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Our kids are going to love things we don't understand. They're going to get into costumes, music, shoes, games, and whole worlds that aren't our thing. In today's episode, Ryan talks about taking his kids to the Renaissance Fair, resisting the urge to judge, and why one of the best things we can do as parents is simple: let them love what they love.

You get them all the time…and then suddenly this is all you get of them.

The wise don't fly off the handle. They don't say the first thought that enters their mind.

Memorize these four virtues. Act on them. Live them. Parent by them.

They're going to need to hear it explained, over and over and over.

Do you think anyone has ever really regretted choosing family first?

In today's episode, Ryan and Sam talk about one of those parenting moments that feels huge in the moment and totally ridiculous five minutes later, why kids sometimes bait us into arguments, and how easily we can turn a small thing into a battle for control.

Should we just read the latest parenting book until we have it memorized? Should we call our own parents every time we have an issue?

You tell yourself that, one day, things will calm down. And then one day, they do.

Your job is to help them become an adult…which means first being a perfect (and overwhelmingly difficult) teenager.

Ideas and discussions are not always going to be comfortable. Just like an equation, we have to work at them.

Know where they are. Know what they're doing. Let that root you, let that keep you even.

In today's episode, Ryan reflects on how quickly our kids grow up, how easily time slips by in the day-to-day routine, and why seeing other people's children get older can remind us of what's happening in our own homes. It's a tempus fugit reminder to slow down, pay attention, and not take these years for granted.

Ahead of Mother's Day this weekend, let us rectify this by looking at the woman who raised one of the great figures in all of history—and got very little credit for it.

Emotional regulation, while more difficult for some than others, is a habit like anything else. The more you practice it, the more you are aware of it, the more you reflect on it, the better you'll get at it.

Now is the time to be busy. Now is the time to have the experiences.

We want them to believe—to know—that they can contribute to that beauty in life, that beauty in the world. Because they can

Your worry is your problem. It is not a weight you get to put on them to make yourself feel better.

Some of the best parenting advice you'll ever hear is hidden in a Bruce Springsteen song. In today's episode, Ryan shares some of his favorite lessons on parenting and life drawn from Bruce's music, inspired by taking his kids to see him in concert last week.

We're not what we want to be—what we promised ourselves we'd be, what we owe to our kids. And?

Your kids are asking to do something in the real world…say yes!

Why won't they listen? Why do they do the opposite of what you ask of them? Are you just wasting your breath?

Our kids do not grow up someday. Our kids are growing up.

Your kids are a fresh start. Don't deprive them of these forces for good. Don't weigh them down with your baggage.

The best inside jokes with your kids don't just happen. In this episode, Ryan shares how a simple habit of bringing interesting stories into everyday moments has turned into laughter, connection, and shared memories with his kids.

We have done ourselves and our children a grave disservice by puncturing every myth and subjecting every story to the lens of political correctness.

We can't defer. We can't delay. We have to take the time now.

If we want to grow, we have to reflect. Not just when we blow it. Not just when there's a crisis.If today's episode resonates with you and you're interested in a structured path to becoming the parent you aspire to be, check out our Daily Dad Five Year Reflection Journal | https://dailydad.com/leather

Your priorities are clear. You have other important demands on your time. You have stuff you've gotta work around.

Your job is to show your kids the world. Your job is to teach them.

Why does parenting feel so overwhelming right now? In this episode, Ryan and David Pakman, host of The David Pakman Show, discuss how constant advice, endless scrolling, and information overload are making it harder to think clearly and stay patient as a parent. Watch David Pakman's show on YouTube @TheDavidPakmanShowFollow David Pakman on Instagram @David.PakmanGrab a copy of David's book: The Echo Machine

Don't judge. Listen. Get on their level and take a moment to get into it with them.

Our kids are kids. That means they don't always think things through.

You know you could have handled it better. You know you wish you'd approached things differently. You know you miss them or wish things were better.

Slow down. Teach them to look—and then teach them to look again.

We want to encourage our kids to question. We want them to stand on principle. We want them to believe in themselves.

What actually makes a trip “successful” with kids? In today's episode, Ryan shares the ups and downs of his kids' first camping trip and the simple moment that reminded him what actually matters.

Fretting is not a substitute for true connection. It's not a substitute for real conversation.Give yourself the ultimate gift of parenting tools, structure, and community. Join The Daily Dad Society here: https://dailydad.com/society✉️ Sign up for the Daily Dad email: DailyDad.com

Just like everyone can view the cup as half-full or half-empty, we have significant power over the lens we bring to each parenting situation, crisis, and potential frustration.Reading Marcus Aurelius can change your life, but only if you know how to read his work

You're traveling. You're far away. The kids are in good hands. This is your little break. But do you still need to be on top of it?

Tempus Fugit. Time flies. If we forget that, we'll miss too much.

Let them enjoy it. Enjoy them enjoying it.

Why do we put so much effort into everything except the job that matters most? In this episode, Ryan shares 7 reminders that will change how you react in tough moments and how you think about the time you get with your kids.

They are kids. This is what they do. Why are you surprised by it?

This is all new to them…and that's the timeless part about being a kid.

Commitments are important. Consistency matters. Learning matters. But your family is also a commitment

Parenting is hard. We're all trying our best…or so we'd like to think.

How are we supposed to communicate the most essential and important truths of life? How do we get them to remember what we tell them?

You start out guiding your kids through your world. Then suddenly you're trying to understand theirs.In this episode, Ryan talks with Chuck Klosterman about what it's like to raise kids in a culture that moves faster than you can keep up with and why knowing what your kids love matters more than judging it. Chuck is the author of Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, But What If We're Wrong?, The Nineties, and now his latest book Football. Pick up a copy of Football by Chuck KlostermanFollow Chuck on X @CKlosterman

We never know when they'll find it, but we have got to make sure that they don't give up on it.

They're not supposed to be stressed about our problems or the problems of the world—not yet, anyway. Give yourself the ultimate gift of parenting tools, structure, and community. Join The Daily Dad Society here: https://dailydad.com/society✉️ Sign up for the Daily Dad email: DailyDad.com