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In this episode, Ryan breaks down five common parenting “don'ts” that even thoughtful, well-intentioned parents fall into. He talks about why these parenting habits backfire, what to do instead, and how everything changes when you stop trying to do everything perfectly.
When they're young, when they're bored, when they're full of energy, when they're older, when you need to talk, early in the morning before school, when you're older, there's one thing you should do with your kids...
You're going to regret that you were stubborn. You're going to regret that you insisted on things being harder than they needed to be. You're going to wonder why you cared so much about what other people think.
Kids aren't ready for something one day and then the next they are. So wait and be ready.
Before you reprimand or correct, you should check the ratio. How many times have you already said that today?
Our kids are not meant to stay in their rooms. Our living room is for living. Our kids deserve the run of the whole place.
What your kids want from you is simpler than you think. In this episode, Jesse Itzler shares a simple parenting rule with Ryan that reshaped how he shows up for his kids. They talk about why the moments that matter most feel inconvenient, why “I'll do it later” is such a dangerous mindset, and how saying yes to your kids' interests can change everything.Listen to the full episode with Jesse on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube Jesse Itzler is an entrepreneur, author, endurance athlete, former rapper, and part-owner of the Atlanta Hawks. He is the author of two books, Living With A Seal where he lived and trained with David Goggins for 31 days. His other book is Living with the Monks where he lived with an isolated religious community in the mountains of upstate New York. He co-founded Marquis Jet, helped build ZICO Coconut Water, and created the viral New Year planning tool called the “Big Ass Calendar”. Plan 2026 using the Big Ass Calendar that Jesse created: https://thebigasscalendar.com/Check out Jesse's books: Living with a SEAL: 31 Days Training With The Toughest Man on the PlanetLiving with the Monks: What Turning Off My Phone Taught Me about Happiness, Gratitude, and FocusFollow Jesse on Instagram, YouTube, and X @JesseItzler
A person who is a friend to themselves, Seneca wrote, is an aid to all mankind.
It might have been the wrong day. They may have been the wrong age. Maybe they were in the wrong mood, maybe you were in the wrong mood. Maybe you should try again?Let's not write the year off just yet. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge is opening back up for a limited time. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
This is how teenagers have been for all time. So why do we take their personality so personally?Let's not write the year off just yet. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge is opening back up for a limited time. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
It's never too late to make a change, to start a new career, to quit a bad habit, to get in shape, to apologize, to mend relationships, to try that new thing you've always wanted to try, or to finally invest in yourself.Let's not write the year off just yet. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge is opening back up for a limited time. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
Taking care of yourself is contagious. It will spread throughout your house. And so too will a bad example, if that's what you choose to set.
When your kids are struggling, your first instinct is to step in and make it better. In today's episode, Mel Robbins explains why that instinct can actually make things harder. Mel breaks down how the Let Them Theory applies to parenting, shares honest stories about moments she wanted to protect her kids at all costs, and how “letting them” doesn't mean abandoning your role as a parent.Listen to Mel and Ryan's full episode on Apple Podcasts and Spotify or watch it on YouTubeMel Robbins is the creator and host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the most successful podcasts in the world, and a #1 New York Times bestselling author. The Let Them Theory was the top selling book of 2025 according to Publisher's Weekly, with +7 million copies sold within nine months of its release date. Tune into The Mel Robbins Podcast on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Follow Mel Robbins on Instagram and TikTok
It's easy to forget how many people would love to be in your position, who are dreaming of the opportunity to have what can so often feel like a burden or a struggle.
We fool ourselves that none of these individual decisions matter. We fool ourselves that the consequences are manageable…which they are until suddenly, they are not.
It's never too late to change and improve, but we should also be aware that the clock is ticking, the windows are closing.
In the course of a day as parents, we make hundreds, thousands of assumptions. Most of these assumptions are faulty. We're just making them up…even though they make us miserable!
Today is Martin Luther King Jr. Day in America—a day we reflect on his life and legacy. One particular lesson from Dr. King can help us better connect with our kids each day.
Thirteen years ago I was surfing online when I stumbled on a blog post called "How To Read More — A Lot More" by someone I'd never heard of named Ryan Holiday. I started reading the post and got sucked in. He had a point! Many great points, actually. And he was young. 26 years old! A 26-year-old young man telling the world to read more books? In an era where most twenty-something men read, uh, none? I found Ryan to be a breath of fresh air. I immediately began to copy everything he did! He launched a monthly book club. I launched a monthly book club! (With his blessing, of course.) He was talking about reading fifty then a hundred and then hundreds of books a year. Well, I started reading five books and then ten books and then fifty books a year. I began cancelling news subscriptions and consciously put my phone away. I installed a bookshelf at my front door. I moved my TV to the basement! And, of course, I started this podcast—all about reading. In a way 3 Books would not exist without Ryan Holiday. In some ways I can probably trace my rediscovered passion for reading all the way back to that 2013 blog post. But Ryan is not just a blogger anymore. He's not just a writer guy on the internet anymore. Ryan Holiday has sold over 10 million books (!) and essentially leads the repopularization of stoic philosophy. Some of his books include 'The Obstacle Is The Way', 'Ego Is The Enemy', 'Stillness Is The Key', 'Discipline is Destiny', and his new book, out just a few months ago, 'Wisdom Takes Work'. Ryan also runs DailyStoic.com, the consulting company Brass Check, Daily Dad, and The Painted Porch indie bookstore in Bastrop, Texas. He and his wife Sam live with their two sons in nearby Austin. He's become a friend and I have definitely caught his bug. So in Chapter 38 of 3 Books we're going to fly down to Ryan's home in Austin and get 4 of his most formative books. (You'll hear why on the show.) Among other things Ryan shares how to decide who to trust, how he got fired from his first job, and why we shouldn't turn parenting into a job. I hope you enjoy this classic chapter of 3 Books with Mr. Ryan Holiday.
Growing up with a disability meant Ezra Frech was made to feel different from a very young age. What gave him unshakeable confidence wasn't his athletic talent, but how his parents chose to raise him.In this episode, Ryan sits down with Paralympian Ezra Frech to talk about the impossible decisions his parents had to make early in his life and how those choices shaped his confidence.Ezra Frech is an American track and field athlete who competes in high jump, long jump and sprinting events. He is a two-time Paralympian, having competed at the 2020 Summer Paralympics and won two gold medals at the 2024 Summer Paralympics. Ezra co-created and produced a three-part docuseries called Adaptive with NBC Sports + Peacock. Check it out here! Follow him on Instagram and TikTok @EzraFrech and on YouTube @ItsEzraFrech
We made a decision to have kids many years ago and then for years, that decision works on us, shaping, changing, transforming us.
Later, they might not want to anymore. Later the opportunity might not exist.
They should be able to be maniacs…because that's what kids are. And you, as a well-regulated mature adult, should be able to handle this.
When did we get so jaded? Why don't we acknowledge the little stuff anymore?
Kids are kids. Always have been and always will be.
You can live these years without writing anything down, but you will miss more than you think. In this episode, Ryan and Sam talk about why journaling is one of the most underrated practices for parents, how small entries reveal patterns you cannot see day to day, and why even one line a day can change how you understand yourself as a parent.
Enjoy it while you can because you're the lucky one right now. Because one day, you won't have it anymore.
We think of the Stoics as philosophers, which of course they were. But they were human beings too—sons, daughters, husbands, wives, and parents.
Look, very few of us are born just knowing how to do this—how to express ourselves, how to process difficult feelings. It takes work. And it's our job as parents to do that work ourselves, and to help our children get better at it too.
Our kids have so comparatively little experience, so little wisdom, so little confidence. It's insane. It's more insane still that we confuse and disorient them with our own expectations and projections…even though we know how much our own parents confused us in this regard.
You're just trying to get your point across. You're just trying to teach them. You're just trying to keep them safe. But how do you think it feels? How do you think it feels to be them?
Before you try to parent differently in 2026, remember what actually helped in 2025. In this episode, Ryan shares a few parenting insights he picked up in 2025 from conversations on The Daily Stoic Podcast. You'll hear why self regulation is the real skill we're teaching our kids, how children borrow our nervous systems long before they can manage their own, and a powerful reminder about character.
Embrace their interests, even if you think those interests are gross. Messes can almost always be cleaned up later.
Can you let things go? Can you control your temper and frustrations? Do you know when it's time to push and when it's time to pull them in close to you?The Daily Dad eBook is $2.99 on Amazon! Grab your copy here: dailydad.com/discountGive yourself the ultimate gift of parenting tools, structure, and community. Join The Daily Dad Society here: https://dailydad.com/society80,000 Hours | To get started planning a career that works on one of the world's most pressing problems, sign up now at 80000 hours.org/DAILYDAD ✉️ Sign up for the Daily Dad email: DailyDad.com
Here's what you have to understand: Things are going to get destroyed. You have kids. It's what they do. If you're looking for something: The 2026 Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge begins in just ONE DAY. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
What fun, meaningful challenge could you take on as a family to set the tone for 2026?If you're looking for something: The 2026 Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge begins in just TWO DAYS. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
Being a good parent and good partner isn't simply a consequence of the work you put in to be a better person. They are correlated, certainly, but correlation isn't causation, as they say.The Daily Dad eBook is $2.99 on Amazon! Grab your copy here: dailydad.com/discount
In this episode, Ryan and Sam talk through the one simple reset they use to kick off the New Year and how it's shaped their family in ways they never expected. You don't get to choose what 2026 throws at you, but you do get to choose who you're going to be when it does. For parents, that means setting the tone early, choosing less when everything is asking for more, and building habits that help you show up calmer, steadier, and more present for your family.Make 2026 the year where you finally bring yourself closer to living your best life. No more waiting. Demand the best for yourself. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge begins January 1, 2026. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
We only have a finite amount of patience. So by indulging and indulging, absorbing and absorbing, we're wasting a very precious resource…one that parenting demands a lot of. Make 2026 the year where you finally bring yourself closer to living your best life. No more waiting. Demand the best for yourself. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge begins January 1, 2026. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
When you were younger, for Christmas, all you wanted was presents. Now that you're older, now that you have kids, all you want is presence.
There's so much to do. There's so much going on. What do you prioritize? What problems do you solve first? What are you supposed to be focused on?
These are the wonderful sounds of parenthood, the ones that are so precious and fleeting and beautiful—and they're happening now.
Remember that real parenthood, real family life, isn't the curated illusion on your Instagram feed. It's not pristine homes, it's not spotless designer furniture, and it's definitely not easy.
In today's episode, Ryan shares a rare behind-the-scenes moment when his kids start to realize what he actually does, and then his son takes the mic to ask the questions. You'll hear him interview Kenny Curtis, host of Nat Geo's hit kids podcast Greeking Out, in a genuinely fun, curious, and unexpectedly thoughtful conversation, and later Ron Chernow, the historian behind Hamilton.
Anything you do together as a family brings you closer and makes lasting memories. Make 2026 the year you start a new tradition with your family for the new year. Make 2026 the year where you finally bring yourself closer to living your best life. No more waiting. Demand the best for yourself. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge begins January 1, 2026. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
A lot of parenting can feel like trial and error. But when we make mistakes, we can own up to them. MasterClass | Get 15% off any annual membership at MasterClass.com/RyanHoliday✉️ Sign up for the Daily Dad email: DailyDad.com
Look, we know our kids grow when we sign them up for things—when they do sports, when they take classes, when they volunteer for an event at school or in the community. And that's why we sign them up for all of this. But what about us?Make 2026 the year where you finally bring yourself closer to living your best life. No more waiting. Demand the best for yourself. The Daily Stoic New Year New You challenge begins January 1, 2026. Learn more and sign up today at dailystoic.com/challenge.
Just because it sometimes takes longer than we'd like to see the results of our efforts doesn't mean that our efforts are going to waste.
We have to grow up. If we're not going to do it now as parents, when are we?
Comedian Pete Holmes is calling out a lie most parents tell themselves: “I'm doing it for my family.” In this episode, Pete and Ryan break down how work, ambition, and the idea of “providing” can become the perfect excuse to drift away from the very people we say we're doing it all for.Pete Holmes is an American actor, comedian, writer, producer, and podcaster. He first gained recognition in the early 2010s as a stand-up comic, and also released his first comedy special and worked as a television writer and actor. He is the host of the podcast You Made It Weird, author of Comedy Sex God, and the creator of the HBO show Crashing.