Synful Ladies

Episode 121 - When Trust is BrokenIn the latest installment of The Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft dive into an email from a listener about broken trust and fluid bonding. Then the Ladies discuss whether to safeword or not in a scene to verify if your top will respect it. Listen now as the Ladies talk through it all.

Episode 119 - Pool Party Shenanigans In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft recap the 20th Annual The Club OKC Pool Party! We dish on all the sexy games, bets, and amazing party fun! The weeklong party was amazing so listen along as the Ladies help you feel like you were there! 

Episode 118 - What Do You Do When The Right Thing Isn't Enough?In this episode, the Synful Ladies answer a question from a listener about what to do when even doing the right thing doesn't seem like enough. When others in the community aren't being held accountable, what else can you and more importantly should you do?

Episode 117 - Are You Getting On the Coaster?In this episode of Synful Ladies, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle 2 listener's dilemmas: hidden messages and rollercoaster emotions. The Synful Ladies help give perspective to two very different situations! Listen now!

Episode 116 - Time to ClarifyJoin the Synful Ladies as they discuss a listeners play time experience that left them confused in this latest episode! Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft dive into when to clarify meanings of words and thing before play time so you can get the most of out of your time!

Episode 115 - What Do You Do Without Support?In this latest episode of The Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft address some listeners problems with partners or family that isn't supportive of their polyamory journey. From family not being accepting to partners not being supportive when they aren't the one going on dates, the Ladies address the root of the issues and get to the heart of the matter. 

Episode 114 - Where'd the Rest of It Go?In this episode of The Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft address DE8's email about her poly reputation amid a break up. Then the Ladies tackle how to leave appropriate comments and compliments on social media posts without being too pushy. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 113 - One Step Forward, Two Steps BackIn this episode, the Synful Ladies answer an email from a listener. CD has a polyamory dilemma: her fiancée is jealous of her new partner and how much attention CD is giving to her new partner. Listen with the Ladies as Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft offer their perspective on her particular situation. 

Episode 112 - “Come with Expectations, Leave Disappointed”In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss what happens when you arrive to an event with expectations and it doesn't work out the way you expected it to. Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn discuss why coming with expectations can backfire and ruin what could be a phenomenal night. 

Episode 111 - “I Thought You…”In the most recent installment of The Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft answer an email from a listener about broken boundaries while swinging and help navigate how to move forward repairing the broken trust. Join the Ladies as they offer their unique advice!

Episode 110 - Secondary? How Do I Help?In this latest episode, the Synful Ladies are back and dive into a listeners dilemma of a new partner feeling secondary to a nesting partner. The Ladies address the different types of polyamory, and why hierarchy isn't for everyone. Listen now!

Episode 109 - Krazy Winter Nights RecapIn this episode, the Synful Ladies recount everything that happened at Krazy Winter Nights. From the most expensive impact scene ever to all the sexy fun and shenanigans, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft cover it all!

Episode 108 - Updates and Ultimatums  In this episode of the The Synful Ladies, we hear back from a listener, K, with an update from her situation discussed in episode 107 and then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft dive into an ultimatum situation- or is it really a boundary that's been taken the wrong way? Join the Ladies as we discuss all the details and figure out possible solutions for this issue. 

Episode 107 - Compliments and ConundrumsIn this most recent installment of The Synful Ladies, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn dish on their best sexy compliment received and recap their latest shenanigans. Then the Ladies answer a listener's question and give advice on what do when your partner wants to get back together with an ex. Listen now!

Episode 106 - Ghosting Unexpectedly   In the latest episode of The Synful Ladies, join Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft as they tackle a listener's question, how do you stop overthinking when a partner ghosts you to end things? Then the Synful Ladies address a mutual breaking of trust in a fetlife post and discuss how to get it back after it's been lost. Join the Ladies now!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 105 - That's the Worst!Join the Synful Ladies in their latest episode as they discuss their worst dates and experiences. Embarrassing moments and cringe worthy dates, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft have had their fair share and share it all with you! Listen now!

Episode 104 - PCAP Recap!In this episode, the Synful Ladies dish on all of the sexy swinging antics they got up to in Florida! After traveling to Miami a little early to celebrate Lady Kroft's birthday, the Ladies dove right into all that Podcast A Palooza had to offer! From teaching rope classes and performing, to having a blast with the hosts and other podcasters, the Synful Ladies spill all the sexy tea!

Episode 103 - Do You Want Advice or Constructive Criticism?In this episode, the Synful Ladies are back on their wild ride of hilarity and shenanigans bouncing around from their weekend recaps to medical issues in the lifestyle to the main topic: when is advice warranted and is constructive criticism advice or is it uncalled for in the community? Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how many requests for help, opinions, and advice can produce a wide range of responses and how to tailor your post to get the most helpful responses. Join the Synful Ladies as they break it all down!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 102 - Punishment, Revenge, or Something Else?In this episode, the Synful Ladies recap Rope Jam and the Upline Intensive Don and Lady Kroft taught at IX in Kansas City. Next the Ladies tackle a divisive and controversial topic from a post on Facebook. When a couple opens up from same room only play to separate play and one half gets to play before the other decides they don't want to and goes back to same room only. What should be done when the other partner who didn't play suddenly wants to go play? Listen as the Ladies tackle it all.Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 101 - Weekend RecapIn this episode, the Ladies resume their regularly scheduled recording schedule and dive into the sexy shenanigans they've been up to in the last month. From an orgy in the wild to trippy trips to KC, the Ladies tell all!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a LifestyleShow Less

Episode 100 - “You're the Asshole”In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft answer an email from a listener about a Dd/lg relationship miscommunication and then address what is and isn't reasonable expectations for communication frequency and types of communication when you have a partner or with someone else. The Synful Ladies break it all down.Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a LifestyleShow Less

Episode 99 - It's the Recap!In this episode, the Ladies dive into all of the sexy shenanigans experienced at The 19th Annual Club OKC Pool Party! From Don's mouth getting him into trouble in public to the amazing games on Saturday, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tell all!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 98 - What Do I Do?In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss the upcoming Pool Party at the Club OKC and then dive into a couple emails from listeners. In the first, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn address what happens when feelings get caught in a non-romantic BDSM dynamic and the feelings aren't reciprocated. Next, they address a listener's dilemma of potential cheating in the swinging world with a miscommunication about hotwife-ing. Listen along as the Ladies give their advice on it all!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 97 - Talking About the UglyIn this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft respond to a listeners email about a breach of trust while swinging. The Synful Ladies address how to approach your spouse with breach of trust issues and how to talk about the ugly feelings and emotions such a violation of trust can dredge up. Click play and listen with the Ladies!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle 

Episode 96 - One Penis PolicyIn this episode, the Synful Ladies address two listeners issues with polyamory. In the first, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn discuss when a metamour tries to dictate what can and can't happen with their partner's other relationships. Next the Ladies address what should be done when a partner tells the other she can't have another partner because he “just doesn't want [her] to”. Join the Synful Ladies and listen along!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle 

Episode 95 - Hold up Shallow HalIn this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft address dealing with fundamental issues in a relationship that is attempting to swing but starts to lean closer to tempting one of the partners to cheat. Then the Ladies talk about “wife snatching” and ending up the odd man out when it comes to couple play. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 94 - Wife's MasterIn this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about an issue with a nesting partner whose wife has a Master who recently moved to the same town and then Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a listener's email about an unusual fetish. Listen as the Ladies dissect it all!

Episode 93 - ObjectivityIn this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a group sex dilemma with a hinge polyamorous woman and her two partners which ended with one partner and their date feeling used and objectified from the sexual encounter. Group sex can be fun but the Synful Ladies delve into what can go wrong when communication gets ignored in the heat of the moment. 

Episode 92 - Do You Have To Let It Linger?In this episode, The Synful Ladies address what happens when a boundary gets crossed when you didn't know you had that boundary. Sometimes emotions and feelings can linger for days or even weeks afterwards and that is normal. The Ladies talk about the after effects and how to work through those emotions and process them appropriately. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 91 - Are Your Standards Too High or Are My Standards Too Low?In this episode, the Ladies discuss a listener's problem with his partner's Standards, namely she says she can't ever find any play partners who meet them and she's lowering herself to his standards to play. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how subjective standards are and why using language like “falling on a sword” and “taking one for the team” can rapidly affect your relationship. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 90 - Scening Now or Later? In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss their weekend shenanigans and also what fun things that are coming up for the whole crew: from Rope Intensives to the Club OKCs pool party, the calendar is quite full! Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how to approach someone in a dungeon to scene the same night you meet them. Going over all the important things to make sure you hit and figure out prior to scening with someone new, the Ladies hit it all. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 89 - Is there a Correct Way to be Polyam?On this episode of The Synful Ladies, the Ladies discuss a couple different situations where the question has arose: is this not the “right” way to be polyamorous? From someone who is a hinge in a poly-vee dynamics to someone who is poly-saturated and trying to be upfront with new people about what they can offer, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss and offer their take on what should be done. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 88 - Rule Breakers?In the latest installment from the Synful Ladies, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a couple different posts seen in the wilds of social media. First up, if a partner tells you their rules within their marriage and then breaks those rules, who is at fault? Next, is it on the person who accepts a request to play from half of a couple to check with the other half to be sure it's okay? Join us as we discuss!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 87 - KWN Recap In this episode, the Synful Ladies get back to business and recap all the fun and debauchery that was had at Krazy Winter Nights. From almost driving past hotels, to meeting some amazingly sexy people, to hosting the largest rope class ever, the Ladies dish on it all! Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 86 - BDSM Dynamics through a Poly LensIn this episode, the Synful Ladies have a special guest join them for an intriguing topic: how is a D/s dynamic in a BDSM relationship viewed when transitioning into the world of polyamory. The Ladies take a deep dive into the nuances of what perceptions can be wrong and should be reevaluated along with their special guest star. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 84 - The Lifestyle Fixes Everything… not!In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about what happens when couples get into the lifestyle and begin swinging - to save their marriage or relationship. (Sidenote: It's not usually good). Using play partners to attack or hurt your significant other, is never a good sign and the Synful Ladies talk about all the ways things can go wrong and what you can do if you find yourself in a situation like this. 

Episode 83 - Partner's Partners ProblemsIn this episode, the Synful Ladies offer their take on how a listener can address problems with their metamour taking on more of a parental role for the listeners children and refusing to have any communication or interaction with the listener. A basic respectful relationship is needed for any successful meta-meta relationship but when that isn't happening, what is the responsibility of the mutual partner to intervene? The Synful Ladies dish out the truth as they see it! Listen now!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 82 - Self Conscious vs Self Confidence In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn answer a listeners question about how to handle scars and other areas of our bodies that we are self-conscious about before, during, and after playtime. Discussing how self consciousness can turn into self-confidence, the Synful Ladies talk about different ways and strategies to manage being self-conscious.

Episode 81 - Odors and Scents and Smells, Oh My!In this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss a listener's dilemma: he wanted to play with a couple but the woman had an odor and he couldn't perform. The Ladies talk about all the possible reasons smells happen; from pheromones to sweat to bacteria, there are a wide range of potential causes and the Ladies talk about why that smell may not be what you think it is: pheromones can be a shock if you've never had experienced them before. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 80 - HabitsIn this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about something we all have but can forget we have : habits. From “Do you get in a rut or habit of eating at the same place?” to “do you make it a habit to always initiate play in the same way?”, the Synful Ladies cover all different types of habits you can have from grooming, to play, to clothing, to eating. What habits to they discuss that are different than yours? Or the same? Let the Ladies know!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 79 - Laughter is the Best Medicine In this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about some of the funniest and silliest stories they've experienced in the lifestyle as well as some that others have experienced. Laughter and fun is had by all as the Ladies sit back and enjoy the stories. 

Episode 78 - Why the Judgement? In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn talk about the judgment that can be passed on people who are into looking for casual no strings attached sex without a relationship. The judgment and gatekeeping seem to come out towards those who are upfront about their intentions from the get go due to assumptions that they aren't really being honest about what they want. The Synful Ladies look at all the reasons why judgement is bad for the community as a whole and how to handle it when you don't agree with what someone is looking for. 

Episode 77 - De-escalation station  In this episode, The Synful Ladies tackle something that happens often in polyamory but yet doesn't get talked about a lot: de-escalating a relationship with a partner. Trying to navigate from partners, lovers, to friends or more of a friends with benefits situation without a true break up is an especially hard thing to do. The Ladies offer their opinions and thoughts on one listener's particular situation.  Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 76 - Couple Profile Tips and AdviceIn this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft share their insights into the world of social media and looking for other compatible couples to swing with. From what to include on your profile to what not to say when you chat with another couple, the Synful Ladies dish on it all. 

Episode 75 - Comparison Catastrophe In this episode, the Synful Ladies answer a listener's question: how do you stop comparing yourself to your metamours, (your partner's other partners). Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft weigh in and offer advice on how to tackle the jealousy, insecurity, and fears that could all be contributing to the comparison phenomenon. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 74 - She Does but I Don't In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft offer advice on what to do when one half of a couple is seriously talking about ending participation in the lifestyle but the other isn't ready to leave yet. Getting down to the reason that the partner who is wanting to leave is key because it may be that instead of leaving the lifestyle, you simply need a break. Burnout comes in all forms even for multitaskers like swingers, kinksters, and polyam people. Hear what insights the Synful Ladies had to offer!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 73 - Update and a What Would the Synful Ladies Do Dilemma?In this episode, the Synful Ladies hear back from a listener with more information and detail about their previous question and situation. This is an update from the situation featured in Episode 67 - Awkward Encounters. Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle a “What Would You Do?” Question posed in a social media group. Find out what the Synful Ladies would do and what they think of the update from the listener!

Episode 72 - Rumor SpreaderIn this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft answer a listener's question about addressing rumors. Whether you've been in the lifestyle for years or if you're just starting out, rumors can ruin a good thing. The Ladies discuss all the complications that can arise from the different ways you can tackle hearing rumors about you and your partner especially when it's not true. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 71 - Pool Party Recap In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft recount all the sexy, synful shenanigans that were had at The Club OKC Pool Party 2022! From the corn hole competition, to the sexy pool side games on Saturday, the Synful Ladies dish on it all! It was amazing and fun and if you didn't make it out this year, be sure to put it on your calendar for next year!Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 70 - Helicopter Mother and PolyamoryIn this episode, a listener writes in asking for help in addressing her overbearing mother who wants to join her on a potential polyamorous date. Amidst the uncertainty and excitement of new relationships potentially forming, a mother feeling left out is added to the mix. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss how to set boundaries, expectations, and how to approach uncomfortable conversations. Email: synfulladies@gmail.com(13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / TwitterSynful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos Check us out on Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle  

Episode 69 - Do You Love Me? Prove itIn this episode, the Ladies address a dilemma posted in a Facebook group. After their first lifestyle experience didn't go so well, the boyfriend is insisting that his girlfriend try again because he didn't get enough attention. However, his girlfriend isn't bi and isn't sure she wants to try again. So out comes the infamous phrase “If you really loved me you would _______” Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn address all the options and concerns that go along with trying to persuade your partner using this phrase.