Podcasts about awesome marriage

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage.   Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively.   Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive.    Questions to Discuss:  Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage?    QUOTES  Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage.   Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively.   Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive.    Questions to Discuss:  Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage?    QUOTES  Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

Guys, have you lost the spark in your sex drive? If that's you, you are not alone! Libido is a complex issue. There are so many reasons that male libido can falter, from stress and physical factors, to relational issues in your marriage. But for every factor, there are also solutions.  Learn the steps to uncover what's driving your lack of drive so you can revive the desire. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The physical, mental and emotional health factors that affect sex drive  Tips to unpack the issue together in healthy ways  Is there a place for medical advice in understanding libido? Challenging the cultural myths about aging and sex drive  Steps to starting a helpful conversation about improving libido    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide  Main takeaway: Husbands, have you lost the passion? Physical, mental and emotional factors all impact your sex drive but you can reignite the spark and enjoy God's gift of sex in marriage.  Questions to Discuss:  Dr. Kim said that things like depression, anxiety, financial stress, relational tension or past trauma can reduce libido. Are any of those affecting your sexual relationship today? What would you like to experience more of together in your sexual relationship?  What can you do together to make that happen?    QUOTES  “If you've got problems from the past that affect you in the present, you need someone to help you work through that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When the assumptions got on the table, we realized they were wrong. That made such a huge difference.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Low libido doesn't indicate cheating or porn addiction, it's usually more complex than that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The longer you let it go, the worse it's going to get. - Dr. Kim Kimberling   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Congrats to our Awesome Marriage of the Year - Brett and Megan Hamilton! To learn more about National Marriage week, visit their website HERE.  Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy BUNDLE! Don't let negative assumptions tear you apart. Use our Free Printable 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse to nurture a healthy mindset  Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

Guys, have you lost the spark in your sex drive? If that's you, you are not alone! Libido is a complex issue. There are so many reasons that male libido can falter, from stress and physical factors, to relational issues in your marriage. But for every factor, there are also solutions.  Learn the steps to uncover what's driving your lack of drive so you can revive the desire. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The physical, mental and emotional health factors that affect sex drive  Tips to unpack the issue together in healthy ways  Is there a place for medical advice in understanding libido? Challenging the cultural myths about aging and sex drive  Steps to starting a helpful conversation about improving libido    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide  Main takeaway: Husbands, have you lost the passion? Physical, mental and emotional factors all impact your sex drive but you can reignite the spark and enjoy God's gift of sex in marriage.  Questions to Discuss:  Dr. Kim said that things like depression, anxiety, financial stress, relational tension or past trauma can reduce libido. Are any of those affecting your sexual relationship today? What would you like to experience more of together in your sexual relationship?  What can you do together to make that happen?    QUOTES  “If you've got problems from the past that affect you in the present, you need someone to help you work through that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When the assumptions got on the table, we realized they were wrong. That made such a huge difference.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Low libido doesn't indicate cheating or porn addiction, it's usually more complex than that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The longer you let it go, the worse it's going to get. - Dr. Kim Kimberling   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Congrats to our Awesome Marriage of the Year - Brett and Megan Hamilton! To learn more about National Marriage week, visit their website HERE.  Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy BUNDLE! Don't let negative assumptions tear you apart. Use our Free Printable 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse to nurture a healthy mindset  Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!  

Wives, do you seem to be less interested in sex? It's a common issue, and so many factors affect female libido, from hormonal changes, and emotional disconnection to just plain busyness. Whether stemming from physical health or the health of your marriage, there are many ways you and your spouse can work together to bring back the passion and renew your sex drive.    Today, we're troubleshooting the issue with tips for wives with low libido, so you can bring back the passion in your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Tips on healthy communication about sex drive issues  Understanding the effects of stress on a wife's sex drive  How to work together to share the mental load Is lack of sex drive a sign of infidelity?  Building empathy to help reconnect and rekindle her passion    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide  Main takeaway: Ladies, don't let your sex life struggle! Learn to unpack the factors that impact your sex drive, so you can troubleshoot and get things back on track.    Questions to Discuss:  Are there any factors that you know are affecting your libido in this season? (Stress, exhaustion, depression, peri menopause, postpartum, etc.) Are there any relationship factors affecting your interest in sex right now?  What would help you to mitigate the effects of those things today?      QUOTES  “For guys, it's about how do I meet her where she is right now?” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “If there's not full trust, it's going to be very hard to be interested in sex.” - Lindsay Few  “It's ok to talk about sex.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “There are so many things that typically the wife does by default. Look at what is weighing on you that keeps you from even having time to be interested in sex.” - Lindsay Few  “The really good marriages I see are the ones committed to working through things. It doesn't come easy, but they're committed to work through it.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy Bundle! Some of our past episodes on Trust in Marriage:  Types of Trust Every Marriage Needs | Ep. 614 How to Heal and Rebuild After Trust is Broken | Ep. 616 Grab the free 15 Better Assumptions printable to start healing your perspective  Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!    

Wives, do you seem to be less interested in sex? It's a common issue, and so many factors affect female libido, from hormonal changes, and emotional disconnection to just plain busyness. Whether stemming from physical health or the health of your marriage, there are many ways you and your spouse can work together to bring back the passion and renew your sex drive.    Today, we're troubleshooting the issue with tips for wives with low libido, so you can bring back the passion in your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Tips on healthy communication about sex drive issues  Understanding the effects of stress on a wife's sex drive  How to work together to share the mental load Is lack of sex drive a sign of infidelity?  Building empathy to help reconnect and rekindle her passion    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide  Main takeaway: Ladies, don't let your sex life struggle! Learn to unpack the factors that impact your sex drive, so you can troubleshoot and get things back on track.    Questions to Discuss:  Are there any factors that you know are affecting your libido in this season? (Stress, exhaustion, depression, peri menopause, postpartum, etc.) Are there any relationship factors affecting your interest in sex right now?  What would help you to mitigate the effects of those things today?      QUOTES  “For guys, it's about how do I meet her where she is right now?” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “If there's not full trust, it's going to be very hard to be interested in sex.” - Lindsay Few  “It's ok to talk about sex.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “There are so many things that typically the wife does by default. Look at what is weighing on you that keeps you from even having time to be interested in sex.” - Lindsay Few  “The really good marriages I see are the ones committed to working through things. It doesn't come easy, but they're committed to work through it.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy Bundle! Some of our past episodes on Trust in Marriage:  Types of Trust Every Marriage Needs | Ep. 614 How to Heal and Rebuild After Trust is Broken | Ep. 616 Grab the free 15 Better Assumptions printable to start healing your perspective  Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!    

Your marriage should be a blessing to you and your spouse, but it does not need to stop there - a healthy marriage can also bless the world around you! Where is your marriage today? Are you and your spouse a healthy team? Are you healthy enough to pour into those around you? Today we are delighted to welcome Dedric and Krystal Polite to the podcast today to share their unique perspective on finding a vision for their marriage that is making a mark on the world.  Listen for encouragement on enacting a Godly marriage vision this year! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   Episode highlights include:  Breaking the cycle of generational poverty  Developing a life aligned with your values  Tips to date intentionally so that you find a spouse you can partner with  How to make your marriage a blessing to the world around you  Making your spouse your teammate - not your opponent    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Make your marriage strong and healthy so it can become a vehicle for blessing your spouse, family and your community.  Questions to Discuss:  What ways could you intentionally bless others as a couple?  Think about the legacy you want to create as a couple. How would you define your marriage vision?     QUOTES   “Never tie your self worth into your net worth.” - Krystal Polite  “We pray together, we stay together, we work together.”  - Krystal Polite “We lean on each other's strengths.” - Dedric Polite  Faith keeps us steady when the road gets rough.” - Krystal Polite “Our purpose isn't just to make it - we're here to make a difference.”  - Krystal Polite “It starts and ends with effective communication.” - Dedric Polite    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Learn more from the Polites on their website PoliteWealthPortal.com Find BePolite Properties on Facebook or YouTube Build healthy habits in the New Year with the Healthy Marriage Rhythms Bundle: 5 resources for just ONE donation! Get all the details HERE!  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Nominate a couple for Awesome Marriage of the Year HERE!   

Your marriage should be a blessing to you and your spouse, but it does not need to stop there - a healthy marriage can also bless the world around you! Where is your marriage today? Are you and your spouse a healthy team? Are you healthy enough to pour into those around you? Today we are delighted to welcome Dedric and Krystal Polite to the podcast today to share their unique perspective on finding a vision for their marriage that is making a mark on the world.  Listen for encouragement on enacting a Godly marriage vision this year! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   Episode highlights include:  Breaking the cycle of generational poverty  Developing a life aligned with your values  Tips to date intentionally so that you find a spouse you can partner with  How to make your marriage a blessing to the world around you  Making your spouse your teammate - not your opponent    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Make your marriage strong and healthy so it can become a vehicle for blessing your spouse, family and your community.  Questions to Discuss:  What ways could you intentionally bless others as a couple?  Think about the legacy you want to create as a couple. How would you define your marriage vision?     QUOTES   “Never tie your self worth into your net worth.” - Krystal Polite  “We pray together, we stay together, we work together.”  - Krystal Polite “We lean on each other's strengths.” - Dedric Polite  Faith keeps us steady when the road gets rough.” - Krystal Polite “Our purpose isn't just to make it - we're here to make a difference.”  - Krystal Polite “It starts and ends with effective communication.” - Dedric Polite    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Learn more from the Polites on their website PoliteWealthPortal.com Find BePolite Properties on Facebook or YouTube Build healthy habits in the New Year with the Healthy Marriage Rhythms Bundle: 5 resources for just ONE donation! Get all the details HERE!  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Nominate a couple for Awesome Marriage of the Year HERE!   

Lantz and Dr. Kim discussed their experiences and strategies for maintaining a strong marriage, emphasizing the importance of communication, fighting fair, and choosing battles wisely. They also shared their experiences of getting married young, having children, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy marriage amidst the pressures of modern family life. The conversation ended with a discussion on the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage, the need for emotional, intellectual, and sexual intimacy, and the importance of maintaining a strong marriage through the decades. Awesome Marriage Kim Kimberling Love Sex and Intimacy in the Second Half -- Lantz Howard is a professional coach for successful men who want to transform their marriage from good to great. www.lantzhoward.com

Marriage conflict is hard, but you know what makes it even harder? Trying to WIN. Because if you win, that means your spouse loses. And that's not great for your marriage connection. Break out of the “my way” versus “your way” myth and learn what it means to work together to have a win for your marriage.  Today we're unpacking the process of how to win TOGETHER. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   Episode highlights include:  Why taking divorce off the table changes the dynamics of conflict. What does it mean for the marriage to “win” and how can you do it?  Key steps for healthy conflict resolution The importance of empathy and proactive communication to prevent arguments. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide Main takeaway:  Marriage conflict is hard. When you try to win, you make it even harder. Questions to Discuss:  Are there any issues that have you stuck in a “win/lose” cycle?  Have you considered any creative “third” options (options that aren't “your way” or “their way”) that could solve the issue?  Brainstorm possible options. During brainstorming, no idea is too out there! Just get lots of other options on the table to help you start looking for marriage wins instead of fighting over your individual preference.  QUOTES   "If you're trying to win, that means your spouse loses." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "A marriage win creates two winners." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Ask: What's going to make our marriage win?" - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Get the Love Making Survey 2.0! Now expanded with 20 new questions PLUS the 7-day Love Making Challenge, it's our Giving Tuesday gift to you, as a thank you for your donation to the ministry of Awesome Marriage!   Shop Honoring Intimates for lingerie, lubricants and more with NO lewd images, and use our discount code AWESOMEMARRIAGE for 20% off!    Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!  

Today we're answering listener questions about how to handle the pain of a spouse's porn use.  Unfortunately, this is a pretty common issue we hear about from couples, but the good news is that you CAN heal and move forward. So today we're answering listener questions about healing and recovery from pornography in marriage. We'll talk about the process for forgiveness, what to do if you just cannot forgive and move on, how to rebuild trust, and practical strategies to combat intrusive thoughts.  Listen for practical ways to heal and recover your heart and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  How to forgive and move forward when it feels impossible  Changing your view if you can't separate your spouse from the hurtful behavior  The balance of feeling safe and willingness to be vulnerable  Boundary setting to allow for healing Getting out of the comparison trap and starting to feel beautiful and desirable again  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  When your marriage is recovering from porn use, repentance is the first step. Forgiveness allows you to heal, and boundaries help facilitate marriage healing. You can rebuild your marriage even better than before.  Questions to Discuss:  What does your spouse do that helps you trust them? Are there any areas where you need to build or repair trust with your spouse?  What can you do together to help that process?  QUOTES  “Until you forgive, you're still giving a lot of power to what happened.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “One of the best prayers is asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “We want assurance that nothing will ever hurt us again, but that's not possible.” Lindsay Few   “Look for Jesus in your spouse. When you see that, things are probably going to be pretty good.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  This is not a hurdle to get through: this is a lifestyle change.   - Dr. Kim Kimberling There's nothing wrong with being accountable, not because you ‘have to,' but because you love your spouse.   - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You've got to be completely open and transparent with each other. You can't have trust without that.”   - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Sign up for the Free 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal to learn the steps you need to take to live a marriage undefiled and experience closeness and intimacy again Past podcast episodes on healing your marriage after porn:  How to Regain Trust With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 561 How to Rebuild Intimacy With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 562 Has your marriage been damaged by the effects of porn? Not sure what's next? Download the 8 Steps To Heal Your Marriage After Porn to learn your next steps to healing.

For this episode of A Dad's Path Podcast, we speak with Dr. Kim Kimberling, a counselor with 40 years of experience and the co-founder of Awesome Marriage. Dr. Kim shares valuable insights into building and maintaining a strong marriage, especially for parents. The conversation dives into the challenges couples face after having kids, how to stay connected through different seasons of life, and the importance of communication. Dr. Kim provides practical advice on fighting fairly, prioritizing your relationship, and creating a home that serves as a refuge for your family. If you're a dad looking to strengthen your marriage and improve your family life, this episode offers wisdom on navigating everything from raising children to finding time for your partner. Dr. Kim also touches on how faith can anchor marriage and how to avoid feeling disconnected when life gets busy. Tune in to learn strategies to maintain a healthy, long-lasting relationship and create a strong family legacy.

Are you truly resolving your marriage issues? Most couples experience recurring arguments that never truly resolve. This cycle leaves you with two problems: 1, You never solved the issue, and 2, now one or both are hurt and angry. Plus you've got some baggage around the issue, too. Today we're going to help you learn how to resolve the actual issues.    We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What NOT to do in a recurring argument  Communication tips to help you prevent conflict Conversation hacks to prevent defensiveness  The process to understand the REAL underlying issues    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: If you have recurring arguments (most couples do!) there's probably a deeper issue you're not aware of. Get under the surface to resolve the real issue.    Questions to Discuss:  On a scale from 1-10, how well do you and your spouse resolve your marriage conflict?  Better communication helps you address the real issues you need to resolve. What is one step you can take to grow your communication today?    QUOTES   "Most couples have recurring arguments that never truly resolve" - Lindsay Few  "Being vulnerable builds intimacy and trust." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Using 'I' statements takes ownership and responsibility." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Learning to resolve conflict in a healthy way is a gift to your marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the free cheat sheet HERE! Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim's webinar Rebuilding Trust and Establishing Healthy Boundaries After an Affair and learn what steps to take next. 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram for more marriage tips!

Your mindset greatly impacts your day to day life. If you're stuck in unhealthy or unhelpful thought patterns, both you and your marriage will suffer. But there are simple ways to unpack your thought patterns and replace the unhelpful with a biblical perspective. In today's episode we're looking at practical ways to adopt a gracious, life-giving perspective in marriage.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  Common perspective mistakes in marriage and what causes them  Practical tips to resolve perspective issues and create a Biblical perspective What do secret sin and perspective have in common?   Ways to communicate more effectively and seek to understand your spouse's perspective  Tips to cultivate oneness and a spiritual foundation of unity *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Is your perspective of your spouse realistic? For most issues, a generous perspective and good communication can get you through it together.    Questions to Discuss:  Do you have any unrealistic expectations of your spouse today? If you're not sure, check them out together.  Are you and your spouse at odds over an issue? Take the time to learn what matters most to your spouse about their position on it.  Do you have thought habits that are leading to bitterness or resentment in your marriage?     QUOTES  "It's hard to step into your spouse's shoes or take the time to do that, to have empathy for them." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Resentment can be a huge thing and it's so dangerous because if we don't stop it, it continues to grow." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Perspective is your lens on the world. If your lens is covered with smudges and you're not seeing clearly, that's not the world's fault. You've got to clean your lens.” - Lindsay Few   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   If you are ready to have a better perspective – and a better marriage, then the biblically-based 4 Week Reframing Challenge is for you!  Turn to God and ask him to renew your mind with our NEW resource, 11 Prayers To Stop Thinking Negatively About Your Spouse 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here!  Join the Marriage Changer Movement! Because a world full of awesome marriages can change the world Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more!

Do you feel like a team with your spouse in parenting or do you often turn on each other? Do you have different ideas about what is right for your kids? Have the teen years brought more conflict than unity?  Today Dr. Kim Kimberling, professional counselor and founder of Awesome Marriage, is here to share his years of wisdom on how to keep the marriage strong while parenting. Dr. Kim has been married to his wife for 53 years and the tips that flow from those years of experience are priceless.  He shares how to build in some one-on-one time, stay on the same page in the teen years, and how praying together allows the Holy Spirit to breathe creativity into your parenting. Dr. Kim also comforts those whose spouse may not currently be walking with the Lord and how to navigate that hard season. He reminds us that you can't put your marriage on the back burner for years and expect it to be the same when your kids are gone and gives us tools to make sure we are making our partner a priority. Be sure to check out his website that is full of resources.  Connect with Dr. Kim Kimberling:  Website:  Awesome Marriage — Marriage, Relationships, and Premarital Counseling Facebook: Awesome Marriage Instagram:  Marriage and Relationship Experts (@awesome_marriage) Links Mentioned:   Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep--Love [BOOK on attachment] Podcast — Awesome Marriage 7 Secrets to an Awesome Marriage: by Dr. Kim Kimberling PhD Related Episodes: Building Strong Marriages :: Kimberly Beam Holmes [Ep 374] Nurturing Your Marriage :: Brent and Janis Sharpe [Ep 299] Habits of a Healthy Marriage :: Paul David Tripp [Ep 234] Featured Sponsors:  IXL Learning: Make an impact on your child's learning, get IXL now. And Don't Mom Alone listeners can get an exclusive 20% off IXL membership when they sign up today at IXL.com/DMA. Visit IXL.com/DMA to get the most effective learning program out there at the best price.  Wildgrain: Are you ready to bring all your favorite carbs right to your doorstep? Be sure to check out Wildgrain so you can begin building your own box of artisanal breads, pastas, and pastries. For a limited time, Wildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS free Croissants in every box - when you go to Wildgrain.com/DMA to start your subscription or you can use promo code DMA at checkout. Rhone: Upgrade your closet with Rhone and use DMA to save 20% at https://www.rhone.com/DMA Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors. 

Does marriage still matter in this day and age? We say a resounding yes!    Marriage was designed by God, and there are several purposes the Bible gives for why marriage matters. Today we're digging into what Scripture says about the value of marriage. Tune in to learn God's purposes for the marriage relationship, and why they matter in your marriage! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:    Dr. Kim's list of biblical purposes for marriage Several ideas for what it means to “be fruitful” in marriage  The power of a marriage model - and tips on how to find one  The ripple effect of an intentional marriage Ways your marriage can be a light in our dark world    Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. To get each new guide, click here to subscribe!   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “No marriage is perfect. But if you're a couple steps ahead, you've navigated some things that others haven't.” - Lindsay Few   “My dream for the marriage changers is that they're learning, growing and passing that on.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Prayer has had such an impact on our marriage. When God answers prayer like He does, we want to tell everybody what He's done!” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  The things God calls us to do bring glory to God. They bring us joy, life and peace, and they also bring light and encouragement to others.” - Lindsay Few  “Yes, it's hard at times. Yes, there are things you have to work through. But the big picture result is worth it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Don't let screens come between you: Use our free 17 Questions Every Couple Should Ask About Tech printable to get on the same page!  Life's unpredictable. Build a solid foundation for your marriage with 21 Prayers to Build an Awesome Marriage  We are here to help! Email Info@awesomemarriage.com any time.  Are you ready to join the mission? Our Marriage Changers exist because a world full of awesome marriages can change the world! Learn more HERE  Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. You'll get each new guide when you click here to subscribe!  

Want better connection with your spouse? One thing we hear a lot from couples is that they don't feel close to each other or that their relationship feels like it's missing some depth. That's why today we're re-airing this episode from Dr. Kim and Christina that talks all about emotional intimacy and gives you ideas of practical ways to deepen the emotional intimacy in your marriage.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:   What is emotional intimacy, and why does it matter?  Warning signs you need to grow in this area  Emotional intimacy killers to avoid   Tips to start working on this - alone, and together    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “It is hard work knowing someone. You have to pay attention. It takes work to be intimate.” - Christina Dodson  “Laziness and business are going to block your intimacy, so we have to fight against those things.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Give yourself opportunities to connect.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “It adds value to my marriage for me to have a relationship with my friends, just like it benefits our marriage that he has guy friends.” - Christina Dodson  “You could have had the best childhood in the world and you still have baggage because we're human. That's okay, and you can deal with that.” - Christina Dodson  “You can't be emotionally intimate with your spouse if you aren't aware of your own emotions.” - Christina Dodson  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.  Your marriage can only be as healthy as the two of you are. The Bible says, “Let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord” (Lamentations 3:40). Our new Self Check-In Guide will help you do just that!  Print out this Feelings Chart and use it to help you talk about your emotions. Our Questions To Help Your Spouse Open Up resource is a simple way to help build the closeness between you and your spouseAccountability is a biblical and helpful tool for growing in holiness.  

What is a “gospeler”?   It's probably a lot simpler than you think! It is something that will certainly impact you and your marriage, but also has the potential to have a huge impact on others around you.  Today Willie Robertson shares  how one person sharing the Gospel impacted thousands, starting with his family, and he explains just how simple it can be to begin to care enough for others to share the Gospel with them.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:    Gospel genealogy & the ripple effect one conversation can have  The Biblical basis for this kind of conversation  Where to start if you don't know where to start  Advice for parents to share their faith in parenting  Different ways to approach sharing your faith    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “When you're active in sharing your faith, it takes care of a lot of other things for you as well.” - Willie Robertston “The great commission was for all of us.” - Willie Robertston “Make disciples, baptize people, teach people; you're not going to do any of those 3 unless you open your mouth.” - Willie Robertston “It starts with caring about people.” - Willie Robertston “You start learning the Word, you'll start standing out in the crowd.” - Willie Robertston   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Order Willie's new book, Gospeler today!  Find more from Willie at DuckCommander.com and WillieRobertson.com  Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.   

Are you ever a bit too helpful in your marriage? Do you find yourself frustrated with the way your spouse responds to you?  You may be trying to control your spouse by “helping” even if you don't mean to!  Today Laura Doyle from the Empowered Wife Podcast joins Dr. Kim to teach us some ways to shift our marriage culture - without resorting to control tactics. Tune in to learn how!  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   Empowering ways to shift the culture of your marriage, even if your spouse isn't on board “Cheat phrases” to help you shift from controlling tendencies to deeper intimacy    The unexpected lesson of sitting down with your spouse and getting nothing done!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Find more of Laura's content, including her free Empowered Wife Road Map on her website Check out Laura's book, the Empowered Wife! Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount. 

C-Roc welcomes Dr. Kim Kimberling, co-founder of the online ministry Awesome Marriage, speaker, and author of numerous books including 14 Keys to Lasting Love and Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half. Dr. Kim shares his journey of helping others become who God created them to be, emphasizing the importance of purpose and the power of God's plan over worldly pursuits. The conversation delves into the challenges of parenting, balancing guidance and freedom, and the significance of allowing children to learn from their experiences. Dr. Kim also discusses the impact of Christian counseling, highlighting the hope and transformation that comes from aligning with God's purpose. Listeners will find valuable insights on maintaining a strong marriage, the importance of persistent faith, and navigating life's ups and downs with divine guidance. Tune in to hear Dr. Kim's story, his approach to marriage counseling, and the profound difference faith makes in our personal journeys. Website- https://awesomemarriage.com/dr-kim Social Media Links/Handles- https://www.facebook.com/drkimkimberling https://www.instagram.com/kimkimberling/ https://x.com/kimkimberling

I don't know where you are in your marriage today, but I believe God led you to this episode for a purpose. If we're honest, most married people have thought about divorce at some point in their relationship. Perhaps, right now, you might be about to file papers or maybe you desperately want to help a friend or loved one who is considering divorce.  Our culture says divorce is a necessary solution to a broken marriage. But what if it's not? What if restoration is easier than you think?  Our guest today is Dr. Kim Kimberling of the Awesome Marriage podcast, and he's going to walk us through a checklist of sorts . . . five critical things to do before you divorce.  Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com   Links Mentioned in this Episode: 

Today we answer some of the most frequently asked questions we hear about sex. Dr. Kim and Christina covered this on an episode in 2021, and we've distilled their conversation into the most timeless and practical answers to common sex questions.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.   Episode highlights include:   How often is “normal”? Dealing with dead sex drive  Is oral sex ok in marriage? What about anal?  Is there such thing as too much sex when trying to conceive?  How to start talking to your kids about sex  What do do if your spouse withholds sex   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “Guys, you have to continue to be romantic.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “I wanted my kids to talk to me about sex before they went to a friend or read it on a bathroom wall or a magazine. You want that door to be open.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “You need to honor each other and respect each other's body to honor God in marriage.” - Christina Dodson “Guys, if you please your wife first, does it really matter when you orgasm? There's this unspoken pressure.” - Christina Dodson  “There's always an answer. I've never had a couple we couldn't figure out an answer for.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Stay at the comfort level of the one who is least comfortable. If you do that, you're going to be ok.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Sign up HERE to get the Couple's Conversation Guide for each week's new episode  Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier is a quick weekly email with actionable insights to grow your marriage. Sign up HERE!  Resources we recommend for starting the sex conversation with your spouse Celebration of Sex Lovemaking Survey Resources we recommend for talking to your kids about sex:  Don't Mom Alone Podcast Ep 328  Full Set - God's Design for Sex Series: Revised and Updated Edition by Stan Jones, Brenna Jones  We're delighted to partner with The Sex Talk, an excellent online course to help you navigate this topic well   

Trust in marriage is not one-size-fits all. There are many areas where your marriage needs trust in order to thrive, and some might matter to your spouse more than they do to you, and vice versa. So today we're talking about how to navigate any trust gaps you may have with your spouse, how to start the conversation about it, and rebuild what's been broken so you both feel more connected and secure in your marriage.   We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   Several types of trust marriages need, and why they matter The side effects of missing trust  Simple steps to catch a trust slip-up so that trust is not broken Specific trust-killers you need to avoid  How to build trust - and keep it   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “It helps to build trust if you accept me as I am, not as you wish I would be.” - Lindsay Few  “I may not even be aware if I did something that affected the trust, and I want to know.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “If it's important to her and it keeps coming up, I want her to tell me about it.” Dr. Kim Kimberling  “I'd be so offended when he didn't trust me, but when I think about the reality, I wasn't trustworthy.” - Lindsay Few  “Trust is between two people. It's not just your perception of yourself.” - Lindsay Few  “It's not like we quit making mistakes, it's just that we handle them differently now.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  What would happen if you took the next 4 weeks to reframe your spouse and your marriage with a biblical approach? Cultivate a better perspective – and a better marriage, with our Reframing Challenge Sign up HERE to get the Couple's Conversation Guide for each week's new episode  Does your sex life need a reboot? Improve your sex life with our Locking Lips Kissing Game!  If your marriage has been damaged by porn, the Marriage Undefiled Online Course provides a path to rebuild trust and repair your marriage.   Click HERE to get the Couple's Conversation Guide for each week's new episode!  The free printable Weekly Check Up is a simple way to keep short accounts and keep building trust.

Do you fight fair, or do you wish there was a referee to call a stop to the foul play when you argue with your spouse? Ground rules are an important step toward having healthy marriage conflict, so today Dr. Kim will spell out how to make sure you're fighting fair in your marriage. We want to empower you to fight fair, and resolve issues in a kind and loving way.  If you need help to fight fair and truly resolve issues without making things worse, you will love today's conversation.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   The DOs and DON'Ts of fighting fair  The side effects of unhealthy conflict  A healthy way to “let it all out”  Can honesty go too far?  How do you know?  Tips to the reconnection process - how to make up well    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  QUOTES “We both learned we needed to reconnect and apologize, but sometimes we werent' ready to take that step at the same time. We had to learn that somebody needs to take the step. It doesn't really matter who started the fight or who was wrong.”  “Taking responsibility is huge. Owning your part in it, even if you think you only did 10%, you still did 10%.” “What are you sorry for? Be very specific in what you did and why you're taking responsibility.” “I say it a lot: One of the best gifts you can give your marriage is to learn how to resolve conflict.”  Forgiveness and apologies need to have no strings attached. It's just that I choose to do this.  We're not just trying to clear a slate so our spouse stops bugging us. Have you repented before the Lord? That's where this starts.  We are accountable to Him before being accountable to our spouse. Did I just treat my spouse in the way He would have me treat them? If not, I need to take that up with Him    QUESTIONS FOR YOU When you really think about it, how did it affect your spouse when you had this conflict?  Repentance. Learning from the mistakes made and committing to work on them together.    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Learn more about how to make your marriage conflict healthy by joining Dr. Kim for the 8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair Webinar  Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is your quick guide to get marriage conflict on the right track.  If you're ready to learn how to do conflict well, the Conflict Resolution Guide helps you diagnose the problem areas in your marriage, then learn the steps to resolve them.  TODAY is the last day for our 7 Most Popular Resource Bundle! Don't miss the chance to get 7 of our most-loved resources for 1 donation of ANY amount in support of the ministry of Awesome Marriage! Get all the details here!    

Sick of the same old fights over and over with your spouse? Learn to de-escalate marriage fights and resolve issues in a healthy and helpful way. Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but the way you handle it is what matters most. Learning to deal with it well will benefit your marriage in so many ways! Tune in today to learn how.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:   Common conflict pitfalls to avoid The problem with “winning” marriage fights  Tips to help you break the fighting cycle What to do if one spouse is not ready to reconnect  DISCUSSION QUESTIONS: Are you stuck in a conflict cycle? If so, work together to identify what's triggering it.  Choose 1 tip from Dr. Kim's list below that you will both agree to use this week.  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  QUOTES “When we try our best to avoid conflict, we're not really equipping ourselves with the skills to handle it well.” - Lindsay Few  “Awareness gives you some insight that can really be useful.” Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Learn more about how to make your marriage conflict healthy by joining Dr. Kim for the 8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair Webinar  Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is your quick guide to get marriage conflict on the right track.  If you're ready to learn how to do conflict well, the Conflict Resolution Guide helps you diagnose the problem areas in your marriage, then learn the steps to resolve them.  It's here! Our 7 Most Popular Resource Bundle is LIVE! That means you can get 7 of our most-loved marriage building resources by making 1 donation of ANY amount to support the ministry of Awesome Marriage! The bundle is available for a limited time only. Get all the details here!    

We just wrapped up this month of The Positively You Book Club, a personal growth book club where we focus on a different area of our life each month. Our focus for February was on relationships, sex, and connection- so the book Sex Talks by Vanessa Marin was the perfect BOTM. Because I know not everyone was able to make it, we made sure to hit record so you too can get in on the conversation (almost like you were there!) So without any more delay, here is the the book club. You're in for a real treat as we dive into "Sex Talks" by Vanessa KEY TAKEAWAYS: *Embrace vulnerability and open dialogue with your partner.*Effective communication is vital for understanding desires and navigating conflicts.*Scheduling sex can provide anticipation and connection, rather than feeling like a chore.*Explore different initiation styles with your partner.*Experiment with spontaneous scheduling to keep intimacy exciting.*Create rituals to strengthen connection and intimacy in your relationship.*Little moments of connection daily are crucial for maintaining desire and closeness.*Yes, No, Maybe List*Awkwardness is the price of admission for a fulfilling sex life.*Continuous connection and communication is key to a fulfilling sex life NEXT STEPS: Join our personal growth book club- it's completely free! You'll grow, connect, make new friends, gain new insights and perspective and so much more! Connect with me on Instagram- it's where all the fun really isLoved this episode? Share is with a friend OTHER EPISODES YOU'LL LOVE: * 150: Simple Steps to Prioritize Your Marriage Everyday * 79: Get Naked: And Other Ways to Learn to Love Your Body*8: How To Have an Awesome Marriage

What does it look like to live in intimacy with God each day? We are delighted to have Faith Eury Cho with us today, sharing about what friendship with God means, even in the “wilderness” times in our lives.  Faith is the CEO and founder of the Honor Summit, a gospel preacher, and author of the new book, Experiencing Friendship with God: How the Wilderness Draws Us to His Presence. Faith does a great job de-mystifying this lofty topic, so you don't want to miss this conversation.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   What does “friendship with God” actually mean?  Practical ways to “practice God's presence,” even if it seems out of reach  How friendship with God impacts marriage How to grow spiritually with your spouse Ways to take these concepts into parenting / grandparenting  How to navigate the wilderness seasons of our faith    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES “Sometimes without even knowing, we believe so that God can give us a better life.” - Faith Eury Cho “Friendship with God is just intimacy on a day to day level.” Faith Eury Cho “We need to really redefine what experience actually means. Because if we go into any relationship, any - our spouse, our kids, our friends - having a set agenda of what experiencing that relationship should look like to us, it can be very unhealthy really quick.” -  Faith Eury Cho “Start simple. Start with something that is a natural offshoot to your regular rhythms of life.”  - Faith Eury Cho “I remember moments I would tell God, ‘I don't have a prayer to pray, I don't have a song to sing, but I'm here.'”  - Faith Eury Cho “God cares about every little thing, and we want to give him the opportunity to show us that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Some of us are friends with fear, not the presence of God, and I think we've got to break up with our fear!” - Faith Eury Cho QUESTIONS FOR YOU What is one way you and your spouse like to worship God together?  Have you seen God move during a ‘wilderness' season?    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Find Faith on Instagram or at her website, www.faitheurycho.com Grab Faith's book, Experiencing Friendship with God: How the Wilderness Draws Us to His Presence. Our 2 Week Couples Scripture Challenge is a practical tool to help you get in the Word with your spouse each day. Find out more here!   Our House Prayer Cards are one of our best-loved resources, making it simple to use mundane moments for godly purpose in your home. Learn more HERE! If you'd like to get each of our monthly marriage resources delivered directly to your inbox, while also supporting the non-profit ministry of Awesome Marriage, it's time to become a Marriage Changer! Get all the details here.

Mama, do you have a desire to connect with your husband, where you can get on the same page about things?  Do you want to involve God more in your marriage? I have the resource for you! In this episode I unpack how my husband and I have a weekly marriage check in. We got this resource from Awesome Marriage and we love it. It has transformed our marriage where we are now on the same page about finances, schedules, parenting etc. It has encouraged us to share more with each other and to involve God more in our marriage. I pray this is something you can use yourself and watch as your marriage is impacted. XO Deb Connect with me on Instagram, or join the Facebook community here. Email me: heymamasmission@gmail.com or join the weekly newsletter here. Keen to work with me? Book a 15 min discovery call here to see how I can help you find pockets of time in your day to help build an authentic faith in your kids.

Does your home echo with the sounds of sibling squabbles? Do you wish for more connection with your kids? If so, today's episode is for you! Don & Suzanne Manning, the founders of Crazy Cool Family, are passionate about equipping Christian families with strategies to cultivate a family culture they ALL enjoy living with!  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   Effective ways to protect kids from screen & tech temptations Where to invest your time and energy for the best parenting outcomes - and where NOT to  The goal of disciplining our kids and how to work toward it    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES “Don't look at the outside and all the fearful things - don't waste your time and energy there: You're going after your kids' heart.” - Suzanne Manning “Kids are wired to want us on their team. They want our input. ”  - Suzanne Manning  “Control is based in fear, and connection is based in love.” - Don Manning  “Most people try to control, because we don't know what to do. But it doesn't work.” Dr Kim Kimberling   “We never tell parents they need to work harder. They need to work differently. Becoming an encourager and being a listener are two ways to do that.” - Don Manning   “Our children are going to go where the encouragement is.” - Suzanne Manning  “Because of technology and culture, connection today is more important than it's ever been.” - Don Manning  “The goal of discipline is self-control. When situations come up, they are opportunities to build self control in my kids. Opportunities to build them up for the next stage of life.” - Don Manning  QUESTIONS FOR YOU  Do you lean more toward connection, or control?   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Find more resources and info from Don & Suzanne at CrazyCoolFamily.com   Listen to the Crazy Cool Family Podcast    Reduce unnecessary arguments, decrease stress in your home, develop better understanding of your spouse, AND strengthen your bond as a couple with THIS: Our 30-Day Communication Challenge!    Need more communication help? Sign up here to save your spot for Dr. Kim's FREE webinar,  “7 Common Communication Mistakes Couples Make”   Questions about gaslighting, narcissism and blame? Submit them anonymously HERE or DM us on Instagram. Dr. Kim will answer them in an upcoming episode   

If you want to avoid communication breakdowns in your marriage, today's episode is for you! Today, Dr. Kim is going to share 3 very common mistakes he sees as he counsels couples, so that you can avoid them! Whether you need a total overhaul or just a few friendly reminders, today's episode has practical, actionable advice that will help you improve the communication in your marriage.  Are you making the same mistakes most couples make with communication? Dr. Kim has pretty much seen it all, and today he is going to help you avoid those mistakes, and build better communication instead.    We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:    3 of the most common mistakes Dr. Kim sees over and over with couples he counsels: Blame, discounting, and distraction.  The impact each of these mistakes has on a spouse and marriage The practical steps to avoid each of these communication pitfalls    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES When you resolve conflict, both of you have to take responsibility for your part in it. I've never seen an issue where 1 person was 100% responsible. - Dr. Kim  I think it's easy for us to rationalize, fool ourselves, and take the time to think it through.  - Dr. Kim  I've done it, I've seen it in other wives: It's easy for us in parenting to discount our husband's opinion. - Lindsay  Listen in a way that you can let them know you heard what they said. - Dr. Kim  As a parent with kids in the home, it's great to have the reminder that they are benefitting from us putting boundaries that let us have an adult relationship with our spouse. As important as they are to us, we should value showing them that solid foundation and modeling marriage for them.  - Lindsay  I identify with all three of these, I've done them all. I'ts not something you just get right then coast, you have to stay on top of it. - Dr. Kim   QUESTIONS FOR YOU Do you use “I” statements to communicate what you need with your spouse?  For example: Instead of, “You always ignore me when I'm talking,” say, “I feel hurt when you scroll on your phone when I'm talking. I want to know that you care about what I have to say.”    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Need more communication help? Sign up here to save your spot for Dr. Kim's FREE webinar,  “7 Common Communication Mistakes Couples Make” Questions about gaslighting, narcissism and blame? Submit them anonymously HERE or DM us on Instagram. Dr. Kim will answer them in an upcoming episode  Want to reduce unnecessary arguments, decrease stress in your home, develop better understanding of your spouse, OR just strengthen your bond as a couple? Our 30-Day Communication Challenge is for you!  With Dr. Kim's One Thing email, you'll get one practical tip each weekday to build your marriage. The Marriage Multiplier is a quick weekly email that gives you practical ways to be intentional to grow your marriage. Sign up HERE! 

You can reduce the stress and conflict in your marriage simply by creating margin. Today's episode unpacks several practical ways to create margin in your marriage. Scripture demonstrates how essential a healthy mindset is, so all month we're getting practical about how to cultivate a healthy mindset and a healthy marriage. Tune into today's episode to learn how to create margin in your marriage.   We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage!    Episode highlights include:  The practice Dr. Kim recommends to help you build margin into your marriage and the free resource we offer to make this simple to do Mindset shifts to help you find margin Practical ways to prioritize your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES “It's not just carving out more time for each other, it's how you use that time.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “We talk about your home and marriage being a refuge. You want to create that.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling “It's worth the effort to get intentional about this and get on the same page, so you can tackle it as a team.” Lindsay Few  “Learning to really listen makes a big difference. There's so much value to feeling heard, and knowing that your spouse cares to really listen.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “One thing that really helped us is when we realized we were not each other's enemy.”   - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Be ok with being counter cultural if that's what's best for your family and your marriage.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling QUESTIONS:  How can you and your spouse work together to create more margin in your marriage?  How can you work together to create a culture of grace in your marriage?  What do you really want for your marriage? What do you need to say no to in this season to make that happen?    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Contentment doesn't come easily, but is more than worth the effort. Take the steps to grow your contentment with our 15-Day Contentment Challenge! It's yours for a donation of ANY amount to the ministry of Awesome Marriage this Giving Tuesday!  Dr. Kim highly recommends a Weekly Check In for every couple  – so to make this simple for you, we have created a Weekly Marriage Check In Guide. You can snag this resource for free when you sign up for the One Thing to Grow Your Marriage email series! We really enjoyed the book “Ruthless Elimination of Hurry” mentioned in today's episode

Gratitude is a powerful mindset – it affects our mind, our marriage, even our physical health!  Scripture is clear that our mindset is very important, so this month we're digging into how to cultivate a healthy mindset and a healthy marriage. Today we're talking about the power of gratitude. What makes this trait so important, and how can we cultivate it? Tune in for all the details!  Episode highlights include:  Dr. Kim and Lindsay share how gratitude helped them each deal with depression The way gratitude helps your marriage and your outlook on life Why growing in gratitude actually ends up leading to – more gratitude! Practical ways to cultivate gratitude in every day  Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES “I think we're wired to give thanks and be grateful to God.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “When we acknowledge on a regular basis what we're thankful for, we tend to be happier and less depressed.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “It's looking at what's actually happening in my life. What is God doing? What is here today? It brings you back into the present.”-  Lindsay Few  “I think the more we acknowledge who He is in our lives and worship him for that, that goes a long way to changing our gratitude.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “I don't think God put us together to grumble for 50 years. I think He put us together to grow, to learn, and to be grateful.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   “I think it helps us to serve our spouse and serve our God better when our frame of mind is healthier. And I think gratitude makes it healthier.” -  Dr. Kim Kimberling   QUESTIONS So many things in the world are out of our control, but God IS in control. What is 1 reason you are thankful that He is in control today?  When you think something good about your spouse, say it! What do you appreciate about your spouse?  What is 1 thing you can do to be more present with your spouse today?   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Contentment doesn't come easily, but is more than worth the effort! Grab our 15-Day Contentment Challenge with a donation of ANY amount to the ministry of Awesome Marriage this Giving Tuesday! LEARN MORE HERE! The 27 Scripture Prayer Cards resource is a beautiful way to remember scripture and to bring the power of prayer into your marriage each day! It's the perfect time to sign up for Dr. Kim's daily One Thing to Grow Your Marriage email series, since this week's emails give you simple ways to practice gratitude with your spouse

Has blame crept into your marriage? If so, your marriage is certainly suffering its effects. But it does not have to stay that way! Today Dr. Kim helps you discover how to identify and remove this damaging habit from your marriage.   Scripture is clear that our mindset matters, and that we have the ability to change our minds! So this month we're digging into how to cultivate a healthy mindset and a healthy marriage. Dig in today to start dismantling the blame. Episode highlights include:  How to identify - and break - subtle blame patterns  Why expecting each spouse to give their 50% share to the marriage just doesn't add up  Dr. Kim and Lindsay get real about how blame has impacted their marriages  How to remove blame from our efforts to show our spouse love How to address the issue healthily instead   Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Dr. Kim mentioned this article from Harvard Health in the episode Contentment doesn't come easily, but it's SO worth the work! Get our 15-Day Contentment Challenge with a donation of ANY amount to the ministry of Awesome Marriage this Giving Tuesday! Learn more here!  15 Daily Prayers Bundle  More mindset resources:  Dr. Kim's Mind Craft Plan Switch On Your Brain by Dr. Leaf (includes the “21-Day Brain Detox”)   

What does  it mean to “reframe?” And how can you know if you need to do it? Reframing is a term Dr. Kim has used in past episodes, and today we learn exactly what it means and the practical steps to do it.  Scripture is clear that our mindset is very important, so this month we're digging into how to cultivate a healthy mindset and a healthy marriage. Tune into today's episode for the details!  Episode highlights include:  The Biblical basis and Scripture to support the concept of reframing Practical steps of the reframing process What to do if your spouse frames you negatively   Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Dr. Kim's Mind Craft Plan (I accidentally referred to it as Mind Your Marriage in the episode) is a great place to start!  Caroline Leaf's book, Switch On Your Brain includes the “21-Day Brain Detox” Dr. Kim mentioned in the episode  The Weekly Marriage Check In is a great way to stay connected with your spouse, and you get this printable resource FREE when you sign up for the One Thing email! Get all the details here.  Being self-aware is a gift to your marriage, yourself and everyone around you! Our Self Check In Guide is a tool to take you through the process of growing self-aware.  Dr. Kim mentioned our Marriage Changers Membership, where he and Nancy share exclusive video content each month. Marriage Changers also get automatic access to each new monthly resource we create. Learn more here.  Scripture references:  Romans 12:2 Proverbs 4:23   1 Corinthians 2:16   Romans 8:6  

You know that moment when things go quickly from okay to “What just happened?” in your marriage? Suddenly there's tension and you're totally disconnected. Today, we are so happy to have Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill join us on the podcast. They do a great job explaining what goes wrong in that moment, and how to prevent it from happening again. Tune in to learn more!  Episode highlights include:  The shift that completely changed how they approached conflict  The 1 question to stop asking in fights and the better 1 to ask instead  The Hills unpack what it means that identity is the #1 human need, and how that plays out in marriage A practical tool to easily learn how to emotions well together    How disconnection can affect family life and strategies to handle it    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Find more from Dr. Glenn and Phyllis at their website: https://www.connectioncodes.co/ and make sure to use the code AWESOME20 for 20% off any of their classes!  Learn more about using this process to connect in their book: The Connection Codes or on The Connection Codes Podcast! Download your free copy of the Hill's Core Emotion Wheel! You are invited to Dr. Kim's free webinar, 8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair in Your Marriage. Get all the details HERE    

This is the place for honest conversations and practical advice on how to have an awesome marriage. In this brief trailer, Dr. Kim Kimberling and co-host Lindsay Few share what you can expect to hear on the Awesome Marriage podcast each week.  If you enjoy the podcast, make sure to sign up for our Podcast Email. When you sign up, you will get each new episode, along with bonus content, delivered straight to your inbox each Tuesday. PLUS we will send you our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free as a thank you for signing up!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  * You can find all of Awesome Marriage's helpful resources on our website. 

What is a gospel perspective of sexuality? It's hard to answer, since too often, sex is not talked about in the church. Yet it's literally everywhere in the world around us. Most couples struggle with their sex life at some point and parents are deeply concerned about helping their kids navigate the topic in a God-honoring way in the midst of all of culture's chaos. That is why we are honored to have Dr. Juli Slattery on the podcast today, sharing her vast knowledge and wisdom on the subject. You don't want to miss what she has to say.    Episode highlights include:  Why a biblical worldview of sexuality is actually very freeing How disruptions to your sex life can become a springboard to greater intimacy  4 specific aspects of God's love that should define healthy sex in marriage  The process to engage so you can equip your kids to navigate sexuality biblically Encouragement for couples who are struggling in this area  Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  For more great info from Juli:  Her newest book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage  Her podcast:  Java with Juli  Her website: authenticintimacy.com Books by the authors mentioned in the episode:  Celebration of Sex, by Douglas Rosenau,   The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex and Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women, both by Cliff and Joyce Penner  Refresh your marriage this fall with the 4th Annual Online Marriage Retreat. The retreat is live NOW! This year's theme is Refresh: Break Through the Barriers to an Awesome Marriage. It's packed with teaching sessions from our amazing speakers to bring you practical ways to break through the barriers that keep your marriage from being awesome. Click HERE for all the details!  Set your marriage up for better satisfaction in the bedroom when you get your head in the game with the Think Sex Challenge!   

This week it's the husbands' turn to weigh in. Today we hear what men said they wish their wives knew about sex. Would your husband agree? Dr. Kim strongly encourages couples to talk about their sex life, not argue about it, but… most couples don't! So listening to today's episode together is an easy way to start the conversation.    Sex in your marriage matters because God created it to draw spouses together, but all too often pain and tension lead to exactly the opposite. Tune in today to learn the next steps in your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Some common Christian sex myths that might be hindering your sex life... ... And what the Bible says about them Some really effective ways to talk about sex with your spouse ... ... And some others you definitely want to avoid    >>> This is where to sign up for our Podcast Email. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox, so you never miss an episode. If you are just signing up today and want to receive the conversation starters from today's episode, email me for a copy!  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Set your marriage up for better satisfaction in the bedroom with the Think Sex Challenge The 4th Annual Online Marriage Retreat launches THIS WEEK! This year's theme is Refresh: Break Through the Barriers to an Awesome Marriage and this retreat is packed with helpful sessions from amazing speakers. Click HERE for all the details!  Ready to gain REAL freedom and healing from porn in your marriage? Learn more about how you can do that with our new course, Marriage Undefiled: How To Overcome Porn and Heal Your Marriage.  Has sex has fallen down the list of priorities? In Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half Dr. Kim and Nancy tell how they have handled the challenges to their sex life later in marriage.  We highly recommend the book Celebration of Sex to educate yourself and your spouse on exactly what works for the two of you!

Ministry couples face both unique joys and unique challenges. If you've been around Awesome Marriage for a while, you've probably heard Dr. Kim say to put God first and your spouse second. But when your job is ministry, it can be really hard to balance your vocational ministry with your primary ministry - your marriage. Today we're talking about how to keep your marriage thriving when you are in ministry.   We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  The surprising data on how ministry affects marriage and family  Our personal experiences of what makes ministry hard on marriage What to do if you work in a ministry culture that does not prioritize marriage or family 4 specific ways to protect and build your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Don't let your ministry take out your marriage! The Sustaining Your Marriage In Ministry online course was designed to help you through the challenges you face. Learn more HERE. Our friends at Emotionally Healthy Discipleship offer resources that equip leaders to lead from their inner life with Christ.   Anything you want to hear about that we missed today? Shoot me an email and let us know! 

Your mindset has a powerful impact on everything in your life - including your marriage. Is yours helping or hurting your marriage? Today Dr. Kim shares some sneaky ways your thoughts might be harming your marriage, without you even realizing it, as well as practical advice for how to overcome them.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  How to identify and correct unhealthy thought patterns  Why even our fleeting thoughts matter One thing that prevents many of us from being honest with God and with ourselves, and how to overcome it     Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Work on healing your mindset with the “Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship” Bible Reading plan on YouVersion   If you're a One Thing Subscriber, you know all about Dr. Kim's Daily Declarations already! If not, sign up HERE and receive a practical daily step each Monday-Friday to help you be intentional about building your marriage. If it's been a while since you felt sexy or were excited about your sex life, our 25-Day Think Sex Challenge will help you get back in the mood! Learn more HERE! When you sign up for Dr. Kim's weekly Dispatch email, you receive a copy of his Daily Declarations FREE as a sign up bonus!   

How should the rhythms of our child's season of life inform our parenting? How can your family rhythms and routines cultivate the kind of family atmosphere you are longing for in your household and set your child up for success? Today our special guest Nellie Harden helps you see where you are in this season of your child's growing up years and how to parent well in this time.     We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  The perspective shift to more peaceful parenting  Why to number the days of your child's childhood  How our own perfectionism affects our kids and our parenting  The parenting shift we need in the second half of childhood  A practical way to reduce sibling strife     Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Find Nellie's book, learn more about the 6570 Family Project and more on her website   Here's the article Nellie wrote for Focus on The Family that we loved: “Family on the Rocks!” Taking a few minutes a week to check up on your marriage is simple and effective with the Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide Our 27 Scripture Prayer Cards are both beautiful AND powerful!   

Ever wondered why you can't break a habit you hate or form a new one you want to start? Today's bonus episode is for you! Debra Fileta always brings wisdom and practical tools to help us connect spiritual practices with mental health and relationship health, and we're delighted to have Debra back on the podcast with us today. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Why issues seem to surface at unexpected times and what you can do about it The equation that leads to lasting change - and why most people get it wrong  How to effectively begin to break bad habits    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Debra has also been on these past episodes:  Choosing Marriage: Interview with Debra Fileta | Ep. 207 Love In Every Season: Interview with Debra Fileta | Ep. 411 Are You Really OK? With Special Guest Debra Fileta | Ep. 471 Oneness Vs. Codependency - What's the Difference? With Special Guest Debra Fileta | Ep. 511 We think you'll love Debra's new book, RESET: Powerful Habits to Own Your Thoughts, Understand Your Feelings, and Change Your Life Are you getting the Marriage Multiplier? It's a quick weekly email from Dr. Kim that gives you ways to intentionally invest in your marriage. Sign up HERE.   

As we enter the fall season, it's a great time to look at the routines in your life. This month we're talking all about life-giving routines and rhythms. Sometimes in marriage, we can get into bad habits of conflict or miscommunication, BUT we can also use our habits and routines to build up our spouse and grow our marriage. Today we're sharing some of our personal routines and family rhythms that help keep our marriages strong. We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   Dr. Kim's personal routine and why it's so important to him  The small things that don't even feel like “things” – and why they matter so much  Practical ways to build the kind of culture you want to have in your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   RESOURCES:  If you're not getting Dr. Kim's One Thing daily email, sign up HERE!  The Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide makes it simple to check in with your spouse each week.   Get a better dinner experience when you bring good questions to the table with 52 Questions for Your Family Table

One common theme we hear from our couples at Awesome Marriage is that life and marriage have been difficult the past few years. The unexpected and unpredictable realities have taken a toll on many of us, and the anxiety and angst have made us quite “prickly.”  In today's episode, Dr. Kim and Christina talk about that prickliness and help you evaluate if you've been a little prickly and if so, how to work through it.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  Defining exactly what we mean by “prickly”  Dr. Kim shares some healthy ways to deal with the pain Red flags that can help show us our prickliness  What do I do if this is me? What if it's my spouse?    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Dr. Kim and Nancy's book, Love, Intimacy and Sex in Second Half is out now! Click HERE to grab your copy!  27 Scripture Prayer Cards combine the power of prayer and the power of God's Word, designed beautifully to help you invite God's to work in your marriage  

We're on our annual summer break from the podcast, and during the break we love to re-air favorite past episodes. Today we're sharing Dr. Kim's conversation with former NFL linebacker Sam Acho, a speaker, podcaster, and humanitarian. They had an honest and encouraging conversation about what holds us back from being authentic and how to break through fears and be more real.    We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  The breakthrough that first helped Sam to stop hiding & pretending he was ok  Why the closest relationships can also be the places we feel the most insecure Why the small steps we take to be real are actually big! Steps to take when you feel you're not living in authenticity    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Dr. Kim and Nancy's book, Love, Intimacy and Sex in Second Half is out TODAY!! Click HERE to grab your copy!  27 Scripture Prayer Cards combine the power of prayer and the power of God's Word, designed beautifully to help you invite God's to work in your marriage  Sam & Dr. Kim talked today about his book, Let the World See You, and he also has a new book, Change Starts With You: Following Your Fire to Heal a Broken World Find Sam on Twitter and Instagram @thesamacho  

Marriage is more of a marathon than a sprint, and to go the distance, it definitely helps to learn from someone who has gone before. Who better to learn from than Dr. Kim? He and Nancy are more than 50 years into marriage, and continue to have so much fun together. It's not always easy, but it's definitely worth it! Today Dr. Kim shares his top 5 ways to build a marriage you love that will stand the test of time.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Practically speaking, how do you put “God first, spouse second”?  Is the goal to just stay together - or to keep making the marriage better and better?  The power of looking forward to something together  Tips to reclaiming fun in your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   RESOURCES  ***CORRECTION*** The release date for Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half is July 11th – just 1 week from today! Click HERE to pre-order now and so you can advantage of the $5 pre order discount with the code SECONDHALFPODCAST When it comes to having fun and not taking things too seriously, Dr. Kim and Nancy have receipts! You can find their shenanigans on TikTok and Instagram  Want to have more fun with your marriage? Our 14 Days of Marriage Fun resource helps you break up the routine and enjoy more fun and laughter together!   

Recovery after porn is possible. Your mind can heal and you can break the addiction. Today's guest, Matt Cline, is the founder and director of Restored Ministries, which leads men and women out of sexual brokenness and into a life of freedom and impact. Matt has seen countless lives radically changed around the world.Today he talks about his healing process, how God restored his beliefs about sex  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  The God-given purpose of our sex drive - and why that matters How do you define the actual difference between “sex” and “making love”?  Lies porn teaches us about sex and how to replace them with truth  Specific ways the mind changes after porn recovery  The process of turning temptation into an opportunity for worship    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Find all of Matt's resources at www.restoredministries.ca Restored Ministries is on Instagram @restoredsexuality, Facebook @ Restored Ministries, and the Pure Victory Podcast.  You don't have to settle for a struggling marriage. The 90 Days to Save Your Marriage plan starts right where your marriage is today and helps get it on the road to healing. Click HERE to preorder Dr. Kim's new book, Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Use the code SECONDHALFPODCAST for $5 off at checkout!   

If porn use has damaged your marriage, you may struggle to feel close and to re-engage in sexual intimacy. You know that healing is possible, but how do you get there? Today Dr. Kim shares ways that couples can overcome the hurt caused by porn and re-establish the intimacy that will make the marriage thrive again. Time and again, we have seen couples restored, and their marriage even better than before. Tune in today and learn how this can be true for your marriage too.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.   Episode highlights include:  Overcoming intrusive thoughts and insecurities  How porn and comparison are similar  Why the marriage can be better than before after healing from this    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  RESOURCES Do you love the Bible app as much as we do? Do not miss Dr. Kim's Verse of the Day on YouVersion Friday!  Click HERE to preorder Dr. Kim's new book, Love, Intimacy and Sex in the Second Half. Use the code SECONDHALFPODCAST for $5 off at checkout!  Has the Awesome Marriage podcast helped your marriage? If so, will you take a moment to leave us a rating and review? They take just a moment to leave, but they do make an difference in getting the show in front of more people.  In Spotify, click the “star” icon right under the show's heading On Apple Podcasts, scroll down to the “Ratings & Reviews” section of the show page Don't settle for a struggling marriage. The 90 Days to Save Your Marriage plan is affordable, practical, and starts right where your marriage is today to get it on the road to healing.