Terry Beckstrom - Life Moments

In today's podcast, we discuss Leadership in times of Stress.  There is a lot going on around the country and around the world right now and most people are wondering where we go from here. In times of trouble, we turn to God and to leaders who help put things into perspective, who look for calm and not chaos.  We need leaders at home, in businesses and in every aspect of life, to step up to the plate, and that's where you come in. Be a leader today in your home, and wherever you may be. Until next week...

In today's episode we discuss Power Connections which is where (or who) we go to to get a power boost in our lives. Too many people go to places where there is no power, places, and people who actually drain them and leave them feeling worse than they did before. There are negative and positive paths for power connections and we need to recognize which paths we are taking when life gets a bit confusing or things are not going the way we expected them to go. Find positive power sources in faith, family, and friends, and walk away from those things and people who drain you of power. Seek wisdom and positivity in your life and plug into the things and the people who can help you become the best person you can be. Power yourself up today! Until next week... Disclosure: We are not talking about electricity, but about the power found in faith, family, and friends and pursuing positive ventures which lead to wisdom and a greater purpose in life.  

In today's podcast, we discuss how success is defined and how to develop A Mindset of Success in life. Far too many people are allowing society, media, movies, and 'influencers' to define success for them. Success for so many means cars, houses, and money. Money won't buy you happiness and that is not the kind of success that we are talking about on today's podcast. Success in life is living a life of gratitude and contentment and being the best person that you can be. We are constantly looking for ways to validate who we are, and people to validate us. We have already been validated by God, so what other opinions really matter? Exactly! Perhaps today may be a good day to check out the man (or woman) in the mirror. Ask yourself who you are and if you are being the best person you can be. Success is about touching lives. Success is about connecting (real connections) with people. Success lives on the inside and not on the surface. Put your mindset of success to work today...You will be glad you did. Until next week...

Today's podcast (LM48) is titled Coming Out of Your Shell, and as you may have guessed the topic centers on helping those who want to develop a bit more openness and confidence when dealing with others. Now, this podcast is intended to help those who WANT to project more approachability and friendliness. This is not an attempt to get all of the shell dwellers to come out, although the air is fine out here:) I am often asked by those I meet to help them in this area, so I wanted to offer some very simple advice on the topic (which is the foundation for all successful human to human encounters). So, if you are someone who wants to project more openness and friendliness this podcast is for you! If you want a lot more information on today's topic, pick up a copy of my latest book First Impressions which is available at all online book retailers. Thanks for joining us. Until next week... Buy First Impressions Book

In today's podcast, we discuss The Value of True Friendships. In this world of social media overload, many cherished words have been hijacked to include the word 'friend'. A friend and a social media 'connection' are two totally different concepts. Being a true friend takes effort, and sometimes a lot of effort. Besides faith and family, a friend should be no more than third in your line of importance. Don't forget to value your friends and whatever you do, STAY CONNECTED WITH YOUR FRIENDS! Don't give up on them. Pick up the phone today and call a friend, or better yet go visit a friend. You will be glad you did. Hope you have a great weekend. Until next week... PS-If you have not purchased a copy of my latest book First Impressions please do so today.  Order a copy of the book First Impressions 

In today's episode, we discuss The Leadership Crisis that seems to be plaguing this country right now. We discuss where the foundation for leadership begins, which is in the home. We as parents need to take great responsibility to raise kids who can make a difference in the world they live in. It all starts at home and the message is clear to mom and dad; 'This one is on us.' We also discuss leadership within the workplace, and the need to strive for excellence in all that we do. And to our younger generation, we encourage them to become leaders at an early age, to stand up for what is right and to make good decisions in their lives. Leadership...Something we need a lot more of. Thanks for joining us today! Until next week...

In today's podcast, we will be discussing communication, which is something that seems to be on the decline in this country both at home and in the workplace. As a parent, you need to get this one right. There are consequences which will result from a lack of communication with your children. Take communication seriously. In business, we must communicate, and as a leader, communication is so essential. Communication...It's a good thing! Thanks for joining us today. Until next week...

In today's podcast (LM-44) we will be discussing This Bumpy Road Called Life and how we react to the bumps and potholes that we encounter. Life is full of ups and downs and there are a lot of people hurting right now around each of us. For some that hurting person may actually be you. We discuss how our attitude affects us, and how having a positive attitude can help, especially during the trying times. We also give a few suggestions on what we can do keep our moods up, and the importance of helping others. I hope that whatever you may be going through in your life, that you don't let your circumstances define who you are. Thanks for joining us today. Until next week...

In today's podcast (LM-43), we discuss parenting (aka Child Rearing) with our special guest Mr. John Kay. John is the father of two amazing and successful girls and he and his wife (Jeannie) are definitely 'expert parents' when it comes to raising kids into successful and happy adults. John is a man of few words, but when he speaks the words are always words of wisdom.  We will be discussing the necessity of proactive parenting and leading your kids on a path that leads to successful adulthood.  John Kay is the IT Director for Trumbull Services based out of Hartford, CT. He is a graduate of Anderson College and Coastal Carolina College, where he was a standout NCAA D-1 baseball player. John and his wife can usually be found in either Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Atlanta, Georgia or Sumter, South Carolina. John is as I like to say, 'scary smart' and a man of strong faith, character, and wisdom.  My thanks to John for joining us and passing on some of his wisdom. Today's podcast was recorded in Sumter, South Carolina. Thanks for joining us. Until next week...  

LM-42 Where Are You in Life Today? In today's podcast, we discuss the question 'where are you today in life?' We all have ups and downs in life and at times life can seem a bit overwhelming. We all have good times and then times where we seem to hit rock bottom. Our response and our attitudes during these times will often help to determine the outcome. Do we develop a bad attitude, or get jaded towards life or people? Hopefully, we have healthy coping mechanisms that kick into action when we run into life's obstacles, and we are able to persevere and move forward. Faith, family, and friends are always a welcome refuge when times get tough.  If you need professional help or counseling seek it. Don't let your environment or any other factor put a damper on your ability to live life courageously and with an attitude of gratitude. Live life with a purpose and help as many as you can along the way. Until next week...   Terry's Books on Amazon (Click Here)  

In Today's episode (LM-41) we discuss The People Who Shape Our Lives and influence us. Our heroes... Who were your heroes growing up? Who are your influences now? Who are your kid's influencers? I hope that if you are a parent it is you and for all the right reasons. if you are letting social media and those around your kids to be their biggest influencers then you may want to push pause and reevaluate what your role in your kids lives. You as the parent must take a stand and be the parent your son or daughter needs, not someday, but today! Make a difference in the lives of those around you for good. Today is a great time to start! Remember if you have not ordered your copy of my newest book First Impressions please do so today. The books are selling out fast. You will love the book and it is definitely a book you will want your kids to read. Get copies for everyone in your family and all your friends. They will thank you one day... Buy First Impressions Now  

In today's podcast, we talk about my new book First Impressions, The Art and Practice of Making a Profoundly Positive First Impression. The book was just published and is on sale at all online retailers. It is a must read for everyone!! Please join the movement and post pictures on your social media of the book or you holding a copy of the book at locations around the world. Be sure to tell us 'where the book is' in your posting! Please buy copies of the book for all your friends and family... Thanks and have a great week! https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1977208517/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 BUY A COPY OF FIRST IMPRESSIONS ON AMAZON NOW

In today's podcast, we discuss the critical importance of Parental Communication and steps that you can take to increase the lines of communication in your household. There is nothing more important in a parent-child relationship than great communication. That could not be more important at any time in history than right now. How about you and your kids. Do you have excellent communication?  Don't ever underestimate the value of communication in every aspect of your life, and I am not talking about electronic communication! Connect with your kids every day. Until next week...

In today's episode, we will be listening to an excerpt from Chapter 4 (Vehicle Security) from my first book Livesafe, A Practical Guide to Personal and Family Security (2014). I am currently recording an audiobook and will play a rough excerpt from a chapter on vehicle security, and specifically on the topics of road rage and carjacking. If you don't have a copy of the book, I encourage you to buy one for everyone in your family. The information could actually save your life... Order Livesafe now Thanks for joining us! until next week...

In today's podcast, we will be discussing Unintended Consequences which occur when we deal with the people around us, especially those we are encountering for the first time. It is always worth repeating that we need to consider the emotional responses of others that we meet and deal with in every aspect of our lives. People want to be treated well and with respect, and too often we forget that, and we reap the consequences of our actions (or projections). As I have said many times, 'people have emotions and emotions drive people to action'. This is something we should keep in mind when dealing with our fellow humans. Smile, be kind and be the best person you can be everywhere you go, and with everyone that you meet. Until next week... * If you want to learn more about body language and image projection check out my book Spoken Silently @ Order Spoken Silently Now

In today's episode, we discuss Finding Your Passion, what your passion means to you, and how your passion affects your family. Hopefully your passion's include faith, family and your friends, and hopefully, you keep them in perspective.  How about you? What are your passions? Do you live for your passions? Is a hobby your passion? Contemplate your passion and what it does for you in today's podcast. Thanks for joining us today! Until next week...

In today's podcast, we will be hosting our special guest Brad Smallwood and discussing Financial Fitness, something that we should all consider.  Brad is a self-made financial guru who founded the website WWW.SSIMPLESAVER.COM which provides valuable information in articles that Brad writes on issues related to saving money, investing and preparing for retirement.  Brad discusses some of the big issues that put people in financial peril and gives some great insight into what we can do to avoid falling into a financial pit. The podcast is recommended for anyone from 12-99 who wants to save a little more money and better prepare for a lifetime of financial fitness. Check out Brad's website and we encourage you to forward this podcast to your friends on your social media sites. Thanks for joining us today, and a special thanks to Brad Smallwood for his great advice and willingness to be on today's show. Please subscribe to Life Moments and receive notifications when new episodes are released. We have a great line-up for 2019! Until next week...

In today's podcast, we will be discussing Security Awareness which is something that all of us should stay on top of. We will be talking about Situational Awareness, which is the foundation for every good personal security education, and other topics which relate to keeping you and your family as safe as possible. I would suggest that you encourage your spouse, parents, kids, and friends to listen to today's podcast and that if you don't have a copy of my book Livesafe that you order yourself and every member of your family a copy today. Get educated on personal and family security and be ready to act and survive should you find yourself in a critical threat situation. Thanks for joining us today, subscribe and tell all your family and friends about us. Feel free to share this podcast on your social media posts. Join us next week as we welcome our special guest Brad Smallwood, who is a walking encyclopedia on money saving and retirement tips. Until next week... Order your copy of LIVESAFE

In today's podcast, we will be discussing 2019 Resolutions. We all seem to go into every new year with noble intentions to improve ourselves in some way, but we often don't follow through. We are going to talk about why that is, and what we can do to change our mindset. We will give some suggestions on how you can make 2019 your best year yet. Making some lifestyle changes for 2019 is up to you and making a decision to be a better version of yourself is always a positive thing. Wishing you and your family an outstanding 2019. Until next week...  

We sit down for a couple of minutes on Christmas Eve with my mother to discuss a couple of Christmas stories from her childhood. We will also hear a stirring rendition of Twas the Night Before Christmas. From our family to yours, wishing you a very Merry Christmas! PS-Keep an eye out for Santa...

In today's podcast titled Christmas in the South, we discuss some interesting factoids about Christmas, as well as family Christmas traditions. I hope that as you enjoy these last few days before Christmas 2018 that you reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and that you enjoy the time with your family and friends. We will also be hosting a Christmas eve podcast special and I hope that you can join us for that. A very Merry Christmas to you and your family! Until Christmas eve...

In today's podcast, we will give you 12 Suggestions for Having a Less Stressful Christmas. We all seem to have more stress around Christmas and it does not have to be that way. I hope that the next 10 days are filled with laughter and joy and that you experience the true meaning of Christmas. Until next week...

In today's episode, we are going to try out our first Freestyle Friday program where we discuss current event topics. We discuss the drug epidemic in the United States, smartphone addiction and what we can do to avoid both. I hope that you are doing all that you can to fight the drug epidemic, to include talking to your kids, friends and family members about the dangers of drugs. I also hope that your smartphone has not taken over your life and if it has, that you do something about it. Have a wonderful weekend. Until next week...

Good Morning and welcome to a new week! So here we are a few days from Thanksgiving 2018. It came quickly and many of us are preparing for family and lots of food. So today we are issuing the Thanksgiving Week Challenge, and I hope you participate. Call or go see five friends that you have lost contact with and reconnect. You will be glad you did. Have a great Thanksgiving! See you on Friday...

In today's podcast, we discuss a question that we all have to answer at some point in our lives, and the question is Who Are You?  There are a lot of people that are searching for their identity, and that is especially true of so many teenagers today.  We discuss the three components that make up who we are. A physical component, a mental/emotional component, and a spiritual component. Hopefully, you are engaging all three today. Thanks for joining us. Until next week...

Good morning and welcome to Monday Motivation. You are capable of more than you think. Are you going into this week with confidence and a positive attitude?  Be the best version of yourself today, and make this an amazing week! See you on Friday...

In today's episode we discuss Personal Security, and specifically, address the issue of mass shootings in the US. The dramatic rise in the number of mass and active shooter events is definitely a cause for concern. We also discuss what I believe are contributing factors in mass shooting events and what we can do to help the situation and be prepared to act if a threat event were to occur. Education and preparation are key, not panic and paranoia.  I also recommend my book LiveSafe, A Practical Guide to Personal and Family Security, to everyone, and believe that every family in the country should own at least one copy. The book deals with all issues of safety and security, and also has chapters dealing specifically with situational awareness and active shooter situations. Order Livsafe Book I hope that you take the issue of personal and family security seriously and that you stay vigilant, and let law enforcement know when you see or hear about something that causes you concern. Remember security is about awareness, education, and preparation.  Our prayers and condolences go out to the families of those who lost their lives, and to the family of the hero, the sheriff's deputy who gave his life fearlessly in the tragic recent event in California. I hope that you all have a safe and relaxing weekend. Until next week...  

In today's episode, we will be discussing some Interesting Facts About Body Language, and how knowing about these sometimes strange facts can allow you to be better informed in all things nonverbal. As humans, we have a lot of behavior that is inexplicable, and although it sometimes can't be explained, it is fun to at least know that it exists. We will be discussing why women are generally better at reading body language than men, why women's intuition is a reality, and how pacification behavior can help us to self-calm in anxious situations. We are glad you joined us today, and we hope that you subscribe to the podcast, and tell all your friends about the podcast. Life Moments is now available on all major podcast platforms, and we would love to continue to grow. Hope you have a great week. Until next week...

A good Monday morning to everyone, and welcome to a new week! In today's Monday Motivation we discuss why it's ok to smile and have fun at work, and how your productivity is enhanced in the process. Have a fantastic week.     

In today's podcast, we discuss Body Language Secrets for Introverts.  So many people believe themselves to be introverts, and if you are one of these people it's totally fine. An introvert is someone who is generally shy, and the opposite is an extrovert, someone who is 'outgoing'.  Many of the people that I have met that consider themselves to be an introvert wish that they were more outgoing.  Today we are going to give our introverted friends some body language secrets that will help them appear and feel more confident around people. They are simple to implement and each time you do so, it will be easier. Introvert or extrovert, they are both fine, but the added confidence may just help you in your business and social lives. Glad you joined us today. Check out our book Spoken Silently for a lot more info on body language, or our online course Body Language for Positive First Impressions. Please subscribe and let all your social media friends know about us.  Until next week...    

In today's podcast, we discuss Finding Your Identity in life. Far too many people walk around with some label that was imposed on them by someone else. Some have been labeled as stupid, bad, ugly or perhaps told that they won't amount to anything. Unfortunately, for some, they believe what they have been told. In life we don't get our identity from others, frankly, they don't have the right to define us.  Remember that you are important and that you matter. Don't let others define you. Find your true purpose in life, look up and not down. And by the way, you are awesome and beautiful! Have a great weekend and week. Until next week...

Welcome to Monday Motivation, a little jump start for your work week.  Take a quick look under the hood today and check your attitude and how you treat others. Be positive, be happy, and be the best person that you can possibly be. Have a great week...

In today's episode, we discuss The Power of Color, and how color psychology plays a part with our emotions and the emotional response that others have towards us. We all have our favorite color, and the colors that we wear send statements of our mood and how we are trying to portray ourselves to others. Colors have meanings and send messages. What's in your color statement today? Hope you have a great weekend. Until next week...  

In today's podcast, we discuss The Power of Words and how they can build relationships and destroy them in a matter of seconds. Too often we say things that we regret with our spouses, our friends, business associates, and family members, and once the words are released we can't bring them back. Destruction of the relationship often follows. We give you some tips today on how to become a person who deliberately chooses their words, and uses words to build people up, and not tear them down.  In business, in friend and family relationships, words do matter. Thanks for joining us, please subscribe and share this podcast your social media platforms. Until next week...

In today's podcast, we discuss The Value of Time, how we spend our time, and how to get the maximum return on our investment. Time is something that we cannot buy, and there is no guarantee as to how much of it we will actually have. The thought that 'there is always tomorrow', is not necessarily the case. We also give you six recommendations on how to maximize your time and live a more fulfilled life. Time, use yours wisely! Thanks for joining us today. Please subscribe and tell your friends about Life Moments. Until next week...

Welcome to a new day! Life Moments Monday Motivation is here to help you jump start your week with a little positive energy. You can't always control your environment, but you CAN control your ATTITUDE! Have an awesome week! Until Friday... 

In today's podcast, we discuss The Art of Listening, and how important good listening skills are to your business and personal lives. Do you know someone who is a great listener? Are you a great listener? If not you can be. We give you some techniques that you can use to become a better listener, and perhaps even attain the coveted title of 'An Amazing Listener'. Thanks for joining us today! Tell all your friends about Life Moments and be sure to subscribe. Until next week...

In this week's episode, we discuss The Importance of Communication with Your Kids. As parents, perhaps our most important role is to raise our kids to be productive members of society. Too often parents allow outside influences to play a heavy role in their child's development, while they sit on the sidelines and watch. Take an active role in the well being of your child by actively communicating and by being an example of truth, kindness and doing the right thing.  We are glad you joined us today, and we pass our wishes of safety to all in the path of Hurricane Florence. Until next week...

In today's podcast we discuss The Mystery of Territory, and the three 'territory zones' we tend to work and play in. Territory is an interesting subject and, it's quite intriguing to watch people engage in their territory rituals. How about you, do you have any quirky territory rituals? Most of us do, and that's ok. Thanks for joining us today, and I hope you join us every week for each episode of Life Moments. Until next week...

In today's special segment podcast, we discuss Dealing with Conflict. Conflict for most just seems to be a part of life and we deal with it. There are however techniques to help us deal with conflict that we should all be aware of, not the least of which is conflict avoidance. We will discuss some simple methods that you can use to avoid and deal with conflict, whether we are discussing global conflict or a small conflict between two family members, the techniques can be helpful. Thanks for joining us today. Join us Monday for Monday Motivation. Until next week... FYI: Life Moments is now available on iTunes/Apple Podcasts, Google Play/Google Podcasts, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Podbean, and Sticher.

LM MM2 Welcome to Monday Motivation. Today we are sending you 3 minutes of motivation to start your week. Have an amazing day and week! See you on Friday for the next episode of Life Moments.  

In today's podcast, we discuss Emotional Intelligence, what it means and what you can do to improve your EQ. Emotional intelligence is having a keen awareness of your own emotions, and the ability to recognize and attend to the emotions of others. People with high EQ are authentic, people who put others first and they have compassion for their fellow man.  We encourage you to check your emotional intelligence meter today, and if you need an EQ boost, then hopefully today's podcast will help. Thanks for joining us today, and we hope you join us each week. Until next week...    

In today's podcast, we explore The Mind-Body Connection, and how our expressions and posture can actually affect our emotions. We discuss Embodied Cognition, and Facial Feedback and what we can do to enhance our moods when we are feeling down. Taking up positive facial expressions as much as possible and maintaining a positive body posture, are always good, and today we will add to the reasons why that's so true. Thanks for joining us today. We hope you have a great weekend and week. Until next week... 

In today's podcast, we discuss The Power of a handshake, and how people make quick value judgments of us based on our handshakes, and how we do the same with them. Never underestimate the power and influence of a quality handshake both in business and social interactions. For a more expanded lesson in handshakes and body language, check out my book Spoken Silently, The Art and Practice of Reading People, available at online retailers. Hope you have a great weekend and week. Until next week...

Two minutes of motivation to start your work week. Have an amazing day! See you Friday for our next episode of Life Moments.    

In today's podcast, we discuss The Power of Hope, and why we should never give up hope in our lives. Life can be like a roller-coaster where we experience ups and downs and sharp turns that seem to leave us hopeless. There are those who are experiencing pain and suffering in their lives today, and they could use some hope. The first place to look is to God. Too many people try to find hope in some outside source, person, or thing, and that will never lead to true happiness and hope.  We also encourage you to be there for family and friends, to encourage and lift them up, especially in times of struggle. Find your HOPE today. Thanks for joining us today and I hope you have a great week filled with hope. Please subscribe and pass this podcast on to all your friends.  Until next week... 

In today's podcast, we discuss the importance of Living a Life of Character. Character includes morals, values, honesty, and courage. Character is your reputation, traits that describe you, and there has never been a more important time to embrace a life of character. When it seems like society's morals are going down the drain, there is something you can do about it. It starts with you and extends to those within your scope of influence. Teach your kids the value of high character. You won't be disappointed that you did, and stand up for what is right every day along the way. Thanks for joining us today and we hope to see you next week. Until next week...

In today's podcast, we discuss life and the need for Moving Beyond Mere Existence. Too often we allow ourselves to get caught up in routines and when this happens we suffer and others around us suffer. We discuss ways to move beyond the ordinary in our lives and offer tips on what we can do to make a difference in the world we live in. It starts with us, and it requires a daily desire to be the best person we can be every day. Thanks for joining us today.  Until next week...  

This is the first podcast in our American Patriot Series, and today we sit down with Joshua Caleb Green. Caleb discusses being raised in a difficult background and how he overcame obstacles in his early life that led him to where he is today. Caleb served in the USMC and completed a combat tour in Afganistan. Following his tour in the Marines, he took advantage of the GI bill and attended the University of South Carolina, graduating in May of 2018. Caleb provides us an interesting look into the life of an American Patriot and offers us some great advice on diet, exercise, and attitude. You will definitely want the kids to listen to this one! Please encourage your friends and family to listen to Caleb's inspiring message. I want to thank Caleb for participating in the interview. We will have more interviews with American patriots in future podcasts so be sure to tune in each week. Until Friday... *There's a little sound distortion on the front end but it evens out quickly.  

In this week's podcast we discuss Having an Attitude of Gratitude, and how doing so will change our entire perspective on life. Too often we develop an attitude of entitlement, where we believe that we deserve whatever we want. This type of attitude will leave us empty and always wanting something new. We also discuss the need to raise children who are grateful, and the need to set the example in our homes. Please subscribe and if you like what you are hearing please share on your social media outlets. Thank you for joining us today, and please join us next week as we attempt to tackle a touchy subject, which needs to be addressed.  If you missed any episodes we encourage you to take the time to listen. If you want any additional information on me or my company please check out my website at www.thebeckstromgroup.com Until next week...

In this week's podcast, we sit down in Sumter, South Carolina with baseball legend Bobby Richardson and discuss baseball, faith and some of his amazing life moments. Bobby played for the New York Yankees from 1955-1966 and had a pivotal role in what has been described as the greatest baseball dynasty of all time. Bobby still holds several world records in baseball after being out of the game for over 50 years. Bobby played in over 1400 games, was an 8-time all-star, won five consecutive Gold Glove Awards, played in seven world series games, walking away with rings from four. He remains (and likely will remain) the only player in the history of baseball to ever be named a world series MVP from a losing team (1960). His accomplishments on and off the field over the years have been nothing less than amazing. He is a humble man of immense faith and character and has been a role model to so many for decades. The interview is around 55 minutes, but you won't want to miss a single minute of this one. We hope you enjoy the interview, please let your friends and family know about today's program and post it on your social media.  A special THANK YOU to Bobby Richardson for agreeing to sit down with me today. This was a special day and I am indeed grateful. Please join us next Friday and every Friday for a new and exciting episode of Life Moments, and please subscribe to the podcast as well. Until next week...