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Hosts Shari (@sharilachelle) and Cheryce (@aunaturel) are two (happily) divorced women who are optimistic about life, but real about love. Join us weekly as we share the lessons we've learned about love and marriage, stories of navigating single life as 4


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    S2 Ep16: Optimistic...But Sometimes You Just Need to Vent!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 32:10


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce candidly talk about some of the woes faced while being single. Just a little vent sesh with fam! Cheryce is going to say I do to TheraBreath and Shari said I do to Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep15: From Isolated and Controlled to Free and in Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 69:54


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their old friend and fellow optimistic divorcee, Charmaine Bamberg. Charmaine shares the stories of her first marriage and divorce, her second chance at love and her new engagement, and the lessons learned. Shari loves permanent daylight saving time. Cheryce says I do to The Nudge app. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Charmaine Bamberg:  https://www.instagram.com/charmaine.alexandria/ https://www.instagram.com/dasaucycouple/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep14: Game, Set...Match!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2022 42:28


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce share more of their online dating chronicles. Cheryce is done with rising gas prices. Shari is saying I do to prayers and miracles. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep13: Soulmates, Abstinence, and the Lies People Tell...w/Alicia and Ninia

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 70:02


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined again by their girlfriends and favorite panelists, Alicia and Ninia. They have a little girl talk and lots of laughs as they give their 2+ cents on the idea of soulmates, cheating, abstinence, and more! Cheryce is done with Da Brat's wedding hair. Shari is done with furniture where assembly is required. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Alicia: https://www.instagram.com/boots9477/ Ninia: https://www.instagram.com/ninisykes2020/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep12: "Everybody's Got Standards Until They're Horny" with Troy Spry

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 77:07


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined again by love/relationship coach and author, Troy Spry. This time around they are discussing his book, Teach Me How To Love: Why What You Don't Know Will Hurt You! Troy also drops other valuable gems about dating and relationships. Shari says I do/I'm done to Valentine's Day. Cheryce is done with not being a h*e. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Troy Spry:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/xklusive5/ Website: https://www.xklusivethoughts.com/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep11: Make Money Moves w/Latasha Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 44:50


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by Latasha Peterson of Arts and Budgets. She shares useful information and tips about side hustles and how money can be made. This conversation is great for people who have found themselves without that second income after a break-up or divorce AND for anybody looking to make extra money! Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Latasha can be found under Arts and Budgets on all social media platforms: IG, Facebook, and Twitter. Also there is TONS of info on her website: https://artsandbudgets.com/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep10: "Reset Your Expectations" with Brittany B.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 65:56


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their friend and "cousin", Brittany. As a contributor to our former blog, Britt shares her marriage/divorce story, updates us on her current status, and drops some awesome nuggets of wisdom. Shari says I do to a funny holiday memory. Cheryce says I do to Nick. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Brittany: https://www.instagram.com/simplyb86/ https://www.instagram.com/simplybesthetics/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep9: True Story: The OD Dating Chronicles

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2021 58:43


    They are back from their break and on this episode, Shari and Cheryce update you on their online dating chronicles. The ladies also make plans for more dating adventures. Shari AND Cheryce say I do to True Story. Shari also says I do to Stacey Abrams and her gubernatorial run. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep8: Grand Opening, Grand Closing...of a Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 63:53


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by special guest Natalie Torian. She shares the story of her marriage and its demise after almost 30 years! Her story is one of courage, hope, and living happily ever after...divorce. Shari is very satisfied with Hello Fresh. Cheryce is not feeling grocery store produce. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep7: Dutch, Smash, Duncle...Girl Talk w/Alicia and Ninia

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 77:24


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their girls, Alicia and Ninia, as they give their takes on some hot topics from social media surrounding dating and relationships. It's a fun convo you don't want to miss! Cheryce says I do to Good Witch. Shari says I do to Squid Game. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Alicia: https://www.instagram.com/boots9477/ NInia: https://www.instagram.com/ninisykes2020/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep6: "Lord if you want me to be a nun, just say that!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 83:16


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce share their dating chronicles as they navigate the online dating world. Shari is done with Dolly. Cheryce says I do to the Wayans. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ To share your own dating chronicles, you can send an email to theoptimisticdivorceespodcast@gmail.com. Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep5: "We had to BECOME The Optimistic Divorcees" w/Heartbreak Coach LaNise Thrasher

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 49:11


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by Love Cheerleader and Heartbreak Coach, LaNise Thrasher. She shares her journey through marriage and divorce at a young age and how her healing led to her helping others heal. Cheryce says I do to Regina Hall. Shari is done with Will Smith's GQ spread. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ LaNise Thrasher Find all things LaNise here: https://www.instagram.com/thelovecheerleader/ https://linktr.ee/thelovecheerleader Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep4: Divorce Discussions For Children w/Gretchen Campbell, LCMHC

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2021 50:55


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Gretchen Campbell as she shares the do's and don'ts of discussing an impending divorce with children. Shari is saying I do to herself. Cheryce is saying I do to her chosen family. Join Shari in #45DaysofGratitude by using the hashtag on IG. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Gretchen A. Campbell, LCMHC Find all things Gretchen here: https://linktr.ee/grow_encourage_empower IG: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenacampbell_lcmhc/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep3: A Story of Marriage, Mental Health, Loss, and Finding Love Again w/Jayme Dominicak

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 87:10


    September is National Suicide Prevention Month and on this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by Jayme Dominicak as she shares the experience of her life with a spouse who suffered with mental health issues, the loss of her husband to suicide, and her healing process, which included finding love again. Cheryce is saying yes to chicken. Shari wants to stop procrastinating. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Jayme Dominicak IG: https://www.instagram.com/starlandrealestate/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StarlandRealEstate or https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100008210269104 Website: https://starlandrealestate.com/ Resources: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ 1-800-273-8255  Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep2: "Let's Reframe the Idea of Approaching" with Relationship Coach Troy Spry

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2021 51:08


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce have the perfect follow-up to last week's discussion as they talk all things dating with Relationship Coach, Troy Spry. Tune in as he gives practical tips, expert advice, and steps on toes! Shari is excited about September. Cheryce gives props to Tiffany Haddish. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Troy Spry: IG: https://www.instagram.com/xklusive5/ Website: https://www.xklusivethoughts.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz, Cheryce, and Shari - Podcast producers

    S2 Ep1: Tag Team Back Again w/Guests Alicia and Ninia

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2021 81:31


    Shari and Cheryce are back with Season 2! On this episode they are joined by their friends and special guests, Alicia and Ninia, as they discuss emotional availability, what they bring to the table, and more. Cheryce is not impressed with Ye. Shari is happy to be back. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Alicia: https://www.instagram.com/boots9477/ Ninia: https://www.instagram.com/ninisykes2020/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep25: Safaree Tales and Storytime with Cheryce

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2021 31:54


    On this week's episode, Shari and Cheryce give their take on what Safaree recently shared about his thoughts on marriage. After that, prepare to gather 'round for Cheryce's story-time. Shari is done with fat. Cheryce is all for Coach Prime. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep24: Fairy Tale to Nightmare: Why Charmaine Williams Developed The Breakup Toolkit Box and Support Group

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2021 68:44


    This week Shari and Cheryce are joined by special guest, Charmaine Williams. She shares the story of her fairy tale courtship, her nightmare marriage, and the great tool she developed to help others who are going/may have gone through a similar experience. Shari is done with Republican law makers. Cheryce is done with Carl.   Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Charmaine Williams: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alwayscharmaine_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WarriorCharmaine https://www.alwayscharmaine.com/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep23: Marriage Then&Now, The Search for Likable Men, and Other #RelatableContent

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2021 53:45


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce chit-chat it up about old school relationships, how it is these days on the search for likable men, and other relationship stuff you can relate to! Cheryce has mixed feelings about a podcast. Shari is always down for reality TV.   Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep22: Healing Inside and Out, The Healthy Makeover with Stacy Wright

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2021 54:36


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by special guest Stacy Wright as she discusses her marriage/divorce story, her healing journey, and how it led to her 100+ pound weight loss! Shari is done with Delta. Cheryce is done with judgmental people.   Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Stacy Wright: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehealthy_makeover/ Website: https://thehealthymakeover.com/blog/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep21: Single & (Sometimes) Stereotyped

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2021 57:53


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce talk about some stereotypes that they've been lumped in as single women and how they aren't true for all singles! Cheryce says I do to tilapia. Shari is all about Bluey.   Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep20: 4 Ways You Can Support a Divorcing Friend/Family Member

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 33:19


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce share ways a person can support a loved one who may be going through a divorce. These are 4 of the main things that helped them during their journey. Shari is listening to her body. Cheryce is all for Juneteenth.   Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Book mentioned: Prayers That Avail Much https://www.amazon.com/dp/1577949242/ref=emc_b_5_t Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep19: Co-parenting Perspectives

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 50:41


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce are joined by Jason Grant and Franchesca Rivers as they each share their co-parenting stories post divorce. Cheryce had too much communion. Shari is glad God answered Cheryce's birthday prayer. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Jason Grant:  https://www.instagram.com/jgrant81/ https://www.facebook.com/TheJGrantExperience Franchesca Rivers: https://www.tiktok.com/@couponfran?lang=en Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep18: Relationship Hot Topics: Keeping Up With Kim, Jenny, Porsha, and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 53:03


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce chat it up about relationship happenings in the pop culture world. Cheryce loves the glow-up. Shari is done with last week. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep17: Real About The Journey To Motherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2021 60:32


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce are joined by very special guest, Rochelle Gapere. This attorney, author, and happiness coach shares her unconventional journey to motherhood as she also drops gems about happiness and perspective. Cheryce is over expensive experiences. Shari is done with living single. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Follow Rochelle: https://www.instagram.com/rochelle.gapere/ https://linktr.ee/rochelle.gapere Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep16: Real About Mental Health

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 50:00


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce are joined by special guest, Dori Bowling, MSW, LCSW. Dori is a mental health professional with over 20 years experience in the field. She shares her insight and wisdom regarding the importance of therapy to maintain mental health and the equally important act of self-love. Cheryce is over the Gemini bashing. Shari is thankful for YOU. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Follow Dori Bowling On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theedoriginger/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep15: Real About Love...The Second Time Around

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 53:03


    On this episode Shari and Cheryce are joined by special guest, Chloe Kinney. Chloe shares the story of her first marriage, how she was DONE with love once that was over, and her journey to optimism, believing in love again, and eventually her second marriage. Cheryce is done with the masochists. Shari says I do to Amazon. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Follow Cousin Chloe: https://www.instagram.com/cousinchloe/ https://cousinchloefab.com/ Kevin Samuels Spoof: https://www.instagram.com/tv/COjfvS1HAKm/ Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep14: Real About Motherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2021 50:53


    On this episode, Shari "Oprahs" Cheryce about motherhood and her journey. Listen as Cheryce keeps it real about being a mama. Shari is DONE with the Hallmark holidays. Cheryce gets a kick out of smart Jabria. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Cheryce's blog, So I was thinking...: http://www.cherycefthompson.com/so-i-was-thinking Some Jabria Joy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNMsJl3hfzg https://www.instagram.com/tv/COY9QNKBnjL/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep13: Real About Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2021 40:16


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are chit-chatting about what they've learned about the realness of marriage, what people may encounter when they take that plunge, and how they should prepare. Cheryce is over credit. Shari is over Shari. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep12: Letting Go For Love: A 17 Year Love Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 80:24


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their good good friends, Krystal and Marcus Ivy. They share their story of love, separation, and reconciliation that is sure to encourage and inspire! Shari's done giving energy to death. Cheryce is here for the hair on Netflix. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep11: Expert Dating Tips to Help You Mingle if You're Single

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 43:33


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by The Matchmaking DUO. Tana and Kelli are Essence bloggers, professional matchmakers, and certified relationship coaches who are sharing some dating gems. Cheryce is over Earth. Shari is happily welcoming spring. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees This week's special guests: Tana Gilmore and Kelli Fisher, The Matchmaking DUO https://www.thematchmakingduo.com/ The Matchmaking DUO on all social media Kristin Bryant: Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep10: Even a Seed is Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2021 72:42


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their good friend, Kristin. Listen as she shares her experience as an optimistic divorcee and her journey to love again. Shari is into Snowfall and accents. Cheryce is turned off by social media. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant: This week's special guest and singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song https://www.instagram.com/krissyrbee/ https://www.facebook.com/kristin.gregory.14 B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep9: Singleness and Grief, The Side You Never Hear

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 56:09


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce share their experiences with loss and grief as single women. Shari cheers Paige on. Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ So I was thinking...'Dear Brother' blog post: http://www.cherycefthompson.com/so-i-was-thinking/dear-brother Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep8: Sister Talk: Views on Love and Life as Children of Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 65:51


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their friends, Melissa Fredericks, Monique Marshall and Melanie Goolsby, three sisters who share their experiences of what it was like to deal with their parents' divorce and how it affected their views on love and marriage, their own relationships, and more. Cheryce is cool with new school parenting and Shari is hella annoyed with Derrick Jaxn.  Join our email list: http://eepurl.com/hm9QTT Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Our special guests:  Melissa Fredericks - https://www.instagram.com/mrskevonstage/; https://www.instagram.com/thelovehourpodcast/ Monique Marshall - https://www.instagram.com/givmesomo1/; https://www.instagram.com/step.ahead.learning/ Melanie Goolsby - https://www.instagram.com/youvegtmel/; https://www.instagram.com/abcsforme/ Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep7: Overwhelmed by Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 73:48


    In addition to sharing their stories, Shari and Cheryce will also be checking in with other optimistic divorcees and their lives after. Today's guest is Darian "DeeDee" Elliott. She details her journey in love, from tragedy to triumph. Cheryce has a love/hate relationship with Married at First Sight. Shari big ups the Carters.  Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Book Mention - It's Not Supposed to be This Way, by Lysa Terkeurst https://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-Supposed-This-Disappointments/dp/1400210976/ref=asc_df_1400210976/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=317283876377&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=13529420014564614394&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9021592&hvtargid=pla-528359183955&psc=1 Thanks to:  Our special guest:  Darian "DeeDee" Elliott:  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callmedeeda/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/callmedeeda?lang=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/darian.yanceymackey Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep6: Men, Women, And All The Misconceptions In Between

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 79:39


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by an insightful panel of people to discuss and bring clarity to some of the misconceptions men and women have about each other. Alicia Smith, Donte' Jackson, Jason Fredericks, and Tony Baker are their special guests. Cheryce is tickled by social media. Shari is fed up with "whiting". Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Our special guests:  Alicia Smith - https://www.instagram.com/boots9477/ Donte' Jackson - https://www.instagram.com/donteljackson/ Jason Fredericks - https://www.instagram.com/JsonFredericks/ https://thejasonfrederickscompany.com/ Tony Baker - https://lnk.bio/TonyBakerComedy Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep5: Financial Empowerment: Rebuilding After Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 70:41


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by financial coach, Stephanie Lyons, who shares practical and empowering financial tips for divorce/life after divorce. Cheryce submits her resignation, while Shari celebrates phenomenal women. Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Our special guest:  Financial Coach, Stephanie Lyons - https://www.instagram.com/masterpiece_financialcoaching/ Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep4: Church, Sex, and Relationships - A Chat w/The Girls

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 89:01


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce are joined by their friends, Dana and Faith, as they chat it up about church and dating, sex, relationships, and MAFS. Cheryce is comfy in her Savage Fenty. Shari is loving reality TV. Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Our special guests -  Dana - @danamyte781 on IG Faith - @faithovereverything_podcast on IG Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep3: To Bumble Or Not To Bumble...That Is The Question

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 41:46


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce talk about where they stand on love and relationships. Cheryce is loving Lenten season. Shari is paying attention to green flags.  Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep2: Days of Our (Married) Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2021 79:03


    On this episode, Shari and Cheryce share their marriage and divorce stories. Cheryce is done with Bumble but may try something new. Shari is done with Paige's excuses. Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Thanks to:  Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    S1 Ep1: Where the Hell Have We Been?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 41:30


    Shari and Cheryce share what they've been up to over the last 4 years and why they decided to come back. They also share what they're loving in the segment, I Do/I'm Done.  Instagram: The Optimistic Divorcees: https://www.instagram.com/theoptdivorcees/ Shari: https://www.instagram.com/sharilachelle/ Cheryce: https://www.instagram.com/aunaturel/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheOptimisticDivorcees Dana's podcast:  This Should Be In a Book: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-should-be-in-a-book/id1523059081 Thanks to:  Kristin Bryant - Singer/songwriter of The Optimistic Divorcees Outro Song B.Cuz - Podcast producer

    We're Baaaaack!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2021 9:01


    Hosts Shari (@sharilachelle) and Cheryce (@aunaturel) are two (happily) divorced women who are optimistic about life, but real about love. Join us weekly as we share the lessons we've learned about love and marriage, stories of navigating single life as 40-somethings, conversations with awesome guests, and a whole lot of "keke" moments! This intro episode is from our IG Live where we announced "we're baaaaack" and that the content we shared on our former blog would now be in podcast form! We hope you'll join us for your weekly dose of optimism and realness when it comes to love and relationships! Follow us on IG: The Podcast: @theoptdivorcees Shari: @sharilachelle Cheryce: @aunaturel Subscribe! Rate! Review! Share! Sign up for our mailing list to keep up with the ODs!

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