WE Blended & Blessed Podcast

In the world, especially in America, there is a common activity that is known for bringing families, friends, and strangers together, such as Sports especially our favorites such as Football, Basketball, Baseball, Soccer, Cheer/Dance, etc. However, Blended Families often face issues when it comes to the participation of all parties including the kids, payments, coaching, fundraising, etc. In this episode, we will discuss some of these challenges and ways to overcome them with our special guests.Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @weblended&blessed | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

Today, we discuss with Dr. Cornell Cornish, the owner of CTC Chiropractic. We cover the KEY to building a successful marriage, business, and blended family. We also discuss overcoming stigmas of building a business with your spouse, business expansion and healthy family units. Let WE chat about it…Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @weblended&blessed | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode of the WE Blended and Blessed Podcast, Wayne & Erica (WE) discuss the challenges of bringing custody cases to court with the Honorable Judge Calvin Johnson and Dr. Deidre D. Hayes, DSW, BCD, LCSW-BACS. We discuss the impacts of introducing the justice system in custody cases, legal fees, and the affects to children and parents alike.#weblendedandblessed #blendedfamily #podcast #custodyPlease be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @weblended&blessed | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

Let's be honest how many times in life have we raised our hands to be corrected by our spouses, partners, parents, or teachers. Typically we do not, information is usually issued to us either voluntary or involuntary. Although we learn best when we are taught, guided, and/or counsoled on how to do a certain task via physical, written, or visual demonstration.  It can often land different positive or negative when received from someone that loves or cares for us the most, especially in a marriage. The words and tone chosen, can be very impactful to our partner, so must chose wisely. Let  WE Chat about it….  Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @theguidrygang_ | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

Let's face it, kids are going to do things that they will require correction, guidance, discipline, patience, love and Jesus! So what happens when you are faced with a situation, whereby you as the bonus parent need to provide or assist the bio parent with the the correction action and/or discipline required for bonus child. In some instances, this can go left real quick because we can be overprotective of our children and reluctant to allow another person who is not the bio parent step in all matters pertaining to the child. WE are no different than many people in blended families, so how do we blend gracefully, effectively, and respectfully through the chPlease be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @theguidrygang_ | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, WE discuss the Superbowl but more importantly sports with your spouse, kids, and co-parent. WE uncover topics related to women enjoying sports with their partner, kids participating in sports (boys in football), and enjoying the sports moment with you co-parent. Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @theguidrygang_ | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In Season 3 episode 1, Wayne & Erica (WE) discuss the goal of marriage, the chase and how to make marriage cool again. The video version of this podcast can be found on our youtube.com channel Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast  | TikTok: @theguidrygang_ | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.comPlease be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast | Facebook: WE Blended & Blessed Podcast | TikTok: @theguidrygang_ | Twitter: @webandbpod | email: weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In the final episode of season 2, WE review the marathon of marriage with Mr. & Mrs. Thomas & Marla Williams. WE review their marathon of marriage as they approach 20 years of holy matrimony. In this episode we will cover the failing statistics of the black marriage in America, importance of having relationship with God in marriage, rearing of children, and traits to look for in your future partner. Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In this week's episode, we continue our marriage series. Marrying young vs old, comparing and contrasting the differences age makes when making one of the biggest decisions of life. Our special guests this week are Mr. & Mrs. David and Shirelle  Lodge. Let WE chat about it! Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpodcast Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is weblendedandblessedpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, we go beyond the blending of families, but the blending of cultures in marriage. Today we will discuss with Jorge & Deidre "Dede" Espinoza about blended cultures through their union, rearing of children, and bringing the families together through your union. Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @weblendedandblessedpod Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com

When you and your spouse are at the altar, there are many thoughts that come to mind, in particular, I'm about to spend the rest of my life together with this human. So after 6 to12 months of wedding planning, sometimes longer, for this lavish party with family and friends and then a honeymoon. The dust begins to settle and real life begins. The days of real work is here, as everything you do now can't be undone by just packing your personal items and walking away. During the honeymoon phase, couples are learning more than what they thought about their new Husband or Wife, such as the value and elements of marriage, areas of improvements and advice for healthier unions. Let WE chat about it with our special guests.... Please download from all major platforms: Macho Mane by Webbstar. WE do not own the rights to music, it is supported by artist: Webbstar. Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com

In marriages, there are many things that will cause distractions and/or disruptions in your relationship, if you let it. While divorce rates remain consistent with the typical issues being infidelity, sex, finances, communication, and now social media being named amongst the top marital issues per several online sites. In this episode, WE will talk about the pitfalls of increased phone usage, social media connection and tips on installing healthy phone boundaries. Let WE chat about.....Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com

In this episode, WE take lessons from Cherie Harris, Brenda Donatto, and Greg Batiste on the topic of “Marriage: Until Death Do Us Part”. WE navigate the areas of losing our partners and the life after, raising kids, finances, and dating again. Let WE chat about … (Please note this 3 panel interview was conducted virtually and WE faced some technical difficulties with audio quality, apologies in advance.)  Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com

The rearing of children doesn't come with a playbook, one that kids respond to 100% of the time. Just as parents make mistakes, kids do as well and require correction/redirection. So what does the correction/redirection look like in a blended household? Does it involve physical discipline or verbal correction, does the discipline change when bonus kids enter the picture? In this episode, WE will chat about physical discipline and verbal correction in blended families. Things can go left quick, how do you keep them straight? Let WE chat about it.....Please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com

In a world with many options, people enter into relationships seeking many things, such as love & happiness, safety & security, validation, confirmation, partnership, completion, etc. the list goes on and on. But often times, one component is overlooked, spirituality. Understanding this connection with your partner can help either establish, rebuild or deepen your relationship with God. In this episode, WE will discuss religion in relationships, attending church (or not), and overcoming challenges when in disagreement over church/religion in relationships. Let WE chat about it....Before you dive in, please be sure to like, follow, and comment On our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

Let's face it, the black community has been behind the eight-ball when it comes to seeking mental health services and implementing the teachings in our relationships and families. We have allowed labels such as seeing a shrink, labeled crazy and depressed. Today WE are joined by Dr. Donna Barnes of Gracefully Purposed Counseling to discuss mental health in marriages and blended families. Let WE chat about it...Before we dive in, please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In follow-up to last week's topic on gender roles, we discussed the number of households with two parents working and with the number on the rise. We would like to share our thoughts on work-life balance in marriages and families, where is the sweet spot? Men are known for having demanding careers, but what about woman, are they too at risk for imbalance. In this episode, we will review work-life balance, money substituting for time, and the cutoff point for work and personal time? There are168 hours in a week how are you spending it.....Let WE Chat about it......Before we dive in, Please be sure to follow us on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In recent trends, gender roles are being discussed as the evolution of the woman continues, which is leaving some men in the hot seat. While recent legislation has taken 100 steps backwards in women's rights, the role of women continues to evolve and no longer fit in the box defined by man from many years ago. In this episode, WE will chat about gender roles in today's society, roles in managing the household, and reshaping roles to progress within marriages. Let WE chat about it.....Before you dive in, please be sure to like, follow, or leave us a comment on our Instagram page @everythingiswe_nola hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In our communities, several people are suffering with various mental health issues with no outlet and relief. Like adults, children also face challenges whereby they have trouble overcoming life challenges without access, knowledge or support to see medical professionals. Today we will chat with Tarkisha Wallace, LPC-S, NCC a mental health professional that specializes in children and adults. Let we chat about mental health in our community, over coming trauma from relationships, and healthy ways to move forward in life. Please be sure to follow us on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments at the email address everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode, WE will chat about irritating moments that occur during the course of a relationship. Some of these moments occur monthly due to forces of nature or freaks of nature one would say. These irritable moments can be devastating if not managed and communicated properly. Let WE chat about it and examine these moments and discuss ways to overcome them in your relationship.Please be sure to follow us: On Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

Often times, there is pressure on children when their parent is a public figure, such as pastor of a large church. In this episode, WE will discuss growing up in a blended family with Erica, Alexis, Eric, and Jalen the children of Pastor Eric Williams of Beacon Light of Baton Rouge. We will discuss growing up in the church and the peaks and valleys of a blended family lifestyle.  Let WE chat about it....Before we dive in, Please be sure to follow us On Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode, WE will cover "deadbeat dads", more importantly deadbeat parenting because there are some women out in these streets that are just trash. How do people become this way, are they born like this, raised like this, or manufactured due their environment as an adult? WE will cover the following: what is a deadbeat,  are they really a deadbeat? Do bitter/difficult mom's create deadbeat dad's or is it lack of performance and a bunch of excuses? What determines this, is it time, money, or the courts? Let WE chat about it....Please be sure to follow us  on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola                                                          Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In families, there is often times where major purchases need to occur for the family, spouse, children, etc. Depending on your personal financial situation, there is likely some discussions that need to occur prior to purchase. Families often setup joint accounts, separate accounts, minor accounts, etc. to cover all expenditures large or small. WE will give you a look into how we address expectations, discuss purchases, and finance the 5, our 5 kids of course. Please be sure to follow us on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode, we are joined by two special people in our debut interview. This couple hold multiple titles to us, our parents / in-laws / Pastor and First Lady. We are joined by Pastor Eric A. Williams and First Lady Iris Williams of Beacon Light of Baton Rouge, as we navigate discussions on marriage, blending of families, and parenting. We would love to hear from you, please hit us up at the following: Please be sure to follow us on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email address: everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode, WE will discuss cheating in relationships such as: What is cheating, why&how someone cheats, whose at fault for cheating, retaliation after cheating, forgiveness after cheating and ways to prevent from going down the road of cheating? Let WE chat about it!Please be sure to follow us  on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola                    Hit us up with any questions or comments: email:  everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In blended families, there are other kids connected through the process that are yours, theirs, mine and ours. Let's face it, kids face their own challenges when it comes to blended families and need our support on making this process evolve in a harmonious way. Often times parents can put a focus on making their bio kids feel superior to bonus kids but some of yall still call it stepkids i.e. the less than kids and treat them as such for one reason or another. In this episode, WE will chat about these dynamics and offer some insights for being blended and blessed.Please be sure to follow us On Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this week's episode, WE will take a dive into a relationship quiz that uncovers and shed some light on secure/insecurity in relationships. Are you up for the quiz, we will share the link, check it out, learn something about yourselves. WE will discuss the high and lows of secure/insecure behavior in relationships. Who is responsible for security, what actions put security at risk, and how to promote security in your relationship/marriage? Let WE chat about it. See Relish:https://get.hellorelish.com/login/welcomeSpecial thanks to relish.com for making this easy yet informative quiz with easy to follow guide. Please be sure to follow us On Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

After the divorce, break up,  split, what's next for the former couple when the kids are involved?  Often times there is built up emotions and reactions that disrupt the children's visitation with the other parent. Some pretend to protect the child from things that they as the parents don't want to see such as their former partner with another person, in a position they once held. Let's be real about it! Should this be a reason why children are not allowed to visit?  Let WE chat about it...

In this week's episode, WE are talking about LEMONADE! Are you thirsty??? WE  will explain what lemonade is but more importantly how you make lemonade. You need lemons, water and some sugar!!!!! These are some of the ingredients for intimacy, take a journey with us as we uncover intimacy in relationship. There is so much more to life than lemonade, check it out. Please be sure to follow us on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments: Email everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In the last two weeks WE discussed forgiveness in marriage, parenting, and  parents/children alike.  For most of us that is an easy task because we love them and want to be on good terms. Let's be honest,  who really likes to be at odds with loved ones, especially as a result of holding a grudge or holding onto to hurt? What happens when a relationship ends, there is a kid or kids involved and NOW you have to drop the F-bomb on your co-parent/ex.? Take a journey with us, as this week we are talking about forgiving your co-parent/ex. Please be sure to follow us on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this weeks' episode, we discuss forgiveness in parenting, it's a two way road.  This goes for children and parents alike, as there will be times when a parent or child maybe offensive, insensitive, rude, disrespectful, and/or abusive. To get through these moments and improve your parent/child relationship, there must be a period of reflection, recognition, reconciliation and capped off  by the Big F bomb FORGIVENESS. Please tune in and subscribe for your latest podcast content from WE B&B.  Please be sure to follow us  on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola  Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

Let's talk about it,  we are not talking about the 4 letter word some of us vomit when something bad or disturbing happens. We are talking about forgiveness, as there is so much power in that. This can be broken down in so many situations, as in what is it, who is it for, who deserves, when should be applied, what does it look like, and how do you show it, especially when dealing with our love ones. In this week's episode we will uncover Forgiveness in Marriage. Please be sure to follow us on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this week's episode, WE (Wayne and Erica) discuss love in a blended household. WE use real life examples on how to show love the blended way, review love languages, and review our roles as parents when it comes to displaying love to our bonus babies. Please be sure to follow us on Instagram @everythingiswe_nola Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this week's episode WE (Wayne & Erica)  talk about the topic of leaving unwanted baggage from past relationships behind prior to starting a new one.  We will have a tour in toxic relationships and unwanted behaviors on your way to new beginnings, learnings from our real life examples on the journey to living a healthy blended and blessed life.  Please be sure to follow us  on: Instagram @everythingiswe_nola  Hit us up with any questions or comments:  everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode Wayne & Erica (WE), discuss the "D" in a blended household, discipline that is. The purpose,  foundation, installation, and execution of discipline in a household.   We offer real life examples how we navigate through the blended lifestyle and be there to support our love ones. Please be sure to follow us  On Instagram @everythingiswe_nola  Hit us up with any questions or comments, email is everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

In this episode Wayne & Erica (WE), discuss blending their family through marriage, was it the right choice in time, place, etc? They discuss what brought them to marriage, public reactions, the blending process, order of marriage, new responsibilities, missteps, and positive notes. Please be sure to follow us  on:Instagram @everythingiswe_nola  Hit us up with any questions or comments email is: everythingiswe.nola@gmail.com 

Wayne and Erica  (WE) share how they navigate the blended lifestyle highlighting their experiences through God, marriage and of course their 5 children. With the goal of Blending families in a blessed way one podcast at a time, repairing the damage caused. In Episode 1, WE discuss the why for podcast, what is blended , background in blended, family challenges, missteps, and positive notes. Hit us up with your questions at everythingiswe.nola@gmail.comFollow us - Instagram @everythingiswe_nolaTikTok @theguidrygang_