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In this special bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a heartfelt conversation on the many ways people discover, protect, and reclaim their personal power. 00:00 The episode opens with reflections on what power means and how it shapes growth. 02:54 The discussion moves into the journey of finding personal power, before exploring 05:45 the role financial independence plays in building confidence and autonomy. 08:41 Mandii and her guests unpack self-love and body confidence, while 12:04 dives into navigating relationship expectations in a modern dating landscape. 14:53 They discuss the importance of honesty in dating, followed by 17:43 powerful personal stories of overcoming abuse. 20:33 The group reflects on how past relationships can leave lasting marks, leading into 23:57 an examination of emotional and psychological abuse. 26:39 The conversation shifts to empowerment through self-discovery, and 29:40emphasizes the importance of creating your own narrative. From there, 32:22 they address the nonlinear nature of healing, 35:33 the role of community and support in that process, and 38:26 how embracing change can be a catalyst for growth. 41:23 The group highlights the power of self-reflection, before 44:41 redefining success and happiness on one’s own terms. Finally, 47:17 the episode closes with future aspirations and reminders that the journey to empowerment is deeply personal, yet universally resonant. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by actress Giovonnie Samuels and rapper Sy Ari to unpack the layered relationship between self-worth and market value across entertainment, sports, and media. The conversation kicks off with a distinction between personal value and perceived value in professional spaces (02:37), touching on the importance of negotiating with clarity and intention—whether you’re in a boardroom or on a basketball court. From there, the trio dives deep into the realities of contracts (16:55), the cultural and economic factors behind the WNBA's ongoing pay disparities (36:01), and the larger systems that define how labor is valued in male-dominated industries like sports and music (52:20). They also explore how cultural impact often doesn't align with compensation (54:37), especially as new dynamics like NIL deals reshape college sports (56:55). The discussion expands to Joe Budden’s controversial business approach (59:42), the evolving economics of podcasting and creator-led media (01:03:23), and what fair pay looks like for creatives (01:09:21). In the latter half, Mandii and guests shed light on residuals for TV actors (01:17:40), the historic exploitation of child actors (01:23:51), and why knowing your worth—and demanding it—is an act of survival in an industry that rarely plays fair (01:29:50). “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@only1giovonnie @syaridakidFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes you on a deeply personal journey through sexual liberation, self-reflection, and the evolving dynamics of love. She begins by discussing what personal progression looks like beyond appearances [00:00], before unpacking the emotional layers of shame, regret, and how they fuel growth [02:57]. The conversation dives into the interplay of money, sex, and self-worth, exploring how transactional relationships shaped her self-perception [05:49], and the emotional complexity behind romantic entanglements and blurred boundaries [08:44]. Mandii reflects on past choices that once carried guilt but now serve as milestones of learning[11:59]. She candidly shares her experience as a side chick [14:51] and how it informed her understanding of love, betrayal, and resilience [17:47]. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength as she explores how openness can lead to empowerment[20:43], especially when revisiting the imprint of past relationships [23:41]. Through stories of heartbreak [26:34] and hard-earned lessons about the role money plays in intimacy [29:10], Mandii moves toward a place of self-acceptance and grace [32:13]. She emphasizes the power of setting boundaries in romantic and personal growth [35:08], and navigates the nuanced realities of non-monogamous dynamics [37:42]. The episode closes with a reflective chapter on loss, letting go, and the love that remains after the end [40:53]—reminding listeners that healing, though messy, is also transformational. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B alongside Jayson Rodriguez and A-King explore the sweeping impact of artificial intelligence on our daily lives. The conversation begins with an overview of AI's rapid evolution and influence across industries[00:00], followed by reflections on recent current events and the collective processing of death [02:50]. The hosts then navigate the nuances of workplace relationships and the importance of setting boundaries [06:10]. They shift into a debate around the controversial “T App” and its implications on dating and digital consent [09:02], before unpacking how AI is reshaping everything from communication to creative work [11:52]. The discussion widens to examine the future of autonomous vehicles and what it means for transportation as we know it [41:25], including a closer look at how automation is changing customer service experiences [46:49]. The collective also dives into AI’s role in consumer pricing, surveillance capitalism, and corporate accountability[53:16], and questions how political lobbying is influencing AI regulation and public policy [57:36]. In the final stretch, they explore AI’s presence in the music industry and whether it can ever replicate true human connection[01:02:44], closing out with a reflection on capitalism, automation, and the existential anxiety that often comes with technological advancement [01:20:05]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this emotionally layered bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a courageous conversation around the realities of sexual exploration, trauma, and the path to healing. With vulnerability at the forefront, the discussion leans into the complicated truths of consent, abortion, and sexual assault, centering personal stories as both testimony and release. [00:00] The episode opens with a raw unpacking of the emotional and physical consequences that can come with early sexual exploration, including how societal pressures and lack of proper education shape formative experiences. [19:52] The conversation shifts toward the topic of abortion, with the hosts reflecting on how personal choice is often weighed down by shame, judgment, and unspoken grief. [32:28] Childhood memories and family dynamics are revisited, illuminating how early emotional environments influence later relationships, self-worth, and personal boundaries. [35:48] The topic of abortion returns through the lens of cultural and societal expectations, calling out the stigmas that persist and the silence they impose. [37:52] The discussion deepens with an unflinching look at the impact of sexual assault and the long shadow it can cast, exploring how trauma affects intimacy, trust, and identity. [48:45] As the episode closes, the conversation comes full circle—examining how childhood wounds, both seen and unseen, often reemerge in adult relationships, and how acknowledging those wounds is the first step toward healing. At its core, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing is nonlinear, often messy, but always possible. Through open dialogue, self-reflection, and empathy, Selective Ignorance offers a safe space for reclaiming power, rewriting narratives, and finding strength in the process. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by returning guest Jason "Jah" Lee to examine the shifting media landscape in an age where entertainment and information constantly blur. Together, they unpack the complexities of new media’s rise and its disruptive effect on traditional journalism, while spotlighting the evolving roles of media personalities. [00:00] The conversation opens with a look at how new media has reshaped the delivery and consumption of news, especially in communities of color. [02:23] As the hosts navigate the current chaos of information, they question how audiences filter through noise and discern truth. [08:45] Jah reflects on his own journey in media, offering perspective on how careers in the field have evolved—from newsroom standards to platform-driven influence. [14:43] They explore the tensions between accountability and audience demand, particularly in the overlap between media and celebrity culture. [21:34] The duo dives into the power of headlines, clickbait, and how virality often outweighs accuracy in shaping public opinion. [36:45] They touch on the battle for attention across social media, and how algorithmic trends impact not only what we see, but how we feel. [38:42] The Diddy trial becomes a case study, sparking conversation about media coverage, editorial choices, and public perception. [42:14] From there, the dialogue expands to the changing standards of journalism, asking whether objectivity still matters—or ever did. [45:46] Mandii and Jah reflect on how people consume content today, and how much responsibility lies with the audience versus the creators. [49:45] The concept of attention as a new form of currency is explored, with virality being the measure of influence rather than credibility. [54:15] They also consider how identity plays into the creation and reception of media, especially when physical appearance or charisma skews the audience's trust. [01:00:39] As they round out the discussion, they assess how creators navigate the ever-changing media terrain, balancing truth, impact, and engagement. **[01:04:36] The episode closes with a critical question: In a time of memes, reels, and TikToks—**what actually defines media today? And are we consuming to be informed or simply entertained? “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B turns the spotlight on the pleasure chapter of her book, No Holes Bared, opening up a candid and empowering conversation about the importance of pleasure education—especially for women navigating a world full of mixed messages around sex and self-worth. [00:00] The episode kicks off with a deep dive into what pleasure education really means, why it's often overlooked, and how reclaiming that knowledge can be transformative. Mandii reflects on her own journey, offering personal stories about her upbringing and how early relationships shaped her views on intimacy and self-acceptance. [13:01] As she unpacks the challenges of early adulthood, Mandii speaks openly about learning to prioritize her own needs, emotionally and physically, in relationships. [27:11] The conversation turns to self-pleasure and sexual exploration, emphasizing the role these experiences play in developing confidence, body autonomy, and emotional clarity. [27:41] A moment of unexpected connection leads into a broader discussion on safety and trust, especially when trying new things. [28:10] Mandii shares how learning to set boundaries helped her feel empowered, not only in intimate moments but in life at large. [29:57] The episode explores how past relationships can influence future choices, highlighting the ways personal growth often stems from heartbreak and healing. [31:34] Mandii breaks down what it really means to “shoot your shot”, revealing how confidence, fear of rejection, and vulnerability all play a part in pursuing what (or who) you want. [35:40] The conversation expands into sexual liberation, exploring the delicate balance between exploration and setting personal boundaries. [41:19] Mandii contextualizes these experiences within cultural norms, especially the stigmas that often shape women’s understanding of pleasure and sexuality. [47:20] The episode closes with reflections on how relationships—romantic, platonic, and with oneself—continue to evolve, and how embracing pleasure, in all its forms, is a key part of that growth. This episode is a personal and powerful reminder that pleasure is not just about sex—it’s about agency, curiosity, healing, and joy. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B dives into the often polarizing and deeply personal topic of politics within the Black community. [00:00] The episode begins by framing the conversation around the growing alignment with Republican ideologies, setting the stage for an honest exploration of what’s behind these shifting political identities. [02:51] The hosts unpack the tension many Black voters feel—caught between traditional party loyalties and dissatisfaction with how their needs have been addressed. [06:11] Guests Carla Will Maris and Ray Daniels join the conversation, bringing their own experiences and perspectives on what it means to claim a political identity in today’s climate. [08:48] A spirited debate unfolds around personal responsibility and the impact of supporting certain policies, with each speaker challenging assumptions and raising hard questions about where values and interests intersect. [11:47] The discussion moves into the terrain of trans rights and gender identity, exploring how these issues have become lightning rods in political discourse and what real allyship requires. [14:56] The hosts consider the role of media in shaping public perception, examining how narratives are constructed—and manipulated—to sway opinions and reinforce division. [17:45] Abortion and women’s rights take center stage next, with an honest look at the stakes for marginalized communities when reproductive freedom is politicized. [20:56] The conversation broadens to the intersection of race, gender, and politics, unpacking how layered identities shape not only individual beliefs but also the collective priorities of the Black community. Finally, [23:47] reflections on the importance of civic engagement and understanding diverse perspectives, even—and especially—when they challenge our own. This episode is a reminder that political alignment is never just about party lines. It’s about history, identity, and the courage to wrestle with uncomfortable truths in search of progress. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@carlawilmaris @raydaniels Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by music journalist Jayson Rodriguez and cultural curator A-King for a deep, soulful dive into the world of R&B. [00:00] The conversation kicks off with a look at R&B’s cultural impact, tracing how the genre has served as both a mirror and a balm for generations of listeners. [03:08] The trio explores the evolution of R&B within the music industry, from its gospel and soul roots to its intersections with pop and hip-hop. They reflect on [06:01] what truly defines R&B, arguing that the emotional depth, lived experience, and vulnerability in the music are what make it timeless. [08:48] The discussion shifts to the role of media in shaping R&B’s visibility, and how the genre’s presence has changed on major platforms. From there, they break down [12:07] today’s R&B landscape, spotlighting emerging artists, and asking whether the genre is truly experiencing a renaissance—or if it’s still fighting for space. [15:00] Hip-hop’s influence on R&B comes into focus, both as a source of collaboration and creative tension. [17:48] Nostalgia enters the chat as the group reminisces about classic sounds, beloved groups, and the feeling that something essential has been lost in the transition to modern trends. [20:40] They dig into the evolution of vocal standards, noting how raw vocal ability has often taken a back seat to aesthetics and production polish. That leads into [23:53] a conversation about the challenges and opportunities shaping R&B’s future—from streaming culture to label support and artist independence. The episode doesn’t shy away from nuance. [38:47] They unpack the shift from "thug love" to hyper-masculinity in male R&B, questioning what this means for intimacy and expression. [42:29] The aesthetic evolution of artists—from fashion to persona—gets its own spotlight, while [44:24] nostalgia and critiques of the genre’s supposed "decline" add further layers to the dialogue. [50:20] The conversation turns to women in R&B, debating whether they're thriving or still being boxed in by industry expectations. As the energy rises, the group shares their dream lineups for [54:36] future R&B tours and collaborations, imagining what a curated revival could look like. To wrap things up, they discuss [01:00:29] the legacy of R&B through the lens of underrated and overrated albums, and [01:09:26] share their predictions and hopes for the future of the genre—highlighting artists to watch, sonic shifts on the horizon, and the timeless power of R&B when done right. This episode is a love letter, a critique, and a call to action for anyone who’s ever had their heart healed by a hook or a harmony. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Selective Ignorance, Welcome To Black Effect! Mandii B invites listeners into her world with a personal look at the journey behind her new book. [00:00] The episode opens with a candid introduction and book promotion, where Mandy shares the inspiration behind the project and the mission she hopes it will accomplish. [02:22] She revisits the purpose of the podcast itself, and the podcast officially joining the Black Effect Podcast Network emphasizing her commitment to challenging conventional thinking and sparking honest dialogue. [04:48] Mandy talks about the challenges she faced launching the book, including moments of underestimation and the lessons learned about standing firm in her truth despite outside noise. The conversation then shifts in tone as she recounts [08:10] her experiences traveling through the South of France, blending reflections on self-discovery with stories about cultural encounters and personal growth. The episode introduces [19:35] a brand new segment, “Double Down or Take It Back,” where Mandy revisits her own past opinions and decides whether she still stands by them or has changed her perspective. This honest exercise in self-accountability sets the tone for the deeper topics that follow. [29:21] The discussion moves into a powerful exploration of sexual assault and consent, where Mandy and her team unpack how societal norms often fail survivors and protect those in power. They examine the importance of clear boundaries, the role of culture in shaping perceptions of consent, and why accountability must be more than a buzzword. [39:19] The conversation continues with a look at accountability in relationships, focusing on how both partners must own their part in unhealthy patterns while working toward healing. Mandy shares insights on how personal experiences have shaped her views and how growth often requires facing uncomfortable truths. Toward the close, [52:47] the episode broadens into political commentary, with Mandy weighing in on current events and cultural shifts happening in real time. Finally, [01:10:58] she offers predictions about the unfolding Diddy trial, reflecting on the complicated intersections of celebrity culture, power, and public perception. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod This episode is a mix of personal storytelling, cultural critique, and thought-provoking analysis—inviting listeners to challenge what they believe and consider where they stand.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B is now on The Black Effect Podcast Network. New episodes dropping every Tuesday. Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by personality, podcaster, and Atlanta transplant Sy Ari Da Kid for a spirited, sometimes ignorant—but always intentional—debate on the cultural divide between the North and the South, specifically New York and Atlanta. The conversation unpacks everything from fashion, food, and regional etiquette to politics, gun laws, and religion, all through a lens of lived experience. The hosts challenge one another on cultural bias, safety, and identity, while drawing bold comparisons between figures like Jay-Z, Martin Luther King Jr., and Pop Smoke. With A-King and Jason Rodriguez weighing in, the crew ultimately attempts to settle the score on which region has had the greatest impact on the culture. It's hilarious, heated, and honest. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@syaridakidWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

In this introspective and candid episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B turns the spotlight on the often uncomfortable—but necessary—conversation around accountability in relationships. Specifically, she explores the ways women sometimes overlook glaring red flags in pursuit of love, security, or validation, and how societal expectations can blur the lines between empathy and accountability.The episode begins with [00:00] an overview of accountability and relationship choices, inviting listeners to reflect on how early influences and personal history shape who we love—and why. [02:51] Mandii breaks down what red flags actually look like, why they're often ignored, and how our desire for connection can cloud our judgment. [06:02] The conversation shifts to how men and women pursue love differently, highlighting the pressures women face to “make it work,” even when the odds are against them.Then, at [09:06] Mandii unpacks manipulation in dating, particularly the subtle financial and emotional tactics that can create long-term harm. Using [12:00] current events involving Skai Jackson and Halle Bailey, Mandii examines how the public reacts to young women in the spotlight choosing partners who may not be ideal—and how those reactions often lack the nuance and compassion real healing requires.[15:02] The complexity of young love is laid bare, alongside [17:57] the challenge of balancing empathy for someone's circumstances with accountability for their choices. Mandii explores [20:48] how age and experience change our perspective, making it easier to spot patterns and avoid repeating mistakes. In a refreshing turn, [23:53] the show takes a moment to celebrate healthy and unexpected love stories, like those of Cardi B and Stefon Diggs, before returning to [27:09] the individual journey of healing, therapy, and growth that precedes real connection.By [34:51] the episode dives into emotional triggers, self-awareness, and the role of past traumas in how we show up in relationships. Mandii reflects deeply on [37:53] the societal narratives placed on women, especially around responsibility for making relationships work, and the burden of emotional labor. [40:38] Financial manipulation and power dynamics are explored next, emphasizing how money can be used as both bait and weapon in modern dating. That leads into [43:54] an honest discussion about the consequences of ignoring warning signs, even when they're flashing bright red.[50:53] Mandii shares personal experiences and stories of growth, laying out the uncomfortable but necessary truth: healing often requires accountability—not just for others, but for ourselves. Finally, [01:04:52] the episode closes on a hopeful note, reflecting on the human desire to be loved and how true fulfillment starts with self-completion, not partnership. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@carlawilmarisWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

In this powerful and necessary conversation on Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by special guest Jason "Jah" Lee (Bossip, CNN) alongside A-King and Jayson Rodriguez take a close look at the ongoing Diddy trial and the broader conversations it has sparked around consent, abuse, and accountability—especially when wealth and celebrity are involved. The episode opens with a personal [00:00] introduction and book announcement, a quick recap of the Joey Bada$$ vs. The West Coast rap battle before diving into [02:48] the public perception surrounding the allegations against Diddy. Mandii explores how narratives are shaped by media coverage, and the often unfair scrutiny survivors face compared to their abusers. From there, the conversation moves into [05:53] the role of consent in relationships, with a clear and honest discussion on how power dynamics complicate the idea of choice. [08:55] Cassie's testimony becomes a central focus, prompting a larger reflection on the emotional toll of sharing traumatic experiences in the public eye.The episode continues with a critical look at [12:08] how wealth and status can insulate abusers from accountability, and [15:04] the difficult conversations around victimhood, responsibility, and survival. Mandii also delves into [17:58] the gray areas of kink, coercion, and consent misunderstandings, pushing back on society's tendency to oversimplify complex situations.The discussion takes a cultural turn with [20:45] a look at the broader repercussions of abuse in our communities, including [24:01] how gender plays a major role in how victims are viewed and treated. Mandii reflects on [27:13] how society must do more to protect survivors, not silence them. As the conversation deepens, the episode explores [29:58] the need for self-reflection, compassion, and cultural change. It then transitions to [39:19] how apologies and accountability are often performative, especially in the spotlight, and [42:07] how misogyny continues to shape the perception of women in these narratives.Mandii and the team unpack [45:08] the toxic impact of celebrity culture, [52:51] how jealousy plays into relationships, and [59:15] the public's ongoing obsession with fame, asking how it distorts our values and responses to harm. The episode closes with [01:03:25] a forward-looking discussion on what real justice and accountability could look like, both in the court of law and in our everyday lives.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@mrhiphopobamaWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

In this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her producers A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a thought-provoking and often humorous conversation that ventures into the world of conspiracy theories, cultural mistrust, and the broader impact of cancel culture. Kicking things off with reflections from the audience and personal anecdotes (00:00, 08:06), the discussion quickly takes a deeper turn as they explore how conspiracy theories have historically — and often deliberately — targeted Black communities (09:04). From the trauma of the Tuskegee experiment to the controversial response to Hurricane Katrina and the narratives around 9/11 (17:10), Mandii and the crew unpack why many remain skeptical of mainstream narratives. They take a closer look at the role of the alleged secret societies in shaping political power and influence (28:26), and examine how alleged rituals, sacrifices, and elite memberships have fueled pop culture paranoia (29:04). Drawing connections between sci-fi themes and real-world suspicion, the group explores whether what we've accepted as fact — from space travel to artificial intelligence — may have layers yet to be uncovered (32:21, 35:18, 38:13). The episode also delves into modern theories around COVID-19, population control, and how the internet has amplified conspiratorial thinking (42:13, 45:36). With pop culture increasingly blurring the lines between speculation and reality, Mandii questions how much of what we consume is designed to inform—and how much is meant to manipulate (48:21). As the conversation closes, they examine the intersection of wealth, power, and scandal (52:07), asking whether today's public figures are truly victims of cancel culture or architects of their own downfall. With curiosity, humor, and a healthy dose of skepticism, this episode invites listeners to explore not just what they believe—but why they believe it. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a candid, insightful conversation that tackles the persistent myths and societal pressures women face as they approach and cross the age of 30 (00:00). Joined by joined by special guests Lex P (Pour Minds), KikiSaidSo, and KillahBee, who speak from both personal experience and cultural observation, the episode explores how outdated timelines around career success, marriage, and motherhood continue to shape expectations—often creating unnecessary stress and self-doubt (07:36). The discussion challenges the idea that turning 30 signals a decline in beauty, value, or opportunity, and instead reframes it as a time of growth, clarity, and empowerment (14:31, 18:53). From navigating family expectations and breaking free of traditional gender roles (14:31), to redefining romantic partnerships in an era where women are increasingly financially independent (29:03, 39:55), the conversation highlights how modern women are rewriting the rules. Mandii and her guests unpack how financial freedom shifts relationship dynamics (44:34), why prenups are becoming essential tools of empowerment (44:34), and why real connection should matter more than status or security (34:42). They also open up about fears around aging and fertility (18:53, 47:17), offering affirming perspectives on how to embrace each phase of life with grace and power. Wrapping up with heartfelt advice to their younger selves, the conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, self-worth, and financial literacy (56:36)—reminding listeners that the journey is theirs to define, no matter what the world says.“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@lex_p_@kikisaidso@thekillahbeeWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by journalist and cultural commentator Dometi Pongo for a thoughtful and timely conversation about the shifting meaning of the American Dream (00:00). Together, they examine how societal promises of success have evolved—especially for younger generations—and how factors like student debt, economic disparity, and generational trauma have made the traditional path to "making it" feel more like a myth than a milestone (10:00). They discuss how poverty is experienced and perceived in America compared to other parts of the world (29:55), and how hustle culture and the pursuit of titles can often mask deeper feelings of discontent (20:06, 40:03). Throughout the episode, Mandii and Dometi dissect the weight of societal expectations (41:57), question the true value of college degrees, and explore how individuals—especially those from marginalized communities—can reclaim the narrative by defining success on their own terms (57:05). They emphasize the power of community, shared responsibility (45:18), and cultural awareness in reshaping how we view ambition, purpose, and personal fulfillment (49:22). With honesty, wit, and insight, this episode offers a refreshing take on what it means to thrive in today's world—without losing yourself chasing someone else's dream.“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guest: IG:@dometi_Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

In this episode, Mandii B and the Selective Ignorance crew recap the first quarter of 2025 with reflections on her upcoming book tour for 'No Holes Barred' (00:00), listener feedback, and key cultural and political moments from January through March. She discusses the fallout from Trump's inauguration and the widespread impact of the LA fires (20:00), urging compassion in a time marked by growing indifference (30:07). The conversation shifts to unusual drone sightings (36:45), Kendrick Lamar's Grammy wins and Super Bowl performance (38:09), and his ongoing rivalry with Drake (39:45). Mandii also unpacks Kanye West's controversial place in pop culture (42:55), the influence of celebrity relationships on public opinion (46:35), and standout moments from March (50:50), including a humorous look at the month's most outlandish headlines (01:03:15). The episode closes with bold predictions and cultural insights for the month ahead (01:05:47), all framed through the lens of society's ongoing struggle with empathy and selective ignorance.“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Mandii B and special guest Ish (Joe Budden Podcast) dive into generational wealth, Black consumerism, and the ethical side of building and managing money (00:00). The host and guest unpack the pros and cons of home ownership vs. renting (02:50), the importance of financial literacy (06:03), and the potential impact of reparations on wealth distribution (08:54). They examine the role of billionaires in society (12:03), why education is key to managing wealth (15:11), and how home ownership can be a powerful tool for building long-term financial stability (18:09). The conversation highlights the challenges of promoting financial literacy within the Black community (21:08), along with reflections on early money lessons and their lasting impact (34:13). They debate the growing wealth gap between millionaires and billionaires (35:34), address the ethics of extreme wealth (39:43), and explore the cultural attitudes that shape how money is viewed and discussed (42:54). With an emphasis on personal responsibility and collective empowerment, this episode encourages open conversations about money (52:41) and stresses the importance of education and accountability in securing a more financially informed future (01:00:05).Follow the Guest: IG:@thatsthatishWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B and special guests Syd and Reeezy (MESS Podcast) the hosts sit down for a layered conversation about privilege—what it looks like, who has it, and how it shows up in ways we may not always notice. From the jump, they offer a fresh perspective on privilege (02:51) and unpack the hierarchy of privilege (05:57) that exists in our society. They get into pretty privilege (08:47) and how it intersects with body image (11:58), before expanding the convo to include sexual orientation (15:05) and geographic privilege (17:56)—acknowledging how where you live can impact your access and experience. From there, the dialogue moves to educational privilege and its impact (21:09), and the ways race plays into privilege (24:00), especially in media representation (26:54). The crew highlights the double standards that exist within these privileges (30:10) and reflect on how they show up day-to-day. They continue with a breakdown of male privilege (32:48) and explore how safety is perceived differently depending on race and gender (35:07). The convo also gives space to women's privileges and societal expectations (36:50), as well as the double-edged sword of pretty privilege (39:20)—how it helps in some ways and hurts in others. The group unpacks intersectionality and how privilege tests overlap (43:49), before diving into “woke” privilege and its role in activism and corporate spaces (46:57). They also touch on the often-overlooked privilege of articulation and effective communication (50:14), and the emotional weight behind male expectations (55:56). The episode closes with a final reflection on the hierarchy of privileges (01:00:31) and the importance of understanding how they all play a part in shaping our lives.Follow the Guest: IG:@justSydBw@Reeezy@oohmessWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Is marriage still the goal—or has the goal changed?In this thought-provoking episode of Selective Igonorance, Mandii B sits down with seasoned dating and relationship coach Alison (Align With Alison) to unpack how modern views on marriage are shifting, especially for successful women. Kicking things off at [00:00 – The Evolution of Marriage], they explore the roots of the institution and how its purpose has transformed over time. By [03:15 – Challenging Traditional Views on Marriage], the conversation starts pushing back on long-held beliefs, asking if tying the knot still holds the same weight in today's world. As the discussion deepens, they reflect on [07:41 – The Value of Commitment in Relationships], highlighting what it really means to choose someone—and how that commitment can show up in different ways. At [10:20 – Vetting Partners: The Key to Successful Relationships], the guest breaks down why being intentional about who you allow into your life is crucial. That leads to a candid look at [13:58 – Understanding the Risks of Marriage] and the realities people often overlook when love and legal contracts mix. They don't stop there. By [20:34 – Preparing for the Reality of Relationships], they're talking about the emotional, financial, and personal groundwork that needs to happen before anyone says “I do.” That naturally flows into [24:52 – Navigating Business Relationships and Personal Vetting], where they touch on how similar principles apply in both love and entrepreneurship. The conversation returns to romantic partnerships at [28:40 – Understanding Risks in Relationships and Marriage], and then zooms in on actionable steps during [30:36 – Financial Protection for Successful Women], where they break down how to be smart and secure without guilt or shame. At [32:24 – Societal Pressures on Women Regarding Marriage and Motherhood], the discussion turns personal, unpacking the weight women carry to “have it all” and what happens when they choose a different path. By [36:03 – Setting Boundaries and Defining Personal Value], they offer empowering advice on how to stand firm in your worth—no ring required. And finally, at [40:30 – Redefining Lasting Love Beyond Traditional Norms], they close the loop by asking: What does lasting love really look like when you write the rules yourself? Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode invites you to think beyond tradition—and lean into what's true for you.Follow the Guest: IG: @alignwithalisonwww.alignwithalisonWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and special guests Kazeem Famuyide (7pm In Brooklyn) and Kevin Clancey (Barstool Sports) take a deep dive into the layers of race, personal branding, and economics shaping the world of sports, with a spotlight on the WNBA and the rivalry between Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese. The conversation kicks off with The Problematic Nature of Race in Sports (00:00) before debating who truly represents the league's future (01:57). As we compare Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese (05:06), we examine how race and public perception influence their careers and media narratives. Beyond the rivalry, we explore The Economic Landscape of Women's Basketball (10:08) and how personal branding plays a crucial role in an athlete's success (11:31). The discussion expands to the broader impact of Race and Gender in Sports Narratives (16:19)—who gets to be the hero, and who is cast as the villain (20:19)? Shifting gears, we talk about the art of the game, from The Aesthetic Appeal of Athletic Performance (23:31) to the Ball family's undeniable influence on modern basketball (28:03). We also break down The Rise of Caitlin Clark (30:13) and the ever-present scrutiny of Controversial Athlete Behavior (31:34). The episode takes an unexpected yet hilarious turn into everyday struggles, including Airport Etiquette and Travel Experiences (36:10)—because let's be real, navigating TSA is a sport in itself. But we bring it back to the serious stuff, unpacking Accountability in Sports (46:26) and the role race plays in how we judge winners and losers (55:20). From the power of celebrity influence to the moral dilemmas of sports fandom, this episode pulls no punches. Tap in!Follow the Guest: IG: @kazeemIG: @kfcbarstoolWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B and co joined by special guest Raqi Thunda (NYT Times Best Seller, Armed With Good Intentions), dive into the realities of navigating corporate dynamics (03:09), particularly for women in media. They unpack the challenges of imposter syndrome and insecurities (09:05), the weight of entitlement in corporate settings (11:56), and the ever-evolving impact of social media on careers (05:59). As the conversation unfolds, they discuss the balancing act between family planning and career timing (18:03) and how corporate culture shapes employee expectations (20:50), often placing women under unique pressures. They reflect on their own experiences transitioning from corporate life to entrepreneurship (27:01), sharing the lessons learned along the way. The discussion takes a personal turn as they explore navigating grief while running a business (30:26) and the often-overlooked human element in the entertainment industry (33:18). They also examine the evolving discourse around women in media (39:54), the role of ego in creative partnerships (46:02), and how to maintain integrity in an industry that frequently prioritizes profit over people. Wrapping up, the hosts offer final reflections on corporate culture and personal integrity (57:11), leaving listeners with thought-provoking insights on career growth, resilience, and staying true to oneself. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guest: IG: @raqi_4realWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today's dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @passportcuttyIG: @mouse_jonesIG: @thatsthatishWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society's expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there's ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo's influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion's relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures.Follow the Guests: IG: @thekidmeroIG: @lizbellortizIG: @raineyorvalleWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B explores accountability and justice within the Black community and the broader criminal justice system. Joined by special guest Selena Hill (Black Enterprise) and Kenneth J. Montgomery (Criminal Defense Attorney), the discussion examines historical context, sentencing disparities, performative activism, and the role of education and community in addressing crime. The speakers also navigate the ideas of redemption, systemic issues, and the balance between personal beliefs and societal implications, ultimately calling for meaningful change toward a more equitable system. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @msselenahillIG: @kjmpllcWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and fellow podcaster Rory Farrell explore the complex relationship between art and the artist, the evolving landscape of hip-hop, and the blurred lines of hypocrisy in celebrity culture. They discuss accountability, the impact of social media on public perception, cancel culture, and the potential for redemption in the industry. The conversation also touches on fame, scandal, the differing treatment of rock stars and hip-hop artists, the intersection of politics and music, and the responsibility of artists and labels in shaping narratives.Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guest: IG @ThisIsRory Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance Podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public's beliefs by unpacking trending topics with educational comedy and quick wit hot takes. Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.

Mandi B, joined by special guest Antoinette from ‘Around The Way Curls' podcast, discuss the interplay between capitalism, “cancel culture”, and corporate greed. They unpack the challenges of being a conscious consumer in a capitalist society,  the impact of individual choices on community welfare and the importance of collective action to address systemic inequalities while also sharing their personal experiences with consumerism, service and much more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

On this debut episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B reflects on her recent move to Atlanta, the end of a partnership in podcasting and her new solo venture, 'Selective Ignorance'. Mandi discusses the importance of success, freedom, and the power of discourse, while also addressing criticism and the realities of the podcasting industry. The episode highlights the significance of community support, particularly for black businesses. Mandi also shares a wild and funny story about her transition from New York City to Atlanta, the challenges faced during the furniture delivery process, the cultural dynamics at play with the moving company and the expectations of service within the black community. The discussion evolves into a broader critique of black businesses and the need for accountability and more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public's beliefs by unpacking trending topics with comedic education and outlandish hot takes.Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.Watch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod

This is our final episode nieces and nephews!We love you all so so much and can't thank you enough for your support. To support us on our next endeavors:Follow @periodsis.tas to keep up with Period Sis the animated series! To stay updated about the podcast and animated series CLICK HERE and drop your email. If you'd like to be a guest CLICK HERE and fill out an intake formFollow "Everything Is Fine" on Patreon for exclusive content from Bridget Kelly & Blue Telusma Tier 1- Fire startersTier 2- New FlamesTier 3- Family Embers--------------Curology is personalized prescriptions are formulated to treat your individual skin needs, from acne to the earliest signs of aging. Curology prescription skincare uses a combination of 3 clinically researched ingredients, making it more effective than non-prescription cleansers and moisturizers alone. Go to curology.com today for a special new customer offer.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Nieces and Nephews, This is our last week of episodes!!! Enjoy a special 2 episodes produced exclusively for Patreons. These eps are a great reminder to set your intentions and listen to your gut. (00:00) Episode 1: B.Dot (28:46) Episode 2: Van Lathan ------------Curology: This prescription skincare uses a combination of 3 clinically researched ingredients, making it more effective than non-prescription cleansers and moisturizers alone. Go to curology.com today for a special new customer offer. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Hey Nieces and Nephews, This Friday your favorite aunties play a game and resurface some moments from the podcast. At the end, there are kind messages from Patrons who we are grateful for and love very much!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Nieces & Nephews!Today is officially our final episode together. We've always planned on recording an in-person finale episode for you all after the announcement so we can close out the season.Closing out the season for STTI looks like: 2/27- New in-person episode release3/1- Pre-recorded Game episode3/4 - 3/15- 4 Guest episodes ( Guest 3/4 will be 21 savages manager Meezy, and additional quality/entertaining guests)Thank you to everyone who is supporting the growth of diverging career paths and honoring a legacy created by two amazing women who've cultivated a phenomenal team and community!------------Check out Good Moms Bad Choices Live Show: https://goodmomsbadchoices.com/tourSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Since Beyonce dropped here two country songs “Texas Hold Em'” and “16 Carriages” the internet has been resurfacing the true origins of country music! This week your favorite auntie Bridget Kelly is joined on the couch with one of your favorite friends with Benefits Blue Telusma for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations about Black people and Country Music. The two talk about SOUL of America being in the South and the often misrepresentation of it's contribution to culture,(16:00), famous cowboys (20:00), the true impact of the song “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman on the Black (29:00), cowboy fashion (40:00), the fear of saying “he's Black” (59:00) Woke is the new “N” word (1:17:00) , willfully ignorant (1:21:00), Freshly Squeezed (1:30:00)---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! This week your favorite auntie Mandii B joined by ½ of the Around The Way Curls Podcast and 1/3 or the Can't Afford Therapy Podcast Antoinette and Host of Why Are You Single and Comedian/entrepreneur Reeezy for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about:Their Valentine's Day and a proper Netflix and Chill movie/show selection (18:00) Antoinette getting an award at work and the duality of gratitude and yearning for something different (25:00) Chris Brown being “uninvited” to the NBA All-Star games and his public call out of Ruffles (37:00)Why Kelly Rowland's reaction about the Today show was EXTREMELY APPROPRIATE and the media's reaction to it (52:00)Fanni Willis didn't do anything “illegal” however, attorneys for numerous defendants have sought to disqualify Willis and the Fulton DA's office in part because of her romantic relationship with special prosecutor Nathan Wade(1:00:00)(1:13:00) Freshly Squeezed: New Music---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite auntie Bridget Kelly is joined for a special episode centered around love & marriage with hosts of For Better or Best Podcast, Charles & Shireen. ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by author of “A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu'shoney for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!. Timestamps:(5:00) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in {20:00) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma Can be weaponized as a tallying metricWhole love vs. Love vs. attachments(30:00) Being HEALED isn't REAL, you're simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.(38:00) Theory: MOST Men don't like women and women don't like men(40:00) Why do men repel from “wholeness” (50:00) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn't make betrayal okay: KEVIN GATES CLIP (1:00:00) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive: The one with yourselfFriendship with each otherRomantic relationship with each otherSexual relationships with each otherMartial relationship (1:10:00) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:List a few things you know that you need to work on List a few things that people have told you you need to work on (1:15:00) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc. (1:16:00) Freshly Squeezed:Same Mistake- Destin Conrad Ft. Alex Isley Easy- SamohtNo Evil - SiR ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday Nieces & Nephews!Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about, (30:00) KeKe Palmer X Bobbi Keke Althoff interview and the difference between appreciation and appropriation, (38:00) Kanye's inability to book arenas and the true meaning of “cancelation”, (44:00) Master P and Snoop Dogg Sue Walmart for hindering sales of their cereal, and so much more. Enjoy your Superbowl weekend and make sure to drive safely. Please don't drink and drive!! ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about: (3:00) Involuntary secondhand smoke (7:00) Finalizing wedding plans (10:00) Ginger ale is now said to make illness worse // NY POST Vicks to “break a fever” Hot Toddy to cure coldsOnion/garlic in the sock(15:00) Post yourself at 21 years old trend & reflections about your 21 year old self (20:00) The Grammys: Snubs, finally, and what's next ?(50:00) Universal Music Group removes their label artists' songs from TikTok (57:00) Tyrese wishes he was Latino (1:05:00) Shaq says a man should never open himself up to a woman(1:20:00) Things We Don't Care About: Tattooing your partner's name on your body. Despite what Rick Ross & Drake told ya'll, it doesn't make it real! (1:25:00) Freshly Squeezed:Ruin- Usher, PheelzJT- Sideways---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Joining them on the couch this week is multi-media powerhouse, entrepreneur, and your future Stockton city councilman Jason Lee. The three talk about: (4:00) Evolution is a requirement if you're a living being(8:00) Releasing the expectations that people have for you (11:00) Dreams that they had as kids that have/have not materialized (16:30) Honest Segment: Jason Lee is running for Mayor of Stockton, CA(18:00) Jason's relationship with Stockton, CA (28:00) Jason explains why he thinks he's suited for this position(44:34) Neighborhood talk, Spiritual Word, TSR, and Hollywood Unlock meet with the democratic administration(51:26) Jason Lee reads the emails to Stephanie Daily Smith to the administration & the response back (1:05:00) Stockton Unlocked: Ralph White & inhumane business practices(1:19:00) Florida looking to ban social media for kids under the age of 16 ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! One of your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly is joined on the couch this week with Cultural Curator Sioban and founder of LIT Brooklyn Dwil for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (5:00)Grown: Restaurants that they used to go to as kids (Golden Coral, etc.) (24:00) Honest: Rap Beef: How low is too low? (1:00:00) Slightly Toxic:Have you purposely or accidentally left something at a partner's house? How do you retrieve it? If you're trying to protect a friend from her abusive boyfriend and she ends up giving him your address, what do you do? (1:44:00) Freshly Squeezed: Rap Beef SongsRemy Ma- Shether (Nicki Minaj tweet) Takeover- JAY-ZHit Em Up - 2PAC The Story of Adidon- Pusha T ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

**This episode is sponsored by Better Help**Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Joining them on the couch this week is TV personality Ashley Brittney Silva.The three talk about: (4:00) Bridget finding her wedding dress & wedding dress scammers(10:00) Our assumptions about being 30 vs. the reality of being in your 30's(21:00) Being friends with women in a different stage of life then you (marriage, kids, etc) (31:00) Love & Marriage DC:Confessional room gangsters Relationships on/off screenMarketing for the showWhat to anticipate on new season (45:00) Restraining orders and familial boundaries (disclaimer:this section conversations about abuse) (1:00:00) Candance Owens's comment about being a “homewrecker” (1:08:00) Freshly Squeezed:MANDII- Avant- Separated BRIDGET- Carl Thomas- I Wish ASHLEY- Boyz II Men- On bended knee—------------------Sponsors:Hello Fresh: Whether your resolution is to save money, eat better, or stress less, HelloFresh is here to help you do all three! Go to https://HelloFresh.com/sttifree and use code sttifree for FREE breakfast for life! Better Help: If you're thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. "Visit BetterHelp.com/SEETHETHINGIS today to get 10% off your first month.”Embrace Pet Insurance: don't wait for the unexpected to happen— join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pet. Head to https://embracepetinsurance.com/stti and join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pets. NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it's done! It's like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

This episode is sponsored to you by BetterHelpHappy Tuesday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined on the couch with media personality and podcaster Mr. Jay Hill for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (7:00) The difference between journalism Vs. social commentary (20:00) Pay inequality (28:00) Only Fans X Snoop Dogg(43:00) 'Brick lady' who shared video of her horrifically-swollen face after accusing a man of attacking her with a block for spurning his advances is branded a LIAR by cops: Raked in $40,000 on GoFundMe(54:00) Desantis endorses Trump(57:00) Slightly Toxic: Man who got 5 women pregnant at the same time hosts joint baby shower- all the ladies are happy (1:09:00) Freshly Squeezed: MANDII- NOTHING SWEETER- NAOMI SHARON BRIDGET- HEART AIN'T EMPTY- BLXST JAY HILL - MIRRORS/ DROWNING - MORNIN' AFTA---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday Nieces & Nephews, Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by ½ or the podcast “Around The Way Curls” , 1/3rd of the podcast,“Can't Afford Therapy”., and (y)our favorite friends with benefits Antoinette for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (3:00) Shows they've been watching lately (10:00) Apps/technology that they'd like to see in the future (25:40) Are award shows a good medium for comedians? What is tasteful comedy in a mixed crowd setting? (44:00) Vivica A. Fox's response regarding Taraji P. Henson's argument about pay inequality in the entertainment industry. (50:00) Antoinette explains why transparency is the enemy of exploitation(1:00:00) Would you feel some type of way if your friend accomplishes a major life goal and you find out on social media? (1:11:00) Freshly Squeezed music theme: Songs created by couples (past & present) Mandii's pick: What Would You Do - City High Bridget's pick: Body Party- Ciara Feat. Future Antoinette's pick: Got ‘Til It's Gone Feat. Q-tip & Joni Mitchell Outro Song: Two Wrong Feat. Claudette OrtizDon't forget to go comment on our instagram which song you would would select for our freshly squeezed segment this week- https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/ ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Tuesday Nieces & Nephews, Great news… your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are reunited for the first time in 2024! This episode they are also joined on the couch by one of (y)our favorite friends with benefits Antoinette for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Since you all love Antoinette when she's on the platform, make sure to go check her out on her weekly podcast “Around The Way Curls” or her Seasonal podcast “Can't Afford Therapy”. (5:00) Bridget talks about her trip to Jamaica and gives updates about wedding planning (14:00) Antoinette expresses her initial reservations about traveling with Mandii and the surprises along the way (18:00) Mandii & Antoinette talk about their trip to Mexico(30:00) Why Coretta Scott King Was THAT GIRLLLL! (38:00) Most Def's analysis of Drake's Music: Commercial Vs. Conscious Music // https://x.com/artofdialogue_/status/1746224650609119627?s=46&t=HOv_FBl5-DsOFPoNoo7k-g(52:00) Claudine Gay resigns as Harvard President after the ridiculous, laughable, and foolish claims of “plagiarism” led by Harvard donor Bill Ackman. Bill Ackmen (billionaire hedge fund manager) and major donor at Harvard fought for Claudine's resignation only to have it revealed that his own wife plagiarized taking full sentences & paragraphs from Wikipedia. She was a tenured professor at MIT. She didn't cite Wikipedia because it was against school policy to use it as a source. She admitted she was wrong. Her husband went on a Twitter rant (5139 word tweet) protecting his wife questioning if one could even plagiarize wiki. He said it was unfair to raise questions about a dissertation written in 2009 even though Claudine Gay's thesis was written in the 90's (57:00) What precedent does the use of AI in a case similar to Claudine set for freedom of speech and censorship tactics in universities. (1:04:00) What is the price of truth/freedom? (1:05:00) Wiz Khalifa says anyone he dates has to be okay with his relationship with Amber Rose. The importance of healthy co-parentingSpeaking poorly or disrespectfully about an ex reveals more about yourself than your former partner (1:19:00) Freshly Squeezed Mandii pick- 21 Savage - Red Rum // https://music.apple.com/us/album/redrum/1724494274?i=1724494724 Bridget pick- Ariana Grande ; Yes, And? // https://music.apple.com/us/album/yes-and/1724584200?i=1724584201 Antoinette pick- Hallelujah Heaven- Jeymes Samuel // https://music.apple.com/us/album/hallelujah-heaven-feat-lil-wayne-buju-banton-shabba/1716811591?i=1716811604 ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Happy Friday Nieces and Nephews! This week your favorite auntie Mandii B is joined by CEO of Idea To Launch Podcast Productions and Host of Pivot with Purpose Podcast , Carla Wilmaris, and co-host of My Expert Opinion , Co-founder/director of YKTV Magazine, Champ MEO. The 3 are here to bring you some grown honest and slightly toxic conversations to kick off your weekend. **Please listen to this episode with caution as it will contain language about assault, violence, and suicidal ideation.**(11:00) You Are What You Eat Documentary led Mandii & Carla to pay for a $1,000 dinner for 2(14:00) NYC's obsession with juice bars & Tiger Bone to increase sexual stamina (20:50) What is the etiquette when you're leaving a party? Is it rude to leave without saying goodbye? (24:00) Kat Williams tour tickets and the meaning behind touring with Tony Roberts(37:36) Good Morning Interview with Jonathan majors: The importance of differentiating the different types of abuse and the validity of them all (Leave Martin Luther King Jr. & President Obama out of this sir…) (41:00) Has Jonathan Majors positively contributed to the Black community? (49:00) Gypsy Rose: Should she be free after successfully planning the murder of her mother? Why is she celebrated? (1:00:00) The mental and physical health services in prison (or lack there of…) (1:01:00) Champ shares a story about “disobeying a direct order” from a CO while he was incarcerated and the unruly, disgusting, and violent repercussions (1:13:40) - What does it mean to have a Hoe Collaboration? (1:19:40) The rebranding / reclaiming of the word “HOE”(1:23:00) Would you speak about speaking on your former relationships publicly (1:30:00) What is considered a low blow during an argument? (1:40:11) Freshly Squeezed: Mandii's pick: Jericho- Iniko // https://music.apple.com/us/album/jericho/1682564934?i=1682564938 Carla's pick: Besto (Fruta Fresca) - Carlos Vivez// https://music.apple.com/us/album/beso-fruta-fresca-feat-carlos-vives/1720497353?i=1720497360 Champ's Pick: Bukie Bando 917 Rackz ------------------------------------------------------Idea To Launch Academy: If you're someone who wants to start a podcast but need help simplifying the process visit https://www.ideatolaunchpodcastproductions.com/ and use promo code: STTI for 50% OFF!!!------------------------------------------------------CONNECT WITH US:

Hey Nieces and Nephews!!! Today you're getting a brand new episode hosted by your favorite auntie Mandii B joined by 1/3rd of the Friendzone Podcast @heyAssante along with host, journalist, and and EP @Dometi. For my true crime girlies (& fellas) make sure to check out True Life Crime S2 where Dometi Pongo reports on the mysterious circumstances surrounding the deaths of young people and searches for answers to the country's grimmest unsolved cases. This week the 3 talk about: (3:00) Dometi's therapist ghosting him and the requirements you should have for a therapist (7:00) Some New Year's Resolutions the 3 are (or are not) setting(16:00) Assanté & Mandii's first time skiing and how DIFFICULT it ACTUALLY IS (more Black people should try it) (20:00) Traveling necessities that you should always pack (23:00) How the music industry is shifting what charting looks like with the Tik Tok and Billboard collaboration. What impact will this have on the music industry? (32:20) HONEST SEGMENT (32:36) Mandii issues an apology to Club Shay Shay,,, find out why! (36:00) The three discuss, what responsibility does a journalist have while conducting an interview? Is it important to fact check in the moment or follow up with questions that provide more context to the story, or is it appropriate to allow someone to come on a platform and tell their version of a story? (53:53) Fans can anticipate a Biopic about the rapper 21 Savage(1:00:00) Ari Lennox speaks out about going on tour with Rod Wave // Check out EP 134 Ari Lennox titles “How Big Is Your Boat” : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-big-is-your-boat/id1534096260?i=1000579296293 (1:13:00) Florida News Segment: Rumors of 'shadow aliens' at Bayside Marketplace go viral after large fight among teens creates chaos - CBS Miami (1:07:00) Is it your fault if you take a bad business deal? The three talk about negotiating contractual terms and the cracks in the Hollywood Facade (1:23:00) Does respect diminish with the continued forgiveness? https://www.instagram.com/p/C0ttuM8CaV0/?igsh=bnBlbWs2cHJnMHg2(1:31:00) Man shares story of woman who didn't pay $20 to pick up food https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1ch52WgU7W/?igsh=M2J0OXRmZjg3a3U0(1:42:00) FRESHLY SQUEEZED Mandii's Pick: Home Alone- Bas Feat. J.Cole // https://music.apple.com/us/album/home-alone/1720257027?i=1720257368 Dometi's Pick: Blick- Scarlet // https://music.apple.com/us/album/blick/1716439288?i=1716439291 Assanté's Pick: UFHO- Flyana Boss // https://music.apple.com/us/album/ufho/1720267660?i=1720268076 ------------------------------------------------------CONNECT WITH US: