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When my dear friend Debra Hewitt texted me and said, "Jamie, you have got to get Sarah Faulkner on The SavvyCast," I listened. And I am so glad I did!  Sarah is a brain aneurysm survivor, but this conversation is not just a story about surviving. It is a story about what comes after.  After a ruptured aneurysm, Sarah went through emergency surgery and 21 days in the ICU. What she came home to was something none of us could have predicted: a troubled marriage transformed from the ground up, childhood trauma healed that she had carried for decades, and a faith that changed the way she sees everything.  She is also the founder of Milk Velvet Pearls, a jewelry ministry built on the truth that beauty is born from struggle, and Sarah's story is living proof of just that.   WHAT TO EXPECT IN THIS EPISODE: What a brain aneurysm rupture actually feels like, why Sarah did not call 911, and how she spent five days before making it to the emergency room Her emergency surgery, her time in the ICU, and what recovery really looked like when she finally came home The troubled 20-year marriage she nearly walked away from, how her husband got sober, and what "Marriage 2.0" actually looks like today How she renewed her mind and healed not just physically but from years of childhood trauma and abuse she had carried her whole life The story behind Milk Velvet Pearls, the pearl as a symbol of beauty born from struggle   LINKS & RESOURCES Milk Velvet Pearls website Follow Sarah Faulkner on Instagram (@mvpearlgirl) Double Portion Earrings | Milk Velvet Pearls Debra Hewitt Art   WHERE TO LISTEN If this episode encouraged you, we would love it if you took a few minutes to rate and review The SavvyCast! It means so much and helps more women (just like you) find the show! Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube   ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? CHECK THESE OUT! Stop Dreading Getting Older. This 77-Year-Old Changed Everything I Thought About Aging! Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube   Am I Becoming Catholic? My Faith Journey Update Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight about: lights left on, shoes where they “shouldn't” be, house rules, and that moment when a simple reminder suddenly sounds like disrespect. We laugh, but we also get serious about how tiny irritations can grow into contempt when we turn a habit into a verdict on someone's character. From there, we unpack a marriage truth that saves relationships: love and like are different. When people say they have “fallen out of love,” we believe the fastest path back is often rebuilding like. We talk about intentional ways to do that in a long-term marriage, like choosing shared activities again, creating new experiences like you did while dating, and changing the inner narrative you repeat about your spouse. Instead of building a case against them all day, we practice building a case for them, which changes how we show up at home. We also ground everything in Christian marriage principles, including agape love from 1 Corinthians 13: love as a choice, love as a commitment, love that forgives, keeps no record of wrong, and believes the best. We share practical relationship advice you can use immediately: get curious instead of frustrated, name unmet needs, close emotional distance with small conversations, seek counseling or pastoral support without shame, and pray honestly for God to soften your heart. If you want faith-based marriage help that stays practical, this one is for you. Subscribe for more, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review so more couples can find the support.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Erin explain that 70% of marital conflict is about ongoing problems, like personality differences, that will never be “solved.” They encourage couples to live with one another in an understanding way by being humble and sharing from the heart.Receive a copy of Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage and an audio download of "Turning Conflict into Connection in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.Get more episode resources Do you have a story or comment on how Focus on the Family impacted you or your family? Leave a message for Jim Daly! If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine's week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way that changes the atmosphere of the whole house.We start with honor, because respect is not fluff, it is fuel. From how you greet each other to the tiny “family culture” moments like dinner routines and even the last piece of cake, we talk about how honor communicates value and helps a man feel safe, seen, and welcomed at home. We also address a common tension: when home management turns into control. We share why family meetings matter, how to get buy-in on rules, and why a husband's need to decompress is not rejection, it is often how he resets to lead and love well.Then we lean into service, including Tabatha's “Ken's night” idea, and how serving each other builds momentum instead of scorekeeping. We also talk candidly about intimacy, why “enjoy sex often” is a relationship principle, and why many husbands feel deeply loved when a wife initiates sometimes. We close with a truth that gets missed in so many marriage conversations: caring for yourself is caring for your marriage, because your health, confidence, and emotional stability affect the entire home.If this helps you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find these marriage and relationship tools.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

What if the key to a thriving marriage isn't waiting for your spouse to change, but picking up a "hard hat" and starting the construction yourself? Discover how three practical tools can help you stop simply surviving and start building the captivated, intentional relationship you've always wanted.Did you decide to follow Jesus after listening to this? Let us help you get started on your journey at https://oneandall.church/jesus Join our global online community https://discord.gg/vvrwf6N Sign up to receive weekly content from ONE&ALL straight to your inbox | http://bit.ly/oneandallemailAsk us a question! Email media@oneandall.church

Most men think attraction is something that happens to them (a switch their wife either flips or doesn't). Keith Yackey burns that idea to the ground. After two divorces, he built a framework around one brutal truth: you don't get what you want, you get what you are. If she's not leaning in anymore, that's not a mystery. That's a mirror. In this conversation, Keith breaks down the five dials every man is quietly failing (parent, partner, producer, player, and power) and hands you the exact language to rate yourself against them. We get into why scheduling sex builds more desire than spontaneity ever will, why "I did it for you" is the worst thing a man can say, and why the guys who stop chasing anything eventually get left by everything. This isn't theory. It's the same math Keith used to go from a 19 out of 100 to the best marriage of his life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Welcome to Mickler Manor 01:53 Montana Knife Company Gift & Blood Brothers 04:06 Learning How to Receive Help as a Man 08:23 Do Men Need to Hit Rock Bottom? 10:36 Realizing You Are the Common Denominator 12:55 Becoming a Better Coach Through Failure 14:38 Why Men Need Stories of Struggle 18:42 Purpose, Mission, and Identity Over Ego 22:33 The Raw Truth About Relationship Dynamics 24:42 Extreme Ownership vs. Victim Mentality 28:53 What a "Fulfilled" Woman Wants 32:43 The Power of Boundaries and Saying "No" 36:57 The Importance of Brotherhood and Male Tribes 40:13 Overt vs. Covert Communication in Marriage 42:27 Overcoming Complacency in Relationships 46:20 Creating Novelty & Building Consistency 50:32 Self-Validation and Holding High Standards 54:42 Leading with Intention 58:34 Captain of the Vessel vs. Passengers 01:02:35 Support, Peacemaking, and Shared Joy 01:06:31 Direct Communication and Expressing Desires 01:12:45 Why Scheduling Intimacy Works 01:16:53 The 5 Dials of Long-Term Attraction 01:23:10 Rating Yourself and Fixing Your Relationship Grade 01:29:32 Modeling Love and Setting the Container 01:32:52 Connecting with Keith Yackey & Married Game Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabitha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the man who's doing his best and also to the man who's stuck, tired, isolated, or never had a model for what faithful, strong, tender love even looks like.We unpack why men need other men, why isolation quietly sabotages families, and how fatherhood and spiritual covering shape identity. Then we tackle the hot topic with clarity: biblical headship is responsibility, not control. It is not about value or power. It is about carrying the weight, listening well, choosing humility, and creating a home atmosphere that feels safe. We also challenge the “I pay the bills, I don't cheat” mindset and explain why a wife still may not feel seen, honored, desired, or emotionally secure.You'll hear practical marriage advice for men you can apply today: how to be emotionally present, protect her heart, serve in simple ways, pursue her again, and lead spiritually without turning it into performative religion. We close with a list of ten concrete ways to love your wife like Christ loves the church, plus a prayer for men to pick up their crown and lead with integrity. If this helps you, subscribe, share it with a man you care about, and leave a review so more families can find it.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

For most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the relationship. If you are one of these couples, you are not alone and will see from our poll that most couples have a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship. But remember, if you want to get better at something, or even become an expert at it, you have to talk about it all the time!Consider this, if something causes an argument in your marriage, that means it is a problem. And if you have a problem, wouldn't that make it even more important to talk about so it doesn't become a bigger problem, or you can eliminate the problem in your relationship? Most couples just don't know where to begin or how to approach it the right way. Trust us, we were one of these couples for the first 15 years of our marriage. In this episode, we share the secrets on how to master the art of having intimate conversations, and transform your relationship. After listening to this episode, you are going to want to have these type of intimate conversations together all the time :)❤️ Listen now and share this episode with someone who wants a stronger marriage.

Send us Fan MailMost couples don't break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say out loud: why does sex in marriage so often drift into frustration, avoidance, pressure, or a roommate vibe?We unpack God's design for sex with clarity and zero shame: yes, it's for procreation, but it's also for intimacy and real enjoyment. Tabitha shares how misconceptions, sexual trauma, and body insecurity can train your mind and body to shut down, and what it looks like to heal and renew your thinking so sex becomes safe, holy, and life-giving again. We also talk about how seasons like babies, stress, menopause, cancer recovery, and hormones affect libido, and when it's wise to get medical help instead of suffering in silence.Then we get practical about communication, feedback, and learning each other's needs without ego or judgment. We explain why talking outside the bedroom matters, how emotional intimacy fuels physical intimacy, and how to stop using sex as a weapon. If you want a healthier Christian marriage, stronger connection, and a sex life that reflects covenant instead of conflict, this conversation gives you a roadmap.Subscribe, share this with a married friend, and leave a review so more couples can find help. What's one change you could make this week to fight for intimacy?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailWhat if the tension in your home isn't proof you married the wrong person, but proof you're fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it's not husband versus wife, it's two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception.We open up about our own early years, including the ugly patterns that too many couples normalize: resentment, the silent treatment, manipulation, withholding intimacy, flirting, and the slow drift into emotional distance. We talk about why covenant matters, why “divorce is an option” quietly erodes trust, and how spiritual maturity shapes emotional maturity. We also share why marriage mentoring, counseling, and becoming a lifelong learner isn't extra credit, it's how you build a marriage that lasts through storms.Then we break down the enemy's most common tactics and what to do about them: division through distraction and busyness, bitterness and unforgiveness that becomes a foothold, temptation and sexual immorality as a lure, spiritual apathy that cools your fire, and miscommunication that creates confusion. We get practical about streamlining life with kids, creating a safe space for honest feelings, and fighting for unity without pretending pain isn't real. We also touch on isolation and generational patterns, because what runs in a family doesn't have to run your future.If this helps you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review so more couples can find these tools. What was your biggest takeaway?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you've ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better way forward. We talk about what it means to defend your spouse to yourself and why that kind of mental discipline is a form of maturity. We share how fault finding chips away at respect, emotional safety, and physical intimacy, and why attraction struggles often start long before the bedroom, in the thoughts you repeatedly feed. You'll hear our real-life rhythm of praying for each other, why we don't force a “pray together” routine, and how daily intercession shifts your heart from irritation to empathy. We also lay out practical steps you can use immediately: catch the thought, replace irritation with interpretation, separate behavior from identity, practice daily gratitude, stop comparing, and communicate instead of stewing. Along the way, we anchor it with scriptures about love covering offenses and choosing what to focus on. If you want Christian marriage advice that's both spiritual and practical, this will help you build a healthier mindset and a stronger relationship. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. What's one critical thought you're ready to replace today?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

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Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Chivalry." Dr. Alex McFarland joined us to discuss the rise of the manosphere and the confusion surrounding masculinity. He explained that biblical manhood is not about passivity or toxicity, but rather a life characterized by virtue, sacrifice, responsibility, and devotion to God and family. Dr. McFarland is a Christian apologist, author, evangelist, religion and culture analyst, national talk show host, youth expert, and advocate for biblical truth. Additionally, Gil Stuart joined us to talk about restoration and remarriage. He emphasized that forgiveness, repentance, and trust must be addressed before entering a new marriage, especially for men stepping into the role of stepdad in a blended family. Gil and his wife, Brenda, are certified marriage coaches and are presenters of the "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" video series. He is also the co-author of "Restored and Remarried." You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps:Dr. Alex McFarland [ 20:45 ]Gil Stuart [ 06:10 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us Fan MailKeeping a mental list of your spouse's mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for future fights, and measuring your spouse by who they used to be instead of who they are becoming. We also dig into the deeper reason the list won't go away: the original wound never healed. That's why some couples describe a betrayal from five or ten years ago like it happened last week. We connect the dots between unforgiveness, negativity, and confirmation bias, and we challenge the habit of fault finding that makes you look for proof rather than pursue peace. Along the way, we ground the conversation in 1 Corinthians 13 and the idea that love keeps no record of wrongs, while still acknowledging a crucial truth: love and trust are not the same thing, and wise boundaries can coexist with real forgiveness. You'll walk away with practical steps to drop the list for good: forgive fully, stop rehearsing the offense, replace accusation with communication, separate patterns from moments, give credit for change, and ask God to heal the first hurt that started the scorekeeping. If you want a healthier marriage, a stronger emotional connection, and a future that isn't chained to the past, press play and do this with us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more couples can find the help.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA bad marriage can feel like you're trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don't want to leave” and “I can't do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we've lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we've learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong person” and more about missing tools, missing clarity, and missing spiritual covering.We talk through what “bad marriage” really means, from emotional distance and constant tension to loneliness, lack of intimacy, and repeated arguments. We also name the situations that require immediate outside help, including adultery, abuse, and abandonment, and why counseling and wise leadership matter. Then we challenge one of the biggest traps couples fall into: focusing all their energy on changing their spouse. You can't manipulate transformation, but you can take responsibility for your part, rebuild emotional safety, and choose respect when it would be easier to react.We also unpack faith as action, not wishful thinking. That includes building a war room prayer life, refusing the spirit of accusation in your home, and learning to speak life over your spouse and your future. Finally, we lay out seven biblical steps to help turn a bad season around: stop pretending, get clear on what's broken, own your part, stop fighting alone, rebuild safety, reintroduce God, and choose growth over escape.If you're looking for Christian marriage advice, biblical steps to save your marriage, and practical help for a struggling marriage, press play, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find it.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

We welcome Christian Meert, co-founder of Agape Catholic Ministries, to examine the strengths and shortcomings of contemporary Catholic marriage preparation. In a culture increasingly confused about its purpose, how can the Church better prepare couples to embrace marriage as a lifelong sacrament and vocation? Father finishes with Timely Thoughts. Show Notes Agape Catholic Ministries iCatholic Mobile The Station of the Cross Merchandise - Use Coupon Code 14STATIONS for 10% off | Catholic to the Max Read Fr. McTeigue's Written Works! "Let's Take A Closer Look" with Fr. Robert McTeigue, S.J. | Full Series Playlist Listen to Fr. McTeigue's Preaching! | Herald of the Gospel Sermons Podcast on Spotify Visit Fr. McTeigue's Website | Herald of the Gospel Questions? Comments? Feedback? Ask Father!

Most couples don’t realize how simple it can be to make a good marriage great or to infuse a struggling marriage with new life. Jim Daly shares three simple ideas that will make your marriage better. Support Family Ministry If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family Commentary, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailHurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don't deal with it, it doesn't just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith.We talk through what hurt really is, why “church hurt” is often just people hurt, and how maturity means learning to stay grounded instead of running from every painful moment. Along the way, we share real stories, name the difference between reacting and responding, and explain how replaying pain without healing creates resentment, cynicism, suspicion, and withdrawal. If you've felt guarded, negative, or constantly bracing for the worst, we help you spot the signs of a bitter root before it spreads.Then we get practical and spiritual. We walk through eight clear steps for healing, including prayer, forgiveness without an apology, choosing safe people to process with, refusing a victim mindset, and using gratitude to starve bitterness. We close with a powerful prayer and daily declarations you can speak to break the cycle and move forward free.Subscribe, share this with someone who's carrying heavy hurt, and leave a review if it helps. What's one wound you're ready to stop replaying and finally heal?GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailSome battles don't start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn't real or organized.We walk through what spiritual warfare actually looks like for believers, why the mind is such a target, and how deception can make a lie feel “obvious” while God's truth starts to sound questionable. Tabatha shares her personal story of being set free from depression after years of coping methods that helped but didn't cure. That testimony opens a bigger conversation about identity in Christ, spiritual authority, and why the Word of God matters when you're facing anxiety, discouragement, temptation, or confusion.We also get practical. We break down Ephesians 6 and the reality that our fight isn't against flesh and blood, then lay out clear tactics the enemy uses: offense, isolation, distraction, compromise, and weariness. We end with direct, faith-filled prayers to renounce depression, anxiety, addiction, fear, and any occult doors, plus steps to stay submitted to God, stay in community, speak truth out loud, and rest when you're tired. If you want a biblical, actionable guide to Christian spiritual warfare, deliverance, and resisting the devil, this conversation is for you.Subscribe for more, share this with someone who's in a fight, and if this helped you, leave a rating and review so more people can find it.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Filling Your Marriage With Joy Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Unhappy Marriage? Fix it With These Simple Habits for Marital Happiness Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailWe name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom. • defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding • healthy soul ties in marriage, family, mentorship, and godly friendship • unhealthy soul ties formed through manipulation, trauma bonding, and emotional dependence • Tabatha's testimony of breaking ties with words and obedience • how trauma and sexual abuse can create lingering attachment and shame • why sexual purity matters and how sexual sin creates bondage • how unbroken past connections can affect dating and marriage • signs you may have an unhealthy soul tie including comparison, guilt, confusion, and stalking social media • why people stay in toxic relationships and how self-worth gets targeted • safety, community, and practical help for leaving abusive relationships • a step-by-step framework to acknowledge, repent, forgive, cut access, renounce, and renew your mind • a guided renouncing prayer and declarations for peace, healing, and a clear path forward I want you to just take a moment, comment in the section below. Let us know the soul ties that you've had, how you've overcome them, what you need prayer for, and share this with other people. If you're new to our podcast, make sure you hit the subscribe button or the alert icon. You can get your tickets right now. And the website is in the show notes. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

214 If you've ever felt unloved, unseen, or emotionally unmet in your relationship…even while knowing your partner probably does care about you… this episode is a must listen.In the last episode, we talked about emotional agency and the 3 core layers that shape emotional well-being for highly sensitive people. In this episode, we dive much deeper into one of those layers, which tends to be one of the biggest hidden struggles I see highly sensitive people carry into relationships without even realizing it:The painful self-worth patterns and deeper “heart wound” that sit beneath feeling unloved.This is a conversation that Todd Smith, from the Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People Podcast, and I recorded for his podcast, and I decided to share it here because it's such a deep, compassionate, validating, and hopeful conversation.In it we explore:why HSPs can feel unloved even when they have a good partner who does really love themThe "heart wound", and something I call “care distortion”, and how they affect a marriagehow childhood conditioning and being told you're “too sensitive” impacts self-worthwhy reassurance from your partner never fully resolves the deeper painhow emotional patterns, thoughts, and the nervous system all work together to help you feel loved or unlovedhow to begin building a more secure, loving relationship with yourself And how that finally opens the door to you feeling the deep love in your relationship you've always wanted to feelI think a lot of you are going to feel deeply seen in this episode.And even more importantly, you will leave feeling hopeful — because these patterns are not permanent, and healing them is not just absolutely possible, but something you can totally excel at as an HSP with the right support. Tune in!SHOW NOTES: Learn more and begin Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs here. Learn more about the full path of Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs → Marriage Sanctuary 1:1 here. 

Send us Fan MailWe talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David's life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows. • David's origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership • why time with God shapes a worshipful heart • repentance as the key difference between David and Saul • honoring leadership offices without excusing sin • resisting gossip, slander, and platform-building through criticism • guarding your heart from a culture of demonizing and outrage • practical steps for a heart God can promote, including private integrity and serving first • healing from wounds so you don't bleed on innocent people • choosing obedience over popularity and worshiping through warfare If you enjoyed today, make sure that you subscribe if you're not subscribed already. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailA marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you're living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools.We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that made small issues feel unfixable, and how depression and anxiety impacted Tabitha's ability to connect. We also share what changed everything: inviting God into the center of the marriage and letting Him work on us first, not just “fix” our spouse. That shift is where healing starts, because a restored marriage is built on transformed hearts, not better arguments.From there, we get practical about marriage restoration: how to become the hero in the home, how to rebuild trust through consistent patterns instead of big promises, and how to communicate without attacking so you can finally talk about hard things without blowing up. We also dig into why many couples keep treating symptoms while the real root stays untouched, and why counseling, wisdom, and steady effort over time matter more than quick emotional moments.We close with five clear keys to heal a broken marriage and a prayer for anyone hanging on by a thread. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with someone who needs hope, and leave a comment with what stood out most so we can hear your story.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book A Simple Guide for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Finding New Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Navigating Marriage Expectations When Marriage Isn’t How You Thought It Would Be Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

Send us Fan MailWe define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth • Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fear, and addiction • Separating real faith declarations from fake performance • Why hypocrisy harms marriages, kids, friendships, and our witness • Church as a hospital for honest people • How hypocrisy shows up in marriage through unequal standards • Acts 5 and the warning of Ananias and Sapphira • Couples conspiring to hide problems and why it backfires • Building wise accountability with trusted mentors and pastors • Signs of slipping into hypocrisy like defensiveness and people pleasing • Practical steps to get free including repentance and integrity • Renouncement prayer and a closing prayer for freedom make sure that you hit the subscribe button, hit the alert icon so that you can be the first to get the content. We want you to share today with other people. You can find all of that out at kenandabitha.com. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

Send us Fan MailWe get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right • becoming the hero in the home instead of matching foolishness • what blame shifting sounds like in everyday arguments • Adam and Eve as the first blame shift • how victim mentality keeps people stuck • a candid talk on emotional abuse claims and getting wise counsel • the role of self-awareness and security in hard conversations • practical steps like reflecting, apologizing right, and seeking accountability • repentance as change not just confession Make sure that you share. If you're new to our podcast, hit the subscribe button. If you're on YouTube, hit the alert icon. Go over to Kenandtabatha.com. Get your ticket now. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888