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In this hilarious episode of Bone to Pick Podcast, Robert Kelly and Paul Virzi go off the rails with a wild mix of word confusion, food etiquette, and fan-submitted grievances that turn into full-blown comedy bits. From Paul's failed attempt to say “habitual” (landing on “provitual”) to a deep debate about why people cover their mouths while eating, the episode spirals into pure comic chaos. The duo riff on everything from cheap socks and broken binders to calling your mother-in-law “Mom,” while Mike chimes in with perfectly timed fan “bones.” The conversation hits moments of pure absurdity and surprising heart—especially when Bobby recalls his rough school years and the ritual of signing big deals with a $350 Montblanc pen. Join the Patreon at www.patreon.com/bonetopickcast
Who knew that a lack of boundaries could cause so many emotional and mental struggles in our lives? Today I'm sharing with you an article adaptation from Dr. Henry Cloud's book Becoming an Adult: Advice on Taking Control & Living a Happy, Meaningful Life. Dr. Cloud is one of the co-authors of the Boundaries books, and he shared 22 symptoms that we can experience when we don't set appropriate boundaries. I think you'll find this fascinating – I did! Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #27 Healthier Relationships on Apple on Spotify #47 Thoughts, Consequences, & Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #139 Being a Martyr on Apple on Spotify #140 Still Being a Martyr on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #196 How to Break the Blame/Defense Cycle on Apple on Spotify #225 Shame, Blame, and Disempowerment on Apple on Spotify #227 Feeling Obligated on Apple on Spotify #240 Passive-Aggressive Behavior on Apple on Spotify #250 Being a Victim on Apple on Spotify #277 Your Spouse Is Not Your Responsibility on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify #333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify #334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify #335 Sense of Self and Parenting on Apple on Spotify #336 Sense of Self and Our Spirituality on Apple on Spotify #337 Sense of Self and Our Sexuality on Apple on Spotify #349 It's Okay If People Don't Like You on Apple on Spotify #363 Breaking Your Over- and Under-functioning Cycles on Apple on Spotify #365 Villains, Victims, and Heroes on Apple on Spotify #375 Sense of Self and the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion. You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me? Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/
Chad tells the story of some poor customer service he encountered recently and Jamie Yuccas rightly calls him out for his tepid, weak-willed response.
Tension bubbles just below the surface as Rachel Teichman, LCSW and Victor Varnado, KSN explore the slippery concept of passive-aggressive behavior. Whether it's silent treatment or backhanded compliments, the episode unpacks how this indirect form of expression shows up in everyday interactions. A fun fact? Psychologists once classified it as a personality disorder. Tune in for a relatable and slightly awkward journey into emotional expression.Produced and hosted by Victor Varnado & Rachel TeichmanFull Wikipedia article here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passive-aggressive_behaviorSubscribe to our new newsletter, WikiWeekly at https://newsletter.wikilisten.com/ for a fun fact every week to feel smart and impress your friends, and MORE! https://www.patreon.com/wikilistenpodcastFind us on social media!https://www.facebook.com/WikiListenInstagram @WikiListenTwitter @Wiki_ListenGet bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
From slurping sounds and misophonia to wedding day confessions, passive-aggressive narcissists, and parents who let their kids dictate weekend plans. They roast bad gas station etiquette, debate who's really “managing” group travel, and break down fake sympathy gestures like "sorry for your loss." Plus, listener-submitted video bones spark hilarious rants about freezer-burnt sausage and pump-hogging lotto players. If you love raw, honest comedy, unfiltered takes on modern life, and comedians calling out everyday nonsense, this is your new favorite episode. New customers, get 15% off your Huel order, plus a free gift. Use code BONE at https://www.huel.com/bone Check out our Patreon: www.patreon.com/bonetopickcast
If we want to increase the intimacy and connection in our relationships, it is imperative that we show up as a safe person who creates a safe space. Often, the patterns we have established in our relationships are the opposite of safe, they cause our primitive brains to go into hyper protective mode and want to run away emotionally and physically. But when we can learn to show up safe, time and time again, we can create a space where our spouse may be willing to start engaging in vulnerability, in the openness and honesty necessary to deepen our engagement. Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts: #3 Resolving Conflict #20 Blame and Responsibility #51 The Silent Treatment #60 Mental and Emotional Abusive Behaviors #61 Charity is the Antidote #75 Emotional Adulthood #143 Stuck in Perfectionism #193 No Back-Burner Issues #197 Connecting Through Conflict #230 People Pleasing #239 How to Own Your Own #240 Passive-Aggressive Behavior #242 Circling Back Around #270 People Pleasing and Kindness – What's the Difference? #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives #319 Get Ready to Rock the Boat #357 How to be More Understanding Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion. You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me? Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/
Alright, loves—this one is going to ruffle some feathers, and I am HERE for it. We're diving deep into the murky waters of toxic femininity and how healthy masculine energy can actually help stop these patterns dead in their tracks.If you've ever found yourself playing the manipulation game, feeling entitled, being passive-aggressive, or taking instead of receiving, you might just be living in toxic femininity without even realizing it. But don't worry—I got you. We're not here to shame, we're here to elevate.This episode is all about owning our patterns, reclaiming our feminine power, and understanding the role of a strong masculine presence. I even get personal about my own journey, the influence of my co-pilot in life, and how a truly healthy masculine partner creates the ultimate safe space for a woman to step into her full feminine.Get ready to have some real talk, no fluff, and maybe even recognize a few patterns that need to be left in the past. Let's get brave.What you'll get out of this episode… A bold, no-BS breakdown of toxic feminine traits and how they show up in your life How healthy masculine energy can help break toxic cyclesReal talk on why so many of us struggle to receive (and how to change that!) The difference between entitlement and true feminine magnetism How to recognize toxic dynamics in relationships and family patterns The game-changing way my own relationship helped me step deeper into my feminine powerTIMESTAMPS[00:00] Intro – This One's Gonna Be Spicy! [02:15] What is Toxic Femininity, REALLY? [07:00] Trait #1: Manipulative Tendencies [09:30] Trait #2: Entitlement & Expecting to Receive Without Giving [11:45] Trait #3: Passive Aggressive Behavior [13:30] Trait #4: Exploiting Gender Norms [15:00] BONUS: Taking Rather Than Receiving [16:45] How Healthy Masculine Energy Stops These Patterns[19:00] How My Own Relationship Has Shaped My Feminine Energy [20:30] How This Shows Up in Your Life & What to Do Next [22:00] Closing Thoughts & Your Next Brave MoveTo receive a free gift, email a screenshot of your 5-star review of The Brave Table to support@globalgrit.co
Do you have someone in your life who's actions don't match their words? You sense they're upset, but also that they're trying to conceal it from you. Maybe they give you the silent treatment, withhold intimacy, withhold praise. Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.comFollow me on social media:Facebook.com/DrLauraInstagram.com/DrLauraProgramYouTube.com/DrLauraJoin My Dr. Laura Family For Free! Receive my Weekly Dose newsletter with featured blog articles, emails from listeners, event invitations, and early access to my Dr. Laura Designs Store! You get 20% off Marriage 101, my six video-course to improve and strengthen your marriage! Plus, get an exclusive discount for 25% off your entire purchase on official Dr. Laura merch! What are you waiting for? Sign up today!
Do you have someone in your life who's actions don't match their words? You sense they're upset, but also that they're trying to conceal it from you. Maybe they give you the silent treatment, withhold intimacy, withhold praise. Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.comFollow me on social media:Facebook.com/DrLauraInstagram.com/DrLauraProgramYouTube.com/DrLauraJoin My Dr. Laura Family For Free! Receive my Weekly Dose newsletter with featured blog articles, emails from listeners, event invitations, and early access to my Dr. Laura Designs Store! You get 20% off Marriage 101, my six video-course to improve and strengthen your marriage! Plus, get an exclusive discount for 25% off your entire purchase on official Dr. Laura merch! What are you waiting for? Sign up today!
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Episode 211 // Want to stop the passive aggressive behavior in your home? No one enjoys it, but it can be hard to break bad habits. Today, I've got 6 tips for you to help you make the change. Try these tips and find more connection in your family communication. We're unpacking Ephesians 4:26-27 and some practical ways to deal with real issues, never give the devil a foothold, and build healthier communication with your husband and kids. Let's do it! hugs & blessings, Jess Today's Scripture inspiration is Ephesians 4:25-27 - Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Grab my FREE Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet here. Find my Communicating to Connect marriage devotional here. Find my devotionals for Marriage Communication or for building Emotional Control. Read this one on the blog instead. FIND ALL MY FAVORITE RESOURCES HERE: Manage Emotions Communicate Well Fruitful Faith Happy Marriage Joyful Parenting Home & Family Life GRAB ONE OF MY **FREE** RESOURCES right here SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON and enjoy our monthly challenges! GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE for less than $5 in my Etsy shop FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL to help with common family-related topics * * * * * * * * * * * * * DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * * * * * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we're building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all. ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
How can you handle passive-aggressive coworkers and get them to speak up openly? Passive aggressive types are vague and avoid transparent conversations because they don't like conflict. That's why direct questions are your best weapon to stop walking on eggshells when passive-aggressive colleagues create toxic drama. Try these 20 direct questions to confront silent conflict and immediately stop the toxic behavior. In this episode you'll discover: ✔️20 powerful questions to outsmart passive-aggressive coworkers. ✅ Free Resources FREE Training & presentation on How To Be Assertive Without Being Rude, Aggressive, or Offensive: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/assertivenotrude 30 min Amplify Voices Strategy Session: https://calendly.com/assertiveway/amplifyvoicesstrategycall Sign Up for Our Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter/ Ivna's Unapologetic Voice Stories: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/ivnastories From Rambling To Articulate PDF Guide: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/articulate Podcast episode lists by theme: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/speakyourmindunapologeticallytopics Women in Tech Leaders Podcast Interviews: https://assertiveway.com/womenintechpodcastguests/ Podcast Summaries & More Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter Our Linkedin Blog Articles: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/6863880009879306240/ TEDx Talk How To Speak Up Safely When It's Psychologically Unsafe: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/safespeak 10 Day free Assertive And Liked Challenge: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/beassertiveandliked Assertiveness free training: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/getahead Other Free resources: https://assertiveway.com/free/ Podcast page: https://assertiveway.com/podcast-speak-your-mind-unapologetically/ ✅ Listen on the Speak Your Mind Unapologetically podcast on Apple Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-your-mind-unapologetically-podcast/id1623647915 ✅ Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6L1myPkiJXYf5SGrublYz2 ✅ Order our book, ‘Unapologetic Voice: 101 Real-World Strategies for Brave Self Advocacy & Bold Leadership' where each strategy is also a real story: https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Voice-Real-World-Strategies-Leadership-ebook/dp/B0CW2X4WWL/ ✅ Follow the show host, Ivna Curi, on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ivna-curi-mba-67083b2/ ✅ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Team And Company: http://assertiveway.com/workshops ✅ Other Episodes You'll Like How to Protect Yourself from Manipulative People: 7 Effective Strategies Assertive, Passive, Aggressive, or Passive-Aggressive? Which Is Your Communication Style How to Deal with Difficult Coworkers Without Compromising Your Integrity (Examples) Avoid These 10 Boundary Mistakes That Make You Look Difficult 13 Reasons Why People Don't Respect Your Boundaries "No" to Regrets: Living Authentically and Making Empowered Choices ✅ Work With Us Workshops: http://assertiveway.com/workshops Break The Silence: https://assertiveway.com/communicationculturetransformation/ Services: https://assertiveway.com/offerings Contact me: info@assertiveway.com or ivnacuri@assertiveway.com Contact me on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ivna-curi-mba-67083b2 Website: https://assertiveway.com ✅ Support The Podcast Rate the podcast on apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-your-mind-unapologetically-podcast/id1623647915 Ask me your question for the next episode: https://www.speakpipe.com/speakyourmindquestion
We all know that maintaining a positive and productive work environment is crucial for the success of any business. But sometimes, subtle behaviors like passive-aggressiveness can creep in and erode your team's morale, trust, and collaboration.In this episode of The Chris LoCurto Show, we dive deep into identifying and addressing passive-aggressive behavior in the workplace, offering actionable strategies to help you lead your team with clarity and confidence.Whether you're a leader or a team member, chances are you've encountered passive-aggressive behavior at some point. Maybe it's someone constantly missing deadlines, making sarcastic remarks, or giving the silent treatment.In this episode, we explore how these behaviors show up, their impact on your team's dynamics, and, most importantly, how to address them effectively.Key Takeaways:1. Identifying Passive-Aggressive Behaviors (00:00:50)Passive-aggressiveness can manifest in various ways, such as procrastination, subtle resistance, sarcasm, backhanded compliments, or even the silent treatment.Recognizing these behaviors early can prevent small issues from escalating into major conflicts, helping you maintain a positive and productive work environment.2. Common Forms of Passive-Aggressive Behavior (00:01:43)Procrastination: Deliberately delaying tasks as a way to express frustration or resistance.Sarcasm: Using humor to mask resentment, often through taunting remarks or undermining comments.Silent Treatment: Withholding communication as a means of control or expressing displeasure.3. Strategies for Addressing Passive-Aggressive Behavior (00:18:44)Communicating Effectively: Start with statements like “Help me to understand…” to encourage self-awareness and uncover the root issues behind the behavior.Setting Clear Expectations: Outline what is acceptable behavior and the consequences for not meeting those expectations.Promoting Accountability and Transparency: Encourage direct communication and emphasize the importance of addressing concerns openly.4. Mindset Tips for Leaders (00:39:02)Approach these conversations with empathy while remaining firm on expectations.Stay calm and focus on addressing the behavior rather than getting caught up in the content of what's being said.Understand that protecting your culture is more important than allowing one person to continue toxic behavior.5. Consequences of Not Addressing Passive-Aggressive Behavior (00:47:10)Avoiding these conversations leads to increased tension, reduced trust, lowered morale, and ultimately, decreased productivity.Don't let one individual's behavior derail your team's success. Address the issue early and often to maintain a healthy, high-performing culture.Tune In for More! This episode is packed with practical insights that will help you lead your team through difficult situations with confidence and clarity.Don't miss out on this valuable content that can transform your leadership and your business.As always, take this information, change your leadership, change your business, and change your life!Thanks for joining us today. We'll see you on the next episode of The Chris LoCurto Show.
What's blocking you? What's holding you back? Today, Jay talks about the concept of self-sabotage, examining how it manifests in various aspects of our lives and offering strategies for overcoming it. Self-sabotage is defined as behaviors that undermine our own success, happiness, and stated goals. These actions often occur subconsciously, rooted in deep psychological patterns formed during early childhood. Jay outlines four primary ways people self-sabotage: chronic lateness, procrastination, putting oneself down, and perfectionism. He also discusses the habit of putting oneself down, which can manifest through over-apologizing or refusing to take credit for accomplishments. This behavior is often linked to low self-esteem or an internalized critical voice from childhood. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Recognize Self-Sabotage How to Stop Putting Yourself Down How to Change Negative Self-Talk How to Understand Your Triggers How to Set Boundaries By understanding and working through these patterns, you can unlock your full potential and achieve the success and happiness you desire. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:08 What is Self-Sabotage? 05:41 Passive-Aggressive Behavior 08:22 Behavior that Counters What We Tell Ourselves 11:08 What Leads to Self-Sabotage? 14:26 #1: Chronic Lateness 16:22 #2: Procrastination 19:53 #3: Putting Yourself Down 23:15 #4: Perfectionism 27:01 Three Ways to Deal with Your Self-Sabotaging Behavior 28:53 weird noise in the backgroundSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Covert narcissists are experts at passive aggressiveness. They have this down so well. As a victim of the abuse, we are so conditioned that we don't see it! Cognitive dissonance keeps us blind to so much for so long. I tell you now though, once you start to see what is going on, you cannot unsee it. Once you cross that threshold, you can't go back. The door behind you closes and locks. Can you put the passive aggressive behavior into words? Can you describe it, define it, explain it? Can you give examples or do they seem to just disappear into the wind? Is it clear in your mind or are you feeling the fog of an abuse victim? Their expertise in passive aggressiveness adds so much to the confusion already happening within a victim's mind. Covert narcissists often use passive aggressiveness to avoid confrontation, to get their way, to make the other person feel bad, to be able to avoid blame and responsibility. Today, I give you some specific characteristics and examples of passive aggressive behavior. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson Renee Swanson #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Welcome to The Here's Rodders Podcast. My name is Rodney Stewart. I am a huge movie and tv fan as well as an amateur filmmaker. I am also a 40+ year old man chasing a better life so i will join my journey maybe there will be something you will enjoy. FOLLOW MY SOCIAL MEDIA Subscribe to YouTube www.youtube.com/channel/UCAmPV35TanagGTMKiyyl0lg TWITTER www.twitter.com/heresrodders INSTAGRAM www.instagram.com/heresrodders SNAPCHAT Add me on Snapchat! Username: Rodders@CoinsEdgeMedia www.snapchat.com/add/heresrodders Watch my short films at www.vimeo.com/coinsedgemedia PATREON www.patreon.com/coinsedgemedia
Do you have someone in your life who displays passive-aggressive behavior? Do you ever catch yourself being passive-aggressive with the people around you? I don't know about you, but I believe every single one of us is guilty of passive-aggressive behavior from time to time, so if you want to find a way out of this negative cycle, you're in the right place. Join me this week as I give you strategies to help you feel peaceful, confident, and compassionate, even when the people in your life aren't. You'll learn where passive-aggressive behavior stems from, why it's a problem, and how to set yourself free from it for good. Get full show notes and more information here: https://jodymoore.com/458
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We examined passive-aggressive behavior in relationships as a coping tool and as a measure of punishment for a partner. We also look at the fact that many times passive aggressive behavior has more to do with a person not being able to fully Express their feelings within a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/romantictruth/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/romantictruth/support
In today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are examining passive-aggressive behavior. They start the episode by sharing the different types of passive-aggressive behavior and examples to accompany each type. Emmalee and Jen explain where passive-aggressive behavior might stem from, and how to better understand it if we're engaging in it or if someone is being passive-aggressive with us. They answer your questions like: why we fall into this behavior, how to gently call someone out for being passive-aggressive, what to do if someone gets defensive, the difference between sarcasm and passive aggression, why it shows up within the mother-in-law relationship dynamic quite often, and so much more! Emmalee and Jen do some role playing and enactments to share tangible ideas for being direct in the face of passive-aggressive behavior. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 3:30 into their convo to skip the intro and get straight to today's content. Books mentioned in the episode by Preston Ni: A Practical Guide for Passive-Aggressives to Change Towards the Higher Self How to Successfully Handle Passive-Aggressive People Get Matched With One of Our Therapists at The Therapy Group! ShrinkChicks on Instagram Our Know Yourself Grow Yourself Journal!! SHRINKCHICKS MERCH Check out ShrinkChicks on YouTube by subscribing here! https://youtube.com/channel/UCrxuhDqoL4ML3UE8b2J2BBg A special thank you to this week's sponsors for supporting ShrinkChicks! We have these exclusive offers for our listeners: Beis: Get 15% off your first purchase by visiting beistravel.com/SHRINKCHICKS Athena Club: Go to AthenaClub.com and get 20% off your purchase with code SHRINKCHICKS at checkout! Storyworth: Go to storyworth.com/shrinkchicks and save $10 on your first purchase! Master Class: Get an additional 15% off an annual membership at masterclass.com/shrinkchicks Apostrophe: Get your first visit for only $5 at apostrophe.com/SHRINKCHICKS when you use our code SHRINKCHICKS Factor: Head to factormeals.com/shrinkchicks50 and use code shrinkchicks50 to get 50% off! Quince: Go to quince.com/shrinkchicks to get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order!
Discover the subtle signs of passive-aggressive communication, from backhanded compliments to weaponized incompetence and deliberate procrastination. Learn how these behaviors negatively impact relationships in families, romantic partnerships, and at work. Where do these passive-aggressive tendencies originate? What is their intention? And how do they destroy relationships and shift power dynamics? Join us as we discuss practical strategies to recognize and navigate these situations, foster trust to build stronger, more authentic connections in your life, and emphasize the benefits of modeling respectful communication and creating emotional safety. CONNECT WITH LOVE LETTERS AND MIXTAPES IG @LOVELETTERSANDMIXTAPES Spotify @LOVELETTERSANDMIXTAPES TikTok @LOVELETTERSANDMIXTAPES Twitter @LOVELETTERSNMIX
Have you ever passively sugar coated your needs in a hidden way or being on the receiving end of trying to figure out the missing puzzle piece? We've all been there! Passive aggression is one of the most frustrating (yet most common) behaviors to see because it can be so hard to pin down and ultimately fix. Lindsey and Amber discuss a few tips that you can use to nudge your friend, loved one, or colleague to interact with you in a more productive, straightforward way. 1. Don't label them as "passive aggressive." 2. Focus on the content, not the delivery. 3. Figure out what the other person cares about. 4. Call attention to what's happening. 5. Make a straightforward request. ------------------------------------------ Want to share your story or suggest a mental health topic? Contact us here: whatthefoxtales@gmail.com ------------------------------------------ Podcast Platforms: https://linktr.ee/whatthefox Subscribe: youtube.com/@whatthefoxpodcast IG: @whatthefoxpodcast | @iamlindseyfox | @1dare2dream Press: whatthefoxtales@gmail.com Sponsored By: www.conscioushealers.com Sponsored By: www.therapyappointment.com Music Credit: Nick Driver --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whatthefoxpodcast/support
Passive Aggressive Behavior: A serial online predator aka cheater. *** Domestic Violence attorney's opinion? "A CHARMER out for GAIN from women. Highly manipulative individual. He was out for your disability benefits. Your family member, telling the sheriff's department about this individual was 100 percent spot on. It wasn't a lie, what they were saying. They found out through most likely, a private investigator. Him being handed the Brady Bill for prior domestic violence. Being found guilty is also something not to be taken lightly. He can never own or purchase a hand gun." So no. His response should not surprise anyone. But I can't stress it enough... LADIES, PAY FOR FULL BACKGROUND CHECKS ON ANY MALE YOU MEET AND PLANNING ON SOMETHING SERIOUS. BE AWARE OF ONLINE PREDATORS. IT WILL BE THE BEST INVESTMENT $$$ YOU WILL EVER MAKE IN YOUR LIFE
In this episode of share about catching my passive aggressive behavior towards Thomas and my self reflection around it. It felt great to catch myself and learn from my behavior. #passiveaggressive #workingonme #leveluppodcast #womenencouragingwomen #chasingjoy
Welcome to Episode 189 where we listen in clips from the top five most listened to episodes about connection. In this episode we finish out the month with probably the best topic, because it can be a culmination of all the work we talked about in the previous episodes: connection. We need healthy separateness, boundaries, direct communication and to own our needs. Connecting in the healthiest, most authentic ways requires work in all of those, and other areas. It is also what we all crave to feel known, loved, cared about and that we make sense. I think healthy connection is a way to feel that we both belong to ourselves and feel that belongingness with others. Connection is so much more than just healthy communication. It's about vulnerability, being transparent, sharing joys and sorrows as well as things we are ashamed of, afraid of or embarrassed about. Connection is also about shared experiences that bond us to others and give life meaning. Key Elements: Explore how connection is more than just healthy communication. Talk about how authentic, vulnerable communication is the key to connection Look at how we can work on creating emotional trust and safety in our communication. Sometimes if you expose your vulnerability, someone else will feel comforted. It's like we're all in this boat together. -Tavi Gevinson Resources: EP054 Growing Great Relationships https://www.soarwithmarybaker.com/ownitpowercast/ (use search in player for 054) EP137 Building Connection: What is Emotional Intimacy https://www.soarwithmarybaker.com/ownitpowercast/ (use search in player for 137) EP143 Healthier Communication: Building Trust with Emotional Honesty https://www.soarwithmarybaker.com/ownitpowercast/ (use search in player for 143) EP133 Connection We Crave: Why We Need It and Why We May Not Have It https://www.soarwithmarybaker.com/ownitpowercast/ (use search in player for 133) EP157 Don't Be Vulnerable: Men and Passive-Aggressive Behavior https://www.soarwithmarybaker.com/ownitpowercast/ (use search in player for 157) Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com. Tribe members will receive them in their email each week. Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!
So many of us unintentionally engage in passive-aggressive behaviors, and it's hurting our relationships. Today we are going to talk about 18 different ways that these behaviors show up. When we create greater awareness around our own passive aggressive behaviors, we can start to clean them up and start healing our relationships.
What is at the core of passive aggressive behavior? Today Bill is joined by Todd Mulliken for a deep-dive into the tactics and the reasons of passive aggressive behavior and inviting Jesus into wounded places through prayer. * This encore episode originally aired on November 11, 2022
What is passive-aggressive behavior? How do you deal with that behavior in your relationships? Find out in this podcast episode....For relationship tips, tools and coaching opportunities go to this website:MichelleMCastelli.comTo share your relationship comments or questions, send your email to:michelle@growingyourrelationships.com
Who's the Passive-Aggressive in Your Life?How to Recognize Passive-Aggressive Behavior (And What to do About It!) - Matthew KellyGet Matthew's 60 Second Wisdom delivered to your inbox: https://www.matthewkelly.com/subscribeVideo Transcript:“Most of us encounter passive-aggressive behavior on a daily basis. It could be as simple and innocent as a child who is unable to express her feelings or an adult who is intentionally trying to manipulate and control us.What is passive-aggressive behavior? It's a pattern of indirectly expressing negative feelings instead of openly addressing them.The first important word to connect with out of this definition is ”pattern”. It isn't something that happens once. When something happens once, it's an event. If something happens twice, depending on how serious something is, we may be willing to give people the benefit of the doubt. But once something happens three times, it's a pattern. An example of passive-aggressive behavior is someone who agrees to something you ask them to do, perhaps even agrees enthusiastically, but then expresses anger and resentment by failing to complete the task or missing deadlines. Passive-aggressive behavior often involves using inaction to punish or control people. It also usually involves refusing to express thoughts, feelings, opinions, and desires in a mature way. Passive-aggressive people attempt to get what they need or want indirectly and manipulatively. They act out aggressive impulses in an indirect way. For example, they might say, “Don't bother. I guess I'll just have to do it myself” as a way to guilt and manipulate you into doing what they want you to do right now. Instead of simply asking you to do something and explaining why it matters to them. Other examples of passive-aggressive behavior include: Resentment and opposition to reasonable requests; sulking; backhanded compliments; withdrawal; procrastination; intentional mistakes; refusing to communicate; cynical, sullen, or hostile attitudes; and frequent complaining.When someone is behaving in one or more of these ways, it's important to control your anger and explain what you are witnessing and experiencing in a non-judgmental, factual way.For example, you might say to your child, "You seem to be angry at me for asking you to clean your room." Or you might say to your partner, “You agreed to come with me today, but now you seem resentful and angry at having to come.” Remember, passive-aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative feelings, instead of addressing them openly. When a person is engaging in passive-aggressive behavior, there is always a disconnect between what that person says and what he or she does. Passive-aggressive behavior interferes with millions of personal and professional relationships every day. It sucks the joy out of doing things together, makes difficult things even more difficult, it is exhausting, and can lead us to doubt ourselves and question whether something is wrong with us. Once someone gets us into this fragile psychological state, we are easier than ever to manipulate. What's the solution? Learn to recognize passive-aggressive behavior in your life, and don't delay in pointing it out when you see it being used.”If you have not read LIFE IS MESSY, order your copy today: https://amzn.to/2TTgZKn Subscribe to Matthew's YouTube Channel today! https://www.youtube.com/c/MatthewKellyAuthor/featured?sub_confirmation=1https://www.matthewkelly.comGet Matthew's 60 Second Wisdom delivered to your inbox: https://www.matthewkelly.com/subscribe The Best Version of Yourself and 60 Second Wisdom are registered trademarks.#MatthewKelly #BestVersionOfYourself #BestVersion #ThoughLeader
In this episode of the Tell Me Somethin' Good podcast, Clint Swindall continues his thoughts on one of the most annoying (and negative) attributes of some people … passive-aggressive behavior! While he encourages those people dealing with passive-aggressive behavior to find guidance from mental health professionals, he shares some thoughts on how we can enhance our own communication by becoming more assertive. Check it out! ---------- If you like the podcast, you'll love the Tell Me Somethin' Good! book. Check it out: Tell Me Somethin' Good! - https://www.tinyurl.com/yxcsg3sh ---------- Have Clint bring his message of positivity to your organization, either in person or virtually. Check out his demo video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7MXyGYizBY. ---------- Follow me: Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/clintswindall Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tmsg_clintswindall/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/clintswindall2 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/clintswindall LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clint-swindall-csp-9047174/ ---------- Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network
In this episode of the Tell Me Somethin' Good podcast, Clint Swindall takes a look at one of the most annoying (and negative) attributes of some people … passive-aggressive behavior! He shares the four basic communication styles to encourage listeners to lean toward one more than all the others. Which one is it? Give it a listen to find out! ---------- If you like the podcast, you'll love the Tell Me Somethin' Good! book. Check it out: Tell Me Somethin' Good! - https://www.tinyurl.com/yxcsg3sh ---------- Have Clint bring his message of positivity to your organization, either in person or virtually. Check out his demo video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7MXyGYizBY. ---------- Follow me: Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/clintswindall Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tmsg_clintswindall/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/clintswindall2 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/clintswindall LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clint-swindall-csp-9047174/ ---------- Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network
It should be celebrated when you start honoring yourself and standing up for yourself. It should be seen as a gift you give yourself that leads to happiness. But some people see your empowerment as a threat and aren't ready for you to change. When that happens, you might have to start changing the rules to show others just how worthy of healthy behavior you are.
A listener was told she was passive-aggressive and she didn't realize it. She asked how to identify it in herself and how and why it comes about. I address this great topic in today's episode. I also talk about a very difficult situation where a disabled partner is also an abusive partner and his wife doesn't know what to do about it. It's a packed episode today.
Welcome to Episode 156 where focus on how men can struggle to be open and assertive in their relationships. In this episode we focus on how men's childhoods can set them up to avoid vulnerability and instead to cope via passive aggressive behavior in order to stay away judgment and conflict. Of course, that is exactly what they end up embroiled in because they are not stepping up confidently and being strong dads and partners. They are letting themselves down with their inauthenticity and therefore the inability to experience great relationships. We talk about how they often pair up with partners who have a penchant for rescuing rather than risking loss via setting firm boundaries and detaching, setting up a futile parent vs child dynamic instead of loving partners. Society teaches boys not to cry or show their feelings, then act surprised when some men act heartless. - Unknown Key Elements: Explore some of the reasons men struggle with vulnerability. Look at how passive-aggressive behavior hurts men's ability to partner. Look at how men can begin to work on healing and connect better. Resources: What kind of Woman Marries the Passive-Aggressive Man by Cathy Meyer. https://www.liveabout.com/what-kind-of-woman-marries-the-passive-aggressive-man-1102897#:~:text=The%20passive%20aggressive%20man%20or,aggressive%20man%20will%20do%20both The Good Men Project: https://goodmenproject.com/sex-relationships/the-subtle-shaming-of-men-and-vulnerability-dg/ Make sure you sign up for the bonus downloads at www.ownitpowercast.com. Tribe members will receive them in their email each week. Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!
Duyen and Todd discuss productive ways to respond when you suspect someone is being passive-aggressive.
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Episode 76.5 // Friday Faith Followup When people are being passive aggressive with us, it can be really frustrating. But, as always, we have control over our response… and for the sake of our family relationships and out of obedience to God, we want to respond well. That's why in today's short bonus episode, we're looking at 4 reminders from Scripture about how to respond to difficult communication in order to move things in a healthy and biblical direction. Let's dive in. Get the FULL show notes for this week with episode highlights and recommended resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/076 Resources for this episode: Get the 40 Day Devotional on Communication in Marriage here: www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/shop/marriage40 Get the free 10-Point Conflict Resolution Checklist here: www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/conflict Love the show? I'd love your support with Buy Me a Coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/loveyourpeople Join our community! You are invited to join our online Facebook Group where we engage, encourage, and equip one another in faith-centered family life. www.facebook.com/groups/loveyourpeoplewell Check out Love Your People Well's best resources! Grab all the freebies at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free Check out our series of 40 Day Devotionals at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals Get marriage resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/marriage A dedicated page for family life & motherhood is coming soon, but for now, all the resources are at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/resources Disclaimers: I am a licensed therapist, but this podcast is not therapy. If you're thinking about counseling, get some helpful information at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/counseling.
Sure, fine, whatever. What is passive aggression, and why is it associated stereotypically with women? In this classic episode, Cristen and Caroline break down what passive aggression is, where it comes from and how it plays out among genders. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode we talk about the signs and symptoms of emotional neglect. If you have feelings of uncontrolled or constant anger, passive aggressive behaviors, and/or aggressive behavior it may stem from emotional neglect. We are all victims and offenders of emotional neglect. www.HigherConsciousThinker.com
Eric and I had continued to talk after our recording and got some good stuff to add. Eric really challenged me during the previous episode and it's good to have friends who can challenge your thinking gently. He felt safe to do that and also given the response I had he can and will continue to do so. I truly believe that we grow the most when we are challenged in our thinking. Pushing the uncomfortable parts of us is learning, growth and a deeper knowing about ourselves. I really want to know where I can improve and be held accountable for and it can be a scary place to be. I hope y'all can find a little golden nugget in this short bonus episode. Request for support from my listeners:I need to buy a Dynamic XLR Microphone so I can have better sound quality. This can get expensive especially when mics can cost between $200 – 500$ each. I would love your support in donating 1-10$ to my Living connected Paypal account. A little goes a long way and I truly from the bottom of my heart would appreciate it. I will also give you a huge shout out on my podcast to those who have donated. If you would prefer to be anonymous that is okay too. Let me know in the notes if you would prefer not to have a shout out of gratitude.Donations to Paypal email: Livingconnected.nvc@gmail.comCONTACT INFORMATION:Email: Livingconnected.nvc@gmail.comInstagram: livingconnectednvcLiving Connected Facebook PageWebsite: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1153175Music is brought to you by: https://www.purple-planet.com/
In this episode, we'll be discussing we discuss three topics I have great difficulty with:Seeing growth as the only way to make progress in your careerWhy growth is not the right measure for everyoneMy suggested alternativesBeing busy as a flexWhy do people perpetuate this unhealthy attitude?How reality and psyche clash herePassive-aggressive behaviorWhy being openly angry and assertive are difficultHow finding your “no” can make the world a better place ;-) List of referencesToday, it's just my brainBecome a member of the Psychologist Reacts community on psychologistreacts.com. Subscribe for:special episodesproduct releasescoaching opportunitiesBONUS: Each month, one subscriber wins a FREE 45 min session which they can use for coaching or just asking questions that keep them up at that moment. Follow me on Instagram for fun & engaging discussions before, during, and after an episode is recorded and published @danilo.tesi To submit feedback, reactions, or content requests:Click here to send a voice message (I love voice messages)Or send an email to info@psychologistreacts.com Talk to you soon,Danilo
Thank you Listeners for your patience and understanding when I have some technical difficulties. I acknowledge that the audio isn't great and the next episode will be better. I appreciate you all for continuing to listen and passing along this Podcast to others. We are going to be talking about passive aggressive behavior and I have some examples from my own life I will be using. Often times people use passive aggressive behavior because they don't have the skills to express their feelings or needs effectively. Passive aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing feelings and or needs instead of openly addressing them. This can look like non-verbal, actions, blaming, and or silent treatment, etc.When I think of the feelings of passive aggressive behavior I think about anger, frustration, hostility, irritated there could be other feelings as well. What comes up for you? Depending on the passive aggressive behavior there could be a variety of unmet needs for a person. When I was on the other end of the behavior, I felt frustrated, shocked, and confused. I had unmet needs for trust, safety, respect, and consideration. We learn tragic ways to meet needs and passive aggressive behavior is one of these strategies that we use sometimes to avoid conflict or confrontation or we are afraid to speak directly for what we want and need. Lets explore this topic together. Resources:My Grandmothers HandsBook of JoyRequest for support from my listeners:I need to buy a Dynamic XLR Microphone so I can have better sound quality. This can get expensive especially when mics can cost between $200 – 500$ each. I would love your support in donating 1-10$ to my Living connected Paypal account. A little goes a long way and I truly from the bottom of my heart would appreciate it. I will also give you a huge shout out on my podcast to those who have donated. If you would prefer to be anonymous that is okay too. Let me know in the notes if you would prefer not to have a shout out of gratitude.Donations to Paypal email: Livingconnected.nvc@gmail.comCONTACT INFORMATION:Email: Livingconnected.nvc@gmail.comInstagram: livingconnectednvcLiving Connected Facebook PageWebsite: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1153175Music is brought to you by: https://www.purple-planet.com/
Covert narcissists are experts at passive aggressiveness. They have this down so well. As a victim of the abuse, we are so conditioned that we don't see it! Cognitive dissonance keeps us blind to so much for so long. I tell you now though, once you start to see what is going on, you cannot unsee it. Once you cross that threshold, you can't go back. The door behind you closes and locks. Can you put the passive aggressive behavior into words? Can you describe it, define it, explain it? Can you give examples or do they seem to just disappear into the wind? Is it clear in your mind or are you feeling the fog of an abuse victim? Their expertise in passive aggressiveness adds so much to the confusion already happening within a victim's mind. Covert narcissists often use passive aggressiveness to avoid confrontation, to get their way, to make the other person feel bad, to be able to avoid blame and responsibility. Today, I give you some specific characteristics and examples of passive aggressive behavior. To learn more about our group coaching sessions, visit www.covertnarcissism.com To join us on Patreon, go to www.patreon.com/covertnarcissism --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/covertnarcissism/support
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about passive aggressive behavior: what it is, how it can affect us, and how to manage it. Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/how-to-recognize-respond-to-passive-aggressive-behavior Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.com Download my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.app Sign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF to 1 (833) 285 3747 Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com! OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS: -Blinkist: To get your free week on Blinkist AND 25% off your subscription see: https://www.blinkist.com/DRLEAF. -Audible: Right now, for a limited time, save 46% on your first 4 months of Audible. That's only $7.95 a month. Give yourself the gift of listening! For more go to audible.com/drleaf. -Pendulum: Use code DRLEAF at pendulumlife.com to get 20% off all products. -Ritual Essential Protein: To make trying something new less scary, Ritual offers a money-back guarantee if you're not 100% in love. Plus, my listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months. Just visit ritual.com/DRLEAF to add Essential Protein today PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: 2:05 What is passive aggressive behavior? 5:00, 38:30 When you aware of an issue, you can change it! 7:30 What are the signs of passive aggressive behavior? 15:10 The power of compassion & understanding 18:00 Some causes of passive aggressive behavior 22:20, 26:30 How to respond to passive aggressive people 33:40 The importance of boundaries to protect yourself from passive aggressive behavior 36:40 What to do if you act in passive aggressive ways? 38:00 How to use mind management & the Neurocycle to work on your passive aggressive behavior ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: -Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources Follow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies: -Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/- -Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf -Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf -Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Three valuable articles from Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists that address issues of control, passive aggressive behavior and perfectionism. Super helpful!
Do you keep quiet just to keep the peace when confronted with Passive-Aggressive Behavior? Have you ever found yourself using manipulation to get what you want?Your emotions can end up bottled up inside when you feel you aren't allowed to speak openly. This behavior may feel normal and acceptable, when gossiping or giving someone the silent treatment. Recognition is the first step to dealing with Passive-Aggressive behavior in a healthy way.Are you ready to share what you honestly feel in the situation you are in?Today Joni shares her thoughts and Strategies of how to diffuse Passive-Aggressive behavior.Stay Connected:Instagram Website
On this episode of This. Is. Biohacking., Alexa and Anna Beth unpack the challenges of passive aggressive behavior. They reveal top ways to identify, reflect and shift intentions for this common behavior we can exhibit as humans. They also discuss how we can our shift reactionary responses when in the company of others who are passive aggressive. Listen in to learn more about this fascinating subject.
From whispering gossip to avoiding personal contact, passive-aggressive behaviors can be tricky to recognize, and even harder to manage. Employees with this behavior can throw you a curve ball when they give you the impression that they are “all in” …when they are really not. This week Kim and Pepper discuss passive-aggressive behaviors, how it affects them personally, and how they manage employees exhibiting the behaviors. What is your go-to leadership tool for passive-aggressive behavior? Confront it? Put the sail up and stay the course? Let us know at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
Brandon Colbert discusses how to deal with passive-aggressive behavior, best practices for responding to passive-aggressive behavior, and how to get honesty from a passive-aggressive person in a tactful way.
Host: Brian P. McDonough, MD, FAAFP Guest: Signe Whitson What is passive-aggressive behavior, and what can (or should) people do when confronted with it? Host Brian McDonough sits down with Signe Whitson, author of the book The Angry Smile: The New Psychological Study of Passive-Aggressive Behavior at Home, at School, in Marriage & Close Relationships, in the Workplace and Online. Ms. Whitson is an educator on bullying, crisis intervention, and child and adolescent emotional and behavioral health. She offers real-world examples and empowering, practical strategies for individuals confronted with passive aggressiveness.