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On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a candid, insightful conversation that tackles the persistent myths and societal pressures women face as they approach and cross the age of 30 (00:00). Joined by joined by special guests Lex P (Pour Minds), KikiSaidSo, and KillahBee, who speak from both personal experience and cultural observation, the episode explores how outdated timelines around career success, marriage, and motherhood continue to shape expectations—often creating unnecessary stress and self-doubt (07:36). The discussion challenges the idea that turning 30 signals a decline in beauty, value, or opportunity, and instead reframes it as a time of growth, clarity, and empowerment (14:31, 18:53). From navigating family expectations and breaking free of traditional gender roles (14:31), to redefining romantic partnerships in an era where women are increasingly financially independent (29:03, 39:55), the conversation highlights how modern women are rewriting the rules. Mandii and her guests unpack how financial freedom shifts relationship dynamics (44:34), why prenups are becoming essential tools of empowerment (44:34), and why real connection should matter more than status or security (34:42). They also open up about fears around aging and fertility (18:53, 47:17), offering affirming perspectives on how to embrace each phase of life with grace and power. Wrapping up with heartfelt advice to their younger selves, the conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, self-worth, and financial literacy (56:36)—reminding listeners that the journey is theirs to define, no matter what the world says.“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@lex_p_@kikisaidso@thekillahbeeWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod
This week we're joined by our friend DJ Trendsetter Sense, now that he's made it through cuffing season we'll find out just how much he's really changed.Follow Us!@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Gamewww.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy BasteLive Show Tix (All Cities)www.linktr.ee/cocktalespodcastFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link:https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads
Welcome back to a new episode of Views Of An Ex Podcast. This episode features Louisiana native, and fellow podcaster Kiki. If you're familiar with The Cocktales podcast you know the stories they tell are wild. With that being said Kiki talks about a time she was with a former NFL player. Find out how it all played out and what lessons KiKi learned in the process.
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Use what you got to get what you want, Steego certainly is. Only Fans creator @1STEEGOVIBES joins us this week! This week's episode is brought to you by Goddess Detox, A Spiritual Women's Wellness company. Get your products at www.goddessdetox.org For Sponsorship: info@cocktalespod.com For Interviews/Guests: media@cocktalespod.com Advice: askcocktales@gmail.com Cocktale Submissions cocktales.atl@gmail.com Get tickets to our live shows! Atlanta 5/12 @ City Winery SOLD OUT Charlotte Tickets 6/5 https://www.cltcomedyzone.com/shows/171530 NYC Tickets 7/20 https://www.carolines.com/attraction/cocktales/ Philly 7/28 https://philadelphia.heliumcomedy.com/shows/171192 Buy I'm Curious to Know www.imcurioustoknow.com Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! She Orgasms- use code KIKISAIDSO for a discount www.sheorgasms.com Beach Seven Hair Use code COCKTALES for a discount www.beachsevenhair.com DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cocktales See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We have the founder and CEO of Goddess Detox here with us today reminding us to celebrate and honor ourselves. Be sure to support Goddess Detox at www.goddessdetox.org and follow them on socials @goddeessdetox and Olanikee @olanikeeosi This week's episode is brought to you by Goddess Detox, A Spiritual Women's Wellness company. Get your products at www.goddessdetox.org For Sponsorship: info@cocktalespod.com For Interviews/Guests: media@cocktalespod.com Advice: askcocktales@gmail.com Cocktale Submissions @cocktales.atl@gmail.com Get tickets to our live shows! Atlanta 5/12 @ City Winery SOLD OUT Charlotte Tickets 6/5 https://www.cltcomedyzone.com/shows/171530 NYC Tickets 7/20 https://www.carolines.com/attraction/cocktales/ Philly 7/28 https://philadelphia.heliumcomedy.com/shows/171192 Buy I'm Curious to Know www.imcurioustoknow.com Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! She Orgams- use code KIKISAIDSO for a discount www.sheorgasms.com Beach Seven Hair Use code COCKTALES for a discount www.beachsevenhair.com DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Text TALES to 64000 to get your discounted painting at https://www.paintyourlife.com Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cocktales See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week's episode is brought to you by Goddess Detox, A Spiritual Women's Wellness company. Get your products at www.goddessdetox.org Get tickets to our live shows! Atlanta 5/12 @ City Winery SOLD OUT Charlotte Tickets 6/5 https://www.cltcomedyzone.com/shows/171530 NYC Tickets 7/20 https://www.carolines.com/attraction/cocktales/ Philly 7/28 https://philadelphia.heliumcomedy.com/shows/171192 Buy I'm Curious to Know www.imcurioustoknow.com Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! She Orgams- use code KIKISAIDSO for a discount www.sheorgasms.com Beach Seven Hair Use code COCKTALES for a discount www.beachsevenhair.com DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Text TALES to 64000 to get your discounted painting at https://www.paintyourlife.com Get Your Vesper! use code COCKTALK for a free engraving! https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/ Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cocktales See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We love our listeners so much! So when lil sis wrote this letter we knew it would take a full episode to unpack. Take a listen Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! Talkspace- Try online therapy today and use code COCKTALES for $100 off your first month! https://www.talkspace.com/cocktales DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Try GREENCHEF Visit https://www.greenchef.com/cocktales125 and use code COCKTALES125 for $125 off your first subscription Get Your Vesper! use code DIRTYTALES for a free engraving! https://www.lovecrave.com/products/ve... Try SheOrgasms www.sheorgasms.com/kikisaidso and use code KIKISAIDSO for 10%off Join Medinah Monroe for Valen-Wines day and get your tickets here: shorturl.at/wCJNU Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cocktales See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After a long break from recording becuase of the holidays we're back and we have a ton to catch up on! If you're listening to the episode, you may want to go check it out on YouTube! https://youtu.be/ezAG_qgmnX0 Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! Talkspace- Try online therapy today and use code COCKTALES for $100 off your first month! https://www.talkspace.com/cocktales DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Try GREENCHEF Visit https://www.greenchef.com/cocktales125 and use code COCKTALES125 for $125 off your first subscription Get Your Vesper! use code DIRTYTALES for a free engraving! https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/ Try SheOrgasms www.sheorgasms.com/kikisaidso and use code KIKISAIDSO for 10%off Join Medinah Monroe for Valen-Wines day and get your tickets here: Eventbrite Tickets Here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Some weird stuff has been happening that has us wondering if something is in the water! Still faking orgasms, horrible liars, and the crazy feeling is creeping up on us. Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Check Out Our Sponsors! Sweet Magnolia Try Sweet Magnolia's skin and body products https://sweetmagnoliashop.com and use code COCKTALES Talkspace- Try online therapy today and use code COCKTALES for $100 off your first month! https://www.talkspace.com/cocktales DAME PRODUCTS- code: COCKTALES visit https://www.dameproducts.com/cocktales Try Taste Vitamins- code: COCKTALES10 http://tastevitainc.com/discount/cocktales?redirect=%2F%3Fafmc%3Dcocktales%26utm_campaign%3Dcocktales%26utm_source%3Dleaddyno%26utm_medium%3Daffiliate Text TALES to 64000 to get your discounted painting at https://www.paintyourlife.com Get Your Vesper! use code COCKTALES for a free engraving! https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/ To work with or advertise with CockTales podcast please send an email to cocktales.atl@gmail.com for promo rates and all other inquiries. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hey y'all! This episode we have Kiki from Cocktales joining us and discuss sending subliminal to your friends online, I'm in your city texts, FaceTime sex and more! Follow Kiki on all social @kikisaidso and check out her podcast Cocktales https://www.betterhelp.com/pourminds for your counseling needs Use https://www.headspace.com/pourminds for your 1 month free trail! Start meditating and sleeping better! Order your tushy and get 10% off plus free shipping! https://www.hellotushy.com/PourMinds
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In the episode, we're reminiscing on yesterday as we get you ready for Season 4! A few snippets from Season 1, 2, and 3 that are funny AND highly relatable to the things that we'll be discussing in Season 4. So catch up on our past and stay tuned for what's to come. Follow us on IG: http://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallyunfiltered Email us your stories that you want advice, opinions, or discussions on: UnapologeticallyATL@gmail.com
This week we're talking to Madam Carmen, a dominatrix in Houston! Follow Us Online IG @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Twitter @kikisaidso @medinah_monroe @cocktalesatl Join Our Patreon! New bonus episodes will release every Monday! www.patreon.com/cocktales Visit www.adameve.com and use code COCKTALES for 50% off Medinah has new guided sessions as well as some spicy new sexy stories! Click the link for a FREE 30 DAY TRIAL! http://dipseastories.com/medinah Pre-Order Your copy of Kiki's cookbook "Klassy Baste" here: shorturl.at/ANRXY Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club here: www.patreon.com/Kikisaidso
Ashley of www.sexwithashley.com joins us this week. We're discussing orgasms, riding, and of course...WAP! For all promos check below! Check out our guest on all social media platforms @sexwithashley Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Our Patreon! New bonus episodes will release every Monday! www.patreon.com/cocktales Visit www.adameve.com and use code COCKTALES for 50% off Visit www.trydashing.com to book your beauty professional without having to leave your home! www.nativedeo.com and use code COCKTALES Medinah has new guided sessions as well as some spicy new sexy stories! Click the link for a FREE 30 DAY TRIAL! http://dipseastories.com/medinah Pre-Order Your copy of Kiki's cookbook "Klassy Baste" here: shorturl.at/ANRXY Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club here: www.patreon.com/Kikisaidso
I know we shouldn't have so many updates....but we do! Catch up time Check out bonus content plus a live chat with our patrons on 5/28/20 www.patreon.com/cocktales Check Us Out on IG @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebean Shop She Orgasms and use code KIKISAIDSO at www.sheorgasms.com
This week Kiki (@kikisaidso), one of the hosts of the podcast Cocktales: Dirty Discussions, joins Virginia and Taylor in a discussion about their dating standards. They talk about how their standards have changed over the years, if they’ve gotten higher or lower, their current dating situations, going through phones the RIGHT way, advise a listener that’s being fantasy-shamed & MORE. If you’d like to send in a letter to be read anonymously during our UNANSWERED segment, send them in to UnratedUnruly@gmail.com OR DM them to us @UnratedUnruly on Instagram. LIKE OUR GUEST? FOLLOW/LISTEN TO THEM!IG: @KikiSaidSoTwitter: @KikiSaidSoCocktales: Dirty Discussions Podcast: @CocktalespodcastWatch them on YouTube too!! SOCIAL MEDIAFB/Twitter/IG: @UnratedUnrulyVirginia: @LovelyVirginiaTaylor: @Taybionda
We don't know lol Get your she orgasms at www.sheorgasms.com and use code KIKISAIDSO for $10 off! If you'd like to advertise or collab with us please email us at cocktales.atl@gmail.com
This week we're joined by @kikisaidso and @coffeebeandean Of CockTales: Dirty Discussions to discuss relationships, friendships, mama/daddy issues, and Dr. Trill’s strong Atlanta accent. There’s a misconception that women rarely cheat and our guests give us the real on cheating. Can one person really fulfill all of your needs? Does everyone cheat in relationships? When is it okay to physically fight your friends? And how has our parental upbringing shaped us into the adults we are today? Tune in to explore these questions and more as our convo is funny and deep while sipping tequila and whiskey CockTales. Connect with us: IG: @UnapologeticallyUnfiltered Facebook: Unapologetically Unfiltered Podcast Twitter: @BTLofTheSexes Email: UnapologeticallyATL@gmail.com
This week we are joined by @KiKiSaidSo, 1/2 of the @CocktalesPodcast to discuss the naked truths and pretty lies that we tell in relationships and sex. Do you lie more to the person you care about or care less about? Have you ever told the truth about bad sex in the midst of having sex? Who handles the truth better- who lies the most- men or women? Be sure to follow us on IG @unapologeticallyunfiltered, FB- Unapologetically Unfiltered Podcast, Twitter @BTLofTheSexes, and hit us up via e-mail UnapologeticallyATL@gmail.com
Welcome back pretty bitches and ugly hoes! We are back with season two of the Typical Tea Podcast and when we tell you we are coming back with FIRE...I MEAN THAT SHIT! Bigger guest, better content, funnier tea time stories. Not only that, we were fortunate enough to have the one and only @kikisaidso of the infamous Cocktales podcast which can also be streamed on Apple, SoundCloud and Spotify. Also, don't forget to get your tickets for the Cocktales live show right here in Houston, TX on September 14th. Don't meet us there, beat us there! Make sure you tune in to get your daily dose of TEA! WE'RE BACK BITCHES!!!
Mandi B’s in search of a sugar daddy, but will her leg braces and Charleston Chews hold her back? Raw Dog updates the world on whether or not his masturbation video went viral and Tay paid a kid to chew his tongue until it bled. What is wrong with our co-hosts? KikiSaidSo from the Cocktales … Continue reading "S2 19 | Sugar Daddies, Leg Braces and Charleston Chews"
On this episode we explore the psyche of a successful single women. Listen as we sit down with @kikisaidso( the creator and co host of CockTales Podcast).
"Black women talk too much and don't know when to shut up sometimes" "Black men only spend their money in the clubs, not on real dates" "Black men have commitment issues" We've all been guilty of generalizing people whether it's good or bad. This week we bring on @iamjerrod of The Commission to tackle stereotypes between black men and women and dating in Atlanta. @Briisthename and @Summerrose702 stuck around for this one too. It gets real! Follow the crew! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Remember to rate, review, subscribe, and leave a comment! Contact us for advice, bachelor submissions, cocktales, and advertising at cocktales.atl@gmail.com And check out the new content on our sites! www.KikiSaidSo.com www.medinahmonroe.com
What happens when we link up with Weezy from the Whoreible Decisions podcast??? Well we start off with a cocktail that will leave you on your a$$, unicorns, pegging, and threeway relationships! This is a wild one, you've been warned. Submit your sexy bachelor friends to cocktales.atl@gmail.com so we can bring the segment back! Follow our guest Weezy at @weezywtf on Instagram and check out her podcast "Whoreible Decisions" with her cohost Mandii B @fullcourtpumps Follow Us IG @cocktalespodcast @KikiSaidSo @coffeebeandean Twitter @cocktalesatl @KikiSaidSo @medinah_monroe If you're interested in advertising or need a copy of our media kit, contact cocktales.atl@gmail.com
Has your self-esteem ever taken a turn for the worst? Have you been in dating situations that left you insecure? You're not alone, Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe discuss self esteem highs and lows this week. Check out our sponsors! Mailform- mailform.io Limitless Bundles- Use code KIKISAIDSO for $20 off Follow Us on Instagram @cocktalespodcast @KikiSaidSo @coffeebeandean Follow Us On Twitter @cocktalesatl @kikisaidso @medinah_monroe And check out our websites www.KikiSaidSo.com www.MedinahMonroe.com Last but not least, if you're interested in working with us please email us at cocktales.atl@gmail.com. You can also see some of our ad offerings on AdvertiseCast.
Can't believe we've been at this for over a year!!! Thanks for the support. Today we talk about the show's growth as well as our personal growth, whether Kiki is still out here single and confused and Medinah Monroe shares just how much she loves her man. Plus, Ma$e tried to holla and Kiki literally got her wig snatched. Check out our sponsors! www.Mailform.io use code "COCKTALES" @limitless_bundles_ www.limitlessbundles.com Use code "KIKISAIDSO" for $20 off Follow us at @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean contact us at cocktales.atl@gmail.com
Why can't we be young forever? Because we'd be dumb forever. Big announcements this week! Plus, United is TRASH, road trips are best with crazy friends and crazier men, and nice cars aren't always driven by good people. Let's all thank God we're not as dumb as were 5 years ago. Follow Us! Kiki @KikiSaidSo Medinah Monroe @CoffeeBeanDean CockTales: @cocktalespodcast Check out our Patreon page, you can find the link on Kiki's new site, www.KikiSaidSo.com Follow @normelebrity_project "Supporting people we know the way we support celebrities" Try HelloFresh with the code "COCKTAL" for $40 off your first week of meals
This week Melanie joins the ladies to talk about her obsession with blush, the influx of assholes, and why men here try so hard. Follow our guest @somelanie And the crew @KikiSaidSo @coffeeebeandean @TVHost4You @delaneyallday_ Submit your advice and any advertising inquiries to cocktales.atl@gmail.com
Supporting your significant other without being a b*tch is hard, and sometimes you need to let him know you don't like those runny ass eggs. And other times it's way deeper than that. Actor Carlos Aviles breaks down why it's okay to be sensitive towards your woman, how to criticize your man, and drops a few more gems. Medinah Monroe is getting to go under the knife. Shayla Raye is still figuring out life as a MILF And guess who's still single! -Kiki Follow our guest @carlos_aviles_ And the crew @KikiSaidSo @coffeeebeandean @TVHost4You @delaneyallday_ Submit your advice and any advertising inquiries to cocktales.atl@gmail.com
In a world fueled by likes, followers and instant gratification we sometimes lose sight of what we really want in life and find ourselves living for others. But why? This episode we explore if and why we care so much what other people think. As usual, the ladies may surprise you. Follow us all @KikiSaidSo @coffeebeandean @TVHost4You @cocktalespodcast Follow us @cocktalespodcast for details on the One Love 1 Mic showcase and how to win tickets. Download LYFT and use code "KIKIANDSHAYLA" Join us in the race to end homelessness at race.atlantamission.org
No Girlfriends Allowed!!! This week, the ladies invite author of "No Girlfriends Allowed" Marcia Alene to enjoy a nice cocktail and have a little girl talk about how no one really has a concrete answer on what a girlfriend is and why we're all trying to be one. What's the point? What are the rules? Is this really the right fit for me? Hmmm...take a listen as we discuss this, celibacy, struggling with celibacy, and how to cut him off! Get your copy of Marcia Alene's book "No Girlfriends Allowed" at www.NoGirlfriendsAllowed.com Join us along with Atlanta Mission to raise money and awareness for Atlanta's homeless. Visit race.atlantamission.org to join our team CockTales Podcast or to make a donation. Visit Josephine Lounge on Buford Hwy in Atlanta for The R&B edition of One Love One Mic. Tickets are $10, contact @onelove1mic for tickets. Be sure to follow us at @cocktalespodcast @KikiSaidSo @coffeebeandean @TVHost4You and our guest @nogirlfriendsallowed Subscribe, Rate and Review!
This week the ladies dive deep into what a hoe is and if it's actually a bad thing. Medinah and Shayla Raye have similar ideas about what makes someone a hoe, while Kiki has a very different idea. Remember to check out our sponsors! Sign up to run the Atlanta Mission's 5k with us or just donate! Just search for the CockTales Podcast team at race.atlantamission.org Be sure to follow Kiki on instagram @KikiSaidSo to find out where you can purchase your R&B Night tickets @KikiSaidSo @Coffeebeandean @TVHost4You @cocktalespodcast Contact us at cocktales.atl@gmail.com