Lessons For My Kids

Spotify has changed the platform, so LFMK is winding down. There may be one more episode, but this is the end. There may be on more episode. These will be some last rambling thoughts of guidance. Good luck to you and thank you so much for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

The best advice can come from people who have lived long lives. Those with experience tend to have "been there" and "done that". They know what it takes to lvie a good life. Charlie Munger was well known and respected across the world. His biggest piece of advice was to invest in yourself and let go of envy. https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/topstocks/who-in-the-hell-needs-a-rolex-watch-the-late-charlie-munger-warned-americans-against-pretentious-expenditures-here-s-what-he-preferred-to-invest-in-instead/ar-BB1lrJVT?ocid=hpmsn&cvid=16984083bd6c4f6a97bcce93234561c5&ei=56 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Being a servant leader means you show up and help your team to be better. You get to know your employees, students, players, etc. and work to give them the tools they need to succeed. Recognize their differences, and praise their achievements. Former U.S. President John Quincy Adams put it, “if your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

What are principles? They are the moral anchors of who we are and what push us to be better. We live by our principles. We need to review what is important as we go through life. Principles keep us grounded. Things like humility, playing fair, honesty, being generous and giving, as well as being true to ourselves. These are just a few examples of what we discuss today. To my kids, I love you. And this podcast will be coming to an end in only a few more episodes. Thank you again for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Scammers will do anything to get someone to give up money or access to personal information. Know the signs to prevent you from being a victim of these crimes. The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) shared some key tips, especially when you are called. First, once you determine a scam call, remain calm. Remember, government agencies will not call you on the phone. Next, do not give out personal information, click links, or download anything. Phone numbers included on emails or texts are not going to the real company or agency. Also, only scammers will ask for cash, crypto currency, or gift cards. These are not traceable. They may also ask to meet at an address not connected to the business or agency. Do not go. Alert the police or agency of the scam immediately. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

In a surprise to you...parents and teachers do not know everything. There is no one and no machine with all of the world's knowledge. We learn bits and pieces throughout our lives and continue learning for our entire lives, sewing the information together. It's okay to say you don't know the answer to something. There could be multiple answers, varying ways to reach answers, or no answer at all. If we don't know an answer, we can seek help, use technology, and work together to find one. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

An article from Pursuit of Passive Income explained "The Secret to Never-Ending Income: These 25 Skills Will Pay You for a Lifetime". There may be a few caveats to consider, yet the list gives some good suggestions. We know a few of the underlying tones are to continue learning, as well as listening and staying positive. Thanks for listening. Sorry this one is a little longer. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

A division 1 coach spoke to a group. He talked about the characteristics he looks for in players. Some players may not have all of the characteristics to start, which is what the job of the coach has to instill. In this episode you will hear some of the things the coach looks for and how he expects players to conduct themselves. Thank you for listening. To my kids, I love you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Why do we pay for our kids to be in sports or other activities? A parent forum for fastpitch softball in Florida had a great answer, and it has nothing to do with the sport being played. We should all consider the benefits and lessons behind what playing sports, taking an art or cooking class, or any other activities our kids are involved. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Charles Schulz was the creator of "Peanuts". He also had a very interesting view of life and humanity, which you can see in his cartoons. We have 6 questions to try and answer, and then another 5 to think about. No need to write anything down. These are answers for you to consider for yourself. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Money can come quickly and it can go quickly. You could be in better shape than you think if you are being smart with your money. An article called "7 signs you're financially healthy even if you don't feel like it" gives some good reminders as to how you should think about your finances. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Challenges will happen in our lives. Whether we fail a test, get cut from a team, or have a career setback. There are millions of people who face challenges every day. How you react will determine how quickly you can overcome. "13 Famous Stories About Success & Overcoming Challenges" has stories of how some famous people in history overcame their challenges and persevered, all having great success. Every day, push yourself a little further. Do a little more to be stronger, smarter, and strive to be better than the day before. You can do it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Whether you are speaking in front of a few people or a large audience, public speaking will be necessary in your life. It takes practice to be good at public speaking. Having the right tone, speed, and organized content are all very important. If possible, know your audience and be sure to include background information so everyone can understand the topic and points you want to get across. The basis for this episode comes from an article, "What are the benefits of public speaking?" shared by VirtualSpeech. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

You have value. You are important. You have skills and characteristics the world needs. If you are not feeling valued, then you are in the wrong place. The shared story on this episode was shared by a friend you read it on a blog years ago. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

"The devil is in the details" or "God is in the details", which is the original translation of the quote from the 1800's. There are people who are detail oriented and those who are "big picture". Taking a few minutes to review or look over your work can make a big difference. When writing a paper, doing a task, or working on a project, ensuring you covered the details can make the work better. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

We rarely go to banks anymore, yet they hold onto our money, fund transactions, and help us invest. Today's episode is based on "I'm a Bank Teller: Here Are 10 Mistakes You Are Making With Your Banking". There are some good reminders of how to keep track of our money and keep it secure. We work hard for it, so don't lose it. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

A well written article asked some really good questions about how to know if you are emotionally secure. From CNBC, Harvard psychologist: If you answer 'yes' to these 9 questions, you're 'more emotionally secure than most' by Dr. Cortney Warren. The questions will make you think, and a few will sound familiar to those who have listened to this podcast for a while. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

If you borrow something, return it, and make sure it's clean. If someone leaves their trash behind, throw it away with your trash. If you can help someone have a little brighter day, smile and show kindness. If we all help out a little, then the burden is not on one person, and makes the world better. Ralph Waldo Emerson: “To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived — that is to have succeeded.” --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Parenting is hard. Most parents want what's best for our kids. We want them to have more and do better than we had or did. Yet, there are constraints in time, money, location, education, and more that can have an impact. Parents push their kids to achieve goals. Sometimes those goals or achievements are the downfalls the parent had growing up, and not the kids focus or ability. Some parents don't know when to back off and let their kids strive for what they want. It's a difficulty balancing act. Sacrifices are made by parents to give their kids as much as possible. When you look back, you might understand what was given, why you were pushed, and how your parents were trying to do the best they could. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Thank school staff, all of them. Principals, coaches, cooks, crossing guards, bus drivers, custodians, resource officers, office staff, counselors, nurses, tutors, volunteers, librarians, and teachers all work together to make schools safe, provide food, and teach us the skills to live in the world around us. They are heroes and should be shown appreciation. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Sometimes we need a minute when feeling overwhelmed or stressed. A segment on the Today Show talked about ways to handle these feelings. Breathing, exercise, and tea, are a few of the ways we can relax before jumping back into the fray. Taking a couple of minutes can give us enough of a break to gain composure/thoughts, and set our mind and body right. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

You will have disagreements with people at times in your life. How you handle them is a key. You have your opinion, and others have their opinion. Stay calm, be respectful, and know you can either both grow through the interaction, or it may be time to change topics or walk away. Working through differences can also have a positive result. You could learn something new or potentially find a better outcome. It's okay to disagree with someone else. It's important for both sides to also understand the outcome doesn't have to be by hurting the other person physically or mentally. Take care of others, even when you disagree.3 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

John Paul DeJoria is a successful businessman, entrepreneur, and philanthropist. You may not know his name, yet you have likely heard of his companies - Paul Mitchell and Patron. He has one big piece of advice for you, and it's from an article called, "Here's the most important thing successful people do - 'it's not going to hurt you'" Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

As humans, we need to be informed. News and content is found through a variety of sources. Some is real, some is made up, some will be accurate and others skewed. There are satirical news stories, as well as very serious ones. Follow at least 2-3 different quality news outlets to ensure you are getting as accurate of an account as possible. Make your own decisions. Social media and unknown sources are not likely to be quality reporting. Local news will affect you more than national or international, yet we need to be aware of what is happening around the world. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Do you know the difference between being nice and kind? Many people don't realize they have different meanings. Take a listen and see if you tend to spread more niceness or kindness. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Amazon had sent out a message about how to spot scams and avoid being a victim. Large companies like Amazon, Instagram, Best Buy, or financial institutions are known to be targets for scammers. The general public might receive phone calls, emails, or texts with similar attributes we question whether or not the message is legitimate. These are items noted specifically by the Amazon message: 1. Trust Amazon-owned channels. Always go through the Amazon mobile app or website when seeking customer service, tech support, or when looking to make changes to your account. 2. Be wary of false urgency. Scammers may try to create a sense of urgency to persuade you to do what they're asking. Be wary any time someone tries to convince you that you must act now. 3. Never pay over the phone. Amazon will never ask you to provide payment information, including gift cards (or “verification cards,” as some scammers call them) for products or services over the phone. 4. Verify links first. Legitimate Amazon websites contain "amazon.com" or "amazon.com/support." Go directly to our website when seeking help with Amazon devices/services, orders or to make changes to your account. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Does 21 days of doing something really make a habit stick? The answer is...sometimes. HealthyStripe.com had an article titled "21 Days Habit Theory – The Truth You Need To Know", and it outlines some of the things we need to pursue new habits. Whether it be eating, exercise, learning, quitting bad habits, etc., any change will take time to become a habit. The size and scope of change might create a habit within a couple of weeks, while larger life changes can take months to become habits. Keep pressing on. Know there will be setbacks, but you can overcome them. Hold yourself accountable. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Planning for travel requires asking yourself a few questions. What type of travel - business, vacation, family, etc.? Where are you going - is the location nearby or far away? When - will depend on the type of travel, as you might be going to a meeting or during a holiday. How to get there - drive your own car, rent a van, airplane, train, cruise ship? Where will you stay - with family/friends, hotel, rented house, etc.? What activities or sites do you want to do = advance purchase of tickets may be needed. What to pack will also depend on where you are going, time of year, etc. What you pack for a vacation at the beach is different than what you would pack to attend a conference during the winter. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

There are phrases we can all use to create better conversations, defuse arguments, or expand focus. This episode is based on an article from John Bowe, " If you use any of these 9 phrases, you have 'better etiquette skills' than most: Public speaking expert". He touches on some really good statements that can guide us to achieve goals, help people feel good, and one that allows us to move on from a conversation. Thank you for listening (hint: you might hear something like this in the episode.) To my kids, I love you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Be yourself. Don't worry about what other people think. We all have different paths in this life. Don't try to be someone else or someone you are not. Understand your strengths and weaknesses. Strive to improve every day. There will be setbacks. We may find the goals we thought we wanted are not really the best option for us, or we realize it was our parents goals and not really who we are. For instance, your parent may be an engineer and you want to be an artist, or the reverse. We have to decide who we are and want to be. Most people start out with goals, yet they let the world around change them. You are you. Be yourself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Be truthful and honest. Just because you think a lie will get you out of trouble, it doesn't mean you should lie. Take responsibility when something happens. There are consequences to telling a lie, yet the consequences can be less severe if you are honest. Accidents are going to happen. You are going to meet people you don't like. There will be times when you think lying is the best option. These should be rare instances. If someone is going to be put in harms way, or a friend is dating someone you don't like, then be up front, even if it means you might lose the friend. In a job, dishonesty could cause you to lose the position. Being honest may also cause the same outcome, but your conscience will be clear. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

We all have it, use it to relax or do things we enjoy, yet never seem to have enough. This episode has some good ideas of things you can do in your spare time. A list of good suggestions was found in "13 Ways to Grow As A Person In Your Spare Time" by Michael Morris. Some people think they need to have hours of time to learn or do things they enjoy. The reality is we can do enjoyable things in as little as 15 or 30 minute chunks of time. From reading a few pages of a book daily, meditating, or listening to a podcast, there are opportunities throughout our days. The first step is recognizing these nuggets of time exist. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

We all get scared from time to time. Some of us have longstanding fears that keep us from moving forward. There are ways for us to help kids, as well as adults or ourselves to get past our fears. PsychCentral offered "7 Ways to Help a Child with Fear". For kids, they look to adults and can take non-verbal cues as to whether they should or should not be afraid. It provided suggestions for what to do and not to do with kids, yet also could be used for friends or adults. I am not a therapist, and encourage anyone who feels in need to seek professional help from a counselor, doctor, psychiatrist, etc. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Successful people avoid lazy habits. They are all about making the most of situations and planning ahead. They look to be friends and hang out with certain types of people, and avoid others. There are ways for you all to be successful, and these are just a few opinions that are thoughtful and similar to what you have heard throughout other episodes. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

There will be times when someone asks you a question and it is rude or seems like it crossed a line. You are in control of what you want people to know. They are not. There are several ways to handle these types of questions. You can answer the question, redirect the conversation, or use some of the tips in this episode. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

There is so much more to just owning a vehicle. Automobiles need routine maintenance. From washing the outside to fluid changes, to replacing hoses and belts. There are so many parts and pieces in need of inspection, repair, or cleaning. If you don't know what needs to be done, talk with a local mechanic or service center. You can also talk to a service adviser at a manufacturer dealership. Most will be able to offer you advice for scheduled maintenance. If you see a light come on the dashboard, get it checked. If you have a flat tire, don't drive on it. So many things to remember, but it's all part of owning a vehicle. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

We collect lots of things throughout our days. We collect clothing, utensils, tools, messages, receipts, etc. The list can go on and on. Every day can accumulate piles and create clutter. It can be daunting, and create anxieties. In this episode we will go over some ways to handle clutter in our lives, and possibly reduce it before a problem is created. Thanks for listening. * For financial questions, please contact your bank or a financial professional. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

What makes people happy. In Finland there are things they avoid to be happy, yet people around the world do daily. These 3 lifestyle habits or traits are fairly universal, and have been shared by "happiness experts" for many years. These were shared on Sportskeeda, and they truly can make your life happier. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Many people have a roommate at some point in their lives. It can be during college, when living in a dorm or apartment. You might have a roommate to help pay rent or a mortgage in an apartment or house. If you do plan on having a roommate, there are some important questions to ask. Knowing the answers can help prevent having a bad roommate, but also allow you to know what to expect. Questions about cleaning habits, jobs, sleep habits, do they have a job, or what they do for fun...these can all help you to narrow down whether or not you want to be roommates. They will likely ask the same questions, so be prepared. There will be compromises to make from you and your roommate. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

There is so much to do before traveling. Where will we stay? How will we get there? What will we do and see? Besides these basic questions you might also want to learn a bit about culture, food, and language. You might want to involve your kids and let them help plan experiences. There is so much to consider in advance. Hopefully this episode will give you a few more things to think about and make the preparation and experience even better. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Most parents give kids advice on how to avoid the pitfalls of life. When kids are young, they look up to their parents. As they move into teenage years, kids don't tend to think their parents have any brains. In their 20's they realize, maybe their parents actually had relevant and helpful information. To parents - Kids are going to push limits and boundaries. They are learning, and sometimes it's by going through trials and tribulations. Hopefully no one gets hurt along the way. To kids - Parents sometimes know what they are talking about. Give them a little grace and listen. Even if you decide not to take the advice, know they are generally trying to help you along the journey of life. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Sometimes we need time alone. We may want a quiet few moments to reflect, calm down, relax, or think through a problem. It's normal. Be respectful if someone says they need some space. Don't be offended if they tell you this without further explanation. Depending on the day, some people may need only a 10 minute walk in silence, while someone else may want to binge a television program for a couple of hours. Another person may need to take a vacation. We all have different definitions of needing space, as well as it's dependent on the situation. No need to bother them. If you get worried, then send a text if you must, but keep it brief, and only one. The person will respond in their own time and when ready. They may also open up as to why they needed the space, and in this moment it's all about listening and not interrupting. Think about how you would want to be treated. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

This one is a quick reminder about being courteous. The world needs us to show manners, respect, and courtesy. There will be people who are not reciprocating these things, yet we need to do our best. We know right from wrong, and we know how we want to be treated. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Life is a journey. You will have a variety of experiences, changes, and needs as you age...plan for them. Too many people don't think about what they will need in the future. They only think of what they want right now. Work hard while you can. Put a percentage of each paycheck away and invest. Enjoy friends and stay connected, and know some friends will come or go. Life takes over. Family is important, even if it is friends you call family. Enjoy the little and simple things. Take time to think. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

We make hundreds of decisions each day. Here are 4 good questions to ask when it comes to making bigger or tougher decisions. This episode was inspired by my friend Bruce Eckfeldt and his article on inc.com. What is the decision I need to make right now? When do I need to make this decision? What are all of the options at my disposal? What criteria should I use to make the decision? Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Today's episode came from random people around the world answering the question, "What life advice do people not take seriously enough?" There were lots of responses, and not all of them were good. I liked a good number of them. Some were repeated or similar. Here are some of the ones I thought were a good representation. Things like, "treat others the way you want to be treated", "be yourself", and "make time for people you love". When listening to advice, think about who is advising you, determine if the advice is from their heart or more self-serving, and then decide whether or not to follow their advice. I think the advice in this episode is fairly solid. Only you can make the decision. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

"10 Unspoken Rules That Everyone Should Know About In Life". You will here about "unspoken rules" from time to time. There are a bunch that many of us might describe as courtesies or common decencies. As you listen through this episode, think about how you handle yourself. Besides not doing these things, notice if others break these rules. Things like keeping your shoes and socks on while traveling should be a norm we all follow. An airplane or train is not your home, no matter how long the trip takes. If you are in a group, and someone comes up and starts talking to you, check to see if they are okay. These and a few other things are unspoken rules. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Who are the leaders around you, in school, in the community, or on the field? We've talked about leadership in other episodes, but how does someone become a leader? Leadership skills are learned. Articles "How do you develop youth leadership skills?" was one reference. The other was " 8 tips to teach your teen to be a leader, not a follower". The adults need to set the initial example for kids. Once a kid is around good role-models, then the work of building skills needs to happen. Such things as dealing with adversity, collaboration, negotiation, building up weaknesses, etc. are all part of the life training. It's important to remember, leaders give vision, listen, and are influential. Thanks for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Believe in yourself. If you have a goal, believe you can achieve it. If you hurt or hurt someone, today is a new day for you to believe in the power or healing or forgiveness. You can be better. If you need help, ask someone. Be you. Your gut will tell you if you are going down the wrong path. If you don't attain your goals, you still gained experience and strength in the journey. "Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy." --Dale Carnegie "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." --Ralph Waldo Emerson --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Quora.com allows people to ask questions and be answered by random advice givers. A question popped up that caught my interest, and had some good responses. The question was "What is the single most effective piece of financial advice you've ever received?" This episode shares a handful of responses from people who shared their advice. Dave Ramsey stated, “Most millionaires don't drive flashy cars. When people don't waste money to LOOK wealthy, they have money to actually BECOME wealthy.” Talk with your investment person or banker, and you might just hear some of these or similar answers during your conversation. Thank you for listening. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support

Sometimes the world needs a little lift to make each day better. Today we go over "12 Awesome Things That Will Always Be Awesome", which is based on people posting on Reddit, and culled together by Financequickfix.com. There are some very "awesome" things on the list, and many more we each could come up with. Please use this list to remember what's awesome in your life, and start adding more "awesome" things. They can be small or big things, as long as you recognize they are "awesome". Thank you for listening. I hope you have many awesome things happen today! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kevin-hannegan/support