My Way My Terms Self Development Podcast

Can we talk about trauma's that get passed down to us generation after generation after generation that affect us as full blown adults?  How your childhood experiences shape our current adult realities.  Lets be vulnerable for a change and get in tuned w/ our emotions.  I have a beautiful soul w/ the good sister Cecy to share her two cents this week on the above topics.  @xcibon11 @a_l_c_h_e_m_yent follow her social media handles as well

Took a week off but we're back at it like a crack addict w/ another week of substance for ya head top! Lets talk the importance of having life insurance and why I think every soul on earth needs certain stepping stones as foundation to the kingdom they're creating. You cannot create success without having the right mindset and having the right mindset its inevitable that you would want to insure your own life for starters.  Find Jose Sanchez @_dondadaa and hit him up for a quote!

if you haven't heard of all of the hype coming from the crypto space then you're living under a rock! From alt coins like doge going crazy for example and the red sea coming from the price fall of bitcoin, I decided to have a forex & option trading animal who's also educated in stock & crypto investing come to talk some informative shit! This episode is stocks and crypto 101 for beginners to learn some game! 

this wk we have Real Deal Fitness Gym Owner PC on to tell his story of how the gym saved his life and how it can save your life as well! He has an inspiring story that many of you can draw strength from. Be sure to rate, comment and subscribe!

lets talk positioning, teamwork, knowing your role, sticking to your role and finding other avenues of income.  We discuss diff ways to invest from stocks, crypto and real estate. Budgeting tips and all that good stuff we tap into this week! Do us a favor my way my terms army and rate us! Enjoy IG casanova407_876 IG Thepromiser

Lets talk patience, lets talk perseverance along w/ sticking to a plan! We have the young gifted boss Striver Luis from Strivers One Stop Consulting Shop. He shares his story, he share's what he does and just take this moment to see why I'm such a fan of this man! I also got to catch up w/ the brother the promiser and hearing from him is always love! This episode displays what "there's enough for everybody" means bc these two are in the same industry and they always share information vs hate on each other.

Is there real money in trading cards right now? I tap in w/ Mcgirt and get the scoop on this current frenzy in this sports cards world and how we can capitlize from it. He's also the first promoter to put the my way my terms logo in a club and offer me incentives so shout out to him for that and of course we talk $ off of parties along w/ other cool stuff. He's 1/2 of the learn life podcast so follow their show as well!

RIP to the legend DMX! It's only right we celebrate X and put him on the pedestal he deserves to be on.  This week I flip some of the character traits dmx has and turned it into how i wanna be more like him in ways. There's a message behind this tribute. A self reflection message. Be blessed!

Free lunch episode right here.  So artist 69 was booked at a local venue of ours and one of the hosts made some comments which in return got him banned from that nightclub.  Its only right I speak my two cents on the subject bc we all knows life is a reactionary thing a lot of times.  We all knew the energies that come w/ this artist so why are we acting surprised?! ne who, I stand in support of my guy H Dot!

"I turned an idea into a million dollar business" special guest Dr Charles Bridges who is also a self published author, professor, has a PHD and is the Unc you wish you had in your family tree! I brought him on to drop a shit load of gems, and I had to bring my guy Yola The Villain back on to help me co host this episode. Yola is a gifted, talented dude. Between the 3 of us we smoked this episode!

lotta things going on in today's world with these IG influencers who kick relationship talk.  Some of them are authentic, some of them are finessing the people and bc of that, I wanted to have a couple of good guys on to kick their pov's w/ women and dating....

you heard part 1, now hear part 2 w/ wes fif. In this take we get his music background, his influence and his whole back story to what he's currently doing now w/ his current branding endeavors. 

The Promiser is back this week to chop up some game and we hit a list of topics. Life should be a balance of consistency, discipline and a head down forward moving type of attitude and we tap in on all of the above.  Be sure to rate, comment and share this podcast with your friends!

Dreams are meant to be chased then turned into our reality's! You might have heard her singing the national anthem b4 an nba game,  or you might have heard of her competing on American Idol, or NBC's The Voice, we have r&b singer Arei Moon on to talk her shit.  The west african, Cape Verde, Boston birthed songstress pulled up to share her pov's on accountability, doing things her way, her thoughts on music and her own personal growth. Plz rate and comment if you find value!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi IG cemthree Orlando pave setter artist Wes Fit aka CemThree pulled up on me after a failed first attempt due to the original quarantine, but this time we get it right. This part one episode goes nothing like you would anticipate being that he's a legend in our music community. In part 1 we do a lot of talking about being black in america, conspiracy theories and our views on covid along with some other fly talk. 

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi IG citydahost IG 1.flyy Errything we do we do to impact and send inspiration to the black culture & streets. Legendary hosts both veteran and new we have City from disco & the city boys & 1Fly on. Both of them are in the nightlife scene & are known for rocking club nights as Hosts of the hottest parties out here.  There's a message in erry episode we drop and I hope it finds you this week! A lot of history and life experiences were unpacked this wk!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi IG johnkocky IG tonykhuu Ahh we have the legendary promoter duo on this week to drop some fly talk on y'all head tops! This is the one where you are going to hear what success is, this is the one that will wake you up to wanting to go out there and birth your damn ideas! Rate us, subscribe and put your friends onto our show! Get ya popcorn ready!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi IG johnkocky IG tonykhuu ahh we have the legendary promoter duo on this week to drop some fly talk on y'all head tops! This is the one where you are going to hear what success is, this is the one that will wake you up to wanting to go out there and birth your damn ideas! rate us, subscribe, and put your friends onto our show! get ya popcorn ready!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi IG jarriknows This week we brought on comedian, event host and event curator Jarri knows on to share some brain food with us. This episode was fun bc for once I got to discuss some opinions when it comes to black culture w/ him and this is a thing we don't really get to dive into too hard. How he got into comedy, the genre of comedy his niche is and his creative process he uses to come up w/ his content.  Im a fat boy at heart so we got him to speak a lil about flavors Orlando as well.  Check out the episode and drop a comment as to what you think! Rate us as well plz!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi how was your 2020? did you meet all of your goals? did you lack anywhere? how could you make 2021 more productive than 2020? we get into a lil bit of everything this wk. tap in with us! subscribe and put others onto us!

IG casanova407_876 IG thepromiser After taking a few weeks off we finally was able to catch up with our co host The Promiser! End of the year close out, he owns two offices, is a realtor, manages another company and is a family man so you can imagine how slammed his schedule is.  We celebrated his home coming this episode, we dug deep w/ certain subjects and we're going to put things into perspective for you when it comes to being a winner and tackling goals. Subscribe, rate, leave a comment and put your friends onto us!

IG casanova407_8776 IG shawnsellsfla I brought the good brother of mine Southpaw better known as Shawn Romano on to give his story of how he went from an inspiring rapper, waiter, videographer and adt salesman to a high performance realtor in a short amount of time and transform his life into exactly what he envisioned for himself.  We speak about how all of his skills that he acquired in his old job are used to his advantage that makes him a more valuable realtor than the avg one and how funny life all comes together in the craziest of ways! Find value, inspiration and a correlation in this weeks show to your life in your own personal way!

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi ahhhh Casanova went off on this one right here! Men lie, women lie and this time, subjectively numbers can lie too! The whole episode is wrapped around the difference between stats, numbers and impact. We did this one for the creators and visionaries. Make sure you rate, subscribe comment and put ya patna's onto us!  This one is not for the weak lol. Fuck stats, fuck monetization, fuck an app, fuck numbers and just create impact! 

IG casanova407_876 IG officialdjmalachi ig i4chapman We brought one of the cities gatekeepers on to discuss the culture of our city from music to his clothing store and how he got it shaking, how he stays relevant, why he's a staple to our city, his involvement in being the gel to so many others and a lot more. You know we keep it self development so we speak about purpose, his why in life and the importance of branding.  Rate us, subscribe and put others onto our show!

IG casanova407_876 IG posthegod Fresh home from his 7.5 year bid we have the legend Pos The God on to bring a perspective that most may not have anticipated. He's back, bigger and better than ever and he came on to drop a shit load of free game.  He's rehabilitated and is using his mind to do the right thing and to encourage the streets to use their minds to create legal ways of income opposed to the bullshit that so many of us are used to. Sit back relax and open your minds to be receptive to the game he's kicking on this weeks episode.  Plz rate us, push our show into the algorithm's so that we can reach more people. Subscribe as well!

IG casanova407_876 IG jay_slides IG mr_f1orida IG officialdjmalachi we were invited to the live stage of the wild'n out orlando set at millennia 3 studios & we interviewed the future & current hot party throwers Mr Fla & DJ Jay Slides. We were able to get the back story of how they got into throwing parties from partying to community events, the first set of dj equipment jay slides touched.  How they make a living off of partying , the good and the adversities that come in this industry and how they overcame them.  You know we have the discussion of goals and their future endeavors as well as how they operate as a collective unit. Rate and subscribe if you fucking w/ us!

IG casanova407_876 IG the promiser Happy thanksgiving holiday's from the my way my terms podcast crew to you all! we brought in turkey day w/ some jokes and substance this week! be sure to enjoy, rate, comment, share and to  find value in the content we're giving out!

IG casanova407_876 IG maddyjeanpmu IG justakiabeauty IG fresh_feel_by_kat "If a girl wants to be a legend, she should go ahead and be one." A line taken from their store. So we brought 3 entrepreneur women on to discuss their beauty bar business & what services they offer.   I ask them to give their advice on women's self confidence, accountability, teamwork and player roles.  Women empowerment and its importance was definitely asked, along w/ goals and much more. 

IG casanova407_876 I got the most turned up host in the city on this week to talk some sophisticated fly talk. H Dot gives us his thought process, his goal setting ideas, the ins and outs of this club night life shit and some other things.  We brought yola the villain on to give his insights on family values, books he's on and just some raw real thoughts from his pov as well as him jumping on a freestyle.  DJ Malachi is here for the needed adlibs and punch lines w/ this developmental shit.  Fuck w/ the show man you know how we give it up every wk!

I brought my home girl Posh which is The owner of the Posh Sessions Podcast to come on and address the importance of women empowerment from the definition on what it means to her, how women can empower each other. She runs her own podcast and is into other business ventures so you know I had to get her take on independence as a woman and the thoughts on a man's role in relationships.  I wouldn't be a good host if I brought a woman on and didn't get her thoughts on bedroom comfort zones, love and lust and things of those juicy natures. Rate us plz, subscribe and share! IG casanova407_876 

We finally got dj malachi to do more than hang out after setting the show up, we got him to get on the mic and share some game with you all. We speak about doubt and all of the ins and outs that come with it.  Your ability to adapt and constantly make adjustments.  We want you to understand that you're not going to be for everybody and that's forever going to be ok! Lets talk about the ways we can cope w/ this idea.  I like to always look at life as if the glass is half full, so last but not least we speak about pessimistic people vs optimistic people. Like, comment & subscribe.

I brought Diante on to tell his story of how he quit his day job and chased after his dream of entering real estate and the success he has had thus far. He breaks down why home ownership is important, his ideas as to what constitutes the foundation in the beginning stages for someone looking to change their life, goals and black excellence.  Mr Lawrence controlled the tempo of this episode and he brought that work!  Enjoy!

In a social media infested world it might be hard being comfortable in your own skin. Pressure to fit in with different walks of life, we want to be accepted and liked by crowds of people we may look up to and a lot of times it can result in us just being someone that we're not. I brought Just Rob on to speak about his artistry of course but outside of music I wanted to highlight how dope of an individual he is as himself.  He gives his take on self esteem, confidence, what makes him unique, special & his competitive nature. This is an episode that will make you want to be comfortable in your own skin if you have trouble's in that department!

This week we tackle subjects like the luxury of time and how much do we actually value it. Winning is not supposed to be easy therefore there are more losers than winners in this world and we deep dive into this break down.  Do you settle or do you require? We provide a 1, 2 punch giving examples to why maybe most of us tend to settle vs require and a whole lot more!

Awesome open conversation with the good brother Dell, aka the cocky kind.  I was able to tap into what got him into nightlife promotions, the details of his biggest yearly party "single for the night" along w/ just creating a dope vibe w/ bro.  He is also a huge voice for the community so I was able to get into a deep dive w/ his particiaption with all of the positive things he does w/ school, kids and even being an AAU basketball coach.  Of course we spoke about his music, what he's working on currently and we spoke a little bit about one's purpose in life.

Life isn't going to be fair, it isn't always going to be fun and it is always going to be real.  This pandemic maybe eating some of us alive and we need an outlet to release, but a place where the energies around you are relatable... You're at home here with us.  This is an episode that addresses police brutality, sad times in our personal lives and coping mechanisms.  We speak on developmental ways that we can use to overcome the bad times and moments that many of us face often. Self care routines for the betterment of our soul and peace of mind, fasting and being able to identify when you're being a hater.

We have Brooklyn, east New York in the building w/ independent rapper Sky Soprano! I wanted to make the streets proud and I think we accomplished that goal this week. We get to hear about his business, the kave studios that he owns and runs. I ask him to give his advice to young men growing up in the streets, the 2020 definition on what's gangsta and a whole lot more.  My bro delivered a great message.  Enjoy!

This week decided to keep it real grown man and fun... Slightly different from our normal serious subject format. We dive into how many fragrances a man should have as well as our opinion as to how many we feel women should have in their arsenals. How to piece certain outfits together and apps you can use to help you get fly should you need ideas that will you a lend helping hand.  Dating and basically a handbook at how to move grown man style!

The power of the dollar  part 2! KC Smith continues to go in giving a lot of free game on the different ways we can generate an income. You heard part 1, now enjoy the 2nd half of this amazing discussion!

We brought the next big videographer to blow up in the industry, Chekthecredits on to share his story and drop some game on everyone.  He shares all of the up and down stories that come with following their dreams, mental health from an entertainers point of view when it comes to constantly having to create while trying to make it, work ethic and some more inspirational gems. He has over 500 paid videos under his belt and makes a living off of his videographer work.  Be inspired!

The ability to evolve requires that you learn how to be vulnerable and transparent with yourself! Everything in life is a process and in this case its safe to say that we all need some form of healing.  But in order to heal the scab has to form and picking at a scab slows the healing process down! This week we speak about the power of self forgiveness along with identifying wether or not we have the imposter syndrome, being real and keeping it real w/ not only those around us but most importantly ourselves and so much more! Hit the like and subscribe button!

We get into an episode wrapped around the power of a dollar and I brought on a good friend of mine, Mr KC Smith. Max Tax account services owner and Circle Of Wealth Group CEO.  I get him to give his takes on the whole cash vs credit popular question, the different ways we can invest, a little bit about the stock market and side hustles we can possibly get into for passive income. This is a two part episode bc a lot of game was dropped. Enjoy the show!

I had Jeannette come by the show to drop some jewels to women. We love and embrace women so much in the real world but I felt that its important that I could somehow find a way to deliver the message of how serious women empowerment is and having Jeannette stop by was the perfect way. She brings HEAT when it comes to independence as a woman, knowing how to respect yourself, the walls we build that's unnecessary and a lot more! 

By now you should know how the my way my terms podcast crew gives it up! sophisticated fly shit when it comes to pushing the narrative of having and wanting to get your shit together.  This episode we discuss the following topics; 1) ego 2) pressure 3) reputation 4) mentors and mentoring 5) positioning (laws of attraction) however you're going to have to listen to the full episode to catch the delivery and fun way we dish this work out!

I wanted to bring a self made music label ceo onto the show to speak about self development, his points of views on motivation, accountability, credit, real estate and so much more. From the streets to businesses.  Of course he speaks a lil bit about the independent music industry, the ins and outs of his experience dealing with different record labels.  We basically wanted to display unity and I wanted to spread positivity through his body of work, his shell as a human and his accomplishments and game of gems to us.

we bring on special single guest meez montana to discuss the different points of views from a single persons eyes w/ him and from a man in a relationships pov w/ me.  We have a fun and open discussion regarding what we think how life should be in both a single persons life and in a relationship.  This was recorded via instagram live and a lot of women expressed how we need a womans opinion as well LoL. Enjoy the show!

w/ all of the heavy things going on in the real world from police brutality, to the social injustice and so on its been heavy times on our hearts.  We felt like balance is needed to succeed and w/ all of the emotional stress our country has been experiencing as a whole, we figured we should do an episode lightening things up, giving people a form of an escape. This week we're speaking about dating, money and success.  We joke around a bit more in this episode while still keeping a moral of the story to things.  Enjoy!

this week we will be placing emphasis on self empowerment so we decided to name the episode "we are not equal".  Theres a lot of social injustice going on, police brutality and a whole lot of other things that are raining down on the black and spanish community, so we had no choice but to flip the script by owning the fact that we are not equal in today's society.  But just because we claim that we are not equal does not mean that we're lesser than others...  We speak about the importance of balance, how you can apply it to improving your personal life and goals. Finances, and how we need to keep our money within our circles and communities. Is winning contagious? we speak on that, work ethic and how the police brutality is major issue that needs addressing.

w/ the murder of George Floyd and many others at the hand of police brutality it is a must that we discuss how social injustice has plagued blacks in this country since the beginning of time.  In this episode we describe what it feels like to be black in a country that is supposed to be the "land of the free". If the description makes you feel uncomfortable, imagine what it feels like to still have to face oppression and inequality in the year 2020.  Sit back and enjoy this weeks episode.

We're back after a brief hiatus due to quarantining and staying safe.  In this episode we discuss the different ways we can stay busy during all of this free time, wether that be staying in shape or working on a side hustle.  We also give our takes on the Last Dance documentary and ultimately we're just getting back into the swing of things this episode! 

We bring special guest, political debater and attorney Camara Williams on board to discuss the importance of our vote and how powerful it truly is. Any questions and doubts as to whether or not our vote actually counts is addressed and tackled.  I think its safe to say that when you're done listening to this episode your point of views on voting and its importance will be changed!