African in America

Kevin Samuels theory of high-value men has a lot of black mills thanking that day at the price. This is causing more damage In relationships between Colored men and women. . I released New Music, watch it here : https://youtu.be/47NKSYfx3qA and also found on Spotify “Kumama” by Angela Njob Leave me a voice message here; https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message #KevinSamuels #HighValueMen #HighValueWomen #Relationships --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

I went on a date with someone from a “Christian” dating app and my date abandoned me after we got there. Listen for the details. It's so important to wait on God's timing for whatever it is we're desiring. I released New Music, watch it here : https://youtu.be/47NKSYfx3qA and also found on Spotify “Kumama” by Angela Njob Leave me a voice message here; https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

The unintentional damage caused by churches today is awkward interactions between men and women. As a single you’re expected to remain single and not talk to men and suddenly expected to marry and be friends with your spouse but regular interactions between men and women are not encouraged . So we have a lot of grown-up women and men in the church who do not understand how to interact with the opposite sex in a platonic healthy way. And a lot Christian young adults end up having the wrong mindset that only people who are interested in them romantically are kind to them and as a result Women make it hard for men to be a gentleman by assuming that any kind gesture equates to romantic interest. Tune in! My YouTube Channel>>> https://youtu.be/PYafENsQa28 Other things I do: https://linketr.ee/njob TikTok: Angela Njob —Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

There is a divide between Africans in America and Black Americans. We need to empathize with each other first mentally then recognize that we are brothers and sisters. Whether in Africa or America, the fact is that we have a common issue of white Supremacy. Whether that manifests as Systemic Racism in the USA or as Colonialism. Tune in! My YouTube Channel>>> https://youtu.be/PYafENsQa28 Other things I do: https://linketr.ee/njob TikTok: Angela Njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

A lot of Africans come to America with the mindset that African Americans are “Lazy” and need to get over slavery because it happened a long time ago but fail to recognize the systemic injustices that are in works against the progress of African Americans which can be seen TODAY as a result Gentrification, school to Prison Pipeline etc. Listen in! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Very Often we hear people share their struggles with leaving their jobs only after securing other jobs. But I am being transparent and sharing my process of what I am going through right now because I believe it would help someone else or encourage them to leave their jobs if that’s what they are supposed to do. Tune in! My YouTube Channel>>> https://youtu.be/PYafENsQa28 Other things I do: https://linketr.ee/njob TikTok: Angela Njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

I lost a family member over and I realize I never got to tell her how proud of her I am and we were not in the best terms. Tomorrow is never promised , give people their roses while they can smell them. Live life to the fullest NOW. Check our my music Video “Too Late” https://youtu.be/qw0UeDIpUNE IG: Angela Njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Your season is coming, celebrate with others. We are constantly being prompted to feel as if we are in competition with others in life. Some of us are so resentful, jealous and envious when we see others thriving at something that we desire to be or do without knowing all the challenges, trials & tribulations that they may have gone through. YouTube Channel>>> https://youtu.be/PYafENsQa28 Other things I do: https://linketr.ee/njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Growing up in Cameroon, I lived with my grand parents. For the 4years that I lived with them, I NEVER saw them kissing or showing affection towards each other YET they had 6kids

Very often we Africans minimize the struggle of African Americans because their struggles are more mental than the ones we faced in our various countries in Africa. We think they are soft because maybe someone you consider as having it all is suicidal or depressed and you looking from the outside tell yourself that the person is soft. All because maybe you had to walk a long way to fetch water or you sometimes went for days with no food. Emotional pain is more difficult to overcome because it is internal so let’s have some Empathy on our African American brothers and sisters.-Angela Njob. YouTube Channel>>> https://youtu.be/PYafENsQa28 Other things I do: https://linketr.ee/njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Africans abroad are often regarded more highly than African Americans. Africans in America are privileged because they know where they come from and if it came to it, they would have a home to go back to. A whole generation of leadership (Martin Luther King, Malcolm X and so many more) were murdered at young ages and all they wanted was equality. That too has a negative on the black experience because now as a Black woman with a desire to change the world in my own small way, It feels as I need to decide whether to preserve my life (By not taking any risks, not offending anyone OR die young for speaking unpopular truths. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

With so much going on there’s A LOT of information out there. I recently found out that the Black Lives Matter is not OWNED by blacks. Apparently this was a move “GiVEN” to us. Don’t take my words please do your own research. Google “George Soros & BLM”

In the early Courting or dating phases, there are ALWAYS red flags

I’m so tired or the seeing our black brothers, fathers and sons MURDERED in broad daylight and no justice is served. How many more hashtags and protest must we do in order for justice to prevail? We are constantly mourning the loss and modern day lynching of our own. We are tired! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In a world with less and less human face to face interactions, some people are turning to social media likes and follows for validation and approval of their worth. That is a shaky foundation because people are not consistent, one day, you’ll be liked and the next you won’t be. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Are you a member of a toxic church? Do you feel as you feel that if you say “No” to someone at your church you won’t make it to heaven? Similar to human beings who have toxic traits , churches to, have some toxic tendencies which most , if not ALL churches are guilty of. It’s dangerous when we make our Preferences the standard or the law. Tune in! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

While driving for Lyft, My interaction with two black males in Baltimore MD made me realize I have been conditioned to fear my own brothas. Ironically, I had a almost deadly experience with two white males while driving for Uber a few years ago BUT I was not scared of them when I picked them up bc they were WHITE. Also, police Brutality in Black males is at all time high. You can’t even jog while Black now? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

With social discussing coronavirus and the quarantine, it is easy to feel alone, isolated, and Depressed. In today’s episode, I talk about ways to stay and feel connected to others in these trying times. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In a time of uncertainty, there is a lot of fear an anxiety. What is the right way to respond to the coronavirus? tune in today’s podcast to find out! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

From conversations with many African women in America who are believers, we always come to the same conclusion when it comes to single guys in the church; There is a lack of pursuit for people who want to be married someday. Some of them are VERY Unintentional. Some are so heavenly minded that they are no earthly good

It is easy to believe that getting married will make you happy. But the truth is that if you are not happy as a single more than likely you will not be happy even if you get married. In today’s discussion I talk about how to be a happily single and whole person so they can be happily married. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In today’s society kids are deprived of the right to just be kids. Dwayne Wade was recently in an interview where he disclosed that his 10year old son knew he wanted to be a girl at the age of 3. Tune in today’s conversation --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

A lot of people under 30years No matter how success , are deemed by society as unsuccessful if un-Married. This causes a lot of young people to be anxious, depressed and some are even having Quarter life crises. Tune in to today’s discussion! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Working in corporate America , I noticed that there are some differences in how I am perceived (When I express myself, I’m perceived as being a “MAD BLACK WOMAN” and when I ask questions for clarity, I’m labeled as being “Defensive”) just as black males are labeled as “Agressive”. Listen in as I share my experience from changing my hair and feeling like I need to make a public service announcement about it before showing up or it’s me sounding like someone else just so I don’t rub anyone --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

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Healthy Friendships are mutually beneficial. If the relationship is one sided then it’s not a relationship but rather a RE-LEACHhingShip. Tune into today’s talk --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

So often Africans in Africa and America are scared to share good things happening in their lives because they think some people involved in witchcraft will stop it. Listen for more on the topic . --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In a world where many are desperate to find their way to the USA, some will do so at all cost including marrying their own relatives. Many do this but Is it ethical? Godly? Legal? Absolutely NOT --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

A lot of Africans go abroad to study and end up working in the foreign country. Becoming human resources in other countries; making these countries is richer while their African countries are becoming poorer. The crisis in Cameroon was said to be Anglophone versus Francophone but we know that’s not what is. So many African nationals running away from Africa and enslaving themselves in Libya and other European countries. Let’s talk about it, as they say Knowledge is power! Stay Woke --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

Africans in Africa think that America is a land flowing with milk & honey and that all it takes is showing up to America and you can become an overnight Billionaire. So many Africans abroad are killing themselves to send money back home. They have unpaid bills and responsibilities but they still send money back home because it is EXPECTED from them and the suffer to make end’s meet abroad. All this while they are going for days without food to eat I’d love to get a voice message from you. Here is the link to leave me one: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In this day and age it’s so easy to place our value on titles , accomplishments and accolades but that leads us to having identity Crisis when we no longer have the titles . That causes a lot of people to be depressed. The solution is To have a firm foundation and place your worth in who you are in Christ. Knowing that God created you on Purpose for the Purpose which he created you for. Let’s connect on Instagram : Angela Njob song : Stand up by Proud Refugee --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

In today’s society it is so easy to compare our lives with others on social media. But we don’t really know what is going on in their lives in reality. On social media we only see the best part and highlights of peoples lives but we do not see their behind the scenes yet we compare our behind the scenes with other people’s highlights. We begin comparing ourselves and go into depression because we think that peoples lives are better than ours. We become discontent with our lives and wish we had the lives of others. Tune in and let’s talk about it and how to overcome social media comparison trap.-Angela Njob --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message

I’m an African by birth and American by Naturalization. In this episode I talk about the toxic relationship that Africans have with their parents. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/angela-n/message