of the world around us show us we need a solid foundation for our lives. God is that solid foundation. So where do we even start if we want to grow spiritually? Listen in today as Colby and Dr. Kim unpack these questions and help you become a better man.      RESOURCES The YouVersion Bible app is an awesome resource with Bible reading plans and different translations of the Bible. Are you subscribed to A Better Man Podcast Email? Sign up and get each episode plus noteworthy quotes, resources & discussion questions in your inbox each month.  Have a question for Colby or Dr. Kim? Ask them anything by emailing info@awesomemarriage.com. Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram.

In this episode Dr. Kim and Colby are talking about what contentment looks like in our lives. Is settling for contentment a good thing? Does contentment mean you are complacent or apathetic? Join Dr. Kim and Colby as they unpack what contentment has to do with becoming a better man.    Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, discussion questions and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Subscribe to one of our YouVersion Plans to help deepen your trust in God.  Do you have a question for Colby or Dr. Kim? Ask them anything at info@awesomemarriage.com. Find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram

Dr. Kim and Colby are continuing their 3-part series, Unsettled. In this series, they're addressing ways that you might be settling, or tempted to settle, for less. Today they talk about convenience. Convenience isn't necessarily a bad thing, but is it keeping you from better things in your life? Tune in to hear them talk about convenience, settling, and how to become a better man.  Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Resources:  You can find @kimkimberling and @colbyrtaylor on Instagram Check out the Awesome Marriage Podcast  Learn more about The Engaged Life Have a question for Dr. Kim and Colby? Send it right on over to info@awesomemarriage.com   *Some links are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Every dollar made goes directly to the ministry of Awesome Marriage to help couples build awesome marriages. We only promote products we truly recommend.

Ladies, what does your husband want from you? And why? This week we hear from the guys! What did they say was most important to them when we asked? Today Dr. Kim and Christina talk all about what a husband wants from his wife.    We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    SPONSORS   Thank you to Honoring Intimates for sponsoring this podcast episode! Honoring Intimates is a safe place for believers to learn about marital sex and shop for the highest quality lubricant, lotions, and lingerie items at reasonable prices. There are no inappropriate images on the site and the company uses mannequins to display their lingerie. Use the code “AWESOMEMARRIAGE” to receive 20% off your entire order.    RESOURCES We want to help you cheer your husband on with this “21 Day Husband Encouragement Challenge.” This “100 Questions To Get You On The Same Page” Resource is a life saver if parenting stress is hindering your marriage! Our “Spice It Up Sex Challenge” resource is a 10-page PDF, with 18 spicy, sexy challenges to amp up the love, connection, and fun in your marriage bed! Become a Marriage Changer and receive some sweet exclusive benefits. Learn more here! Sign up to get Dr. Kim's One Thing To Grow Your Marriage Each Day via email or text here! *Some links are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Every dollar made goes directly to the ministry of Awesome Marriage to help couples build awesome marriages. We only promote products we truly recommend.

This month Dr. Kim and Colby begin a 3-part series called Unsettled. In this series, they will address ways that you might be settling, or tempted to settle, for less. Today they talk about compromise. Not the win-win type of compromise, but compromise that is settling for the path of least resistance rather than what's good, right and true. Tune in to hear what they have to say about compromise, settling, and how you can tackle this problem head-on and become a better man.  Resources:    The book Dr. Kim mentions about Winston Churchill is The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchill, Family, and Defiance During the Blitz, by Erik Larson   Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  *Some links are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Every dollar made goes directly to the ministry of Awesome Marriage to help couples build awesome marriages. We only promote products we truly recommend.

Today Colby and Dr. Kim tackle parenting. They haven't done it perfectly, but with 8 kids (plus 5 grandkids!) between them, they know a thing or two about being a dad. Listen in as Dr. Kim and Colby offer lots of practical advice and encouragement for dads of kids at any age. We pray this episode helps you seek to be not just an okay man, but a better man.  HOMEWORK QUESTIONS: 1.  What are challenges you face as a parent? 2.  How were you raised?  What good and bad did parenting applications did you take away from your parents? 3.  Who is the disciplinarian in your household? 4.  What are 3 things you want to improve in your parenting?  Share with the group and how you will take steps to improve? 5.  Write what you want your kids to say about you when they are older? 6.  Where is your focus?  Your career or your family? RESOURCES: Parenting with Love and Logic, by Foster and Cline  Family id: Intentional Direction: Discover Your Family's Unique Purpose and Passion!, by Greg Gunn    Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    *Some links are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Every dollar made goes directly to the ministry of Awesome Marriage to help couples build awesome marriages. We only promote products we truly recommend.  

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about anger. They get honest about what things “trigger” them in life and in marriage. They discuss whether it is ever okay to be angry. If so, when? And how can we handle it well? They discuss ways to know if your anger is healthy or unhealthy, tips to deal with it, and what to do if you think your anger might be out of control.      Homework Questions: How do you see anger affecting your life? What are some of your anger triggers? Would friends and family consider you an angry person? What does the verse “be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19) mean to you? What are some steps you can take to get control of your anger? What in the world today makes you angry? We know anger is not all bad. What are some things that should make you angry? What are some ways to channel your anger for positive change?     Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about and define having a healthy ego versus a “big” ego. They answer the question, is having an ego always a bad thing? They discuss ways to find healthy balance in your life, how to learn from your mistakes, and signs that your ego might be out of control. Quotes: “Sometimes you don't notice how much of your ego is controlling aspects of who you are.” - Colby Taylor “My ego doesn't want me to take responsibility for my actions, it makes me want to feel like I'm better than I am and blame others for my mistakes.” - Colby Taylor “Having an ego becomes dangerous when you are not willing to learn from the mistakes that you make.” - Colby Taylor “If you aren't growing, you are going backwards.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When you get older there is a tendency to start thinking that you know more than you do and to stop learning and growing.” - Colby Taylor “I don't usually see the guy with the bad ego in counseling, I see the coworkers of the guy with the bad ego in counseling, who don't know how to work with someone who thinks they are right all the time.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Humility is the template you want to lay over your life.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You never have to feel bad about your failures or mistakes if you let God use them.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   Homework Questions: What does ego look like in your life? In what ways is your ego good / bad? Are there any areas where your ego is out of control? How can you better control your ego? Do you see any areas where your ego has negatively affected others? Who can you ask to help you see areas where your ego needs to be checked?   Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES: Ego Is The Enemy by Ryan Holiday Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln by Doris Kearns Goodwin   *Some links are affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Every dollar made goes directly to the ministry of Awesome Marriage to help couples build awesome marriages. We only promote products we truly recommend.

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about why marriage is so important even when it isn't always fun or easy, they share personal stories from their own experiences, and give advice on how you can make your marriage better today.   Quotes: “I've grown and learned the most in the times when my marriage has been tough.” - Colby Taylor “Marriage isn't always walking along a rosy path but if you have Jesus with you through the hard times you will come out on the other side.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “The best marriages are the marriages that have God at the center.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Marriage is meant to last a lifetime.” - Colby Taylor “It's good for married couples to go to weddings and funerals together.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Premarital counseling reduces the divorce rate by 50%.” - Colby Taylor “If God can change a Saul into Paul, I believe he can do the same thing with marriages.” - Colby Taylor Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES: The Engaged Event Awesome Marriages's Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about why sex in marriage is the best sex, how to not let past sexual baggage define you, and how to improve your sex life for both you and your spouse.   Quotes: “God made our bodies fit together in the way they do, He created our bodies and He created sex.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “The longer you are married to someone and the more you know them and understand them, the better your sex life becomes.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I pray every day that my sexual desire is for my wife only and God honors that prayer.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Let God redefine your sexual past for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “We are meant to be in an intimate relationship with one person, that is what we desire and crave.” - Colby Taylor “You have to talk about sex in your marriage.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   Homework Questions: Do you talk with your wife about sex? Do you communicate your desires to your wife? Do you listen when she communicates her desires to you? Do you know what turns your wife on?  Do you do it? How often do you expect to have sex? Is that realistic considering the stage of life you are in? Do you believe that your past sexual experiences can affect intimacy with your wife? What was your view of sex growing up? Did you have any misconceptions about what sex would be like in marriage? What were they? Who are other men who you can be open with about topics like sex? Is there a group you need to join? A friend you need to reach out to?   Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES: Awesome Marriage's Love Making Survey

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about who is affected by pornography, how it affects them, and how to get the help and accountability you need to fight the addiction.   Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES: https://www.xxxchurch.com/

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about how the disruption in our routines caused by COVID-19 can be an opportunity instead of wasted time. They give advice on how to stay disciplined, be intentional with your significant other, stay connected to Jesus, all while allowing yourself some Netflix/Hulu streaming time.    Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  RESOURCES: The 30-Day Experiment For Singles  Awesome Marriage plans on YouVersion  Awesome Marriage Date Designs  

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about how men handle their emotions, why guys so often turn to anger as a way to express what they're feeling, and who it is safe to talk about and share your emotions with. They explain why being open and honest about your feelings with the right people is one of the best things you can do as a man. Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  RESOURCES: Yourenneagramcoach.com

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about how important it is for men to be in intentional and authentic community with other men. They talk about where to find this kind of community, how these relationships make you a better man/husband/father, and they share their personal experiences and describe what community looks like in their lives.   Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim discuss the struggles and joy that men can experience when they forgive. They talk about the bitterness and anger that weigh heavily on someone who hasn't forgiven in the past and how a man can't move forward into healthy relationships with others unless he learns how to forgive. They ask the questions, “Is it possible to forgive and forget?” and “Is there anything that can't be forgiven?”   Subscribe to A Better Man Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  RESOURCES This episode was recorded at EOTE Coffee in downtown Oklahoma City you can check out their website here, their coffee can also be found on Amazon.  

In this episode Colby & Dr. Kim talk about narcissism in men. They discuss what it is, where it may have stemmed from, and how it affects men and marriages. They share practical advice on what to do to step away from narcissism and walk towards empathy.    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode and get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   RESOURCES Dr. Kim mentions the Enneagram. You can take the Enneagram test at yourenneagramcoach.com and find out more about Beth McCord here. Colby mentions the 5 Love Languages. Learn more here!