SPEAKING OUTTA TURN

Back from a week hiatus the fellas are ready to get into the f***ery

The ecosystem that is the gym Simone Biles / Rolling Loud / Artists Performative Alliship & Protecting Black Women ... and more

The SpaceShip is packed this week, the crew is joined by Rosenthal & after a listener request Deon picks up the mic and things get interesting. Enjoy

RIP Charlie Robinson Solidifying your Sexy Getting your teeth fixed / Young people dentures Men, insecurities & spray on hair You only get one / Black athletes representing country vs representing ancestry and more…

Intro: StaxxxFacts - Proof produced by Bombay This week we talk about Self Doubt, people being great at talking shit to themselves, social media fitness, Black Woman vs the Olympics, online criticism of Sha'Carri Richardson, still watching the Olympics and Mo'nique vs Black Women.

Richee and Staxxx discuss people viewing Staxxx as a community activist, Drugs, mental health and the internet Listener Shoutouts - where are y'all listening from? Black people, Black businesses and Karenistic Black people, Richiee on sharing information with male peers

On this week's episode, the crew talk about some toxic movies and traits they may have and introduce the "Musical Appropriation" game. 2:35 Which Black Movie has the best toxic sex scene? 20:00 - Do Black Men approach relationships based on how they've been hurt in the past? 25:30 - S/O the Mom's who tell their sons not to waist a women's time 28:45 - The guys play the Musical Appropriation Game. What songs made by Black people have white people taken and what white songs have Black people claimed as ours? Enjoy

*Recorded 4/22/2021* This week on SOT the crew talk about: 0:20 - Why so many podcasts are boring & rely on "Battle of the Sexes"/ who should pay on the date? 3:10 - Richiee answers "What is weird about your relationship?" / Using finances as a weapon in your relationship 14:25 - Relationship roles and growing with the times 24:30 - Disappointing reactions to the Ma'Khia Bryant, Daunte Wright & Adam Toledo shootings 29:10 - Richiee taking a social media break 36:00 - Understanding some Indigenous people's frustration & aligning for change 48:50 - Black kids needing a childhood and space to grow

Welcome back SOT Fam, here's what we touch on this week: 8:33 - the no more black trauma movement 12:10- Leana Waithe 20:30 - FWokeness 43:15 - Rest Easy DMX & Why people rush to post death 49:30 -the need to be first on social media & mental health 55:27 - INTERMISSION - Deon, Beyonce & lighting Black ppl 1:07:30 - Dame Dash runs up on Lee Daniels over $2M 1:14:30 -DeShaun Watson Sexual Assault allegations & why men don't just PAY SEX WORKERS and more.

This week the guys talk touch on a lot of topics including: 3:00 - What they would do if they won the lottery / How people blow their money 21:40 - Drinking w white people on vacation & peeing in the pool 38:50 - Richiee eats way too many eggs 47:10 - Black People using hard drugs and stigmas around drug use 1:05:00 - Whitney Houston we love you but... 1:15:00 - Staxxx and Richiee reminisce on their days in the club & self medicating with alcohol and sex 1:37:00 - RichieeLee always got caught cheating 1:39:25 - Most toxic relationship situations & the crew talks stalkerish behaviour

REPOST This week we joined by Melizia & Tasha the talented women from CHATBOUT Toronto to talk about men, women & all things relationships. 5:00 - Staxxx's appearance on CHATBOUT Toronto & Dating an American 11:30 - Approaching men, "New Dick" & asking for sex 34:40 - The Evolution of Staxxx 42:20 - "Every woman is a freak" + "What's your type?" 53:45 - What is an Alpha Male? 1:02:00 - Why Richiee thinks men dislike the term "Slowronto Men" + men receiving feedback as negativity 1:07:44 - Women meeting men with bad hygiene 1:11:00 - Do men ask women for feedback or relationship advice?

Welcome back SOT fam! This week the team talk about: 11:00 - Creepy Delivery Guys 14:15 - Kevin Samuels 24:10 - Relationship Advice & Self Reflection 29:00 - Why men feel the need to kiss & tell? 41:50 - Still wanting to be around your partner when you're both upset. 47:00 - How do you deal with inappropriate conversations? 55:45 - How unemployed & jail niggas take your girl. 59: 30 - #StaxxxFacts - When you SHOULD cheat 1:02:00 - Do you feel like you're relationship GOLD?

***WARNING THIS EPISODE HAS AUDIO OF A VIOLENT HOMICIDE*** *** NOT FOR KIDS NSFW*** This week the guys speak on a murder suicide that took place in Pennsylvania. 

This week SOT gets a lesson on Kink & Sexuality from our guest Dan! 6:20 - The Strap On 18:35 - Emotional Accountability & Non Monogamy 44:30 - Chaturbate Damaged Duo 54:00 - Porn comments section is the scariest place on the internet 1:01:00 - Fine Dining Sex vs Brown Bag Sex 1:13:00 - Top 5 Pop / Soda flavours 1:21:04 - Cuckold 1:46:10 - Two Streams of Kink - CSS (Consensual Safe & Sane) VS RAC (Risk Aware Consensual) 1:50:30 - Intimacy & What is the Goal of Sex?

This week on Speaking Outta Turn the guys are back with another dope episode charge your earbuds and enjoy! Topics 6:10 - Whats harder? Friendships vs Romantic Relationships / Friendship Break Ups vs Relationship Breakups 7:10 - Staxxx & RichieeLee share their rough Friendship Breakups 13:20 - Why they don't have a lot of deep friendships with men 18:40 - What is friendship? 21:58 - Not wanting to burden your friends/partner with your problems 31:00 - Its okay to be wrong... be teachable 46:00 - What does it take for someone to be "Big Bro"? 47:45 - Lil' Kim Appreciation Segment 52:40 - Accountability in friendships 56:10 - Useless opinions on the internet 59:24 - Chasing "Likkle Gyal Energy" 1:01:25 - Break up regrets & Toxic Sex IG - @speakingouttaturn YouTube - Speaking Outta Turn Black Status Social Network

WATCH FULL EPISODES OF SPEAKING OUTTA TURN ON YOUTUBE Intro song Kiyha - "Bad Gyal" prod. by Bombay  This week we talk about: 3:00 - Fatherhood Richiee stressing over the numbers 18:35 - All white people are racists 32:30 - Not giving white people the benefit of the doubt 38:30 - Fetish for Black Sex & Culture / Black People bringing outsiders to the "Cookout" 48:52 - Influence of Porn on the fetishization of Black People The gloves basically come off and the fellas go head to head.  Enjoy

Richiee & Staxxx let Black Men know what they think about a lot of the fuckery they see happening in the community including: Colourism & the exclusion/overlooking of Black Woman in Black Excellence Meg the Stallion & Men who love pussy but hate women Staxxx drops a Staxxx Facts - "If you're not going to help and support Black Women leave them alone" Richiee reads some points from the "Black Male Privilege Checklist" DISRUPT THE ENERGY

This week there is a full house at the SOT pod, the crew starts by welcoming the newest member to the family. Topics: When SHOULD you cheat? Paying attention to your partner's happiness & learning how to feel in an relationship Have you lied to get vagina? Can women handle a man being upfront about wanting to have sex? Do women need get consent from men? Men having sex when they don't feel like it

This week the fellas start with some music talk 15:45 Deon makes the guys reflect on how ridiculous the "No Homo / Pause" era was. 19:10 When Black songs blow up they belong to white people 24:17 Bigger impact Pac or Snoop? 39:30 Have you ever ran a train on a woman? Would you do a reverse GB? 43:25 Can you have rough sex with women who bruise easily? 48:50 Drunk Sex v Tipsy Sex / Day Sex v Night Sex 52:12 Sex, Beards and Pussy Juice 57:00 Do women really want you to approach them with honesty? 1:05:30 Thin line between being romantic & problematic 1:10:00 Staxxx lets us know he's attractive, over and over and over again

On part 2 of the TWYSTED TAKEOVER, Twysted and the Speaking Outta Turn crew answer questions on relationships, being cheated on and what is considered cheating from producer Deon Mars... but not before Twysted helps settle an ongoing debate does Richiee look like he dates white women? Catch Twysted on The Plot Twyst Podcast

This week the Richiee & Staxxx welcome their first guest to the SOT pod. Twysted Miyake-Muglar of the Iconic House of Miyake Muglar, co-founder of the TKBA - Toronto Kiki Ballroom Alliance, founder of the Kiki House of Christian Siriano and host of the Plot Twyst podcast stops by the SpaceShip to have some drinks, smoke and talk shit with the fellas. (5:35) Twysted talks how he listens to homophobic lyrics in Dancehall mnusic and not having a coming out story. (10:20) Educates the fellas on what a house is and being a founding member of the Iconic House of Miyake Mugler (17:55) Staxxx shares the definition of “Slowronto” (19:40) How he started “The Plot Twyst” podcast (33:00) Starting the TKBA - Toronto Kiki Ballroom Alliance and explains the concept of Ballroom (38:20) Gay men refusing to hide themselves and not being quiet (41:40) N*gga you speak French? (43:35) His experience dating a girl and how it relates to male ego (48:30) His thoughts on introducing children to different family structures (52:10) “A white girl is a gay man's cover up” (54:00) Being born gay & his earliest memory of being attracted to boys (56:45) Penetration defining orientation (58:23) Twysted shares a catfish story (1:09:50) Straight men, you set your own boundaries

This week Richiee & Staxxx revisit the Interracial Relationship topic... Buckle up 8:24 Does Richiee look like the type of Black Man who dates white women? Does Richiee look like a Fuckboy? 17:00 If you had abs would you show off the deep v? 20:50 Introducing the SOT "Interracial Relationship Hierarchy" 37:29 Do Black Men care if Black Women date outside the race? 43:02 Are Black Men still chasing light skinned women? 53:10 Can you help who you love? 55:30 Can Black People be their authentic selves in relationships with white people? 1:16:38 When do your "HoeFacts" reset? 1:19:38 Staxxx introduces the term C.A.T.N. - Corny Ass Toronto Nigga

This week the fellas touch on: What it takes to cancel an artist?(5:25), Homophobia in music (14:04) Problematic Legends?: Marvin, James & Michael (27:33), Cancel proof? Can you cancel Russell Simmons? (39:18) Richiee can't cancel Kartel (43:10) & Are we complicit in the hypocrisy?(45:15)

Episode 2 ***Disclaimer*** Trigger Warning - this episode of SOT touches on sexual assault and may be triggering to some listeners skip to 28:00 On the Record - Drew Dixon Nobody gives a shit about women 21:00 Masks Men Wear 29:00 Disrupt the Energy & Checking your friends 33:00 Do Black Women feel protected by black men? 37:00 Richiee & Staxxx ask what is going on with the gun violence in Toronto & the lack of Black Male Leadership 50:00 Ask the Married Man 1:00:00 - “How does your wife feel about you having a lot a women around you?”

This week the Speaking Outta Turn fellas talk fatherhood and the birth of Richiee's first child, 27:34 what's your biggest fear as a parent?, 35:30 island parenting & getting your parents to support your ideas, 41:00 another round of interracial dating, 55:00 BSides revisited, 58:40 Gabby Sidibe, body image & missing your blessing. #SPEAKINGOUTTATURN #BLACKSTATUSSOCIALNETWORK #DISRUPTTHEENERGY 

This week the fellas speak on men "claiming" women they've never met or spoken to (03:00), competing with other men in the dating scene (04:30), cheating vs being cheated (08:00), skinny n*ggas can't flirt fat n*ggas gotta work (18:30), being the side dude (23:15), side man vs second boyfriend (34:20), why women are better cheaters than men (42:50), is it cheating if you're on as "break" (52:37), understanding polyamory and the responsibilities that it comes with (59:30), ***DISCLAIMER - this conversation was recorded prior to the most recent accusations against T.I. and his wife Tiny, we in no way condone that behaviour and apologize if this segment was triggering to any of our listeners*** 1:05:40 T.I. 

This week on the SPEAKING OUTTA TURN podcast the fellas talk about: 04:10 - Male body image and their personal insecurities 15:30 - Lose worthy celebrity men / Who can steal your girl? 21:15 - A Side vs B Side celebrities (Regina Hall - https://youtu.be/wy10Q8NX8hU ) 36:15 - "Is Aaliyah Overrated?" 37:58 - Timbaland & Missy Aaliyah vs R Kelly Aaliyah 44:25 - Jamie Foxx vs Will Smith 45:55 - Jamie Foxx Show vs Fresh Prince 51:55 - Staxxx & Deon share their favourite white actors 55:30 - Deon, Richiee & Staxxx give flowers to some of their favourite Black thespians 57:58 - Michael B. Jordan & Fruitvail Station - Does the importance of the roll influence how we see the acting performance? 1:04:20 - Why did Idris Elba get acclaim from The Wire than Michael K. Williams?

This week the SPEAKING OUTTA TURN crew gives you their longest episode yet. RichieeLee & Staxxx touch on a bit of everything: 11:00 White media profiting off of black death, 40:00 Dave Chappelle, 47:30 respecting sex workers, 55:40 "Why is the bar so low for dads?" + generational baggage, 1:07:00 "Are regular people just having variations of Porn Sex?" 1:13:50 our favourite Pornstars  ENJOY!

On a very special bonus episode of SPEAKING OUTTA TURN, the RichieeLee & Staxxx connect with the talented ladies from the Tuff Talk Toronto podcast and the rest is history. We touch on proposals, marriage, relationships, having an Onlyfans page with your partner and more. Before joining the Tuff Talk Toronto Podcast, that the fellas give you the usual banter with a twist, they share some of the challenges they've faced starting and running their own businesses, how their friendship has had its ups and downs and roll self-confidence played in their approaches to entrepreneurship. ENJOY! #DISRUPTTHEENERGY 

On this episode of Speaking Outta Turn the fellas touch on a little bit of everything: 3:15 - Pretty Privilege vs Bougie 6:00 - Richiee & Staxxx discuss how much they'd charge for the d*ck 15:00 - Squirrel shares how she met Richiee, got the number and eventually her husband 32:00 - When they started being honest in relationships 39:00 - Richiee's pending fatherhood + little spoon love 45:05 - Is rap music dying? 51:00 - FKA Twigs & Shea LeBuff

On this episode the fellas talk about: 2:10 -  Women shooting their shot and approaching men / how Richiee met his wife 19:24 - Hoe phases & one night stands, hoe talk & slut shaming 26:40 - the effects of slut shaming and toxic male energy 35:45 - Being hit on by gay men and dealing with homophobic habits 50:30 - Growing sexually 56:00 -Richiee's Top 5 Black Movies

On this episode of Speaking Outta Turn the fellas discuss: 1:10 Richiee finally pushing the button and promoting the podcast 4:45 Putting yourself out there 8:35 Vaccine or Nah? 19:00 PornHub 28:45 1st Inro to Porn 35:50 Have you taken a Swirl? 46:20 Richiee Lee shares his 1st N*****Story & connecting w white people as he grew up.

[Originally Recorded 12.3.2020] On this episode of Speaking Outta Turn the fellas talk about how running a business means a lot of actual running around 21:00 Majah Hype, Domestic Violence & the West Indian Community 31:00 Are Cis-Black slowing the progress of Black People? 38:00 Grow Up & Think for Yourself 42:15 Social Media Facades & Performative Blackness 55:00 Revenge Porn is Fuckery. DON'T BE A HERB, DO BETTER!

[Originally Recorded 11.25.2020] The fellas talk RichieeLee's impending fatherhood 11:30 How losing a job can feel like a breakup 16:00 Staxxx the "Che Guevara of the Lunchroom" 24:00 Getting out of the "Worker Bee" mentality 32:00 Men, Peer Groups, Acceptance & Leadership 50:00 Hoeing & Hoe Talks

In Episode 1 RichieeLee & Staxxx talk about life in the pandemic, how they met, Canadian vs US Racism and Lil Wayne's Politics.  "Ask the Married Man" Money in relationships Men & Orgasm Fraud “Why I've Faked an Orgasm” Expectations of Black men during sex Learning your partner sexually & consent

Episode 3 This week Richiee & Staxxx talk about the darker side of life during the pandemic. Grieving in Covid RIP - Aunty Tiny  RIP - Winnie aka Pops Gun Violence in Toronto & the need for Black Male Leadership Staxxx shares some of his favourite Toronto Rappers/ Artist Should men get iced out engagement rings?