The Big Payoff with Rachel Bellow and Suzanne Muchin

Can I snoop in my boss's desk to find out if my coworkers are making more than me? Surely there are better ways! (There are. We've got ‘em here.)BonfireWomen.comSuzanne: @suzannemuchinRachel: @rachelbellowProduced by Jenn Bane, M. Harris & Co.Mixed, edited, scored by Ryan Dieringer, Welterweight Sound Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Public speaking must-do's to get your colleagues to shut up and listen.BonfireWomen.comSuzanne: @suzannemuchin (IG)Rachel: @rachelbellow (IG)Produced by Jenn Bane, M. Harris & Co.Mixed, edited, scored by Ryan Dieringer, Welterweight Sound Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do I say “I don't know” without sounding like a moron? It's all in the delivery. We'll share how to nail this — and how to fail this. Because we have both failed at this one. (PSST: It's a new season of Bonfire. Every week we'll answer one burning question, and we're kicking off with a banger.)BonfireWomen.com Suzanne: [social media]Rachel: [social media]Produced by Jenn Bane, M. Harris & Co.Mixed, edited, scored by Ryan Dieringer, Welterweight Sound Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if there were no changes in the new year? What if there was no “new year, new me?” What if the mantra was simply “New Year. This is me.” What would that require of you? In this episode, Rachel and Suzanne challenge the myth that we must improve ourselves and set resolutions for the year. Perhaps what we really need to do is the opposite:… radical self-acceptance. This episode contains an epic three-part exercise that will reset your inner barometer and leave you feeling exactly like…you!.. We believe every word of this one. You won't want to miss it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we navigate the final stretch of the 2022 year, Rachel and Suzanne will take your hand and guide you to the finish line. They dispel the ubiquitous self-improvement rhetoric that haunts women this time of year. Rachel and Suzanne remind you to disregard New Years' resolutions and remember you are already where you need to be! In the end, they answer lightning round questions from various younger listeners, and share their hot takes! This episode has everything from the cryptocurrency meltdown to James Charles. You won't want to miss it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Parvati Shallow is an American television personality and winner of Survivor: Micronesia. She is best known for spearheading the show's first all-female alliance and has since become a serious student of female power. Rachel and Suzanne talk with Parvati and discuss the witching ways female power works in the world. This episode is magic. You won't want to miss it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Have you ever thought about why a “friend” stopped replying? Maybe you never heard back from a prospective employer? In this premier episode, Rachel and Suzanne take on the growing phenomenon of Ghosting. They listen to three callers who've been ghosted or have ghosted themselves and break it down in real-time. Rachel and Suzanne will dispel some sticky myths and tell you what to do when this happens. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why is it that when women display their vulnerabilities and downplay their strengths, they are “relatable” and “brave,” but when they proudly embody their power and skills they are alienated? In this little shorty of an episode, Rachel and Suzanne discuss power, self-confidence, and nude photo shoots. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You don't always know exactly when the time is right to make a big move - when to leave a job, when to change careers, when to have kids. No one is going to tell you whether or when to make those decisions in your life. But Rachel and Suzanne sure have a lot of experience doing it for themselves, and in this episode they'll give you a few guidelines to follow to help along the way. Heads up - sometimes betting on yourself means you end up recording an entire podcast with a wet tile saw in the background. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Five years ago (!!), Rachel and Suzanne did an episode all about their (not so secret) inner selves - the person who comes out during moments of pressure or stress; their inner hulk. Everybody has one - and you likely know exactly who yours is. In this updated version of that episode, they dive back in to help you understand what to actually do when your hulk comes out. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

If you're leading a team or running a company, how and when to communicate on issues can be the most crucial and difficult decision you make. Whether you're taking a stand on a cultural issue, or delivering a piece of difficult news, it can sometimes feel like entering a minefield. But don't worry, Rachel and Suzanne have set off plenty of mines before and they've got strategy for days. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This one's for those of you who may just be getting to know us… or for listeners who have been waiting, hoping, asking for Rachel and Suzanne to finally lift the curtain already. Just a little start-of-summer get-to-know-ya treat. Enjoy. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Whether you are ready for your hot vax summer or you are hiding under your covers, the prospect of re-entry means a reckoning for us all. What does it mean to come back to your life - and what would you rather leave in the Before Times? In this episode, Rachel and Suzanne talk about taking stock of your life and how to figure out what is better left behind. It's bespoke, baby. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Rachel and Suzanne are the poster children for change - they know better than most that you can't just “set and forget” your identity. But how do you know if you're in the right place for right now? Stay tuned for a recipe to help yourself become more yourself, over and over again. And listen up for some bonus branding advice along the way. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We've all heard the mantra "no excuses" - but Rachel and Suzanne know, it's not that simple. When you just can't get something done, making excuses feels really bad (and PSA: everyone knows when you're doing it), so we're giving you an alternative. You'll never have to make excuses again. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this special two-part episode, Rachel and Suzanne explain why in any argument, the solution is never just to "hug it out." In part two, they show you exactly how best to resolve a major argument with someone you care about by delving into the painful memories of the worst fight they ever had, and how they worked through it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this special two-part episode, Rachel and Suzanne explain why in any argument, the solution is never just to "hug it out." In part one, they share their stories of past interpersonal conflicts and breaches of trust, and why the only way out of a disagreement is through. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Everyone has little micro pockets of free time throughout their day, but how you choose to use them says a lot about you. If you're a Rachel, you refuse to work at all during those little bits of free time. If you're a Suzanne, you have your entire day planned out, down to the minute. Rachel and Suzanne examine their own time management habits, and help you figure out how to better use your micro pockets and enjoy your day. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Boundaries and ultimatums: what's the difference? Is there one? In this episode, Rachel and Suzanne ponder why boundaries are so important in any relationship, and reflect on past ultimatums set with friends and family. They discuss when its best to set boundaries, as well as the warning signs that tell you its time to issue an ultimatum. Most importantly, Rachel and Suzanne help YOU learn how to set healthy boundaries and use ultimatums effectively at work and in your life. (Book reference: Caste by Isabel Wilkerson) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Make sure to tune in every other Wednesday for all new episodes of "The Big Payoff" with your favorite best friend/business partner duo: Rachel and Suzanne! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

As quarantine has taught us, it can be hard to maintain healthy habits and be productive when you are the only person around to hold yourself accountable. You kind of have to be your own boss, especially for those who work from home. But what kind of boss are you to you? This episode, Rachel and Suzanne realize they are terrible bosses of themselves, and talk through how to care for yourself AND hold yourself accountable in order to be a more productive and happy person. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What do you do when you've got too many things demanding your attention at once? How will you get everything done, and done well, when there are a million other things on your to-do list? This week, Suzanne and Rachel lay out three ways to approach your schedule in order to get everything done to the best of your ability, each of which involves making some choices. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Last episode, Rachel and Suzanne discussed catastrophic thinkers, and how to respond to their fear of the worst case scenario in a productive way. But what happens when catastrophe actually strikes? What do you do when you when s*** hits the fan and you feel like you've lost all control? Never fear! Rachel and Suzanne are here with a six-step solution to help you wait out the chaos and find the light at the end of the tunnel. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You know that person in your life who always goes to the worst case scenario as soon as there's a problem? That coworker or friend (or in Rachel's case, mother) who immediately catastrophizes any situation? Rachel and Suzanne discuss how to spot a "catastrophic thinker," and give you tips for how to respond to them in a way that's productive for everyone. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

When Rachel locked herself out of her closet this week, she unexpectedly learned an important life lesson. Instead of coming in hot with an answer, her handyman actually solved her problem by asking her questions. Rachel and Suzanne discovered that the “let's figure this out together” approach is actually way more effective than aiming for, “I've got your answer!” Also, Suzanne is a Diplo fan now? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

How do you navigate a dystopian existence? Rachel and Suzanne are delineating the Before from the After times in the only way they know how: by asking the best questions. Here are four questions you should never leave home without (in addition to your mask). See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Toddlers need their parents' help navigating their wild emotional swings… but if you are finding yourself in these tumultuous times having trouble with your own wild emotions, it's time to learn how to work through it on your own. Suzanne and Rachel discuss how to parent yourself through moments of crisis. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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If you're wondering what keeps Rachel and Suzanne up at night, what their current guilty pleasures are… or what they're really doing on Zoom… check out this little hot mic lightning round. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Right now, Rachel and Suzanne - like many of you - are searching desperately for ways to feel better - physically, mentally, and emotionally. But when they turned to the “classic” self-care model (think: meditation, cucumbers on eyes, hot baths), they found it... sorely lacking. So what better time than now to completely redefine the meaning of self-care? Follow along with this episode - and with the worksheet we created on our website (bigpayoffradio.com) - to find your definition of self-care. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Since you're… still at home, here's a lil hot mic to take your mind off the world. Take a break, find your mantra, and enjoy. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Despite the absolute insanity of this moment, we've decided to post an episode we had previously taped, in the hopes that this conversation around what keeps you motivated, and how to stay centered might be helpful during this time. Also… if you need even more distraction? Do yourself a favor, and go binge watch Netflix's “Cheer” after you listen to this episode. Go ahead, we'll wait. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Rachel and Suzanne are LIVE at the Kellogg School of Management, and taking on your “Imposter Syndrome” once and for all. Take out your notebooks, this one's got tools you'll never want to leave home without. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Rachel and Suzanne dive a little deeper into business relationships to answer a listener's question... specifically, ones they've royally f*ed up. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You may be tempted to turn your work friends into your real friends… but beware of the friend colleague (er… frolleague?) booby traps! Don't worry, Rachel and Suzanne have made all the biggest mistakes with their work friends so you don't have to. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Here's a little pre-Thanksgiving snack this week! We kept the mics rolling from our last episode and Rachel & Suzanne admit what they always make time for… even if they're lying to you about it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Why Rachel & Suzanne think you should be taking on MORE in your day, even when it feels like you don't have time... and how to figure out when to say yes. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What happens when you start to outgrow your reputation? You tune into The Big Payoff's very first LIVE episode, where Rachel and Suzanne will give you their 3 Power Moves for closing the gap between who you are and who you want to be... plus some items to add to your Personal Assistant's to-do. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Welcome to an all new season of THE BIG PAYOFF! Rachel and Suzanne are back from summer break and thinking all about “adulting” - who dreads it, why, and how to put on your Big Girl Underpants™️ and grow the f$@! up. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

As we get ready for our summer break, we thought we would take a quick look back at an episode from March of 2018 that really felt life changing for us. So we kept the tape rolling and did a quick check in to see if we have taken our own advice- did what we learn in fact stick? Well, we thought it did. Until our producer, who NEVER wants to be heard on air, just couldn't hold back this time. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You might not want to admit it, but sometimes you need help. And when the stakes are high and you need it the most, that is likely when you turn help away. Why? Because no one could possibly do it as well as you can or the way you want it. And that makes you a nightmare to work with, work for, or live with! If this is making you squirm with self-recognition, don't panic. We've got your back because we've been there. All the time. But fear not-- we have solutions for all of us. We are the help you need right now, do NOT turn us away! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Stanford and Wharton MBA programs have rolled out new classes with a “touchy feely” curriculum. These are the softer skills-- you know silly things like interpersonal dynamics, relationship building and how to authentically engage with others. Basically, everything we cover in this podcast. You're welcome. What's incredible is that these more intangible skill sets, the ones that make us better at our jobs and life, are not part of EVERY business school curriculum. We have thoughts, caught on tape. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Okay graduates, job seekers, professional networkers or anyone who writes emails-- this show is for you. You want to write a killer email to someone you haven't met. Maybe you've been referred to them, maybe this is a cold call to someone you really want to meet. The truth is a cold call or email will very likely be ignored, missed, or, even worse, DISmissed. Ouch. This episode will tell you what you need to know to get noticed and maybe, just maybe, make the person on the other end WANT to talk to you. Just like right now--you WANT to listen to this episode. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The mics were hot when Suzanne and Rachel started chatting away about Mr. Big- turns out he is what inspired the conversation for our last episode, “At Your Service.” Think about it, SATC super fans- didn't it make you crazy when our Carrie was at Mr. Big's beck and call? In what has to be one of Suzanne and Rachel's shortest conversations ever, they dig in. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We've talked a millions times about this over cocktails and for sure on this show: men and women do things differently. What starts off as a conversation about how we use email opens up into a wider discussion of the role women so often take on in service to someone. Yes, it's cringeworthy listening at times. But today's episode will help by showing you a new path forward. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Imagine being in a baseball game and going up to bat without having a clue about the situation of the pitcher, the state of the team you're facing, and what else is happening on the field as you approach the mound. If you did that, you'd risk getting smacked with a curve ball. Well, that's what happened to us- not on a baseball diamond, but in the rooms where we play OUR ball games. We hope our stories will help you see the bigger game you're always a part of, whether you realize it or not. That way you'll hit the ball out of the park every time you're at bat. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We're trying a new segment called Hot Mic-- where we're just yackin' and the tape keeps rolling. We're talking about whatever's on our mind at the moment. This time, we share our take on college admissions scandal, where fancy parents paid fancy $$ to falsify documents so their kids would get into fancy places. Spoiler alert: this ain't just about the benjamins. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

“I don't hire positions. I hire athletes”- Bill Bowen, former President of Andrew W. Mellon Foundation and Rachel's beloved mentor, etched these words on Rachel's brain, and this episode pays it forward. What did he mean...and what does this mean for you? Hint: it's not about sports. But you'll need a hoist a pen to note the 5 qualities that will change your mindset about what you need to succeed (and what qualities you want on your team). See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A new study is out that says most successful women surround themselves with just a few close women. We couldn't help but wonder if this is true for us, and if it is….why is that? We have different answers from the study and arrive at a new strategy for how you should approach networking that could make all the difference to your success… and it's not just for women. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

All that meditation, mindful breathing and yoga you do isn't actually helping you relax. Even mindless Netflix binging doesn't do the trick. We'll tell you why that is and what we've figured out about how to fix it! Spoiler alert: it's all about listening to yourself before doing ANYTHING. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.