Podcasts about family dynamics

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In this episode, Diana  is joined by guest Ken Keys, PhD, President of CRG and an expert on leadership, wellness, and life purpose. They discuss Ken's difficult upbringing, including the trauma experienced by his parents and his own battles with depression and suicidal thoughts. Ken shares his journey to discovering his purpose, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the impact of finding forgivingness and letting go of past trauma. The episode also highlights actionable steps for personal growth and emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and positive influences. 00:00 Introduction and Sponsor Message 00:47 Welcome to the Podcast 01:20 Diana's Personal Update 02:06 Practicing Gratitude 03:40 Introducing Today's Guest: Ken Keys 04:48 Ken Keys' Background and Career Journey 05:53 Ken's Family and Upbringing 08:42 Challenges and Lessons from Dairy Farming 16:20 Ken's Struggles with Depression and Wellness Journey 19:46 Traumatic Experience and Forgiveness 28:20 Family Dynamics and Emotional Growth 30:52 The Decline of Reverence for God 31:13 The Impact of Media on Society 31:54 Personal Reflections on Family and Intimacy 32:36 Journey Back to Faith 33:49 Discovering a New Christian Community 35:01 Embracing Ministry and Leadership 36:37 The Importance of Personal Style in Ministry 38:57 Overcoming Family Expectations 41:27 Judgment and Acceptance in Christian Life 46:27 The Influence of Associations 55:23 Final Thoughts and Actionable Steps www.kenkeis.com/faithful for your free gift   Website: https://dswministries.org Subscribe to the podcast: https://dswministries.org/subscribe-to-podcast/ Social media links: Join our Private Wounds of the Faithful FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1603903730020136 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DswMinistries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxgIpWVQCmjqog0PMK4khDw/playlists Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dswministries/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DSW-Ministries-230135337033879 Keep in touch with me! 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They do it all with a written guarantee for results so you don't waste time and money on a program that doesn't exceed your goals. There are martial arts programs. Specialize in anti-bullying programs for kids to combat proven Filipino martial arts. They take a holistic, fun, and innovative approach that simply works. Sign up for your free class now. It's 7 5 3 academy.com. Find the link in the show notes. Welcome to the Wounds of the Faithful Podcast, brought to you by DSW Ministries. Your host is singer songwriter, speaker and domestic violence advocate, [00:01:00] Diana . She is passionate about helping survivors in the church heal from domestic violence and abuse and trauma. This podcast is not a substitute for professional counseling or qualified medical help. Now here is Diana. Hi everybody. How are you guys doing today? I hope you are well. It is a beautiful day outside. Fall isn't even here yet it seems. But my garden. We got to harvest some of our food. We ate some green beans and snap peas and ate some strawberries from my garden. We're just waiting for the tomatoes to ripen. But it's really exciting when you start eating from your own garden, you didn't even think it was going to survive. And with the change of seasons [00:02:00] here, and Thanksgiving is coming up, holidays are coming up. I didn't really do a Thanksgiving podcast, but we want to be thankful. It's hard to be thankful this year, isn't it? Was a huge dumpster fire, and it's probably not all gonna go away you know, January 1st , I'm sure isn't gonna magically disappear, but, um, we have to practice the art of being thankful and grateful for what we have. Make a list, and I know it's hard, just the littlest things that you see during the day. Hey, I have the song on the radio I heard, and it was such a blessing to me. Or like, me, I had a harvest this week. Or, oh, the weather is so beautiful or. My kid got an A on his spelling. Just the little things, just make a [00:03:00] list and go back to those lists. And I'm not one of those positive thinker people. I'm not, I have to work at being positive. I like being around positive people because that lifts me up. My husband is naturally positive and he lifts me up. Right now. He's going through a hard time with his medical stuff and I have to lift him up when I'm having a bad day, he has to lift me up. But we try and practice gratefulness even in the little things. So I hope that encourages you during this holiday. I'm not gonna do a big holiday podcast. Today I have a guest with me today and he's going to talk about, when you feel like, your life doesn't feel like it has meeting you don't have any fulfillment, you're trying to get outta the hole you're in. Maybe you got outta a domestic violence situation and you don't know how to fulfill your [00:04:00] dreams. You don't know how to take that step and work towards your ideal life. Well, this next guest is going to help you do that, to leave the drama behind and find out, which parts of your personality you were born with, which ones you probably need to get rid of, or which ones you can develop further. How you're able to adapt to other people's behavior. Approach your interactions with confidence instead of fear. Find out what makes other people tick. How to handle misunderstandings and defensiveness. How do you handle your triggers? Hey, we've all got drama that we need to leave behind. We wanna move forward, right? So I'm going to read his bio here. Ken Keys PhD President of CRG is a global expert on leadership, wellness, behavioral assessments, and life purpose. [00:05:00] In 28 years, he has conducted over 3000 presentations and invested 10,000 hours. In consulting and coaching. Ken Keys is considered a foremost global authority on the way assessment strategies and processes. Increase and multiply success rates. He's co-created CRGs proprietary development models and has written over 4 million words of content for 40 business training programs and 400 plus articles. His latest book, the Quest for Purpose, a Self-Discovery Process to Find It and Live It. So please welcome Ken Keys. Thanks so much, Ken Keith, for coming on the show. Appreciate it. Well, well it's great to be hanging out with you. Tell us about your self, your upbringing, and your family. Did you come from a [00:06:00] successful family? Well, um, I am a third generation, uh, in Canada. So my grandparents, all four came from Hungary between the first and second World War as immigrants. And then they settled here. I'm about an hour east of Vancouver, Canada, so that's where I make my home. And so I actually grew up on a dairy farm. After uh, high school I went to agricultural college, came back to work on the farm, but pretty well a few months in dad and I were ready to beat each other into a pulp. 'cause we really didn't get along. Both of us wanted to be in charge and dad was kind of of the European mindset, just do what I say. I'll only tell you and criticize you. When you screw up. I'm never going to affirm you or. Do something positive 'cause that might go to your head. Aw. And so I, you know, after a couple of years I left the farm, I went and worked in agricultural fields as first, uh, for the Department of Agriculture. Then as a [00:07:00] feed sales rep, uh, for agriculture company. My diploma is a nutrition and genetics, so I was really a nutritionist to dairy cattle farmers. And then I actually started my own farm across the street. Which was fine, I could do my own thing. And then the late eighties, I got into this industry as a sales trainer. So I bought a franchise in the sales training. I said, what a na natural transition, uh, closed down my dairy farm. And then that was the beginning of this. Now when we're recording this, 32 years later, I said, where did that go? Uh, and, you know, three or four books, the author of 12 psychological assessments presented 3000 times somewhere around the world. Uh, authored 4 million words of content. You know, it's an interesting story and journey. And of course, I'll link in my, uh, face story here in a minute as well. So now this, it is. 32 years doing what I'm doing. And the company that I own was founded in 1979 by a professor at a Christian university. He wanted to create a, uh, create an assessment that was [00:08:00] different, better, more improved than Disc Myers-Briggs true colors, way back in 1979. And so he created the tool, the personal style indicator. I got connected to that company in 1990 and then bought it nearly 20 years ago. So we're now, you know, doing business in 12 languages, 30 countries around the world. And all our tools are built on a Christian worldview view, but we equally serve, you know, like Boeing mm-hmm. Or companies of that nature, or Ford or Chrysler as we do Ministries. And we just say, we're just here to help develop people. And then my purpose in life is to help others to live, lead, and work on purpose and to help them to realize their potential. So that's really been our focus for the last three decades. Well, you talk about the cows and I don't think I've ever milked a cow and well, it is 24 7, and I think that was one of the things that happened. I think, and here's my. Encouragement and challenge for those people that are listening, watching this show today [00:09:00] is I got up one morning with my dairy herd and I asked myself this question, if I was doing this same thing 20 years from now, would that be okay? And I said, no, no, no, no, no. I can't be doing that. And I always knew I was to be a speaker. Even when I was 16, I was speaking in front of groups, MCing groups asked to do that kinda work. Uh, I never thought I would be an author because my grade nine teacher said, well, I wouldn't amount to anything because I couldn't read or write. And it was discovered when I did my master's degree that I was dyslexic. So the invention of the computer when I went to school, I'm young, just to let you know, but when I went to school, there weren't, there weren't computers. The program word wasn't there to help me understand or see the words, uh, words that I was misspelling. And the reality is, is that, so I have mispronounced some words, so what doesn't matter, you know, get over it. And that led me to being a writer, which no way you [00:10:00] would've ever convinced me that was gonna be something that I would do almost more of than any single item in my lifetime. So here we are. And now just really trying to, you know, live his purpose and to help encourage other people to live theirs and to be anchored in that. Wow. Research shows. Diana is that when you're out there and engaging in nature, it actually feeds your soul. It does. So, even the research of kids that live in the countryside are healthier than those mm-hmm. That live in sterile environments in a condo, you know, in a 50 story building. I'm not here to judge you because you live in a condo. I'm just saying the reality is the health stats show that when you're out and about and you're just kind of in nature, your immunity strengthens, but so does your core soul because you're out there with nature and hey, that was designed that way. Absolutely. I think it's kept me sane. I liked being outside. I liked going out there and fussing over [00:11:00] my plants. Well, it's in, it's always interesting me to quote unquote live off the grid. And what I mean by that is just being a property that doesn't require utilities from third parties and things like that. But I'd live close to the town or city. There is a lot of effort and work, and one of the reasons that I did stop dairy farming was the 24 7 obligation, 365 days a year. I mean, you never have a day off in a dairy farmer's environment. Now, I appreciate the values that I learned, tenacity, persistence it doesn't matter what the weather's doing. I remember one time where it was very cold. One February. It was rare for where we live, but all the pipes and everything were frozen. Well, it took me four hours of fighting just to thaw all the pipes out so I could milk my cows. And just going back in the house and watching TV wasn't an option. It had to be done. So no matter, you know, what your personality or personal style is or anything like that, those character [00:12:00] traits were entrenched in me or developed in me in that persistence, uh, growing up. So that, you know, that's part of what I bring into it. I'm not. Mm-hmm. Uh, I was thankful for growing up in that environment, but it wasn't something that I was meant to do going forward. So you mentioned your father, but you also said that your mom, had some abuse in her childhood Hmm. Would you, be willing to elaborate on that? Sure. You know, it's interesting. I grew up in quote unquote a Christian home. Mm-hmm. But it wasn't really because my grandparents were Presbyterian in their background. No judgment. Anybody has that background. I grew up in the Presbyterian church. My brother and I were the youth, so that was, they were the only ones that were attending. But what I didn't see in my family was really the relationship with Christ. Mm. It was a cognitive thing, it was a cerebral thing. It was a duty, but it wasn't really an experience. It wasn't a relationship whatsoever. And of course, later on, I sort of [00:13:00] left the church. I can tell you my spiritual story here in a bit. But as a result of that, my dad was 16 years of age when his dad died of an unknown causes. He was on the farm, so he was forced to quit school in grade eight or nine to take over the farm with his mother. Now, his eldest brother was working off the farm, but also was helping on the farm, and a year later died of an unknown. As well. So here his father dies and then, you know, the next year before he is almost 17, his eldest brother that he looked up to died as well. Oh. And then my grandmother, where I was one of the, I wasn't the eldest male, but in that culture, you know, males just seemed to be, that was important to grandma. So I was the first born in Elst male farm. Grandma was pretty good with me, but she had a critical spirit. And so that spirit then led into my dad. My dad's way of dealing with that trauma was [00:14:00] to say nothing, just really be quiet. Mm-hmm. And the culture, the Hungarian culture also was one of non-emotional. I mean, you didn't share your feelings, you didn't share what was going on. You didn't share your heart. And even though my dad was on the board of the church, an elder. I never saw him pray. I never really see him have this relationship. He believes in God, you know, is he saved? I don't know. I mean, it's hard to know just for the viewers. I'm an ordained pastor now, so, this is kind of a full circle for me. And then my mom, grew up in as an, as a teenager with a father who was abusive when he was drinking. So an adult child of an alcoholic is kind of the process. So he, later on, , he straightened up. However, there was one night, my understanding from the story, I wasn't around yet where grandpa came home and then, was, beating on the kids and grandma got a knife and says, you touch him again, I'll kill you. Mm. And so that was kind of the environment that my mom grew up in. Now, grandpa, [00:15:00] later on when I knew him, I never knew that part of him. He was able to get his binge drinking under control. His English was broken, but we had a great relationship. He passed away sooner, and then grandma was left. Grandma was a critical spirits to my mom. So my mom now as we record, this is 86, going on 87 soon, and, I think she worries for the entire planet. I think her self-worth as far as she still has not processed this value set. So she plays the victim card extensively. And then as far as my environment for my dad, giving compliments, providing compliments just never happened. So he is 88 at the time of recording this and I'm 60. And I do not recall ever him telling me that he loves me. Aw. I just not now, does he? Yes, he does. But to verbally say that I love you just doesn't happen. I could go to his place though. And say, [00:16:00] dad, I need to borrow your truck. I need to borrow tools. Always, yes. Never says no to being helpful, but to be able to have that emotional connection and to articulate it is not something he learned. I think he did the best that he could with what he knew. So same with my mom. So I don't, I'm not bitter with them now. I'm obviously disappointed. But what it led to for me in my teenage years, when I came back from college, so I was 19 years of age, I think when I finished college, I started when I was younger is, I was suicidal. Hmm. So I sat there on the farm, here I'm arguing with my dad. I want to take it over, but he won't include me in any decisions. This is the, it's my way of the highway. There was no relationship per se, it was just a dictatorship. Mm-hmm. And then talking about deeper things that never happened, at home, when I got in some trouble with a girl, in my younger years, I wanted to share that with my mom, and she just started to criticize me. So it told me [00:17:00] never share anything with my mother that I'm dealing with as far as those pieces. So I sat there and I really said, is life really worth it? And for those of you that have been through trauma or whatever, suicide is really calling out, suicide is a hopelessness. It's a mm-hmm. Where you believe in that moment that not being here would be far less painful than being here. And first of all, it's alive, the enemy. So if we think about John 10, 10 is that the enemy comes to, kill, steal, and destroy or whatever that order is, and. And so he wants you to, take your own life because then you know what, your impact for the ministry is not gonna be there. Your impact for others is not gonna be there. Well, obviously I didn't take my life, but I thought about it and I had those components or considerations Later on in life, about a decade later, I was diagnosed asmatic depressive. And so I went on an antidepressant called Lithium, and it was my friend of mine, [00:18:00] actually out of Dallas, Texas. And she was a psychologist and she said, Ken, you're not a depressed person. There's something else biologically going on with you. And so we, I, at my insistence, did a glucose tolerance test, found out I was hypoglycemic. I wasn't depressed at all. Yeah. So what that had to do was around my blood sugar levels. So one of my passions now in life is I love to develop the whole person. And we have 12 assessments in our company from personality, but we also have an assessment on wellness and stress. And as a, I consider myself, a wellness expert. Mm-hmm. Because I don't believe that we need to rely on external people for my health. And so a lot of times people get into trouble where they don't take care of themselves. So mm-hmm. It's very difficult to be alive and functional and be a spiritual, , lion when you are fatigued, when you have no [00:19:00] energy. So, uh, I say fatigue makes cowards of us all. I wasn't the person who said I was another person who had started that. So I started to look at how can I take care of myself? Make sure you get the sleep, make sure for the most part you eat right, that you do things right. A lot of times as individuals, we don't take care of ourselves, and then we wonder why we're lethargic or we can't focus or we can't concentrate. And we do that with our kids. So I, you know, this body is a temple. We have a responsibility to take care of it. So that's why we've been working in all these different areas. And then one other. And then we're talking about trauma. And I haven't, I've only shared this very few times on podcasts and I don't, not that it's a secret. I actually share this story in my book, the Quest for Purpose. Mm-hmm. Which I am actually going to give everybody a copy of this at the end of the show. Right. Wow. So we are gonna be able to give you a free download of that book. But in the book, in 1982, I was actually [00:20:00] dating my high school sweetheart. So it was the person that I took to my prom. She was a couple years younger than me. And on December 13th, 1982 the police officer showed up at my home and said, we'd like to interview Ken. Now I happen to be out in town with my brother at that time, and there wasn't cell phones that we personally had. So when I got that, they said it's very urgent that Ken come to the station as soon as he gets home. I'm curious. I don't know what this is about. I am also nervous. I'm a little bit fearful. I'm having nervous energy and trying to crack jokes when I get to the police department. Yeah. So I get into one of these interview rooms that are just like, the TV says steel chairs, bricks, security, glass. One person in the room, TV cameras recording you. And I say, you know, what's this about? And the officer says, we have a reason to believe that you are, dating or a boyfriend of Carol Ann Repel. And I said, yeah, well that's true. And he said, well, she was murdered last [00:21:00] night. Oh. And so, what are you talking about? And I was one of the second last people to talk to her, and I had been chatting with her on the phone. She was a individual who was gifted and skilled and wanted to be the first female fighter pilot in the Canadian forces. So she was late at night at her employer's location, which was at the airport, and the janitor made a sexual advance to her that went wrong and then beat her to death. Oh, so that's, I'm being interviewed for this. They're asking about it and it came to learn. They didn't know who did it. It was a mystery for months, but they had their suspicions, but they had no proof. And eventually they, charged somebody who I knew, he had been hired as a security guard for some youth group work that we had done. At that moment, that day, I went to work. I said, I'm like, I was complete denial. Just [00:22:00] what is going on on this thing? She was 22 years of age, Diana. Mm-hmm. Maybe going on to 23. So we've all had our situations or stories. It took me years later where I did a process, called emotional freedom Technique. You can agree with it or not, but it was a Christian who created it. I was drenched in sweat, just processing all the. Emotional sort of luggage and baggage that came out of that stuff through the process we did. It was, you just call it very, very intense counseling, if you wanna call it that. And, so we, but I still needed to kind of move forward. I was thankful for the relationship with her. I was angry, upset, but certainly in denial for not months but years, because of that event and when it occurred. There. And then being a person of interest is, has its own dynamics. Oh, so they thought it might have been you? Well, there was that consideration. Now I had a, alibi. I was actually with my parents that night when this [00:23:00] occurred. So that, I mean, I lived alone. I was a single guy, so it was just happenstance, the Holy Spirit protecting me mm-hmm. From any kinda suspicions. But really they were trying to figure out who did it. And I was a witness to, that by being one of the last people to talk to her alive. Hmm. And now, you know, when we're recording, this is many, many years later, almost 40 years later, uh, but still it has sort of an emotional tag that goes with that. So all of us have had things that happen. My encouragement is, is no matter what, because I mean, you're in your podcast trying to help people go through trauma. You always have a choice about what you're gonna do with it. And as a trained counselor. A lot of times in the past, counseling was always about processing your past. I disagree with that. Is that we need to look to our future. Mm-hmm. You know, Carolyn Lee's research on, you know, you know who turned on, who switch off your brain and switch on your brain. Her [00:24:00] books really talks about what you focus on. Gets more on more of it. So if I go in counseling and just relive the event and relive the event and relive the event, well I haven't moved you forward. Forward. So I'm not denying its issues or what's going on or that it happened, I'm just denying it's hold in your future. So this is around forgiveness. I had to forgive the guy who killed her. Mm-hmm. Because, uh, you know, the old story, everybody has heard this, if you've been in any front of any servant, is that unforgiveness is like you taking the poison and wanting the other person to live. Right. We've all heard that. Yes. Well, we just need to be reminded of that to, I wasn't obviously agreeing with the heinous act. He did, but I had to forgive him so that I would be free in that his heinous act wouldn't be affecting me, plus my family and everybody else around me as well. So, uh, I don't think you knew that story was coming, Diana. Actually, I did. I [00:25:00] read your blog. Oh, you did? You did. Oh, well, you're one of the few. So, uh, and when I do my normal podcast, I don't mention this for very often, but you know, the Holy Spirit has lifted me up, been there beside me in that. It's not him who did this. You know, I can rely on him to be able to kind of build me up. And in fact, I have to, I mean, if we're going through life, we're just gonna have stuff happen. Mm-hmm. It's just part of the dynamic of living in a broken world. Yeah. It definitely is a fallen world. Yeah. I'll swing around back to what you said about forgiveness. Did the, murderer, go to prison or did he think of that? Yeah, he was eventually caught. What they did is they knew who he was, but they didn't, you know, DNA was kind of, just in its infancy stages then in 1982. So, what they did is they set up a sting operation and then they had somebody, you know, where people wear wire and they're recording what's being [00:26:00] said. There was some, someone in his life that he had semi revealed that he was involved with this. And so they knew that, but they couldn't prove anything. So then they set up this sting and then it went from there. And then once he sort of confessed in this, sting operation with this person, then it went to downhill from there. Yes, he was, I think his time, I think he's like in life, in prison for life. So was it easier to forgive that you saw some justice for your girlfriend, or did that not really matter? It's so long ago. I'm not sure if I recall if I was thinking either way, but mm-hmm. But I think finding the person who did it was important just for safety matters. Mm-hmm. And curiosity and just, you know, who was it that did this? I, knowing the person to a certain degree, I mean, because we had hired him and had interactions with him. He wasn't a hundred [00:27:00] percent there, if you know what I mean. Oh, okay. Just so, I don't wanna use the word simple, but I use the word just not a hundred percent. You know, the elevator didn't go a hundred percent to the top. And I think it was not planned. I believe that it was just a sexual advance go bad, and he went to a point of no return, that she's gonna say something, I'm gonna get into trouble. And the only way to stop this is to end her life. Mm-hmm. And I believe that's what occurred and what happened. So he was single, he was in his thirties. Mm-hmm. Uh, and you know, a lot of sexual predators are kind of in that category. I don't know if he was or wasn't. I don't know. And there was no other charges in other parts of his life. But that's kind of how that unfolded. Ian, you know, at this point, I'm obviously very, very sad. She was an amazing girl. And being my grad prom date had sort of a. Not sort of had a significance sort of in my history, in my life as well, but I was just thankful that justice was [00:28:00] done and those things were discovered. And I'm just saying to those people at watch who are listening, that, you know, no matter what happens, we have these choices to be able to move to the next level. I mean, I'm thankful Diana, for your ministry and Ministries like you that help people to kind of bridge that gap from where they are to where they need to do or some of the work that we do as well. So, you know, example is my parents, my mom mm-hmm. Still has not processed this adult child of alcoholic. Her behavior is around it. Mm-hmm. In interesting enough, my sister who is in her fifties, and I hopefully she doesn't watch this, is you know, some of the tendencies are there too. Like, I know my parents won't watch it. But you know, if one of my family members watch it, is that, that worry side, that anxiety side that gets passed down? Yes. Now and obviously my depression side came out of that family dynamic. Mm-hmm. And then with my dad, never saying, never having a compliment. I think he just emotionally was unable to do it. Mm-hmm. Now, what's [00:29:00] really fun is my kids are 25 and 24 now, and they're very developed and skilled individuals. My wife Brenda, is a school teacher, so we're both in the professional development fields. Mm-hmm. And for their age. The kids are amazing. Of course, parents are biased about this, but they really mess with grandpa and grandma now. Oh. So my daughter will go in there, grandpa, we really, really, really love you. We really do. Just waiting to see if he'll say anything. And then he'll go, so he'll mumble and then he'll kind of be embarrassed. He'll look down. And it's not that he doesn't have any emotions, but the kids kind of know that. And they just, because grandparents can't mess with their grandkids that way. And then my son will do the same thing with them. And so from that point of view, we've just loved on them, accepting them for where they're at. I feel badly for them that they haven't been able to brace everything that they could. You know, when we're in the stressful situation, we are in the world right now. They have just taken the [00:30:00] worry of the whole world upon their shoulders. Right? You know, God's very clear in his word. Fear is from the enemy. Mm-hmm. You know, it doesn't mean stupid, but there's not one scripture that I'm aware of unless you want to correct me, Diana, that says, you know what? Being fearful a little bit's. Okay. Everything is fear. Not Well, you know, God says, he gives you fear so you don't jump off the edge of a cliff or, bungee jump off of Well, I have bungee jump, but I hear what you're saying is that, that fight or flight, yeah. That's a healthy fear. It keeps you from doing something really stupid. Mm-hmm. But, and then when we get into the scripture, you know, fear fear of the Lord is really a reverence for 'em if you get into the Greek and the Hebrew. Mm-hmm. Is that it's reverence for them and it's honoring of them. And in that's part of the problem in the global society right now. There's no fear of him. There's no reverence for God anymore. No. And so it's a godless society in many ways. That's why people are acting out when you take [00:31:00] God out, then you get these situations where people are spiritualists and they really are acting on their own. And the enemy is controlling them. Mm-hmm. Exactly. And their flesh. Yeah. Well, for sure. And if it's not modeled for you and we teach that in our development factors model that as an observer, as a child of the relationships around you, that's all you know to do. Yeah. And of course we think that life is around social media, that it's around podcasts like this, but there was none of that. Mm-hmm. Back 50, 60 years ago. And in fact, the TV was just even coming in and some of the examples there, and most of the examples were way more wholesome. Yeah. And loving back then. I think the. The most amount of violence was on gun smoke. Uh, I love that show. Of course. I mean, those of us that are older, remember that one? That was great. So part of what, you know, I wanna encourage the listeners [00:32:00] is, people do the best that they can with what they know. My mom has told me that she loves me, but it's kind of an awkward thing. It's a thing that she does there. If I say that I love her, then she would say, well, me too. Um, but not everybody is that way. And then you talk about intimacy. We used to joke with my parents that said, how do we exist? You guys never touch each other. Like, how did it even happen? Like, was it an accident while you were sleeping or something? So we used to just, we joked about that because there was zero. Intimacy between them. And but I think that again, was cultural and that was part of it. Now, when we think about ministry and spiritual life, and again, the, hopefully this reaches people and it touches your heart for the I went to a church that really nice people, but the services were equivalent to a funeral. Oh yeah. And then the other one is, is when you have the theology and the mindset that you do in that group, they were one of the, some of the most miserable people [00:33:00] that I knew, and this was the Christian Church. I said, well, why would I wanna be part of this? Right. 16, 17, 18, 19, I really fell off and I was crazy, wild and everything. Went to college found out that, uh, man, I could buy four cases of beer for 20 bucks back there in the province of Alberta. And the drinking age was 18 and that's what I was. And so it was a crazy time for me. But then when I got into my later years of my twenties, 26, 27, I was invited to a Bible study by a friend of mine and I said, I don't know. Like I always knew God was there. Mm-hmm. But I really didn't wanna have anything to do with him. I wasn't vile. There was some people that were violent. I was just disinterested in Christian people. Mm-hmm. The number one reason that I left the church were Christians. Yep. At least in my head. But I was around 25, 26 and I went to this Bible study and that this friend of mine, he had, it was a business owner and he had it one Saturday a month. And I walked in this room and [00:34:00] here are these Christians telling jokes and having fun. And it says those two things don't coexist with being a Christian. So he is having fun, he is telling jokes, he's enjoying himself. It wasn't a legalistic pet. And abyss. I said, what? And so all of a sudden my eyes were started to open up and then the spirit, oh no man, the spirit's gonna come. I might even cry. But he came to me because he had me tagged for this kinda work, right? Is he says, Ken, it's not about you and them, it's about you and me. Mm-hmm. So when we have issues with other people, it's always about going vertical. People will always disappoint you. And then his other, his next word to me was clear. He says, and Ken, when were you? Perfect. So none of us are perfect. And so, you know, some of the most judgmental people I've ever met were, have been in the Christian environment, right. That legalistic kind of side. And I said, okay, fine. [00:35:00] Now moving towards it. And that's when I was baptized in a friend's pool, I think it was 28 years of age, and started to go on this journey. And then later on started doing more work for Ministries and said, you know what? I really want to hone my, ministry side and decided to. Take additional biblical studies. Mm-hmm. And then be ordained actually through a friend of mine who, he has a pastor of a church, but he also is one of our associates. 'cause we license other people, around the world to use our tools to serve their community. So this pastor was using it to serve his team and all his team members were going through it. And he also was doing community outreach. And he says, no, we'll, Andor and you. Ordain you under our, CEEC banner. So there's probably about 4,000 kind of interdenominational groups that are under this banner, and that's why I'm ordained under that. I think, I don't know if I mentioned this in the podcast we were together yesterday, or the session yesterday, is I don't ever see myself being quote unquote a pastor of [00:36:00] a church, but doing extended ministry, helping people in ministry and leadership. I've, done a lot of retreats for leadership mm-hmm. For denominations because I can bring the expertise as a leadership in professional development consultants and well as a consultant to bear with the ministry context. And so it's just adding, and that's where I love actually doing the work. We have a local church, one of the larger ones, and the youth minister is a friend of mine. He also does apologetics. And so what we started to do is do his leadership group on our personality. I have a book called, why Aren't You More Like Me? Mm-hmm. And every once or twice a year, we would do retreats for those youth leaders that were 18 to 30 years of age. And in that moment I said, you know what? God has created us uniquely, but also perfectly for the assignments that he has for us in life. It's our responsibility to figure out [00:37:00] what that is. So, Dr. Pastor Randy, would get up front and he would say, next to accepting Christ. He says, I think this is one of the most important things you could learn, because every single person on this planet has a personal style. Other people call it a personality. Mm-hmm. And you are gonna bring that to bear in everything you do, every relationship you touch, every work piece, and responsibility you do. And it's not right, it's not wrong. You are uniquely created for the purposes that he has for you and the plan he has for you and the assignments he has for you and every. Personality or personal style has related strengths and stuff. Challenges, I guess. So I need to be responsible for that. I have, if I didn't have the strengths and tenacity that I was naturally born with, no way, I would've had the fortitude or resilience to overcome some of the things that this company's been through and some of the things that have been in front of me in my life. Wow. On the other hand, you don't want me to [00:38:00] be the auditor of your ministry books 'cause I'll just say it close enough because I absolutely. I might have an MBA, but I really dislike the minute details. I'm really an idea person, even though I've written 4 million words. The words are through ideas to influence people to improve their lives. Mm-hmm. To write a textbook on trigonometry is, I need him to come here and I'm gonna go to heaven quicker. I'm never gonna write. So part of those of you that are watching our ability to say no is equally important as our ability to say yes. Mm-hmm. So our responsibility as individuals, as believers say, everybody says, okay, the're great commission to share his word with other people. Okay. But where doing what for you? So that is the bigger question for us individually, to say, where does he want you to go? What does he want you to do? And you know, if I would've followed the [00:39:00] cultural pressures, I'd still be on the dairy farm. Mm-hmm. With my. Two brothers. And so my youngest brother has taken over the dairy farm and now his son is looking at taking over and his son has got a son. So now you're talking five or six generations. That's great. That's fine. But that's not what I am called to do. So my encouragement is, if you're watching this, there's two things. First of all, don't let the pressures of the past and other people's expectation drive you. Really only a Holy Spirit can lead you. Mm-hmm. And some close advisors that have wisdom and insights or even a word of knowledge for you that you wouldn't know that's driven from the Holy Spirit, not from here. The second one is that is true for you and you're a parent, or you're a significant other, or you're a partner. Why wouldn't you honor that uniqueness of the people around them as well? A friend of mine who's a believer, who was part owner of the company that I now own a hundred percent and I, but I've known him for 40 years. He, when we first got involved with this, he says, [00:40:00] Ken, my son's really. He's not gonna amount to anything. He's the laziest kid I've ever met. But what he was saying, because my friend is a driven entrepreneur like this guy at 70 works 12 hours a day, six days a week, even now, and you can't stop him. And that's just who he is. It's the fabric of who he is. He was a dairy farmer as well, so you, he's already got that in his gene. His son, who was not really lazy, was just extremely easygoing. So his style was just Dad, no chill. Just chill. Dad, whatever. You know what he is now? Pediatric doctor. Aw. So, sometimes we go there and we judge people and we say, you're not gonna melt to anything. You're lazy. You shouldn't be doing this. And in fact, God had a calling for, his name is John. To be a doctor and think about his nature. He's caring for kids, he has a heart for kids, he has the temperament for kids, he loves on them as a doctor. And then [00:41:00] gifted on that, what a better place to be now. The relationship between father and son have never been better as part of it. You know, as you think about this, how can we create a space, a safe space for individuals like you or me to go on this journey of discovery with me, not because of what I say or don't say, but together so that I can help you realize your potential. And one of the things that is, um, I do still kind of get a little miffed at how Christians can put other people down for certain reasons. Absolutely. Or just people in general. I had a point, and now it's gone. It'll come back to me here in a moment. But part of this is that. We don't want to be judging people about their direction and putting them down for certain directions. Mm-hmm. Because now what we're doing is we're spilling our fear into their space. The reality is the enemy will bring people around you to discount you. We even talked about that yesterday in [00:42:00] the, Christian business owners call. Mm-hmm. Is that the enemy wants to discount your worth. Yes. If I go, I have zero people says, Ken, you still get nervous speaking in front of groups. I says, never. Never. If it's a thousand people, 2000 people, 3000 people, I love it. I'm energized. You ever get nervous? Getting on a show? Never does not happen. However, if I'm asked to preach in front of a church, then the worthiness, the enemy comes after me and says, Ken, do you know who you are? What gives you the right to speak about Christ's righteousness in front of these people? And so my, so I want to call it wisdom mm-hmm. To individuals, is that the enemy wants to discount that, there's a big difference between confidence and arrogance is that we wanna be confident in who he is. And yes, he has asked me to share his word with others in the context, and I've done preaching for people online and in services at churches, [00:43:00] and then also led, you know, Ministries through our work and leadership and personality and wellness and all these things. But I'm still working on this thing where the enemy wants to attack this. Who do you think you are? Hmm. When he called out Moses, when Moses says, well, I'm not equipped for this. We use the, scripture from Gideon. I'm the weakest of my clan. Why? Why choose my me? And I started to think about that. Think about all the people that God chose. To lead and be in front. Half of them are murderers. I mean, I'm being demonstrative, but Right. So, hello. That didn't exclude them. Then you have this Pharisee who is killing Christians on the weekend, who wrote nearly half of the New Testament. Absolutely. What are you talking about? Because he's trying to demonstrate to you, me and everybody watching the transformational nature of his spirit and that there is nothing that's not [00:44:00] possible if you're in his will and following it. I will never, in spite of all, like you were talking off air about these, I'll call it new age kind of positive thinking stuff. Mm-hmm. I will never be a basketball player. It's just not gonna Me neither. At five nine. It is not gonna happen. It's just, I can have all the goals in the world. I can visualize all I want. It's just not going to happen. But if it's in the context of his will, and here's the other responsibility. As believers, it's your responsibility to find out what that will is. Where does he want you to go? And again, to be really careful, be really cautious to only get feedback from those people who are trusted advisors that know the spirit. Oh, I know what I was gonna say earlier is my family, when I decided to leave my sales job to start my own sales training, even then my parents said, my dad said to me, why would you leave a company that gives you a free [00:45:00] car? And then they give you lunches. Two, what a what an idiot you are to leave that job, to start this training business. Well, that company, by the way, three or four years later, went bankrupt. So that was kind of a little get back at your dad moment there. And they sort of fine. But that's how people are thinking. They're well-meaning they're trying to protect you. But don't absorb their fear. Don't let their doubt come into your space. Sometimes you have to be extremely guarded about I'll call it the unbelief of others around you. When Jesus didn't chastise the disciples very often, but he chastised them about fear in the boat and the water. Mm-hmm. But he also chastised their unbelief when they couldn't heal the crippled individual who was come on, help me with the word Diana. Possessed. And they said, what? Why couldn't we cast out the devil? They said, because of your unbelief. So [00:46:00] sometimes we need to make sure that we guard ourselves and be around those people that really are there with us, Diana, on that side, I'm getting a little preachy now instead of just a podcast on those. I love it. I love it. But my, and we talk a lot about boundaries that you have to have boundaries, physical boundaries, as well as mental boundaries. Who are you hanging out with? Who are you allowing to influence you? That's super important. Oh, and in fact, I was talking about this on another, podcast just this morning that I was on, is that, the research is clear who you associate with matters, and the proof is, is that your five closest associates will be the highest level of influence. In other words, if we look at your five closest friends, I can almost predict. With certainty what you are going to be like, how you're gonna think, how you're going to act, because you're constantly influencing each other. Now I remember, and I know you're almost getting close to the end of the show, but one of my [00:47:00] colleagues, not a believer, but very wise guy, Dr. Marshall Goldsmith, one of the top coaches in the world, wrote the book Triggers and What Got you here won't get you there. And I was at an invite only event in New York with him and 20 or 30 other people in the coaching industry. And one of the things he stated, and this is so true, especially people with trauma and they have family, is that a lot of times you want to go to a new level. So Diana, you're going to a new level, you're doing the podcast, you're doing this ministry, you're growing, I'm growing. Your past, the people that you grew up in high school or the people that know you or your family, they wanna keep you where you were. They don't want to you to go where you're going. So an example is when I got my doctorate degree, we had a family dinner and it was kind of a celebration. And one of my family members said to me with almost with the stain, we are never calling you doctor. Hmm. And part of it is that they knew me for who I was 30 years ago. [00:48:00] And then of course I left the farm. I went on my own started to develop relationships and connections with amazing people around the world. Is that some, not that I'm better than them, but I am different. And so I don't really share what I do with my family members. And that's what Marshall was teaching in his group is that sometimes who you become doesn't fit the people that you used to hang out with. It doesn't mean you don't hang out with them. You just limit that you are being with your family. Diana, what are you doing? He says, well, I'm doing ministry work and I'm running a podcast and just really helping people to overcome trauma. And that's it. That's all it's done. We don't talk about the great people we met or 'cause what happens is you're seen as being arrogant and who do you think you are rather than colleagues where you're just sharing your excitement about this growth. Oh yeah. I had relatives come up to me 'cause they heard me, I was a guest on somebody else's podcast. Oh, she can't do that. You know, she's gonna hurt somebody. She's not a licensed counselor. She's not this, she's not that. [00:49:00] And I have had training. I get considerable training. I'm not a licensed counselor, but the program that I follow, was written by a trauma counselor and a theology professor. So that's called Mending the Soul, by the way. Mm-hmm. Anyway, yeah, they're definitely, we're all already people telling me, well, you shouldn't be doing that. Who are you? You're not some, super professional girl. You're just Diana, you're just an abuse survivor. That's all you are kind of thing. So, yeah. Well, what happens a lot of times is envy can come in, jealousy can come in. They wanna still contain you and me to who we were, but it's also still their perception is true with, one of my family members where, they go on, oh, you, you're always this person that talks too much. That's what my dad said to me when I was a teenager. And of course he was putting me down for my style and what I do. And it was interesting because even though he [00:50:00] says, Ken, you talk too much and put me down for my style. I was the person that asked to be m Mc of banquets when I was 16 and 17 years of age because I would be quick on my feet, I'd be able to have a responsiveness. And I also took. The responsibility of being an mc of a banquet. Seriously, because have you ever been to these banquets that's run by volunteers where you have just a terrible mc and they ruin the night? Oh yeah. Well, the opposite. I said, no. I take this as a profession. Mm-hmm. And recently, interesting enough, in spite of sort of the history, my dad has a group called The Pioneers, which are elderly people have been in our community for, 60, 70, 80, 90 years. And they asked me to be the mc. And so then I've done it for two years. They won't hold it this year. And people come and said, how are you able to do that? Because the people that were doing it before were on the board. They were, dementia was already setting in and they were trying to lead this banquet and it was just a [00:51:00] disaster, nice people. But they were way out of their element and they shouldn't have been MCing it. Here's a family trying to contain, you said, who do you think you are? Put you down for talking yet. It's my profession. It's what I do. I've been paid or have conducted 3000 presentations around the world in the last 32 years. Hello? What? Like, help me out here and just like your family, my dad is, just really unsure about what I really do. If I say I'm doing some speaking or training for like Chrysler, well, he gets that, but producing psychological tools and assessments and all the other work, like we were talking around purpose. No, they, they wouldn't get it. So part of, you know, all of that story from both of us for the viewers and listeners is that it's okay to move on, but also you don't have to share your new life with your old life. Yeah. And that you can be that person for them, but guard your [00:52:00] future sort of, expounding about what you're gonna do and writing these books and creating these e-course and all that kind of stuff, they don't care. They're not there. So it's interesting because my wife and I, when we go to family events we talk about emotional intelligence and we talk about interpersonal intelligence and we talk about self-awareness. But one of the things we do at family events, we, we have a game. We say, could we go all night with 20 people in the room with three hours a time? We're not a single person will ask us a question about us and we can do it multiple times. So we go to an event and Diana, how are you doing and what's new at the ministry? And, how's the family doing? And I heard you went on this trip, a gifted conversationalist is a person who asks questions, right? But what we note is that nobody asks myself or my wife a question. Now, there's the odd occasion where it does occur. It does happen, but it's extremely [00:53:00] rare. So people like to talk about themselves. So we might say, well listen, we're thinking about going to Hawaii. Oh, we went to Hawaii two years ago and we're over here. And all of a sudden they're telling a story, which is all about being self-centered about their trip to Hawaii two years ago. And we just shared what, where we're going to Hawaii. They didn't ask about where you're going, when you're going, who's going? No. They went on to their own. This is a conversational skillset that most of the population does not have. And by the way, for those of you watching play the game. Go out there and, don't talk about yourself. If somebody talks about something, make sure you respond to it, but then transition back to a question and see if you can go all night without anybody asking a question about yourself. And then here's the other one. Don't be offended by it. Give it up. Offense is a choice. You know, we talked about trauma and we talked about forgiveness, but being offended is also a choice. Mm-hmm. Dr. David's Burn's work around, trauma, if you've ever read his book feel good [00:54:00] is, I mean, it's got about 500 pages at four point font. Is that my response is always a choice. Yes. And even Dr. Gottman in his work around relationships is that once I get over 100 beats per minute non-athletic, I'm no longer rational. Well, that's where we have trauma. We have abuse, we have crazy things that happen. One of our number one constituents, we serve as law enforcement. So, Dr. Anderson, who founded the company, was a criminology professor. And then one of my co-authors, Dr. Mitch dti, teaches law enforcement officers emotional intelligence. What's the most dangerous situation for law enforcement to go into domestic dispute? Yes. Why? Because people are irrational. Mm-hmm. So I've let myself get ramped up. I'm now biologically I'm no longer in control of my emotions. Mm-hmm. And now I will say and do things that will regret. Now I'm completely [00:55:00] outta control. I mean, there was this situation that happened in Palm Springs a couple, two, three years ago where there was abusive situation carrying on. The officers broke up, the couple started to contain him, and then she got a gun out and killed both officers. Oh. So that's why officers in these environments, they said you have to watch your back because it's completely. Unpredictable as part of it. So I mean, there's obviously lots of things that we've covered today in the show and we've gone for our 55 minutes. Anything else, Diana, that you wanted to maybe poke your head into before we close? Well, we could go down a whole bunch of rabbit trails on a lot of things that you said. You said so many great nuggets. But maybe for our listeners, perhaps. Give like a list of actionable things that they can do right now. Now just before I do it, so that we don't miss you, I have a gift for everybody. Yes. And [00:56:00] so I'm gonna give you access to the e-copy, Of my the Quest for Purpose book in the get that is go to my speaker site, which is Ken Keys, K-E-N-K-E-I s.com/faithful. You'll in that hidden URL and of course you'll be able to put it in the show notes, Diana as well. Mm-hmm. Is that you'll be able to go there and then download the e version of the book. What I am sometimes shocked at is that I give away this book is that the amount of people who don't. Opt in to get the book. It is a roadmap, a step-by-step process to get clear about who and what and where, and what you should be doing in your life and all components. And now it's gonna take work, it's gonna take time, but where are you gonna be in six months if you don't do it? So, uh, it's there. I spent six months going through this process with my coach, Mike McManus, you know, driving three hours each way when it wasn't pertinent. So when I think about actionable steps, [00:57:00] and you think about people's lives, first of all, if you don't have a purpose in life, then your purpose is to find your purpose. And so that becomes the focus, rather than trying to say, I better be doing this, or I just take a breath. Allow yourself time and space. I've noticed that the Holy Spirit is never frantic. He is on time and he is moving forward, but he is never Fran frantic. And so, chaos is not from him. So just be peaceful, be quiet, and start paying attention and asking yourself this question, if you are doing what you're doing right now in all contexts of your life 20 years from now, is that okay? And if you say no, then that obviously infers change. So what is it that you're gonna move towards? Don't freak out. Don't try to do it all. I mean, if I'm trying to be a marathon runner this morning and then I said, I'm gonna run and do a marathon tonight, I'm gonna be dead. Just, I gotta [00:58:00] train for it. Yep. So life is the same way. The other one is for us and our resources, is that there's all different ways to get to clarity. So we have assessments and they're all learning assessments. So a values assessment, a self-worth assessment, a personality assessment we have a self-worth one I might have mentioned that already. And so all of those become puzzle pieces to create the clarity. The other one, Diana, is, is get a group that's gonna support you, look around and don't judge the five closest friend, but say are the five closest friends in a space that are gonna help you to go where you need to go. And sometimes one of my mentors used to say, you know what, Ken? Sometimes you need to fire clients. He says, why? He says, you've outgrown them. The client that you're serving now is not the client that you started with five years ago. So you know, like my fees and what I do is completely different than what it was 15 years ago. So [00:59:00] now start paying attention to that. And then the other thing is, is that life takes effort. If you get finish watching the show and do nothing and do no action steps, then you're gonna have the same thing tomorrow. So what are the steps that you can take? Start moving towards it, download the book. It's got a complete roadmap. And the other thing we'll make sure that my contact information is there, Diana, is that if people have questions, reach out, I'll respond as, as best as I can in the time that's allotted there. But I'll respond to you to be able to say, Hey, how can we help you or call you and your ministry? Mm-hmm. And some of the coaching that is available there. So that'll get you started. And again, don't try to do it all overnight. Just take one step at a time. The research shows is that if you try to three things at wants to change it, you have about a 15% likelihood of implementing it and a 75% success rate if it's just one thing. So one thing at a time, progress forward and keep listening to Diana's podcast. [01:00:00] And that should be the other step that they do too. Right. Wow, this was so awesome. I cannot wait to read that book and I hope that our listeners will download the book and get busy reading it and putting those things into practice. We will probably have to have you back again in the future because I can just tell you have so much more to share with us to help anytime to be able to serve and support and, you know, go granular in some of these other areas that we can talk about. For sure, anytime, Diana, So today, just choose one thing, one small thing to get you closer to your healing goals. God bless. Thank you for listening to the Wounds of the Faithful Podcast. If this episode has been helpful to you, please hit the subscribe button and tell a friend. You could connect with us at DSW Ministries dot org [01:01:00] where you'll find our blog, along with our Facebook, Twitter, and our YouTube channel links. Hope to see you next week.

ITP - 131 What happens when seasoned teachers step into a brand-new culture? Coreen and Subhadra reflect on challenges, strategies, and the importance of mentorship in thriving as international educators in the U.S.Order their book: Reaching Beyond Borders: The International Teachers' Guide to Migrating and Teaching in the U.S. at https://www.amazon.com/REACHING-BEYOND-BORDERS-International-Migrating/dp/B0FCDCVCKF/ref=sr_1_1?crid=14582JXI026WD&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vVdKNx2P9TBfpE8To9ik-0_z1OUqnDKQISYQSpZdXcglwR6ioy4DmmRx3EZBmNORQ4HM3zx2W67QuCBTJjsaaw.3UkkubKXCpr-xFt4EH4B9brUYm3-EderA36163JdCOQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=reaching+beyond+borders&qid=1759570825&s=books&sprefix=reaching+beyond+borders%2Cstripbooks%2C232&sr=1-1Chapters(00:00) Introduction and Setting the Stage(01:25) Meeting the Guests: International Teachers' Perspectives(04:21) Journeys to the U.S.: Corinne's Story(07:21) Journeys to the U.S.: Subhadra's Story(10:02) The Impact of International Teaching(12:41) The Book: Reaching Beyond Borders(15:24) Challenges Faced by International Teachers(18:40) Cultural Adjustments and Teaching Strategies(21:12) The Importance of Mentorship(23:56) Driving Test Anecdote and Cultural Differences(35:14) Facing Challenges and Finding Support(38:15) Struggles of International Teachers(41:48) The Role of International Teachers in a Globalized World(45:30) Cultural Exchange and Understanding(49:01) Humorous Encounters with Law Enforcement(57:35) Bringing Culture and Identity to the Classroom(01:01:50) Settling in and Family Dynamics(01:07:27) Final Thoughts and Reflections_____The International Teacher Podcast is a bi-weekly discussion with experts in international education. New Teachers, burned out local teachers, local School Leaders, International school Leadership, current Overseas Teachers, and everyone interested in international schools can benefit from hearing stories and advice about living and teaching overseas.Additional Gems Related to Our Show:Greg's Favorite Video From Living Overseas - ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQWKBwzF-hw⁠Signup to be our guest  ⁠https://calendly.com/itpexpat/itp-interview?month=2025-01⁠Our Website⁠ -  ⁠https://www.itpexpat.com/⁠Our FaceBook Group - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/itpexpat⁠⁠JPMint Consulting Website  - ⁠https://www.jpmintconsulting.com/⁠Greg's Personal YouTube Channel: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLs1B3Wc0wm6DR_99OS5SyzvuzENc-bBdO⁠Books By Gregory Lemoine:⁠International Teacher Guide: Finding the "Right Fit" 2nd Edition (2025)⁠ | by Gregory Lemoine M.Ed.⁠⁠"International Teaching: The Best-kept Secret in Education"⁠⁠ | by Gregory Lemoine M.Ed.Partner Podcasts:Just to Know You:  https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/just-to-know-you/id1655096513Educators Going Global: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/educators-going-global/id1657501409⁠Relative Hashes:#internationalteachersday #internationaleducation #overseaseducation #internationalschools #education #teacherburnout #teachersalarynews #teachersalary #teacherrecruitments #overseaseducatorfairs

Send us a textRHOSLC-Dusty Shelves and Dirty SecretsPodcast Summary – RHOSLC S6 E4 “Petty Little Liars”This episode picks up at the tense “clarity lunch,” where Lisa Barlow and Bronwyn continue to clash. Bronwyn demands accountability, while Lisa deflects with insults. Whitney calls Lisa an “irrational toddler” and removes herself from the chaos. The drama spills over when Lisa targets Angie K's business, mocking her salon ownership. Angie fires back, exposing Lisa's lies and calling her out for not promoting her son's “Fresh Wolf” brand—“it belongs in Walmart,” she snaps.Heather tries to mediate, telling both women they went too low and reminding Lisa that her strength often reads as cruelty. Lisa tearfully admits feeling vulnerable and reconciles with Angie, Heather, and even Bronwyn, leading to a group toast to “friends who love hard and hurt hard.”Meanwhile, Meredith shows off her new jewelry-and-caviar lounge, and Heather has lunch with Mary, who hilariously claims tequila “tastes like hospital.” Whitney installs a new stripper pole at home and later advises Britani to mend things with her daughter.Bronwyn meets with Lisa at Vida Tequila to clear the air. The two finally address last season's rumor—Lisa repeating gossip that Bronwyn faked a miscarriage. Both apologize and agree to keep their families out of it. Later, Bronwyn has a deep, emotional conversation with her mom Muzzy about shame, motherhood, and their complicated past, revealing lingering pain from being a teen mom who wasn't celebrated.Mary visits her remodeled church, reflecting on her grandmother's legacy and her broken relationship with her late mother, finding closure in reopening the Faith Temple. Angie practices for her cosmetology license exam and vents to Heather about a petty text war with Lisa involving dusty Fresh Wolf products. Meredith meets Angie for coffee, and Angie drops a bomb—Lisa allegedly encouraged her to dig up dirt on Meredith's family. Meredith's ready for confrontation, setting the stage for next week's explosive group fight.Support the showhttps://www.wewinewhenever.com/

In this episode of Documentary First, filmmaker Josh Roush opens up about his deeply personal journey creating the documentary Long Lonesome Highway, a heartfelt tribute to legendary actor Michael Parks. Josh reflects on his friendship with Parks, the creative decisions behind the film, and the challenges of navigating distribution, budgeting, and fair use of archival footage.The conversation dives into Parks' multifaceted talent, his artistic integrity, and the lessons learned from a career defined by both triumph and adversity. Together, we explore how passion fuels storytelling, the power of documentaries to preserve legacies, and the importance of resilience in the face of obstacles.This episode is not just about one film—it's about what it takes to make art that matters. Links:Josh Roush Narrative Film - IMDB Link: Wrong Reasons (2022) - Reference view - IMDbDocuView Déjà Vu Recommendation:Burden of Dreams by Werner Herzog, 1982, 95 mins, Watch on Amazon Prime, IMDB Link: Burden of Dreams (1982) - Reference view - IMDbTimecodes:00:00 Final Thoughts and Future Endeavors09:25 Navigating Challenges in Filmmaking10:20 The Influence of Michael Parks11:31 Building a Unique Relationship13:47 The Value of Listening to Elders14:26 Uncovering Stories from the Past16:40 The Genesis of a Documentary Idea18:02 Family Dynamics in Storytelling18:54 The Kevin Smith Connection20:58 The Role of Fair Use in Documentary Filmmaking25:46 The Use of Music and Soundtrack28:02 Budgeting and Financial Realities of Filmmaking29:29 Personal Reflections on Filmmaking34:45 Lessons from Michael Parks' Life41:02 Legacy and Impact of Michael42:12 Documentary Recommendations and Insights43:33 Teaser Video44:18 Documentary First promo Sponsor: Virgil Films http://www.virgilfilms.com/Support us by buying merch or watching our films: https://documentaryfirst.com/

Navigating Complex Relationships: From Personal Transformation to Step-Family DynamicsBill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore two compelling listener questions involving relationship challenges and personal growth. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone dealing with complex interpersonal dynamics or seeking lasting behavioral change.Understanding Personal Transformation and High-Conflict RelationshipsThe episode examines how individuals can create meaningful change in their lives through skill development and self-awareness. The hosts discuss practical approaches for managing challenging relationships, particularly in blended family situations where communication difficulties arise between step-parents and biological parents.Questions Addressed in This Episode:How can someone break long-standing behavioral patterns?What role do skills like flexible thinking and emotional management play in personal change?How can step-parents navigate challenging relationships with their partner's ex?What communication strategies work best when dealing with hostile messages?How can someone maintain boundaries while keeping communications focused on children?Key Takeaways:Change is possible through developing specific skills: flexible thinking, managed emotions, moderate behavior, and self-checkingCreating new behavioral patterns rather than trying to eliminate old onesThe value of "extinction" in managing difficult communicationsImportance of responding only to relevant information in hostile messagesUnderstanding that others' hostile behavior reflects their operating system, not personal failingThe hosts emphasize the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm) as a cornerstone communication strategy, along with other practical approaches such as focusing on logistics and future-oriented communications, maintaining boundaries while staying civil, recognizing when non-response is the best response, and separating emotional content from necessary information. These tools provide actionable approaches for anyone seeking to improve challenging relationships or create lasting personal change, while emphasizing the importance of skill development and consistent practice.Additional ResourcesExpert PublicationsBook (pre-orders being taken - publishing November 2025): SLIC Solutions for Conflict: Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences in 2 1/2 StepsBook: 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifePersonal TransformationConflict Influencer® 6-week class (Zoom) for everyoneNew Ways for Families® Co-parenting Without Court Online Class (with optional coaching)1:1 Coaching & Consultation (For Your Legal Case w/ Bill Eddy; For Other Situations w/ Megan Hunter)Professional DevelopmentBill Eddy's Signature New Ways Training (for mediators; for counselors and divorce coaches; for workplace coaches; for workplace leaders)Connect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.comSubmit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formatsFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteWatch this episode on YouTube!Important NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:41) - Listener Question #1 (11:16) - Listener Question #2 (28:52) - Reminders

Warning: this episode may contain MIND-BLOWING moments. Stephen Gross is a practising psychoanalyst and a personal hero of mine. He has worked with patients for more than 45 years and his first book, The Examined Life, drew on these experiences. When it was published in 2013, it caused a sensation and went straight to number one in the Sunday Times bestseller list. Since then, hundreds of thousands of readers, including me, have taken it to our hearts. Now 12 years on from his debut, Grosz is back with Love's Labor, which asks fundamental questions around how to love and be loved in return, drawing on his almost half a century of clinical expertise. In this episode we discuss why real love causes suffering, why failed marriages are often the best kind, the difference between surrender and submission in relationships, why loss has to be part of being human and how we can be happy. Plus: a fascinating peek into what it's like to be a psychoanalyst when I get to ask ‘are you ever annoyed by your clients?' ✨ IN THIS EPISODE: 02:28 Understanding Attachment to Suffering 04:25 The Role of Denial in Our Lives 06:32 Failures and Self-Perception 07:23 Stephen's Childhood 21:46 The Power of Unconscious Signals 25:24 Navigating Change and Loss 26:25 The Anxiety of Letting Go 28:22 The Price of Love 29:23 Writing from the Heart 30:16 Support Systems 32:27 Family Dynamics and Psychoanalysis 36:51 Surrender vs. Submission 45:25 Understanding Pain and Grief 48:25 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Send us a textIn Episode,  the crew keeps it real with raw stories, jokes, and serious talks about everyday Cayman life. From broken drawers to broken systems, they dive into family lessons, mortgages, ATM fees, justice, and the ups and downs of life.Chapters00:00 – Intro & Opening Banter02:10 – The Broken Drawer Story06:30 – Who's Really to Blame?15:00 – Cayman Cost of Living Talk25:00 – Justice, Sentencing & Accountability37:30 – Mortgages & Money Matters47:20 – ATM Fees & Everyday Costs55:00 – Family Dynamics & Generational Lessons01:10:00 – Community, Growth & Future Outlook01:20:00 – Closing Thoughts & Sign Off#PodcastClips #PodcastLife #PodcastDiscussion #RealTalk #UnfilteredConversationsSupport the show

SummaryWhat if the real breakthrough in parenting starts with you? In this episode, discover how the power of pause, play, and presence can reshape your relationship with your tween. Instead of rushing to fix behavior, you'll explore how shifting your own approach creates space for growth, connection, and lasting change. Tune in and uncover what truly moves the needle in your family dynamic.What to expect in this episode:Why “driving the car” is a metaphor every parent should understandHow visual tools and playful structure reduce stress at homeThe surprising power of co-regulation vs. correctionWhy pause practices create more change than fast fixesHow belief in your child's ability sets the tone for growthAbout Yulia RafailovaYulia Rafailova is a coach, speaker, and founder of MindFull Education. She helps parents and adolescents build executive function through mindfulness, collaboration, and personalized strategies. With a background in academic consulting and lived experience with ADHD and anxiety, she brings empathy and insight to every family she supports. Connect with Yulia Website: Pause People Coaching | Mindful Education  About Dan Leibowitz, M.Ed.,M.Sped.,C.E.T. Dan Leibowitz is an educator, consultant, and parent coach with over 30 years of experience. He supports families in building routines, co-regulation, and emotional self-awareness at home. With advanced degrees in education and training in educational therapy, Dan helps parents shift patterns to foster resilience and independence in kids.Connect with DanWebsite: Pause People Coaching | Innovative Learning Services   Related Links: EP135: It's All About Control: Are You Ready?https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-135-its-all-about-control-are-you-readyEP216: ADHD & Memory: It's So Important, I Forgothttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep216-adhd-memory-its-so-important-i-forgotGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/improve-executive-function-and-family-dynamics-in-the-tween-years Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Hosts: Dr. Ashlee Gethner, LCSW – Child of a Police Officer Jennifer Woosley Saylor, LPCC S – Child of a Police Officer Guest: Kristin Greathouse, BSN, RN, NC-BC - Wife & Child of a First Responder In this insightful episode, hosts Jennifer and Ashlee welcome the extraordinary Kristin Greathouse - nurse, board-certified nurse coach, first responder spouse and daughter to unpack the unique challenges and strengths of families serving on the front lines. They delve into Kristin’s personal journey, the crucial differences between coaching and therapy, and how coaching serves as a vital resource for first responder families navigating stress, trauma, and the demands of their roles. Key Discussion Points: Kristin’s Story: Kristin shares her background as both a child and spouse of first responders, her own path to nursing (including returning to school at 40!), and why she became passionate about nurse coaching. Nurse Coaching Explained: What nurse coaching is, how it differs from traditional therapy, and why it’s particularly impactful for those in high-stress professions and their families. Family Dynamics & First Responders: Kristin opens up about the realities of marriage to a police officer, navigating hypervigilance, and the importance of building a peaceful home sanctuary. Themes in Coaching First Responder Families: Common struggles such as apologizing for feelings, putting oneself last, and the journey toward self-worth. Self-Care that Actually Works: Kristin and the hosts exchange quick, practical self-care tools that resonate for first responders and their loved ones from tactical breathing and body scans to journaling (even with video!) and honest emotional expression. Coaching in Real Life: How coaching techniques help defuse tension and promote understanding at home, plus why you shouldn’t take your partner’s work stress personally. Supporting First Responder Kids: Reflections on growing up in a first responder household, the role of resilience, and insights for children (and parents) who carry these unique experiences.   Resources & Tips Mentioned:   EMDR therapy for trauma Tactical (box) breathing techniques Video and written journaling Progressive muscle relaxation Want to get in touch with Kristin?  Email: kmhgreathouse@gmail.com If this episode resonated with you or if you have stories to share about living with a first responder, reach out to Ashlee and Jennifer on their social media platforms! Thank you for tuning in! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review "When The Call Hits Home" on your favorite podcast platforms!   Follow Us: - Facebook: When The Call Hits Home Podcast - Instagram: @whenthecallhitshome - Whenthecallhitshome.com --- This podcast does not contain medical / health advice. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment and should not be relied on as health or personal advice. The information contained in this podcast is for general information purposes only. The information is provided by Training Velocity LLC and while we endeavour to keep the information up to date and correct, we make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, suitability or availability with respect to the Podcast or the information, products, services, or related graphics contained in the podcast for any purpose. Any reliance you place on such information is strictly at your own risk.  WE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE NOR LIABLE FOR ANY ADVICE, COURSE OF TREATMENT, DIAGNOSIS OR ANY OTHER INFORMATION, SERVICES OR PRODUCTS THAT YOU OBTAIN THROUGH THIS PODCAST.  Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment and before undertaking a new health care regimen, and never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.

Sue Dominus, New York Times writer and author of The Family Dynamic: A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success, joins Doree and Elise to discuss how birth order does and doesn't affect our identities, how to outsource discipline and make the home life safe and loving, and the thing she wishes she had done more with her kids.To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at forever35podcast@gmail.com.Visit forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today's Real Sober Mom, Jennifer, is celebrating one year of sobriety! To celebrate, she is coming full circle and telling her story here on the podcast after feeling so supported by other women who have shared their stories in the same space. Alcohol found its way into Jennifer's life through her older brother, and as they became adults a culture of partying became central to her family dynamic. This family dynamic weaved its way through her relationship with alcohol, even as she navigated liver issues in her twenties and cancer in her thirties. Jennifer began to question her relationship with alcohol after she completed treatment for colon cancer. Once she realized that she was a ‘gray area drinker' she began to explore quit lit and hired a sober coach, but it took some time for sobriety to fully ‘click' for her. The Sober Mom Life community served as a major turning point for Jennifer as she realized for the first time that she wasn't alone. With a year of sobriety under her belt, Jennifer shares about how sobriety has impacted her family dynamic, and how finding new ‘tools' to cope in place of alcohol has made all the difference in her life. Are you craving a community in sobriety? Join us in the Sober Mom Life Cafe! You'll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club, happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and more! Get one week free at this link! Or, check out our new community offering - The Sober Mom Collective! With one peer support meeting a week and access to the community social feed, this is a great way to dip your toes in. My book, The Sober Shift, is out now, and I'm going on a book tour! Take a look at my events calendar for a book tour stop near you. I would LOVE to meet you and thank you for being a part of this incredible community! https://www.instagram.com/thesobermomlife/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the often misunderstood concept of enabling in the context of addiction. With her characteristic honesty and humor, Brianne sheds light on how enabling behaviors can mask deeper emotional discomfort and perpetuate the cycle of addiction. She shares her insights from years of personal experience in recovery and her work with others, emphasizing that enabling is not an act of love but a misguided attempt to exert control over a loved one's addiction.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines the signs of enabling, including making excuses for a loved one's behavior, prioritizing their needs over your own, and feeling anxious when unable to help. She passionately argues that true support for an addict requires setting boundaries and allowing them to face the consequences of their actions. Listeners will learn practical steps to break the cycle of enabling, such as empowering loved ones to take responsibility for themselves, reframing financial support, and prioritizing personal well-being.This episode serves as a crucial reminder that recovery is a personal journey and that sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to step back and allow our loved ones to confront their challenges head-on. Join Brianne as she navigates the complexities of enabling and offers hope for healthier relationships and personal growth.

Forgive us for being all "woo woo" but we are in our feelings this week as we catch up 1 month after Melanie's move. We read your messages and comments on every platform and couldn't leave our Mama's Den fam hanging on the morning commute. This week, we discuss our recent transitions and the impact of change on family dynamics, the importance of supportive relationships, the even power of manifestation. Tap in with us as we embrace some beautiful changes TOGETHER!And if you're in Atlanta on November 3rd, come see us live! https://citywinery.com/atlanta/events/the-mamas-den-podcast-live-6vpkv0________________________ Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas on Instagram:The Mama's Den - @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode, Jeremy is joined by veteran youth pastor Jonathan Kornelsen from Central Community Church in Chilliwack, BC, to unpack a question that every youth worker eventually faces: How do I care for a student whose family life is messy, broken, or confusing?Jonathan brings 20+ years of youth ministry experience into this honest, compassionate conversation about the limits and opportunities of our role as youth workers. From mandatory reporting to faithful presence, from avoiding the savior complex to knowing when to just take a kid out for ice cream—this episode offers a practical guide for navigating the mess with wisdom and love.Whether you're a volunteer, point leader, or ministry director, this episode will help you better support students walking through complicated family dynamics.Looking for a practical next step? Try out one of these things…Listen to Episode 104 – What Should You Know About Crisis, Trauma, Abuse & Neglect (interview with a police officer and social worker)If you're unsure about a disclosure, report it or talk to someone who can.Be a calm, safe, trustworthy adult in a student's life without trying to “fix” them.Know your community's referral resources (counselors, food banks, support workers)Be quick to pray, often and out loud, for students navigating hard situationsCommit to the long haul—healing takes time, and your presence matters more than you knowYou should also get Jonathan's new book Youth Ministry Blueprint, available on Amazon.Have a question or want to dig deeper? You can email jeremy@youthworker.community.

In this episode of 'Need Some Introduction,' hosts Victor and Sona delve into the highly anticipated and suspenseful fifth episode of HBO Max's 'Vagrant.s' They discuss key plot points including the unfolding tension between characters, the thematic elements of redemption and faith, and significant character developments. The episode reveals Grasso as the mole, explores Robbie's desperate moves, and culminates in a gripping cliffhanger. Additionally, the hosts touch on the show's broader themes through character interactions and speculate on future episodes. mailto:needssomeintroduction@gmail.com   00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:47 Public Service Announcement: Avoiding a Bad Show 04:58 Behind the Scenes: Fun Facts and Interviews 06:44 Episode Breakdown: Cliffhangers and Character Arcs 10:53 Plot Theories and Character Motivations 15:13 Tense Confrontations and Plot Twists 17:56 Parallel Investigations and Moral Dilemmas 33:04 Lizzie's Complex Character Arc 34:59 Tom's Tense Encounter with Robbie 35:54 Robbie's Nervousness and Tom's Investigation 37:01 Philosophical Conversations in the Car 44:04 Family Dynamics and Emotional Moments 53:59 The Final Confrontation and Cliffhanger

ITP - 131 What happens when seasoned teachers step into a brand-new culture? Coreen and Subhadra reflect on challenges, strategies, and the importance of mentorship in thriving as international educators in the U.S.Order their book:  Reaching Beyond Borders: The International Teachers' Guide to Migrating and Teaching in the U.S.Chapters(00:00) Introduction and Setting the Stage(01:25) Meeting the Guests: International Teachers' Perspectives(04:21) Journeys to the U.S.: Corinne's Story(07:21) Journeys to the U.S.: Subhadra's Story(10:02) The Impact of International Teaching(12:41) The Book: Reaching Beyond Borders(15:24) Challenges Faced by International Teachers(18:40) Cultural Adjustments and Teaching Strategies(21:12) The Importance of Mentorship(23:56) Driving Test Anecdote and Cultural Differences(35:14) Facing Challenges and Finding Support(38:15) Struggles of International Teachers(41:48) The Role of International Teachers in a Globalized World(45:30) Cultural Exchange and Understanding(49:01) Humorous Encounters with Law Enforcement(57:35) Bringing Culture and Identity to the Classroom(01:01:50) Settling in and Family Dynamics(01:07:27) Final Thoughts and Reflections

Send us a textSpecial Forces-Daughters, Demons, and Deep WaterPodcast Summary – Special Forces S4 E2: SurvivalDay 2 begins with 17 recruits left. Teresa struggles with the physical demands, already complaining about small comforts like napkins. The day's challenges test endurance, fear, and emotional strength.Underwater Escape Drill:Recruits must hold their breath underwater, escape a submerged plane, and exit correctly.Eva and Jussie go first—Eva makes it out but needs rescuing, while Jussie repeatedly exits the wrong door, failing twice.Several pairs fail, including Teresa & Gia, who are reminded that Teresa must stop leaning on her daughter.Jussie is pulled in by the DS, admitting he's haunted by the fallout of his highly publicized scandal and is desperate to redefine himself.Emotional Cracks:Teresa admits her past violent outburst against a cheating boyfriend, but later withdraws when she can't watch Gia fight.Eva is too shaken to continue and is pulled from the course for her safety.Gia opens up about her trauma—her parents' legal troubles, her mom's imprisonment, and the heavy responsibility of caring for her sisters at just 13. DS tells her she no longer needs to carry her mother's burdens and should now carve out her own path.Milling (Fight Challenge):Brutal one-on-one brawls force recruits to fight without emotion.Shawn Johnson East and Brianna Chicken Fry fight to a bloody draw.Other fights end in wins or draws, but emotions run high throughout.By the end of Day 2, only 15 recruits remain. The DS emphasizes stripping away emotions to survive, while the younger recruits like Gia face their deepest personal triggers.Support the showhttps://www.wewinewhenever.com/

The Closet Disco Queen podcast, featuring hosts Queenie and TT, is a chatty show for midlife women interested in adult-use cannabis. The episode covers various anecdotes, including Queenie's time spent with a young woman from Shanghai, observations about local changes due to construction, and reflections on memories of a local zoo and theater experiences. The hosts share their cannabis use for the day—TT opting for sativa gummies and Queenie for a sativa pre-roll. They discuss the longest cannabis worker strikes in Pennsylvania and Michigan, the importance of unions, and workplace safety. The podcast also includes a humorous and informative Q&A segment advising how to handle unexpected visits from grandchildren while using cannabis. Finally, a game segment and song lyrics add to the lighthearted, engaging nature of the show.Welcome to the Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast, a comedy podcast with music and pop culture references that keeps you laughing and engaged. Join our hosts, Queenie & TT as they share humorous anecdotes about daily life, offering women's perspectives on lifestyle and wellness. We dive into funny cannabis conversations and stories, creating an entertaining space where nothing is off-limits. Each episode features entertaining discussions on pop culture trends, as we discuss music, culture, and cannabis in a light-hearted and inclusive manner. Tune in for a delightful blend of humor, insight, and relatable stories that celebrate life's quirks and pleasures. Our Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast deals with legal adult cannabis use and is intended for entertainment purposes only for those 21 and older Visit our Closet Disco Queen Pot-Cast merch store!Find us on Facebook and Green Coast RadioSound from Zapsplat.com, https://quicksounds.com, 101soundboards.com #ToneTransfer

"Learning about the inner child process connected things in a way that I had never thought of... never consciously recognized, and it was stark. And it started to explain so much."In this emotional and deeply transformative episode, I sit down with Hilary Valentine to talk about her journey inside The Mothership and the powerful shifts she experienced as she healed her mother wound. Hilary shares how the sudden loss of her father became a turning point that pushed her to re-examine her life, her family dynamics, and the patterns she was carrying. What followed was a profound exploration of inner child work, where she uncovered hidden layers of codependency, guilt, and unspoken grief that had been shaping her relationships since childhood.Through the process, Hilary moved from intellectualizing her pain to fully feeling and releasing it in her body, transformations that rippled into her relationship with her mom, her husband, her kids, and even her business. She bravely speaks about the moments of breakthrough that shifted her identity from people-pleasing and self-doubt into embodied clarity, freedom, and authentic self-expression.If you've ever struggled with family dynamics, carried unprocessed grief, or felt the weight of expectations shaping your choices, Hilary's story will inspire you to trust the process of inner healing and remind you that breaking generational patterns is not only possible, it changes everything.TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTSLife on the Road – Hilary's family's full-time RV journey and what led her to join The Mothership.The Catalyst: Losing Her Father – Shifting life perspective for a new path.Struggles with Family Reactions – Opening up about guilt and mom's sense of abandonment.The Mother Story Realization – Discoveries through the inner child process.Unprocessed Grief Around Her Brother – Facing hidden emotions of fear, anger, and guilt tied to her brother's terminal illness and loss.Breakthrough with Her Mom – The pivotal moment when Hilary embodied the work.Owning Her Truth in Business and Life**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**  When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world. My 4-week Unblock Your Business immersion is coming up the second week of October. It's specifically for business owners who feel stuck, plateaued, or for those of you who want to start a business, but feel unmotivated, procrastinate, or put everything off without knowing what's stopping you from moving forward. Email me so we can talk about it.The Mothership is where you'll gain access to all my programs, trainings, and masterclasses—past, present, and future. Additionally, you'll benefit from monthly group coaching calls, a community Telegram chat, and a monthly group breathwork session, just like Hilary did.Join me on Substack where I'll be sharing my hot takes on dissolving childhood wounding that keeps you small, so you can make a lot of money living your purpose.CONTACT HILARYsoulalignedmotherhood.comFollow on IG soulalignedmotherhoodCheck out her blogCONTACT ALYSEalysebreathes.comIG @alyse_breathesinfo@alysebreathes.com

Welcome to Real Food Recovery, a podcast created by two lifelong processed food addicts with over 100 years of addiction (and recovery) between them. Paige Alexander and Jamie Morgan Reno use their Real Food Recovery podcast and social media channels to share their struggles, lessons learned, tools, tips, and resources that freed them from decades of food addiction, obsession, and loss.     This episode is a deeply personal one for both of us, as we discuss what happens when family dynamics intersect with food recovery. What do you do when someone in your family activates a wound—and all you want is the thing you swore you'd stop turning to for comfort? Whether it's your mom, your sibling, or even a parent you don't enjoy being around—these emotional hits can send us straight back into food noise, cravings, or numbing. Today, we're going to explore how to respond without reacting, protect our peace, and maintain our integrity.   In every Real Food Recovery episode, Paige and Jamie take time to answer viewer questions about processed food addiction, obsession, and recovery. Be sure to submit yours on their YouTube Channel or Facebook Page. You can also follow Real Food Recovery on Instagram (@realfoodrecovery4u), TikTok (@realfoodrecovery), or at www.realfoodrecovery4u.com.

Send us a textRHOSLC-From Court Docs to ChaosPodcast Summary – RHOSLC S6 E3 “Dismissed”The episode kicks off with Lisa preparing for a big event, listing off her high-profile connections to prove her business credibility. She feels the other women constantly try to diminish her accomplishments.Meanwhile, Bronwyn opens up about her parents' serious health struggles—her father has Alzheimer's and is now in memory care, while her mother is recovering from a brain tumor. She praises Todd for stepping up, though tension with her mom lingers as she still seeks her approval.Angie shares tender moments with her 89-year-old father, reflecting on his immigrant story and her desire to pass on their Greek heritage to her daughter Elektra. Later, she visits Heather, who is transforming a sunroom into a creative office after years of writing in bed.The drama ignites at Lisa's Blue Sky Lodge event, which she sets up like a “litigation showcase” with poster boards addressing accusations against her—including rumors of secret credit cards, financial debts, and shady business ties. The women question whether her dismissals mean the cases are truly resolved.The confrontation spirals:Bronwyn accuses Lisa of calling her degrading names and digging into her past.Lisa claps back, saying Bronwyn lies and deflects.Whitney and Lisa explode into a heated fight over businesses and finances, ending with Whitney storming out.Angie and Lisa clash over motives, with Lisa throwing out a Jen Shah comparison.Even Meredith and Britney exchange sharp words about loyalty and legal expertise.In the end, the lunch proves more chaotic than clarifying, leaving friendships fractured and accusations still flying.On WWHL, polls overwhelmingly sided against Lisa's “poster board defense,” with fans finding her explanations unconvincing.TakeawaysThe new taglines reflect personal growth and character traits.Lisa's event highlights her business ambitions and social status.Bronwyn's family struggles reveal deeper emotional layers.Angie's connection to her Greek heritage is significant.Bronwyn's mother's influence complicates her self-perception.Heather's transition to a new workspace symbolizes personal growth.The skeet shooting event showcases social dynamics among the cast.Lisa's presentation at lunch raises questions about authenticity.The characters' interactions reveal underlying tensions and friendships.The episode balances humor with serious themes. The clarity lunch was meant to provide answers but led to more questions.Deflection is a common tactic used by Housewives to avoid accountability.Friendship dynamics can shift dramatically in the face of accusations.Transparency is valued, but often overshadowed by drama.Public perception can heavily influence the narrative of reality TV.The hosts noted Lisa's unhinged behavior during the lunch.Accusations can lead to a cycle of retaliation among cast members.The use of props and poster boards did not effectively clarify Lisa's situation.The hosts discussed the importance of loyalty and betrayal in friendships.Future drama is anticipated as sealed secrets may come to light. Support the showhttps://www.wewinewhenever.com/

Comedian (and personal training manager) Nick Scopoletti returns to chat about growing his comedy career, working with Lisa Lampanelli, managing personal trainers, and how his personal warmth has been kind of a cheat code. You can find Nick on Instagram @nickscopes https://www.instagram.com/nickscopes/ and as Lisa Lampanelli's sidekick on her podcast, Shrink This https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shrink-this-with-lisa-lampanelli/id1819746873    The AI generated summaryIn this engaging conversation, Jim McDonald and Nick Scopoletti explore themes of friendship, cynicism, personal growth, and the comedy journey. They reflect on their experiences in the fitness industry, the impact of COVID, and the importance of networking in the comedy scene. The discussion also touches on family dynamics, wealth, and the challenges of managing people in the workplace. Throughout the conversation, they share humorous anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the value of perseverance and self-discovery in both personal and professional realms.Chapters  00:00 Warm Connections and Cynical Reflections03:05 The Comedy Journey: Struggles and Triumphs05:50 Navigating Life's Changes: Comedy and Personal Growth08:46 The Impact of COVID-19 on Mental Health11:49 Family Dynamics and Personal Insights14:38 The Reality of Working in the Fitness Industry17:40 Acting, Comedy, and Authenticity20:40 Nostalgia and Cultural Identity23:26 Creative Outlets and Self-Expression31:48 Expo Experiences and Bodybuilding Culture35:44 Managing a Fitness Team39:44 Clientele Development in Boutique Gyms44:39 Wealth, Work Ethic, and Personal Growth50:08 Networking and Social Media Surprises55:58 Memorable Encounters with IconsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/50-facts-with-silent-mike-jim-mcd--5538735/support.

In this episode of the Pop-Off Podcast, Ralph and Reese dive deep into Paul Thomas Anderson's latest film, One Battle After Another. They explore the film's complex themes of revolution, family dynamics, and the impact of modern technology on storytelling.The conversation highlights standout performances, particularly from non-traditional actors, and discusses the film's humor amidst darker themes. The hosts reflect on the significance of parenthood and the film's climactic moments, providing insights into the narrative's depth and rewatchability. Ralph and Riesberg then delve into the intricate layers of the plot of 'One Battle After Another.' They explore iconic moments, character arcs, and the thematic depth of the narrative, discussing the significance of characters like Sensei, Willa, and Lockjaw.They wrap discussing the culmination on the film's place in Paul Thomas Anderson's oeuvre and its cultural significance.Chapters (Timing is Not Exact)00:00 Introduction to One Battle After Another02:52 Initial Impressions and Themes05:54 Character Dynamics and Performances08:47 Modern Context and Technology in Film11:45 Audience Experience and Reactions14:46 PLOT DEEP DIVE BEGINS17:44 Revolutionary Themes and Character Motivations20:51 The Role of Family and Parenthood23:34 Climactic Moments and Symbolism26:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts31:13 The Rising Tension in the Heist34:06 Chase Sequences and Action Dynamics37:26 The Consequences of Choices39:25 Character Development and Backstory42:28 Family Dynamics and Parental Relationships48:12 The Christmas Adventurers and Their Ideology54:20 The Climax of Conflict and Resolution57:52 The Art of Phone Acting01:01:20 Sensei's Underground Railroad01:05:37 The Revelation of Willa's Past01:08:35 The Christmas Adventurers Club01:11:50 The Tense DNA Test01:14:53 Bob's Comedic Heroics01:19:45 Willa's Escape and Lockjaw's Downfall01:24:22 Christmas Adventures and Sacrifices01:26:41 The Chase Sequence: A Filmmaking Masterclass01:29:35 Willa's Transformation and Tactical Brilliance01:32:42 Confrontation and the Weight of Trauma01:35:31 Lockjaw's Fate and the Dark Humor of Neo-Nazis01:37:31 Emotional Closure: Letters from the Past01:39:33 The New Generation: Revolution and Responsibility01:41:52 Reflections on Paul Thomas Anderson's Legacy

Fluent Fiction - Italian: Milano Startups: Chasing Dreams Amidst Tradition and Innovation Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/it/episode/2025-09-30-07-38-20-it Story Transcript:It: Nel cuore di Milano, l'aria frizzante d'autunno scivola attraverso le finestre di vetro dell'incubatore di startup.En: In the heart of Milano, the crisp autumn air slides through the glass windows of the startup incubator.It: All'interno, giovani imprenditori corrono freneticamente, scambiandosi idee attorno a scrivanie eleganti.En: Inside, young entrepreneurs frantically run around, exchanging ideas around sleek desks.It: I muri sono ricoperti di lavagne bianche piene di scarabocchi.En: The walls are covered with whiteboards full of scribbles.It: I computer portatili emettono un costante ronzio, simbolo di innovazione e ambizione.En: The laptops emit a constant hum, a symbol of innovation and ambition.It: In un angolo, Lorenzo e Giulia sono immersi nel loro progetto: un'app innovativa per semplificare l'organizzazione dei viaggi.En: In a corner, Lorenzo and Giulia are immersed in their project: an innovative app to simplify travel organization.It: Lorenzo, con gli occhi concentrati sullo schermo, cerca di combattere la paura del fallimento che lo perseguita.En: Lorenzo, with his eyes focused on the screen, tries to fight the fear of failure that haunts him.It: Accanto a lui, Giulia lascia correre la sua creatività, sognando silenziosamente l'indipendenza.En: Next to him, Giulia lets her creativity flow, silently dreaming of independence.It: Mentre preparano tutto per il lancio, la loro madre Marcella li chiama spesso.En: As they prepare everything for the launch, their mother Marcella often calls them.It: Vuole che si uniscano all'azienda di famiglia, una tradizionale attività di moda a cui dedica anima e corpo.En: She wants them to join the family business, a traditional fashion enterprise to which she dedicates her heart and soul.It: Ma Lorenzo e Giulia hanno altri sogni, vogliono dimostrare di poter farcela da soli.En: But Lorenzo and Giulia have other dreams; they want to prove they can make it on their own.It: Una sera, mentre l'autunno colora il cielo di sfumature arancioni, i due ricevono una mail importante.En: One evening, while autumn paints the sky in shades of orange, the two receive an important email.It: Devono decidere se partecipare a un evento di networking o incontrare un potenziale investitore.En: They must decide whether to attend a networking event or meet with a potential investor.It: Le giornate si accorciano, il tempo stringe, e i soldi scarseggiano.En: The days are getting shorter, time is running out, and money is scarce.It: Lorenzo propone di dividersi: lui al networking, Giulia all'incontro.En: Lorenzo suggests they split up: he'll go to the networking, Giulia to the meeting.It: È un rischio, ma necessario.En: It's a risk, but necessary.It: La sera dell'evento è tesa.En: The night of the event is tense.It: Lorenzo si muove tra persone importanti, cercando di mascherare l'ansia dietro un sorriso fiducioso.En: Lorenzo moves among important people, trying to mask his anxiety behind a confident smile.It: All'improvviso, in mezzo alla folla, vede sua madre Marcella.En: Suddenly, in the midst of the crowd, he sees his mother Marcella.It: È venuta a sorpresa.En: She's come by surprise.It: Vuole parlar loro.En: She wants to talk to them.It: "Siete sicuri di questo progetto?"En: "Are you sure about this project?"It: chiede Marcella preoccupata, stringendo le sue mani.En: Marcella asks worriedly, clasping her hands.It: "E se non funzionasse?"En: "What if it doesn't work out?"It: Giulia respira profondamente.En: Giulia takes a deep breath.It: "Mamma, vogliamo provare.En: "Mom, we want to try.It: Crediamo che questa idea possa fare la differenza.En: We believe this idea can make a difference.It: È importante per noi."En: It's important to us."It: Marcella vede la determinazione nei loro occhi.En: Marcella sees the determination in their eyes.It: Capisce.En: She understands.It: Sorride, nonostante la preoccupazione.En: She smiles, despite her worry.It: "Vi sosterrò.En: "I'll support you.It: Siate coraggiosi."En: Be brave."It: Lorenzo sente il calore delle parole di sua madre e si sente più sicuro.En: Lorenzo feels the warmth of his mother's words and feels more confident.It: Giulia, con nuovo coraggio, si prepara per l'incontro con l'investitore.En: Giulia, with newfound courage, prepares for the meeting with the investor.It: Alla fine, il loro sforzo congiunto paga.En: In the end, their joint effort pays off.It: L'investitore è interessato, l'evento ha portato nuove connessioni e, soprattutto, Marcella è ora al loro fianco.En: The investor is interested, the event has brought new connections, and most importantly, Marcella is now by their side.It: Hanno trovato un equilibrio tra le loro ambizioni e le aspettative familiari.En: They have found a balance between their ambitions and family expectations.It: Il sole del mattino filtra dalle finestre, illuminando il nuovo giorno con la promessa di un futuro pieno di possibilità.En: The morning sun filters through the windows, illuminating the new day with the promise of a future full of possibilities.It: Lorenzo e Giulia hanno finalmente il supporto e la fiducia che cercavano, pronti a lasciare il loro segno nel mondo degli affari.En: Lorenzo and Giulia finally have the support and confidence they've been seeking, ready to leave their mark on the business world. Vocabulary Words:the heart: il cuorethe autumn: l'autunnothe incubator: l'incubatorethe entrepreneur: l'imprenditorefrantically: freneticamentethe desk: la scrivaniathe whiteboard: la lavagna biancathe scribble: lo scarabocchiothe hum: il ronziothe ambition: l'ambizioneto immerse: immergereto haunt: perseguitarethe independence: l'indipendenzato launch: lanciarethe enterprise: l'attivitàthe soul: l'animathe shade: la sfumaturathe networking event: l'evento di networkingthe investor: l'investitoreto split: dividerethe anxiety: l'ansiasuddenly: all'improvvisoto clasp: stringereto breathe: respirarethe determination: la determinazioneto support: sostenereto prepare: prepararefinally: alla finethe joint effort: lo sforzo congiuntothe connection: la connessione

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Kem. Platinum-selling R&B artist, author of Share My Life

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Kem. Platinum-selling R&B artist, author of Share My Life

Summary In this episode, Shelby and Courtney discuss Shelby's upcoming hospital visit as she gets ready to have Baby #2! They share insights on hospital experiences, home renovations, health and fitness, and family dynamics. Shelby and Courtney emphasize the importance of perspective during labor, the joy of DIY projects (both crafty and "serious"), and the humorous challenges of family life, all while navigating the ups and downs of life in their 30s. In this episode, Shelby and Courtney discuss various personal experiences and insights, ranging from family dynamics with newborns to the fascinating life cycle of plants. Courtney gives a butter update, they share anticipation surrounding the upcoming Taylor Swift movie "Life of a Showgirl", and the potential of farm stands as a business (if only those pesky HOAs would leave Courtney alone!). The conversation also touches on the latest season of Dancing with the Stars, highlighting standout performances and predictions for the competition.   Takeaways It's important to prepare for a new baby, but don't overthink it. Comfort items for the hospital can make a big difference. Perspective is key during labor and delivery. Home renovations can be spontaneous and rewarding. Facebook Marketplace finds can lead to great home decor solutions. Health and fitness journeys can be motivating and impactful - Go Peloton! DIY projects can refresh your living space without spending much. Skincare routines are essential for self-care, even when busy. Family dynamics can be humorous and challenging at times. Meeting new family members can be a joyful experience. Brooks is adapting to family changes with a new brother. The life cycle of certain plants can be surprising and fascinating. Making homemade butter can be a fun but labor-intensive process. Anticipation for the Taylor Swift movie Life of a Showgirl is high among fans. Farm stands can be a lucrative business opportunity for bakers. Dancing with the Stars features a mix of talent and experience. Family dynamics can shift dramatically with the arrival of a new baby. The process of making butter reveals interesting culinary techniques. The excitement around Taylor Swift's new album is palpable. Community engagement through farm stands can foster local connections.    

On this episode of the Tudor Dixon Podcast, Tudor sits down with Dr. Gerson Moreno-Riano, president of Cornerstone University, to discuss why faith is essential in higher education and how Christian universities are shaping culture. They examine the impact of cultural shifts on families, the historical relationship between family and government, and the mental health costs of abandoning traditional values. Dr. Moreno-Riano also shares Cornerstone’s innovative mobile-based degree program, designed to make higher education more affordable, accessible, and relevant for today’s students. The Tudor Dixon Podcast is part of the Clay Travis & Buck Sexton Podcast Network. For more visit TudorDixonPodcast.com Learn more about Cornerstone UniversitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textIn this thought-provoking episode of Living the Dream with Curveball, we sit down with Dr. David Marcus, a seasoned clinical psychologist and author, to discuss the complexities of parenting in today's fast-paced society. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Marcus shares his insights on the challenges parents face, from the impact of social media to the importance of effective communication with children. He emphasizes the need for parents to develop emotional language skills and how their own upbringing influences their parenting styles. Dr. Marcus introduces his upcoming book, "Parent Rx," which offers practical examples and strategies for fostering healthy communication between parents and children. Listeners will learn about the significance of being a "soothing presence," the process of emptying out emotions, and how to cultivate resilience in children. Join us for an enlightening conversation that provides valuable tools for parents looking to navigate the nuances of modern parenting and strengthen their family bonds.Everyone wonders about death. Few talk about it. That's where we start.Anonymous callers share their honest beliefs about death, life, and what might comes next.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

MY NEWSLETTER - https://nikolas-newsletter-241a64.beehiiv.com/subscribeJoin me, Nik (https://x.com/CoFoundersNik), as I interview Nick (https://x.com/mattressguy_). We dive deep into the surprisingly complex world of the mattress business. Nick, owner of Direct Outlet Mattress and part of a family with stores across North Carolina, shares his unique insights.We discuss everything from the less glamorous side of old mattresses to the economics of running a mattress store, even comparing his approach to giants like Mattress Firm. You'll be fascinated to hear how he's leveraging Twitter to build a successful brand and reach customers in unexpected ways.Questions This Episode Answers:How do these businesses (Mattress Firm) make money?What other overhead expenses would you have besides lease? How do you acquire customers for your mattress store?What is your approximate customer acquisition cost?How much does it typically cost to start a mattress business?Enjoy the conversation!__________________________Love it or hate it, I'd love your feedback.Please fill out this brief survey with your opinion or email me at nik@cofounders.com with your thoughts.__________________________MY NEWSLETTER: https://nikolas-newsletter-241a64.beehiiv.com/subscribeSpotify: https://tinyurl.com/5avyu98yApple: https://tinyurl.com/bdxbr284YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/nikonomicsYT__________________________This week we covered:00:00 The Mattress Business Journey03:05 Family Dynamics in Business05:56 Understanding the Mattress Market08:51 Customer Acquisition Strategies11:47 Expanding Product Offerings15:05 The Importance of Quality17:58 Navigating Business Challenges20:55 Building a Brand on Social Media23:51 Future Plans and Online Expansion

In the before times, comedian Bill Cosby starred in a trio of pictures with Sidney Poitier. This is the last one in the series. Joe was a kid when these films came out and he enjoyed them in their era but what does he think now?  Links You can rate and review us in these places (and more, probably) Does This Still Work? - TV Podcast https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/does-this-still-work-1088105 ‎Does This Still Work? on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/does-this-still-work/id1492570867 Creator Accountability Network creatoraccountabilitynetwork.org.  

Got sick kids? Click here to learn all our favorite natural remedies for children from newborn through to big kids!What if sibling rivalry isn't something to fix, but something kids actually need?In this episode, we sit down with Ralphie Jacobs, founder of Simply On Purpose. She's a mom of four, holds a degree in early childhood education, and has spent years turning her curiosity about child development into practical parenting wisdom.We get into the messy reality of siblings fighting and why it's not only unavoidable but also essential for growth. Ralphie shares how to know when to step in, when to step back, and how to shift the way we see conflict so it doesn't push our kids apart but helps them build stronger bonds.You'll Learn:The reason sibling rivalry shows up in every multi-child homeWhat happens when parents label normal behavior as a fixed character traitThe link between sibling conflict and stronger skills in communication, negotiation, and resilienceThe damage of comparing kids and creating competition inside the familyWhy it often backfires when parents insert adult meaning into childhood strugglesWhy most kids' misbehavior is inconsequential and how shifting perspective changes everythingThe simple shift from making things “fair” to meeting each child's individual needsHow one-on-one time with older kids lowers rivalry and strengthens bondsThe stop–redirect–reinforce approach for handling physical conflict safelyWhy focusing on the good reduces 80% of junk behavior without constant correctionTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[04:25] Why sibling rivalry can be healthy and how parents can respond wisely[09:51] How labeling children shapes their identity and how parents can guide with compassion[17:32] Fostering sibling connection by avoiding comparisons and focusing on individual needs[25:36] Why one-on-one time with older children reduces sibling rivalry and builds security[32:12] When to step into sibling arguments and when to let kids work it out[42:10] Why parents should avoid negative labels and focus on guiding developmental behavior[44:00] Creating a calm home by focusing on what really matters in parentingJoin Ralphie for a LIVE webinar and learn scientifically proven strategies to decrease fighting in your home, Sibling Rivalry: What Helps and What Doesn'tLearn more from Ralphie on the Simply On Purpose website. You can also follow her on Instagram.Find more from Dr. Leah:Dr. Leah Gordon | InstagramDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteFind more from Dr. Morgan:Dr. Morgan MacDermott | InstagramDr. Morgan MacDermott | WebsiteUse code HEALTHYMOTHER and save 15% at RedmondFor 20% off your first order at Needed, use code HEALTHYMOTHERSave $260 at Lumebox, use code HEALTHYASAMOTHER

What do you do when life stacks the odds against you? Poverty, a broken family, and a dangerous environment could have easily defined Kendall Qualls' future. But instead, his story is proof that your past doesn't have to dictate your destiny.In this episode of Your Biggest Breakthrough, Kendall shares how he went from Harlem's streets and trailer park living to becoming an Army officer, corporate leader, nonprofit founder, and even running for governor. His story is packed with lessons about resilience, faith, forgiveness, and choosing a different path—even when everything around you is pulling you down.We talk about the role of family, the power of education, and how faith transformed Kendall's heart, healed his relationship with his father, and gave him the courage to step into leadership. His journey isn't just inspiring; it's a roadmap for anyone who feels stuck in their circumstances or unsure if change is possible.If you've ever wondered, “Can I rise above where I came from?” this conversation will show you that with God's grace, courage, and determination, you absolutely can.Chapters:[00:00] Podcast Preview[01:10] Topic and Guest Introduction[03:38] Kendall Qualls: A Journey from Adversity to Success[06:37] The Impact of Family Dynamics on Personal Growth[08:40] Navigating Two Worlds: Harlem and Oklahoma [11:24] Education as a Pathway to a Better Life[14:50] Finding Love and Building a Family[18:16] Faith and Transformation: A New Beginning[21:15] The Power of Forgiveness and Healing Relationships[24:56] Finding Community and Faith in Tulsa[27:28] Overcoming Fear and Embracing Courage[28:43] Unexpected Twists in Life and Faith[33:48] Understanding Racial Dynamics and Family Issues[39:56] Running for Governor: Lessons Learned and God's Timing[44:18] Vision for Minnesota: Prosperity, Safety, and Schools[47:42] Clearing Misconceptions and Final ThoughtsResources mentioned:Kendall's Nonprofit Organization: TakeChargeThe Prodigal Project: Amazon link Guest's bio:Kendall Qualls is a results-oriented leader dedicated to uniting Americans around shared values and a common heritage. His inspiring journey began in the projects of Harlem, New York, and later in a trailer park in rural Oklahoma. Despite those humble beginnings, Kendall worked his way through college, became a U.S. Army officer, and went on to earn three graduate degrees. He later rose to serve as Global Vice President of a Fortune 100 healthcare company.Today, Kendall is the founder and president of TakeCharge, a nonprofit committed to promoting the promise of America for all people, regardless of race or social standing. His powerful message has reached millions through speaking engagements and appearances on national platforms such as Fox & Friends and The Dennis Prager Show. He is also the author of The Prodigal Project, a deeply personal book that highlights his story of perseverance, faith, and breakthroughs.Kendall and his wife, Sheila, have been married for 40 years. Together, they have raised five children and are proud grandparents of two boys. He is also a Republican candidate for Governor of Minnesota in 2026.Call to action:Make sure to visit yourbiggestbreakthrough.com for your FREE access to our e-book and audiobook, "Unstoppable: Divine Intervention in Overcoming...

Blaine gives the usual warm welcome for the week (0:02) before he, Adam, and Donovan begin the non-spoiler section with HBO's gripping drama 'Task' and what it says about two family dynamics (1:29). Then Blaine and Dononvan decide upon the FX and Hulu intriguing series 'Alien: Earth' and how much value it has beyond the franchise fans (6:10). Before they break for spoilers, Blaine checks in with Adam and his burgeoning band Sister Ray Davies as well as their upcoming album (9:49). After the break, it's the reality of 'Task', the heavy themes it carries and how Mark Ruffalo and Tom Pelphrey knock it out in episode two spoilers (13:54). Also in spoilers, Blaine and Donovan break down a couple of limits to 'Alien: Earth,' which shouldn't hinder fans or casual viewers as the series makes a stand for the working class (28:44). If you enjoy, leave a short review in your podcast app of choice!For more, visit The Alabama Take website with this link.To sign up for the site's newsletter, visit the link here.To help both the podcast and The Alabama Take site itself, consider making a donation of any size with the link here.

Send us a textRHOM-Julia vs. Adriana: A Friendship on the BrinkPodcast Summary – RHOM S7 E16: “The Art of Arguing”This week's Miami episode is all about new beginnings, art, and miscommunications that spiral into bigger fights.Moving & Milestones: Larsa moves into her $5.7M unfinished house, complete with a giant gummy bear statue but no furniture. Meanwhile, Kiki shines in a glamorous hangar photo shoot with her father proudly by her side.Love & Labels: Lisa and Jody share a romantic dinner, but Jody makes it clear he wants Lisa to focus on her healing before he'll propose. Lisa admits she doesn't want her divorce to define her.Art Basel Drama: Adriana debuts British artist Chris Rivers at her gallery show with over 2,500 RSVPs. The women arrive in style, but the conversation quickly shifts to messy gossip about birthday cakes and Christmas tree budgets.Cake-Gate Revealed: After weeks of speculation, Kiki admits she added the math equation to Adriana's birthday cake. She swears it wasn't shade, but Adriana takes offense, accusing her friends of being unsupportive and even misinterpreting a conversation as labeling her “racist.”Friendship Fractures: Julia tries to defend Kiki but ends up in a heated fight with Adriana, who accuses her of siding with others. Adriana feels abandoned, while Julia feels Adriana has become too negative.Stephanie & Marysol's Truce: The two clear the air after miscommunications, hug it out, and promise to move forward more directly—leaving Alexia's meddling in question.Lingering Questions: Between accusations of being “tacky” with money, questions about loyalty, and Adriana's growing isolation, the friendships in this group feel shakier than ever heading into the finale.Support the showhttps://www.wewinewhenever.com/

On this week's episode of the Raising Confident Girls podcast, host Melissa Jones shares insightful strategies to help parents support their daughters in building healthy, effective homework habits—without turning it into a nightly battle.Drawing from her dual experience as both a longtime educator and a parent, Melissa explores how to create a supportive environment that honors each child's individual learning style and emotional needs. She emphasizes that academic success shouldn't come at the cost of confidence or connection—and offers tools to help you strike that balance at home.Tune in to discover:Why your daughter's struggles with homework might be more emotional than academicHow to validate her frustration without rescuing or adding pressureThe critical difference between performance and self-worthTools for helping your daughter manage overwhelm and break tasks into doable stepsHow to foster a calm, shame-free space where learning feels safeThe long-term benefits of focusing on resilience over perfectionWhether your daughter dreads homework or you're just looking for ways to make evenings more peaceful, this episode is packed with empathetic, practical advice to support her growth—not just as a student, but as a confident, capable young person.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn

In this episode of the Broad Street Review Podcast, host Darnelle Radford speaks with playwright Daniel Neer about his new work, 'Dachau for Queers,' which explores the historical context of a psychiatric hospital in California that incarcerated gay men. The conversation delves into themes of empathy, self-acceptance, family dynamics, and the importance of community support within the LGBTQ+ experience. Neer shares insights into the creative process and the role of theater in fostering social change, emphasizing the need for understanding and connection in a fragmented society.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Play and the Artist02:05 Exploring the Themes of 'Dachau for Queers'06:02 The Creative Process Behind the Play11:58 Family Dynamics and Identity18:14 Community and Empathy in the LGBTQ+ Experience24:00 The Importance of Storytelling in ArtDACHAU FOR QUEERS Workshop Production of a New Play by Daniel NeerDirected by Ted GorodetzkyProduced by The LAB It's 1970, and runaway Jonah Goodson is confined at California's notorious Atascadero Psychiatric Hospital. His “sickness”? Homosexuality. Navigating a psychotropic maze of barbaric treatments, he encounters the most unlikely guides – but are they real or imagined?Gruesomely referred to as Dachau for Queers, the maximum-security forensic institution Atascadero Psychiatric Hospital was widely renowned for its experimental therapies of electrical and pharmacological shock treatments subjected upon inmates to "cure" them of their perceived sexual deviations. The fictional Jonah Goodson, estranged from his family and adrift in 1970's San Francisco, gets caught in the belly of that beast and wrestles with his jumbled mind to carve a journey out. At times shockingly brutal and at others comically surreal, Daniel Neer's new play is an innovative odyssey punctuated by surprising characters, leaps of fantasy, and heartfelt truths.Written by Daniel Neer Directed by Ted Gorodetzky Cast: Tristan Jenis, Lois Sach*, Neena Boyle, Ted Gorodetzky*, Avery Leach (*appearing courtesy AEA)FOR MORE INFORMATION: https://phillyfringe.org/events/dachau-for-queers/

We're doing a three-part series on one of the most important topics in youth ministry. If you want to do ministry that lasts, this is where you need to be heading with your ministry. Listen in for Part 2 of our Partner with Parents series.Part 1 delved into the critical importance of partnering with parents in youth ministry and its effectiveness on your ministry. Part 2 pivots toward the Dos and Don'ts of cultivating effective parent engagement, and how to build supportive communities and relationships with parents. Keep listening on for practical ideas and implications in Part 3.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Group Dynamics03:09 Importance of Partnering with Parents in Youth Ministry04:29 Common Mistakes in Parent Involvement08:21 Understanding Parent Needs and Communication14:51 Strategies for Effective Parent Engagement22:40 Building Relationships with Parents28:24 Creating a Supportive Community for Parents39:00 The Role of Prayer in Partnering with Parents43:35 Preview of Practical Steps for Youth Ministers44:45 Conclusion and Call to ActionLinkshttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1aJ2zV0l0nNlxZNIeXLAwr?si=24e8f797527d4c99pizzasidehugs@gmail.com pizzasidehugs@gmail.com

Ambivalence isn't confusion or weakness, it's your nervous system doing its job. Feeling both joy and grief, relief and loss, fear and excitement, is not dysfunction but survival wisdom. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Elisabeth Kristof and Jennifer Wallace unpack ambivalence as a neurobiological phenomenon: how the brain and body construct emotions, why conflicting truths arise during transformation, and how to metabolize them without collapse. You'll learn to notice the tug-of-war between emotions, expand capacity to sit with duality, and reframe ambivalence as part of post-traumatic growth. By honoring both sides, joy and sorrow, fear and courage, you can create deeper connection with yourself and move through change with clarity and trust. Timestamps 00:00 – Leaving Toxic Love: Relief and Grief Together 01:07 – Ambivalence Defined: Not Confusion, But Wisdom 03:07 – Brain and Body: How Emotions Are Constructed 05:42 – Building Capacity for Emotional Duality 06:39 – Transformation, Identity, and Misread Confusion 08:18 – Neuroscience of Ambivalence: Prediction, Insula, Signals 12:50 – Embodiment and Emotional Vocabulary 24:10 – Boundaries, Family Dynamics, and Attachment Chaos 27:40 – Sitting in Discomfort, Finding Safety Inside 30:59 – Loss of Identity, Grief, and Gratitude 38:08 – Joy Can Be Scary Too Topics Discussed in This Episode Ambivalence as a nervous system signal, not self-sabotage. Why leaving toxic relationships brings both relief and grief. How emotions are constructed in the brain and body. Expanding capacity for emotional regulation and duality. The role of interoception and emotional vocabulary in healing. Transformation and identity shifts as triggers for ambivalence. Attachment needs versus authenticity during change. Why joy and fear often arise together. Practical strategies to metabolize ambivalence and grow. Ambivalence as a gateway to post-traumatic growth.

Summary In this episode, Shelby and Courtney reflect on their podcast journey, discussing past guests, personal growth, and the challenges of parenting. They share a wild crime story that occurred at Paddlefish, navigate the ups and downs of school transitions for children, and explore seasonal activities. The conversation shifts to cooking adventures, recipe sharing, and the importance of content creation on social media. They also touch on family dynamics, favorite child conversations, and baking tips, concluding with thoughts on social media engagement and future plans. Takeaways The importance of reflecting on past experiences and guests. Change and growth can lead to positive outcomes. The masked Paddlefish bandit is still at large! Parenting transitions can be challenging but rewarding. Seasonal activities can enhance family bonding. Cooking and sharing recipes can be a fun adventure. Content creation is a valuable way to connect with others. Family dynamics can influence personal feelings and relationships. Baking and cooking tips can enhance culinary skills. Engaging with social media can lead to new opportunities.  

With as many as 120 million legal problems going unresolved in America each year, traditional lawyer-centered approaches to access to justice have consistently failed to meet the scale of need. But what if the solution is not just about providing more legal services — what if it lies in fundamentally rethinking who can provide legal help? In today's episode, host Bob Ambrogi is joined by two of the nation's leading researchers on access to justice: Rebecca Sandefur, professor and director of the Sanford School of Social and Family Dynamics at Arizona State University and a faculty fellow at the American Bar Foundation, and Matthew Burnett, director of research and programs for the Access to Justice Research Initiative at the American Bar Foundation and an adjunct professor of law at Georgetown University Law Center.  They argue that the access to justice crisis is actually a crisis of democracy. As cofounders of Frontline Justice, they have been pioneering research on "justice workers" — community members trained to help their neighbors navigate legal issues. Their recent article in the South Carolina Law Review, “Justice Work as Democracy Work: Reimagining Access to Justice as Democratization,” makes a provocative case: When people cannot access their own law, democracy itself fails. They present compelling evidence from Alaska, where nearly 200 community justice workers now serve over 40 rural communities, achieving a 1-to-25 return on investment while dramatically expanding legal aid's reach. In today's conversation, Sandefur and Burnett discuss the mounting evidence for justice worker effectiveness, including research from the U.K. demonstrating that trained non-lawyers often outperform attorneys on specialized tasks. They also discuss recent breakthroughs — including unprecedented support from both the Conference of Chief Justices and the American Bar Association — and examine what obstacles remain.  Sandefur and Burnett challenge the legal profession's monopoly on law, arguing that regulatory capture has estranged Americans from their own justice system. They envision justice workers as agents of democratization, expanding not just who can access legal help, but who can participate meaningfully in working democracy.  Related episodes: On the latest LawNext: Sociologist Rebecca Sandefur on Enhancing Access to Justice. On LawNext: How A New Kind of Justice Worker Could Narrow the Justice Gap, with Nikole Nelson, CEO of Frontline Justice.  On LawNext: CEO Nikole Nelson Returns with An Update on Frontline Justice's Mission to Empower Justice Workers and Bridge the Justice Gap.   Thank You To Our Sponsors This episode of LawNext is generously made possible by our sponsors. We appreciate their support and hope you will check them out. Paradigm, home to the practice management platforms PracticePanther, Bill4Time, MerusCase and LollyLaw; the e-payments platform Headnote; and the legal accounting software TrustBooks. Briefpoint, eliminating routine discovery response and request drafting tasks so you can focus on drafting what matters (or just make it home for dinner). Paxton, Rapidly conduct research, accelerate drafting, and analyze documents with Paxton. What do you need to get done today?    If you enjoy listening to LawNext, please leave us a review wherever you listen to podcasts.  

Join us for an enlightening discussion with Tia Slightham, a passionate parenting coach and mother of two, as she shares her journey from being a kindergarten teacher to becoming a certified positive discipline expert. Tia's unique approach emphasizes that parenting is a learned skill, and she has dedicated her career to helping parents foster better relationships with their children. We explore common challenges faced by parents, such as the reliance on ineffective tactics like yelling and bribery, and highlight the importance of acquiring proper parenting skills to create a harmonious family environment. Tia's transformative Parenting with Purpose Method has guided thousands of parents globally, providing them with the tools to enjoy their parenting journey. Listen in as we explore the impact of different parenting styles on children's behavior and motivation. Tia discusses the challenges parents encounter when employing authoritarian or permissive styles, which often lead to anxiety and boundary-pushing in children. We also tackle school-related responsibilities, focusing on fostering self-motivation in children as they transition to higher grades. Tia emphasizes the importance of not making homework the parent's problem and instead setting structured systems and boundaries to encourage a positive learning environment, ultimately strengthening the parent-child connection. Connect with Tia: Website: www.tiaslightham.com Instagram: @tiaparentingcoach TikTok: Tia Slightham M Ed. Certified Facebook: Tia Slightham Let's keep the conversation going!Website: www.martaspirk.com Instagram: @martaspirk Facebook: Marta Spirk Want to be my next guest on The Empowered Woman Podcast?Apply here: www.martaspirk.com/podcastguest  Watch my TEDx talk: http://bit.ly/martatedx Are you feeling stretched thin, constantly behind, or guilty? No matter how you choose to spend your time, Amy Pierre-Russo can help. She's a certified Work-Life Harmony Coach dedicated to helping entrepreneurial moms find ease, flow, and fulfillment while reducing stress, guilt, and burnout.

In this episode of Carioca Connection, Alexia and Foster dive into the world of television and series, discussing how these have been a comfort during challenging times. They explore the impact of watching series like “Succession” on their lives and touch on cultural insights about acting and accents. With humor and warmth, they reflect on the year's ups and downs and the therapeutic nature of storytelling through TV. This conversation is full of real-life Brazilian Portuguese and cultural nuggets that aren't found in textbooks. Enjoy!E agora em português…

Episode #171: Discover the remarkable journey of Sarah Talei, a dedicated probate attorney and mom of three, as she shares her insights into balancing the demands of motherhood and a thriving career. From our first chaotic yet memorable meeting at a baby class in Santa Monica to humorous tales of diaper mishaps, Sarah and I explore the beautiful messiness of early parenthood. Together, we highlight the invaluable support and camaraderie that form among mothers, offering heartfelt stories and laughter along the way. Uncover the emotional and physical challenges of navigating infertility and IVF treatments, as Sarah and I open up about personal experiences of resilience and hope. We delve into societal perceptions of fertility treatments and the crucial role of supportive friendships, especially in communities where such topics remain under-discussed. Our candid conversation emphasizes the power of genuine connections and the pride in overcoming obstacles, reminding us all of the strength found in shared experiences. Journey into the world of professional success and family dynamics with Sarah as she reflects on her career in probate law and the launch of Talei and Talei with her brother Nathan. We giggle about our future plastic surgery plans with Sarah's brother, famed surgeon Dr. Ben Talei. We discuss the significance of estate planning for families and the intricacies of sibling bonds, showcasing the importance of authenticity and self-care in balancing life's many facets. From personal rituals to cultural expectations, this episode weaves a tapestry of stories and advice, resonating with anyone striving to juggle the complexities of family, career, and self-discovery. Chapters:  (00:00) In Studio With Kimberly Lovi (07:06) Navigating Infertility Journey and Friendship (14:25) Navigating Probate and Family Dynamics (25:50) Balancing Family, Self-Care, and Traditions (31:26) Navigating Motherhood and Family Dynamics (39:24) Sibling Bond and Professional Success (46:38) Navigating Gender Norms and Cultural Expectations (54:01) Navigating Estate Planning With Sarah Talei   Visit https://taleiandtalei.com/ for probate and estate litigation services.  Follow Kimberly on Instagram and TikTok @kimberlylovi or @iconicnationmedia  WATCH us on YouTube and view our brand new studio! 

When Lisa Smith's family was gripped by the terror of her son's addiction, they felt like mere spectators to a relentless storm. But through her groundbreaking concept of parallel recovery, they began to reclaim their roles as active participants in the healing process. In this compelling episode, we sit down with Lisa, a TEDx speaker and author, who shares her family's transformative journey. She illuminates how families can support their loved ones suffering from addiction and mental health challenges by first addressing their own fears and recovery needs. Her insights shed light on addiction as a family disease and underscore the importance of structured recovery to create a more supportive environment.Our conversation with Lisa also navigates the vital principles of radical acceptance and compassionate boundaries in the recovery journey. She delves into the layered challenges families face, including confronting generational trauma and the systemic issues making family recovery services less accessible. We explore how stepping back from fear-driven responses can foster healthier interactions, and how setting boundaries, rather than being acts of harshness, can be deeply compassionate. Lisa's message is clear: when families engage in recovery, they not only aid their loved ones but enrich their own lives and relationships, crafting a nurturing space for healing amidst adversity.In this episode, you will hear:The concept of parallel recovery and its impact on family dynamics in addictionLisa Smith's personal journey with her son's addiction and mental health challengesImportance of addressing addiction as a family disease and involving families in the recovery processExploration of radical acceptance and compassionate boundaries in healingChallenges families face, including generational trauma and systemic barriers to recovery servicesFollow and Review:We'd love for you to follow us if you haven't yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.Supporting Resources:TedTalk: The Power of Parallel Recovery | Lisa SmithLisa's WebsiteParallel Recovery: A Guide for Those Who Love Someone with Substance Use Disorder, TAMNovusMindfulLife.comhttps://www.theaddictedmind.com/community Episode CreditsIf you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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EVEN MORE about this episode!Step beyond the veil with Kaedrich Olsen as we explore the mysteries of the afterlife, Norse spirituality, and the supernatural. Drawing from his lifelong connection with spiritual guides known as the Whisperers, Kaedrich reveals how our beliefs and emotions shape unique realms of existence—from personal heavens to the true essence of hell—illuminated by his own astral and out-of-body experiences.Journey into the world of Norse mythology, where realms like Hel and Valhall reflect deep cultural and spiritual truths, and where reverence for ancestors, land spirits, and mystical beings still resonates today. Kaedrich also shares the esoteric power of runes, not just as tools of divination but as gateways to transformation, abundance, and personal meaning. With reflections on time, healing across lifetimes, and his paranormal experiences woven through music and family, this episode invites you to expand your understanding of spirituality, consciousness, and the unseen world.Guest Biography:Kaedrich Olsen is an author, speaker, and paranormal expert with over 30 years of experience guiding people through supernatural and spiritual concerns. From his early experiences in a haunted home and training in séance and channeling at a spiritualist church, he developed a lifelong connection with advanced beings known as the Whisperers. Specializing in paranormal arts, shadow work, runes, and Norse mysticism, he is the author of Runes for Transformation (Red Wheel/Weiser) and a respected leader in Norse pagan communities, where he teaches, leads rituals, and offers spiritual guidance to those navigating life's challenges.Episode Chapters:(0:00:01) - Psychic Journey to Afterlife(0:13:16) - Norse Spirituality and Land Spirits(0:22:55) - Unlocking the Secrets of Runes(0:35:31) - Musicians, Family Dynamics, and Paranormal Experiences(0:42:29) - Exploring Time, Healing Across Lifetimes➡️Subscribe to Ask Julie Ryan YouTube➡️Subscribe to Ask Julie Ryan Español YouTube➡️Subscribe to Ask Julie Ryan Português YouTube➡️Subscribe to Ask Julie Ryan Deutsch YouTube➡️Subscribe to Ask Julie Ryan Français YouTube✏️Ask Julie a Question!