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Hi welcome to my Podcast “Listen to Myself”, I’m Pearly, aka baobaopearly from YouTube. This podcast is going to be a public diary of mine, I will share with you my thoughts on various topics that interest me, about self-growth, about my worries & struggles in my 20s, about relationships, about career, about school, basically all the things that I had experienced or am experiencing in my 20s. I genuinely hope my podcast could offer some comfort to you, knowing that you are absolutely not alone in experiencing these feelings, emotions, struggles, and worries.

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    • Apr 23, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    how to stop overthinking and just be present (

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 35:01


    ✨ Watch the video version of this episode ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ :)✨ Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for My Patreon page✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! This past month of job-hunting in Paris has made me realized again how bad my always-living-in-the-future can be. I just can't stop worrying about the future. "what if..." is a question I so often posed to myself, and honesty it drives me crazy. So in this episode, I try to dissect this problem and see what I can do with it! Hope you will enjoy it✨

    I'm BACK! jobs, travel, stress… and a little life crisis

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 29:35


    ✨ Watch the video version of this episode ⁠here⁠ :)✨ Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for My Patreon page✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! I'm finally back guyssss! After 3 months of break! So let's catch up a bit and let me share with you what I've been up these past 3 months! Hope you will enjoy it✨

    how does living abroad in my 20s changed me (⛷️ep.40)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 30:13


    ✨ Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ for My Patreon page ✨ Watch the video version of this episode here :) ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you how does living abroad in my 20s changed my perspectives, mindsets and attitude toward life. Hope you will enjoy it✨

    I set one new year's resolution each year, and it works! (⛷️ep.39)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 15:55


    ✨ Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ for My Patreon page ✨ Watch the video version of this episode ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ :) ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you how I found a way that helped me achieved my New Year's Resolution each year ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    should we trust our gut feeling when making decisions in life? (⛷️ep.38)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2024 35:35


    ✨ Click here for My Patreon page ✨ Read Harvard Business Review article here ✨ Watch this video here :) ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why I used to don't trust my own instinct, and why I decided to start trusting it and why I realized how important it is to learn to listen to our own gut feeling ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    just don't be a people pleaser and see how life changes (

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 40:21


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you how I used to be a people pleaser, my turning point, how I stopped being a people pleaser and lastly how my life changes after stopped being a people pleaser ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    I suck at reading books now (

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2024 34:39


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why my ability to read books deteriorated and what are some of my solutions to address it ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to be brave in life (

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2024 37:41


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why being brave in life can be this difficult, how do I face my fears, and how do I still take on challenges despite feeling scared ;-) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    how I went from super shy to confident (story time) (

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 32:24


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you how I used to be super shy as a kid, why I decided to overcome it, how I successfully overcome it and lastly, how I built up my confidence :) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    admitting that "I may be wrong" (

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2024 27:44


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why I think the mindset/motto "I may be wrong" is very powerful. I also talk about why it's so challenging to admit we are wrong or to apologize to others. Hope you will enjoy it✨

    the art of being multidimensional (

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 26:15


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I talk about the possibility of having multiple titles in life, about how I don't want to stick with only doing one thing and having one title in life as there're so many things out there that interest me! ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    what it really means to be your own boss (running a one-person business) (

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 36:31


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share my favorite parts of being my own boss, along with the challenges I've faced, and some surprising discoveries about the journey ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to be ok with being single (in your late 20s) (

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2024 33:10


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you what you could do if you feel not ok or uncomfortable with being single. If you are anxious about being single, no matter in your early 20s, late 20s or even 30s, I genuinely hope this episode could offer some comfort and encouragement to you ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to be less anxious in life (

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2024 23:47


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you my problems with anxiety and how I'm working toward letting go of control, becoming more comfortable with uncertainty, and lastly, leaving the room for miracle to happen ;) Hope you will enjoy it✨

    it's ok to slow down in life (

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2024 28:11


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why I think it's important to slow down, and what are some of the problems I encountered when living in a fast-paced life. hope you will enjoy it✨

    taking care of my mental health as a full-time content creator (

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 41:51


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you some of the mental challenges I encountered as a full-time content creator, hope you will enjoy it✨

    don't be afraid to reach out to people! (

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2024 13:01


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why I think you should just reach out to people you would like to reach out to, hope you will enjoy it✨ ***OMG, I just realized that I did sth wrong with the setting of the microphone, so the sound quality actually isn't that good with this episode! I'm so sorry for that :( oh no!

    why you should try solo-traveling at least once in life! (

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 31:26


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with what solo-traveling has taught me, hope you will enjoy it✨

    dealing with regrets in life (

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 19:30


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with some of my regrets in life. I hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to cope with downs in life part.2 - the Backward Law (

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 29:30


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you an interesting mindset called "The Backward Law," introduced by the philosopher Alan Watts - wanting positive experience is itself a negative experience; accepting negative experience is itself a positive experience. I find it a reeeally interesting but difficult to understand concept, I'll elaborate on it in this episode! I hope you will enjoy it✨ Reference: 1) The Backwards Law 2) How to Get What You Want By Letting Go [The Backwards Law]

    the opportunity cost of your 20s (

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 35:11


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you my take on the opportunity costs of our 20s in various aspects of life; school, career, health, interpersonal relationships, money. I hope you will enjoy it✨ Inspired by Soju with Sarah & Chez Nous avec Océane Andréa

    I'm slowly accepting who I am…and I'm thrilled about these changes! (

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 20:11


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you sth surprising that happened to me a few weeks ago and a very interesting concept (the self-awareness onion) I learned from a book that speaks so much to my heart!I hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to cope with downs in life part.1 - why I'm feeling down (

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 20:16


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why I'm feeling down lately and how I plan to cope with it ;) this is the first part of this two parts series - how to cope with downs in life, so please stay tuned for the second part in the upcoming weeks! I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    are you an extroverted introvert? (

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2024 25:47


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you about my confusion of whether I'm an extrovert or introvert... .... cuz I have characteristics from both side!!! Anyway ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨

    how to achieve what you want in life (

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 21:43


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you some mindsets that I think are critical when it comes to achieving what you want in life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    when influencers don't feel authentic anymore: an influencer's POV (

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2024 48:08


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you (as both a viewer & influencer myself) why I think many influencers nowadays don't feel authentic anymore, what are some of the causes of this situation, and lastly, what we could do about it ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    let's NOT rush through life! (

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 33:10


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why do people rush through life, what are some of the negative impacts by rushing through it and lastly, how can we stop rushing through life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    5 surprising things about being a YouTuber that I didn't know before becoming one (

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 27:15


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you some shocking things I didn't know before about being a YouTuber ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    traveling✈️hanging out with your parent(s) as an adult (

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2024 26:50


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you some feelings that I've never shared with anyone before, why I feel this way and lastly what I'm going to do about it :) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    what does it mean to get married with someone? (

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 35:47


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you what I think marriage is and also some reflections about whether I think marriage is going to be worth it! I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    I love consuming productivity content but…sth is seriously wrong (

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2024 25:28


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you what problems I ran into after consuming tons of productivity content... I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    why learning to say “No” is important (

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2024 29:05


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why it's so important to learn to say "No" in life. I talk about why it's so hard to say "No", why it's important and why saying "No" isn't a bad thing, and lastly how we can practice saying "No" more ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    feeling lost in life & uncertain about the future (

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 21:36


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you why it's perfectly normal to feel lost in life and feel uncertain about the future, and what are some of the things you could try out doing when you feel lost in life ;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    1 funny, 1 scary & 1 horrible travel stories (

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 24:16


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you 3 of my interesting travel stories hehe;) I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    #POV is dating apps good or bad? (

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2024 27:43


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you my experiences with dating apps, what I think are the pros & cons and how I think it has affected the modern dating culture. I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    I'm not good at making friends (

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 29:17


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you the difficulties I experienced when it comes to navigating friendships. I hope you will enjoy it✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    looking back, is university worth it? (☃️ep.6)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 28:55


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you whether I think university is worth it. I'm gonna talk about things I'm glad that I did, but also some of my regrets. I hope you will enjoy it hehe✨ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    listen to it before your first date! (☃️ep.5)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 36:12


    ✅ Find me on ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠! In this episode, I share with you things (such as Red flags

    it's okay to NOT fit in! (☃️ep.4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 25:36


    ✅ Find me on ⁠YouTube⁠ and ⁠Instagram⁠! In this episode, I share with why it is okay to not fit in. This is sth that I really wish I knew when I was younger, cuz I wasted so much mental energy and time being unhappy and frustrated about it. So today, let me tell you why it's okay

    how to stop being jealous of others success

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2024 25:13


    ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with what to do step-by-step when you feel jealous of others success. How to deal with your feelings and emotions, and what to do in both short-term and long-term to eventually stop being jealous of others. I hope you will find it helpful✨ *I also recorded myself on camera for this episode, will soon upload it to YouTube, please stay tuned for that! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

    let's play 2 truths 1 lie! (my self-introduction)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2024 20:48


    ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this episode, I share with you more about myself...by playing 2 truths 1 lie!!! I hope you will enjoy this episode yeepeeee✨

    you can be proud of yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2024 20:18


    ✅ Find me on YouTube and Instagram! In this first ever episode of Listen to Myself, I share with you why I struggle to accept compliments from people, what negative impact it had on me and why it's important to learn to accept compliments. I hope you will enjoy my first episode yeeepeee

    hiiii welcome to my public diary

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 3:59


    Hi welcome to my Podcast “Listen to Myself”, I'm Pearly aka baobaopearly from YouTube. This podcast is going to be a public diary of mine, I will share with you my thoughts on various topics that interest me, about self-growth, about my worries & struggles in my 20s, about relationships, about career, about school, basically all the things that I had experienced or am experiencing in my 20s. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/baobaopearly/message

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