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We learn from each other's stories. Terces breaks her heart wide open pouring out the wisdom she's learned through her 35-year journey of recovery from twenty years of addiction (an eating disorder) to gratitude as a way of being, a place you come from not get to. This show inspires, encourages or helps us all seek a deeper meaning in our day to day life. Music by MaMuse Photography by Susan LeStrange Graphics and design by Jon Marro

Terces Engelhart


    • May 25, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 9m AVG DURATION
    • 272 EPISODES

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    The Unreasonably Grateful podcast is a heartwarming and inspiring show hosted by Terces Engelhart. As someone who fell in love with Terces' food and restaurant in San Francisco, I was delighted to stumble upon her workbook in a box of free books. This discovery led me to explore her websites, purchase her board game and cookbook, and even find a copy of her daily calendar. The podcast has been a lifeline for me during the radical changes brought on by Covid and caring for my elderly father. Terces' unreasonably grateful attitude expressed weekly has been a balm to my soul. Her love for God, vulnerability, wisdom, and guidance have helped me cultivate gratitude and hope each day.

    The best aspect of The Unreasonably Grateful podcast is the genuine and heartfelt nature of Terces' sharing. Her voice soothes the soul, making each episode feel like a conversation with a close friend. She pours her love into every word she speaks as she discusses topics such as faith, struggles, successes, fears, and everyday life experiences. Terces' ability to relate to listeners through shared experiences creates an authentic connection that feels personal and uplifting.

    However, one potential downside of the podcast is that it may be too focused on personal faith and spirituality for some listeners. While Terces' openness about her own journey with God can be inspiring and comforting for those who share similar beliefs or are seeking spiritual guidance, it may not resonate as strongly with those who have different religious or non-religious backgrounds.

    In conclusion, The Unreasonably Grateful podcast is a beacon of light in challenging times. As someone who has found solace in Terces' words through her cookbook, daily calendar, board game, and now the podcast itself, I am immensely grateful for the impact she has had on my life. From her soothing voice to her wisdom-filled episodes that promote self-awareness and gratitude, Terces truly brings out the best in her listeners. I wholeheartedly recommend this podcast to anyone seeking inspiration, guidance, and a reminder of the power of gratitude.



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    Latest episodes from Unreasonably Grateful

    What Is Your Gift?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2025 14:52


    Have you ever thought about or wondered what your gifting is? Maybe you think you aren't gifted. Well, no matter where you are, listen in for some thoughts on your special gifts, which you do have!Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at; terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

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    268 What If You Just Say Thank You

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2025 8:14


    Description: We all get “triggered.” Our wounds or sensitive areas are activated, and we often react, mostly in defense or protection. But what if you just say Thank you? Listen for the opportunity to step into real change and awaken in the most sensitive areas of your life.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at; terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    You Will Be Tested (Final Part)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 10:17


    Description: As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen to the final part of this series as we consider what being tested might provide. There are so many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam. What if you pass?Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    You Will Be Tested (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 8:20


    Description: As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen to Part Two in this series as we consider what being tested might provide. Here is a link to a conversation about how we all are tested. This interview is about a Yankee baseball player, https://www.mlb.com/news/devin-williams-removed-as-yankees-closerThere. There are many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at; terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    266 You Will Be Tested (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 12:42


    As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen in as we begin a series on what preparing and taking our test may look like. There are so many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you'd like an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, please sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Additionally, if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy. Please email me, and I will send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    New Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2025 13:59


    Description: Wow, what a week. I don't remember ever celebrating the Paschal season in quite this way. I don't know about you, but I have been following my podcast, taking on each week as I pray you have been. If so, I suspect we are all feeling many of the same emotions, disappointments, and losses. As we approach this Sunday, we are also presented with an opening. A new life is emerging in each of us. Listen in and let's share in that joyous miracle together.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Additionally, if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy. Please email me, and I will send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    264 A Break From Your Personality

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2025 9:40


    Description: You and I have been doing some deep work, leading to profound healing over the past few weeks. Today, let's look at the space that perhaps you have created and what you may be discovering about yourself. I will share my process, hoping you see something for yourself in my story.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I will send you a signed copy. Email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    Living Is Practicing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 8:53


    Description: Over the past few weeks, we have been working on making a change—a long-lasting and healthy change that will actually shift all the areas of our lives. Today, let's look together at how living into this new identity is all practice. You can choose to have your practice be inspiring and fun!Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at; terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    How We Change (Part 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2025 10:27


    Description: This week, let's examine the core belief that perhaps led us to create the life we are living and what we might surrender or give up to begin forming a new belief that will fuel the discovery of who we actually are rather than the being we have created from our trauma, wounds, fears, etc. Who are you, really?Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I will send you a signed copy. Email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    262 How We Change (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2025 11:38


    Remember when you were a kid and your parents wanted you to hang out with the “good” kids? Consider the foundation of that: We are greatly impacted by our environment. Another way of saying that is we are the conversations we engage in. Listen to the second part of How We Change. It may be time to shift the conversations you are a part of.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    How We Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2025 8:09


    Description: Have you ever had the thought, “I can't believe I just did that?” Or maybe “I can't believe I just said that?” If so, listen in for thoughts on how to stop saying and doing things that aren't an honest representation of who we are.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you.You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    Surrendering My Will

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2025 10:27


    Description: In this episode, let's explore surrendering a bit more. Considering none of us like to surrender, why would we when we think we know what is best, or how something should be or go, why would I let go of that? However, what if there is something we are missing due to our “knowing”? Listen in and see what you hear.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2025 11:41


    Description:I have been coaching various people in their relationships lately. As I prepare to record my podcast this morning, I can see the thread that runs through our relationships and is such an influential teacher. Let's examine it together; perhaps you will see something supporting you in creating inspiring relationships.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    I Don't Understand

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2025 9:26


    258 I Don't UnderstandDescription:Have you ever felt unsure of yourself, someone else, or something new because you didn't understand? In this episode, Terces discusses accepting the unknown and letting things unfold naturally.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

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    Be The Light

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2025 8:00


    257 Be The LightDescription:The light would not shine through without darkness (challenges, difficulties, resistance…). It needs the darkness for contrast and, thus, brilliance! Listen in for encouragement to shine brightly, no matter what.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

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    Is It Our Inner World We See In The Outer World?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2025 12:28


    Description:While it occurs as if there is a divide in our country for some, for others, it appears as an incredible opportunity. What's the difference? Listen in for a possible new view of our shared life.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us. Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    A Mid-Air Collision

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2025 11:58


    255 A Mid-Air CollisionDescription:Last night, as I got ready to go to sleep, the mid-air collision of a passenger plane with a military helicopter falling into the Potomac River happened. The search was still on as I fell asleep and then awoke to the news of no survivors. I find myself reflecting on, once again, another tragic loss.After listening, share in the comments, I'd love to hear from you.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us.Notes Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    Empathy For The Loss, Celebration For The Win

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2025 10:01


    Description:As the fires in Los Angeles are slowly being contained, people are gathering to help in any way they can. Some have lost everything, and others have been spared. Reconciling the losses and wins in life can be a decisive step in the healing process.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want an elder to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll send it to you. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us.Notestercesengelhart.comIG terces and unreasonablygrateful Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    The Gift Of Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2025 7:38


    253 The Gift Of LifeDescription:As we move into the New Year, let's embrace more of who we are committed to being and keep our attention on all we have to be grateful for. Let's pray for those who are dealing with loss and ask ourselves, how can we help?The Los Angeles fires are blazing, and friends are losing everything, so let's reach out and contribute in any way we can.Thank you for being here; you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings. If you want someone to hold space for you and reflect on your amazingness, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you. You can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com, and I will reply. Also, if you want to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy; email me, and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them; in other words, be an invitation to join us.Notestercesengelhart.comIG terces and unreasonablygrateful Get full access to Terces's Substack at engelhart.substack.com/subscribe

    Take The First Step

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2025 7:55


    253 Take The First StepTitle: Take The First StepDescription: When you or I make a commitment to change the first step we want to take is setting ourselves up to win. Listen In for some insights on just how to do that, no matter what your goal may be. Terces shares one the is currently working on and will guide you in taking that step for yourself. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.   I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Notestercesengelhart.comIG  terces  and unreasonablygrateful  This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit engelhart.substack.com

    Change Is Challenging

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 11:01


    As we begin a New Year together, let's look at how we keep what we are taking with us in place. How do we make the change that keeps us living up to our commitments? How do we, you and I, replace what we have been doing or saying with what we now want to be doing and saying? Listen in and Happy New Year to you.Thank you for being here, you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us.Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit engelhart.substack.com

    What Are You Leaving Behind and What Are You Taking With You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 12:45


    My husband and I always ask each other what we are leaving behind and what we are taking with us when we make any type of journey as we prepare to return home. It's a fun and meaningful practice so in this episode let's look at what you are leaving behind in 2024 and will be taking with you into 2025.Thank you for being here, you matter.I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping)If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us.Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit engelhart.substack.com

    Open My Heart To Receive

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2024 9:42


    Once you have called out for help and then asked for what you want, next comes opening your heart to receive. So that may well be the next ask, think about it, if your heart isn't open how will you receive the help that comes? Listen in for being a more open hearted person  Thank you for being here, you matter.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Prayer & Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2024 10:30


    Have you ever thought about how prayer and recovery go together? Have you ever felt helpless and found yourself crying out for help? Who did you think was listening? Who were you calling out to? Twelve step programs start with admitting we are powerless and the Serenity prayer goes “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference” Admitting there are things you cannot change, so listen in to hear how Terces connects these two. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Getting Back On Track

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2024 9:10


    We can have the best intentions and still there will be days that seem great and we experience our healing and growth and then there will be days when it feels like an uphill battle and we are losing. That is actually great and listen in if you want to hear why and how you can celebrate what is really going on. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Set Yourself Up To Win

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2024 10:31


    As we head into the Christmas/Holiday season it can be extra challenging to take care of yourself, especially if you deal with food or alcohol issues. Parties can feel so unsafe and you don't want to be left out. Listen in if you are committed to celebrating the holidays in a healthy and meaningful way.  Thank you for being here, you matter.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.  

    Answer The Hardest Question First

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2024 10:18


    Do you ever feel confused, especially when dealing with change, or the need to make a choice? Consider that the confusion is a function of you moving too quickly and possibly avoiding answering the hardest question first. Listen in for some clarity that may guide you forward and clear up the confusion you are experiencing. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    What Do You Depend On?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2024 13:21


    It is good for all of us to step back sometimes from the ongoing activity of our lives and take a closer look at what we are depending on. It's a good inquiry. Depending can certainly lead to dependence and that is what we are looking at this week. Remembering that real freedom is you can or you can't, not you have to. Listen in for some guidance in making the inquiry for yourself. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    A Test Before You Speak

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2024 8:48


    I don't know about you but it is so easy for words to seemingly jump out of my mouth before I have even had time to think about what I am about to say. I started challenging myself to take this test before speaking and I love the experience I am having. Take it on this week, listen in for what the test is! Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@cafegratitude.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Walking Through A Crisis

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2024 10:37


    We all face a crisis from time to time, some are worse than others. I have heard my daughter say, “Life is hard”, and I realize she is responding to the challenges and difficult situations that people face, all of us. This episode has us looking together at how we walk through a crisis, as I am aware of people facing big challenges and struggling in my own life. So listen in as we talk this through together. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Play Full-Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2024 7:42


    While this episode is influenced by the baseball playoffs and my grandson's enthusiasm for the LA Dodgers, I encourage him not to give up when they are behind, reminding him the game isn't over until it's over. How often do we talk ourselves out of a relationship, job, house, or opportunity? Feel free to listen in if you are interested in playing FULL OUT until the last moment of whatever challenge you might be facing. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.  

    Acceptance is The Key

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2024 12:13


    The past couple of weeks have had me be ever more present to the importance of being able to accept what is. If you are struggling to accept someone, something, some situation your life listen in, you might just hear the key you are missing to gain more freedom Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Just One Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2024 8:34


    A long while ago I learned the lesson about showing up, even if it is only for one person. Have you ever wondered if your efforts were worth it, if the time and resources you used have been impactful or meaningful? If you have listened in, you may just hear something new that will make all the difference in how you go forward in your life. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    It's Up To You

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2024 8:52


    Sometimes we don't want to believe that it is up to us. We simply don't want to take responsibility for whatever might be going on. Well, I am not saying what is going on is up to us, however, I am saying that HOW WE EXPERIENCE what is going on is up to us! Listen in for perhaps some newfound freedom  Thank you for being here, you matter.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us.  Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Notice What Is Working

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 9:51


    Unfortunately as human beings our attention often goes to what's wrong, what isn't working, what's missing, you get the idea, the bad or unfortunate news seems to take precedence. In this episode Terces shares about keeping our attention, or noticing what IS working as a practice in all areas of life, especially our relationships. Listen is for some support in doing just that! Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

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    Celebrate Someone Else's Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 8:20


    Have you ever felt as if you are missing out on love? It might look like others seem to experience love so easily, or you are simply lonely and maybe single. Or. you just haven't found the right person yet. There are many situations where we may find ourselves feeling somehow left out of the love equation, if so, listen in, you may hear something that gives you some freedom.   Thank you for being here, you matter.   I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping)   If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    A Spiritual Context For Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2024 10:24


    Recently I was coaching a couple on their relationship and once again became aware of how without a spiritual context for our relationships how difficult, even hopeless it is. So listen in if you want to shift your intention to a spiritual one, or renew the one you are currently living into. Thank you for being here, you matter. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    My 29th Year of Recovering

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2024 10:17


    When this episode is released it will be one day past my 74th Birthday and my 29th year of recovering. There was a time when I couldn't have imagined this day and yet, here it is. We have good friends visiting us and tonight as I got ready to record this episode they asked me what my podcast was all about, I shared that it is snipers of the wisdom that I have received in my 29 years of recovery. These tidbits that I can easily share in under 10 minutes are stepping stones anyone can use to take them further down their path to discovering who they are and why they are here. One of my dear friends in Ciela and you can find her and what she offers at Cielawynter.com, is a great resource for anyone's journey. Listen in to the snippet that rose to the surface today and see if it isn't useful as you take your next step. Thank you for being here. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    It's All Maintenance

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2024 12:28


    Someone asked me recently about how to maintain a healthier lifestyle. I had to giggle as I consider it is all maintenance. Think about it, if you do something well, if you make a healthy change in your life, if you buy a new car or a new home, or even if you simply clean your house then what, see what I mean, it's all maintenance. So listen in if you want some insights on what that might look like. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    We Create Our Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2024 12:04


    People often say one of the most important choices you will ever make is selecting your partner/wife/husband. I get it, however consider that if we create our relationships than what matters most is you choose someone who is up for just that, being responsible for creating a great relationship/marriage. It's work for sure and some of the most rewarding work you will ever do. So it isn't so much about who that person is as it is about who you both are committed to becoming. Listen in for some insights into perhaps a paradigm shift in relationships  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Do Messes Really Matter

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2024 11:58


    This episode is for those of us who thrive on order. You like things put back where they belong, your blood pressure drops when there is a sense of order in your home, you clean up as you go, you get the idea. Now, I am not saying that those of us who can leave clothes and towels on the floor and can never find a clean glass won't hear something for themselves or perhaps for those around them that do most of the picking cup, so listen in for a perspective that might ease your stereo and allow you to relax no matter what condition your room house, car or workplace is. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Time With Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 11:11


    As one ages I suspect our relationship to time changes, mine has. While I used to feel like there wasn't enough time in the day to get everything done, I now feel as if time to do nothing except “be”, especially with family and loved ones is what matters most. Listen if you are looking for more time to be with loved ones in your life you may hear something that inspires and encourages you. Thanks for listening. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    It's In God's Hands

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2024 8:33


    Most of us try to figure things out. That we explain away whatever might be happening, or has happened. However, what if it's in God's hands and all of our explanations, defenses, justifications, etc are just figments of our imagination? It/life is unfolding perfectly according to God's plan. How do we set ourselves up to be a part of such a grand plan as His? Listen in for some ideas.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Trusting Your Process, Trusting Their Process

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2024 9:35


    Have you ever struggled to trust that you are on the right path, that your life is unfolding just as it should be, that you are in process and the final. Product isn't finished yet? How about doing the same for someone else's process, especially when it impacts yours? Listen in for some new insights. I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Regaining Trust (in Yourself and Others)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2024 10:46


    Broken trust is painful and often frightening. How do we begin to regain trust both in ourselves and in others. Listen in and see if something doesn't click to give you the courage to trust again.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us.  Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Is Your Past In Your Future?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 12:15


    It is easy to live life with our past dictating what is possible and impossible based on our past. However, what if you were completely free of your past and your future was wide open, like a blank slate, on which you could create newly. Then what? Listen in to see what might be possible for all of us.  I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Listening Is The Highest Form of Loving

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 9:37


    And the rest of the title is and we almost NEVER listen. Think about it. How good at listening are you? How often are you thinking of what you are going to say, or how you agree or disagree with what is being shared. I suspect that the times in our lives that we were really listening to someone are few and far between. What if you were a better listener, what if the people in your life experienced being heard when they talked with you, what difference would that make? Listen in, really listen, see what you hear. I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    When Love Says No

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2024 10:31


    Do you think of love as a gushy, kind, soft energy? Do you think of it as a “yes” response? If so, listen in as sometimes love says No. I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Gifts and Curses

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 11:22


    There but by the grace of God go I. You have probably heard this before, I certainly have. I was talking to a Psychiatrist who worked in a prison who said it to me a while back and I remember listening and thinking, how true this is. In this episode let's look at how our gifts could easily be curses and we get to choose which side of that two-edged sword becomes our life.  I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words, be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    Lucy Is Pregnant

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 11:30


    My Labrador dog is having puppies in just a couple weeks or so. I am noticing, as I walk through her pregnancy with her, how similar the process is to the healing journey. Listen in for tips and tools as she approaches giving birth.  I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.  I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words be an invitation to join us. Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful.

    The Way Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 9:10


    Today I want to share with you a book written near the end of his life, by Richard Condon. Richard had sat in front of thousands of people supporting them in living their best life over many years. He was a pivotal part of our restaurant's mission and a dear friend. I believe there is great wisdom in the lives of those close to crossing over and am sharing this book based on that belief. Listen in and share this episode with anyone you love and care for. I recommend that you relate to this as his “final words” a gift to us all.  I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website. I am always happy to hear from you and you can reach me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply. Also if you would like to order my book directly from me, I am happy to send you a signed copy, just email me and I'll get it in the mail. ($15 plus shipping) If you know of anyone who might benefit from listening in, share a link to an episode with them, in other words be an invitation to join us.  Connect with me on social media @terces and @unreasonablygrateful

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