Coming Out Lesbian

Queer friendships and love can be a really beautiful thing.  From the butterflies you feel in your stomach to the anxiety of a new crush no two loves are alike.  There are many ways to love and make friends though and in the queer community that line can get a bit blurred depending on who you ask.  In this episode we will discuss the intricacies of queer love and friendships and how you might be able to navigate them better! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Follow us on instagram @comingoutlesbian Background music composed by RezzRockyt specifically for this podcast!  Thanks so much Rezz!

We are back for the second half of Season 3!  Thank you so much for your patience with the small break.  This weeks episode is all about finding out your sexuality, the journey to figuring things out, and how you can work through things to get a better understanding of yourself! Sexuality is a broad and difficult topic.  There is so much to learn and even more to discover.  It can be a journey that spans your entire life and may changed multiple times through the years.  Regardless of where you are at on YOUR journey this episode is sure to be a good reminder that you are not alone. Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Follow us on instagram @comingoutlesbian For more general LGBTQ support and content outside of the podcast follow me on TikTok @asapphonamedraz

We are back for the second half of Season 3!  Thank you so much for your patience with the small break.  This weeks episode is all about getting over this first date jitters, some important things to remind yourself if you are going to going to have sexy time with a new partner, and more!  While this episode has a lesbian focus (of course!) there are so many points that really can pertain to all relationships, new and old! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Follow us on instagram @comingoutlesbian For more general LGBTQ support and content outside of the podcast follow me on TikTok @asapphonamedraz

Pride is now upon us and that means tons of events and get togethers with friends.  So in this episode we discuss all the ways we can collectively make pride a better place for everyone!  So if you are going as a guest or are a member of the community there are so many ways we can all chip in to make our local prides the best they can possibly be! So whether you are an ally, a member of the community, or something in between, come sit down, relax, and enjoy the next episode of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast! I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

Pride is now upon us and that means tons of events and get togethers with friends.  So in this episode we discuss common questions and tips for attending your very first pride!  However if you have attended many already these points may still be of interest to you too!  So whether you just came out, have been out for a while or are planning to come out, sit down, relax, and enjoy the next episode of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast! I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

Change can be incredibly difficult for many people.  However it is inevitable.  For many LGBTQ+ people change is something we must deal with on a daily basis.  Often times our changes can be severe and difficult to deal with.  This week we discuss how change can be used to benefit us even when the change is not always as nice as we would like. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

Hostility can happen in many ways.  For butches and masc folks there seems to be a disdain from men for existing without the need for the male gaze.  Why do so many men (and women sometimes) react with such anger towards people that are just trying to live their lives?  In todays episode we discuss why some members of society may struggle with the idea of these lesbians existing in a space that is completely free of the male gaze and creating a space that tries to be totally free of straight, cis men. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

This week we discuss how to get over speed bumps and obstacles you may face in life.  Whether it is in a romantic relationship, a hobby, or something different everyone has had to face an issue at some point in their lives.  Overcoming struggles can really break a person down if they are unsure of how to solve the issue.  When it comes to LGBTQ topics many are faced with dealing with homophobic families, discrimination in dating, and so much more.  Having strong coping skills when it comes to adapting can be key in improving your journey to self improvement rather than quitting when things get difficult. (I apologize in advance for the audio issues in this episode, I am currently moving and not recording in my usual soundproofed studio!) I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

In this weeks episode is all about the importance of having out LGBTQ educators in schools. For many young children they go all of their lives without a role model similar to them.  Often times educators are some of the best models for children and including educators from diverse walks of life can greatly benefit the health of all children.  In this episode we discuss a recent issue with a lesbian educator being fired and how growing up in a diverse, accepting environment can benefit children for their adult lives. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

This week we discuss pronouns and the cis masculine identity.  Pronouns can be a confusing subject and can change from person to person.  Some folks reject pronouns and others embrace them.  In this episode we discuss one facet of that subject cis masculine lesbians and how they may or may not choose to use pronouns. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

There are so many terms and identifications within the LGBTQ community.  Keeping up with them can be a struggle sometimes.  There are even times I cant keep terms straight! (No pun intended, ha!). However, there are even times where things take a negative term.  In this weeks episode we discuss the history of the terms Stud and Stem lesbian and the problems with appropriation surrounding the terms. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

Breakups suck and the time it takes to heal from them can seem to last forever.  In this Second part of a two part episode series (Listen to the first one here!) I discuss 10 of the most common and important coping strategies for getting over a broken heart. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Find more ComingOutLesbian here. While there are literally hundreds of ways to cope and heal I could only fit ten into this episode.  Not every strategy may work for you.  Additionally I have a bonus episode with 5 more coping strategies for LGBTQ breakups over on my Patreon that you can listen to! Along with extended episodes there is tons more content to binge over at the Coming Out Lesbian Patreon.  By signing up you could get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! 

Dating in the LGBTQ community is tough and breakups are even worse. On this episode of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast we discuss what its like navigating breakups, seeing exes in your friend group, and most important, healing. Get more ComingOutLesbian here: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian 

In part with ace awareness day and week this episode is dedicated to those of the asexual identity.  There is a lot of confusion surrounding the label and where it fits in the community.  In this episode of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast we discuss and debunk a few myths and common questions surrounding the topic of Asexuality! I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian  If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ 

As much as people don't want to admit it, there is phobia in the community and lots of it.  Dating and even just making friends as a person who identifies as anything that isn't Lesbian or Gay can sometimes be met with prejudice, stigma, and more.  In this episode we discuss phobia within the community, with dating, why it sucks and how to deal with getting past these stigmas in the community.  In order to grow and become better as a whole we need the strength of the ENTIRE LGBTQ+ community, not just some of it.  So, yes, that means we need to stop gatekeeping the queer community!   I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsors, Shelby and Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah and Shelby! Do you want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian  If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ 

Comphet (or compulsive heterosexuality) is extremely tough.  We live in a world that caters to straight people.  Some of us grow up in environments where we are told being gay is wrong.  Years of being told we shouldn't exist can be damaging to ones mental health for sure!  In this episode I share my experience with Comphet and how I worked (and still work!) to overcome this tricky issue that plagues a lot of members of the LGBTQ+ community. I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsor, Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  Want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian 

We've all had it happen and if not, know someone it has happened to.  Falling for a straight girl is never easy and getting over the girl is even worse!  In this episode I discuss why we might fall for straight women (other than them just being stunners, ha!), how to handle unrequited love, moving on, and other ways to help avoid the straight girl crush trap! I also want to thank this weeks Patreon sponsor, Sarah for supporting the show.  It's wonderful people like you who help keep this podcast going and give me the opportunity to increase the support and reach the show has.  So, thanks so much, Sarah! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  Want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian 

In this episode we dive more deeply into just how you can cultivate true self love in yourself.  For many LGBTQ people, the struggle to love and accept oneself is very real and hard to surmount.  In the second part of my two part "mini series" I share my tips and tricks that I used (and still use) to help learn to accept and love myself as an out lesbian! If you haven't yet, be sure to listen to the first part of this two part series so you get the full story on self love! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  Want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian 

For years I struggled with accepting who I really was as a lesbian.  It wasn't until I fully accepted my gayness that I felt a significant improvement in my life.  I struggled with lack of confidence and acceptance.  It wasn't until I learned to love and care about myself that I saw my life and happiness increase. In this episode I share and discuss just what happened to me after I told myself, and I mean truly told myself, I was gay. So join in with me and see for yourself just how amazing self love and care can be! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  Want to support the show?  We have a Patreon!  Patreon supporters get access to exclusive behind the scenes content, a bonus podcast series, cool merch, and so much more! You can support the show by pledging here: https://www.patreon.com/Comingoutlesbian 

Coming out is hard enough, let alone navigating every other aspect of queer life.  A interesting discussion surrounding marriage came up recently and I thought I would share my thoughts on it.  In this weeks episode we talk about why so many queer folks are so opposed to marriage...until they realize they can have a wife...or a husband...or something that isn't heterosexual! Come give a listen to this weeks episode all about why it is okay to marry as an out LGBTQ person...or not! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ 

Ines Segarra is an LGBTQ+ punk rocker from the bands The Rats and Damn Broads.  She has worked within the music industry and punk scene and shares what it is like to exist in them as an out lesbian!  Come listen to her awesome stories and success as well as the struggles within when it comes to being out. Want to listen to her awesome music?  You can find her groups on Bandcamp here: https://damnbroads.bandcamp.com https://diehipsterrecords.bandcamp.com/album/after-the-blackout Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/damnbroads/ https://www.instagram.com/theratzpunk/   Want to find more ComingOutLesbian content?  Find us elsewhere here: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian

Since you guys like the first episode with coming out tips I've decided to do another.  In this episode we discuss 10 more awesome tips for coming out of the closet!  If you are thinking you might be queer or if you know and just don't know how to do it then this episode is for you!  Theres sure to be something for everyone to benefit from in this episode! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Join me with special guest Livia Mastriani as we discuss what its like to run a business while starting from the ground up.  In this episode Livia shares her story of how she came to be the proud owner of Happy Leo Designs a tomboy based clothing company as well as an online coaching consultant.  She shares her steps to success and offers her advice on how aspiring business people can take the right steps to succeed - especially in these uncertain times we live in currently! You can find Livia here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hld.light/ HLD store: https://hldlight.com If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Join me with special guest singer and songwriter Jen Messina for a special episode all about internalized homophobia!  Jen discusses her life growing up gay and how music has helped her express herself!  Together we discuss how to deal with internalized homophobia and ways to over come it. Find Jen on social media here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifercmessina/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3kyLVB9TN4BpHrAGLxYE5G?si=WVrMyXmxS_GdpgnQ2TuWTg&nd=1 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/jennifercmessina If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!  

Homophobia is all around us and for many its in the form of their parents.  In this episode we discuss the topic of living with homophobic parents, what to do if you suspect they are homophobic, how to test the waters to see if it is safe to come out and more. If you think your parents might be homophobic and may disown you please use caution when coming out and be sure you have a back up plan or some other safety net if possible!  Resources are available for displaced queer youth! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!  

We see it all the time, obviously gay icons and figures throughout time snuffed from the history books and media.  Being gay is not a new concept and has been around since the time of the human race and well before.  In this episode we talk about what LGBTQ erasure is, why its bad, and what can be done about it! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Dealing with homophobes is no fun for anyone.  Its frustrating and you feel like crap afterwards.  In this episode we discuss why homophobes are they way that they are and some ways you can cope with the messy situation so that you come out on the other side feeling better. If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Loneliness can happen to anyone, but it is especially difficult as an LGBTQ person.  We run the risk of being disowned by family, friends and so much more.  Holidays are a tough time, family events can be a nightmare, and so on... In this episode we discuss coping strategies and I share a bit about how I deal with being a lonely gay in a relatively small "gay friendly" area of the USA. So come be lonely with me in the next episode of the Coming Out Lesbian Podcast! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian  Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/  This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

In this episode we discuss odd questions many LGBTQ people or couples may get asked while discussing with others.  If these have happened to you how did you handle it?  In this episode I talk about all the weird questions I have been asked so far being an out lesbian and how I handled the awkward fallout! If you enjoyed the episode be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Realizing you are queer may take time, or you may have always known from the start. If you didn't always know media may be partly to blame. There is not nearly enough LGBT representation out there and it is tough to find characters, role models, and others to resonate with (or look up to!). When queer media is lacking, or we are all made to look like fools the entire community suffers. So in this episode we discuss all things related to queer media and some good shows to watch for representation!   Coming Out Lesbian is an LGBT centered podcast with emphasis on Lesbian life and coming out to friends, family and the world. It is inclusive to all gay, transgender, queer, bisexual, questioning, and curious people within the community. At Coming Out Lesbian we try to make a community focused group with episodes on daily life as a lesbian or lgbtq+ person, advice, support, and so much more. Lesbian run podcast with content pertaining mostly to LGBTQIA+ peoples but all will benefit from listening! Here we want to be a lesbian support group and a helpful place for all queer folks! If you enjoyed this episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/   This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Coming out as a lesbian, gay, queer, transgender, or anything in between can be so hard. It can be scary sometimes. Its even worse when you want to come out to your friends and you are not exactly sure how they are going to react. If this sounds like something you have dealt with or are dealing with then this episode is for you! So sit back, relax and enjoy the next episode of the Coming Out Lesbian Podcast! In this episode I come out to my best friend. Guess what?! She didn't hate me! I share my tips, tricks and my story as to how I told her and hopefully I have something in here that will help soothe any worries you or anyone else may have about coming out of the closet!   Coming Out Lesbian is an LGBT centered podcast with emphasis on Lesbian life and coming out to friends, family and the world. It is inclusive to all gay, transgender, queer, bisexual, questioning, and curious people within the community. At Coming Out Lesbian we try to make a community focused group with episodes on daily life as a lesbian or lgbtq+ person, advice, support, and so much more. Lesbian run podcast with content pertaining mostly to LGBTQIA+ peoples but all will benefit from listening! Here we want to be a lesbian support group and a helpful place for all queer folks! If you enjoyed this episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/   This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been reuploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

You're... what?! Ever been confused about a certain term within the LGBTQ+ community? Don't know what LGBTQ+ is? Well don't worry! On todays episode we discuss some commonly used terms surrounding the LGBT community and what they mean! Popular identities and acronyms are used to describe peoples gender identity, sexuality, thoughts, feelings, and so so much more. It can be really complex and if you are new to the community it can be very overwhelming. I encourage you to share this episode with anyone you may think needs a bit of help (or a refresher!) understanding commonly used terms in the queer community! ~ Coming Out Lesbian is an LGBT centered podcast with emphasis on Lesbian life and coming out to friends, family and the world. It is inclusive to all gay, transgender, queer, bisexual, questioning, and curious people within the community. At Coming Out Lesbian we try to make a community focused group with episodes on daily life as a lesbian or lgbtq+ person, advice, support, and so much more. Lesbian run podcast with content pertaining mostly to LGBTQIA+ peoples but all will benefit from listening! Here we want to be a lesbian support group and a helpful place for all queer folks! If you enjoyed this episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/   This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been reuploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Coming out as a lesbian, gay, queer, transgender, or anything in between can be so hard. It can be scary sometimes. What if people stop liking me? What if I am disowned? What if I lose friends? Or you may just not know what to say or do in order to announce your coming out. In this episode of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast I talk about some awesome tips and Ideas on how you can come out to your friends, family and others! Its hard enough finding your true self, announcing it shouldn't be. So let go of that internalized homophobia, break that heteronormativity and listen in on 15 different ways you can come out! If you enjoyed this episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast consider supporting us on social media here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been reuploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

So yeah, thats right! I didn't always know I was a lesbian! It may sounds strange to some, or relatable to others but I used to lie to myself and say I was either straight, bisexual or pansexual. News flash, I'm not. Im a lesbian, lol. In this episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast I share my story of how I realized I was a lesbian and hopefully share a good story that may help make things better for you! Coming Out Lesbian is an LGBT centered podcast with emphasis on Lesbian life and coming out to friends, family and the world. It is inclusive to all gay, transgender, queer, bisexual, questioning, and curious people within the community. At Coming Out Lesbian we try to make a community focused group with episodes on daily life as a lesbian or lgbtq+ person, advice, support, and so much more. Lesbian run podcast with content pertaining mostly to LGBTQIA+ peoples but all will benefit from listening! Here we want to be a lesbian support group and a helpful place for all queer folks! If you enjoyed be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6C3jUsOw7MqrkUbBfgK2lQ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coming-out-lesbian/id1482009107 This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been reuploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Welcome to the very first podcast episode for Coming Out Lesbian! In this episode I give a quick introduction to who I am, my coming out story and more. Coming Out Lesbian is an LGBT centered podcast with emphasis on Lesbian life and coming out to friends, family and the world. It is inclusive to all gay, transgender, queer, bisexual, questioning, and curious people within the community. At Coming Out Lesbian we try to make a community focused group with episodes on daily life as a lesbian or lgbtq+ person, advice, support, and so much more. Lesbian run podcast with content pertaining mostly to LGBTQIA+ peoples but all will benefit from listening! Here we want to be a lesbian support group and a helpful place for all queer folks! If you enjoyed the first episode of Coming Out Lesbian Podcast be sure to check out more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Our website: https://comingoutlesbianpod.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingoutlesbian/ Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6C3jUsOw7MqrkUbBfgK2lQ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coming-out-lesbian/id1482009107 This episode aired originally on a previous date and has been re-uploaded here. Some topics in the podcast episode may not line up with the publish date!

Stay tuned everyone!  Season 3 of the Coming Out Lesbian podcast is coming this February! Exact dates for the airing of the first podcast episode will be posted on all major forms of social media! You can find out where to find us and follow here: https://linktr.ee/Comingoutlesbian Stay tuned and I cant wait to share an awesome new season with you all! Keep being amazing!

While we are starting to see more representation for queer folx in media there are still plenty of issues surrounding representation. One such issue is "queerbaiting" or the act of making a character or show seem LGBTQ+ when it really isn't in order to capture more viewers from the community. There are a lot of shows that do it and it is incredible frustrating and makes queer people seem like a disposable character or joke. This episode discusses the issues surrounding queerbaiting and gives some ideas of shows to watch that DON'T queer bait.If you found this episode helpful be sure to subscribe for more! It sure would mean a lot! Stay tuned for more episodes posted EVERY MONDAY at 12 AM! If you are looking for an awesome LGBTQ+ content be sure to check my social media links for more:My Linktree Follow my InstagramFollow my YouTubeCheck out my blog for awesome LGBTQ+ content and queer posts too!

8 Signs I missed growing up that should have made me realize I was gay.This week I did was thinking back on my life growing up and realized just how much I missed signs that would have told me I was gay. As a kid it would have been very hard for me to tell but some of these signs are pretty obvious and I feel like a lot of people may have experienced something similar to me and this may help younger folks who listen.Everyones experience is different and these were just some of mine! What did you experience growing up and now when you look back you think to yourself "Oh yeah! That totally makes sense now!"? Feel free to share if you want!Link to the video on how I figured out I was a lesbian and NOT pan or bi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=niAaPjI9cjU&t=2sIf you found this episode helpful be sure to subscribe for more! It sure would mean a lot! Stay tuned for more episodes posted EVERY MONDAY at 12 AM! If you are looking for an awesome LGBTQ+ content be sure to check my social media links for more:My Linktree Follow my InstagramFollow my YouTubeCheck out my blog for awesome LGBTQ+ content and queer posts too!

The History of the term QUEER - How queer became the term we know today.Is the term queer really all that offensive? Is queer controversial? To some they feel the term queer is a sense of empowerment. For others they refuse to acknowledge its use or existence altogether. I personally think queer is empowering. A term that originally came about to mean anything out of the ordinary, evolved into a slang term of hate and homophobia. Now this term is seen by the LGBT community as a term of pride. The reclaiming of the term started with the gay rights movement. Many people in the lgbt rights movement saw this as a way to fight back. Some have reclaimed the term QUEER as a form of retaliation. The LGBTQ, lesbian, gay, etc community is still at odds about this term at times so I explain more in depth the history surrounding this term. You can choose for yourself if you want to use it or not.Get the Queer History guide with even more helpful information on Queer, its history, and what you can do if you think you are queer in this post here!If you found this episode helpful be sure to subscribe! It sure would mean a lot to me! Stay tuned for more episodes posted EVERY MONDAY at 12 AM! If you are looking for an awesome LGBTQ+ content be sure to check my social media links for more:My Linktree Follow my InstagramFollow my YouTubeCheck out my blog for awesome LGBTQ+ content and queer posts too!

In this episode of Coming Out Lesbian I talk with Kianna Vargas, an educator for 3rd graders and below about the importance of normalizing LGBTQ+ topics, gender expression and more at a young age. We discuss helpful parenting tips, what to do if your child comes out, or if you see signs that your child may be gay. Kianna and I also discuss helpful resources and tips if you see your child or someone else's child is being bullied.There are lots of resources for children and parents if you or someone you know is in need of guidance:http://pflag.org/https://www.thetrevorproject.orghttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.orghttps://lgbtqia.ucdavis.edu/support/hotlineshttps://ostem.org/page/crisis-hotlinesYou can get in touch with Kianna here!Have some thoughts or are in need of advice or guidance? Send us a DM on Instagram or send us an email to comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com! For more from ComingOutLesbian:Check out our websiteComingoutlesbian instagramLike us on Facebook!Stay up to date with us here!Coming Out Lesbian now has a Patreon! If you are a fan of the show consider supporting us and help keep this great queer community going, it would mean the world to me. Theres lots of great bonus content for you there to check out!

In this week's episode, we discuss another commonly asked question from followers and listeners. This week's episode is all about the differences between the labels Bisexual and Pansexual. Whether you are just now figuring yourself out or have been in the community for years this episode should help clarify and explain many misconceptions and confusion around the two seemingly identical words!Have some thoughts or definitions of your own for bisexual and pansexual? Send us a DM on Instagram or send us an email to (comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com) sharing yours! They may even get featured in an episode!For more from ComingOutLesbian:Comingoutlesbian instagramLike us on Facebook!Stay up to date with us here!For any questions, comments, or advice email us at: comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode of Coming Out Lesbian we discuss some helpful tips and tricks to help make the coming out process easier. Whether this is your first or 100th time coming out there's sure to be something to help you, because lets be real, coming out of the closet isnt just a one time thing. So sit back and give a listen to my 10 favorite tips to help calm those coming out jitters!Have some coming out tips of your own? Send us a DM on Instagram or send us an email to (comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com) sharing yours! They may even get featured in an episode!For more from ComingOutLesbian:Comingoutlesbian instagramLike us on Facebook!Stay up to date with us here!For any questions, comments, or advice email us at: comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode we discuss all about women in business, how to move your own business online and the struggles of starting a new business during Covid-19 with special guest, Livia Mastriani from Happy Leo Designs and HLD - Light! Livia is Chief Executive Optimist and Business Coach teaching Small Business Owners how to successfully pivot online and thrive. She is also owner of a clothing brand specifically designed for Tomboys. Livia can be found online here:Instagram: Happy.leo.designsInstagram: HLD.lightTomboy streetwearBusiness Coaching/ConsultingA huge thank you to Livia for coming on to share your stories!For more from ComingOutLesbian:Comingoutlesbian instagramLike us on Facebook!Stay up to date with us here!For any questions, comments, or advice email us at: comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com

This week's episode features special guest Jennifer Messina! Jennifer Messina is an active member in the LGBTQ+ community, a recording artist, and music performer! Jennifer is most well known for her hit "Time Heals Everything", a beautiful song that is out now on all major listening platforms! Be sure to check out Jen's YouTube channel as well for all of her music videos!In this episode Jennifer and I discuss the important and often difficult topic of internalized homophobia. She shares her dealings with it, growing up catholic, how she has learned to practice self-love and acceptance, and how she has overcome her struggles with internalized homophobia. This is a great episode for anyone who may be struggling with accepting themselves!Check out more of Jen here:Jen's instagram Jen's Youtube"Time Heals Everything" Music videoListen on SpotifyA huge thank you to Jen for coming on to share your stories!For more from ComingOutLesbian:Comingoutlesbian instagramLike us on Facebook!For any questions, comments, or advice email us at: comingoutlesbianpodcast@gmail.com

Navigating a queer life is tough enough as it is. What do you do if your parents are homophobic on top of things? This question gets sent to me a lot so I decided I would devote an episode to try to help out those in need of some advice on this very difficult topic. This episode touches on the topic of dealing with homophobic parents, how to test the waters to see if it's safe to come out to them, what to do if you are at risk of being disowned, and ways to plan to tell them.

Season 2 is here! Welcome back to everyone and hello new listeners! In this episode we are starting out with a very important topic, LGBTQ erasure in history. How it happens, why if happens, examples of people who have had their identities stripped and more! I provide various examples and discuss a few key points about what LGBTQ erasure is and provide ways we can work to prevent this from happening.