uncensoredwithufo Podcast

Are you tired of the same old beauty standards? Do you wonder how these standards impact our teenagers? Prepare for a deep dive into the intersection of teenage beauty and societal expectations on this episode of "uncensored with Ufo." With the expert insights from our guest, therapist 'Ann, we'll dissect the complex and often controversial world of teen beauty. Tune in as we discuss how societal, cultural and media influences not only shape but sometimes distort our perception of beauty.This episode also brings in diverse voices from Miss Wendy, Siren, and Sharon who contribute to the lively debate. We talk about the not-so-glamorous side of beauty pageants and how they impact teenagers' body image and self-esteem. We question the idea of using beauty as a professional advantage and how it fosters harmful competition amongst women. We also talk about the role parents play in creating a positive environment and how the media and societal expectations shape our views on beauty. As we move forward, we'll discuss the harmful impact of adult language and stereotypes on a teenager's self-image and self-esteem. We'll highlight the importance of therapy in processing and coping with these issues, and provide resources for the same. We also acknowledge and thank our listeners for their continued support. So, are you ready for a thought-provoking discussion on beauty? Join us for a truly enlightening episode!Support the show

Ever pondered the complexities of dating outside one's social class? Ever wondered why some relationships are fraught with friction and insecurities, while others explore new frontiers of understanding and shared values? Join us, as we step into this intricate social matrix with mental health advocate, Siren, relationship expert, Ms Wendy, and therapist Arne. Together, we examine the impact of social class on our relationships, and how it shapes our etiquette, insecurities, and even our friendships.In this fascinating conversation, we delve into topics like hypergamy, the psychological effects of dating across social barriers, and the particular experiences of black women. We unpack the often unspoken dynamics of money, values, and societal norms, and how they influence our interactions and perceptions. What happens when someone mocks another over the cost of something? How do insecurities manifest in female friendships? And most importantly, how does the wisdom encapsulated in an African proverb resonate within the context of these discussions?As we navigate the dating landscape, race, gender, and class inevitably shape our experiences and decisions. We discuss the challenges and realities of dating as black women, highlighting the existing social and economic structures that influence this arena. Love is a verb, and understanding this principle can profoundly impact our relationships. So, come join us, as we unravel the threads of love, potential, and healing across social classes and cultural norms. This is a journey of self-discovery and honest conversations, an exploration of societal norms, and a challenge to our understanding of love and relationships.Support the show

At what time is it ok to be vulnerable? on this episode Wendy and I talked about being vulnerable and at what point do you start to open up...Support the show

Ever wondered why our social media profiles often reflect a life that's too perfect to be true? Are we really that happy or is it a facade we carefully construct for our audience? Join us in a stimulating conversation with Siren, where we shed light on these questions, and discuss the impact of social media on our relationships, our perception of happiness, and the complexity of how we present ourselves online.In this episode, we venture deep into the social media rabbit hole, discussing how it shapes our interactions and the potential dangers of idolizing online personalities we've never met. Siren shares her insights on why people might display a false image of joy online. We also talk about the importance of safeguarding ourselves from negative interactions, emphasizing the need to stand up against malicious comments and report abusive accounts.As we progress, we touch upon the complex emotions associated with seeing our peers achieve life milestones that we haven't reached yet. We share strategies to deal with jealousy constructively, and discuss the detrimental effects of comparison on our mental health. Throughout our conversation, our focus remains on the importance of mental health and self-worth in the digital age. Listen in, and let's embark on this journey of understanding and navigating the intricacies of our digital lives.Support the show

Hello guys! we are back! and on this episode, yewande and I spoke about things that has been happening on social media, and also talked about how some african parent are enablers of physical and emtional abuse in romantic relationship. Support the show

what really defines womanhood, is it relationship status, marriage or childbirth, on this episode we discussed the pressure put on women by family and society.Help us continue making great content for listeners everywhere by clicking on the link below. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805523/supportSupport the show

On this episode! Wendy and I talked about the Nigerian way of playing god! and how to be a successful entrepreneur in Nigeria.Help us continue making great content for listeners everywhere by clicking on the link below thank you.https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805523/supportSupport the show

welcome to another episode of uncensoredwithufo's podcast!! on this episode, Wendy and I talked about reasons why some people do you consider their spouse a family member and we also talked about prenuptial agreement, is it a great idea to get one before you get married. please sit back and enjoy...Support the show

Its a chilled easter weekend, Wendy and I have decided to give you guys some social media gist. Support the show

on todays episode Wendy and I talked about how the last three months has treated us, setting 90 days goals, making new friends as an adult, Male/Female Friendships, Friendship breakups our near experiences at friendship breakup. we hope you enjoy this episode as we did recording and we will be back for next season!!Support the show

On this episode Wendy and I talked about some of the ways we protect our peace!  we talked about cancel culture, conflict avoidance, and how all of these methods has helped us to protect our peace; we also revisited boundaries. we hope you enjoy this episode, Support the show

Yay! its black history month and we are excited to talk about our understanding of "Black history month" as Nigerian immigrant living in America. Should we celebrate BHM? Do you think Black people should have only one month where they get to celebrate and appreciate the color of their skin? some of the difficulties that we have faced/experienced being black women (At work, while shopping, while driving etc.)Support the show

Winter is here, love is in the air,  and its a perfect weekend to curl up with your partner, pets or yourself and enjoy this episode as Wendy and I talked about the tension of matching PJs, effect of past romantic relationships and how our values have evolved when it comes to romantic relationships. Support the show

On this episode,  I and Wendy, Reflected on how social media has changed drastically and discuss the effects that you have noticed- Social media pressure for success, Hottest gist in the most recent years, how all of this has affected us and how we have managed to stay sane on social media.Support the show

Since a New Year comes with resolutions, proclamations of new versions of self, etc. We decided the them for Q1 will be Reflections.  We will be reflecting on the past while revisiting certain topics to see how our opinions/thought processes have evolved, changed or stayed the same Support the show

Networking usually involves meeting new people, who share a profession, industry, or interests. Networking involves exchanging ideas and information between these individuals, on this episode we spoke ways we have navigate networking at work. 

How can I work and enjoy my personal time? What if I lose myself in the process of working for too long and don't know who I am anymore? How to ask for what you need at work? This episode addresses all these questions. It covers work-life balance, emotional intelligence, resilience, 9 to 5 careers and even leadership training tools.

It is unlawful to harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that person's sex. Harassment can include "sexual harassment" or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature. on this Episode the girls and I, shared our experiences with this issue, how we dealt with it and our suggestion on how to to prevent or manage it.

Imposter syndrome is a psychological occurrence in which an individual doubts their skills, talents, or accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud, on this episode we talked about our experiences and how we have managed to deal with it. 

So on todays episode i had the opportunity to interview  Mr Loeto Magang  a 21 year old Botswana International studying medicine in Grenada. He aspires to be a neurosurgeon which is one of the most difficult fields in medicine for a person to break into. He is a single young ambitious black man so you can expect his journey to be tough. In this episode we look at what inspires Mr Magang and what keeps him going so he does not give up on his dreams. I hope you guys enjoy this episode, 

The process of choosing our career path was one of the biggest decision in our life, it is the process of defining what we want to become in the future, on this episode Wendy and I talked about our career journey and process. 

Hi Guys so I am back from my vacation and on todays episode.  Wendy and I are trying to catch up with you guys and start the season with a gentle topic. we are working on the Topics for this season. and will be back next week. In the mean time, please enjoy this episode as we talk about everything and all things. 

So this episode was very interesting and all we did was talk. We played the table talk game.  we hope you all enjoy it as much as we did. 

A romantic relationship is a close relationship to another person that involves deep friendship as well as physical intimacy and sex, and maybe even love. A platonic relationship is a relationship between friends, and while these relationships can be loving, they are not physically intimate,  is there a reason people nurture their romantic relationships and not their platonic relations. 

So we have a lot of interesting topic for you all. but we only want to give our listeners the best of every topic. but on this episode Wendy and I decided to drop this episode of just us girls talking. as a bonus topic.

To many of us when we think of Family we immediately bring to mind a mom and dad one or more children. The model is for a heterosexual couple practicing monogamy whose children are cisgender and straight.  This would seem to be the model and in fact it is still a cultural norm, This model doesn't recognize the parents who have sexual relations outside of their marriage, it ignores the serialized monogamy that produces step families. On this episode we spoke about how we grew up in none traditional homes and how it has affected our outlook on life,,,

Friendship is arguably the most unique type of relationship in our lives. Friendships aren't driven by a sense of duty, but instead are entirely freely chosen. on this episode we spoke about our journey through friendship.

On this episode, we aired about our views on family disputes, differences, and feuds. We highlighted the best ways we've navigated setting boundaries with close and extended family members. We also talked about our experiences with nosey family members. It was a fun and enlightening conversation.

On this episode we decided to talk about the famous "Tinder Swindler" Topic. we gave our opinion on how we felt about the whole documentary . Please sit back and enjoy. 

Hey Guys welcome, to the last episode of season 4, since this game night falls on Valentines weeks, we will be playing romantic songs and just talking about valentines, I hope you all have enjoyed listening to us on this season, we will be dropping a bonus episode next Saturday.

Pornography is powerful and creates a desire for more. It's far more pervasive than you would suspect. In general, the rise of social media, sexting and technology has created an issue for people to fall prey to the effects of porn addiction. On this episode myself and my co-host had a guest therapist come give her opinion on this topic. 

Have you been in a situation where you have had to choose between your family or your significant other? If so what did you do? If not, what would you do in such a scenario?What are some of the reasons why a family can be against the love of your life to where they want you getting married? on this episode myself and my co-host talked about situation that can make your family or friends be against a relationship.

On this episode we discussed the topic of regrets. Do you ever think about regrets or maybe you're one of those people that always say no regrets? myself and my co-hosts weighed in on how we view regrets and our experiences so stick around to listen.

Some of us might have  experienced heartache or the Nigerian slang "got served breakfast" and may have suspected it was the result of a person faking their intention towards us.  on this episode we asked if love can be faked?  Why would anyone want to fake love? How long can it be faked for? Can you tell if the love is real or fake? Join in on the conversation and share your feedback and thoughts. Don't forget to subscribe and turn your notification on!!

On this Episode we gave our thought on open relationship, Pros & Cons of open relationshipRules and Regulations of surrounding open relationships.

Hey Guys welcome, to the last episode of season 3, this season has been all about romantic relationships. we decided to do some date night Q&A  for our game night, I hope you all have enjoyed listening to us on this season and until next season. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.

Everyone is different. So you decide to start dating someone and then you find out that the person has certain habits or does certain things that is not acceptable to you. Remember that you are trying to spend the rest of your life with this person so you have to make the decision wisely. What are your deal breakers.

Trauma and heartbreak are not to be underestimated, as we give our opinion on this episode. To be able to have a future healthy relationship, we talked about the healthy ways to deal with a breakup and how to be fully conscious and comfortable with the other partner. If you're still hung up on your ex or struggling with your current relationship, listen to what we had to say on this episode in regards to trauma and therapy. Remember to follow us on all social media platforms, subscribe and turn on your notification.

When we meet the right person at the wrong time, we feel like missing out the good. When all the factors don't come together to create the outcome we desire, for one reason or another, we don't get what we want and this creates feelings of loss, grief, regret and even hostility, on this episode we talked about, how to recognize if someone is even the right person, also How do you know it's the wrong timing? Do you give it another chance if it was wrong timing?I have also linked the article we talked about below.  https://patstedman.com/2016/04/29/5-reasons-man-integrity/

On this episode we talked about things that shaped our value system when it comes to sex. and we all kind of agreed that despite what mama might have might have told you, having sex on the first date isn't something that's going to ruin your chances of a great relationship, We hope you enjoy this episode and let us know what your thought are about having sex on the first date.

Welcome to season 3 episode 1, on this episode we talked about identifying where you are in a romantic relation. which brings us to the big question "Are we exclusive or nah", I know we've all been at that point were we really wanted to know the answer to this questions.  Please enjoy this topic. and also follow us on all our social media network. 

Thank you all for listening to us and all we had to say on season II, to round up every season we have game night. on this Episode we played "How Nigerian are you"We hope this episode makes you laugh as much as it made us. Until Next Season. Stay blessed!!Please follow us on all our social media platforms., Likes, share and subscribe. 

Mental health is a state of well-being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community. on this episode we had a therapist Auhn Henry join us on this topic as the subject experts. We hope you find this episode as inciteful as we did. 

Physical wellness is the ability to maintain a quality of life that allows you to get the most out of your daily activities without undue fatigue or physical stress. Physical wellness recognizes that our daily habits and behaviors have an impact on our overall health, well-being and quality of life. are you struggling with this part of your life. Please Join us as we talk about our journey to physical wellness.

How do you define feminism, who is a feminist? This are very important questions that needs to be asked. do people mistake feminism with gender base roles? Join my co-hort and I and our guest as we spend time talking about our thought on feminism.

Setting healthy boundaries is a vital skill that protects our identities and self-esteem. Without healthy boundaries, we open the door for others to determine our thoughts, feelings, and needs, losing a sense of self. 

Setting healthy boundaries is a vital skill that protects our identities and self-esteem. Without healthy boundaries, we open the door for others to determine our thoughts, feelings, and needs, losing a sense of self. 

Thank you guys for doing this we me the last 5 weeks, This has been so much fun! I really appreciate everyone of you and your input on this. Looking forward to giving you guys better content for season II

Has love distracted you from your goals?  on this episode we talked about how love can be a form of distraction.

Should marriage licenses expire like every state license, to give people the option to re-evaluate their marriages? On this episode we talked about this and gave our opinions. 

We got all your questions. and we decided to do something a little different on this episode. we answered some of your questions and gave our opinion.