Podcasts about handling hijackals

Today’s guest is Dr. Roberta Shaler. As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Shaler, aka The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis.  Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help.  Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of toxic people.  Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game.  She is the host of two podcasts:  Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show and Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals! You can learn more about her at www.forrelationshiphelp.com. You can join our HIVE Community and begin Harnessing Integral Vibrational Energy for yourself by clicking HERE! Sign up for your Podcast Launch Breakthrough Call Today, and please be sure to check out our other podcasts: The PodQuest Show, Buy This - Not That! and Something to Wine About. Please, don’t forget to subscribe to Consciously Speaking so that you don't miss a single episode, and while you're at it, won't you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.MichaelNeeley.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter.

In this episode, Devi chats with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler about “How Relationships Impact Your Business and Your Life.” As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker, and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis.  Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help.  Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of the difficult, toxic people she calls Hijackals®. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game.  She is the host of three podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals, and Focus on Forward: Fuel for a Fearless Future. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp.com has reached over 200,000 views. Devi and Dr Rhoberta discuss: Dr Rhoberta’s experiences as a relationship coach The definition of a “Hijackal” The characteristics of a “Hijackal” Marriage as a "union of two souls for the perfection of the both" When to stop working on yourself The benefits of shifting and working on yourself, when you are in a relationship The unbalanced relationship Three things that help to develop a positive relationship The importance of equality in a relationship Expanding the equality in a relationship Mutuality in a relationship Creating oneness in a relationship Knowing when it’s time to step away from a “Hijackal” relationship Hallmarks of “Hijackals” Seeing the patterns and cycles in a “Hijackal” relationship Getting some help in withdrawing from a “Hijackal” relationship Having a healthy exit from a relationship Sustaining strong boundaries Acknowledging that you deserve space and progress Stating what you prefer in a relationship, rather than blaming Listening to other people’s feelings and not "fixing" them Documenting everything when there is physical violence Not rationalizing and justifying bad behavior The fine line between a giver and seeing a person who doesn’t have mutuality in mind Believing that you matter and more… Learn more about Dr Rhobera: Connect with her on her website @ www.forrelationshiphelp.com Youtube: For Relationship Help Podcast: Emotional Savvy Book: “How to Spot a Hijackal”

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help. Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of the difficult, toxic people she calls Hijackals®. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game. She is the host of three podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show and Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals, and Focus on Forward: Fuel for a Fearless Future. Website: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com Books: https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=rhoberta+shaler Free Ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal® https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/hijackals-intro/ Podcast: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com/network Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler Instagram: https://Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler Linkedin: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Have you ever had a relationship that made you feel crazy, confused, and controlled? Maybe you felt powerless at the same time as blamed for everything? You may have been mesmerized by a hijackal. After surviving a childhood of emotional turmoil and psychological distortion from her parents, Rhoberta Shaler began a lifelong exploration to heal that led her to define the term Hijackals®. Rhoberta's intense childhood experience, and subsequent toxic relationships derived from early conditioning, fueled her passion to demystify and disempower the hijackals of her own life. She now shares her mastery from decades of spiritual and psychological training as The Relationship Help Doctor through her blog, podcasts, books, and speaking. Watch this interview with Rhoberta for keen insights that expose the patterns of Hijackals® so you can spot them in your own life, and take steps to regain your sanity. Listen to Emotionally Savvy: The Relationship Help Show Take the Relationship Checklist About Dr Rhoberta Shaler As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis.  Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help. Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of the difficult, toxic people she calls Hijackals®. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game.  She is the host of two podcasts:  Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show and Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals, and her own channel, Emotional Savvy, on the Binge TV Network. Connect with Rhoberta: Web: https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshiphelpdoctor YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ForRelationshipHelp Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/rhobertashaler Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drrhobertashaler/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhobertashaler   YOUR GUIDE TO SOUL NECTAR – KERRI HUMMINGBIRD SAMI I love mentoring women to rewrite the story of their lives through inner transformation, connection to essence, remembrance of purpose, and realignment to authenticity and truth. If you don't want to settle for anything less than a life of passion and purpose, book a Discovery Call and let's talk! Schedule today! http://bit.ly/2CpFHFZ FREE GIFT: The Love Mastery Game, an oracle for revealing your soul's curriculum in every day challenges. http://www.kerrihummingbird.com/play Do you lack the confidence to trust yourself and go for what you want? When you take actions towards your dreams, does self-doubt infect your certainty? Do you find yourself distracting and numbing while also feeling something is missing inside? Do you feel disrespected and like your wisdom is being dismissed? Do you have a hard time asking for what you need? You may benefit from healing the Mother Wound and reconnecting with the Divine Mother for love. Find out more at www.motherwoundbook.com You may be a member of The Second Wave, here to uplift human consciousness from the inside out by healing patterns of suffering that run through your ancestry. Find out about “The Second Wave: Transcending the Human Drama” and receive a guided meditation at www.thesecondwave.media READ an Excerpt from the Award-Winning memoir, Awakening To Me.

As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help. Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of toxic people. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show and Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals!GIFT: free ebook as my gift: How to Spot a Hijackal, at http://www.Hijackals.comWebsite URL: https://ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: https://Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorLinkedin: https://LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerInstagram: https://Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: https://Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYouTube: https://YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp_______________________________________________ABOUT TERRYYouTube Channel SubscriptionClick here to Subscribe to my Channel ➤➤ https://www.youtube.com/IntuitiveLead...Click here for my Signature Video in this series ➤➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LhaOt...-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Terry's gift to you! ➤➤Download Terry's Quick Shift Technique to improve focus, decision making, reduces stress in the moment - http://www.QuickShiftZone.com-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with me on Social Media➤➤Are you on Facebook? ➝https://www.facebook.com/intuitivelea...Are you on Facebook? ➝https://www.facebook.com/your7thsense/Follow me on Twitter ➝https://twitter.com/terrywildemannFollow me on Twitter ➝https://twitter.com/Your7thSenseTVFollow me on YouTube ➝https://www.youtube.com/IntuitiveLead...Follow me on LinkedIn ➝https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrywild...-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Playlists and Videos➤➤Your 7th Sense Show Playlist . https://www.youtube.com/playlistlist=...Inward Journey for Intuitive Leaders Playlist ➤➤ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list...-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Website: Intuitive Leadership: http://www.intuitiveleadership.com/Website: Your 7th Sense: http://www.Your7thSense.comTerry's Speaker Sheet: http://www.intuitiveleadership.com/sp...Quick Shift Solutions:" http://www.intuitiveleadership.com/qu...Terry's Book - The Enchanted Boardroom https://www.amazon.com/TerryWildemann... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, and More - Episode 42GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio NetworkDR. RHOBERTA SHALER'S TOPIC: Mental Illness Scares Us More Than A Broken Leg Today, Dr. Shaler talks about the prevalence of mental health issues in our world, and why it is so essential to remove any stigma from it.People feel sorry for you, and behave in understanding ways, when you have heart surgery and a twelve-week recovery. Why do people not recognize, and be compassionate, when someone has a twelve-week period of depression, or a day or two of extreme anxiety? It scares them!The American Psychiatric Association at Psychiatry.org tells us:"Mental illnesses are health conditions involving changes in thinking, emotion or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses are associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.Mental illness is common. In a given year:nearly one in five (19 percent) US adults experience some form of mental illnessone in 24 (4.1 percent) has a serious mental illnessone in 12 (8.5 percent) has a substance use disorderMental illness is treatable. The vast majority of individuals with mental illness continue to function in their daily lives."So, let's get real. Mental illness happens to folks around us. Let's be compassionate. Let's not be afraid. Let's not tell them to "snap out of it." Let's help them get the help they need to recover.GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio Network Kristin's news network was born from her popular podcast downloaded in over 170 countries. It has been on air for four years and has over one million listens. She now produces additional podcasts for others in the field of behavioral health as well as organizations such as McLean Hospital in Boston, Springbrook Behavioral Health in Greenville, SC, and many others. Currently, Kristin's organization is producing over eighteen additional podcasts on the network, all dedicated to eradication of stigma around mental health and addiction disorders.Kristin is also the CEO of EverythingEHR, a behavioral health consulting firm. The stigma of mental illness is prevalent, and we need to shift that. Kristin had a Hijackal® home, and the too frequent first marriage to a Hijackal as a result. She knows what we talk about here on Emotional Savvy, and on my sister podcast, Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals. Kristin is all too familiar with the challenges of mental health. I loved what she said about Hijackals:"They use you as a waste receptacle for their unhealed wounds. Then, dump on you to get a vacation from their waste." Familiar? It was to me!Kristin shares with us her refreshing look at why we don't recognize how we've been drained without knowing it and what we need to do to refill ourselves...in healthy ways.Here's some interview highlights:How can early childhood sexual abuse set you up for having toxic people in your life as an adultHow you can remove yourself from narcissistic relationshipsWhat steps you can take to move out of co-dependent relationships CONNECT WITH KRISTIN WALKER:Website: MentalHealthNewsRadio.comTwitter: @mhnrnetworkInstagram: @kristinsunantaCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, and More - Episode 42GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio NetworkDR. RHOBERTA SHALER'S TOPIC: Mental Illness Scares Us More Than A Broken Leg Today, Dr. Shaler talks about the prevalence of mental health issues in our world, and why it is so essential to remove any stigma from it.People feel sorry for you, and behave in understanding ways, when you have heart surgery and a twelve-week recovery. Why do people not recognize, and be compassionate, when someone has a twelve-week period of depression, or a day or two of extreme anxiety? It scares them!The American Psychiatric Association at Psychiatry.org tells us:"Mental illnesses are health conditions involving changes in thinking, emotion or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses are associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.Mental illness is common. In a given year:nearly one in five (19 percent) US adults experience some form of mental illnessone in 24 (4.1 percent) has a serious mental illnessone in 12 (8.5 percent) has a substance use disorderMental illness is treatable. The vast majority of individuals with mental illness continue to function in their daily lives."So, let's get real. Mental illness happens to folks around us. Let's be compassionate. Let's not be afraid. Let's not tell them to "snap out of it." Let's help them get the help they need to recover.GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio Network Kristin's news network was born from her popular podcast downloaded in over 170 countries. It has been on air for four years and has over one million listens. She now produces additional podcasts for others in the field of behavioral health as well as organizations such as McLean Hospital in Boston, Springbrook Behavioral Health in Greenville, SC, and many others. Currently, Kristin's organization is producing over eighteen additional podcasts on the network, all dedicated to eradication of stigma around mental health and addiction disorders.Kristin is also the CEO of EverythingEHR, a behavioral health consulting firm. The stigma of mental illness is prevalent, and we need to shift that. Kristin had a Hijackal® home, and the too frequent first marriage to a Hijackal as a result. She knows what we talk about here on Emotional Savvy, and on my sister podcast, Save Your Sanity: Help for Handling Hijackals. Kristin is all too familiar with the challenges of mental health. I loved what she said about Hijackals:"They use you as a waste receptacle for their unhealed wounds. Then, dump on you to get a vacation from their waste." Familiar? It was to me!Kristin shares with us her refreshing look at why we don't recognize how we've been drained without knowing it and what we need to do to refill ourselves...in healthy ways.Here's some interview highlights:How can early childhood sexual abuse set you up for having toxic people in your life as an adultHow you can remove yourself from narcissistic relationshipsWhat steps you can take to move out of co-dependent relationships CONNECT WITH KRISTIN WALKER:Website: MentalHealthNewsRadio.comTwitter: @mhnrnetworkInstagram: @kristinsunantaCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN. Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help you gain a new perspective on building trust, a new way of thinking about it that can offer help and hope.If you missed Part 1, listen to Episode 33.DO HIJACKALS BECOME WONDERFUL WHEN THEY GET A NEW LOVE? GUEST: Bree Bonchay, MSW, LCSW Can a toxic partner really change? A Hijackal®?What is up with the Hijackal leaving you after being verbally and emotionally abusive, and taking up with a new partner, all sweetness and light? Can a Hijackal really change? And, that quickly?Does a new partner bring out the best in a narcissist? It often seems that way, doesn't it? And, then, you wonder,"If s/he can be that happy, laughing and loving, with someone new, was it me? Was I inadequate?"And, you know what, that's exactly what the Hijackal delights in you thinking. That's because--wait for it--everything was your fault, right?Bree Bonchay and I take a loaded psychological phrase that is really helpful in understanding why this is all so confusing and we unpack it. You'll understand better why you have the misgivings, and why and how you can set them to rest now.In Part 2 of the interview, interesting insights into attitude and agreeableness. You'll want to hear about this agreeableness, and it's not what you think.Very helpful interview to understand why you have such mixed emotions when leaving a Hijackal, and then, when the Hijackal finds new "supply" and seems to be so different from the person you last knew. Listen in.Why does it seem that the Hijackal® has become an amazing, wonderful person with the new love of their life. Is it real? Today's show will help you to see what's really going on. You need to know.Bree Bonchay is licensed psychotherapist with almost two decades of experience working in the field of mental health and trauma recovery. She specializes in helping people recover from toxic relationships, and shares her insights about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and psychopathy in her blog FreeFromToxic. Her articles have been featured in major online magazines, she is the founder World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day, (WNAAD), which is celebrated every 1st of June, and she is on the Board of Directors for The Association for NPD/Psychopathy Educators & Survivor Treatment More About Bree Bonchay, LCSW, psychotherapist Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care relationships in crisis. She particularly helps the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the crazy-making, relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help!A relationship expert, mediator, speaker & author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler consults with clients worldwide through the convenience of the internet. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, and Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals. More About Dr. Rhoberta ShalerCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN. Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help you gain a new perspective on building trust, a new way of thinking about it that can offer help and hope.If you missed Part 1, listen to Episode 33.DO HIJACKALS BECOME WONDERFUL WHEN THEY GET A NEW LOVE? GUEST: Bree Bonchay, MSW, LCSW Can a toxic partner really change? A Hijackal®?What is up with the Hijackal leaving you after being verbally and emotionally abusive, and taking up with a new partner, all sweetness and light? Can a Hijackal really change? And, that quickly?Does a new partner bring out the best in a narcissist? It often seems that way, doesn't it? And, then, you wonder,"If s/he can be that happy, laughing and loving, with someone new, was it me? Was I inadequate?"And, you know what, that's exactly what the Hijackal delights in you thinking. That's because--wait for it--everything was your fault, right?Bree Bonchay and I take a loaded psychological phrase that is really helpful in understanding why this is all so confusing and we unpack it. You'll understand better why you have the misgivings, and why and how you can set them to rest now.In Part 2 of the interview, interesting insights into attitude and agreeableness. You'll want to hear about this agreeableness, and it's not what you think.Very helpful interview to understand why you have such mixed emotions when leaving a Hijackal, and then, when the Hijackal finds new "supply" and seems to be so different from the person you last knew. Listen in.Why does it seem that the Hijackal® has become an amazing, wonderful person with the new love of their life. Is it real? Today's show will help you to see what's really going on. You need to know.Bree Bonchay is licensed psychotherapist with almost two decades of experience working in the field of mental health and trauma recovery. She specializes in helping people recover from toxic relationships, and shares her insights about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and psychopathy in her blog FreeFromToxic. Her articles have been featured in major online magazines, she is the founder World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day, (WNAAD), which is celebrated every 1st of June, and she is on the Board of Directors for The Association for NPD/Psychopathy Educators & Survivor Treatment More About Bree Bonchay, LCSW, psychotherapist Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care relationships in crisis. She particularly helps the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the crazy-making, relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help!A relationship expert, mediator, speaker & author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler consults with clients worldwide through the convenience of the internet. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, and Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals. More About Dr. Rhoberta ShalerCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorNew insights on how to find love and support within yourself, to commit to creating and maintaining your healthy, safe life with other humans. Do You Want to Feel Showered with Appreciation? Do these things. Insights from Dr. Rhoberta ShalerGuest Conversation with Laura Rubinstein - Learn to Say No. What it Takes and Why We're Reluctant to Do ItToxic people, difficult people, push you to do what they want you to do. Learn to say no. They will shame you, blame you, and game you into it…or, at least try.And, when you allow the manipulation, you feel one of two things:hopeful that, if you do what they want, they will like you more, or treat you better, ordefeated, and ashamed or sorry, that you once again are giving in to them.Neither of those feelings is helpful when you are in a relationship with a Hijackal®, right? Either way, you are disempowered.You want to be in control of what you do, think, feel, and want. That's your right! Toxic people will even go so far as to tell you what you feel or think, or at a minimum, what they think you should do, think feel, and want. You’ve noticed that, I’m sure. Don’t let them do that. They want to define your reality for you. If you let them, they will take over your life.Focus on saying YES! to yourself.What do you want?What do you value?What is OK with you?How do you want to be treated?What is your vision for your life?How do you want to feel in relationships?What do you believe and how are you demonstrating that?You have the absolute right to do your life your way! Therefore, you need to learn to say no to others sometimes, and learn to say yes to yourself more often. That's usually what's required to regain your balance.MORE ABOUT LAURA RUBINSTEIN: Laura Rubinstein is a Certified Hypnotherapist, Master Leadership Coach, Bestselling Author, and award winning Social Media and Marketing Strategist. She is the creator the Savvy Social Media Success course, and founder of Social Buzz Club. During the past 20+ years, Laura has optimized brand marketing strategies for over 1,000 businesses. She is the author of the bestselling book Social Media Myths Busted, Transform Your Body in the Mental Gym and the Feminine Power Cards (endorsed by John Gray, PhD of Mars Venus). These wisdom cards offer practical tools that allow people to make profound shifts in their relationships and professional life. Laura’s writings are featured in a variety of publications including the Amazon bestselling books Women Living Consciously and Journey to Joy, as well as on genConnect.com, YourTango.com and her popular TransformToday.com blog.Website: https://TransformToday.comFacebook: https://fb.com/CoachLauraRTwitter: https://twitter.com/CoachLauraLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/LauraRubinsteinMORE ABOUT DR.RHOBERTA SHALER: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care relationships in crisis. She particularly helps the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the crazy-making, relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help! A relationship expert, mediator, speaker & author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler consults with clients worldwide through the magic of the internet. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, and Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals. CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorNew insights on how to find love and support within yourself, to commit to creating and maintaining your healthy, safe life with other humans. Do You Want to Feel Showered with Appreciation? Do these things. Insights from Dr. Rhoberta ShalerGuest Conversation with Laura Rubinstein - Learn to Say No. What it Takes and Why We're Reluctant to Do ItToxic people, difficult people, push you to do what they want you to do. Learn to say no. They will shame you, blame you, and game you into it…or, at least try.And, when you allow the manipulation, you feel one of two things:hopeful that, if you do what they want, they will like you more, or treat you better, ordefeated, and ashamed or sorry, that you once again are giving in to them.Neither of those feelings is helpful when you are in a relationship with a Hijackal®, right? Either way, you are disempowered.You want to be in control of what you do, think, feel, and want. That's your right! Toxic people will even go so far as to tell you what you feel or think, or at a minimum, what they think you should do, think feel, and want. You’ve noticed that, I’m sure. Don’t let them do that. They want to define your reality for you. If you let them, they will take over your life.Focus on saying YES! to yourself.What do you want?What do you value?What is OK with you?How do you want to be treated?What is your vision for your life?How do you want to feel in relationships?What do you believe and how are you demonstrating that?You have the absolute right to do your life your way! Therefore, you need to learn to say no to others sometimes, and learn to say yes to yourself more often. That's usually what's required to regain your balance.MORE ABOUT LAURA RUBINSTEIN: Laura Rubinstein is a Certified Hypnotherapist, Master Leadership Coach, Bestselling Author, and award winning Social Media and Marketing Strategist. She is the creator the Savvy Social Media Success course, and founder of Social Buzz Club. During the past 20+ years, Laura has optimized brand marketing strategies for over 1,000 businesses. She is the author of the bestselling book Social Media Myths Busted, Transform Your Body in the Mental Gym and the Feminine Power Cards (endorsed by John Gray, PhD of Mars Venus). These wisdom cards offer practical tools that allow people to make profound shifts in their relationships and professional life. Laura’s writings are featured in a variety of publications including the Amazon bestselling books Women Living Consciously and Journey to Joy, as well as on genConnect.com, YourTango.com and her popular TransformToday.com blog.Website: https://TransformToday.comFacebook: https://fb.com/CoachLauraRTwitter: https://twitter.com/CoachLauraLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/LauraRubinsteinMORE ABOUT DR.RHOBERTA SHALER: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care relationships in crisis. She particularly helps the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the crazy-making, relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help! A relationship expert, mediator, speaker & author of sixteen books, Dr. Shaler consults with clients worldwide through the magic of the internet. She is the host of two podcasts: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, and Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals. CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpFree Passive-Aggressive Checklist Free Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Passive-aggressive behavior is frustrating, infuriating, and frankly...unfair!And, passive-aggressive behavior is sneaky! In fact, so sneaky that you're often caught up in thinking that it actually makes some sense...at first, or for a while. Then, it dawns on you: Something's not right with this but I can't quite put my finger on it.Passive-aggressive behavior is undermining. In the moment, and in the aftermath, your head spins. You wonder if you were the one who made a mistake. It's crazy-making!So, today, Dr. Shaler offers you five ways to watch for that passive-aggressive behavior shows up. You can then recognize it more easily.BUT, it's never very helpful to tell another person that their behavior is passive-aggressive. It's highly unlikely to get you anywhere good. Learn why.Listen to this short podcast and learn how to listen for passive-aggressive stuff coming at you, and well as from you. It can be tricky!Oh, Dr. Shaler has also written two books to give you even more insights, strategies, and skills:Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-AggressionAvailable at Amazon along with her other books.TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE CHECKLIST HERE! Find out what's up for sure.Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comPodcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctorWant to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 #passiveaggressive #passiveaggression #annoyingpeople #toomuchprocrastination #toomuchforgetting #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Is your relationship bringing you love, safety, trust, respect, and emotional intimacy? Or, has it become one that goes along all right as long as you both walk on eggshells? Is it somewhere in the middle?What's going on? It could be that one or both of you have been set up to settle for a "comfortably uncomfortable" relationship. You need to think about this. Settling is not the best descriptor for a satisfying relationship.Dr. Shaler gives you insights into why you may not yet be having the relationship you most want, together. And, gives steps you can take to move in a better direction.TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE RELATIONSHIP CHECKLIST HERE. Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 --------------------------------------------------------------I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!Learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships.Join my Optimize Circles now.Discussion groups safely off social media + videos + articles + webinars + 21 Steps to Empowering Emotional Savvy personal home study program delivered by email + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. OptimizeCircles.com Only $5 for the first month at any level.----------------------------------------------------------------------Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comPodcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctorWant to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor When you are in a difficult relationship, you can certainly have more ups and downs than are comfortable. Those roller coasters can take so much energy that you're exhausted.Dr. Shaler answers a reader's question about a roller coaster relationship. Good relationship advice.If you have a question that you would like her to answer on air for you, you are welcome to submit it using THIS LINK. Enjoy Dr. Shaler's YouTube channel: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpWant to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor "It Happened To Me" is a feature of the Save Your Sanity podcast. Guests tell their real life stories of life with Hijackals. Whether they loved on, lived with one, left one, or were raised by one, you'll relate to their experiences, and hear how they found ways to move positively forward.Today, it's Dr. Shaler's own story.Would you like to come on air and tell your "It Happened To Me" story? I'd love to have you as my guest. Use this guest form: ForRelationshipHelp.com/guestsWant to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor Have you ever wanted to stay home from work to avoid someone, or to not have to deal with conflicts? You are not alone.Stress in the workplace caused by unresolved conflicts takes a large toll on everyone. It's exhausting.Dr. Shaler discusses conflict in the workplace, and why it is essential to address it. Of course, having the right communication and conflict management strategies is important. That's why training is valuable. Too many businesses and companies could do a better job of offering this kind of help to their people.What happens when conflict continues? That's the subject of today's podcast...and what happens when it's not addressed.Want skills and strategies right away?Buy your copy of Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work now from Amazon HEREValuable chapters on communication, conflict, negotiation, anger management, and more.Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 --------------------------------------------------------------I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!Learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships.Join my Optimize Circles now.Discussion groups safely off social media + videos + articles + webinars + 21 Steps to Empowering Emotional Savvy personal home study program delivered by email + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. OptimizeCircles.com Only $5 for the first month at any level.----------------------------------------------------------------------Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comPodcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctorWant to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 #workplaceconflict #organizationalconflict #don'twanttogotowork #workconflict #nastycoworkers #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.