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Send us a textIntro: Quote of the Week: Maya Angelou “For Africa to me... is more than a glamorous fact. It is a historical truth. No man can know where he is going unless he knows exactly where he has been and exactly how he arrived at his present place.” Unmasking the News: Trump's Map of Minority Rule: Trump's Statements, Performative with a Body Count: Preying on the Vulnerable: Good News: The BLACKprint for Black Economic Power: Strategies for Black Power: A Psychohistory of White Supremacy – and How We Kill Its Power: Reflections and Call to Action:Closing/Outro: Sources:https://www.newsweek.com/map-donald-trump-approval-rating-each-state-10-months-11127534https://www.reuters.com/world/americas/trump-says-airspace-above-surrounding-venezuela-be-closed-its-entirety-2025-11-29/https://abuseguardian.legalexaminer.com/laurence-banville/legal/greenwood-pastor-and-ex-calhoun-falls-mayor-johnnie-waller-sexual-abuse-lawyer/https://usblackchambers.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/2025-2026-Blackprint.pdfPower Concedes Nothing without a Demand...
in this episode, we break down the line between niche, weird, and performative - how wanting to be different can make you just like everyone else, what these identities actually look like in real life, and where we find ourselves on that spectrum. we also ask: what happens when the behaviors people call "performative" are things you genuinely enjoy, with or without an audience? ultimately, who decides what's authentic? other people, or you? follow us: @grownk1d @gaelaitor @_kaylasuarez join our social club: https://form.typeform.com/to/eBSho4lE overshare with us: grownkid.com About our Partners: GrownKid is made in partnership with Joy Coalition where purpose driven content meets powerful storytelling. From 13 Reasons Why to Unprisoned, Joy Coalition projects are made to bridge generations and drive groundbreaking conversations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Summary In this episode, Andy talks with Dr. Katie Best, leadership coach and author of The Ten Toughest Leadership Problems and How to Solve Them. Drawing on years of coaching leaders across industries, Katie shares practical insights that help you tackle high-stakes leadership moments—especially when a coach isn't available. They explore Katie's SOLVE framework for problem-solving under pressure, the danger of performative busyness, and how to make better decisions when trade-offs and uncertainty rule the day. You'll also hear how to unlock authentic influence without manipulation, foster healthy debate on overly "nice" teams, and support psychological safety in leadership and parenting. Andy and Katie also dig into how to empower women in leadership and how small actions can create big shifts in workplace culture. If you've ever felt overwhelmed as a leader or wished for a coach in the moment, this conversation offers clarity, encouragement, and real tools you can start using today! Sound Bites "You only have power if someone believes that you do." "All interaction is manipulative, but that doesn't mean it's toxic." "Performative busyness is one of the biggest traps for high performers." "Draw the line, or others will draw it for you." "Influence is about being a decent human, not just using techniques." "If you've done the learning, don't let it go to waste." "The idea that people put on an act at work has always fascinated me." "We owe it to ourselves, and if we're leaders of other human beings, we owe it to them as well, to show that it's okay to switch off." "Performative busyness is that kind of, we're never allowed to stop, and if we continue to perform, we keep that idea going that everyone needs to be busy all the time." "We are so much better at learning from positivity than we are from negativity." "We have to recognize that lots of people don't like speaking up in meetings." "It's much easier to do a positive thing than to not do a negative thing." Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:33 Start of Interview 01:45 Early Influences on Leadership 04:33 The Coaching Gap and Why She Wrote the Book 05:47 What Is Performative Busyness? 09:32 How Katie Protects Her Own Focus and Energy 12:00 Introducing the SOLVE Framework 18:00 Making Decisions with Uncertainty 20:40 Power and Influence: What's the Difference? 25:42 Why Influence Techniques Sometimes Backfire 26:43 Encouraging Debate in "Too Nice" Cultures 28:40 Building Psychological Safety on Your Team 31:00 Advice for Women Leaders (and the Men Who Support Them) 34:00 Leadership Lessons as a Parent 35:55 End of Interview 36:25 Andy Comments After the Interview 40:19 Outtakes Learn More You can learn more about Katie and her work at KatieBest.com. For more learning on this topic, check out: Episode 442 with Dominic Ashley-Timms. Excellent ideas on how to coach the people around us—and ourselves. Episode 391 with Adam Bryant. Insightful and engaging stories about how people make the leap to being leaders. Episode 385 with Vanessa Patrick. She wrote a great book about How To Say No. Very empowering. Pass the PMP Exam If you or someone you know is thinking about getting PMP certified, we've put together a helpful guide called The 5 Best Resources to Help You Pass the PMP Exam on Your First Try. We've helped thousands of people earn their certification, and we'd love to help you too. It's totally free, and it's a great way to get a head start. Just go to 5BestResources.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com to grab your copy. I'd love to help you get your PMP! Level Up Your AI Skills Join other listeners from around the world who are taking our AI Made Simple course to prepare for an AI-infused future. Just go to ai.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com. Thanks! Join Us for LEAD52 I know you want to be a more confident leader—that's why you listen to this podcast. LEAD52 is a global community of people like you who are committed to transforming their ability to lead and deliver. It's 52 weeks of leadership learning, delivered right to your inbox, taking less than 5 minutes a week. And it's all for free. Learn more and sign up at GetLEAD52.com. Thanks! Thank you for joining me for this episode of The People and Projects Podcast! Talent Triangle: Power Skills Topics: Leadership, Coaching, Decision Making, Influence, Communication, Psychological Safety, Conflict, Engagement, Organizational Culture, Team Development, Strategic Thinking, Problem Solving The following music was used for this episode: Music: On Point by Steven O'Brien License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Music: Tropical Vibe by WinnieTheMoog License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
Tired of fake prayer? Discover the real, raw heart of connecting with God beyond perfection or performance! Want a deeper prayer life? We're exploring how prayer is often misunderstood as a performance rather than an honest encounter with God. Josh Lewis welcomes Dr. Kyle Strobel, associate professor of spiritual theology at Talbot School of Theology, Biola University to explore spiritual formation, the messiness of prayer, and how Christian theology meets lived experience. In this episode of Remnant Radio, Josh and Kyle navigate the tension between seeking God's presence and living by faith even amid spiritual dryness. We'll explore spiritual warfare and examine why our wandering minds in prayer are actually gifts, revealing the longings of our hearts. Their conversation bridges scholarly theology with down-to-earth practical wisdom, equipping you for a vibrant Christian life marked by honest prayer, theological depth, and spiritual growth.0:00 – Introduction5:24 – "Where Prayer Becomes Real" overview7:23 – Common confusions about prayer12:16 – The performance mindset 16:00 – How real honesty changes prayer22:28 – Law vs. gospel distinction 26:20 – Prayers that avoid God29:53 – Biblical examples: authenticity vs. performance33:01 – The path for Christian growth45:56 – Tension: desiring spiritual experiences and God's sufficiency54:09 – Seeking God's face59:05 – The “dark night of the soul,” longing for God, and spiritual formation1:00:56 – ClosingABOUT THE GUEST:
This week on Motherish, we're calling out the curated chaos of performative mom culture: the pressure to look perfect, patient, and pulled-together while we're actually surviving on caffeine and vibes. We break down how social media shapes our expectations, why it messes with our confidence, and what it really means to be authentic in motherhood. A reminder we all need: the mess is real… and so is the magic.
In this episode, Dave Thompson, CFI sits down with Michael Reddington, CFI to break down five of the biggest misconceptions about communication — in the interrogation room, the boardroom, and everywhere in between. From the myths of “control,” “rapport,” and “active listening” to the flawed belief that people owe us the truth, Dave and Mike unpack how these assumptions quietly sabotage influence. Together, they reveal the real skills that build trust, uncover information, and create better outcomes in high-stakes conversations. Check out Part 2 of this Series on Mike's Podcast on YouTube - "I See What You're Saying" Or visit on Spotify We covered myths and misconceptions on this episode – listen to learn more as we debunk the following: Buyers are liars You need to keep control of the conversation Excuses are bad People owe you the truth Active listening = Performative listening
It was a tale of two cities over consecutive weekends that got this conversation going. Wayne shares about his experience with former 2x2 members in the South, and then he went with Sara to their 50th college reunion at Oral Roberts University. As Wayne processes those experiences with Kyle, they find themselves contrasting performative Christianity to a doctrine or program and a transformational journey that comes from an ever-deepening engagement with God's love. As part of that conversation, they read through Psalm 15 as it describes the company of the just, where God wants to make his presence known. Podcast Notes: The video recording of this podcast The post Performative or Transformational? (#1011) first appeared on The God Journey.
This week, President Trump hosts the Saudi crown prince Mohammed bin Salman for a formal White House visit, despite the prince's responsibility for numerous human rights abuses. National security expert Elizabeth Neumann joins Mike Cosper and Clarissa Moll to discuss how to interpret this visit. Then, New York Times columnist David French stops by to talk about shifts in the Republican party as the U.S. emerges from the government shutdown. Finally, CT's Sho Baraka joins us to talk about the TikTok trend of the performative male, and how one man in Detroit is using jujitsu to teach boys and men to control their strength and be emotionally open. REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: -Mastering Masculinity with Jason Wilson by Sho Baraka GO DEEPER WITH THE BULLETIN: -Join the conversation at our Substack. -Find us on YouTube. -Rate and review the show in your podcast app of choice. ABOUT THE GUESTS: David French is a columnist for The New York Times. He's a former senior editor of The Dispatch and author of Divided We Fall: America's Secession Threat and How to Restore Our Nation. Elizabeth Neumann is a national security expert who has served across three presidential administrations: on the inaugural staff of the White House Homeland Security Council under President George W. Bush, as an advisor to the office of the director of national intelligence during the Obama Administration, and as the Department of Homeland Security's deputy chief of staff and assistant secretary for counterterrorism and threat prevention in the Trump administration. Neumann is also a national security contributor for ABC News. Sho Baraka is a recording artist, performer, culture curator, activist, and writer. Baraka is an alumnus of Tuskegee University and the University of North Texas. He is a cofounder of Forth District and the And Campaign, and he has served as an adjunct professor at Wake Forest University School of Divinity. He was an original member of influential hip-hop consortium 116 Clique, recording with Reach Records. In 2024, Baraka became the Big Tent editorial director for Christianity Today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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This is the AI discussion of my post, Our Use Of AI As A "Performative" Tool. I'm stunned, it's delivered better than my post. Enjoy! Here's the link to the original post: https://partnersinexcellenceblog.com/our-use-of-ai-as-a-performative-tool/
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The Gaming Hut continues its preview of Robin's new game Page Turners with a demonstration of scene calling choices. The History Hut takes a garden stroll to look at ornamental hermits. A great wasteland is traversed in the Cinema Hut as the Fantasy Film Essentials series shoots from 2011 to nearly the present day. Finally […]
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Ansley Hutchinson, Tess Menzies, and Gabe Sanchez, from the Boredwalk content team reunite to discuss all the most recent salacious scandals marring the U.S. political landscape (and distracting from the FULL, UN-REDACTED RELEASE OF THE EPSTEIN FILES), including: • The very cozy public embraces between very married (and very "Christian") Vice President J.D. Vance and very recently widowed (and very "Christian") trad-wife Erika Kirk, and Second Lady Usha Vance's apparently sanguine acceptance of being publicly cuckqueaned • The state of the U.S. economy heading into the busiest shopping season of the year (spoiler alert: it's suboptimal!) • Mass layoffs in the private sector and the ongoing shutdown of the federal government impacting spending power and consumer confidence • Speaker of the House Mike Johnson's ongoing refusal to swear in recently-elected U.S. Representative Adelita Grijalva in a thinly-veiled attempt to keep the aforementioned Epstein Files from being released • Trump's shoulder shrugging over his own supporters losing access to SNAP benefits and facing the specter of exploding health insurance costs come January 1st 2026 as a result of the expiring Affordable Care Act subsidies that the GOP's One Big Beautiful Bill does not renew • The gross inhumanity of wealthier members of the MAGA movement celebrating and mocking other people — including fellow MAGA voters — who can no longer afford groceries due to the frozen SNAP benefits We then check in with the latest dispatch from Troll-sylvania, which features Kenny Murdoch's hilarious "insult" wherein he accuses us of making "AI" content because our teeth are "too perfect," because he simply cannot fathom a world in which regular dental visits, braces, Invisalign, and basic oral hygiene are a thing that exist. Not only do we have impeccable dental situations, we also design and sell high-quality vinyl stickers, per a recent customer review. Nice! In an effort to take things out on a high note, our hosts wrap up the episode by trading answers to questions pulled from our Delve Deck conversation card sets! This week we answer the questions "what two foods are people always putting together that ruin them for you?", "what was the least useful class you ever took in school?", and "what is your favorite local spot in town?" Thanks for stopping by to hang out, commiserate, and (hopefully) laugh with us! FOLLOW US: FACEBOOK ► facebook.com/boredwalktshirts INSTAGRAM ► instagram.com/boredwalk THREADS ► threads.com/boredwalktees YOUTUBE ► youtube.com/boredwalk.los.angeles BLUESKY ► bsky.app/profile/boredwalk.com TIKTOK ► tiktok.com/@boredwalk.lol SNAPCHAT ► https://snapchat.com/t/aCh1aSey
Liebe Hosis, wir machen gerade Staffelpause. Damit wir nicht zu lange voneinander getrennt sind, gibt es jetzt jede Woche bis zur nächsten Staffel einen Quickie mit Auri und Sebastian. Heute mit dem Thema: "Performative Males"!
As folks continue to mobilize across Great Turtle Island for all the reasons, when it comes to supporting each other how can we move with humility and respect? Treaty 7/Calgary Cultural Humility 2026Virtual Cultural Humility February 2026Support our work by donating here: Indigenous Vision this Native American Heritage Month. Donate: https://www.indigenousvision.org/Subscribe to our Youtube channel!#MMIWarriors Self Defense information.Learn more about Indigenous Vision.Follow us on Facebook and Instagram.The IVPodcast is hosted by Indigenous Vision Executive Director, Souta Calling Last (Blackfoot Nation) and is produced by co-host, Melissa Spence (Anishinaabe Nation)
A matcha in hand… a tote bag slung over the shoulder… black nail polish neatly applied… a carefully styled mullet… and a copy of Sally Rooney peeking from his back pocket. That's the look of the so-called performative man. In the past few weeks, this character has turned into a full-blown meme, with videos racking up millions of views. On the surface, he checks all the boxes of a deconstructed man. But in reality, he often represents a slickly packaged version of masculinity 2.0. What does that mean, exactly? So how can you spot the difference between performance and sincerity? So how do you actually become an ally without overdoing it? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: How is micro-feminism helping women combat workplace sexism? Do men really have a better sense of direction than women? Why has purple become the colour of feminism? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Amber Minogue. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What does it mean to be good?It's a little word that carries a lot of weight for many of us. Be a good girl. Be a good friend. Be a good leader. Do good.Good can sound like praise, but become a cage of expectations and shoulds, a performance that chips away at our authenticity. Good is no longer something we are, but is how others see us. It leads us to people please and keep the peace at all costs. And that's especially true for women.All too often, when women are in leadership, their goodness is measured by how they make others feel–good, comfortable, understood. All of that matters. But when the measure of leadership becomes how comfortable other people feel around us, we lose something essential.We perform and manage emotions instead of building trust and respect. We seek to be liked and to fit in at the cost of real integrity and effectiveness. And likability is oh-so fleeting.Respect, integrity, and true belonging take time and discomfort to build, but they last.My guest today has written beautifully and bravely about the cost of being good, the truth of belonging, and the courage it takes to lead ourselves and others through discomfort.Elise Loehnen is the New York Times bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to be Good and the host of the podcast, Pulling the Thread, where she interviews cultural luminaries about the big questions of today, including people like Joy Harjo, John and Julie Gottman, Dr. Gabor Maté, and Esther Perel. In addition to On Our Best Behavior, she is the author of a corresponding workbook—Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness—with coach Courtney Smith (July 2025), and the co-author of True & False Magic, with legendary psychiatrist Phil Stutz. Elise lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Rob, and their sons, Max and Sam.Listen to the full episode to hear:How Elise traced the cultural roots of the “good woman” back to early Christianity and the many additions, erasures, and mistranslations of Biblical storiesWhy we need to pay attention to our envy and how it shows up in relation to other womenHow envy, pride, and greed fuel each other and the ways we stay small and tear other women downHow social media has heightened the risk of reputational damage and changed how women work and lead, for better and worseWhy we latch onto ideas of goodness and purity more deeply in times of greater uncertaintyHow current narratives about the “natural” order are ahistorical manipulations that limit what we believe is possibleLearn more about Elise Loehnen:WebsitePulling the Thread on SubstackInstagram: @eliseloehnenOn Our Best Behavior: The Price Women Pay to Be GoodChoosing Wholeness Over Goodness: A Process for Reclaiming Your Full SelfTrue and False Magic: A Tools WorkbookLearn more about Rebecca:rebeccaching.comWork With RebeccaThe Unburdened Leader on SubstackSign up for the weekly Unburdened Leader EmailResources:Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone, Brené BrownEP 123: Befriending Your Nervous System: Building Capacity for Regulation with Deb DanaThe Intrinsic Order that Emerges from Within Chaos (Elinor Dickson, PhD)Dancing in the Flames: The Dark Goddess in the Transformation of Consciousness, Elinor Dickson and Marion Woodman EP 88: Right-Use-of-Power: Navigating Leadership Dynamics with Dr. Cedar BarstowEP 125: Power, Regulation, and Leadership: Connecting to Your Personal Power with Dr. Amanda AguileraThe Reprioritization of Relationship (Lori Gottlieb)Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed, Lori GottliebLessons from Hollywood's Most Powerful Woman—And How They Can Help You (with Donna Langley) | Aspire with Emma GredeAnswer to Job, Carl JungAion: Researches Into the Phenomenology of the Self, Carl JungThe Science of Magic: How the Mind Weaves the Fabric of Reality, Dean Radin PhDMistakes Were Made (but Not By Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts, Carol Tavris and Elliot AronsonSigur Rós - YouTubeJónsi - YouTubeLove IslandThe Gilded AgeMaidenStutz
Neutrality has been a long-standing position of Irish foreign policy but is it performative? Pat asked two guests, Colin Sheridan, is an Irish Examiner journalist and a former UN Peacekeeper and also Daniel Mulhall, Former Ambassador of Ireland to the United States.
Performative masculinity refers to a man who adopts traits associated with feminism and emotional sensitivity—such as drinking matcha lattes, carrying tote bags with feminist slogans, wearing wired headphones, listening to indie female artists like Clairo or Lana Del Rey, and reading feminist literature—to appear more appealing to progressive women. So how does this harm women? FunkyFrogBait has the answer!
Join us for an engaging episode of the Straight Dope Show, where hosts El Luno and TraB The Wonder dive into the absurdities of modern life, from the misconceptions about hydration and the ridiculousness of fruit-infused water to the complexities of cultural identity and representation in media. They tackle the challenges of navigating opinions in the age of social media, the impact of historical context on contemporary discussions, and the often performative nature of celebrity culture. With humor and insight, they explore how personal growth is perceived in the public eye and the absurdity of cancel culture. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that blends comedy with real talk, and discover why this episode is a must-listen![00:01:22] Opinions on how to drink water.[00:04:09] Black American identity and history.[00:08:41] Representation of Africa in film.[00:11:49] Space for storytelling in film.[00:15:59] Cancel culture and personal growth.[00:19:12] Growth and societal expectations.[00:24:05] Edgy humor in comedy.[00:25:22] Internet culture and personal identity.[00:32:22] Performative culture in media.[00:35:14] Reality TV and cultural impact.[00:39:21] Celebrity identity and fan expectations.[00:42:04] Kings lose 20-point lead.[00:45:01] Jimmy Butler's impact on teams.[00:50:15] Basketball talent evaluation critique.[00:52:57] Wimby worth a billion?[00:59:38] Generational basketball talent discussion.[01:03:05] James Harden's controversial style.[01:08:07] Fraudulence in sports entertainment.[01:10:22] Truth about greatness and family.[01:15:15] Intelligence and societal expectations.[01:17:31] Warriors' reliance on Steph Curry.[01:21:28] Team dynamics and player roles.[01:28:00] BET's representation of Black television.[01:30:27] The impact of representation in media.[01:36:45] You don't matter, live happy.[01:37:23] Grass is not American.
Today, Ed and Laura discuss the phenomenon of the performative male, and Ed spends 50 minutes denying he is one. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
There's a kind of faith that performs instead of worships, and eventually, that kind of faith breaks down. This week on Win Today, Paul and Hannah McClure from Bethel Music join me to talk about the slow drift from softness to cynicism in the life of a believer. We talk about the orphan spirit, fake faith that looks right but can't hold weight, and how disappointment left untreated eventually hardens into disconnection. We also confront the myth that faith equals certainty, and why true worship isn't just a song; it's surrender in the absence of clarity. For anyone who's battled disillusionment in church, questioned the language of worship, or wondered whether they're singing words they don't believe anymore, this conversation offers both confrontation and comfort. Paul and Hannah don't sugarcoat the road. But they do point to healing. This isn't about emotional hype. It's about reclaiming your heart before it turns cold. You'll learn: Why disappointment often precedes cynicism What the orphan spirit really is—and how it forms How fake faith is often learned, not chosen Why worship without surrender is just noise How to walk with God when certainty disappears Guest Bio Paul and Hannah McClure are worship leaders, songwriters, and pastors with Bethel Music. Known for their vulnerability, depth, and refusal to perform, their ministry helps people reconnect with a God who isn't afraid of pain. They've led a generation to encounter God through honesty, not hype. Their story is one of surrender, resilience, and the long journey back from burnout, cynicism, and emotional numbness. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
Jimmy's Monologue - Performative outrage over Trump's White House renovation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Welcome back to another episode of Poppin' Off (About Pop Culture)! This week we're talking about Coleman Domingo being cast as the Cowardly Lion in "Wicked: For Good," Sabrina Carpenter doing double duty on SNL, Snoop Dogg teaming up with GLAAD, and Amy Robach and TJ Holmes are engaged. It's all going down, so get ready to pop off with us!Follow us on Instagram:Poppin' Off About Pop Culture (@poppinoffaboutpopculture)Maggie's socials:Twitter: kale queen (@literallymaggie)Instagram: ✨maggie✨ (@literallymaggie_)Stephen's socials:Twitter: stephen gaedcke (@sgaedcke99)Instagram: Stephen Gaedcke (@sgaedcke99)Don't forget to rate us 5 stars and leave a comment. We want to hear from you!
Is It Dangerous to Be a Man? Why Masculinity Gets Criticized Instead of CelebratedA coal miner shows up to his son's basketball game still covered in soot. He rushed straight from work to keep his promise. The photo goes viral — but not for the reason you'd think.Instead of celebrating his dedication, the internet tears him apart. "Performative masculinity." "Virtue signaling." "He could've washed his face."And that's when it hit us: No matter what a man does, someone will find a way to criticize it.In this powerful conversation, Chuck, Faisal, and Ari unpack one of the most uncomfortable truths of modern masculinity: being a man feels like walking through a minefield of judgment, shame, and cancel culture.In this episode, we explore:Why showing up as yourself can get you canceledThe difference between how masculine and feminine energy "destroys" — and why it mattersHow growing up in the feminist era made men feel guilty for being menWhy "mansplaining" and similar terms are designed to disempowerThe schoolyard mentality of men vs. women hatred — and how to rise above itWhat happens when you own your flaws instead of apologizing for themHow to develop thick skin in a world that loves tearing people downWhy empowering men doesn't come at women's expenseThe truth? When men feel disempowered, nobody wins. Not men. Not women. Not society.This isn't about playing victim. It's about standing up, owning who you are (flaws included), and refusing to collapse under criticism. It's about building connection instead of division.Whether you're tired of walking on eggshells, struggling with shame about your masculinity, or just trying to figure out how to be a good man in a world that constantly tells you you're doing it wrong — this episode is for you.It's time to stop apologizing for being a man.Like. Comment. Subscribe. And share this with the guy who needs permission to stand tall.RetryConnect with Faisal Khokhar:https://masculine.co/https://5fractures.com/https://www.instagram.com/masculinecharisma/Connect with Chuck Chapman: www.youtube.com/@chuckchapmanhttps://www.chuckchapman.com/https://www.instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:https://drarigraff.com/www.youtube.com/@AriGraff
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How to Split a Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships
Looking in the Mirror: Finding Self-Awareness Through DivorceFamily law attorney Seth Nelson and Pete Wright welcome Lionel Moses, a Desert Storm veteran and relationship coach who helps people break unhealthy relationship patterns through what he calls "the mirror effect." This powerful episode of How to Split a Toaster explores how divorce can become a catalyst for essential self-discovery and growth.The Mirror Effect in RelationshipsDrawing from his experiences through two divorces, Lionel shares how seeing himself as the common denominator led to transformative insights about relationship patterns. As a self-described "people pleaser," he discovered that his tendency to fix others' problems masked deeper emotional needs that went unaddressed in his marriages.Breaking Cycles Through Self-AwarenessSeth brings his legal expertise to the conversation, highlighting how emotional readiness impacts divorce proceedings. When clients focus exclusively on their former spouse's behavior rather than their own growth, it often complicates and extends the legal process. The discussion reveals how self-awareness can lead to more constructive co-parenting relationships and healthier future partnerships.From Performance to AuthenticityLionel's concept of "performative relationships" resonates throughout the conversation, as he describes moving from seeking external validation to developing genuine self-love. This transformation enabled him to build more authentic connections and achieve amicable co-parenting relationships—a goal many find challenging during divorce.Key Insights• Examine your patterns in relationships rather than focusing solely on your partner's behavior• Develop emotional resilience by understanding your authentic needs versus performative habits• Build self-awareness before entering new relationships to break recurring relationship cyclesThis episode offers invaluable guidance for anyone navigating divorce or seeking healthier relationship patterns. Through Lionel's candid sharing and Seth's legal wisdom, listeners gain practical tools for self-reflection and personal growth during major life transitions.Whether you're considering divorce, in the midst of proceedings, or rebuilding after separation, this conversation provides a roadmap for using life's challenges as opportunities for transformation and healing.Links & NotesFind Lionel on his website, LinkedIn, Facebook, InstagramCheck out The Marriage SeedSchedule a consult with Seth (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (00:26) - Meet Lionel Moses (00:58) - What Is the Mirror Effect? (02:18) - The Transformation (03:46) - Too Much Focus on the Other Side (06:28) - Figuring Out How to Manage Relationships (11:20) - Emotional Resilience (14:40) - Reflecting on What You Were Attracting (15:48) - The Marriage Seed (21:02) - Connecting to Legal Commitments (23:46) - Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs (26:27) - Making Hard Decisions (28:03) - Performative (30:16) - Wrap Up
Modern society stands at a crossroads between integrity and adaptation. In this episode, we explore whether evolving cultural norms erode traditional virtues across martial arts, entrepreneurship, and politics. Drawing from the voices of the great Stoics, we examine how societal pressure challenges long-held standards and values. We then uncover the essence of the warrior ethos, rooted in wisdom, justice, fortitude, and temperance, through examples from Gladiator, Naruto, and real-world practice. We dissect leadership in the modern age, contrasting authenticity with performative virtue. From Marcus Aurelius to today's influencers, we reveal how social media often rewards image over integrity, urging a return to genuine strength and disciplined conviction.--------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------(0:00:00) - Exploring Virtue and Political Integrity(0:08:56) - Unleashing the Warrior Ethos(0:16:39) - Authenticity and the Warrior Mindset(0:28:37) - Foundational Principles in Combat TrainingSend us a text
(00:00-25:18) Tim looks good today. Hashtag cuck sitch. Doug's in a good place because the Blues are getting hot and getting a baby. Audio of Brayden Schenn talking about last night being their best win yet. Two goals for Jimmy Snipes on the quest for 100. Jackie Papers dancing on Mike Shildt's grave. Audio of Padres beat reporter Kevin Acee on Foul Territory talking Shildt's retirement. Cardinals stayed tight lipped on the Shildt situation. I'll take the windbreaker.(25:26-48:34) Montreal has won the Bolduc trade. Wild, wild play in the Brewers and Dodgers game last night. Audio of Brian Anderson's call. Take one for the team, Turang. Got some Bayless in him. Audio of Ken Rosenthal talking about Mike Shildt's retirement. A take that Jackson can get behind. Talking retractable roofs and domed stadiums. Circuit City and Grandpa Pigeon's. Was The Metrodome the worst baseball stadium ever? MBAs love TMA.(48:43-1:12:00) The Jackson Burkett celebration tour continues with audio of him calling James Franklin's firing way back when. Just reeks of ball knowledge. How many more SEC coaches are gonna get the short haircut? Line moving on the Mizzou/Auburn game. Audio of Syracuse coach Fran Brown on if he has anything he wants to say to Orange fans that are worried about him leaving for a bigger job. Nebraska coach Matt Rhule on the Penn State opening. The Spite Pod. Performative pedaling.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Ever been called a ‘pick me'? It's been a cultural buzzword for years to describe women who seek male validation by putting down other women - but have we taken the term too far?
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Ever been called a ‘pick me'? It's been a cultural buzzword for years to describe women who seek male validation by putting down other women - but have we taken the term too far? We find out what it actually means to be a ‘pick me', why it's a problematic label to hand out without critical thought, and explore whether the ‘performative male' is the guy version that needs just as much scrutiny.SHOW NOTES: Pick-me girl backlash exposes a bigger issue: https://www.who.com.au/lifestyle/sex-relationships/pick-me-girl/DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.
Dave's in TV land, job hugging, and performative flag waving!- h1 full 2176 Wed, 08 Oct 2025 20:09:56 +0000 b3rP0M5jNAxoXGiDalh1VL4c7HhS3dak comedy,religion & spirituality,society & culture,news,government The Dave Glover Show comedy,religion & spirituality,society & culture,news,government Dave's in TV land, job hugging, and performative flag waving!- h1 The Dave Glover Show has been driving St. Louis home for over 20 years. Unafraid to discuss virtually any topic, you'll hear Dave and crew's unique perspective on current events, news and politics, and anything and everything in between. © 2025 Audacy, Inc. Comedy Religion & Spirituality Society & Culture News Government False https://player.amperwavepod
John McMullen joins Zander Krause on Birds 365 to react to reports of the Philadelphia Eagles' closed-door meeting with Jalen Hurts, A.J. Brown, and Saquon Barkley. McMullen calls the move “performative” and breaks down what it really means inside the locker room.#PhiladelphiaEagles #JalenHurts #AJBrown #SaquonBarkley #Birds365SUPPORT & MEMBERSHIPSJoin JAKIB Sports for giveaways & bonus perks:https://www.youtube.com/@jakibsports/joinFOLLOW JAKIB SPORTSYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jakibsportsTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/JAKIBSportsInstagram: https://instagram.com/jakibsportsFacebook: https://facebook.com/JAKIBSportsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/birds-365/donationsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
The purge of career prosecutors at the Department of Justice continues as the regime fired a US Attorney in Sacramento hours after she reminded a Border Patrol Chief to abide by court-ordered restrictions on immigration raids.President Trump sharply escalated his attacks on the Bureau this week by falsely accusing the FBI of fomenting the violence at the Capitol on January 6th.Attorney General Pam Bondi issued a memo this week directing agencies to arrest every person suspected of threatening or assaulting a federal law enforcement officer.The Department of Justice issued a subpoena for Fulton County District Attorney Fani Willis' travel records as Trump continues his revenge tour.Plus listener questions…Do you have questions for the pod? Follow AG Substack|MuellershewroteBlueSky|@muellershewroteAndrew McCabe isn't on social media, but you can buy his book The ThreatThe Threat: How the FBI Protects America in the Age of Terror and TrumpWe would like to know more about our listeners. Please participate in this brief surveyListener Survey and CommentsThis Show is Available Ad-Free And Early For Patreon and Supercast Supporters at the Justice Enforcers level and above:https://dailybeans.supercast.techOrhttps://patreon.com/thedailybeansOr when you subscribe on Apple Podcastshttps://apple.co/3YNpW3P Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What do you do when you accidentally let one rip in front of someone you barely know? Do you own up to it, or just pretend nothing happened? In this episode, we take a break from politics (don't worry, we'll be back next week!) to talk about fart etiquette, burps at the dinner table, and why “performative males” might just be the new douchebags. We also go on a nostalgia trip with 2000s music videos, rant about Tim Cook removing the AUX jack, and debate whether wired earphones and tote bags make you a poser or just practical.Send letters to malibag@jimandsaab.com! Join jimandsaab.com to get exclusive perks! Each donation goes to helping children with cerebral palsy.
(00:00) What exactly is a “PERFORMATIVE MALE”? Well, we find out!(20:12) Bill Koch from the Providence Journal joins Toucher & Hardy to weigh in on the current state of the Boston Red Sox(32:00) What strategy should Cora roll with tonight against the Yankees?(PLEASE be aware timecodes may shift up to a few minutes due to inserted ads)CONNECT WITH TOUCHER & HARDY: linktr.ee/ToucherandHardyFor the latest updates, visit the show page on 985thesportshub.com. Follow 98.5 The Sports Hub on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Watch the show every morning on YouTube, and subscribe to stay up-to-date with all the best moments from Boston's home for sports!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
M&M hour is back!! Melissa Reich joins Mandy to share her thoughts on this season of RHOM and RHOC and start to dissect the first few episodes of RHOSLC. Lots of giggles and talk of gout!Check out part 2 of M&M Hour on: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-bish-therapist/id1702959562Follow Melissa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourbishtherapist/Follow Mandy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandyslutsker/
Performative males, hustle bros, sissies, and manfluencers. In episode 140 of Overthink, Ellie and David discuss masculinity. What does it mean to be a man, and how has the concept of masculinity changed over time? They look at the male loneliness epidemic, the current influx of male influencers spreading right-wing rhetoric on the manosphere, and some of the main features of masculinity. Is masculinity rooted in violence and homophobia, or is it possible to have a healthy model of masculinity? In the Substack bonus, your hosts get into the mythopoetic men's movement and the connection between haircuts and masculinity.Works Discussed:Robert Brannon and Deborah Sarah David, The Forty-nine Percent Majority: The Male Sex RolePierre Bourdieu, La domination masculineR.W. Connell, Gender and PowerJames W. Messerschmidt, Hegemonic MasculinityJoseph Pleck, The Myth of MasculinityTodd W. Reeser, Moderating Masculinity in Early Modern CultureFrans de Waal, Chimpanzee Politics: Power and Sex Among ApesSupport the showSubstack | overthinkpod.substack.com Website | overthinkpodcast.comInstagram & Twitter | @overthink_podEmail | dearoverthink@gmail.comYouTube | Overthink podcast
We have a fun one for you! Comedian Alec Flynn joins us to talk about The Performative Male (Are they a red flag? Is there a spectrum? How do you spot the “bad ones”?) as well as Black Cat Boyfriends vs. Golden Retriever Boyfriends. We also break down an email from a male listener about why he's having trouble dating and offer advice for how to build confidence, and we discuss the notion that men have disappeared from the social and/or dating scenes and why. Other topics include: Leg tattoos, conspiracy theories about gambling, and panda diplomacy (we learned something new). Before Alec joins us, we're talking about green flags in guys – everything from how they treat animals to drinking habits to what kind of music they like. Enjoy! Follow Alec on Instagram at @bigalflynn, check out his podcast Big Al's Grill ASMR, and get tickets to his shows at https://punchup.live/alecflynn. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for LIVE SHOW TICKETS and more! Thank you to our partners this week: Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at https://quince.com/gge. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at http://article.com/gge. Bilt: Get points by paying rent at https://joinbilt.com/gge. Function: Our first 1000 listeners get a $100 credit toward your membership at https://functionhealth.com/gge or use code GGE100. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first order and free shipping at https://nutrafol.com with code GGE10. Hungry Root: Get 40% off your first box and free item in every box for life at https://hungryroot.com/gge with code GGE.
Kevin Williamson sits down with Adam Lankford, professor of criminology and criminal justice at the University of Alabama, to delve into the complex factors behind mass violence and ideological killings—from video games and social media to sexual frustrations and extremist ideologies. The Agenda:—Trends in mass shootings—Performative nature of violence—The role of ideology in mass violence—The impact of video games—Incels and femcels—Policy suggestions The Dispatch Podcast is a production of The Dispatch, a digital media company covering politics, policy, and culture from a non-partisan, conservative perspective. To access all of The Dispatch's offerings—including access to all of our articles, members-only newsletters, and bonus podcast episodes—click here. If you'd like to remove all ads from your podcast experience, consider becoming a premium Dispatch member by clicking here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Alo launched a $3,600 bag, while Aldi launched a free bag… and that explains the economy.The #1 issue this week is stagflation… The Fed has to decide to put out the fire or fix the flood.Pinterest is celebrating the rise of the “Pin Dude”… but in social media and tech, nice guys finish last.$PINS $SPY $LULUWant more business storytelling from us? Check out the latest episode of our new weekly deepdive show: The untold origin story of…
Jump in with Carlos Juico and Gavin Ruta on episode 251 of Jumpers Jump. This episode we discuss: Donald Trump theory, Celebrity clone theory, Mickey 17, Guy who got facial surgery to get with his ex, Mafia, Black Ops mandela effect, Dominos pizza mandela effect, Ai pranks, Philippines Ai heist, New sunlight tech, Mark of the beast, Dark ai theories, Ai predicting the future, Street performer ritual, Reddit theories, Fabricated social media ranked, Performative theories, Niches, Hobbies, Sleep, Getting into flow state fast, Daydreaming theories and much more! Thanks to our Sponsors: Shop, save, and SCOOOORE today at https://Wayfair.com https://bit.ly/GoogleGeminiJumpersJump Download the app, use code JUMPPOD, and claim your Spins after your first five dollar wager. Get in the game with DraftKings Casino—home of the largest jackpot win in online casino history. The Crown is Yours. Gambling problem? Call 1800 GAMBLER. In Connecticut, help is available for problem gambling call 888-789-777 or visit CCPG.org. Please play responsibly. Twenty-one plus. Physically present in Connecticut, Michigan, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, West Virginia only. Void in Ontario. Eligibility restrictions apply. New customers only. Non-withdrawable Casino Spins issued as fifty Spins per day for ten days, valid for featured game only and expire each day after twenty fourhours. See terms at casino.draftkings.com/promos. Ends October 15, 2025 at 11:59 PM Eastern Time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The lethal U.S. military strike on a speedboat in the Caribbean was more about putting on a show than countering the drug trade out of South America. And it's not even clear that the people killed on the boat were running drugs, or that any contraband was bound for America. Meanwhile, if senators are truly concerned that local police departments are insufficiently staffed, then they should pass a bill to fund more officers instead of pushing the charade that Guard troops can legally do police work. Plus, Russia is running out of ammunition, Ashli Babbitt was no hero, and a dissection of Trump's fatuous 'seven wars' lie. Lt. Gen. Mark Hertling joins Tim Miller. joins Tim Miller. show notes Hertling's piece, "Bombs Won't Win the War on Drugs" "Honoring Ashli Babbitt Dishonors the Military" Hertling on the 'perils of yes-men' Rand Paul on the speedboat bombing Bulwark Live in DC and NYC at TheBulwark.com/events. Toronto is SOLD OUT
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