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It's the first few days of the new year and 2022 is already looking rocky for people's relationships. DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good announced that they were getting a divorce and we are sad about it. We both appreciated them as a couple but this was also a reminder that we shouldn't deem people as "couple goals"-- especially because we don't always know what is happening behind closed doors. Also, COVID is COVID-ing again. Mask up y'all! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

All we have to say is... what a year

This week is a little different. Chrissa got vulnerable and did a solo episode about being single and discussed the idea of companionship vs solitude (courtesy of @chroniclesofzaria). Enjoy this little unedited brain dump and Merry Christmas ya filthy animals! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon Source: https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryanrobinson/2020/08/02/do-you-need-to-be-in-a-relationship-to-be-happy-surprising-results-from-a-new-study/?sh=64f0892f51a9

2021 is lowkey the year that didn't exist but somehow a lot of shenanigans were going on. This week, we discussed things that need to be left in 2021...and don't get mad at us cus we know how you girls like to tussle. What are some things you want to leave in 2021? Let us know! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

So... we recorded a new episode but decided not to post it (we'll explain in the episode). We didn't wanna leave y'all hangin' though so we thought it would be a good idea to run back an episode from last holiday season to try to get more in the spirit of Christmas this year *cough* Chrissa *cough*. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon We do not own the rights to the clips played in this episode.

Thanksgiving has passed which means that it's officially the holidays. This week we discussed our holiday plans and how we are feeling going into this holiday season. For some, this is an exciting time of the year. For others, the holidays bring up negative emotions and seasonal affective disorder (AKA SAD). We also can't forget that we are still technically in a panoramic and now there's another new variant. To sum it up, the holidays are A LOT to handle so taking care of your physical and mental health should be the top priority this season. Also, Rest In Peace to Young Dolph (Adolph Robert Thornton Jr.) and Virgil Abloh. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

This week we discussed DaBaby and DaniLeigh's IG live drama where he kicked her out of his house and then proceeded to call her his side chick even though we all know they were together. It's the cap on this app for us

Rest In Peace to John Hilgert (14), Brianna Rodriguez (16), Jacob E. Jurinek (20), Axel Acosta (21), Franco Patiño (21), Madison Dubiski (23), Rudy Peña (23), and Danish Baig (27). We are praying for their family and friends during this tragic time. There are at least 2 people currently in critical condition and fighting for their lives. Our prayers go out to Ezra Blount (9), Bharti Shahani (22), their families, and all of the other victims. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Is it a turn-off if a man/woman is too available? Does there need to be a certain amount of chasing when you first start talking to someone? Can you date or marry someone that you aren't physically attracted to? This week, we discussed all of these questions and more. Tap in and definitely let us know what you think! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Is honesty always the best policy when it comes to friendships? Are there situations when it is okay to withhold information from your friends? Are your friends allowed to tell you about your romantic relationship(s)? This week, we shared our opinions on these topics and we want to know what you guys think. Let us know in the comments! Also, Happy Halloween

We promise we had an actual topic this week but somehow we ended up talking about DM dives, getting blocked, and then there was an emergency. We did share some funny stories though so be sure to tap in. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Is it possible to get married without an arranged marriage and without dating?

A lot has been going on and we decided to catch up on all of the news we missed. This week we discussed: Gabby Petito, Miya Marcano, celebrity breakups, Kelly Price going "missing," R. Kelly, women of color not being protected, and how you can't believe everything you see on social media. PS: We apologize for the cricket in the background

We're back!!!!!! We know some of you probably thought we quit but, between the wedding and Hurricane Ida, we just had a lot going on. This week we are catching y'all up on everything that has happened over the last few weeks so tap in for all of the tea. Thanks for sticking with us! We luh y'all! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We have weddings and hurricanes happening this week y'all. Pray for us! This week we discussed the final week of wedding planning, kissing in front of parents, the pressure to not fumble the bag, and if we are still allowed to call Brittney "BP "

We are in the thick of wedding planning so it was only right to throw it back to our episode about Love Island. Our guest, Imani Shani, is a model, actress, and Youtuber from the Bay Area that stopped by to chat with us about her journey doing all of these things and yes... how she got kicked off of Love Island [insert dramatic music]. We also shared the things we want to accomplish in 2021! Be sure to follow Imani Shani on all platforms! Youtube= Imani Shani Instagram= @imanishani Tik Tok= imani.shani Apple Podcasts= Live @ The Family BBQ As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Have you ever been in a relationship where your significant other's parent(s)/family didn't like you? Was it a dealbreaker? In this episode, BP discusses the process of preparing for her wedding and we reflect on the importance of family (blood family, in-laws, close friends etc.). We also got deep and discussed faith and "angel niggas" (don't even ask just listen to the episode). This episode is dedicated to Uncle Soup. Rest in peace

The wedding drama has begun and BP had some things to get off her chest

The reaction some people had to Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka was just another reminder that, as Black women, we are damned if we do and damned if we don't. If the top athletes in the world are taking a step back for their mental health, then the rest of us should too and we aren't apologizing for putting ourselves first anymore. PERIOD. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We can't believe it's already been a year but nigga we made it!

She's baaaaccckkkkk

We are getting back into the swing of things [sorta] and we caught up on all of the crazy news we missed over the last few weeks. Tune in to hear our thoughts on Bill Cosby getting out, Sha'Carri Richardson, Khloe's exes beefin, JLo, and more. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

This week we are spilling all the Vegas bachelorette tea. That's it...that's the caption. We tired. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Can you believe it's about to be July? Where did the time go?! This episode is a little unconventional because we have so many exciting [and stressful] things going on. We hope this episode is a gentle reminder to check in with yourself and your loved ones because life is moving fast. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Side Baby= A baby that you have with your side chick Find out which one of us is a side baby (oop) and how it has impacted our relationships. In this episode we also discuss: -Future…. Wait… how many baby mamas does he have? -“Traditional” and “Non-Traditional” families - Daddy issues -Marriage -Parents not knowing s**t! Jk lol This episode is a little longer but sooo many gems were dropped! Enjoy! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

So... about this tell-all... Falynn Goubadia sat down with Up and Adam! to discuss her divorce and how she feels about her soon-to-be ex-husband being engaged to her fellow cast member. This week, we discussed her interview and the tea she spilled. Do y'all think she was being genuine or was it strategic? We also discussed Juneteenth, Father's Day, and how these airlines don't want us to be great with these overpriced flights. Happy Juneteenth and Happy Father's Day!! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Are you team bonnet outside or team no bonnet outside? Teetee Mo'Nique is back at it again and she's tired of y'all coming to the airport looking like you just rolled out of bed. Does she have a point or does she deserve the dragging she received? As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We are back and bussin' it open for part 2! Are Christians the freakiest ones? Why do pastors end up on The Shade Room? Have you ever heard your parents...? If you haven't listened to part 1 yet, please go back and listen to that episode first because we got deep. Thank you again to our guest @PrincetonParker. Make sure y'all go follow him and support all of the amazing things he is doing. Instagram: @PrincetonParker YouTube: Princeton Parker Website: PrincetonParker.com Podcast: BuildingWithoutABlueprint https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/building-without-a-blueprint/id1360936990 New Single “What Hasn't Changed” https://youtu.be/VCpQFibw3LM https://music.apple.com/us/album/what-hasnt-changed/1545971376?i=1545971378 As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Well... it's time we buss it wide open for y'all on the podcast and, to make it less awkward, we decided to have this conversation with our friend who also happens to be a pastor. Yes...a pastor named @PrincetonParker. Some of you might be confused, but it will all make sense once you listen to the episode. We promise it's a good one and it's so good that there is a part 2, so be sure to come back next week. Thank you again to our guest @PrincetonParker. Make sure y'all go follow him and support all of the amazing things he is doing. Instagram: @PrincetonParker YouTube: Princeton Parker Website: PrincetonParker.com Podcast: BuildingWithoutABlueprint https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/building-without-a-blueprint/id1360936990 New Single “What Hasn't Changed” https://youtu.be/VCpQFibw3LM https://music.apple.com/us/album/what-hasnt-changed/1545971376?i=1545971378 As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Your homegirl's husband might be your future fiancé. Is that wrong? This week we discussed Porsha Williams' new boo and why the internet is dragging her. Also, her new boo has a $50K reward for anyone that can prove he cheated on his ex-wife. We also discussed the Joe Budden Podcast drama, Palestine, and Chrissa's moment of maturity. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Can single fathers, dog moms, and plant moms celebrate Mother's Day? Should we just celebrate Parent's Day at this point? This week we discussed Mother's Day, who is allowed to celebrate it, and why some people don't celebrate it. Mother's Day is wonderful for some but it's also a very painful day for others and @UnfitChristian (IG) did a great job capturing the complexity in her Mother's Day post for this year. We also discussed COVID vaccinations and side effects. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

There's cheating and then there's cheating "respectfully". If you don't know what the difference is, Meghan J from Bad Girl's Club and Basketball Wives broke it down for us on her new show Notorious Queens. Do all men really cheat or is that just what we tell ourselves so it doesn't hurt as bad? Let us know what y'all think. If there are any cheaters or ex-cheaters that want to tell their side of the story please DM us because we really want to understand. This is a judgment-free zone. Rest In Peace to Ma'Khia Bryant #BlackLivesMatter As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Running it back one time because we needed some Black joy after another traumatic week. #BlackLivesMatter Cheat Man is about to be your next favorite Black cartoon and Rodney (the creator of Cheat Man) stopped by to talk about his new project, drop some knowledge, and make fun of Chrissa. In this episode, we also give advice to our younger selves. Here's how you can support Rodney and Cheat Man: 1. DONATE HERE! >>> https://linktr.ee/cheatman #Breakthebank 2. Follow Cheat Man on IG @cheatmancartoon 3. Follow Rodney on IG @rodneycuhh As always, email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon Nipsey Hussle Clip: Mustard- "Perfect 10 feat. Nipsey Hussle"

So...apparently, the men want to be wined and dined. Who knew!! Should women take men out on dates more? What about a first date? This week we discussed the viral video of the boyfriend giving his girlfriend money and, in return, she used the money to spend it back on a date for the both of them. The comments under the video were interesting, to say the least. Also, we've said it before and we are going to keep saying it. STOP KILLING BLACK AND BROWN PEOPLE. Rest In Peace to Daunte Wright, Adam Toledo, and Roger Allen. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Are you allowed to take back gifts like Rashad snatched New-New's chain? If so, are there rules? Is it petty? This week, we talked about taking things back once a relationship/friendship has ended and if we think it's acceptable or petty af. We also discussed vaccine side effects and said goodbye to the legendary DMX. LA COVID-19 Emergency Renter's Assistance Information As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

9 minutes and 29 seconds... 9 minutes and 29 seconds...9 minutes and 29 seconds... not 8 minutes and 46 seconds. Were you able to watch the first week of Derek Chauvin's trial? If you didn't [or just couldn't], we did our best to discuss what went down and how we personally felt about the first week of the trial. We don't know how this will end but we do know that George Floyd deserves justice. #JusticeforGeorgeFloyd #BlackLivesMatter As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

No more dimming your light. No more making yourself feel small. No more apologizing for how you feel. We are taking up more space in 2021 [and beyond] PERIOD. To view the full list and comments, visit @werenotreallystrangers on Instagram. PS: Morgan Freeman wasn't 70 but y'all get the point lol! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

The tomboy aesthetic is trendy these days but, in this episode, we discuss how we've been ridin' this wave for as long as we can remember. We also discuss the pressures to conform, finding your tribe, doing what feels most comfortable to you, and the ongoing process of loving yourself. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

*Trigger Warning: Suicide was mentioned in this episode.* Chile....what a week. We had Meg[h]ans and Queens and Stimmys, oh my! This week Prince Harry and Meghan spilled ALL of the English breakfast tea with Oprah, the other Megan (Thee Stallion) won Grammys and made history, Beyoncé reminded us (once again) that she is our Black Queen, Moneybagg Joe is passing out another stimmy, we've officially been in the house for a year, and we are still screaming JUSTICE FOR BREONNA TAYLOR. Amanda Seales Clip: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CMNdimjnChN/?utm_source=ig_embed As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Y'all… our lives are changing!!!!! In this episode, we both announce some big and exciting things that are happening in our lives. Tune in to find out what they are! Also, we answer a listener question about how to start a podcast. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Friendship breakups are the worst! How do you know you've outgrown your friend(s)? How do you tell them? Should you even tell them or just ghost them? In this episode, we discussed it all and realized we really don't have all of the answers. Friendships are complicated and ending them is even more complicated. Please send help! PS: Thank you to the listeners that shared their stories. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We are back for the final episode of this series. If you missed the previous episodes, go back and listen to those first. You can find the list of green flags on our Instagram page courtesy of @millennial.therapist. PS: If it sounds like BP is only in one ear, you aren't tripping. So sorry for the technical difficulties! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

BP was sick this week so we are running back the episode on red flags. We'll be back to finish the green flag series next week. We love y'all! Cardi B did what now? Did she miss the red flags? In this episode, we discuss our personal red flags, how "love at first sight" is a SCAM #Scamalert, and Jaybo's highly requested Vegas story resurfaces! As always, email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We are back for part 2! We've discussed red flags before so we thought it was important to discuss green flags because knowing when you are in a healthy relationship is just as important as knowing when you might be in a toxic one. You can find the list of green flags on our Instagram page courtesy of @millennial.therapist. Stay tuned for Pt. 3 next week! To find out more information about racism and violence against the Asian community, please see the links below: 1) 84 year old killed in San Francisco 2) Oakland Chinatown attack 3) Hate Crimes Against AAPI Communities 4) NextShark As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

We've discussed red flags before so we thought it was important to discuss green flags because knowing when you are in a healthy relationship is just as important as knowing when you might be in a toxic one. You can find the list of green flags on our Instagram page courtesy of @millennial.therapist. Stay tuned for Pt. 2 next week! Also, we totally forgot to say it in the show but HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH!!!!!! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

1 year ago today we lost a legend. Kobe Bryant left a lasting impact on the world and this week we talked about his legacy and the importance of using the time you have on this earth wisely because every day is a gift. Sending up prayers for the families of Kobe Bryant, Gianna Bryant, Payton Chester, Sarah Chester, Alyssa Altobelli, Keri Altobelli, John Altobelli, Christina Mauser, and Ara Zobayan. May they all rest peacefully. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

The Capitol, crazy Karens, and COVID-19 [*deep sigh*]... America is so ghetto. In other news, shoutout to Eugene Goodman and we still want #JusticeForMiriamCarey. As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

This week we are working on our virtual recording setup but we didn't want to completely skip the week so we decided to run back an oldie but goodie. We promise we'll be back soon, but we want to make sure we are being as safe as possible with Rona still out in these LA streets. Stay safe everyone! Can men and women be JUST friends? This simple question turned out to be... well... not so simple and some of our listeners tapped in to tell us why. Also, we have another listener question at the end of the show! Thank you to all of the listeners that sent in recordings. We love yall! #BLACKLIVESMATTER ~ RIP Chadwick Boseman #WakandaForever As always, email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot

Happy New Year!!!! It's officially 2021 and we are starting off the year with another guest. Imani Shani is a model, actress, and Youtuber from the Bay Area that stopped by to chat with us about her journey doing all of these things and yes... how she got kicked off of Love Island [insert dramatic music]. We also shared the things we want to accomplish in 2021! Be sure to follow Imani Shani on all platforms! Youtube= Imani Shani Instagram= @imanishani Tik Tok= imani.shani Apple Podcasts= Live @ The Family BBQ As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon

Man... 2020 is officially coming to a close [Thank God] and we are spending time with loved ones for the holidays, but we couldn't leave y'all hangin'. This week's episode consists of clips that didn't make the show. We hope you enjoy this lighthearted episode after surviving such a heavy year. Thank you all for the love and support in 2020. We are looking forward to bringing you more episodes in 2021! Happy New Year! As always, you can email your stories, questions, and opinions to ijustfinditfunnyhowpod@gmail.com or you can DM us on IG! @ijustfinditfunnyhowpod @theebeepee @baby.goon