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Performative Expectations vs. Honoring Your Neurodivergent (AuDHD) Needs In this conversation, Patricia discusses the challenges of navigating personal truths, autonomy, and performative expectations, particularly as an AuDHDer. Patricia reflects on her struggles with body image, the importance of self-trust, the need for autonomy (PDA), honoring her needs as a neurodivergent human, and prioritizing her comfort. She also addresses social anxiety, the joy of spontaneity, and the balance between assertiveness and sensitivity in relationships. Ultimately, Patricia emphasizes personal growth and the acceptance of one's unique identity through the planning and execution of her son's wedding. HIGHLIGHTS · Navigating personal truths is essential for autonomy, and working with PDA (pervasive or persistent drive for autonomy) · Performative expectations can override the needs of the human. · Body image issues are apt to come up when asked to wear clothes one doesn't normally wear. · Self-trust is crucial in making personal choices. · Finding comfort in clothing is important for self-regulation, and feeling authentic. · Fear of overwhelm and dysregulation can be mitigated with preparation. · Embracing spontaneity can enhance connections with others. · Assertiveness is necessary in family dynamics. · Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences. · Sensitivity is a strength, not a weakness. SOUND BITES "This is not about getting married." "I felt so present." "I really wanted to honor the bride." "I was very disheartened." "I fell in love with it." SENSITIVITY IS NOTHING TO APOLOGIZE FOR; IT'S HOW YOUR BRAIN IS WIRED You have a right to trust that you are exactly where you need to be. There's not anything you need to do. Your value and worth does not come from being productive. You can be stimmy. You can be joyful. You can be quiet. You can be assertive. You can be moving your body. You can be still. You can want to touch all of the dogs in the world, and all of the horses. You can want to be left alone. You can enjoy being with people not being with people. Every single part of you is okay exactly the way you are. CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Personal Truths and Autonomy 03:01 The Impact of Performative Expectations 05:55 Body Image and Self-Trust 09:11 Finding Comfort in Personal Choices 12:11 Overcoming Social Anxiety and Overstimulation 14:52 Embracing Spontaneity and Connection 18:08 Balancing Assertiveness and Sensitivity 20:46 Reflections on Personal Growth and Relationships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile, OCD and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Wabi Sabi - The Perfectly Imperfect Podcast with Candice Kumai
This week, I'm peeling back the glossy filters and calling it like it is. Why are so many individuals on social just shaming machines in disguise? I'm talking about the rise of the shamefluencer — creators who weaponize wellness language to judge, call out, and divide. It's a culture that prioritizes perfectionism over progress, comparison over compassion, and fear over freedom. In this solo episode, I'm chatting performative wellness is hurting real healing, and what true self-work actually looks like — beyond the highlight reels and hashtags. Healing isn't about shaming others to feel better about yourself or to grow a following or get clicks. It's about embracing imperfection, owning your journey, and showing up with honesty and vulnerability. Be gentle with you and with all. It's time to reclaim wellness as a space for growth, connection, and kindness — not judgement. A gentle reminder from me to you: everybody's trying their best — and if you can be kind, be kind. You can always be kind. x Candice
What happens when a prison reform panel becomes a performative stall tactic? In this episode, we break down why the Oregon Justice Resource Center made the difficult decision to step away from Governor Kotek's advisory panel on women's prison reform. After two years of ignored recommendations, performative meetings, and worsening conditions inside Coffee Creek, we ask: is Oregon really serious about change—or just managing the optics?The Trail Blazing Justice podcast is a production of the Oregon Justice Resource Center.
In this episode, I talk about why peace is the true proof of aligned productivity, how hustle culture hijacks purpose with performance, the difference between movement and momentum, reclaiming slowness as a strategy, not a weakness and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here's the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:If It's Not From God, It's a Distraction Apple: https://bit.ly/449KsjsSpotify: https://bit.ly/3G3tDP3
MagaMama with Kimberly Ann Johnson: Sex, Birth and Motherhood
In this episode, Kimberly and Alex discuss his extensive background in working with children on the Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). He spent much of those years taking a non-traditional approach from just behavioral to prioritizing fun and community. This work led him to keenly understanding the importance of local agriculture, nutrition, and the gut-brain connection, and eventually he began working as an animal butcher and supporting his wife's work, The Wild Nutritionist. Aspects of their discussion are connected through the thread of the importance of holistic care for ASD individuals as well as local farming, nutrition, and the gut-brain connection. Bio Alex Johnson is a father, butcher, former autism specialist, husband of Kate Pope, The Wild Nutritionist, and long-term friend of Kimberly's. His background in theater studies, and then psychology, led him to working with children on the Autism Spectrum Disorder for over a decade. Understanding the needs of this population then helped him transition to regenerative agriculture and animal butchery. What He Shares: –Working with children on the Autism Spectrum Disorder –How and why ASD has changed in recent years –Harms and limitations of diagnoses and labels –Transitioning to regenerative agriculture and butchery –Prioritizing community through local farming What You'll Hear: –How Alex began working with kids –Studied theater and psychology –Role play and autism in 2010 –How insurance changed autism –In home and in community teaching to kids with ASD –Bringing families together with potlucks –DSM-5 refining definition of ASD –Disproportionately diagnosed in boys versus girls –Severity ratings (1, 2, 3) of ASD –Issues with self-diagnoses –Performative vulnerability –Challenges in diagnosing ASD –Social, Communication, and Behavior –Familial approaches to ASD and community –Neurodivergence and ASD labels –Limitations of checklists of diagnoses –Gut issues and ASD –Behavioral versus holistic and community care –Regenerative agriculture, nutrition, and ASD –Transitioning to animal butchery –Small-scale, mobile harvest operation –Mobile Harvest Truck –Art of animal butchery and carrying traditions –Politics and farming –Community care in farming and rural areas –Nutritional needs for families –Getting kids involved in family nutrition –Importance of local farmers markets –Talking to local farmers –Buying seasonal produce –Harms of individual priorities versus community –Returning to community care Resources Website: https://regenerativecookingschool.com/ IG: @wildnutrionist
Do you still feel obsessed or out of control with food, even though you're not dieting anymore? This is SUPER frustrating, I know. In this episode, I'm breaking down why so many women still feel chaotic around food even after quitting dieting, and why intuitive eating can feel confusing, frustrating, or “like it's not working.” Before you throw in the towel and go back to your low carb diet or counting calories, listen to this episode. It might change everything for you. We'll talk about: The sneaky ways diet culture lives on in your thoughts and food guilt Why you might still feel addicted to food even when you're eating what you want The difference between real permission to eat and performative permission How to rebuild self-trust with food when you still feel like you can't be trusted If you're stuck in the “I'm not dieting, but I'm still obsessing” stage, this episode will help you understand what's really going on and how to move forward (rather than backwards into your old dieting habits that keep you stuck).
Have you ever taken part in something you have no real interest in just for the sake of posting it online? Maybe you went to a concert for an artist you had no real interest in, or took up running just to make others jealous?Joining guest host Adrian Kennedy to discuss ‘performative socialising' is Holly Carpenter, Irish model and social media star, Rosalyne Lipsett, Fashion Broadcaster with Ireland AM and Jason O'Callaghan, Psychologist.
Performative diversity & inclusion initiatives were never about progress.They were considered as performative for a reason—because it looks like change without being change.That's the conversation I'm having in one of my most viewed episodes of Keeping It Real with Dr. Anita—and it's a message that matters now more than ever.In this episode, I break down:-Why social statements without internal action erode trust-How failure to lean into inclusive influence ultimately limits impact-What real accountability looks like when it's cascaded from the top throughout the organizationIf we want real representation and retention, we must move beyond checking boxes and start changing cultures.Watch now, and if it speaks to you, please share it ➡️ because we all have a role to play in getting this right.
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In this episode of Building the Billion Dollar Business, Ray Sclafani explores how financial advisory firms can unlock leadership readiness by creating intentional, real-world growth experiences. Ray introduces the concept of performative opportunities- purposeful assignments that prepare next-generation leaders for the challenges of firm leadership. He shares insights on implementing Leadership Labs, cultivating autonomy, and building a culture of development and accountability. Whether you're focused on succession planning, scalable growth, or team empowerment, this episode offers actionable strategies to strengthen your firm's leadership pipeline and long-term stability.Key TakeawaysPerformative opportunities are structured projects that test leadership ability.Demonstrate, Observe, and Verify is a key structure for leadership development.Autonomy is crucial for advisor satisfaction and happiness.Motivation drives followership and career development.Firms should not wait to develop leaders; they must act now.Sharing leadership creates stability and a clearer path for future ownership.Ready to explore this topic more? Download our Successful Next Generation Leaders: 8 Essential Qualities checklist to help identify, develop, and cultivate the right future leaders. For more information click here to visit the Best in the Business Blog.Find Ray and the ClientWise Team on the ClientWise website or LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeTo join one of the largest digital communities of financial advisors, visit exchange.clientwise.com.
We've all heard the lines: “I'm just really busy,” “Friendship is hard,” or “You know I'm always here if you need me.” These phrases sound virtuous, even comforting—but are they actually meaningful? Or are they just passive ways to dodge the responsibility of real connection?In this episode, we unpack the culture of performative friendship—where people want credit for care they never deliver. Because sometimes, the thought doesn't count. Especially when it's never followed by action. Let's talk about what it means to actually show up.1:1 coaching www.birdbrainwellness.com
In the world of sports training, there's a growing trend that has caught the attention of experienced coaches Eric Johnson and Aeron Thigpen. Their podcast delves into the critical distinction between performance-based training and performative training that's increasingly prevalent on social media platforms.
In this episode, I talk with Paris Abbas, a theosophist and yoga teacher who's work has had a big impact on me over the past couple of years. Paris shares her insights on the current global landscape, particularly concerning Palestine, and the often-disappointing silence from within the wellness and spiritual communities. She discusses her personal journey of finding her voice, navigating online negativity, and the importance of spiritual practices in grounding activism. We delve into the performative nature of some Western spiritual circles, the collective "soul test" we are facing, and the necessity of reclaiming our full emotional spectrum. Paris offers a powerful reframing of motherhood as an archetypal force for change and encourages us to reimagine a future rooted in collective care, awareness, and the dismantling of oppressive systems.Key Takeaways:The current global crises, particularly the situation in Palestine, serve as a significant "soul test" for humanity, urging us to move beyond superficial spirituality and engage with difficult truths.True spiritual practice should anchor us in taking action and speaking out against injustice, rather than being a means to bypass suffering or focus solely on personal happiness.Authentic communication, rooted in soul-level truth, is a powerful tool for connection and change, even in the face of online negativity and censorship.There is a collective need to move from a "maiden phase" of development, characterized by passivity, to a "mother" archetype, embodying fierce protection, compassion, and responsibility for all.Reimagining a positive future involves cultivating awareness, challenging the scarcity mindset, fostering community care, and recognising that we have the collective power to create a world where everyone has dignity and basic human rights.Episode Highlights:00:03:16: Paris reflects on the impact of her earlier conversation on "Beyond Colonial Spirituality" and how she has "toughened up" over the past year.00:14:00: A critique of how spirituality in the West can often be about cherry-picking practices for personal happiness, bypassing the world's suffering.00:19:00: Paris explains her powerful concept of this era being a "soul test" for humanity.00:30:00: Discussion on the silence within wellness spaces and the idea that "one day when it's safe, everyone will have always been against this."00:47:00: Paris introduces the idea of the collective silence, especially from women and mothers, as being indicative of a "maiden phase" of development.About the Guest:Paris (Pyarvin) Abbas has been a yoga-teacher/ practitioner for over 20 years and a lifelong Theosophist. She was born and raised in Siberia, Russia, where she went to medical school to become a psychiatrist. She is a child of the world, eternal student of the Ancient Wisdom, devotee of the Great Mother and a mom of two amazing boys.She continues to learn and teach yoga, practices spiritual healing in Therapeutic Touch modality and learns how to grow lush gardens in the rough climate of South Texas.Instagram: @ParisAbbas108Fundraiser for a family in Gaza: Check the link in Paris's Instagram bio.Episode links:Leah Kim's podcast Voices on the Side: Episode "Beyond Colonial Spirituality"Re
If you're gonna be a film school hipster, you gotta be tiny, and other observations from evangelical conferences. (Also, bonus content from Nicky Blaine's: the Mystery of the Missing Lanyard)
Kelly Meerbott, CEO of YOU: Loud and Clear, dives into the growing disconnect between the C-suite and everyday employees, exposing how middle managers become "human shock absorbers" caught between corporate pressures and workforce realities. She calls out performative leadership and urges executives to prioritize coherence over charisma, advocating for leaders who genuinely embody their values rather than just posting them online.Kelly also challenges traditional ideas around gender and leadership, encouraging women to replace "niceness" with "ferocious kindness" — honest, empathetic communication that fosters trust and drives results. This candid conversation offers powerful insights for leaders ready to move beyond outdated paradigms and build authentic, courageous connections with their teams.Related Links:Join the People Managing People community forumSubscribe to the newsletter to get our latest articles and podcastsConnect with Kelly on LinkedInCheck out Kelly's websiteSupport the show
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We've mistaken platforms for purpose. We've idolized influence and sacrificed intimacy. And we've called it success when in reality, it's just burnout in disguise. This week, Grammy-nominated singer/songwriter Tauren Wells joins Win Today for a brutally honest conversation about the danger of exposure growing faster than character. Together, we explore how influence without intimacy leads to insecurity, how image management becomes spiritual performance, and why pathologizing our struggles has kept us from doing the real work of healing. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
In our first episode of We Vote Too, we look at the Democratic Party's current strategy and ask if it's working. From the legacy of past approaches to the bold moves of today, we explore the rise of young voices like David Hogg, the positioning of Vice President Kamala Harris, and the party's shifting stance on the Gaza conflict. Whether you're a longtime voter or just getting into the conversation, this episode dives into what's at stake, what's changed, and what the future might hold.RECORDED IN APRIL 202500:00 - Disclosure: Get the inside scoop on today's discussion!00:31 - Intro Music 00:49 - What's Wrong with the Dems? A Historical Perspective We kick things off by examining the history of the Democratic Party and unearthing the challenges they face.Interview Segment:7:31 - Current Strategy Check: What Are the Democrats Doing? Join Josh Nanberg and Alex Sumas as they dissect current Democratic strategies.9:19 - Time for Change: What Should the Dems Be Doing? Exploring actionable strategies for a more effective approach.11:38 - Performative vs. Action: The Gen Z Dilemma Understanding the generational divide in political engagement.13:26 - David Hogg's Playbook: Dismantling the DNC An innovative look at advocacy and structural change from a youth perspective.16:47 - The Perfectionist Problem: Why striving for perfection could hold the party back.17:50 - Beyond Centrism: Can Dems Embrace Diversity? Discussing the need for a broader spectrum of candidates.21:50 - Messaging Matters: Crafting the Democratic Narrative. How can Democrats better communicate their values and vision?25:26 - Lost Opportunities: How Did Dems Lose Young Male Voters? A critical analysis of the demographics slipping away.29:33 - Moving Forward: Advancing Democratic Messaging. What steps can be taken to revive the party's appeal?33:39 - Defining the Brand: Who Are the Democrats? Ronald Reagan once said, "I didn't leave the Democratic Party; the party left me." What does this mean today?36:15 - Bernie's Blueprint: Successful Organizing Models Unpacking Bernie Sanders' strategies and their effectiveness.39:05 - Next in Line: Who Should Lead the Democrats? A conversation on future leadership and direction.41:59 - Young & In Charge: How Do We Get More Youth to Run? Fostering a new generation of political leaders.44:51 - Outro: Wrapping up our thoughts and key takeaways.
It's our 200th episode! A victory for quantity over quality and our small, chill audience of friends! To celebrate, Anika and Liz are talking about Star Trek: Open A Channel - A Woman's Trek, Nana Visitor's book about women in Star Trek. Open A Channel is much more substantial than just girl power feminism. How Lucille Ball was erased from Star Trek's narrative The throughline of mentorship We gently interrogate Nana Visitor's second wave biases We also have two separate (but related) rants about Janice Rand and the "glorified secretary" concept Hair Trek Marina Sirtis versus … a lot of people Bodyshaming from fandom. "The idea that fat people should not exist in your utopia is really horrible and RFK Jr coded." The editorial decision to exclude Michelle Hurd
Adam kicks off the show by giving a heartfelt shoutout to a fan in Florida who sharedhow Adam's comedy helped her through the loss of her husband. This sparks aconversation about the weirdness of accepting love from fans, the secret to TomCruise's action star dominance (it's all in the grip, baby), and the absurdity ofAspercreme's dad-drumming commercial. They also break down the performativeconfidence of Jasmine Crockett and Gavin Newsom.Comedian Monique Marvez then steps into the studio and she and Adam dive into theidea of coaching guys up (some can be fixed, some are just broken), her time at KFIRadio, and a few choice stories about Mike August at the Montreal Comedy Festival.Monique schools us on her two-point takedown, opens up about her relationship withher father, and shares the life lessons her parents left her with. Adam jumps in with histheory that difficult people don't know they're difficult (and wouldn't change if they did).The conversation gets personal when Monique reflects on her journey with marriageand kids, while Adam muses about why mama's boys make the worst business partners(too much nurturing, not enough grit).News with Mayhem covers the day's top stories, including: Baristas protestingStarbucks' new dress code and Bruce Springsteen ranting about Trump.To wrap things up, Monique and Adam bond over their mutual hatred for "tagging" which sends Adam spiraling into a story from his past about graffiti, a guy named EGGBERT, and a little something called frontier justice. Get it on!FOR MORE WITH MONIQUE MARVEZ:INSTAGRAM & TWITTER: @moniquemarvezWEBSITE: moniquemarvez.comFOR MORE WITH JASON “MAYHEM” MILLER:INSTAGRAM: @mayhemmillerTWITTER: @mayhemmillerWEBSITE: magnvs.io/pages/summit?via=mayhemThank you for supporting our sponsors:● BetOnline● Homes.com● oreillyauto.com/ADAM● Pluto.TV● SHOPIFY.COM/carollaLIVE SHOWS:● May 24 - Bellflower, CA● May 30 - Tacoma, WA (2 shows)● May 31 - Tacoma, WA (2 shows)● June 1 - Spokane, WA (2 shows)● June 11 - Palm Springs, CA● June 13 - Salt Lake City, UT (2 shows)● June 14 - Salt Lake City, UT (2 shows)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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In this powerful season finale, we unpack the difference between performance and presence, and how our self-centered digital culture can quietly erode real connection. From identity to impact, your hosts dive deep into what it means to show up authentically... for your art, your friendships, and your community.✨ We talk:The myth of main character energyIdentity vs. assignment (and why they're not the same)Creating art for real people, not just social media approvalThe importance of adding value over chasing validationWhy legacy starts with how you treat others
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This lecture is entitled Discursive, Performative, and Interpretive Strategies in Late Ancient Christian Literature. It was presented by Paul Blowers of Milligan University on March 30, 2022, at the University of Chicago's Classics 110.
What does gender inclusivity have to do with pet behavior consulting? (Spoiler: everything.) In this episode of Enrichment for the Real World, Emily Strong (she/they) chats with Sami Griffin (they/them), a cat and dog behavior consultant with a passion for creating safer, more inclusive spaces—for pets and their people. Sami helps us move beyond surface-level performative action into real, effective inclusivity that doesn't just sound good, but does good.From busting myths around sex and gender to sharing tangible ways to practice using pronouns and avoid assumptions, this conversation is packed with insight, empathy, and action. You'll also hear how the same principles we use in behavior work—intentional practice, meeting learners' needs, and using a descriptive approach—can help us grow as inclusive professionals. Whether you're already deep into this work or you're just starting to explore how gender inclusivity fits into your role, this episode offers guidance, support, and that gentle-but-firm nudge to do better—for everyone's benefit.Meet Our Guest: Sami Griffin (they/them)Sami (they/them) got a bachelor's degree in music and gender studies (with a lot of philosophy). They worked as a veterinary assistant in veterinary emergency, in shelters in the foster and behavior departments, and with a Veterinary Behaviorist as a behavior therapist focused on behavior modification. Amongst all things animal behavior, they are passionate about educating people on queerness and how all systems of oppression are interlocked. If they aren't teaching people about the animals in their lives, they're likely teaching people about queerness and LGBTQ inclusivity, playing indie video games, puzzling, or embroidering.Connect with Sami on Instagram or their websiteTLDL (Too Long, Didn't Listen): Mistakes are Normal – Nobody gets it right 100% of the time, and that's okay. The key is how we respond: with openness, humility, and a willingness to keep learning. Behavior Principles Apply to People, Too – Just like teaching a dog to sit or helping a cat love their cat tree, changing our language and habits takes practice, reinforcement, and support.Take a Descriptive Approach – Instead of making assumptions about pets or people, taking a descriptive, curiosity-centered approach will build trust, reduce harm, and create space for authenticity.Links & Resources from the EpisodeFind the transcript in Arial l Find the transcript in OpenDyslexicLearn why Emily and Sami said it's so important to speak outGoing Down a Rabbit Hole?Want more ways to expand your inclusive, science-smart behavior toolkit? We have more links to resources here. More from Pet HarmonyWe've got a lot more to share—join the conversation!Follow us on social media:Pet Parents
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In a world that celebrates big milestones, loud announcements, and curated perfection, it's easy to forget that some of the most meaningful wins don't make it to the feed. They happen behind closed doors. They don't come with applause. They aren't always photogenic… but they are real. And they are enough. Today's episode is a deeply personal one. I'm pulling back the curtain on how my definition of success has changed over the years… How I'm still digging my biggest goals, but now it's in a way that aligns more with how I want to feel, not just how it all looks. Whether you're in a season of quiet growth, private healing, or just choosing to build a life that prioritizes peace over performance, I hope this episode feels like a soft place to land. Let's redefine what it means to win… even when no one else is watching. Ready? Click play! Goal Digger Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/goaldiggerpodcast/ Goal Digger Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goaldiggerpodcast/ Goal Digger Show Notes: https://www.jennakutcherblog.com/choosing-peace-over-performative-success Thanks to our Goal Digger Sponsors: Get $25 off your first purchase at http://therealreal.com/goaldigger. Sign up for your $1/month Shopify trial period at http://shopify.com/goaldigger. For a limited time, get $25 in Shippo credit when you spend your first $25. Claim your offer now at http://shippo.com/goaldigger! Find a co-host today at http://airbnb.com/host. Deposit or spend $5,000 in 90 days to earn up to $500 in rewards at mercury.com/goal. Mercury is a financial technology company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N.A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC. The IO Card is issued by Patriot Bank, Member FDIC, pursuant to a license from Mastercard. Working capital loans provided by Mercury Lending, LLC NMLS ID: 2606284.
Black women are reimagining wellness on their own terms—beyond trends, beyond performance. In this episode, we explore what it really means to opt out, slow down, and live well.In today's conversation, Dr. Cassandre Dunbar is joined by Dominique Fluker, contributing lifestyle editor at Essence, writer, interior designer, and wellness storyteller. Together, they unpack the evolution of wellness for Black women, the pressure to perform self-care online, and how community, authenticity, and creativity are helping us reclaim what it means to be well.You'll hear about:Dominique's bold leap from tech to journalism (without a backup plan)How Essence is shifting the narrative around Black women and wellnessThe rise of revolutionary rest and opting out as resistanceWhy “soft life” is about healing, not consumptionWellness trends to be cautious of—including AI therapy and TikTok fadsThe impact of curated home spaces on emotional well-beingAnd why human connection is still our most powerful medicineThis episode is a love letter to self-trust, slowing down, and designing a life that reflects who you truly are.Guest Spotlight: Dominique B. Fluker is a nationally recognized multimedia journalist, editor, content marketer, and interior design storyteller based in Los Angeles. She currently is the Contributing Lifestyle Editor at ESSENCE Magazine. She has created purpose-driven and multicultural content for iconic web and print publications like ForbesWomen, Glamour Magazine, ESSENCE Magazine, Travel & Leisure, Business Insider, Women's Health, Variety, and more. As a culture and entertainment enthusiast, she's interviewed legendary celebrities such as Oprah, Toni Braxton, John Legend, Tracee Ellis Ross, Sheryl Lee Ralph, Robin Roberts, Serena Williams, and more. As an established advocate for diversity and inclusion within the tech and entertainment industries, she's also a noted public speaker, moderator, host, on-camera talent, red-carpet correspondent, and thought leader. Dominique has found solace in curating physical spaces while creating a name for herself at the intersection of digital content curation and editorial storytelling. She believes interior design is an extension of thoughtful storytelling. 2021 marked Dominique's official foray into professional interior styling with the launch of her first business, DBF Interiors. She has been featured as an interior design expert in Apartment Therapy, Architectural Digest, and more. Connect with Dominique: Follow her on Instagram @dominiquebflukerConnect with her on LinkedIn Connect with me on socials- join the Be Well,Sis tribe on Instagram, LinkedIn, and YouTube , and subscribe to the newsletter or buy me a coffee!If this episode resonated with you- share with a friend!We're supporting St Jude's- head over to www.stjude.org/bewellsis right now and sign up to be a monthly donor. Together, we can make a real impact.Want to get in touch? Maybe you want to hear from a certain guest or have a recommendation for On My Radar? Get in touch at hello@editaud.io with Be Well Sis in the subject line! Have you're on Not Well, Sis rant to contribute? Click here to send it into the show!Be Well, Sis is hosted by Dr Cassandre Dunbar. The show is edited, mixed and produced by Megan Hayward. Our Production Manager is Kathleen Speckert. Be Well, Sis is an editaudio collaboration. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
How do you build a business that aligns with your values without coming across as performative? In this episode, we help a listener navigate authenticity in sustainability and activism. Side Hustle School features a new episode EVERY DAY, featuring detailed case studies of people who earn extra money without quitting their job. This year, the show includes free guided lessons and listener Q&A several days each week. Show notes: SideHustleSchool.com Email: team@sidehustleschool.com Be on the show: SideHustleSchool.com/questions Connect on Instagram: @193countries Visit Chris's main site: ChrisGuillebeau.com Read A Year of Mental Health: yearofmentalhealth.com If you're enjoying the show, please pass it along! It's free and has been published every single day since January 1, 2017. We're also very grateful for your five-star ratings—it shows that people are listening and looking forward to new episodes.
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Welcome to Now that's Significant, a market research podcast hosted by Michael Howard, the Head of Marketing at Infotools. This week, Dr. Anastasia Kārklīna Gabriel, an award-winning author and cultural theorist, joins the show to discuss the role of culture within marketing and her new book "Cultural Intelligence for Marketers." Key points of discussion: 1. Cultural intelligence defined: Anastasia defines cultural intelligence as the practice of understanding culture and its trajectory to assess a brand's role and opportunities within the cultural landscape. She stresses the importance of integrating cultural insight into marketing strategies to ensure inclusivity and resonance with diverse audiences. 2. Bridging academia and business: Anastasia shares her journey from academia to industry, underscoring the gap between academic cultural studies and its application in marketing. Her work aims to bridge this divide, providing marketers tools to understand and navigate cultural dynamics effectively. 3. Performative inclusion and missteps: The conversation covers common errors brands make, such as oversimplifying target audiences and neglecting cultural contexts. Anastasia explains how brands can avoid performative activism by thoroughly understanding the cultural nuances of their audiences. 4. Forces framework: Anastasia discusses her book's "Forces Framework," which includes elements like culture, communication, critical consciousness, and community. This framework guides marketers in integrating cultural understanding into effective communication strategies. 5. Impact of fear in marketing: Anastasia argues that fear of missteps in cultural marketing, while understandable, should not paralyze brands from engaging meaningfully with cultural issues. Embracing this fear can drive brands to practice cultural intelligence more rigorously and authentically. How can your organization better understand and integrate cultural intelligence into its marketing strategies to ensure meaningful and inclusive consumer engagement? Thank you for tuning into this episode of Now that's Significant. If you enjoyed the discussion and want to hear more, please subscribe, share it with your colleagues, and leave a review. Check out our other episodes for more insights into consumer intelligence and market research. *** Infotools Harmoni is a fit-for-purpose market research analysis, visualization, and reporting platform that gives the world's leading brands the tools they need to better understand their consumers, customers, organization, and market. www.infotools.com Established in 1990, we work with some of the world's top brands around the world, including Coca-Cola, Orange, Samsung, and Mondelēz. Our powerful cloud-based platform, Harmoni, is purpose-built for market research. From data processing to investigation, dashboards to collaboration, Harmoni is a true "data-to-decision-making" solution for in-house corporate insights teams and agencies. While we don't facilitate market research surveys, provide sample, or collect data, we make it easy for market researchers to find and share compelling insights that go over-and-above what stakeholders want, inspiring them to act decisively. One of the most powerful features of Harmoni is Discover, a time-tested, time-saving, and investigative approach to data analysis. Using automated analyses to reveal patterns and trends, Discover minimizes potential research bias by removing the need for requesting and manually analyzing scores of cumbersome crosstabs – often seeing what you can't. Discover helps you easily find what differentiates groups that matter to you, uncover what makes them unique, and deliver data points that are interesting, relevant, and statistically significant, plus see things others can't. Add to all this an impending GenAI feature, and you have an extremely powerful, future-proofed tool.
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This one's going to sting, loves… But we need to talk about feminine energy. Specifically, we need to talk about performative feminine energy. We're seeing a huge resurgence in embracing feminine energy…and that's fucking amazing. We love to see it. But with that resurgence, I'm also seeing an upswing in people mistaking performative femininity for actual feminine embodiment. And if you don't know the difference (or don't know shit about the feminine, period) don't stress. We're going to fix that right tf now. WORK WITH MICHELLE: Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN, a shadow work course for the woman who is ready to break free from the anxious/avoidant dance in relationships and step into unfuckwithable confidence, security, and self-worth: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman Sign up for THE EXPERIENCE, an exclusive 12-month mentorship experience where you go all in on YOU (aka, you get direct access to me as a mentor, access to every offer I run over your year, and MORE): https://michellepanning.com/the-experience CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com
Just Buy Less Coffee, Answering the Deeper Questions of American Politics
Cathy and Troy break down a disastrous week for the U.S. economy after Trump's Liberation Day unveiling of tariffs on the entire world. The U.S. has declared economic warfare, and countries are responding in kind. In response, the markets are in free fall. This is not a normal stock correction; investors are terrified of the instability of Trump and the looming recession. Stock futures reveal that more drops may be coming as the American economy teeters on a 1929 styled cliff, completely created by Donald Trump, as the seeds of MAGA fascist chaos bloom into full on class warfare of billionaires on workers. Retirement accounts are being wiped out and companies are preparing to lay off workers as Trump is unapologetic.Meanwhile, New Jersey Senator Cory Booker breaks the record for longest Senate floor speech; raging for 25 hours against the corruption, incompetence, and cruelty of the Trump administration, breaking the previous record set by racist senator Strom Thurmond who filibustered the Civil Rights act of 1957.Performative? Or inspirational and effective? Booker's speech is the first major act of a Democrat fighting back against Trump in Congress while in the minority.All for less than the price of a cup of coffee...For more exclusive content, subscribe here.
In this week's news recap, Taylor and Nathan discuss Senator Cory Booker's 25 hour senate speech in the contexts of performativity and social activism. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is Aliyev genuinely pursuing peace, or is he using negotiations to cement his geopolitical gains? Nerses Kopalyan, author of the EVN Security Report series dissects Azerbaijan's approach to the peace talks and explores the deeper reasons why Aliyev will not sign a peace deal with Armenia.
Tired of leaders who throw around trendy terms but fail to walk the talk? So are we. In this fiery episode, we dig into one of 2025's most exhausting workplace epidemics: performative leadership. From fake psychological safety claims to the illusion of inclusion, we're calling out the empty mantras and surface-level stunts for what they are—lip service. Tune in as we unpack what real leadership looks like, why your team sees through the BS, and how to lead with integrity, consistency, and a little bit of human grace. It's time to ditch the buzzwords and build trust that sticks.
Preacher: Kate BauerDate: 3/23/25Series: The Good LifeKey Scriptures: Matthew Matthew 6:1–6, 16-18 (ESV) 1 “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 2 “Thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be praised by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 5 “And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 6 But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 16 “And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. 17 But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, 18 that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Sav and Jess celebrate St. Patrick's Day while discussing their favorite drinks and catching up on life updates, including Jess's daughter Amari's new preschool journey. They reflect on the challenges and milestones of parenting, the emotional complexities of motherhood, and the concept of alternate lives. The discussion shifts to mental health, anxiety, and the impact of dreams on their well-being. They also touch on work-life balance and the importance of taking mental health days. The conversation concludes with a discussion on accountability, particularly in relation to the Ruby Franke case, and the responses to their recent episodes. In this conversation, Sav and Jess delve into the complexities of accountability, personal experiences, and the challenges of navigating relationships. They discuss the importance of genuine apologies, the impact of past relationships on current dynamics, and the struggles of dating in a modern context. The conversation also touches on the intersection of anxiety and relationships, exploring how self-doubt can manifest in personal connections. Throughout, they emphasize the need for honest communication and the significance of taking responsibility for one's actions.
On this episode of Anna's Guide, Anna debates whether we should all keep our relationships private or public. She talks about the soft launch of her own relationship, (we all remember ‘the hand') what it's like making content on the internet with Bru and wonders how much you should confide in your friends about your relationship. Welcome to Anna's Guide to Hard Launching, Keeping Secrets and Performative Love.
Welcome to the Ag Tribes Report with your host, Vance Crowe. This week, we dive into the complexities of the agricultural world with our guest, Doug Whitehead, a Canadian farmer and trucker. Doug, a former ice trucker, running a trucking company, and farming in Canada. Our discussion takes a deep dive into the deescalating trade war between the US and Canada. We examine the impact of tariffs on both sides of the border and the perspectives of Canadian farmers like Doug, who are navigating the uncertainties of trade policies. We also discuss the accusations from New Zealand, Australia, and US dairy farmers against Canada for dumping cheap milk globally, highlighting the tensions surrounding Canada's supply management system.We then shift our focus to the US, where Ag Secretary Brooke Rollins is spearheading a billion-dollar initiative to curb egg prices amidst the bird flu crisis. Doug shares that there is no bird flu prevalent in Canada.In a segment on Canadian patriotism, we question whether the recent surge in national pride is genuine or performative, especially in light of external pressures like US tariffs. Doug shares his thoughts on the political landscape in Canada and the potential implications of these tensions.We also explore the Bitcoin land price report, comparing the value of Bitcoin to the cost of farmland in Canada. Doug, a Bitcoin enthusiast, shares his journey into cryptocurrency and his views on the future of digital currencies.Finally, we delve into the Peter Thiel paradox, where Doug challenges the conventional thinking within his farming community, and discuss the importance of questioning scientific consensus in agriculture. We wrap up with a conversation about raw milk and its potential health benefits, reflecting Doug's commitment to personal and agricultural health.
The Similarities Between Trump and Musk Tearing America Apart and What Mao Did to China in the Cultural Revolution | An Assessment on How Much the Musk Assault on Government is Performative as Our Reality TV President Governs By Stunt backgroundbriefing.org/donate twitter.com/ianmastersmedia bsky.app/profile/ianmastersmedia.bsky.social facebook.com/ianmastersmedia
Tough times for justice, equality, inclusion, and hope these days.With the "anti-woke" attack on DEI, I was wondering how my friend Keith Edwards was doing these days.His practice is one of "aspiring allyship" — how we can all come together to learn and grow, and work for our collective liberation from all forms of tyranny and discrimination.Are businesses, cowering before the Trump/Musk onslaught, running away from diversity, equity and inclusion as fast as they can?Turns out, no.Because these factors are critical to any business that wants to thrive in these turbulent times.As Keith points out, diversity isn't the opposite of meritocracy; it's the only way to get the right people into the right positions.And unlike the performative wokeness that spasmed through society in the wake of George Floyd's murder and the peak of the Black Lives Matter movement in summer 2020, companies that are bringing Keith in now are serious about making their organizations better. No more eye-rolling CEOs and checked-out senior managers.One of the ideas that Keith really hammers home is this: equity benefits everyone, not just marginalized groups. The things that really make our lives worthwhile — freedom, dignity, love, joy — aren't in short supply. In fact, the more of these that you have, the more that I can have as well.Leadership around these issues requires soul-searching, humility, a willingness to change and grow, and mindful presence.I shared my own struggles to become a useful ally with Keith, who shared some of his own "embarrassing moments," and pointed out that we're all "wildly unfinished," and as long as we're open, we can still act with integrity and power.Here are the takeaways that AI thought worth recording:Hope is a practice, not an emotion.Joy is a renewable resource that can be cultivated.Equity involves recognizing and removing unfair barriers.Allyship is about action, not identity.Being effective is more important than being right.Corporate language around DEI is shifting, but the work continues.The murder of George Floyd highlighted systemic issues in society.We are all works in progress and can change our perspectives.Helping marginalized groups ultimately benefits everyone.It's essential to recognize that joy and freedom are abundant resources. When we act for the collective, we are also benefiting ourselves.Mindfulness helps leaders stay grounded and centered.Slowing down can be a powerful leadership tool.Recognizing reactivity is the first step to choosing responses.Unlearning harmful beliefs is a gift to oneself.Aspiring allyship requires self-reflection and humility.Feedback should be seen as a gift for personal growth.Our liberation is interconnected with others' liberation.Performative actions can lead to genuine change over time.Creating accessible pathways for equity is essential.LinksKeithEdwards.comKeith's newsletterKeith's YouTube channelAspiring Allyship program"Riding Shotgun Down the Avalanche," by Shawn Colvin"The Big Payback" episode of Atlanta
We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we're not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we're not during sex. That's why today's episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who's down for whatever (even when you're actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you're actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions. In this episode, you'll learn: Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop. How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons. The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms). Show Notes: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code SWE. Buy The Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com
Episode 4263: Performative Policy Vs. The Reality Of Where We Are At