Hectic

The girls are back and it's a freestyle episode. This week we discuss the return of summer in Toronto aka the return of enjoyment and festivities so brace yourselves, the city's coming back alive! We also get into the amazing content African influencers are bringing to the table and so much more. Tune in! Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on all socials @hecticpodcast

Treat me like I Treat me baby! This week the girls are joined by Toks Ayinla, Poet, Author, Speaker and Coach. We dive into her poetry book "Through My Brown Eyes" which features 180 poems written in English with some pieces translated into Yoruba about what it means to be. She reads us some of her favorite poems which sparks conversation on romance, heartbreak and healing. We also discuss her on going YouTube series titled the "Heartbreak Series" which leads us to the following conclusion... Treat me like I treat me! Find all of Tok's information below and on't forget to Like, Comment and Share y'all Toks Talks website: https://tokstalks.com/ Through My Brown Eyes buy link: https://www.amazon.ca/Through-Brown-Eyes-Toks-Ayinla/dp/1999220005/ref=sr_1_1?crid=15EDXZX61RPI2&keywords=toks+ayinla&qid=1574208193&s=books&sprefix=TOks+ayin%2Cstripbooks%2C154&sr=1-1 Toks Ayinla Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tokstalks/ Toks Ayinla Twitter: https://twitter.com/ToksTalks?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Toks Talks podcast: https://www.tokstalks.com/toks-talks-podcast Toks Talks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCig96m6QcalH9advYaFTtcA?sub_confirmation=1 Toks Ayinla linktree: https://linktr.ee/ToksAyinla

Hey Hectic this week we bring you a bonus episode. From wanting to be in love, (thank you Lucky Daye), to clout chasing, to long weekend plans. Enjoy!!! Don't forget to like, comment and share

This week, the hectic hotties are joined by Pam, the owner & creator of i Belong to a Poet - a female black owned business that can fulfill ALL your candle needs. She shares her journey with us in starting a candle business on her own and the challenges & surprises that came along the way. She breaks down the very intricate process of how a candle is made, the love & dedication it requires and so much more! Be sure to check out her page on Instagram - @ibelongtoapoet. All candles are 100% soy wax, a considerate queen looking out for the environment and the girls! Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on all socials @hecticpodcast

This week the mamis' continue their focus on women -remaining on brand by discussing reclaiming their femininity as black women. We discuss the stereotype of femininity circulating in society and how black femininity rejects that stereotype and creates its own space. We speak on our individual experiences and discuss our femininity quiz results which the mamis' do not completely agree with all while remaining topical and being hilarious as usual

Happy International Women's Day! This week we're focused on all things women which is very on brand. We discuss the joys that come with being black women, the love & support we receive from having a strong community of women around, what feminine energy means to us, Bobrisky and so much more Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on socials @hecticpodcast

On this episode, the girls discuss the abundance of unreliable sources in the media, artists taking back control of their music and how getting with a bad bitch can really elevate your life! Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on all socials @hecticpodcast

The girls are back, this time we discuss the inner workings of "scam culture". The kind of scams we could (allegedly) get into, the levels of finesse in immigration consulting and other random things. Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on all socials @hecticpodcast

Love is in the air Happy Valentines day hecticfam! This week we get into all things L.O.V.E. Our fave love and lust songs, celebrity tea, why scent is such an important criteria for the girls when choosing a partner and the importance or lack thereof of sex in romantic relationships. Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on all socials @hecticpodcast

New week, new episode! This time the podcast mamis discuss the habit of unlearning certain behaviors that no longer serve us, women getting into their villainous era and the re-definition of submission. Get into it yuh! Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us on socials @hecticpodcast

This week our conversation centers around the ongoing tussle we sometimes experience with the different types of imposter syndrome, from the perfectionist to the expert to the natural genius the girls are pushing through regardless. Don't forget to like, comment, share and follow us

It's been a minute and the Hectic Hotties are back! We have missed you, #hecticfam, and we can't wait to continue to entertain, learn, enjoy, tussle and grow with yall. This week we catch up on what's been going on in our lives, where we've been, what 2021 taught us, our interest in NFTS and Cryptocurrency, real housewives tea, this ongoing paronorma and our new realities, amapiano, enjoyment and recent pop culture tea. Don't forget to like, comment and follow us on socials @hecticpodcast Enjoy!!!

Hey #Hecticfam the girls are back for the summer!!! This week we are have a beautiful conversation with Ghanaian Togolese mental health advocate Roxanne. She talks to us about her advocacy platform #dance_4mentalhealth where she teaches and creates awareness on emotional wellness and mental health, alongside dance, entertainment and art workshops. We also get into why we should always center ourselves, keeping it shallow with *BLEEP* and the beauty in self love and acceptance. As always enjoy! Roxanne's IG: https://www.instagram.com/mizroxanne/ dance_4mentalhealth IG: https://www.instagram.com/dance_4mentalhealth/ KweliTV: https://www.kweli.tv/ Library Of Africa and The African Diaspora (LOATAD): https://loatad.org/

You know how we always complain about tech issues well that's what happened here we recorded an entire episode for yall just for only half of the conversation to be recorded. As the smart babes that we are we decided to make lemonade outta these lemons, so grab a glass of your fav lemonade and listen as we dive into a letter from a listener in this episode of Mimi Fix my Life. Enjoy don't forget to like, comment and share! The Podcast Mamis

Hey hectic fam this week the girls are joined by Multi-platform Journalist, Producer, Creative, Speaker and Mentor Mariama Wurie who is currently a World Bank consultant for Sierra Leone's Free education project as well as a freelance producer for CNN and BBC. Our conversation navigates the world of journalism and the big machine that is the media and how it impacts all of our lives directly and indirectly. We covers topics such as Megan and Harry's Oprah interview, Gen Z and Sky Daddy the art of story telling and Mariama's career as a black African woman in the world of media and journalism. Grab a cup of tea and enjoy! Mariama's Website where you can find all her projects: https://www.mariamawurie.com/

The girls have been dealing with tech issues chile but we are here now. For Women's history month we decided to sit down with women in different fields to discuss things the hecticpodcast way. This week we are joined by actress extraordinaire Nengi Adoki aka The Most Toasted Girl to get the tea on toasting 101 cause these streets are still wild and we gotta stay on game. We also get into Nengi's journey as an theater kid to now actress, writer and producer of the first Nigerian crowd funded web series she created and stars in "The Most Toasted Girl". Enjoy #hecticfam and don't forget to like, comment and share the episode. Below we have links to Nengi's socials, the Patreon to support more episodes of The Most Toasted girl and the Youtube link to watch the show. The Most Toasted Girl Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/nengiadoki The Most Toasted Girl Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCM2wWHVLpEnXpHGfZTxxxjg Nengi's Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheNengers?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Nengi's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenengers/?igshid=134bhhykgnb7u

How you hating from outside the club? you can't even get in honey... The theme of this week's conversation is centered around folks who came for Chloe Bailey for apparently being "too sexy" and "seeking attention". These very Ick takes from people who can't seem to stay outta of bad bitches business is addressed and shut down because who are you to try and humble us? Enjoy Hectic fam, share some of your stories with us like, comment and share.

This week is all about the art of seduction with our very special guest Minz. Listen as we share some tips and tricks while we get to know Minz and his music on a more personal level. Enjoy #hecticfam

Gist sessions is all about the gorls catching up on some tea and discussing what the streets are up to. Its only the third week of the year and a lot has happened already from turtle and nugget to the reign of clubhouse lets discuss! Enjoy don't forget to like, comment and share

To ease us into the year the Podcast mamis are kick things off with you guessed it... a music episode. We love music and so we love a good music challenge, want the cheat code to our hearts through music or maybe you're interested in the sounds that take us from relaxed to party mode. Join us as we dive into our forever and current faves. Grab a cup of tea it's gonna be a fun ride. Like, comment and share, we also want to hear about your faves in the comment section.

Happy Hottie Holidays #hecticfam. This week we discuss our favorite holiday traditions past and present and get into the spirit of a black ass holiday. Enjoy and Happy New Year in advance

We miss you hectic fam and we miss being in other people's business! Join us this week as we discuss the state of the streets during this global pandemic. One thing is clear we might be in quarantine but the relationship and love streets are very much still active. From cheating scandals to surprise pregnancies the drama lives on. Enjoy and don't forget to like, comment, subscribe and share.

Following the release of Beverly Naya's Netflix documentary 'Skin' the podcast mamis share their personal experiences with colourism and unpack the origins and effects of colourism on our society as a whole. This week's tea centres around the scandal between August Alsina and Jada Pinkett Smith as well as the internet's reaction to Mowalola's GAP deal in relation to Telfar.

This week the podcast mamis start off discussing the discrimination against women within the black community following the tragic death of Toyin Salau and J. Cole's insensitive comments towards Noname and black women in general. Then they dive into music therapy and list the artists, albums and playlists helping to mentally distress during these trying times.

This week, the podcast mamis get introspectively intimate sharing personal experiences where they put the wants and needs of others before their own well being.

The podcast mamis get more political than usual commenting on the current socio-political climate in the U.S. and Nigeria in relation to the world. Petitions you can sign and organized groups, you can donate to: Way to help BLM: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/#petitions Stand to End Rape: http://standtoendrape.org/ Split a donation between 70+ community bail funds, mutual aid funds, and racial justice organizers — Donate via AB Charities: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/bail_funds_george_floyd Flutterwave - STER Initiative: https://flutterwave.com/pay/justiceforuwa Stay safe Hecticfam

Groove to a blend of songs mistakenly added to Hectic's likes by each podcast mami. The first release of future mixes. 1) I Like My Shit From the Back - Amber The Producer 2) Lonely - Doja Cat 3)No Reason - at merari 4)Odoyewu - Miz 5)Love Hurts - Playboi Carti 6)Ya Feel Me - Megan Thee Stallion 7)Pretty Masquerade -Ogranya 8)Shame - Genio Bambino (feat. Fasina and Tomi Thomas)

Breezing past the Real Housewives of Atlanta recap, the podcast mamis spiral through the news of Jeff Bezos possibly becoming the world's first trillionaire, his relentless middle class supporters on social media and the racism that COVID-19 has inspired from "white nationalists."

As the podcast mamis get into the swing of the current corona times, they dissect Issa D and Molly's relationship from HBO's insecure pointing out the dos and donts of the girl code.

We made it to the 50th episode and we're celebrating with a pioneer of the Next generation of the Nigerian sound, BOJ. Listen to how DRB Lasgidi was created, why their project is necessary for us now and BOJ's favs from the album. Before he arrives, the podcast mamis share and discuss conspiracy theories in popular culture as well as some self made up notions, and after he arrives, messy mims plays a game of Too Much Information, find out what you didn't know about BOJ, dijabae, jamjam and igbospice.

Despite the current state of the world, people have found new ways to make life hard for themselves and the women around them, let's talk about the girl on girl violence. Also, special thanks to the artists releasing new music, although dijabae and igbo spice have differing opinions on a certain Canadian rapper, musicians have been doing a fantastic job on keeping us entertained.

Quarantine day what again?... This week, since Covid-19 has made sure we can't leave the house, the mamis connect virtually and table their quarantine chronicles from realizing the "work" in work from home isn't silent to day dreaming about the outside. They also discuss the challenges going around social media, instagram live parties and how we are all holding down the forte. Dija tries to push her challenge propaganda. Does she succeed? Press Play to find out!

Y'all know we love, love and we celebrate it every chance we get!!! This week the Podcast Mamis bring you a Valentine's Day special, the ladies share everything from their relationship styles to what album makes them want to fall in love. A very problematic game of Murder, Kill or Make Love causes major havoc so grab some tea and a lover(maybe)and enjoy! Happy Lovey Dovey day yall

Kicking off their first episode of the year, this week the ladies keep it short and sweet as they discuss their not so typical resolutions and find out why 2020 is the year of P.E.L. Enjoy Hectic fam!

This week the ladies dive into the world of Afrobeats and explore how the genre has evolved over this decade. From Wizkid to Burna Boy to Tiwa Savage to Santi to Aya Nakamura the genre is exploding all over the world and bringing with it a number of sub-genres that keep us dancing and enjoying our lives. Enjoy hecticfam

It’s that time of the year when it’s cold outside, the nights are longer and the door of depression is wide open. Find out how the podcast mamis using different methods cope with the winter months by balancing their soul, mind and body.

Welcome to our spookiest episode yet. In this Bonus edition we explore the weirdest/scariest superstitions we’ve ever heard till date. Lay back grab some tea and enjoy maybe have someome else theee with you for support?! Happy Halloween y’all. Don’t forget to leave us comments, tell us about superstitions you grew up on and so on till next time muggles

Tell us how you want to be loved... This week the ladies take the love language test and reveal their results. Find out if physical touch, receiving gifts, acts of service or quality time comes up on top. We also discuss Summer Walker's over it and Sir's Chasing summer. Also is plastic surgery on your man a yaay or nayyy let us know in the comments, twitter or Instagram @hecticpodcast. Enjoy!

Long time no listen! The podcast mamis are all back after a tumultuous hot girl summer consisting of tears, laughter, new achievements and new experiences. On this episode, they discuss the rise in pick up artists, the men who hunt women and how to avoid them by killing the pick me spirit in you. Also hang on for a game of new words and learn why 'pot valor' is the reason why you text that person after a few drinks.

Welcome back to another episode of Hectic yall this week the podcast mamis ask the tough questions PASSION OR STABABILITY (no it aint a typo)? Skepta's Ignorance is bliss is discussed and so is a lot of R&B music and guess who got a new job? Enjoy!

With summer officially kicked off, this week the podcast mamis reveal there Hot Girl Summer starter packs! MessyMims tries to find out just how dirty the minds of her co-hosts are and as usual they dive into the world of music with everything from new releases to the XXL Freshman cover enjoy!

Hey Hectic fam here's a bonus episode to kick off your Wednesday... Join the podcast mamis as messy mims tells the story of the time she was robbed in Lagos and her early week blues, Dija shares her mini vacation and reflects on the state of the world and Jamjam tells us about taco and brunch fest. Enjoy hotties :)

The podcast mamis want you to know that black women deserve love! Also, would you date a sperm donor? or what occupation would you never date? The podcast mamis talk about a song that brings back a sexual flash back and play a game of finishing the sentence. Of course Megan Thee Stallion dropped Fever and Santi dropped Mandy the Jungle and the podcast mamis could not get enough of either.

Episode 38- Meal Prep by Podcast Mamis

This is a long one and with good reason. It was a heavy week in the world and the the podcast mamis had a lot to share, from their thoughts on our trivia winner's experience at Teni live in Toronto, to the tragedy that led to the creation of SayHerNameNigeria. Between Caster Semenya losing her legal battle and Tonto Dike's transparency about her abusive marriage, it has really been a hectic week for African women and it wouldn't be the hectic podcast if the podcast mamis didn't have several words for the manipulative parties.

This week the podcast mamis play their own spin on the popular 'marry/fuck/kill' game; marry, make love or murder, and things get very hectic. Catch up on all the madness that went on during the easter weekend, dijabae's new friends and why igbospice, messymims and jamjam found themselves walking in the rain at 3am. The podcast mamis introduce a new segment 'The Knowledge Bank,' where they teach you random things like the net income of Nigerian pastors. The streets are hot! As they share their opinions on the royal cheating scandal, the rate of female orgasms in heterosexual relations and the herpes outbreak at coachella 2019.

On this bonus episode, the podcast mamis throw it all the way back to a previously recorded session with two hosts from the 'submarine and a roach' podcast. Listen as they answer listener questions, play a game that turns dirty, and find out what the guest hosts would do if they could be women for a day.

On this episode, the podcast mamis share thoughts on The Little and Us movie, with a side of Real Housewives (of Atlanta). Get into the weirdest thing that has ever been done to each of the podcast mamis ever! Find out which of them spent 10 hours vomiting; got served dinner with a side of porn and cried over a traumatic experience with primary school mean girls.

This week, messy mims and jamjam's marriage barely survive the episode as the podcast mamis play a game of true or false. Find out which podcast mami gets regular follows from witch doctors; just learnt how to use a vibrator; is expecting waakye in exchange for job security; and who would tie wizkid in a coffin for assurance. Also, get well soon dijabae!

This week igbo spice talks about her most hectic first date and the podcast mamis receive an angry message from an unimpressed listener; in conclusion broke men deserve nothing.

On this episode, the podcast mamis welcome jamjam as an official podcast mami and get down to the route of oloni's infamous twitter thread of long paragraphs sent by women to their apathetic partners; questions on long distance; why we as women should cheat for stress relief and the shocking discovery at the end of messy mims story from last week.