When A Guy Has A Really F***ed Gender: the lovechild of Magnus Hirschfield and Joe Rogan. Each week, Jolene (she) talks to a guest about their gender, using their personal experience and interests as a springboard for further conversations about gender, s
Jolene is joined by James Frankie Thomas to discuss his life, his transition, and his novel, Idlewild. Topics include: bookstores, the quality of desire both on and off T, divorce, the Animorphs, and, of course, the fetishization of gay men. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
The third episode of the reading series! Unfortunately, this reading series is going on hiatus so Jolene can work on some other projects. There was still another recorded before she decided to do that, though, so there'll be one more upload of a reading group discussion in the coming weeks. Also, stay tuned to the feed for a Classic WAGHARFG episode in the coming days. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas The patreon is on pause for a little while Jolene recalibrates some stuff, you can find it here anyways: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by François·e Charmaille for a jaunt through the history of European sciences and sexes, for a discussion that begins with Hildegard of Bingen's analysis of humouric imbalances, and ends with François·e's proposal for a new understanding of the medieval concept of sodomy. Check out more of François·e's academic work here: https://www.english.cam.ac.uk/people/Francois.e_.Charmaille The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
The second episode of the reading group, When A Guy Writes, on Gertrude Stein's The Autobiography of Alice B Toklas. August 4th, 1 PM CST: Kate Bornstein's A Queer and Pleasant Danger: https://discord.gg/D4JDKzpTPh?event=1254870250487545988 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas The patreon is on pause for a little while Jolene recalibrates some stuff, you can find it here anyways: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
This week, Jolene is joined by Alexis to talk about her essay in the Trans Marxism special issue of TSQ, as well as: Remy Boydell and Michelle Perez's The Pervert, Jolene's opinions on Car Seat Headrest, just what happens at furry conventions, the erotics of Finnster, and the worst cover on an academic anthology ever. Read Alexis' essay here: https://read.dukeupress.edu/tsq/article/11/2/287/387883/Femboys-in-the-FactoryTrans-Labor-beyond-Abjection?guestAccessKey=e1bddaa9-1546-4d73-be4f-13e098a3f149 Follow her on twitter: https://x.com/regresssion Listen to her Unjust Depths podcast: https://www.abnormalmapping.com/#/allunionradio/ And her music podcast: https://pnc.st/s/hot-singles UPCOMING READING GROUP SESSIONS: July 7th, 1 PM CST, Alison Bechdel's Fun Home: https://discord.gg/D4JDKzpTPh?event=1242297065489305722 August 4th, 1 PM CST: Kate Bornstein's A Queer and Pleasant Danger: https://discord.gg/D4JDKzpTPh?event=1254870250487545988 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas The patreon is on pause for a little while Jolene recalibrates some stuff, you can find it here anyways: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene hosts a reading group for Herculine Barbin's memoir! S/o to Rhea, Harper, and Logan for joining, discussion was lovely. You can join us for the next meeting on June 23rd, at 1PM CST for a discussion of the Autobiography of Alice B Toklas by Gertrude Stein, or for the meeting after that, a discussion of Fun Home by Alison Bechdel, on July 7th, also at 1PM CST. Both of those meetings will take place in the discord server linked here: https://discord.gg/DmxXMhJnu6 Also, pop into the discord to keep the conversation going! I know at least a few of you read but couldn't make it so. If you have ideas that we didn't also have, or different reactions, or just. anything worth sharing! Go to the discord. Check out the episode of Perfect Taste Forever Jolene was on here (I have no idea why I didn't mention this in the episode bit I rerecorded up front but. Whoops): https://open.spotify.com/episode/5GK5rAsEXZQ0TBZW58MjLp?si=7737f74ad79a4dea The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Judas for a conversation about the there and back again and back again that is transition, detransition, and retransition. It's also kinda sorta like transgender Fun Home but with indie rock instead of modernist literature. Check out Judas' writing here: https://nicejewishboy.neocities.org/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Kay for a story of there and back again: detransition. Tune in for a story of wolfaboos, drag queen babysitters, colonialism, and more! Also, at the end we get excited about the upcoming WAGHARFG reading group! Join here: https://discord.gg/tDkukGxgS3?event=1229990512560443423 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
This episode was a patreon only episode, but I decided to throw it up on the main feed by way of apology for falling behind on putting out episodes. Don't worry patreons, there's another one for you coming in just another day or two (or three, apologies). Jolene is joined by repeat guest Ilya to discuss his essay, out a few weeks ago in Gender and History, about history and methodology in Byzantine studies, and in general. Read their essay here: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/1468-0424.12754 And check out his band here: https://linktr.ee/peepholepleaser The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Join the WAGHARFG Reading Group Discord: https://discord.gg/TTESqMNENt I'm sorry about the dog sounds in the background of my beginning spiel; I didn't think you'd be able to hear it through the mic. Jolene is joined this week by Lev, a different Lev than ever before, to talk through hir life, bouncing around the digital landscape of niche feminisms, failing to be girlbossed into an engineer, what if gender was only for special occasions, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Does what it says on the tin. Jolene is joined by Vanya this week to discuss woundfucking. It is exactly what it sounds like. Also some discussions of sex work, brain tumors, Ehlers-Dahnlos, the endorphin system, and more. Also: Jolene was on another podcast last week. I talk about it at the start, but here's a link to the episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5GK5rAsEXZQ0TBZW58MjLp?si=8806c8769aec45fc The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
This week, Jolene is joined by Jay (@trans_catboy on twitter) to discuss the omegaverse. Tune in to find out what the hell is secondary sex, and how it was birthed from the inflamed libidos of sci-fi fans who got a hold of some bad wolf science, and how it fits into Jay's life and transition. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
FIRST EPISODE OF 2024!!! Jolene is joined by Lua to talk mostly about noise music, transition and blackness, and eventually, raceplay. Also featured: gossip, some censorship (sorry), and sissies. Check out Lua's music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlxYb3JaACE https://open.spotify.com/artist/60KplDAZ1mE9UINmtP6r3d?si=g4ScSPkjSYep-r44qpERJQ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
EDIT: There are a couple places in here where my guest says something and then says he'd prefer it omitted from the recording. We talked more off-mic, and Jamie ultimately decided he was fine with putting out what all is in here. Jolene is joined by Jamie for a discussion that ranges across: cis4pay sex work, agender lesbianism to transfaggotry, radfem dalliances and detours, and the musical stylings of Jordaan Mason, and our fallen sister, Henry Darger. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Professor Megan Massa of Emory University to talk about neuroendocrinology! We talk about hormones, their affects on behavior, scientific narratives around this, how those narratives interact with popular narratives, and more! This is a really jam packed episode and one I'm really proud of. Enjoy! The paper Megan co-authored with Krisha Aghi and MJ Hill which elicited my invitation: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37862978/ Some papers mentioned throughout the episode: Guinea pigs (not mice or rats, whoops) and mounting behaviors: https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fh0053840 The article on mathematical models for doing research which treats sex as a multi-dimensional variable: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X23001435 The article on understanding gender affirming HRT in research contexts: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2451902222001732 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Roxana to talk about her transition, spurred in part by the transition of her daughter! Other topics include: the importance of bisexual Wiccan girls to a healthy ecosystem, how gay fighting games are, gender-neutral parenting, and more! Here's the Iranian poet Roxana mentions towards the end: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forugh_Farrokhzad The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Subscribe to the Patreon to hear the full episode: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 Jolene is joined by Lyn of Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest (which you can order here: https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/product/make-the-golf-course-a-public-sex-forest) to discuss some books by the great Joanna Russ and Samuel Delany! Check out the new Library of America collection of Joanna Russ' writing: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/joanna-russ-novels--stories-loa-373-the-female-man--we-who-are-about-to-----on-strike-against-god--the-complet-e-alyx-stories--other-stor/38070473/?resultid=6a488857-ffe3-4e55-87d5-a829e2c8e8f0#edition=65984488&idiq=55281395 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Natalie and Luane to talk about their relationship (trans motherhood), fatness, f*ggotry, weird medical stuff, abuse, trauma, extreme sex acts, and more. Jolene would also like to apologize for using the word "traumatophilia" incorrectly. This is what I get for trying to talk about a book I've never read. Just replace "traumatophilia" with "the licensing effect of trauma" every time you hear it or something. Also read Luane's writing at Arthur News: https://www.trentarthur.ca/news/irreversible-damage-the-transgender-craze-and-the-swedish-twinks-who-created-it The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Alice for the first discussion of many about Guy Hocquenghem, a gay French guy (Guy) who wrote some provocative theory. This series will be released primarily on Patreon, with some episodes getting public releases. This episode is on Homosexual Desire, which you can read here: https://files.libcom.org/files/Hocquenghem%20-%20Homosexual%20Desire.pdf Our next episode will be on The Screwball Asses, by Christian Maurel. You can read that here: https://selforganizedseminar.files.wordpress.com/2011/07/hocqueghem_screwball_asses.pdf The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
This week, Jolene is joined by Cody to discuss some art they made, centering around masculine performances of misogyny. Watch Rabbithole here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYEJQ1kqv8&t=1s (Content notes: Contains a lot of misogyny, obviously, as well as footage of someone masturbating). Some stuff Cody referenced: Angry White Men: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/michael-kimmel/angry-white-men/9781568589626/?lens=bold-type-books Contrapoints on Incels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD2briZ6fB0 On Microfascism: https://www.commonnotions.org/on-microfascism The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Sorry that episodes are still slow coming. Here's some bonus content by way of apology. An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There will be another normal episode soon! I promise). Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666 And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index Here's some references: The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049 The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/ The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode) The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Listen to jolene and ichor talk about: creatures, goblins, ghouls, self-cest, addiction, cucking yourself with yourself, how 'it' is actually the first pronoun used for most people, the "dead wife experience," clowning, and more. Check out all of Ichor's links here: https://linktr.ee/duckykw Project LETS is the organization Ichor mentions towards the end of the episode. Learn more about them here: https://projectlets.org/ I realized after the fact that the "dead wife experience" is basically one of the plot points in Michelle Perez and Remy Boydell's "The Pervert," which is a really good comic you should read. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There will be another normal episode soon! I promise). Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666 And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index Here's some references: The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049 The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/ The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode) The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2. Check out t4t Caregiving: https://www.t4tcaregiving.org/donate.html And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/ And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D And then the usual stuff: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2. Check out t4t Caregiving: https://www.t4tcaregiving.org/donate.html And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/ And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D And then the usual stuff: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Amelie to talk about dissociative identity disorder, autophilias/paraphilias, erotic investments in transition, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Content Note: This episode includes a brief mention of a suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization. Jolene is joined by Luca for a conversation about a lot of things, including: trans children and trans childhood, the continuity between trans childhood and the rest of the community, ballet and gender norms within it, movement, playful and silly genders, how trans people are really the same across ages and generations, playing gender tag, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene's streak of "trans women whose lives were touched by evangelical Christianity" continues, as she's joined by Aurora for a conversation about: "Did you know they make bikinis for boys?" (they don't), joining a cult, leaving a cult, being a surfer boy as an attempt at femininity, and finally, a long meandering meta conversation about narrativizing trans lives, inspired by Aurora's wonderful book The Fifth Wound, which you can order below. Buy Aurora's book: https://nightboat.org/book/the-fifth-wound/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by her friend Livvy to talk about her transition, Michael Savage, importing hormones from Malaysia, crashing on so many different couches, living with a terminal illness, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by her third ever Audrey to discuss: Growing up in the 80s; growing up in a cult in the 80s; the crossdresser-to-trans woman pipeline, raising your child in a 'genderful' way, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Rowan to talk about their life! Listen in for stories of: recreational testosterone use, teen tinder in Maine, lesbianism as a gender, serially favorite personing girls, and more. Jolene made Rowan read Testo Junkie, and then goes on a tangent about plasticity as a concept + academic bullshit. Apologies in advance. Rowan is putting out music in a few weeks! It'll be here, I assume: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1zurhHibZPPXm6YnLMY1Xg?si=4T6KLlVBTnO11yk6cTw5og The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Henny, to discuss their life! Featuring: erotic roleplay on deviantart, Loveless discussion (yes, the BL with the cat ears thing), lots of theater metaphors, some poker metaphors, a lot of fun theorizing about gender and relationships and reflexive genders and so on. It's a classic episode set up. Enjoy. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Ariel to discuss her transition. Included are: gender in between Anglo-American, Latina, and Jewish spaces, transitioning to non-binary leatherman, transitioning to a trans woman who is still sort of a leatherman, capoiera, a frankly weird amount of bisexual erasure, the pansexual kink scene, Japanese rope bondage, getting really theoretical about Japanese rope bondage, and more. Check out Ariel's bookclub here: https://karada-house.de/deviations/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Georgie to talk about his life, which winds around a lot of different vertices, including: chilling on discord making dozens of pride flags a night, being closeted and out at the same time, bats, French immersion camp, correcting adults on your gender, the f-slur to creature continuum, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by another anonymous guest to discuss, primarily, doing sex work as a cis4pay trans guy. Other topics covered include: bisexuality, coming out to your dad who comes out right back at you, being accused of addiction to testosterone (s/o to paul, we love you), men who think you're a girl calling you "good boy," and more. Content warning for some light discussion of IV drug use and sexual harrassment/bullying. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by a nameless guest to discuss what it means to have a butch soul, crying to Jim and Pam fancams, being so monogamous you're unable to conceptualize attraction to someone besides your partner, borrowing moves men have used on you to use on women, and convincing your mom to read Allison Bechdel when you're 12, and then being confused when she asks if you're gay. Also: Jolene debuts a new theory of sexual attraction, and speculates about her mother. Pertinent character information: immediately after recording this episode, the guest spent 3 hours making an edit of the movie Carol (2015). The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Noah for a classic tale of intellectualizing your transition to death. Strap in for a tale that takes us through: the Social Network Fandom; junior college; convincing a now cancelled alt-lit poet to disavow manhood; Jolene realizing in real time the effect that adderall usage had on her thought patterns; and most importantly: the radical feminist to trans guy pipeline. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Bill to talk about socially transitioning as a teen without your parents knowing and DIY HRT. All really pertinent topics. Fun time. Listen in to hear about giga-bitchlessness as gender goals, when your high school is soy and reddit, deciding that your life's purpose is to be an endocel, and more. I know none of these words are in the bible. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Cordelia Belton (@cozyunoist) to talk about Mary Beth Mader's Sleights of Reason, and some more stuff. This is a rough attempt at a thesis statement for the show. Sort of. Listen in to figure out what Jolene Actually Believes. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Tomorrow is my birthday, and I want the week off! So I'm giving myself and you a present by unlocking the most recent patreon episode, my discussion of sci-fi with James Hudson! Enjoy and subscribe to the patreon for more like this, and to support the show! And if you want to give me a birthday present, share the show with a friend! Sci fi is one of my favorite things and I'm so happy I got to record this with James! Discussed stories include: The World Well Lost by Theodore Sturgeon Coming of Age in Karhide by Ursula K Le Guin Aye, and Gomorrah by Samuel Delany Imago by Tristan Alice Neito The Gift by Ryka Aoki The first three are available online as PDFs pretty easily. The last two are from the short story collection Meanwhile Elsewhere by Littlepuss Press. There is an eBook of this collection available at Pay If You Can from Littlepuss! Just enter the code "PIYC" at the checkout to get it for free (if you cannot afford the $10). Here are some links to things we mention throughout this conversation: “Passage” by Carmilla Mary Morrell - https://draculavoice.com/art/passage “My Adventures with Omegle” by Hal Schrieve - https://twitter.com/hal_schrieve/status/1506723473988722691 “Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones” by Torrey Peters - https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/2020-05-05_5eb19256d9754_IFYFALO-Website-PDF.pdf “The Election in Babylon” by June Martin - https://junefacts.gumroad.com/l/ZqPOa Trans Panic Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/trans-panic/id1670348356 Christine in the Cutting Room - https://youtu.be/erNy3Mh41gQ Check out James' twitter: https://twitter.com/townmice And/or James' website: https://townmice.com/ And as always: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Patreon preview!!! Listen to Jolene and James talk about Imago, from the wonderful collection Meanwhile Elsewhere from Littlepuss Press! Full Notes: Sci fi is one of my favorite things and I'm so happy I got to record this with James! Discussed stories include: The World Well Lost by Theodore Sturgeon Coming of Age in Karhide by Ursula K Le Guin Aye, and Gomorrah by Samuel Delany Imago by Tristan Alice Neito The Gift by Ryka Aoki The first three are available online as PDFs pretty easily. The last two are from the short story collection Meanwhile Elsewhere by Littlepuss Press. There is an eBook of this collection available at Pay If You Can from Littlepuss! Just enter the code "PIYC" at the checkout to get it for free (if you cannot afford the $10). Here are some links to things we mention throughout this conversation: “Passage” by Carmilla Mary Morrell - https://draculavoice.com/art/passage “My Adventures with Omegle” by Hal Schrieve - https://twitter.com/hal_schrieve/status/1506723473988722691 “Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones” by Torrey Peters - https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/2020-05-05_5eb19256d9754_IFYFALO-Website-PDF.pdf “The Election in Babylon” by June Martin - https://junefacts.gumroad.com/l/ZqPOa Trans Panic Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/trans-panic/id1670348356 Christine in the Cutting Room - https://youtu.be/erNy3Mh41gQ Check out James' twitter: https://twitter.com/townmice And/or James' website: https://townmice.com/ And as always: The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Marie to talk about Catholicism! Learn about all the weird gender stuff in it, theological positions on sex and gender, Marie's life and transition, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Syd for a discussion of body modification and transition! This is a fun one, lots of HEAVY modifications discussed, including: split tongue; silicon horn implants; coinslots; conch punching; and more! Also we talk hook suspension some. Generally a fun time. Check out Syd's twitter: https://twitter.com/syd_sixx The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Amity to discuss faer life and transition. Topics include: terminal illness, ME/CFS, transmisogyny, sexual abuse, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Amity to discuss faer life and transition. Topics include: terminal illness, ME/CFS, transmisogyny, sexual abuse, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Amity to discuss faer life and transition. Topics include: terminal illness, ME/CFS, transmisogyny, sexual abuse, and more. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Alice for a conversation about the work of Paul B. Preciado, the last of the weird French guys (except he's actually Spanish). Tune in for a conversation about when you don't mean to transition but then do it anyways, what if everything were a dildo, barebacking and pozzing, and more! Here's the Hocquenghem piece Jolene translated that we reference some: https://homintern.soy/posts/prefacehocquenghem.html Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by a pseudonymous and voice disguised stealth trans man to talk about male homosociality and homosexuality, youth transition, having children, and more! Tune in! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Mikaele for a conversation that pushes on a lot of strange buttons around the questions of transitions. I think this episode is really illustrative of what Sedgwick called the "universalizing" approach to sexual questions, as contrary the "minoritizing" approach. In other words: how do transitions affect everyone, not just those who would simply call themselves trans? It's a fun time, listen in for a discussion of contemporary and historic drag bans, locker room talk, athleticism, colonialism, and more. Here are some links we referenced: https://kapaemahu.com/ https://www.sfgate.com/hawaii/article/hawaii-glade-show-lounge-mahu-performers-17379492.php The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by Madeline to talk about her (re)transition, being a boydyke, being butch, having revelations in Berlin, sexuality-as-gender, needleplay and more! All of this while being a "model transsexual" to the gatekeepers in England's NHS. Listen in, and DM me if you need help figuring out how to watch Bloodsisters (shhhhh). Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
Jolene is joined by not one but TWO puppygirls this week! Tune in to figure out what's up with puppygirls. It's basically what it says on the tin. Also if you like this episode you should read Leash by Jane Delynn. Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS) The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas
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