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In today's episode, we talk with Pastor John Cherne, who is over young adults at Grace (18-35 year olds).  We talk about students going to both Christian university and secular university, and the unique challenges to each, as well as opportunities that parents and students can take even now before students leave.We hope this episode has some great insights and reminders for you as parents even if you don't have a senior yet!  Resources:Surviving Religion 101, Michael KrugerFor the upcoming summer calendar (filled with lots of opportunities!) for graduating seniors, please e-mail John at jvanne@gracepres.org 

In this episode, we interview Dan and Ben Learned, asking them to reflect on Ben's teen years and lessons learned both by Ben and by Dan.  This is a great reflection and encouragement to parents who need some empathy as they work through the "growing pains" of raising teens.  We hope you enjoy!www.gracepres.org/studentIf you haven't read this book yet, you need to!

We catch up with Aaron Walters, our new Pastor of Middle Adults (35-50), as he reflects on student ministry, wins for parents, and insights into ministry.  This is a good listen for all parents as they get to know Aaron and his heart for the Lord and for others!

In this episode, we're talking with Brenda Garrison, our Director of Women's Ministry at Grace.  Brenda is the mom of three adult daughters and is a speaker and author too.  The focus in our conversation is how to love our kids when they rebel.  Brenda has not just studied this but has experienced it first-hand.  We hope this episode encourages you as you may navigate tough seasons with your kids.  Don't forget to check out the resources below!RESOURCES:Check out Brenda's "Love No Matter What" book HEREE-mail Brenda:  bgarrison@gracepres.orgGrace Women's Ministry:  https://www.gracepres.org/womenParenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family, by Paul Tripp

According to the National Center for Education Statistics, for the 1970-71 academic year, the average in-state tuition and fees for one year at a public non-profit university was $394. By the 2020-21 academic year, that amount jumped to $10,560, an increase of 2,580%.  This is a cumulative price increase of about 567% during the last 50 years.What are parents and students supposed to do?  The world says "take on as many student loans as you need!  Everyone is doing it and you'll pay it off eventually..."Greg Gipp joins us today to both offer help and hope that we don't need to go into a mountain of debt to achieve the goals and dreams God has laid on our hearts.  We have options!  And, we can avoid becoming a slave to the lender, which impacts every part of our lives.  This is a must-listen for parents and students who are in their upper high school years.To get a hold of Greg Gipp, please e-mail John at jvanne@gracepres.org Additional resource we recommend parents and students watch:Borrowed Future:  How Student Loans are Killing the American Dream

Stats:https://www.statista.com/topics/1249/homosexuality/#topicHeader__wrapper https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/06/13/chapter-3-the-coming-out-experience/Books:Love Thy Body:  Nancy PearceySpace at the Table: Brad and Drew HarperEmbodied:  Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say:  Preston SprinkleHomosexuality and the Church:  Mark YarhouseUnderstanding Gender Dysphoria:  Mark YarhouseEmerging Gender Identities:  Mark YarhouseGay Girl, Good God:  Jackie Hill PerryWhat Does the Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality?:  Kevin DeyoungBorn this way?:  J. Alan BranchIs God anti-gay?:  Sam AlberryResources:1.  The Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender:  Parenting LGBTQ Kids2.  Christian sexuality video guide for parents and teens (e-mail jvanne@gracepres.org for a license to view this)3.   Axis Parent's Guide to LGBTQ+4.  Rooted Ministries Podcast Episode:  Understanding and Caring for Same-Sex attracted Teenagers

Stats:https://www.statista.com/topics/1249/homosexuality/#topicHeader__wrapper https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/06/13/chapter-3-the-coming-out-experience/Books:Love Thy Body:  Nancy PearceySpace at the Table: Brad and Drew HarperEmbodied:  Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say:  Preston SprinkleHomosexuality and the Church:  Mark YarhouseUnderstanding Gender Dysphoria:  Mark YarhouseEmerging Gender Identities:  Mark YarhouseGay Girl, Good God:  Jackie Hill PerryWhat Does the Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality?:  Kevin DeyoungBorn this way?:  J. Alan BranchIs God anti-gay?:  Sam AlberryResources:1.  The Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender:  Parenting LGBTQ Kids2.  Christian sexuality video guide for parents and teens (e-mail jvanne@gracepres.org for a license to view this)3.   Axis Parent's Guide to LGBTQ+4.  Rooted Ministries Podcast Episode:  Understanding and Caring for Same-Sex attracted Teenagers

Hey everyone, this is part 2 of our conversation on "The Talk", in which we cover many of the distortions of sex in our culture.  This is such an important conversation so we hope this episode helps you along with all the resources below to engage your teens well!www.gracepres.orgResearch, Resources, and Data on Sexuality and TeensPorn, Lust, and Masturbation:https://www.defendyoungminds.com (for younger kids)https://protectyoungeyes.com/resources/https://fightthenewdrug.org/resources/https://exoduscry.com/pcnp/resources/Barna statistics on pornBarna additional statistics on porn Sexual activity before marriage and healthy boundaries:Pew research stats on Christian views of premarital sexDesiring God article on healthy sexual boundariesArticle on healthy dating boundariesSexual Assault/Abuse statistics:Definitions and stats on sexual harrassment Rainn stats on sexual violenceSafe Horizon definitions and stats on rape and sexual violenceImportant Interviews/Documentaries/Movies to Watch (we recommend parents preview them first):Brain, Heart, World (free, but need to sign up first)Social Media Dangers Documentary—Childhood 2.0Raised on Porn DocumentaryShould Christian parents ever give their kids a smartphone? (Gospel Coalition)Teens share what age they think they will give their kids a smartphone The Heart of Man Movie (You can purchase or rent it)Monitoring software that could be helpful in setting boundaries:BarkApple Screen TimeCovenant Eyes

In this episode, we work through  part 1 of a 2 part series on how to have "The Talk" with your kids (btw, it's actually an ongoing conversation!). In this episode, we discuss ways of being proactive in sharing God's design of sexuality and things to keep in mind as you begin to engage your kids in a healthy way. Check out Part 2, where we go further into discussing awareness of the distortions and sexual cultural moment we find ourselves in today.Resources and Links:GracePres.org/StudentsSex Education Curriculum for Families and Parent Conversation Guide - Rooted Talking to Your Kids About Sex: A Parent-Child Bible Study - Covenant EyesAxis Ministry Parent's Guide to the Sex Talk with kids

Hey, Teleios listeners!As our world returns more and more to "normal"  we recognize that it can mean we are susceptible to quickly return to a kind of over-busyness that grabs ahold of our lives and our kid's lives and defines our priorities and values without our permission. What can be done?? What wisdom does scripture have to offer us? Tune in to hear more!GracePres.org/StudentsScripture References: Deut 6:4-9, Col 3:23, Heb 10:25, Mark 2:27Resources:- "The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry" - John Mark Comer- "Estimated probability of competing in professional sports"- "Part Two: Sports and the Busyness Epidemic"- "The Remedy for an Addiction to Busyness"

Hey Teleios listeners!Todays conversation is with our long-time ministry-partner and friend (as well as Andrew's uncle), Dan Learned! We take a deeper dive together as we try to understand the fear of failure, and more specifically the fear of our kid's failure, and some steps to take to break that fear cycle. For more info on the parenting class lead by Jeff Ringenberg, you can send him an email here:jringenberg@yfcpa.org

Hey, Teleios listeners!This season of Teleios, we're doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.Today we get interview our very own Cara Schuck and hear her share her story! This is the second installment of a two-part episode, so if you haven't listened to part 1, go back and listen now!Cara Schuck:  cschuck@gracepres.orgwww.gracepres.org/student

Hey, Teleios listeners!This season of Teleios, we're doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.Today we get interview our very own Cara Schuck and hear her share her story! This is the first installment  of a two-part episode, so be sure to subscribe so you don't miss part two!Cara Schuck:  cschuck@gracepres.orgwww.gracepres.org/student

This season of Teleios, we're doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.Today we get interview our very own Andrew Kemp and hear him share his story! This is the second instalment  of a two-part episode, so be sure to listen to part one first.Andrew Kemp:  akemp@gracepres.orgwww.gracepres.org/student

This season of Teleios, we're doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.Today we get interview our very own Andrew Kemp and hear him share his story! This is the first of a 2 part episode, so be sure to tune in next week to hear how it concludes.Andrew Kemp:  akemp@gracepres.orgTherefore I Have Hope: 12 Truths That Comfort, Sustain, and Redeem in Tragedy, by Cameron Colewww.gracepres.org/student

We're starting this season by doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.In "John's Story Part 2", John shares more about his years working in the youth ministry. Where it was, how it's changed, and where we are now.www.gracepres.org/studentGeneration Z Packet, including the youth ministry vision and resources

We're starting this season by doing deeper dives into John's, Cara's, and Andrew's stories.  These are more of a storytelling format but we also hope you can glean some good encouragement, truth, and even advice as you help make disciplemakers of the next generation.In "John's Story Part 1", John shares his story from birth up through college, focusing on questions of identity and how God was at work throughout his story.www.gracepres.org/studentGeneration Z Packet, including the youth ministry vision and resources

In this episode, we interview Dan Learned, Central Illinois Area Director for Youth for Christ, elder at Grace, and long-time student ministry leader and advocate.  Dan and Carol have 4 kids with the youngest in college currently.  Dan has a passion for helping families develop their students well as they near high school graduation.  With so many options available, so much external pressure, and quite often, so many internal expectations, it is very difficult to find the wisest post-high school path for our students.  Dan shares his wealth of experience and insight as you continue to disciple your teens.   Enjoy!Career Path Counseling (a helpful resource Dan has used with some of his kids in helping them think about who they are and what God is calling them to): https://dreamofmonday.com/coaching-services-1www.gracepres.org/student

In this episode, we talk with John's wife, Beth, who is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who worked at Christian Psychological Associates for 13 years and now has her own practice, Bethany Vanne Counseling , is a mother of 3, and has served in the student ministry as a volunteer over much of the last 10+ years.We discuss Beth's observations on mental health trends she's been noticing lately and spend time on teen's emotional and mental health as well as parent's proactive and responsive ways of engaging their teens' hearts and minds.  We also discuss the big topics in teens' worlds; stress, anxiety, depression and suicide.  These are such important issues and we hope it can be a springboard for you into researching (see the resources below!) and engaging your teens on a daily basis.Helpful Resources Out of this Episode:Are My Kids on Track?: The 12 Emotional, Social, and Spiritual Milestones Your Child Needs to Reach (check out on Amazon)Rooted Parents:  Resources for parents of teens who struggle with anxiety (https://rootedministry.com/parenting/resources/anxiety/) and depression (https://rootedministry.com/parenting/resources/depression/)Rooted Parent Podcast (great podcast with variety of parenting topics!)101 ideas for coping with anxiety and depression (https://ccofmooresville.com/101-ways-to-cope-with-anxiety-and-depression/)Emotional Words Wheel; a helpful tool to use in helping children and teens better identify their feelings as they share and you attune (Click HERE to see it)Suicide/Self-Injury Warning Signs and What To Do:  https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/how-we-can-all-prevent-suicide/

In this episode of Teleios, we interview our dear and long-time friend Darin Ballard, who has served in the Boys Brigade and Student Ministry for 30 years at Grace!He tells great tales of youth ministry past and we also have a great time getting to talk about what kind of things never really change in youth ministry and how we can best come alongside you parents out there. You'll love this episode! Enjoy!

In this episode, we talk with Heather Quiroz, a youth ministry leader, new mom, and author of the book, First Century Youth Ministry – Exploring our Jewish Roots to reclaim Discipleship.  We are excited to share our conversation about how relationships, ministry, and ultimately God's word draws students to the truth of Jesus and to grow in maturity to be like him!To learn more about Heather's ministry check out https://firstcenturyyouthministry.com/Youth are Yotzrim (Podcast): https://youtube.com/channel/UCIBCMT_uVOj42TDTd0zYkXw

In this episode, we talk with one of our ministry's mentor parents and shepherding elder Jeff Ringenberg.  Jeff has had a long time influence on youth through his work at Youth for Christ as well as all of his investment with families at Grace.  He shares wisdom from his years of personal and professional experience and failures and gives great insights for all parents to think about.  We also discuss the Paul Tripp parenting class that Jeff has led a number of times.Resources from our conversation:Parenting:  14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your FamilyRelief For Hurting ParentsThe CureWaking The DeadGentle and Lowlyhttps://gracepres.org/studentDetails about the Spring 2021 Paul Tripp Parenting Class at Grace:This is a class that began February 24th and runs through the May 12th on Wednesday nights.  The class is for parents of all ages and even grandparents, if they have an active role in raising their grandkids.  We walk through Paul Tripp's book called "Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles that can Radically Change Your Family".  UPDATE:  Unfortunately, registration is closed for this class since we had such a great sign-up!  We'll be looking to do another class in Fall 2021.  Stay tuned and e-mail John at jvanne@gracepres.org if you're interested

In this episode, we interview Sgt. Josh Kober who has been on the police force for 12 years and is also a believer who attends Grace with his family.  We discuss what it's like for him to be a police officer, especially in light of this past summer's unrest and anti-police sentiment.  We hope it encourages you as you engage your kids and help them strive to continue to see things in a fair and balanced way.

In this episode we sit down with our long time disciple making friend, Bill Allison,  to talk about what discipleship looks like at home with our families!Resources:What Does It Look Like to Follow Jesus Together as a Family… http://bit.ly/2kKhZNMThe  Disciplemaking Dad… http://bit.ly/KnTHS7Just for Fun: A Parenting Strategy NOT Endorsed by Focus on the Family… http://bit.ly/14Zg8WSBill Allison's Blog: www.CupOJoewithBill.comCadre Missionaries: www.CadreMissionaries.comBill's book: The Disciplemaking Genius of Jesus… http://bit.ly/2BfV6Jg

In this episode, we get to talk with Leah Nieman, mom of two, speaker, blog writer, and host of the podcast "Tech Talk for Parents"!Leah's Website:https://leahnieman.com/Tech Talk for Parents (podcast):https://leahnieman.com/podcasts/

In this episode, we interview Becca Eller, former student, current teacher, and known by many for her awesome YouTube channel, FarAwayDistance!

In this episode, we interview Greg Maston, Director of Disciplemaking, former Youth Director, and long-time friend.  We pick his brain on how to best encourage and equip parents as they disciple their kids.For more information on Life on Life groups at Grace:https://www.gracepres.org/lifeonlife

Hi everybody! Welcome to our new podcast, Teleios! We are a podcast here to encourage and equip parents and leaders as they make mature disciple makers of the next generation. In this episode, we talk about what the word "Teleios" actually means, and also get to discuss about our own high school experiences.  Our hosts for Teleios are John Vanne, Cara Schuck, and Andrew Kemp, who work with Jr and Sr. High students and their parents at Grace Presbyterian Church in Peoria, ILwww.gracepres.org/student