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Michelle Sparkes is a physiotherapist, professional counsellor and wellness coach with lived experience of anorexia, EDNOS and binge eating in her teen and early adult years. In this podcast she delivers powerful insights, keys and strategies to help individuals recover from these health and life co…

Michelle Sparkes


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    Your life is precious

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2023 16:31


    Late last year I had a dream that brought home to me in a powerful way the preciousness of each individual life, and fuelled within me a desire to let every individual to know how precious they are, how much they are loved and how much their life matters. May this truth blossom in your […]

    My Journey into Freedom – Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2022 30:55


    Freedom is a journey that has no end because it is a state of the heart more than anything else - and we can always be growing in our sense of inner peace and security. I am many years recovered from the bondage and self-hatred of my anorexia but the journey beyond "recovery" into a life that […]

    My Journey into Freedom – Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2022 18:06


    Freedom is a journey that has no end because it is a state of the heart more than anything else - and we can always be growing in our sense of inner peace and security. I am many years recovered from the bondage and self-hatred of my anorexia but the journey beyond "recovery" into a […]

    Hope for the Hopeless

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2022 29:33


    Wherever you are, whatever space you find yourself in, may your heart be encouraged, you are not beyond hope, you are not beyond help. Nothing is impossible with the God who loves you. If you feel exhausted, defeated, hopeless or despairing, I pray you experience His grace reaching in and taking hold of you, lifting […]

    You can get free!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2021 19:51


    No matter how long you've been struggling with an eating disorder or disordered eating, you can get free of the attitudes and behaviours that keep you feeling stuck, hopeless and despairing. You can get off the food and weight control treadmill and recover your life. Hear the stories of four women experiencing this transformation in […]

    Recovery Conversation with Chelsea age 19 (Part 2 of 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2021 34:03


    Chelsea, 19, struggled with anorexia in her mid teens followed by a period of binge-eating and purging, which is not an uncommon experience in the recovery process from anorexia. In this podcast she speaks with Michelle about recovery, finding her way back to balance and discovering more peace and self acceptance. “Finding balance” Chelsea says […]

    Recovery Conversation with Chelsea, age 19 (Pt 1 of 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 29:49


    Chelsea, 19, struggled with anorexia in her mid teens followed by a period of binge-eating and purging, which is not an uncommon experience in the recovery process from anorexia. In this podcast she speaks with Michelle about recovery, finding her way back to balance and discovering more peace and self acceptance. “Finding balance” Chelsea says […]

    Recovery Conversation with Jeanne, age 51

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 41:10


    Jeanne, 51, has struggled with disordered eating for decades. In this podcast she talks with Michelle Sparkes about finding hope and freedom from behaviors she thought she would have to live with. You can watch a video of the interview here : https://youtu.be/wZaNw_LzJdM info@michellesparkes.com

    Recovery Conversation with Freda, age 38

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 56:15


    Freda, 38, has struggled with anorexia and disordered eating for 19 years. In this podcast she talks about the process of finding freedom from the obsessive thoughts and rules that circumscribed her life until recently. You can watch a video of the interview here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DMV-qqqlXs info@michellesparkes.com

    Recovery conversation with Kate, age 42

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2020 52:41


    In this podcast I speak to Kate, a 42 year old mother of two who for decades struggled with disordered eating and who, in a very short space of time, experienced a sense of freedom that she says is “hard to put into words unless you experience it – it’s just a sigh of relief […]

    Spiritual Power – what to do when you feel driven by fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 30:43


    The fear that drives us down the scales and into the self-destructive behaviours characteristic of anorexia and other eating disorders can grow into a terror that is difficult to articulate. I believe there is a spiritual dimension to this fear, that it grows from the seeds of lies believed in the crucible of life experience […]

    Spiritual Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 23:18


    I believe at the heart of an eating disorder lies a deep-seated hunger for acceptance and security. How we see our “self” and what we believe about our worth, value and entitlement (to life, nurture and good things) are critical issues in both the development of, and recovery from, an eating disorder. In this podcast […]

    Comfort, peace & hope

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 16:19


    Have you ever felt deeply distressed, inconsolable or highly anxious? Right now in my country we’re grappling with the devastating impact of catastrophic bushfires. Closer to home my dearly loved mum is suffering and in decline. It got me thinking about comfort; it got me thinking about you. When we experience distressing emotions (as we […]

    Warning…danger ahead!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 15:16


      I got caught in an ocean current on the weekend and it got me thinking how quickly we can go from being in control (“I’m okay”) to being out of control (“I’m in danger”). The slide from disordered or unhealthy (even sub-optimal) eating patterns and behaviours into a full blown eating disorder can happen […]

    What to do when you’re paralysed by fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2019 17:27


    Paralysing fear. Feeling stuck and terrified. Afraid to make a “wrong” decision; afraid to make any decision. Acute anxiety is a major feature of anorexia and something most of us will relate to in some measure. Even when you’re recovered from anorexia (as I am), there are times when situations trigger that old emotional response. […]

    Christmas reflection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2018 17:45


    When we are locked in the self hatred of the eating disorder ‘cage’ we need to experience ourselves as seen, known, understood, worthwhile, valuable, loved. Even when and especially in the midst of our most acute struggles. For me the heart of the Christmas message is about this. The sound quality of this audio is […]

    Communicating when it’s difficult

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2018 13:19


    When it comes to communicating around a difficult situation or personal challenge I find the following piece of wisdom most helpful.

    Help for Chronic and Enduring Anorexia

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2018 11:41


    What do you say to two brave women now both in their 40s, struggling to stay ‘well enough’ to stay out of hospital after a long journey with anorexia, both traumatised by previous hospital admissions and struggling to know who to trust and where to turn. This is my response. I welcome your feedback and […]

    How not to revert to bad habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2018 18:35


    In response to one listeners request for help “not to revert back to old bad habits” and to learn to eat when hungry, here are some thoughts.

    The importance of compassion when you’re fearful

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2018 9:03


    I recently asked people what their greatest challenge or concern was when it came to their struggle in the ED/DE landscape. One respondent asked how to combat her fear of gaining weight when she “knew she must.” It got me thinking about the importance of compassion. If you are scared of gaining weight but know […]

    Getting beneath the binge 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2018 16:30


    When we explore what’s going on inside us in the lead up to a binge it helps makes ‘sense’ of our behaviour; our bingeing feels less mindless and out of control; we can view our situation with more curiosity and ourselves with more compassion. This in turn helps us consider what alternatives there may be […]

    Getting beneath the binge 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2018 12:14


    Bingeing isn’t just (or even mostly) about physical hunger, although if we’re not giving our body sufficient food on a regular basis we will certainly binge. Bingeing is primarily about emotional hunger. Emotional hunger starts us on the journey of restricting and continues to drive us (whether we’re eating regularly or not) until we do […]

    3 Pillars to Freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2018 18:59


    There are a number of things to embody and embrace (skills to learn, knowledge to apply) to get free from disordered eating behaviours and beliefs but at the heart of it all, I believe there are 3 pillars that are foundational to living a life that is whole and free… “Value is your birthright, your […]

    Self and body esteem – how they connect

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2018 23:48


    If embodying value is the first pillar to freedom from disordered eating; experiencing your body as home (not object) is the second…and they are intimately connected…listen here for more.

    What makes you valuable

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2018 21:07


    Here are three things that can help you value yourself in ways that are life-affirming and health promoting: Understand your intrinsic worth and value Reflect on what you value in others Spend (more) time in the company of those people

    Why we binge and what we can do about it

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2018 13:43


    We binge because we’re hungry –physically, emotionally, spiritually We binge because we’ve been restricting – possibly even starving ourselves – of nurture – physical and emotional We restrict because we believe we don’t deserve (more food, love, affection, belonging) – or that we should be different somehow (better, perfect) – and until then, we’ll keep […]

    3 Keys for those who struggle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2018 17:20


    If you struggle with disordered eating, self and body concerns 3 key things you will need to recover a life worth living are compassion, curiosity and support. Listen here for more…

    3 Keys for Carers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2018 16:13


    Dear Carer you are a lifeline to the one you love. I know it can be tremendously challenging to watch someone you love restricting, starving, bingeing, purging or punishing their body. You KNOW these behaviours do not produce health, well-being or happiness. How can you assist your loved one move away from damaging behaviours and […]

    Keeping it simple – when labels don’t help

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 9:25


    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or discouraged by an eating disorder ‘label’ or diagnosis this podcast will help you see that you are not alone, unusual or beyond help…and if you need more encouragement or ‘hard evidence’ get hold of my free ebook and begin your journey to freedom.

    A map (or model) to explain how eating disorders function

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2018 15:45


    When pain comes our way it is natural to protect against it. And a very understandable way to protect against pain directed at the self or experienced within the self, is to try and control it. Food/body/weight control in this respect make ‘sense’ because it gives us a tangible way to make ourselves feel more […]

    Illuminating Eating Disorder Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2018 10:25


    Freedom from disordered eating comes as we cease food restrictions and nurture body and soul. The first step on our road to freedom requires that we SEE that our current disordered eating behaviours, although originally well-intentioned, will never take us where we want to go. They will never bring us the inner peace, self acceptance […]

    The Father’s Hug

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2017 23:03


    What happens when the drive for health becomes unhealthy? asks Jenny Brockie, host of SBS Insight, as she explores our nations “health obsession” with a roomful of people and three 20+ year olds struggling to recover from disordered eating and eating disorders. As I watched the show I found myself reflecting on the power of […]

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    Exploring the spiritual dimension in mental health

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2017 12:37


    “Could it be that depression is not purely a physical sickness but a spiritual malaise?” asks Elizabeth Farrelly in her article, “Finding the black dog’s spiritual lead” (The Sydney Morning Herald, 26-27 August 2017 , p.30). “Perhaps we should see it less a personal issue than a societal indictment, less a treatable pathology than a […]

    Help for depression with Prof Ian Hickie AM

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2017 24:56


    More than just feeling down, clinical depression is a serious mental health condition that affects the way people feel, think, and react to general daily activities, such as eating, sleeping, or working. In Australia one-in-seven people will experience clinical depression in their lifetime and globally the number is one-in-five. Predicted to be the second leading […]

    Hello Japan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2017 16:30


    Great to be back in the podcasting seat! I’ve been offline piloting the 4×4 Freedom Express and really enjoying the face to face interaction involved.  I believe human connection is more needed now than ever to promote health and well BEing in our fast-paced, low-grace, digitally-connected world. One thing I’ve noticed over the last few […]

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    Why I do what I do

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2017 21:11


    I traveled through an eating disorder in my teen and early adult years (as illustrated) and lost ~ 15 years of my life spinning my wheels on the eating disorder treadmill because I couldn’t SEE what I was dealing with or why I was struggling and I didn’t have the knowledge, skills or support to […]

    Why and how hospital helped

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2017 10:44


    In the last episode I was saying that in my experience of anorexia prior to my hospital admission, I had become enmeshed, hyper-vigilant and ‘trigger-happy’ in my family environment. I was physically and emotionally starving but could not receive the nurture that existed in the relationships around me. Admission to hospital was the beginning of […]

    Connections That Heal

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2017 14:38


    When you have fallen for, and are isolated by the lie that you are not worthy or good enough you need to reach out…to connections that can affirm, nurture, and encourage YOU. It’s important to say here that anorexia itself isolates a person and lies to them about their worth and value in such a […]

    To the young person struggling to accept yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2017 21:40


    Self and body acceptance go hand in glove. The message of EMBRACE may be a challenge for the young(er) person struggling with anorexia or ED because when we’re struggling in this space, our sense of self as “unacceptable” can go very deep. Without a doubt we need to see and celebrate more diverse body shapes […]

    Embrace body diversity

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2017 5:38


    Embrace is a wonderful documentary (film) that celebrates body shape, size, and ethnic diversity. The brainchild of Taryn Brumfitt, a wife and mother of 3 who almost went under the knife in her quest to overcome body loathing, the message she brings goes beyond acceptance to embracing the skin you’re in whatever your shape, size, […]

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    Coping with weight gain in anorexia 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2017 14:04


    Gaining weight from a low weight may be possible in an outpatient setting if a person is not critically unwell. If a person can make progress with the support of a doctor, dietician and therapist in an outpatient setting, fantastic. If not it simply means more intensive support is required. (See previous podcast notes for […]

    Coping with weight gain in anorexia 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2017 20:45


    To recover from anorexia a person will need to confront their fear of food and eating; their fear of getting fat and losing control. It’s a huge challenge because the semi-starvation diet of an anorectic CREATES the food obsessions and inflexible, polarised thinking that make seeking recovery so difficult. Fear drives anorexia; and the anorectic […]

    Helping young people navigate porn culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2017 21:30


    “Pornified messages are bombarding our young people and giving them distorted ideas about their bodies, about relationships, and about sexuality,” says Melinda Tankard Reist, in this podcast interview, “According to global research, (this is) making our kids very unwell.” We are seeing a rise in negative physical and mental health outcomes, eating disorders, anxiety and […]

    The problem with porn culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2017 14:28


    Grace, a podcast listener asks, “Do you have any insight on the impacts of not only the media, but porn as well. For the folks in relationships (I am married, second time around) is it such an issue for most people with ED?  I recently found a great deal of it on a computer history […]

    Inspiring People: Kelly McJannett CEO Foodladder Eating Disorder Recovery Help

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2017 25:40


    This series is designed to inspire you and help you dream again; to recover the hopes and aspirations deep inside you that may have got lost in your battle with an ED. When your eyes are cast down, lost in the life-consuming territory of an ED, you need a vision of the future that will […]

    Help to fight the ED voice

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2017 9:18


    When the ED voice (the bully in your head) is making it hard or impossible for you to take in the nurture you need to survive and thrive you need help.  You need other people to come alongside you and help you fight the lies and the fear that paralyses you SO THAT you can […]

    You deserve to eat Anorexia and Eating Disorder Help

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2017 8:37


    When you’re fighting anorexia, you become afraid to eat. The terror of losing control and getting fat is REAL and is created by the eating disorder itself.  I want to tell you, food is not your enemy; the fear of food and what it can do to you is your enemy.  The ED voice lies […]

    Love Food with Julie Duffy Dillon RD Eating Disorder Help

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2017 27:36


    A great chat with Julie Duffy Dillon RD, dietitian, writer, speaker and host of the popular Love Food podcast, covering everything from her approach in working with people affected by ED/DE, to problems larger bodies experience in getting timely diagnoses, to her thoughts around mealplans and veganism, and her top 3 tips for making peace […]

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    Get off the beaten track & recover your life - Eating Disorder Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2017 7:08


    Have you ever found yourself on a backroad by mistake or design? It’s a great opportunity to discover things you would otherwise miss. When we come away from mainstream messages about our worth and value, we have the opportunity to explore and discover (or recover) those things that are unique and special to us. When […]

    How to be media-smart & protect yourSELF

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2017 12:20


    “Love is On”…says Revlon and the message is that your lovability is dependent on appearance. Don’t be sold a lie. More on this in this podcast. Gwen a podcast listener expressed her frustration at being “bombarded by images that make normal people look horrible.” Apart from unplugging what else can we do? Here’s a few […]

    Confessions of a binge eater w/ Ryan Sheldon

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2017 37:51


    Binge-eating is a common feature in the disordered eating landscape. Binge-Eating Disorder as a diagnosis affects around 3.5% women, 2% men and 1.6% adolescents. Today I speak with Ryan Sheldon, a male who has struggled with binge-eating disorder and is using his experience to help others through his blog, Confessions of a Binge-eater. Important take […]

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