Podcasts about better marriage

Send us Fan MailA marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you've ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better way forward. We talk about what it means to defend your spouse to yourself and why that kind of mental discipline is a form of maturity. We share how fault finding chips away at respect, emotional safety, and physical intimacy, and why attraction struggles often start long before the bedroom, in the thoughts you repeatedly feed. You'll hear our real-life rhythm of praying for each other, why we don't force a “pray together” routine, and how daily intercession shifts your heart from irritation to empathy. We also lay out practical steps you can use immediately: catch the thought, replace irritation with interpretation, separate behavior from identity, practice daily gratitude, stop comparing, and communicate instead of stewing. Along the way, we anchor it with scriptures about love covering offenses and choosing what to focus on. If you want Christian marriage advice that's both spiritual and practical, this will help you build a healthier mindset and a stronger relationship. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. What's one critical thought you're ready to replace today?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

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Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us Fan MailKeeping a mental list of your spouse's mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for future fights, and measuring your spouse by who they used to be instead of who they are becoming. We also dig into the deeper reason the list won't go away: the original wound never healed. That's why some couples describe a betrayal from five or ten years ago like it happened last week. We connect the dots between unforgiveness, negativity, and confirmation bias, and we challenge the habit of fault finding that makes you look for proof rather than pursue peace. Along the way, we ground the conversation in 1 Corinthians 13 and the idea that love keeps no record of wrongs, while still acknowledging a crucial truth: love and trust are not the same thing, and wise boundaries can coexist with real forgiveness. You'll walk away with practical steps to drop the list for good: forgive fully, stop rehearsing the offense, replace accusation with communication, separate patterns from moments, give credit for change, and ask God to heal the first hurt that started the scorekeeping. If you want a healthier marriage, a stronger emotional connection, and a future that isn't chained to the past, press play and do this with us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more couples can find the help.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA bad marriage can feel like you're trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don't want to leave” and “I can't do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we've lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we've learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong person” and more about missing tools, missing clarity, and missing spiritual covering.We talk through what “bad marriage” really means, from emotional distance and constant tension to loneliness, lack of intimacy, and repeated arguments. We also name the situations that require immediate outside help, including adultery, abuse, and abandonment, and why counseling and wise leadership matter. Then we challenge one of the biggest traps couples fall into: focusing all their energy on changing their spouse. You can't manipulate transformation, but you can take responsibility for your part, rebuild emotional safety, and choose respect when it would be easier to react.We also unpack faith as action, not wishful thinking. That includes building a war room prayer life, refusing the spirit of accusation in your home, and learning to speak life over your spouse and your future. Finally, we lay out seven biblical steps to help turn a bad season around: stop pretending, get clear on what's broken, own your part, stop fighting alone, rebuild safety, reintroduce God, and choose growth over escape.If you're looking for Christian marriage advice, biblical steps to save your marriage, and practical help for a struggling marriage, press play, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find it.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

We welcome Christian Meert, co-founder of Agape Catholic Ministries, to examine the strengths and shortcomings of contemporary Catholic marriage preparation. In a culture increasingly confused about its purpose, how can the Church better prepare couples to embrace marriage as a lifelong sacrament and vocation? Father finishes with Timely Thoughts. Show Notes Agape Catholic Ministries iCatholic Mobile The Station of the Cross Merchandise - Use Coupon Code 14STATIONS for 10% off | Catholic to the Max Read Fr. McTeigue's Written Works! "Let's Take A Closer Look" with Fr. Robert McTeigue, S.J. | Full Series Playlist Listen to Fr. McTeigue's Preaching! | Herald of the Gospel Sermons Podcast on Spotify Visit Fr. McTeigue's Website | Herald of the Gospel Questions? Comments? Feedback? Ask Father!

Most couples don’t realize how simple it can be to make a good marriage great or to infuse a struggling marriage with new life. Jim Daly shares three simple ideas that will make your marriage better. Support Family Ministry If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family Commentary, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailHurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don't deal with it, it doesn't just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith.We talk through what hurt really is, why “church hurt” is often just people hurt, and how maturity means learning to stay grounded instead of running from every painful moment. Along the way, we share real stories, name the difference between reacting and responding, and explain how replaying pain without healing creates resentment, cynicism, suspicion, and withdrawal. If you've felt guarded, negative, or constantly bracing for the worst, we help you spot the signs of a bitter root before it spreads.Then we get practical and spiritual. We walk through eight clear steps for healing, including prayer, forgiveness without an apology, choosing safe people to process with, refusing a victim mindset, and using gratitude to starve bitterness. We close with a powerful prayer and daily declarations you can speak to break the cycle and move forward free.Subscribe, share this with someone who's carrying heavy hurt, and leave a review if it helps. What's one wound you're ready to stop replaying and finally heal?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailSome battles don't start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn't real or organized.We walk through what spiritual warfare actually looks like for believers, why the mind is such a target, and how deception can make a lie feel “obvious” while God's truth starts to sound questionable. Tabatha shares her personal story of being set free from depression after years of coping methods that helped but didn't cure. That testimony opens a bigger conversation about identity in Christ, spiritual authority, and why the Word of God matters when you're facing anxiety, discouragement, temptation, or confusion.We also get practical. We break down Ephesians 6 and the reality that our fight isn't against flesh and blood, then lay out clear tactics the enemy uses: offense, isolation, distraction, compromise, and weariness. We end with direct, faith-filled prayers to renounce depression, anxiety, addiction, fear, and any occult doors, plus steps to stay submitted to God, stay in community, speak truth out loud, and rest when you're tired. If you want a biblical, actionable guide to Christian spiritual warfare, deliverance, and resisting the devil, this conversation is for you.Subscribe for more, share this with someone who's in a fight, and if this helped you, leave a rating and review so more people can find it.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Filling Your Marriage With Joy Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Unhappy Marriage? Fix it With These Simple Habits for Marital Happiness Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Filling Your Marriage With Joy Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Unhappy Marriage? Fix it With These Simple Habits for Marital Happiness Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29?v=20251111

Send us Fan MailWe name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marriage, family, mentorship, and godly friendship • unhealthy soul ties formed through manipulation, trauma bonding, and emotional dependence • Tabatha's testimony of breaking ties with words and obedience • how trauma and sexual abuse can create lingering attachment and shame • why sexual purity matters and how sexual sin creates bondage • how unbroken past connections can affect dating and marriage • signs you may have an unhealthy soul tie including comparison, guilt, confusion, and stalking social media • why people stay in toxic relationships and how self-worth gets targeted • safety, community, and practical help for leaving abusive relationships • a step-by-step framework to acknowledge, repent, forgive, cut access, renounce, and renew your mind • a guided renouncing prayer and declarations for peace, healing, and a clear path forward I want you to just take a moment, comment in the section below. Let us know the soul ties that you've had, how you've overcome them, what you need prayer for, and share this with other people. If you're new to our podcast, make sure you hit the subscribe button or the alert icon. You can get your tickets right now. And the website is in the show notes. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

214 If you've ever felt unloved, unseen, or emotionally unmet in your relationship…even while knowing your partner probably does care about you… this episode is a must listen.In the last episode, we talked about emotional agency and the 3 core layers that shape emotional well-being for highly sensitive people. In this episode, we dive much deeper into one of those layers, which tends to be one of the biggest hidden struggles I see highly sensitive people carry into relationships without even realizing it:The painful self-worth patterns and deeper “heart wound” that sit beneath feeling unloved.This is a conversation that Todd Smith, from the Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People Podcast, and I recorded for his podcast, and I decided to share it here because it's such a deep, compassionate, validating, and hopeful conversation.In it we explore:why HSPs can feel unloved even when they have a good partner who does really love themThe "heart wound", and something I call “care distortion”, and how they affect a marriagehow childhood conditioning and being told you're “too sensitive” impacts self-worthwhy reassurance from your partner never fully resolves the deeper painhow emotional patterns, thoughts, and the nervous system all work together to help you feel loved or unlovedhow to begin building a more secure, loving relationship with yourself And how that finally opens the door to you feeling the deep love in your relationship you've always wanted to feelI think a lot of you are going to feel deeply seen in this episode.And even more importantly, you will leave feeling hopeful — because these patterns are not permanent, and healing them is not just absolutely possible, but something you can totally excel at as an HSP with the right support. Tune in!SHOW NOTES: Learn more and begin Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs here. Learn more about the full path of Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs → Marriage Sanctuary 1:1 here. 

Send us Fan MailWe talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David's life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David's origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shapes a worshipful heart • repentance as the key difference between David and Saul • honoring leadership offices without excusing sin • resisting gossip, slander, and platform-building through criticism • guarding your heart from a culture of demonizing and outrage • practical steps for a heart God can promote, including private integrity and serving first • healing from wounds so you don't bleed on innocent people • choosing obedience over popularity and worshiping through warfare If you enjoyed today, make sure that you subscribe if you're not subscribed already. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you're living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools.We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that made small issues feel unfixable, and how depression and anxiety impacted Tabitha's ability to connect. We also share what changed everything: inviting God into the center of the marriage and letting Him work on us first, not just “fix” our spouse. That shift is where healing starts, because a restored marriage is built on transformed hearts, not better arguments.From there, we get practical about marriage restoration: how to become the hero in the home, how to rebuild trust through consistent patterns instead of big promises, and how to communicate without attacking so you can finally talk about hard things without blowing up. We also dig into why many couples keep treating symptoms while the real root stays untouched, and why counseling, wisdom, and steady effort over time matter more than quick emotional moments.We close with five clear keys to heal a broken marriage and a prayer for anyone hanging on by a thread. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with someone who needs hope, and leave a comment with what stood out most so we can hear your story.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.How Do I Create A Safe Space For Us To Communicate Better?Kayla called in with one question: how do I create a safe space in my marriage so we can communicate better without him blowing up?Cass flips the frame immediately: a safe space starts with you—with identity and self-worth—not with managing your partner's emotions.What we cover:The safe space formula: when you stop depending on your partner for your worth, you become steadyThe “fat purple cow” test: is it true? (and why some words hurt even when they're unfair)How to own what's true without absorbing what isn'tWhy saying “it's going to be OK” often isn't support—it's discomfort managementEmpathy as regulation: how to not get pulled onto the “crazy train”Communicating when a partner has a clinical diagnosis (and why it can require a different level of love)If you or your partner are dealing with schizophrenia or any mental health condition: this episode is not medical advice. Please work with qualified professionals for diagnosis, medication, and treatment support.

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Finding New Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Navigating Marriage Expectations When Marriage Isn’t How You Thought It Would Be Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailWe define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth • Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fear, and addiction • Separating real faith declarations from fake performance • Why hypocrisy harms marriages, kids, friendships, and our witness • Church as a hospital for honest people • How hypocrisy shows up in marriage through unequal standards • Acts 5 and the warning of Ananias and Sapphira • Couples conspiring to hide problems and why it backfires • Building wise accountability with trusted mentors and pastors • Signs of slipping into hypocrisy like defensiveness and people pleasing • Practical steps to get free including repentance and integrity • Renouncement prayer and a closing prayer for freedom make sure that you hit the subscribe button, hit the alert icon so that you can be the first to get the content. We want you to share today with other people. You can find all of that out at kenandabitha.com. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Finding New Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Navigating Marriage Expectations When Marriage Isn't How You Thought It Would Be Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29?v=20251111

Send us Fan MailWe get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right • becoming the hero in the home instead of matching foolishness • what blame shifting sounds like in everyday arguments • Adam and Eve as the first blame shift • how victim mentality keeps people stuck • a candid talk on emotional abuse claims and getting wise counsel • the role of self-awareness and security in hard conversations • practical steps like reflecting, apologizing right, and seeking accountability • repentance as change not just confession Make sure that you share. If you're new to our podcast, hit the subscribe button. If you're on YouTube, hit the alert icon. Go over to Kenandtabatha.com. Get your ticket now. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man loses his confidence, his clarity, and his ability to lead well.Ken and Tabitha Claytor unpack biblical marriage through a practical lens: headship is not dictatorship, it is responsibility. We explain what “covering” should feel like to a wife, why mutual submission takes strength, and how a husband's leadership really begins when he comes home. We also address a common blind spot in Christian relationships: paying bills and “not cheating” is not the finish line. A wife needs emotional safety, affection, attention, reassurance, quality time, and to feel chosen again and again.We also define spiritual leadership without the hype. It's not about performing religion, it's about seeking God, making wise decisions, setting vision for your family, and building shared goals and values so your home has a clear direction. Along the way, we call out the “nothing box” distractions that keep men stuck and we share 10 practical ways to love your wife with humility, tenderness, and Ephesians 5:25 self-sacrificial love.If you know a man who needs a reset, send this to him. Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday, share this with your circle, and leave a review so more marriages can find help.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan Mail“Why am I still single?” can feel like a question with teeth, especially when everyone else's highlight reel is scrolling past your face. We get honest about the pressure, the loneliness, and the quiet fear that something must be wrong with you, then we confront the biggest lie head-on: you are not unworthy, undesirable, or behind. We believe your relationship status does not determine your value, and we want you grounded in that truth before you ever say yes to dating, engagement, or marriage.We also talk about what's making modern singleness harder: social media comparison, unrealistic expectations, and turning marriage into an idol. A spouse is a gift, not a savior, and expecting marriage to fix emptiness is a fast track to disappointment. Instead, we unpack how faith works while you wait, why God's timing matters, and how waiting can actually be preparation and protection. Sometimes what feels like rejection is God shielding you from the wrong person and shaping you for the right one.Then we get extremely practical with dating advice for Christians: stop letting loneliness choose your relationships, clarify boundaries, stop entertaining red flags, and stop dating potential. If you keep choosing the wrong person, we challenge you to bring wise voices into your process and let trusted counsel help you see what you've been missing. We also talk about “becoming who you want to marry” spiritually, emotionally, financially, and mentally, building a full life now, and keeping purity strong because your future deserves a healthy you.If this helped you breathe again, subscribe, share it with a friend who's waiting, and leave a review so more people can find the show.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

So many couples see therapy as a last ditch effort and something you turn to when everything is already broken. But think about it… we invest in coaches to improve our golf game, mechanics to keep our cars running smoothly so why do we hesitate to invest in something as important as our relationship? And let's be real... none of us were ever taught "how" to be married. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick sits down with Austin to completely reframe what marriage therapy really is and what it isn't. They talk about what actually happens in a session, and explain how therapy can give couples practical, powerful tools to strengthen connection before things spiral.Plus, they tackle one of the biggest real life challenges what do you do when you're ready for help but your spouse isn't?If you've ever wondered whether therapy could help your relationship or how to even start this conversation, this episode is for you.

Send us Fan MailWe challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety, communication, and mutual pleasure.nn• why many married couples settle for frustration and distancen• God's design for sex: procreation, intimacy and enjoymentn• renewing the mind after sexual abuse, shame and negative beliefsn• body confidence through pregnancy changes, cancer and surgery recoveryn• facing trauma triggers and retraining the body to experience safe touchn• rejecting duty-only sex and choosing mutual pleasure and curiosityn• communication that gathers “intel” without ego or judgmentn• why sexlessness fuels disconnection, resentment and temptationn• practical tools: talk outside the bedroom, build emotional intimacy daily, remove shame, protect boundaries and create healthy rhythmsnnWe want to hear from you on this one. Comment where your relationship is and questions that you might have. We'll do our best to get to those at some point.nSend us an email. If you're a social media person, tag us, let us know.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailThe promotion you want might be carrying more than you think. We get honest about what “next level” really means, because promotion is not only a raise or a new title, it is pressure, visibility, responsibility, and accountability. If you've ever watched someone move up faster than you, felt stuck in your role, or wondered what leaders are actually looking for, this conversation is a clear, practical reset. We talk about promotable character and why trust beats talent when it's time to choose who advances. Ken and Tabitha unpack what it looks like to embrace hard instead of dodging it, build mental toughness without losing tenderness, and stay emotionally steady when the assignment stretches you. We also dig into the people side of leadership development: chemistry, humility, and why many promotions come through your ability to lead and develop others, not just your individual skill. You'll walk away with actionable promotion tips you can apply immediately at work, in ministry leadership, or anywhere you want to grow: become excellent at your current assignment, solve problems without being asked, bring solutions instead of complaints, ask for feedback, lead without authority, upgrade your skills, and protect integrity by avoiding gossip, shortcuts, bitterness, and comparison. If you're serious about career growth and spiritual growth, this one is built to challenge you and help you level up. Subscribe, share this with a friend who's hungry to grow, and leave a review so more leaders can find the show. What's one trait you know you need to build before your next promotion?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailPeople don't wake up one morning and decide they don't love their spouse. What we see far more often is something quieter and more dangerous: a hurt that never gets resolved, a story we keep replaying, and a wall that goes up brick by brick until the house feels cold. We're naming that enemy directly, unresolved offense, and we're telling the truth about what it does to marriage, intimacy, friendship, and even your relationship with God.We talk through how offense starts with “little foxes” like unmet expectations, small disappointments, and everyday irritations that don't seem serious enough to address. Then we show how those “small” moments turn into patterns like assumptions, passive-aggressive comments, nitpicking, shutdown, emotional separation, and ultimately the claim that you've “fallen out of love.” Along the way we ground it in the Bible, including Ephesians 4:26 on urgency and Hebrews 12:15 on bitterness spreading, because resentment in marriage is never neutral.You'll also hear our real-life examples, what we've learned after 26 years, and the practical tools we use when conflict hits: stop keeping a list, deal with it fast, separate the issue from the person, bring it up without attacking, challenge the story in your head, forgive even when feelings lag behind, rebuild connection on purpose, and invite God into deeper healing when a conversation isn't enough. We close with prayer and a chance to renounce offense and start again.If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend or a couple you care about, and leave a review so more marriages can find these tools. What's one “brick” you're ready to drop today?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

It's easy to play blame-games in your marriage, but it's better to ask yourself some hard questions. Greg Smalley opens up about some times where he got honest with himself. Then, Dr. Gary Chapman joins Jim Daly to share how three questions can help you have a more Christ-like attitude in your marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Finding New Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage Contact our Counseling Team Navigating Marriage Expectations When Marriage Isn’t How You Thought It Would Be Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Send a textIn this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, we talk about how to deal with rejection, criticism, and being misunderstood — especially when you're trying to follow God and build something meaningful.If you've ever wondered:• Why don't they like me?• Why do people talk about you when you're doing good?• How do you keep your confidence when people criticize you?This conversation is for you.Pastor Ken and Tabatha unpack 10 real reasons people don't like you, what the Bible says about persecution, and how to stay confident without becoming bitter or defensive.You'll learn how to:• Handle rejection without losing confidence• Stop living for people's approval• Protect your peace when people misunderstand you• Set boundaries while still loving others• Stay faithful to what God has called you to doSometimes criticism isn't a sign you're doing something wrong.Sometimes it's confirmation you're moving in the right direction.Because real confidence isn't everyone liking you.Real confidence is liking who God made you.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Hey, it's Amy Newmark with your Chicken Soup for the Soul and I'm excited about sharing another couple of stories with you from our book about how changing your habits can change your life… in big ways and small ways. I know that we might have started the year with some pretty big goals and resolutions, but there's something to be said for making incremental do-able changes instead of gigantic ones that are more likely to be abandoned after a few weeks. Finding something small and easy to do is so satisfying. For example, how about making a quick and easy change in how you handle your marriage or your relationship with your significant other? It can do wonders for both of you and it can be pretty simple. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices